pgstat: Update docs to match the shared memory stats reality.

pgstat: Update docs to match the shared memory stats reality.

This includes removing documentation for stats_temp_directory, adding
documentation for stats_fetch_consistency, rephrasing references to the stats
collector and documenting that starting a cleanly shut down standby will not
remove stats anymore. The latter point might require further wordsmithing, it
wasn't easy to adjust some of the existing content.

Author: Kyotaro Horiguchi <[email protected]>
Author: Andres Freund <[email protected]>
Reviewed-By: Thomas Munro <[email protected]>
Reviewed-By: Justin Pryzby <[email protected]>
Reviewed-By: "David G. Johnston" <[email protected]>
Reviewed-By: Lukas Fittl <[email protected]>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20220303021600[email protected]