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Table Of Contents
Table Of Contents ______________________________________ 3
Introduction __________________________________________ 4
Chapter 1: Men Dont Get Women: The Real Problem Lies Here ___________ 5
What You Have To Learn ___________________________________ 6

Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? ___________________ 9

Do You Have Enough Confidence? _____________________________ 12
Strategies For Confidence___________________________________ 14

Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt: It Will Define Your Success _____________ 24

Learning To Flirt: Steps To Success ____________________________ 25
Step 1:
Step 2:
Step 3:
Step 4:
Step 5:

Learn About The Girl __________________________________________25

Take It Easy ________________________________________________26
Flirt With Her _______________________________________________28
The All Important Touch ________________________________________30
Know The Nos ______________________________________________32

When Time Is Short ______________________________________ 34

Chapter 4: Getting From Flirting To Asking Her Out _________________ 37

Tips To Get The Conversation Rolling ___________________________ 38
Leave On A High Note With Her Number _________________________ 42

Chapter 5: Get A Woman Online ____________________________ 45

Where And How ________________________________________ 45
Flirting Online ____________________________________________________48

Moving On ___________________________________________ 50

Conclusion _________________________________________ 53

Introduction
Getting women to fall head over heels for you is an option
that you have. Many men are self conscious, inexperienced
or simply arent sure what the first step is in attracting
women. Women dont make this easy as they are very
difficult to understand, rarely able to be predicted and they
require time and energy.
In this book, we will reveal several key strategies to
improving your chances with a woman. No matter what
background you are coming from or what your goals in
attracting women are, this book will reveal the methods to
making it happen.
Take the time to thoroughly read through it and learn what
benefits you can have in your life with these simple to follow
tips and strategies. For most men, its simply a matter of
changing the way that you think about women and the way
that you approach them.
You can find success in dating women with the strategies
well present here. Get started at changing your own life
and do it today.

Chapter 1: Men Dont Get Women:

The Real Problem Lies Here
No matter what your goal is in meeting women, if you dont
understand them, or try to, you are unlikely to actually meet
them. While you will never truly get inside the head of
every woman that you meet, you should understand some
real fundamentals about the way that they think and the
way that you need to interact with those thoughts.
When talking to women, it is evident that there are many
different ways that they do think.
A woman is likely to think about the future as soon as
she meets a man. Is this someone I can spend my life
with?
A woman looks at a man and determines if he fits her
idea of the perfect man. This usually comes into play
with the way that you look, act, talk with and interact
with her.
Most women want to be treated as a person that
deserves full attention from you. A man that makes
sure to give her this attention will be more attractive.

 Most women dont think about money that a man has

per se. Instead, they consider if a man can support
himself, and that hes not going to rely on her to do
that.
Most women first think of a man in terms of if he meets
her needs. He has to impress her, rather than her
impress him.
To attract women, you simply must understand how to
present yourself in such a manner that will play against her
needs, her desires and the type of man that she wants to be
with. Throughout the next chapters, we will define what you
need to do to make these feelings come from deep inside
you to attract the women you are interested in.
The female mind is confusing and difficult to predict. Yet,
with a few simple tips and suggestions, you will be well on
your way to defining who you want to date and get to know
rather than who will date you.

What You Have To Learn

There are several key areas that men must be experts at in
order to attract women. These areas are what will define
success with women or not.
Rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 on how well you perform
at these things:
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 Are you confident in your approach and dating?

Are you able to flirt? If so, do you get results when you
flirt?
Are you humorous? Do you make women smile and
laugh?
Can you hold a conversation with a woman? Are you
comfortable in doing so?
Are you comfortable with your masculinity and being a
positive, attractive male?
There are some things that you will not learn here because
they simply do not work with great success. For example,
there are no hidden tricks to dating women. The use of pick
up lines simply doesnt work for most men (even when it
does, its something that must be done on a per person
basis.) Finally, manipulative or sleazy strategies are not
used here either. When you learn to treat women for their
value, you will get them far more attracted in you than any
of these strategies could ever provide.
You will find many different scenarios for meeting women
offered throughout the web. Yet, the goal of this book is to
provide you with ample ammunition to actually attract
women based on positive methods that work that also
address the real problem you face.

You could be sent out into the world to meet women with a
pre scripted set of lines. You may meet someone.
Or, you could learn how to identify the real problem you are
facing, such as those aspects that we teach here, and never
have to worry about remembering lines. You can be
yourself and attract women.
Getting to the root of the problem can define success. If
you think back to the last experience that you had with a
woman, what do you remember as the problem? Perhaps
you were unable to say something to her to show your
interest. Perhaps you were too shy to even approach her.
You could have been lacking in confidence to ask her for her
phone number.
The challenge that you face is a lack of confidence, a lack of
skill and the experience that brings it all together. In the
real world, you must know how to approach a woman and
then how to react to the individual situation. When you do
these things, it is likely that youll improve your chances as
well as improve your self esteem.
Meeting and attracting women is a process, one that takes
time and patience. Get started by learning the methods that
work and then implement them into your everyday life. You
will learn how to interact with women for real success.

Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence

Got You Down?
For 80 percent of men, the largest problem they face in
meeting women is not the way that they look, the money
that they have or the lack of a cheesy pick up line. It is a
lack of confidence. Confidence gives you the ability to make
that first move. It also exudes from you which mean that a
woman is attracted to it.
Confidence alone is one of the most desirable methods for
attracting women. A confident man is likely to meet many
more women. Are you confident, then?
A confident man is realized in the way that he interacts with
people, in the way that he presents himself as well as in his
ability to portray himself as a masculine but genuine man.
How can you be a confident man? There are several key
things that you should attempt to learn and fold into the
process.
Determine what your fear is.
Fear is a powerful emotion thats limiting you.

 Overcome your fear by forcing yourself to do whatever

it is.
By overcoming your fear, you actually gain confidence
that is irreplaceable.
To take this simply designed plan into account, you will gain
confidence through conquering a fear. It does not have to
be the fear of talking to a woman, either. Start out by
determining a fear that is easier for you to conquer.
No matter what fear you tackle, the goal is simple. Give
yourself a foundation of confidence, even a weak one at
first. By conquering some fear that you have, you can build
upon this small amount of confidence and later tackle a
larger fear.
Once you have overcome some small fear, next, test the
waters by conquering your fear of talking to women. The
first time you head out to do this, give yourself some
rehearsal. Plan what you will say, even rehearse the lines
beforehand if it offers a bit of help to you.
Next, approach a girl, but pick one that you are more
comfortable with rather than the one girl that you really
want to talk to. Approach her and simple say, Hi, Im
Adam. How are you? This simple approach will give you a
huge boost in the confidence department. Even if she
doesnt talk to you, you got the words out. Try to work up

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to a level where you are really talking to someone and the

conversation is going well.
Once you get the conversation to a good, positive point,
excuse yourself. Leave on a high note. If you arent
attracted to her, theres no need to worry about asking for a
phone number.
Since you left on a high note, you are now more prepared
than ever to talk with the girl that youve been too worried
to talk to. You have more confidence and feel better about
it simply because you have overcome this fear. You forced
yourself to talk to a girl and now you feel amazingly
confident and can make your next move.
You may be thinking to yourself, I just cant do it. The fact
is that most men go through this. They feel like they cant
take that first step. Yet, you have to make a decision here.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life alone or will you
get over your fear and simply walk up and start talking to
her?
If you do it, if you say, Forget this, Im doing it youll
overcome your fear, gain confidence and all of the anxiety
that goes with the fear will be gone, just like that.

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When you push yourself to that moment when you are very
close to turning around and saying forget it, you gain
benefits ultimately. You gain the benefit of confidence.
Once you get through your first fear conquering step, take a
step back and ask yourself a few questions. For example,
do you feel that you were successful in talking to her? What
could you have done differently? Perhaps you did all that
you need to and now you feel good about the whole
situation?
Step back, analyze and make changes as necessary. Then,
approach another girl and start the process over. Dont wait
too long between talking to one girl and talking to the next,
as this lowers your confidence level again. Just like after a
big game thats one, the team is better prepared to win the
following game when momentum is high. Take advantage of
this.

Do You Have Enough Confidence?

Remember that we revealed that men not only need
confidence for themselves, but also because they need to
attract women to them with confidence. A woman is
attracted to a man that is confident. You have to ask
yourself if you feel that you are confident enough to exude it
and therefore attract women.

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One way to know how confident you are is by listening to

what the women you meet say about you. A confident man
is someone that is alluring, but with a cunning charm. For
example, a man that has a woman guessing what he will do
next is one that is attracting her. Has a woman ever said to
you that they arent sure what you will do next? This is a
great sign that you are confident in your actions.
How else can you be confident with women? Here are a few
more tips to keep in mind:
Confidence is defined by the way that you interact with
women. Do you approach them directly, without
coming from behind or approaching them shyly?
Do you speak them in strong, positive words in a clear
voice? Does your voice shake when you speak? Do
you feel confident when you are speaking to them?
Do you make eye contact while you are speaking to
her? Looking at your glass or looking at everything
around you is not only a distraction to you, but it shows
her that you arent interested in her. Eye contact is
very attractive and often appealing to a woman.
In later sections, we will reveal ways that you can learn to
say and do the right things in an effort to actually exude
confidence.

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Strategies For Confidence

Being confident allows you to have the courage to talk to
women. Being confident attracts women to you. Therefore,
you must incorporate this into your skill and your approach
if you are to improve.
To help you, we have broken down several key aspects that
you can do today to improve your level of confidence and
therefore get the girl.
Practice Your Skill
Although it is hard to get your foot in the door and get
started with asking girls out and even just talking to them,
its the best way for you to actually improve your skill.
Practice makes perfect which also means that the first few
times that you talk to a girl, you are likely to fall flat on your
face. Thats a learning experience and each time will get
easier.
You should talk to several women, not the same one over
and over again. If you wanted to learn how to ski, you
would have to get out there on the slopes several times.
The same methodology is effective here. Practice!

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Realize You Are Worth It

Far too many men dont realize that they are a good choice
for a woman. Give yourself credit, you are worth dating! If
you are someone thats too hard on them, youre letting
yourself down in the end. Instead, what you need is to be
positive and motivated.
If you arent sure what makes you a good mate, its time to
define that. List all of your good points. Keep in mind how
important it is for you to realize that women should be
flocking to you. In fact, once you learn why you are so
valuable to women, they will be even more attracted to you
because of this increased confidence. A man that is
confident in what they can offer to a woman is one that will
attract them.
Look Under Her Skin
Are you a man that gets a little shaky when he sees a
beautiful woman? You think to yourself that shes too good
for you. No way will a woman like that be with you. This is
one of the largest mistakes a man can make. A 10 on the
attractive scale is only skin deep. The fact is that you really
dont know what her flaws are.

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As a man, you need to realize that even the most beautiful

of women have flaws and other drawbacks that may even
keep you away from them.
Therefore, dont put so much pressure on yourself. She has
flaws, too. Allow yourself to rest assured that shes not
perfect as you are not. You do deserve to talk with this
woman just like any other. Thats your goal: treat them no
different than the average looking woman.

Date Multiple Women

Once you get married or find that great girl that you really
enjoy spending time with, thats when you can begin to
worry about dating just one girl at a time.
While that may shock some of you, the reason for this is
simple. A man gains confidence when he realizes that he
has more than one girl to be with.
Heres the situation. If you meet Jane and think shes okay,
what happens when you no longer find her interesting? You
may even stay with her because you would rather not be
alone.
One the other hand, if you meet Jane, Annie, and Jessica, if
you get to the point of being bored with Jane, you are more
likely to let her go because you still have Annie and Jessica

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to call. Whats more, you are also gaining quite a bit of

confidence knowing that theres someone else out there
thats interested in you, too.
Keep It Going
Lets say that you find a bit of confidence and start talking to
several women. You are just approaching them and asking
if they would like a drink. Its worked for you as you have
talked to several girls and gotten their phone numbers.
When something starts to work for you, whatever that is
keeps it going. Make sure to keep up the good things that
are you doing. Perhaps it is just the location thats working
for you. Maybe you are meeting people at a new club
because of the unique atmosphere. Keep it up.
Whats working for you is worth keeping up as long as it
doesnt become tired and boring for you.
In the process, you will also gain confidence because you
are seeing results. The most important consideration here is
the fact that you are gaining confidence in such a way that it
is allowing you to try new things, too.
Keep up what you are doing and add in something new to
test the waters as you go.

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Keep Working On Fears

As we revealed, working through the fears that you have
can really improve the confidence level that you have.
Whatever your fear is with women, overcoming them is a
key part of actually improving your confidence level. You
may not feel that you can talk to a woman. You may feel
that you cant ask her for her phone number. Perhaps just
approaching the woman is more than you can handle.
In any of these situations, you need to overcome your fear
which means forcing yourself to do it.
Whatever your fears are, confront them. Force yourself to
do what that fear is so that you gain experience with it and
can then overcome it. Pick up the phone. Walk over to her.
Or, just say, hi.
As you force yourself to confront these situations, you will
ultimately improve your skill and reduce the fear. Stewing
over it will only make them that much worse, though. You
will improve your self esteem and of course your confidence
by forcing this to happen.

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Remember To Enjoy Yourself

Dating and getting to know new people is supposed to be
fun. How can you have fun when you cant stop worrying
and fretting over whats going to happen next? The fact is
that you need to let yourself have fun and stop the grief.
One problem with worrying and feeling nervous is that the
more you feel like this, the more likely it is that she knows
that you are feeling it. This makes you less attractive too.
How can you have fun in such a stressful environment?
Make jokes and talk about things that you enjoy. Relax by
going places that you find to be enjoyable and fun, rather
than formal settings. Realize that you are just talking to
another person, not the President. The more laid back and
natural you can be, the more enjoyable the entire
experience will be for you, too.
Of course, it is also beneficial to do things that she finds
enjoyable as well. Catering to her experience is one of the
key elements to impressing her. But, for now, you need to
concentrate on the confidence youll gain by having fun and
lightening up the mood.

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Make The Date Your Date

There are several key things you need to do here. First,
make sure you are the lead player in the dating game. This
means making sure that you know what is going to happen,
as you have planned it out to be such.
You shouldnt have to ask the girl what she wants to do
when she gets in the car. Have this planned for her so that
you can gain the confidence that it brings to you. Leaders
are likely to be much more confident.
Next, never do things that you consider are wrong or
compromise your value system. A man that defines who he
is by his values is a man that is confident and well respected
especially by the lady at his side.
If that means stopping to help a stranger even though it
interferes with your date, do so. If you dont like the
atmosphere of a club, then ask if you can try a different
location. By doing something about it, you keep your values
high, keeping your confidence high.
You will also impress her with your ability to make decisions
about the situations that you find yourself in. Not only this
by a guy that can take charge of the date as if hes spent all
day planning it, is one thats confident and attractive to
virtually any woman.

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Be You, Improved
Take a step in front of the mirror and look at yourself. What
is it that you see? Is it a confident man? Stand up straight,
broaden your shoulders. Put your chin up and look yourself
dead in the eye. Are you confident?
The way that you look is a key element in the confidence
that you put out. It also is a key element in the way that
you see yourself.
You need to provide the right confident appearance, though,
to make this happen for yourself. Here are some quick tips
to use:
Dress with clean clothing that is free from holes, stains
and other less than desirable markings.
Keep yourself well groomed. If you cut your hair, keep
it trimmed. If you shave, stay clean shaven. Being
well groomed has no limit to your tastes and your look,
but she can tell that you put some thought into it.
Smell good. While you dont have to wear cologne, you
should smell clean. This instead shows a lady that you
care about the appearance you present.
Take time to look good for an important date, but
remain true to who you are.

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In turn, you should also remember, to speak clearly and

slowly. Keep your eyes on her eyes. Walk confidently, too.
Stand up straight. They seem simple and you may not think
about them, but thats the whole point: thinking about them
shows how confident in whom you are.
When you do these things, youll find yourself more
confident to approach a woman because you know you look
good to her. Whats more, shell look at you, size you up as
a man that cares about himself and will be attracted to you.
Sum It Up
Confidence is an essential part of the project of attracting
women. Not only do you need the right confidence level to
approach her and to date her, but you also need her to see
that you are confident.
Any woman is able to tell how confident a man is when he
walks up to her. Every women is willing to give a man a
chance that shows that hes confident in who he is. No
matter who you are, you deserve to be confident in the
person that you are. In that, there is no reason that you
should walk up to a woman without all of the confidence that
you need to impress her.
Implement these changes into your lifestyle today. Force
yourself to face your fears and transform yourself into a

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confident man. Each of these things is easily implemented

into your life, too. Confidence is a key factor not to be
forgotten about.
Ultimately, it will be one of the key elements in defining how
successful you are with women.

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Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt:

It Will Define Your Success
Flirting used to be a term that was used to describe giddy
little school boys and girls passing notes in class. Perhaps
you were one that would flirt with a girl back then, but now,
it just seems too daunting of a task. There is little doubt
that you have to do it, though.
A flirt is an experience that accomplishes several key things.
1. It shows the other person that you are interested in
them.
2. It gives the other person a very small but powerful look
at the type of person that you are.
She will either come to you or she will turn and run. The
decisive factor in this aspect is just how well you accomplish
flirting. Before you become overwhelmed, though, realize
that flirting is a process that you can be successful at when
you take in our key steps.

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Flirting is a process that can be fun, too. Once you learn

how to do it, chances are good that youll be good at it and
it will work for you as a charm virtually every time.

Learning To Flirt: Steps To Success

Flirting is a process. It takes a bit of learning, which well
provide you here. Consider these steps for successful flirting
on your part. Youll also be able to recognize easier when
others are flirting with you!

Step 1: Learn About The Girl

Because flirting is an individual situation where two very
different people must find some parallel to get to know each
other, the first step must be to learn all that you can about
the girl that you are planning to flirt with.
This means learning different aspects of what makes her
happy and what will impress here.
For example, if you are interested in talking to a girl that is
very traditional and loves romance, flirting with her may
mean flowers or even a sweet poem that you write just for
her.

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One the other hand, if shes more of a modernized woman,

she may not find this type of treatment entertaining at all.
She may find flowers boring. Instead, she may like it if you
buy her a drink or even invite her for coffee before work one
day.
The only way for you to know what will work for the girl is to
learn as much about her as you can. The facts are simple:
the more you know, the easier it will be to tailor the type of
flirting you do so it will work in your favor.
What facts can you gather about her? What does she enjoy
doing? What do you know about her from friends? Do you
know about the types of activities she enjoys? If not, you
can often gauge a lot about a person through their clothing
and the way that they talk and act.
Gather as much information about her as possible.

Step 2: Take It Easy

Its easy to gather information and stay back from the
scene, but remember that you do need to approach her at
some point to get to know her. Once you feel like you have
gathered the amount of information that you need, you can
then develop a method of flirting with her.

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Slow and steady is important. Start by just making sure she

knows who you are and where you are. You want to make
sure that she knows that you are alive. You can do this
simply, just by making your presence known in the situation
that you are in.
Your goal is to go from the guy she may have seen
someplace before to the guy that she has seen around
several times.
If you move too quickly here and simply jump at her with all
the lines youve prepared, youll scare her or make her
nervous. Instead, you want to come off as a natural part of
her life, someone that would blend right in with the way that
shes living her life now.
The best way to get to know her at this point, then, is as
simple as saying, hi. Thats it, just hi. This will let her
know that you are there, but that you are just an average
guy thats being polite. Even more so, it may spark her
interest in you, too.
A short and sweet conversation is the idea at first. Later,
youll do more to meet her. Each time that you see her
(which you should make a point to seeing her) do the same
thing. After doing this several times, you can easily benefit
from the current situation.

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Now, she even expects you to say hi to her.

Now, shes waiting for a few seconds that shell be able to
talk to you.
And, she may even be hoping that youll say something
more. You remain calm and collected, as if you have many
other things going on in your life. Eventually, youll start a
small conversation with her.
At this point, shes more relaxed and so are you. Youll even
feel less worried or scared about it.

Step 3: Flirt With Her

Now, its time to flirt with her to let her know that you are
interested in her.
As you are talking to her, you want to flirt with her in a
unique way, perhaps in the way that you have determined is
the way that shell appreciate it. Flirting with a girl is a
great way for her to actually know that you like her or are
just interested in learning more about her.
Every woman, and man for that matter, wants to feel
important and valued and this is the ideal time to make sure
that she knows that.

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When flirting with a girl, make sure that she knows that you
value her. Give her the feeling that you value her, without
actually saying those words. Youll have to be a bit creative
here, especially at first, but soon youll learn exactly how
easy it can be to enjoy flirting with her or any other girl you
want to get to know.
Techniques To Use
Here are some flirting techniques that arent too cheesy but
that really do work in a number of different situations.
Choose those that you know will impress and ignite her
curiosity about you.
Use a bit of humor to get things started, but dont be
rude or otherwise negative in that humor. For
example, dont say, Did you see that guy with the
overalls and the full beer belly? Instead, say
something humorous but positive. Joking about your
own behavior is a great way to start. I thought for
sure I was going to make a fool out of myself. Make
her smile, and make her laugh!
Be sweet. Youve heard the saying that sugar is a
better lure? It works here too. Be sweet to her. Use
compliments about the way that she looks; hold open
doors, been sweet in the words that you say to her.
You can over do this to the point that she will become

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annoyed with you. Thats not what you want! Small,

simple gestures make all of the difference.
Be her friend, but only a bit. The last thing that you
want to do is to ask her for coffee only to spend the
next three hours listening to her talk about her
boyfriend or her ex. Thats not what you want.
Nevertheless, you should be a distant friend, just not
her confidant. Of course, being a friend does mean
being open to her. If you let the situation progress to
where she sees you as a friend instead of as a
boyfriend, chances are good that youll never pull out of
that situation.
You wont look like a dork! Many guys refrain from
doing what feels natural, such as holding her hand or
opening a car door for her for fear that they will look
like a dork to her. Thats not anywhere near the case
as shell be impressed that you thought of her. Dont
feel like you are a dork if you want to make her laugh
or you feel the need to say something stupid.

Step 4: The All Important Touch

One of the most important ways to flirt with a girl is to touch
her. It is never appropriate to touch her in any seductive
way unless you have moved into that part of the relationship
(which is no where near this point!) But, a touch doesnt
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have to be about sexual urges. But, it is one of the most

powerful ways that you can show your interest and spark
hers for you, too.
The touch is a very complicated process right? After all, how
are you supposed to get your hand to touch her skin?
Instincts will kick in for you, we promise. Youll know that
its okay to make your move and experience will also help.
How can you touch her? Theres no need to actually have a
huge box of popcorn during the movie and to hope that your
hands meet. Instead, look for other ways to touch her.
Perhaps a strain of hair has fallen into her face as you have
been talking to her. Gently move it to the side so that you
can see her face.
Perhaps you want to show her that you would like to get to
know her even though you just met her. If her had is on the
bar, for example, touch it lightly with your own hand to get
her attention. Dont move it away too fast.
As you walk out of the location, you can easily open a door
for her and brush her hand with your own. You can easily
take a glass from her hand and touch her skin with your
own.

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Other ways for you to flirt with her through touch include: a
pat on the shoulder or her back, a hug goodbye, instead of a
kiss, an invitation to thumb wrestle with you!
These things are very simple and thats the point. You want
to motivate her to enjoy being touched by you even in this
slight way. This method of flirting is one that will have her
begging for more attention from you.
When you touch someone, you are being a very small bit
intimate with that person. This intimacy will later grow into
an attraction that will bring the two of you together. Whats
more it will create a link between the two of you.

Step 5: Know The Nos

There are plenty of situations that qualify as just dont do
it situations. By knowing what you should not be doing,
youll be well on your way to empowering yourself farther
without taking steps backward.
Here are some donts to know about:
Dont be too macho or too arrogant. Dont assume that
you have the right to touch her if she doesnt enjoy it.
Dont touch her in any way that is provocative. If you
touch her chest, your backside or her leg, you arent
talking about getting to know her. You are talking
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about wanting to do more with her. Thats a definite

drawback for most girls.
Dont call her too often. Once you get her phone
number, you dont want to make yourself look
desperate by calling her several times. Call her once,
leave her a message. If she doesnt call you back, call
her one more time and invite her to call you for dinner
next weekend.
Dont over do it in the friend department. As we
revealed, this is not where you want to be.
Dont say anything that could be insulting to her. You
dont want to say anything negative about her to
anyone especially when you are talking to those that
know her.
Dont lie or make yourself look like more than you are.
Even if the agree to see you, once they learn that you
arent who you say you are, theyll walk away. They
will do this because you lied to them, not because you
dont have what they want. 99 percent of girls are
interested in guys that are like them.
Dont talk about other girls, ever. Just dont. And,
dont let her see you looking at another girl across the
room. This is an instant way to lose her once and for
all.
There seems to be many things that you shouldnt do. The
fact is that you can rule all of these out when you simply act
like yourself and be respectful of the girl that you are

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interested in getting to know. Thats all it takes to flirt with

a girl!

When Time Is Short

The perfect girl just walked into the bar you are at. You
want to flirt with her to get to know her better. How in the
world will you do that when you dont have time to get to
know her first?
Dont worry; in situations like this, flirting can still be done.
Here are some tips to make that happen.
Make eye contact with her from across the room. Here,
you establish that you are there and that she sees you.
She also knows you are interested. Hold her eyes until
she pulls away.
For those a bit more confident, they can have the
bartender ask her if she would like a drink on you. She
may decline, which may mean shes not interested. If
she accepts, make sure to nod her way as if to say
youre welcome.
Walk close to her. Brush against her with your arm,
just lightly without doing anything that would upset
her.
Sit next to her at the bar. Start a conversation with
the bartender that may interest her too. Perhaps talk
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about whats playing on the radio or whats going on

with the news report on the television.
Smile at her. A woman loves a man that smiles at her.
Hes happy, hes got that twinkle in his eye, and hes
interested in her. Those are enough factors to keep
her interested in you.
Although you may not realize it, most women will enjoy this
type of interaction even if they have never seen you at all.
No matter what situation you are in, these simple things can
do wonders to help a girl to know that you are there and
that you would like to get to know her.
For some men, it is easier to meet girls in this manner,
where they can simply decline a drink and theres no sham
in the process. Yet, it is still important to flirt with her and
to develop an opportunity in which you can get to know her
a bit better.
In situations where you do have time to meet her, such as
situations where you will see her over and over again, many
men take for granted that their time to develop a
relationship with a woman is unlimited. Thats not the case.
You should only flirt in the long term model weve revealed
over a span of a couple of weeks or meetings. Anything
more than that and shell think that you simply want to be a
nice guy to her.

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Learning to flirt is a must for any guy. When you can flirt,
you can draw her in to knowing you.

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Chapter 4: Getting From Flirting

To Asking Her Out
Youve made a major step in the process of improving your
relationship with her. Flirting is a powerful tool that you can
easily use to your advantage.
Now that youve mastered it (dont forget that youll need
practice here to make it effective for you) its time to
concentrate on asking her out and really getting her to want
to know you.
The key to getting from a friendly flirt into a conversation
that will lead to her wanting to get to know you is by
knowing how to develop and start that conversation. Most
men feel that they arent good at talking. But, you may
have the ability tot start a conversation without realizing
how easy it can be.
Dont be too worried yet about how to make this happen.
Many men freeze up with the thought of having to talk about
something. Dont worry, we arent asking life and death (or
political) questions; just methods to get the conversation
moving.

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Tips To Get The Conversation Rolling

If you dont feel that you can start a conversation, you need
to go back a couple of chapters and realize the importance
of dealing with fears. You can do this, you will do it and you
will be confident when you do it.
These tips will help you to overcome the fears that you have
and help you to inspire yourself to keep the conversations
happening.
Start With Hi
As someone that hasnt had a lot of experience with dating
or approaching women, you want to start with just saying hi
to the lady you are interested in. No matter if you have had
time to get to know her or not, you need to be straight
forward about this in a situation in which you dont have
time to get to know her.
When you are new to meeting women, the first and most
effective approach is to simply walk up to her and say, Hi.
Im Dave. How are you doing? As corny as it sounds, it is
one of the most effective lines you can use to get a
conversation going.
Yet, this method really is only effective when it is done for
the beginner. And, it will limit you. Instead, use this very
simple hello method until you have gained enough
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confidence to do something more. In some cases, you may

be put on the spot to keep the conversation going. For that
reason, consider some other methods that may help you.
Go For The Non Hello Methods
When you are more confident, you can do a bit more than
this. Perhaps there are two girls sitting at a table and you
would like to introduce yourself. What could you say that
would start a conversation? Here are some ideas.
Excuse me? Im Dave. I thought that I knew you from
someplace. By any chance do you work?
You two look like you are having a good time. Would
you mind if I sat down with you?
I just noticed how beautiful your smile is. I was hoping
that you would share with me whats making you so
happy.
While these are lines they shouldnt just be used. You
should look at them as examples, as ways to help you to
think about the right words to use to attract the girl that you
are interested in. Perhaps one of these methods would work
for you.
The goal here is not to memorize lines for every situation,
but to learn how to develop those lines.

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Be Unique
Every girl that has been to a bar knows that most guys are
going to have some cheesy line and that they are likely to
be just the same old guy. In fact, some girls will talk to
several guys in one night, which means that only those that
stand out will get her attention.
What can you do to show off how unique you are? Lets
assume that you have walked up to a girl and introduced
yourself. The conversation goes flatwhat else is there to
say? Why not talk about something strange and unique?
For example, perhaps you can ask her what her dream job
would be. Ask her where she would visit if she could go
anywhere.
Once you have asked a question like this, you can then keep
it going in a variety of different directions. Make sure to
insert your opinion too. Whats more you can add humor
into these conversations (the more unique they are the
better) and really have her enjoying herself.
She will enjoy these topics because they are different from
everyone else. And, she will enjoy them because you are
keeping the conversation going, just as a leader should be
doing. Try to stay on positive safe subjects so that you
dont insult her in some way.

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Dont Go The Boring Route

Men can easily make the mistake of falling for the where do
you work line. That is, they are running out of things to
say and they reach for something thats even more dull and
boring. You can talk about anything with a girl thats new to
you, as long as it is positive and not raunchy.
Whenever you can, try to stay away from these types of
questions. They can simply lead to a dead road and show
that you are just like everyone else.
Instead of delving into a world of real life situations, talk
about light and open topics. Asking her about where she
would like to spend her vacation is an open and light
subject. Asking her how many vacation days she has, will
limit the conversation to boring and dull work or school,
which wont interest her.
Whats more is the fact that you want to leave her on a high
note so that she still wants to experience more from you.
This means that shes interested in learning more about you
by wanting to give you her phone number.

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Leave On A High Note With Her Number

Again, we wont give you lines here, because its important
for you to learn to come up with you own methods for
closing a conversation with a new lady.
After you have talked to her, and you can sense that you are
running out of things to say, excuse yourself. You can
simply tell her that you have to go attend to something.
The hard part is getting her number.
As the conversation is winding down, simple tell her that you
would love to keep talking to her. Did she enjoy talking with
you? If so, then ask her if you could give her a call later and
you could talk a bit more.
You can not be weak here. For example, dont say, Call me
sometime. Instead, say, Can I give you a call tomorrow
evening? Dont say, Maybe we can hang out some time.
Instead say, I have tickets to a comedy club next week.
Would you like to go?
Even with just barely knowing her, you can sense that shes
interested in you here. Whats more, shes likely to be
willing to commit to you because of how confident you are
with her.

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You dont have to ask her out at this point, though. What
you do have to do, is get her number.
Simply ask her if you can call her. If she says yes, shell
give you her number. If she says no, say something about
calling you if she changes her mind. NO matter what she
says, be polite and upbeat while saying your goodbyes.
Thank her for talking to you and compliment her in some
way while you do it.
Dont Forget To Call
You got the phone number. You gave her your phone
number. Are you sitting by the phone waiting for her to call
you? Thats a big mistake. No woman wants to have to call
a guy to see him again. She wants him to come to her and
thats exactly what you should do.
If you did as instructed, shes already expecting you to call
her at the time that you left with her. Perhaps you said you
would call her tomorrow. When tomorrow comes, call her.
Dont avoid it because you want to seem arrogant. If you
said you would, do it.
If you didnt give a time that you would call, wait a day and
give her a call. A simple conversation can lead into
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around. You can now talk about many other things including
those boring topics that are necessary to get to know her.
What if shes not available? If the first item you call shes
not available, then leave a message. I really enjoyed
talking to you last night. It made my day, actually. I just
wanted to say hello. Ill try to give you a call again
tomorrow or you can call me, if you like.
One more call is all she gets, though. You dont want to
seem desperate at all when talking with a woman. If she
does call you, by all means talk to her. Dont let it slide for
the next time as chances are slim to none that shell call you
back.
Never wait until she calls you. It wont happen. Always call
her. A woman wants to be pursued. She doesnt want to
pursue you! Make it happen for yourself rather than
waiting.
Summing Up
Starting a conversation is a simple process when you
approach it in the right manner. Dont assume that you can
just wait for someone to come to you. Flirt with her and
then talk to her. Get over your fear and build confidence.
In turn, attract more women than you ever have. Its that
simple.

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Chapter 5: Get A Woman Online

Today, many men are using the web to attract women. This
can be a great opportunity for you to meet new people and
to really break in your talents that you have learned thus.
You can gain the confidence that you need online, but you
should realize that this is just a place to meet others, not to
actually date online.
If you do want to date online, thats fine, but realize it will
only be a two dimensional relationship. The best way to use
your online resources is to use them to help you to meet
others. From here, you can use the same techniques for
talking to them in person as you would otherwise.

Where And How

There are two important considerations here. First, where
will you meet someone on the web? Second, you need to
know what to do to actually find someone to talk to. The
web makes it very easy for you to make this happen. Here
are some tips.

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 Choose a dating website that is paid for, simply

because these people are serious about dating and you
are less likely to get nothing but spam in your email.
Choose a dating website that fits any specifications that
you have in those you date. Religious affiliations,
sexual preferences, locations and other elements can
be used to define a specific site. This narrows down
the field for you.
You can always use free trials to learn more about the
service so that you dont waste your money. Yet, you
should realize that youll be very limited in what you can do
in this manner.
Once you have the website that you want to use, go ahead
and get started. There are some important things to note
here. First, you have to design a profile. We all hate it, but
its a process thats necessary if you will actually attract
women to you rather than having to prove yourself through
email.
Your profile needs to:
Give a good picture of you. Use our techniques for
dressing to maximize her impression of you. A picture
makes you real and attractive, no matter what you look
like.

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 Answer the questions honestly and politely. Women

wont talk to others that have a profile filled with
profanity or with boring yes and no answers.
Make sure your sense of humor comes through in your
profile. You want her to really know who you are. A
simple joke will do wonders for you.
Once you have a profile put together, you can then sit back
and wait for the girls to come rolling in, right? Thats simply
not going to happen. Even if you are the best looking, most
well off guy, she probably wont find you in all of the
different profiles available. You need to do the searching for
the girls that fit your needs.
An important thing for you to remember here that goes for
all dating and attracting of women is that you deserve the
best woman out there. Dont settle for a girl that you think
is just average because you think you are average. The
confident male, that goes after the girl that hes attracted
to, will be the one that succeeds in impressing her.
When you are ready to, there are several ways that you can
start talking with a girl that you meet online. The most
common way to get things started is to chat with her if shes
online. Your greeting can be as simple as I saw in your
profile that you like to ski. Where have you gone skiing?
Open ended questions here are important. Dont say, I saw
your profile. Youre cute. What can she say to that?

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If not available online to chat, you can often send her a

flirt type messages. These are simple to use. You will
simply send them which will show her that you are
interested in her and allows her to read through your profile.
You can then follow these up with a note through email or
through the profile email accounts. Ask her to meet you
online when shes available to chat.
You can also go straight to email. In this case, you want to
be sure not to simply send off an email that says, I saw
your profile. Instead, say something along the lines of, I
use xxxx site, too and read your profile. I saw that you like
to do some of the things I do, like hiking. Have you ever
had the chance to hike at ..? This allows her to write you
back with something to say. It also gives a way that the two
of you can link together and therefore begin the flirting
process.

Flirting Online
All of the tips that we gave you regarding flirting are still
important when you are trying to attract people online. You
simply need to learn how to make it happen. First off, you
have the various online flirts weve mentioned. There are
other ways to flirt though.

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 When you are chatting with someone, compliment

them. Your personality comes through over the chat.
I really like it.
Invite them to wonder about what it would be like to
meet you. One day Ill show you a few of my favorite
places to watch the sunset. Its amazing doing down
over the hilltops.
While you cant touch them over a chat or email, you
can definitely imagine it. Your hair looks so soft in
your pictures.
Learn about her and play on this. You said last time
that we chatted that you were going to dinner. What
did you have? Then, when you do ask her out, you
can mention having the same meal with you (assuming
it was a good one!)
Flirting online isnt difficult. In fact many men feel it is
easier to do because of the lowered level of rejection.
You can use the same techniques that we revealed earlier to
help you with conversations with her.

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Moving On
Now that you are talking with her, youve created a situation
in which its ideal to set the tone for getting her number and
meeting her.
Meeting her is more about finding out if you can first chat
with her on the phone and then later actually getting to
meet her in person. As for the phone number, you can use
the same techniques that we gave you earlier to get her
number.
You can also use it as a method of flirting with her. You
sound so wonderful over chat. I would love to hear your
voice. Can I call you?
One important note to remember here is that there are
plenty of women dating online. Yet, not many of them
completely trust all of the men that are online that want to
date them. This is rightly so as plenty are just looking to
take advantage of them. Therefore, when asking for her
number or a meeting, you have to keep this in mind.
Always give her the option of calling you if it would make her
feel better about it. This means she doesnt have to provide
any specific information about herself to you.
Here are a few other important tips like this:

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 Always agree to meet in person but in an open area

where shell feel comfortable with other people around.
Never ask for too much personal information. Last
names, addresses, where they work or go to school are
simple off limits in this situation. Theyll tell you when
they feel comfortable doing so.
Provide them with whatever information they want
from you (within limits, of course) so that they will
know you arent some crazy guy.
Make it a group meeting at first, just to make sure that
shes comfortable with you and to give you a way out if
you dont like her.
Once you have talked on the phone, you can then invite her
to dinner with you or even a cup of coffee. Its easy to do
this over the phone instead of in person and most people get
to this point and already feel confident in the women on the
other line.
Online dating is a convenient and growing trend. Any man
that is in the market for a new lady on his arm needs to
consider using the web as part of his realm of interest for
attracting women. Youll find that there are many different
types of women online, looking for a great guy like you.
Even if you dont find yourself interested in the ladies that
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Conclusion
The strategies that we have revealed to you here are
straightforward and honest. They wont help you to get a
woman if you dont implement them into your life. Dont try
to memorize the lines that we placed here for examples.
Instead, create your own methods of talking with her and
getting to know her.
Attracting women is very much about being who you really
are as any woman can see right through a man thats trying
to play a role. Remember too that women are attracted to
confident men, not men that are full of money and
expensive toys. They want men that are confident in what
they are and what their lives are. It translates to them that
the man is suited for creating a long positive life.
A man that isnt confident isnt likely to be successful later.
He isnt likely to be the leader of the family. He isnt likely
to do well with his career. Hes not likely to be the man that
she wants, then. Most women want a confident man thats
going to exude confidence well into the future. If you can
portray this man when you approach a woman, chances are
good that shell fall head over heels for you.
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