Building Effective Therapeutic Relationships
Building Effective Therapeutic Relationships
Chapter 5 – Therapeutic
Relationships human being can respect the client regardless of his or her
Relationship behavior, background, or lifestyle.
- The ability to establish therapeutic relationships with E.g. calling the client by name, spending time with the
clients is one of the most important skills a nurse can client, and listening and responding openly, considering
develop. the client’s ideas and preferences when planning care.
- Highlight: communicate with patients correctly. The client may say “I was so mad, I yelled and screamed
- Build trusting relationship at my mother for an hour.”
Inappropriate: “Well, that didn’t help, did it?” or “I
Components of a Therapeutic Relationship
can’t believe you did that,” the nurse is communicating a
Balance of power between the therapist and the client. value judgment that the client was “wrong” or “bad.”
A. Trust builds when the client is confident in the nurse Appropriate: “What happened then?” or “You must have
- Conveys integrity and reliability been really upset.”
- Friendly, caring, interested, understanding, consistent;
Self-Awareness
keeps promises; listens; is honest
- Congruence occurs when words and actions match
Self-awareness is a process of understanding one’s own
- E.g. the nurse says to the client, “I have to leave now to values, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, attitudes, motivations,
go to a clinical conference, but I will be back at 2 pm”
strengths, and limitations, and how one’s thoughts and
and indeed returns at 2 pm to see the client. behaviors affect others.
- Extra effort for pts with paranoia, low self-esteem,
- Values – abstract standards that give a person a sense of
anxiety. (Mistrust) what is right and wrong and establish a code of conduct
B. Genuine Interest
for living. Values are clarified through choosing, prizing
When the nurse is comfortable with himself or herself, and acting.
aware or his or her strengths and limitations, and clearly - Case: a clean and orderly student has been assigned to
focused, the client will perceive a genuine person live with another student who leaves clothes and food all
showing genuine interest. over their room.
Do not show dishonest or artificial behavior such as, - Beliefs – are ideas that one holds to be true.
- Asking a question and then not waiting for the answer, - Attitudes – general feelings or a frame of reference
talking over the client, or assuring the client everything around which a person organizes knowledge about the
will be all right. world. (hopeful, optimistic, pessimistic, positive and
negative)
Empathy (Putting yourself on their shoes)
Therapeutic Use of Self
Ability of the nurse to perceive the meanings and feelings
of the client and to communicate that understanding to the Therapeutic use of self is when the nurse uses aspects of
client. his or her personality, experience, values, feelings,
By listening and sensing the importance of the situation to intelligence, needs, coping skills, and perceptions to
the client, the nurse can imagine the client’s feelings establish relationships with clients that are beneficial to
about the experience. clients.
Both the client and the nurse give a “gift to self”
Clients tend to feel better about themselves and more The Johari’s window is a self-awareness tool.
understood when the nurse is empathetic.
Quadrant 1 (open-public) – qualities one knows about
Sympathy (pity or feeling sorry) oneself and what others also know.
Quadrant 2 (blind-unaware) – qualities known only to
Feelings of concern or compassion one shows for another. others.
In sympathy, you feel sorry. Quadrant 3 (hidden-private) – qualities known only to
“I know how confusing sons can be. My son confuses me, oneself.
too, and I know how bad that makes you feel.” Quadrant 4 (unknown) – an empty quadrant it
Sympathy often shifts the emphasis to the nurse’s feelings symbolizes qualities yet undiscovered by oneself or
C. Acceptance others.
Nurse who does not become upset or respond negatively
to a client’s outburst, anger, or acting out conveys Types of Relationship
acceptance to the client.
Acceptance of the person as worthy. Social relationships involve friendship, socialization, and
Clear and firm without anger or judgment. companionship or accomplishment of a task.
Intimate relationships involve the emotional commitment
Positive Regard of two people to each other, including emotional and/or
sexual intimacy.
Therapeutic relationships are focused on the needs, 2. The working phase involves problem identification,
experiences, feelings, and ideas of the client, not the where the client identifies issues or concerns causing
nurse. problems, and exploitation, when the nurse guides the
client to examine his or her feelings and responses,
Establishing the Therapeutic Relationship develop better coping skills and a more positive self-
image, change behavior, and develop independence.
Therapeutic relationships are focused on the needs, o Clients may use outrageous stories or acting-out
experiences, feelings, and ideas of the client, not the nurse. behaviors known as testing behaviors to test the nurse’s
dependability, trustworthiness, genuine interest, or
- Focus on the client acceptance.
The therapeutic relationship consists of three phases. Task of the Working Phase
1. In the orientation phase, the nurse and client meet, roles
Maintaining the relationship
are established, the purposes and parameters of future
Gathering more data
meetings are discussed, expectations are clarified, and the
client’s problems are identified. Exploring perceptions of reality
o Before meeting the client, nurse reads background Developing positive coping mechanisms
materials available on the client, becomes familiar Promoting a self-concept
with any medications the client is taking, gathers Encouraging verbalization of feelings
necessary paperwork, and arranges for a quiet, Facilitating behavior change
private, comfortable setting. Working through resistance
o A time for self-assessment – nurse should consider Evaluating progress and redefining goals as appropriate
his or her personal strengths and limitations in Providing opportunities for the client to practice new
working with this client. behaviors
o Nurse builds trust, may establish a contract, and Promoting independence
discusses confidentiality and the need to share
information with the treatment team. Mandatory Reporting
o Nurse should share appropriate information about
himself or herself at this time: name, reason for being Sexual abuse
on the unit, and level of schooling, Child abuse
o “Hello, James. My name is Miss Ames and I will be Elder abuse
your nurse for the next 6 Tuesdays. I am a senior Duty to warn
nursing student at the University of Mississippi.”
In the working phase the nurse must be acutely aware that two
The contract should state: common elements can arise:
Time, place, and length of sessions Transference is when clients unconsciously transfer
When sessions will terminate feelings they have for significant persons in their life onto
Who will be involved in the treatment plan (family the nurse. (client to nurse)
members, health team members) Countertransference is when the nurse responds to the
Client responsibilities (arrive on time, end on time) client based on his or her own unconscious needs and
conflicts. (nurse to client)
Nurse’s responsibilities (arrive on time, end on time,
3. The termination or resolution phase begins when the
maintain confidentiality at all times, evaluate progress
client’s problems are resolved and ends when the
with client, document sessions)
relationship is ended.
Communication o It is important to deal with feelings of anger or
abandonment that may occur. The client especially may
Confidentiality feel the termination as an impending loss.
Self-Disclosure
Behaviors that diminish Therapeutic Relationship
Sensitivity
Concluding the relationship Inappropriate boundaries (relationship becomes social or
intimate)
Nurses should not make promises to keep secrets
Feelings of sympathy and encouraging client dependency
Client: “I am going to jump off the 14 th floor of my rather than promoting independence
apartment building tonight, but please don’t tell anyone.” Non-acceptance of client as a person because of his or her
Nurse: “I cannot keep such a promise, especially if it behaviors, leading to avoidance of the client
involves your safety. I sense you are feeling frightened.
Therapeutic Roles of the Nurse in a Relationship
The staff and I will help you stay safe.”
Teacher
Caregiver
Advocate
Parent surrogate
Self-awareness Issues
feeling?”
4. The client tells the nurse “I’m so upset. My 8. A client with terminal metastatic cancer
parents are getting a divorce and I don’t says to the nurse; “My family makes me so
a. “I know what you mean. That is really bad miracle. I wish they’d stop. I’m the one
c. “Maybe they’ll get back together.” a. “Have you told your family how you’re
communication with a client must, as a first c. “Well, your family sounds like they have
serves as the foundation of therapeutic d. “You’re feeling angry that your family
b. develops rapport d. sit within arm’s length relationship with a client. Which of the
6. When working with a client, you decide you following describe a therapeutic
need to maintain a personal distance from this relationship. Select all that apply.
client. Using the distances identified by Hall, a. Identify and meet the needs of the client
who introduced the concept, you would stand how and nurse.
b. 18 inches to 4 feet d. 5.5 feet d. Give advice if the client requests it.
7. The nurse enters a client’s room on the e. Exchange personal information with the
been crying. The best response by the nurse f. Discuss the client’s issues with family
is: members.
a. “Good morning. Why are you crying?” 10. The following interaction is an example of
b. “I see you need some private time. I’ll be which therapeutic communication
technique? B. "Why don't you talk to your mother? You
Client: “I had an accident?” may find out she doesn't feel that way."
Nurse: “Tell me about your accident.” C. "Your mother seems like an understanding
b) General lead D. "You feel that your mother does not want
1. The nurse is interviewing a newly admitted concerned that when a client asks me for
psychiatric client. Which nursing statement advice I won't have a good solution." Which
B. "Are you feeling depressed or anxious?" A. "It's scary to feel put on the spot by a
C. "Yes, I see. Go on." client. Nurses don't always have the answer."
D. "Can you chronologically order the events B. "Remember, clients, not nurses, are
that led to your admission? responsible for their own choices and
schizophrenia for the presence of C. "Just keep the client's best interests in
hallucinations. Which therapeutic mind and do the best that you can."
communication technique used by the nurse D. "Set a goal to continue to work on this
A. "You appear to be talking to someone I do 5. A client states, "You won't believe what my
B. "Please describe what you are seeing." has no right treating me that way." Which
C. "Why do you continually look in the corner nursing response would best assess the
D. "If you hum a tune, the voices may not be A. "Does your husband treat you like this very
so distracting." often?"
3. A client tells the nurse, "I feel bad because B. "What do you think is your role in this
after I leave the hospital." Which nursing C. "Why do you think he behaved like that?"
A. "It's quite common for clients to feel that with your husband."
mental health center with a diagnosis of paranoid a. "You shouldn't talk like that. You're not a
government of France is trying to assassinate b. "Once the antidepressants start working you
him. Which of the following responses is most will feel better about yourself."
A. "I think you're wrong. France is a friendly for what you have."
country and an ally of the United States. Their d. "You've been feeling like a failure your entire
B. "I find it hard to believe that a foreign 9. The nurse is completing the sexual history
government or anyone else is trying to hurt you. section of the admission assessment. The client
You must feel frightened by this." tells the nurse "I don't want to talk about this.
C. "You're wrong. Nobody is trying to kill you." This is private between my spouse and me."
D. "A foreign government is trying to kill you? Which nurse response reflects empathy?
Please tell me more about it." a. "I am a professional nurse and I know what I
schizophrenia stands up during group therapy b. "I understand this is difficult for you to talk
and screams, "Get out of here right now! The about, but I have to complete the admission
minutes!" The next time this happens, how c. "Yes, I know just how you feel."
should the nurse respond? d. "I know some of these questions are difficult
B. "That is the same thing you said in yesterday's just been diagnosed with Hodgkin’s
C. "I know you think there are bombs in the his child to know the diagnosis. The
D. "If you have something to say, you must do it a. “It is best if he knows the diagnosis.”
according to our group rules." b. “The cure rate for Hodgkin’s disease is
the nurse "I wish I weren't alive. I have been a c. “Let’s talk about why you don’t want him
anyone." The most therapeutic response to the d. “Would you like someone with Hodgkin’s
to talk to you?”