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Friendship Lessons for Teens

The document is a 10th year evaluation test that includes sections on listening, reading, grammar, and writing. In the listening section, students are asked to fill in blanks in conversations between three teenagers talking about acts of friendship. The reading section asks about the problem the author faced as a teenager and lists six pieces of advice given. The grammar section identifies teens' favorite activities and completes a text using given words. Finally, the writing section asks students to write a 100-120 word opinion text on what it takes to be a good friend.

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Topics covered

  • self-love,
  • friendship,
  • self-awareness,
  • teen activities,
  • social interactions,
  • social responsibility,
  • personal experiences,
  • empathy,
  • understanding others,
  • advice for teens
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Friendship Lessons for Teens

The document is a 10th year evaluation test that includes sections on listening, reading, grammar, and writing. In the listening section, students are asked to fill in blanks in conversations between three teenagers talking about acts of friendship. The reading section asks about the problem the author faced as a teenager and lists six pieces of advice given. The grammar section identifies teens' favorite activities and completes a text using given words. Finally, the writing section asks students to write a 100-120 word opinion text on what it takes to be a good friend.

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ANDRÉ GOMES
Copyright
© © All Rights Reserved
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Topics covered

  • self-love,
  • friendship,
  • self-awareness,
  • teen activities,
  • social interactions,
  • social responsibility,
  • personal experiences,
  • empathy,
  • understanding others,
  • advice for teens

AGRUPAMENTO DE ESCOLAS DE VENDAS NOVAS

10th Year
EVALUATION TEST

I. Listening

1. Listen to these three teenagers talking about ‘What does it mean to be a friend –
acts of friendship’. Fill in the blanks with the missing words.

Richard

I was sitting with a big group in the (1)__school lunchroom__ when I accidentally
knocked my drink onto my lap. As word spread that it (2)loocked like__ I had wet
myself, the laughter began to mount. Then I noticed my best friend doing
(3)_something strange___. He poured water on himself. (4)_true friendship__ is hard
to find, but I know it when I see it.

Kaitlin

I discovered the difference between a close friend and a (5)_casual friend__ on a


school trip to California. I (6)__got sick__, and my friend ran to the bathroom (7)_after
me_ to hold my hair back. She stood by me, while my other ‘friend’ yelled at me to
(8)__get off___ the floor and clean it up.

Ashley

I remember the day I went (9)_clothes shopping__ with my best friend, who is
overweight. The saleslady was (10)_being rude___ to my friend because there was so
little in her size and nothing fit (11) quite night__. I am proud of how I helped my
friend (12)_that day____ . I had like an armful of clothes (13)_for myself___ (and may
I add these clothes were to DIE for!) and I put all my (14)_clothes back___ and said, ‘I
don’t like what they have here, why don’t we go somewhere with better clothes, not
these (15)cheap ones____ .’"

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II. Reading
1. Now read this text. What sort of problem did the author face when she was a
teenager?

Let me tell you about my experience. I spent my entire high school career without a best
friend in school. So I understand what you’re going through. I’m so sorry you feel lonely. I think
loneliness is the most difficult life challenge to endure. But what can you do about it? Well, from
my own personal experience in high school I learned a lot.

First of all, I learned how to put together a social life for myself. Because none of the girls in
my school were going to work as my best friend, I was friendly with them, but not super close
with them, and not exclusively friends with them. I found other friends in other places, and each
one of my different friends understood and could relate to a different piece of me.
So yes, I was lonely, but I found pieces of what I needed, socially, in many different people.
You don’t have to limit your search for a good friend only to the kids who attend your school with
you. Another thing I learned: the best way to get a friend is to be a friend. Look around, and see
whom you might want to become friendly with. Then sincerely show that person your interest in
their likes and dislikes and opinions. Ask them what they think about things. Ask them what they
like to do. People are touched when others are interested in them and their thoughts and their
preferences. And sincerely show them that you like who they are. That’s the best way to begin
the process of acquiring that person as a friend.
Finally, I’d say the most important lesson of all that I learned from my feeling so lonely in high
school was: learning to love myself. Learning to be my own best friend when I couldn’t find
someone else appropriate for the job.
Adapted from: [Link]

2. Identify in the text six pieces of advice given by this psychologist.

3. Find in the second text words/expressions that mean the same as these.

a. suffer with patience Endure

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b. very intimate Super close

c. connect with Relate to

d. emotionally affected Touched

III. Grammar

1. The pictures below show some of teens’ favourite activities. Identify them.

Hanging out with friends Listening to music Surfing the net Watching TV

_______________________ ______________________ ___________________


2. Complete the text using the words/expressions under the box.
Today’s teen will not remember what life was like without the
(1)_Internet____. They have come to expect that products, events,
friends, and family will have a (2)_Web presence_____. One of the
latest trends we see is in the area of (3)Social networking______ and
virtual worlds.

One of the most important items a teen today owns is a (4)_Mobile


phone_____. Nearly 50% of teens aged 10-13 have their own phone.
These not only allow them to stay (5)Connected_______to parents
and friends, but to (6)Capture images______and video that can be
immediately uploaded to social networking sites and (7)__Viewed____
around the world in a matter of seconds. Still, despite the technology
(8)_Overload_____, today more than ever teenagers (9) _Care
about_____ their world and the people they share it with. TeensTeens
are worried about the state of the world and feel (10)_Socially
responsible_____. As an example, teens are highly supportive of
things like (11)_Recycling_____, educating their friends and
(12)_Volunteering_____.

Care about social networking volunteering viewed recycling mobile phone

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Overload capture images socially responsible connected Internet

Web presence

IV. Writing

Write an opinion text on the topic “what it takes to be a good friend”. Write about
100-120 words.

Good Work 

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The document conveys that self-discovery and self-acceptance are crucial during adolescence. It highlights that through personal challenges, like loneliness, adolescents can learn to appreciate their own unique qualities, become their own best friend, and build confidence. This journey involves learning to value oneself independently of external validation, which is essential for personal growth and fulfillment .

To become a good friend and acquire friendships, the document recommends showing genuine interest in others' likes, dislikes, and opinions; sincerely displaying appreciation for the person; and actively listening to them. These actions demonstrate interest and value in the friendship process, helping to establish and deepen connections .

Despite the overwhelming presence of technology, the document suggests that teens today are socially responsible by caring about their world and the people in it. They show their commitment through involvement in recycling, educating peers, and volunteering. These actions reflect an awareness and proactive attitude towards their community and environment .

Ashley’s story underscores the importance of advocacy and loyalty in friendships. When her friend faced rude treatment due to size-related issues during shopping, Ashley demonstrated support by refusing to purchase items from a store that treated her friend unfairly. This shows a conscious decision to prioritize her friend's dignity over consumer behavior, highlighting the role of advocacy in social interactions .

Personal growth plays a crucial role in overcoming loneliness, as depicted in the document. The author shares that learning self-love and becoming one's own best friend were critical lessons derived from loneliness in high school. This personal development creates a foundation for individual resilience and promotes the ability to seek and establish healthier connections with others .

The document suggests addressing loneliness by building a social life with a variety of friends rather than focusing solely on finding a best friend at school. It emphasizes being friendly, finding friends in different places who each understand different aspects of oneself, and showing genuine interest in others as a way to build meaningful relationships. Additionally, the document highlights the importance of learning to love oneself and being one's own best friend when necessary .

Richard's friend demonstrated true friendship by pouring water on himself after Richard accidentally spilled a drink on his lap, which made it look like he had wet himself. This act diverted attention and laughter away from Richard and showed supportive solidarity in a potentially embarrassing situation .

The document emphasizes technology's importance by highlighting how teenagers expect products and events to have a web presence, showcasing the extensive role of social networking and virtual worlds in their lives. It also points out the significance of mobile phones in maintaining connections and engaging with the world, indicating technology's pervasive influence on teenagers' communication and socializing habits .

The document illustrates the difference between a close friend and a casual friend through Kaitlin's experience. When Kaitlin got sick, her close friend demonstrated support by accompanying her to the bathroom and helping her, while the casual friend distanced herself and demanded Kaitlin to clean up. This contrast highlights reliability and support as markers of close friendships compared to superficial interactions in casual ones .

Both Richard's and Ashley's experiences demonstrate selfless actions for the benefit of a friend. Richard’s friend poured water on himself to help Richard avoid embarrassment, while Ashley stood up against unfair treatment toward her friend by not supporting a store with poor customer service. These actions are parallel in that both involve putting a friend’s well-being above personal convenience or societal judgments, showcasing integrity and loyalty as core elements of true friendship .

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