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Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION...
HOW TO USE THIS BOO}
‘THE NEW MODEL OF SELLING......
Selling Era #1.
Presenting.
Telling Your Story.
Using External Pressure:
"Assuming the Sale’
Selling Era #2.
Consultative Selling 7
Selling Era #3.
Dielogue, ssn 9
WHAT NEPG QUESTIONS WILL DO FOR YOU.
‘THE 5 STAGES OF NEPQ
‘THE CONNECTION STAGE
Connection Questions,
NEP Connection Questions — In Action
Inbound Leads.
Connection Question Exampl
Auto Industry (Outbound)
‘SaaS - For Associations (Inbound). 7
HVAC (In-Home Appointments) mau 7 sow BB
Financial Services 82C (Inbound Lead on Zoom). 24
‘THE ENGAGEMENT STAGE.
Situation Questions
NEPG Situation Questions — In Action,
Situation Question Examples...
Life Insurance... ss :
Marketing Agency (Selling Leads to Real Estate Agents),
Relationship Therapy/Psychologist/ Therapy Coaching wenn 30
Problem Awareness Questions i
NEP@ Problem Awareness Questions — In Action.
NEPQ Problem Awareness Two Truths... see 52
NEPG Problem Awareness Clarifying Questions 32
NEPG Problem Awareness Probing Questions. 33Problem Awareness Question Example:
Financial Services.
Staffing/Recrulting Agency,
Real Estate Agents,
Solution Awareness Questions
NEPG Solution Awareness Questions — In Action wom 40
‘Solution Awareness Question Examples
Home Improvement...
Staffing/Recruiting Agency,
UL (Indexed Universal Lite)
Real Estate: Buying Distressed Properties
Solution Awareness Questions (Part 2)
Fitness/Personal Trainer/Weight Loss/GYMS mu.
Solar
Health Insurance (B2C).
Cyber Security.
Consequence Questions
NEPQ Consequence Questions — In Action. 49
Consequence Guestion Examples.
Dental implants :
Employee Benefits (B28) :
Marketing Agency for Real Estate AGEN acenmnsnnnnnnann SY
Car/Auto Dealerships _— : sl
Solar (Residential) rons 52
(Cyber SeCUTity rennin ss
Home Improvernent (Pool Sales) : 53
Relationship/Marriage Therapy/Coaching, eB
THE TRANSITION STAGE...
‘Transition Questions.
‘THE PRESENTATION STAGE
How To Present By Not “Presenting” .
‘THE COMMITMENT STAGE...
NEPG Commitment Questions — In Action 6
Commitment Question Example:
Culture/Recognition/Awards Industry
(To Retain Top Employees), = son 3
Final Expense Insurance.
Real Estate Agent.
Vacuum Cleaners.NEPQ QUESTIONS BONUS SECTION.
COLD CALLING INTRODUCTIONS.
Personalized Intro — 30 SECOND COMMERCIAL.
Cold Calling Question Examples...
SaaS Platform for Recruiting Top Truck Drivers, a
Healthcare Saas : ee 72
Pre-Situation Questions. 78
Past Situation Questions. . 74
NEP@ Questions To Start A Boardroom Meeting, 75
NEPQ Problem Awareness Questions (Expanded) 76
NEPQ Questions To Disrupt Vendor Relationships 78
NEPQ Questions About Your Potential Customers’ External Customers
(Mainly 828) ae 79
NEPQ Precision Probing Questions (Expanded) 80
NEPQ Probing Questions — In Action. a4
NEPQ Decision-Making Questions
NEPG Solution Awareness Questions (Expanded).
NEP@ Consequence Questions (Expanded).
NEP@ Funding/Budgeting Questions...
‘THE PROPOSAL PROCESS
NEPG Qualifying Questions
NEP@ Common Objections...
NEPQ Resolving Questions
NEPG Questions To Keep Customers
CONCLUSION
INDEX.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR...OCCCCOCEE EOC OCC COCOCCOOCOCOCOCCOCCOCCOOOCCEOIntroduction
This book has been 23 years in the making.
| remember when | was 22 years old, barely
making ends meet. We lived in a small, cramped
basement, and my first daughter was on the way.
No matter what I did, ! couldn't sell
Listening to my sales managers didn't
work, reading old sales books didn’t work—
none of the traditional advice worked
And | couldn't go to the bank and cash in excuses:
“The leads aren't good.”
“The economy is tanking right now."
“People just don't want to buy.”
So, the only option left?
Figure it out,
What you hold in your hands now is the end
product of “figuring it out” over the last 23 years.
It’s not just another sales training book built on
opinions, hypotheticals, or what “should” work.
This is a sales framework built from my experience
in the trenches, selling in four different industries.
I's built from my studies in human behavioral
science and lessons learned from the
most persuasive figures in history.
It's been tested by sales professionals around the
world and has yielded statistically significant results
in 161 different industries~yes, including yours.
But I know how salespeople think - and | know
that no amount of proof will convince you until
you've experienced it for yourself personally,
So, let's stop wasting time and
help you close more deals."Level
How to Use
This Book
First, read through this book one time quickly.
This will help you understand the 5 Stages of Neuro-
Emotional Persuasion Questioning (NEPQ) and how NEPQ
is radically different from boiler room selling, consultative
selling, or any other traditional framework.
‘Once you've done the first skim through, keep the book
(on your desk as reference material
Whenever you get stuck on a specific part of your call, flip
to the relevant section and test out a new question from
the book.
You'll be pleasantly surprised at the reactions you get.
In this book, we provide generic examples as well as a few
industry-specific examples so you can see the nuances
between each industry,
Forbes recently announced there are 163 industries
We looked through the 563,000 sales reps we've trained,
and there were only two industries we didn't cover: salt
mining and another industry so obscure | forgot what it is
Even though my last name is Miner, we can’t help miners
out. But if you're in any other industry, there’s a good
chance we've trained sales professionals in your industry.
To keep this book from being 34,598 pages long, we only
provide a few industry-specific examples for each section,
For more advanced, industry-specific training, scan any
QR code found throughout this book, and it'll take you to
a resource page specifically for Black Book owners.
As a tip, you might want to keep this book hidden
somewhere so your coworkers don't see it—that way, you
can keep your competitive edge. ;)
Let's get into it.
‘The NEPO™ Black Book of Questions
Scan the QR code or visit:
nepqblackbook.com/
resources
NEPQBLACK BOOK
RESOURCES
To help further your sales
training, we put together a
resources page.
‘Simply scan the QR code or
visit the link and you'll find @
page where you can access
the training portal for Black
Book owners.
You'll also be able to ask for
help from one of our NEPG
experts - and see how we
might adapt NEPQ to your
industry and what you sell
We're here to help.
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| New Model
| of Selling
‘What exactly is the Now Model of Selling?
: Before we get into that, we need to revisit the three main
“Eras of Selling,” their unique modes of communication,
and how they impact the way sales professionals currently
soll. Each era has its own approach to persuasion.
Most salespeople are stuck in the first two eras of selling,
- and they're not even aware of it - costing them deals they
could have closed, But once you enter the third era of
selling, that's where the magic happens.
Let's start with the first era."Level
Selling Era #1
When you hear the words “boiler-room
Selling,” what first comes to mind?
Do you think about the “Wolf of Wall Street”
type of selling?
(Or maybe you thought about that famous
quote “always be closing”?
(Or maybe you just imagined a salesperson
pressure selling a prospect by talking fast
and loud,
Whatever came to mind, it’s likely the type of
selling that goes something like this:
“This is perfect for you!”
“Hey, | got a great opportunity for you!”
“Our company is the best at XYZ. We've been
rated #1 for X amount of years in a row!”
Then, we talk about the features and benefits
of what we do. Then we push and tell them
why they need to buy ~ or why they need to
go with you!
We are the least persuasive when we tell
people things or attempt to dominate them,
posture them, manipulate them, or push
them into doing something that we want
them to do,
It’s just like if you tell your spouse or your
teenager that they really need to do
something for you, and you push them.
How do they typically respond?
They push back, right? That right there is
human behavior 101.
Here are a fow examples of the least
persuasive ways to sell:
‘The NEPQ™ Black Book of QuestionsPresenting
We are all taught to have a great sales
presentation:
'Here’s a picture of our corporate office, of
our company awards, of our Triple-A Rating’
with the Better Business Bureau” ~ and show
Prospective clients how great our services
and products are.
Included in this are the 60 to 90-minute pitch
decks (ie, "We have the best this!” “We have
the best that!").
Meanwhile, doesn't every sales professional
say they have the best product or service?
Or that they're the #1 market leader?
How many sales professionals you know will
tell you their product or service is the Sth
best in the market?
NO ONE DOES!
They all say they are the best or have the
best!
‘The result is that your prospects trust you
less when you make those exaggerated
claims (or if you talk badly about your
competitors).
‘Why? Because they are used to every sales
professional that's ever tried to sell them
anything saying exactly the same things!
Note, too, that the data suggests the longer
you present, the less persuasive you become.
In fact, the most persuasive presentations
take up 10% or less of the entire sales
process,
‘One of the main reasons sales professionals
struggle to close deals (especially when
there are multiple stakeholders involved) is
simply because they spend too much time
presenting,
Later on in this book, we'll dive into what
to do instead, and how to “present without
presenting.”
‘Tho New Modelof Selling
Telling Your Story
hate to have to be the one to tell you this:
but your prospects don't care about you.
They don't care about your company values
‘They don't care about your customer service
awards...
And they definitely don’t care about how your
founder bootstrapped the company during
the Great Depression.
So, what do they care about?
Solving their problems. in some cases,
problems they don’t even realize they have,
and it becomes your job to help uncover
those problems (and provide solutions),
We'll show you how to do that later as well
Using External Pressure
There is a massive difference between
“external pressure” and “internal tension.”
External pressure is imposed on the prospect
by the salesperson when they tell the
prospect what to believe and think,
Internal tension is created when the sales
professional asks the right questions with
the right tonality - allowing the prospect to
develop their own beliefs and thoughts about
the problem.
When we force conclusions onto prospects,
they will reject them.
However, when prospects come to their own
conclusions, not only will they accept them,
they will fight for them.Level
“Assuming the Sale”
Have you ever heard the saying that “sales is
a numbers game?
Maybe you heard it from a colleague,
your sales manager, or even from a self
proclaimed “sales expert.
What they're basically saying to you is:
“This sales process doesn’t really work.
‘So, you're gonna just have to work harder.
Call more leads. Clock more hours.”
But think about it
How can that type of training give you a
competitive advantage over anyone else?
Truth is - it cannot.
Unfortunately, sales will be a numbers
game for you if you use traditional selling
techniques.
Why?
Because traditional methods will trigger
many of your prospects to enter fight or
flight mode, where they will try to get rid of
you.
Or worse, cause them to shut down.
emotionally. They stay surface level with you,
only to get to the end of the conversation
and get the all-too-common
“This looks great, but | need some time to
think it over.”
At which point, you never hear from them
again, sending you into “chase mode,” am |
right?
HOLY MOTHER OF MARY, let’s STOP the
MADNESS!
Now, let's talk about the second mode of
communication, called consultative selling.
The NEPQ™ Black Book of QuestionsSelling Era #2
Consultative Selling
Consultative selling became popular
in the late 1970s and early 1980s with
methodologies put forward by Sandler
Institute and books like Neil Rackham's SPIN
Selling.
Rackham was a college professor (and a
great academic) who taught how to ask
logical questions to find the needs of the
prospect.
Compared to boiler-room sales tactics,
consultative selling techniques seemed
revolutionary.
But the downfall of this approach?
When you only ask logical, surface-level
questions like.
‘What's the #1 challenge you're facing?”
“What are two things keeping you up at
night?”
“if you waved @ magic wand and could solve
the problem, what would that look like?”
What kind of answers do you think you're
going to get?
Logical, surtace-level answers.
And let me ask you, do people buy on logic
or emotion?
Dale Carnegie, author of How to Win Friends
and Influence People, says:
“When dealing with people, we are not dealing
with creatures of logic. We are dealing with
creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with
prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity."
This is why you should never sell to just the
needs of the client.
‘The New Model of Selling
It bears repeating:
‘You should never sell to what your prospect,
thinks they need - because the truth is, most
of your prospects don't really understand
what they need when you first talk to them,
Imagine waking up with a terrible migraine
that just won't go away. You think to yourself,
“Maybe | should go to urgent care and get
some medicine,” which makes sense, right?
Next, you start thinking about your budget:
“$75 co-pay... Maybe $25 after insurance for
the medication... Great! | just need $100 to
solve my problem..."
But then you meet with the doctor, who
starts asking you some very pointed
questions about your migraine.
“What does the pain fee! like?”
“Is the pain focused in a specific area?”
“How long have you had the pain?”
“What is the pain doing to you?"
“What is the pain preventing you from being
able to do?”
These questions begin to stir up some major
internal tension; you start to suspect that you
might have a much bigger problem than you
originally thought you had!
And so this is why you can never sell to just
the needs of the prospect.
You have to sell to the real problems that
your uestioning ability and tonality help
them find—problems they might not realize
they have.
‘Are you with me?
Now, let's look at some examples of
consultative questions that trigger
resistance."Level
4A
“What are you looking for
ina solution?”
Once again, it’s just a surface-level
question
You have to learn how to go far deeper
than that if you want to pull out their
emotions and create genuine urgency
in the sale.
&é
“What sort of budget do you have
for this type of thing?”
[asked early inthe conversation)
Here is the problem: early in the
conversation, they don't even know
what their real problems are yet, so
how can they possibly know what
budget they need to solve them?
Instead, shift it to this - this is an example of
a NEPG Qualifying question.
“What type of funds do you have
‘or have access to so you can
financially protect Cindy and the
kids when you do pass away?”
tyou
Notice | just tied in them getting the
funds to the end result, which in this
case is financially protecting Cindy and
the kids.
Use it later on in the conversation after
you have helped them find problems
they didn’t know they had.
Let's move onto the next example of a
surface level question.
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“Who besides you will be involved
in the decision?”
Most of your prospects will not just
magically open up to you if you ask
questions this way. It’s far too surface-
level.
Instead, ask it this way:
“How does your spouse feel about
you getting coverage so she’s
financially protected when you
pass and doesn’t have to go
get a second job to pay for
the mortgage?”
Ait you're selling mortgage insurance)
This is an example of a NEP Situation
Question.
Watch how they open up to you when
you ask it that way.
Remember, if you use the same type of
questions that every salesperson who's
trying to sell them is using, you'll sound
like what?
You’
sound like everyone el
This could be a major problem if your
prospect sees you as just another
salesperson trying to stuff your solution
down their throat.Selling Era #3
Dialogue
Dialogue is the foundation for the New
Model of Selling and involves Neuro-
Emotional Persuasion Questioning (NEPQ).
‘We are the most persuasive when we get
others to pull us in and persuade themselves,
So, how do you get your prospects to
persuade and sell themselves and PULL you
in?
That's the trillion-dollar question.
Do you want to acquire that skill?
How much easier would selling be for you if
you could get prospects to do all the work?
Get your prospects to pull you in.
Get your prospects to sell themselves...
Get your prospects to overcome their own
objections.
‘The Now Modelof Selling
How much more commission would you
make than you are now with that skill set?
I can't tell for sure - but for most sales
professionals, it would be a considerable
amount.
‘So how do you do this? How do you get
prospects to do all the work?
Do you just show up and give your prospects
permission to persuade themselves?
Do you say, "Hey, Mr. Prospect, go ahead and
persuade yourself. By the way, what's your
bank info?”
No, of course not.
You have to learn specific skilled questions,
when to ask them, and how to ask them Ina
step-by-step structure,"Level
AIDA Model
“Old Model”
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“New Model”
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It’s this delicate fusion of skilled questions,
timing, and tonality that will get your
prospects to pull you in and sell themselves
rather than you trying to do it.
So now we've covered the three eras of
selling, ask yourself where you are at.
Are you a boiler-room salesperson?
Are you a consultative salesperson?
Or are you a dialogue-based sales
professional?
It’s okay if you're not where you want to be
right now, that's what this book is for.
Before we move further, | want to make an.
important distinction.
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When | talk about using NEPQ questions,
Pm not referring to questions that are
designed to get people to say what you
want them to say.
‘That's what average salespeople do.
The questions I'm referring to are questions
that are intended to bring out your
prospect's inner truths (ie., their emotions)
They are intended to get a human being into
their emotional state - so it causes them to
want to open up to you and go below the
surface.
That's what NEPG is all about.‘What NEPQ Questions Will De For You
What NEPQ Questions
Will Do For You
Let's quickly lock at what NEPG Questions
(aka the New Model of Selling) will do for you.
First, these questions help your prospects
analyze and diagnose their problems, their
root causes, and how these problems have
affected them personally.
They also help uncover what their problems
are, if any, and find out if they want to
change their situation.
NEPQ Questions engage your prospects
‘emotionally, making them feel like
they're part of the process.
When you listen to their answers, and then go
further with deeper questions, they will feel
understood, respected, and validated,
Traditional sales questions make people fee!
like they are in a job interview (or worse,
being interrogated) - and they tend to close
up.
NEPG questions make sales conversations
feel like having coffee with a close friend -
allowing for an open, honest conversation
between you and the prospect.
NEPQ Questions internally persuade
your prospect—
because in answering these, they not only tell
you what their problems are, why they have
those problems (what caused them), and
how these problems are affecting them - but
most importantly, they are telling themselves!
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Here's how the process works:
Your prospect begins to consciously and
subconsciously internalize what they are
saying to you.
‘Their answers help them look at - and
challenge - their beliefs as to why they keep
allowing their present situation to continue.
In doing so, their answers can give them
a different perspective on why they keep.
allowing their problem to happen.
They experience a very powerful internal
motivator that makes them automatically feel
like changing their situation and taking action
NOW - instead of ‘someday:
When you ask the right NEPQ questions
at the right time in the conversation, you
don't have to try to persuade them anymore
because your questions help your prospects
persuade themselves!
Just ask the skilled questions that | will
give you access to and then listen to their
responses.
You might be pleasantly shocked at how
simple this process is.
Most importantly, NEPQ questions put you In
complete control of the conversation, not for
power or manipulation, but for you to keep
the sales conversation on the right path.
In summary, NEPQ Questions empower your
potential customers to get in touch with their
emotions about their present circumstances
and want to do something about them.
They will want to change, and they will want
to make that change with you. They now
view you as a trusted authority.
It's similar to 2 good doctor; he or she does
not just walk in the room and give the patient
a prescription (their solution) without first
asking questions about the problem, what
caused it, and how it's affecting that patient,
right?
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Because if that doctor did, they'd be making
assumptions (most likely the wrong ones)
since it's the patient who knows their own.
symptoms. However, they might not know
the solution to their problem, but the doctor
will
Since the doctor takes the time to ask skilled
questions and listen, the patient feels like
they are part of the process. This being the
case, the patient will more than likely accept
the prescription (solution) the doctor gives
them,
Add this approach to how you sell, and you'll
notice prospects will start to regard you as
the authority and NOT the adversar
You'll also start to see that prospects will
want to work with you to overcome their
‘own concerns. And at the end, you'll notice
they are more likely to accept what you are
offering,
What else do questions do?
NEPQ Questions engage your prospects
emotionally, making them feel like
they're part of the process.
Your questions will open up your prospects to
really think about the consequences and how
they'll be affected if they do nothing to solve
their problems.
Here's another thing NEPG Questions do.
NEPQ Questions create value in your
expertise and in the product/service
youoffer.
By asking the right questions at the right
time in the conversation, you automatically
create value in who you are and what you
represent.
Your prospects will buy into you first, and the
strength of how much you understand them
will come from listening to their answers.
Here's how this could look.
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/ou sell fra and you
set up at a trade show. Someone comes up
‘and asks you to tell them more about
4 of going int
pitch, first find out why they asked.
Briefly answer the question with your
Personalized Introduction.
By the way, an NEPQ Personalized
Introduction is w
three generic proble
ith their ind
“Well, you know how a lot of
people nowadays are finding it
harder to get by with corporate
downsizing, lack of job security,
and higher cost of living?
We help people set up their own
franchise businesses so they can
start taking care of themselves,
their families, and have more
control.”
What should you do nex!
immediately with an NEPQ
“What do you do for a living
yourself?”"Level
Now, you're in a two-way conversation.
You start by asking them NEPG Situation
Questions about what they are presently
doing, how long they have been doing it,
what they like, what they don’t like about it,
and how they feel about it.
If you know the right skilled questions to ask
them at the right time in the conversation,
they will look very seriously at changing their
situation.
This is what | mean by NEPG Questions
creating value in you and what you sell.
Never assume they are looking to start their
‘own business just because they approached
you.
Instead, find out what they are looking for
by asking what problems they have, if any,
why they have those problems, what those
problems are doing to them, and whether or
not they want to change their situation,
Now, there are a few more ways that NEPQ.
Questions can help you out.
NEPQ Questions get prospects to
become opento your ideas.
You can make suggestions like—
°
“What if it wasn’t what you
thought it was? Would you be
‘open to looking at it from another
Perspective?”
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Oh, and you're really going to like this
next one:
NEP@Q Questions help your prospects
‘overcome their own concerns
(aka objections).
This is key if you want to be a top 1% earner in
your industry.
‘When faced with a prospect who has a
concern, instead of handling it with a rebuttal
like you would an objection, address the
concern by asking questions.
‘Seek to get behind the concern so that you
can understand
Keep asking skilled questions to help them
‘come up with their own solution to overcome
their own concern
‘One simple thing you can do right now is to
turn your statements into question:
Instead of telling your prospects about what
you know and what you have.
‘Ask questions that will uncover and explore
what they know about the subject first.
If you tell your prospects your solution
outright, you are the one who owns the
problem and the solution - not your prospect.
‘The result is your potential customer is far
less attached.
‘Telling’ is far less persuasive.
(On the other hand, when you ask questions,
they're immersed in the process and will start
to own their own problems along with a need
to solve the problems.The people you speak with will start saying
things like:
"Gosh, why do | keep putting off buying XYZ?"
“Why do | keep investing my money with this
firm? Maybe | should look at what this guy is
going over with me... Maybe | could probably
get a higher return?”
“Why do | keep commuting to work an hour
each way when I could be like this lady
working from my home?”
“Wow, why do I keep advertising my business
this way when I could be getting leads that
have higher conversions for my sales team?”
They will keep questioning themselves.
What's preventing me from doing this?
What's holding me back?"
They will question why they allow themselves
to stay in that same situation—at which point
they'll begin to seriously think about doing
something to change their situation.
They will start to persuade themselves to be
ready to make that change now—not next
week, month, or year.
So, let me ask you this: Which form of
persuasion Is more powerful?
‘When your prospect persuades themselves
to want to make a change with you? Or when,
you try to persuade them to make a change
with you?
I think you know the answer by now.
‘When someone persuades themselves,
they're internally motivated—and for their
‘own reasons, There's a big difference
between internal and external motivation.
‘What NEPQ Questions Will Do For You
While external motivations wear off, like
water drying off quickly after taking a shower,
internal motivation never dios.
So, later in the sales conversation, after
you've listened.
That's when you can suggest that you might
know of a solution that could take care of
their problems or help them get where they
want to go.
‘Would most of your potential customers be
open to listening to you?
Of course, they will, and you know what?
A very interesting thing will happen: your
prospect will like you
Prospects will start calling you back and
chasing you rather than you chasing them,
The reason for this is you have become what |
call a “trusted authority” in their eyes.
Because for the first time in a long time, they
know that you are genuinely interested in
them and what they are looking for.
You're not just another salesperson trying to
stuff your solution down their throat,
Now, how does this look in action?
It's based on the 5-stage NEP@ structure.
Turn the page, and I'll show you how
it works.
5Reva The NEPC™ Black Book of Questions
The 5 Stages of NEPQ.
Also known as Neuro Emotional Persuasion Questioning.
The Connection Stage
Connection Questions Transition Questions
STAGE 2 STAGE 4
The Engagement The Presentation
Stage Stage
Situation Questions Feedback | Agreement
t ronstrates how the specif
TAGE 5
is affecting them
The Commitment
Solution Awareness Questions
¢ what their futu Stage
Commitment Questions
them commit & take t
Consequence Questions
F 1
Qualifying QuestionsBicone ones
The 5 Stages of NEPQ
STAGE!
The Connection
Stage
‘The Connection Stage covers what to say
when you first connect with a prospect. It
involves asking “Connection Questions.”
Connection
Questions
The purpose of Connection Questions is.
well... to connect with your prospect.
They are designed to disarm the prospects
- not alarm the prospects, like most
salespeople do when they get into “sales
mode”,
Within the first 7-12 seconds of every
sales interaction, your prospects are
subconsciously picking up on your verbal
and non-verbal cues, triggering their brain to
react in one of two ways:
If you come across as aggressive, needy,
1 and attached, and you don't know the
right questions to ask, it triggers your
prospect's brain to go into fight or flight
mode.
This is where they try to get rid of you
fast and say things like:
“Vm too busy now.”
“Can you call me back later?”
“1 don’t need it; we already have that.”
Especially when you are calling aged
leads (i.e, leads that other salespeople
are also calling), you will trigger them
quickly if you don't disarm them from
the start.
If you come across as neutral, calm, and
detached—and ask the right questions—
it triggers their brain to become so
curious that they feel they have to
engagt
‘Suddenly, they want to open up to
you as you might have something very
important to them.
As sales professionals, we have to
come across as detached from the
‘expectations of making the sale.
Instead, we need to refocus on whether
‘our prospects have problems that we
can actually solve.
Now, do | mean that you should get on a
call and NOT make sales?
No. Heck no,
Your goal is to make a sale on every call,
but only for the people you can actually
help.
The moment they feel like they are
being sold Is the moment they shut
down.
‘So what does it look like? Let's take a
look at NEP@ Connection Questions in
action."Level
NEPQ Connection
Questions — In Action
Remember, NEPQ Connection Questions
take the focus off you, put it on them, and
help lower their guard,
Here are a few generic examples of
connection questions in action:
Have you found what you're wanting,
or are you still looking for...?
When you talked with , what was
it that you guys talked about that caused
10 wanna look into this further?”
When you saw the ad that was going over
what was it they were talking
‘about... that caused you to want to... look
into this further?
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Now, the scripts differ depending on whether
you're engaging with outbound or inbound
leads.
Outbound Leads
The following are generic examples so you
can see the structure for outbound leads,
which in our mind means a prospect has
maybe put in their name, email, and phone
number.
Maybe they responded to an ad and asked
someone to call them back. But they don’t
know who Is calling them or when.
So, the beginning of the call might sound like
this:
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Hey | Prospect Name |; this is just
Your Name |. with Your Company |--
It looks like you recently responded to
anadon and asked us to call
you... about possibly helping you with
| And I just had a few
minutes before my next appointment...
I guess | should start off by asking you,
have you found what you're looking for,
or are you still looking for...{ [repeat back
the end result] |?
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Now, this call is pretty basic; it’s really
more for us to find out about what you're
using now, what results you're getting,
compared to what you might be wanting,
to see what that GAP looks like.
‘And towards the end of the call, if
you feel like It... “might be”... what
you're looking for, we can talk
about “possible” next steps.
Would that help you?
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Here’s another variation of the script you
could use for an outbound lead:
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Hey Prospect Name, this is just
Your Name... with Your Company
it looks like you recently responded to
an ad asking us to call you back about
looking at getting possible help with
so that you could
[repeat back the end result] |, right?
PROSPECT RESPONDS.
Hey, when you went through the ad and
saw what was it about the
ad/ (ho)
that attracted your attention? And do
ever they found you)
you know what you're... looking for?
PROSPECT RESPONDS.
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Now, this call is pretty basic; It’s really
more for us to find out about what you're
using now, what results you're getting,
compared to what you might be wanting,
to see what that GAP looks like.
Towards the end of the call, if you feel
like it might be what you're looking for,
we can talk about possible next steps.
Would that help you?
20Inbound Leads
Inbound leads are prospects that have
booked on your calendar, and you might be
meeting them on Zoom, or you could be
calling them, or you might be meeting thom.
at their home or office.
It’s a scheduled appointment,
You
Hey Prospect Nam«
this Is Just “You
Name ...with Your Company
It looks like you recently booked on our
calendar... about possibly getting help
with [their problem] so that you can
[repeat back the end result), right?
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So when you went through the ad where
XYZ was talking What was it about
what they were saying that caused you
to... wanna look into this further?
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Now, this call is pretty basic; it’s really
more for us to find out about what
you're using now, what results you're
getting, compared to what you're wanting,
to see what that GAP looks like.
‘And towards the end of the call, if
you fee! like It... “it might be"... what
you're looking for, we can talk
about “possible” next steps.
Would that help you?
‘The Connection Stage
‘And what were you hoping to get
‘out of the call with us today, just so
we have a better understanding
Now. you're going to get different responses
here, and depending on how they respond,
you will determine what Connection Question
to ask next.
Again, this is outside the scope of this Black
Book.
All the different responses and scenarios are
in our virtual training platform for clients,
which you can access by reaching out to us
should you want advanced training that’s
customized for your industry and what you
sell
So, we've included a few examples of
industry-specifie questions to keep the book
to an appropriate length.
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Connection Questions Example
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Connection Questions Example
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Hey Prospect Name , yea... it’s just*
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looking at that... Red 2022 AG Audi,
right?
The word “just” Implles that they should already
know you
‘Yea, we just got that car on a trade-in
that you were looking at; what aspects of
the car, | guess... caused you to maybe...
want to test drive it?
‘Aww, okay, and do you know what
type of vehicle you might be looking
for... besides the red Audi... just in case
It’s already gone... by the time you
could get down here to look at it?**
This builds urgency; the car could be gone soon.
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It looks like you booked with us to look
at possible outside help with your awards
program and automate that process, right?
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So when you were talking to.
what was it you guys were going over
that caused you to want to look into this
further?
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‘Aww, and Just so you know... these first
calls are pretty basic... it’s really more
for us to understand what you're doing
to manage the (program/process) now..
the results you're getting from that.
compared to what you might really be
wanting... to see what that GAP looks like...
And then, towards the end, if you feel like
this... might be... what you're looking for,
we can talk about “possible” next steps.
Would that help you?eeu sue. sears
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Okay, so it looks like one of our
technicians, | [Technician Name] |,
was just recently out here... and you
scheduled about possibly looking at
upgrading your heating/cooling system
to get your air circulating bettor in the
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So when you were talking to | [Technician |
Hamel! when he was out here looking
tho alr conditioning to ool upstairs
what was t about what he
you to want to look into thie further?
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‘Aww, okay, yea and really, the purpose of
us coming over is to really find out more
about the equipment you have now... and
how it’s cooling the home and upstairs
area... compared to what you need it to
do... to see what that GAP might look like.
‘And then before | leave, if you feel
that, hey, this “might” be what
you're looking for, we can talk
about “possible” next steps,
‘Would that help you guys?
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Connection Questions Example ~
@ Financial Services 82¢ © Inbound Lead on Zoom
You
Hi [ Prospect Name |, can you
hear me? Can you see me?
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Okay, it looks like you had booked on
the calendar about possible outside help
with your retirement planning and 401k
options... to get a higher rate of return.
Right?
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‘Aww, okay, now it looks like you spoke
with my associate the other
day... I guess what was it that you guys
talked about with her that caused ya... to
maybe wanna... look into this further?
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‘Aww, Ise, and | would say the first
Part of this call is pretty basic; it’s really
more for us to understand... kinda what
you're doing now to save for retirement
and the results you have been getting.
compared to maybe what you want them
to be... to see what that gap looks like.
‘And then, towards the end of the
call, if you fee! like, “Hey, this “might”
be what you're looking for, we can
talk about “possible” next steps.
Would that help you?
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‘And what were you hoping to get out
of the call with us today, just so I have a
better understanding?
PROSPECT RESPONDS.
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‘Oh yea, yea, I'll go through all the
different options for sure. It really all
depends on your age, your income
when you want to retire, and what your
expenses look like. Once we understand
all those details, I can go over all the
different options we have for our clients.
Would that help you?
When you've asked the Connection
Questions, you can then move on to the
Engagement Stage.The 5 Stages of NEPQ Continued)
STAGE 2
THE
Engagement
Stage
Situation Questions
‘These questions will be the foundation
‘on which you'll build your entire sales
conversation,
Situation Questions will allow you to get
facts about your prospect’s current situation.
Remember: We have to help them find out
their real situation because most of your
prospects don't know what their problems
are until you help uncover them.
Situation Questions have a two-fold
purpose
4 They help us understand thelr current
situation.
D They also help your prospect discover
problems they might be unaware of.
‘Once you establish a foundation in the
prospect's mind of what their situation is, you
can then start building a gap from where they
are now to where they want to be,
Typically, in most industries, gap-building
starts with asking NEPQ Problem Awareness
Questions (more on this later).
That being said, within some industries (such
as insurance), you can even start building the
gap when asking NEPG Situation Questions.
In general, Situation Questions are most
effective when used as a fact-finding strategy,
Remember, these help both you and the
prospect understand what their real situation
is,
Most prospects don't even know what their
real situation is when you first start talking to
them,
If you cannot help them see their real
situation, then it's impossible to build a GAP
from where they are to where they want to
be.
NEP@Q Situation
Questions — In Action
Here are some examples.
What are you doing now?
What are you using now?
How long have you been..?
What got you involved with...?
What does their process look like..?
How many do they have?
Can you walk me through what you're
doing now to..
How are you doing XYZ now?
Can you walk me through
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‘Now, do you do A, B, or C?
Okay, and what type of do
you have now, just so | understand?
How many,
have more context?
do you have so!
Your: can you tell mea
little bit more about those?
You mentioned in your application that
you're having some issues with
__. Can you tel me a little bit
‘more about that?
What are you doing now to get
‘so I have more background?
Now, obviously, you wouldn't ask this many
questions - these are just generic examples
you can choose from. Usually, you'd ask just 3
or 4 ina sales conversation.
When you've felt you have a good
understanding of their situation, you can
move on to the next stage.
The following are Situation Questions you
would ask in the general life insurance or
final expense industry - remember, these
are questions that come AFTER Connection,
Questions:
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Situation Questions Example
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If they have inferred they don’t have
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It doesn’t sound like you have life
insurance now... do you have any savings,
stocks, or like when something does
happen to you... like what would be used
to pay [insert what they said
they wanted to cover in connection]
for the mortgage, the car payments,
credit card debt, funeral services, and
ALL the BILLS and EXPENSES; what
would be used to pay for all that?"
“Verbal pace this question out.
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‘And who would be the person responsible
for having to like.
Go in, sit down, and actually meet
the funeral director and have to
plan and pay for everything?
PROSPECT RESPONDS
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pocket, or... would they have to get a loan
and have to pay all the interest and stuff?**
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If they say: “I’m not sure.”
“Act confused and concerned"
‘Would they have that saved up for -
something unexpected like that
or... would they just.. end up being |
forced to get a loan and have to pay
payments with all the interest for a
few years or something like that?
If they have mentioned other coverage
Now you mentioned that you had
‘Insert amount of coverage”
else, if anything, do you have there,
like any 401ks, stocks, or other assets
that would be passed down when
something does happen to you?
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Now, do you want to financially protect
all your asets so. [Family Member]
doesnt have to 90 and get a second
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that do you want todo fr them?
And who would be the person responsible
for having to like... Go in, sit down,
and actually meet the funeral director
and plan and pay for everything?
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And is that a policy that will last
forever like a whole life policy, or wil
eventually expire?
How much are they making you pay just
to have that coverage?
‘Aww, and when you originally got this
policy, what made you decide to go with
it vs another option?
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Situation Questions Example
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Walk me through it. What are you doing
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How long have you been doing that for?
PROSPECT RESPONDS...
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So what caused you to go that route
rather than | [repeat other advertising
alternatives, social media platforms,
direct mall, ete. |?
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‘And what Is the average home price in
your area?
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getting on average per month?
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What about referrals?Situation Questions Example (
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hm getting, on average, 60 leads a month.
And how many listings are you getting on
average every month from those.
leads?
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How many closings do you feel you could
get every month if you had 60 leads 2
‘month, but they were of a much higher
quality, meaning really interested buyers?
Okay, s0 six closings a month. And what is
your average commission per property?
Around 8k a home, right?
Eanes
‘So what's the math on that? Do you
have your phone? So if you are losing on
average four closings a month X 8k each,
‘what is the math on that?
Let them add it up on the phone while you add
it on the phone,
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Do you want to change that?
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Situation Questions Example
@ Relationship Therapy/Psychologist/Therapy Coaching
you
So, | was reading your application form,
and you mentioned that you are having
some Issues with | [potential Issue(s):
connection, intimacy, resentment,
‘communication, etc.]
with your husband.
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Can you tell me a little bit more about
that?
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What else is going on?
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‘What are you doing now to try to resolve
the | [potential issue(s): connection,
intimacy, resentment, communication,
etc.] | with your husband?
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been doing that for?
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After asking the relevant situational questions,
you'll move into asking Problem Awareness
Questions.Problem Awareness
Questions
Problem Awareness Questions help you
better understand what your prospect's
real problems are, the root causes of these
problems, and how these problems are
negatively affecting them.
As you ask Problem Awareness Questions,
you build the gap from where your prospect
is now to where they want to be,
Conventional sales wisdom tells us to be
problem solvers.
Except that ‘being a problem solver’ is
Rot enough to give you a competitive
advantage over other reps who are also
working at selling the same prospects.
Problem-solving only really happens after
they buy the policy from you and you
actually solve their problems.
Te stand out and get that competitive
advantage, you have to be a problem-finder.
After all, you must find problems before you
can solve them,
And you find problems by asking the right
questions, at the right time, with the right
tonality,
It’s essential to realize that most of your
Prospects don’t even know they have
problem when they first talk to you.
If we can't help them find problems and
have them emotionally engage with those
problems, it’s impossible for them to feel any
need or urgency to buy from us.
Let's see NEPQ Problem Awareness
Questions in action.
The Engagement Stage
NEPQ Problem
Awareness Questions —
In Action
Remember, Problem Awareness Questions
help you and the prospect understand what
their real problems are, the root cause of
these problems, and how they're affecting
them or will affect them,
These questions help answer the following:
1 Do they like their present situation?
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You will ask as many of these questions as
needed.
On average, it's usually 3-4 questions, but
sometimes a few more, depending on the
answers you receive.
Do you like what you're.
Do you like what you...?
‘Do you want to...
What makes you feel like [Current
Provider/Product}’s not enough, though?
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NEPQPROBLEM AWARENESS
Two Truths
Two Truths is an expansion on the Problem
Awareness stage - and you should only use
this if you need it
Nobody likes 100% of what they do or have,
so we use the “Two Truths” to probe and
understand which parts of their situation
they'd be open to change. Generic example:
So, to me, it sounds like things are going
100% perfect for you. Is there anything
you would change about your [present
situation] |, results you're getting
from that if you... if you could?
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co
So I'm curious: what is it about your
that you don’t like?
Ean
you
Why would you change that?
Ean
You
Why is that important to
you now, though?
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NEPQPROBLEM AWARENESS:
Clarifying Questions
When prospects start to realize that their
current situation isn’t optimal or that they're
willing to make a change.
Clarifying questions are a great way to help,
them expand on reasons for why making a
change is a good decision.
If they expand on what they don't like about
their current situation:
Oh, what do you mean by that?
Can I ask what you
mean when you said.
What do you mean by that?
'm not sure | quite understand?
When you said... Could you
expand on that for me?
So do you mean that
Let me see if | understand what
you want/what you're saying...
|NEPQ PROBLEM AWARENESS,
Probing Questions
We call this “Precision Probing.”
Prospects tend to give general and vague
answers around the most important issues...
this is why we interject with Probing
Questions to get specific and targeted
answers.
Here’s a general example of how the
sequence of questions might sound after
they tell you a problem they have:
you
How long has that been going on?
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Has that had... has that had
an impact on you?
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In what way, though?
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You don't sound so sure about
it... what don’t you like?
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‘Okay, well, let’s do this just so I can see
the rationale behind why you might be
looking for {what they said they
wanted] .
PROSPECT RESPONDE
But besides {reason #1] and
[reason #2] [plug in what they have
already told you]... what's the main
reason why you might be looking
[your product/service]... rather than.
[repeat back alternative] ?
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Questions Example
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Questions Example
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So, with the retirement strategies you
have now... do you... do you LIKE... the
returns you have been getting?
Make sure you use a verbal pause with this type
Cf question; that is what the periods between the
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What do you lke about it?
PROSPECT RESPONDS.
you
So, to me, It sounds like things are going
100% perfect for you. What would you
change if you could?
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Well, we like them, but it's not 100%
perfect.
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Not 100% perfect?
Watch how they respond at that point.
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You've been posting jobs on Linkedin
PROSPECT RESPOND!
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‘So you've had your internal recruiter
‘working on this for the last few months...
Iimean... What’s caused you to feel like
they're not getting you the right people?
PROSPECT RESPONDS
or
So you've been working with these two
for the last | four years ...
Then continue with these Problem Awareness
questions.
Do you... do you “like ..the quality/
results you've been getting?*
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‘What are your bosses saying to you?
What don't you like’
They’re not delivering.
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Not delivering?
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an you give me some specific examples
of when that happene
Besides you, who else in your
department does this impact right now?
What happens if this stays the same..
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How long do you think they're going to
give you... to get it fixed.
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What happened when they were trying to
fill it with. those inexper
How often does this happen?
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How does that...
impact you when this happens?
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Questions Example
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Now, if the prospect is vague and not
‘opening up, you can use the Two Truths.
Here's an example:
You
‘Those are some fairly decent agenci
or fairly good job boards |... are you
100% satisfied with the quality or
the time it's taking them to find the
candidates?
Ean
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Not 100% satisfied?
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You
‘Well, just so | can see the rationale, but
besides wanting to get a more skilled,
dedicated employee to grow the company,
what's the main reason why you might be
looking to switch agencies rather than just
trying to figure it ALL out on your own?
Repeat back the alternative you might
get objections to
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Depending on what they have told you in
the Connection and Situation Questions, you
have a couple options:
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This home seems so beautiful. Can | ask
what's causing you to possibly want to
sell it?
Option 8
You said that this was due to a family
matter. Can | ask what’s going on just so
Tunderstand?
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on
I mean, that realtor you used last year
is fairly decent. So, what’s causing you
to... possibly look at... going with another
agent? Just so I have more context...
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What did you feel they missed in
marketing your home that caused it to sit
so long?
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Just so I can see the rationale, but
besides what they said looking
for the best possible price) , what's the
main reason you want aCnother) agent
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handling this for you rather than going
out there and trying to market it yourself How does that compare to offers that
and hope and pray it actually sells? you have received to date?
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Can | ask why that price point?
‘What would be the sale price/range that
you would be happy to sell for?
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From here, they could respond with a price
that's appropriate or a price that's out of
range - here’s how to handle it
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So let’s say we put it up on the market for
that price, but the buyers start looking at
comparable homes in your area that are
5-10% lower than what you're asking for
your home... and it causes the home to
sit there and not sell for months... what
should we do at that point?
or
3? Level
Solution Awareness
Questions
Solution Awareness Questions get your
prospect involved and causes them to
‘emotionally attach themselves to solving
their problem,
And more importantly, solving the problem.
with you.
These questions get them to emotionally own,
their problems and start to see what their
future will look like once all these newfound
problems (that your questioning ability has.
allowed them to see for the first time) are
solved
There are two partsto
Solution Awareness Questions:
1 The first part focuses on what they
have done in the past to solve these
problems.
This gets them to see that, maybe, they
haven't done alll that much.
It also brings home the realization as to
how long it's been that they've had the
problem or issue.
Solution Awareness Questions help them.
clarify for themselves what they are
looking for in the ideal solution (which
in turn helps you know how to position
your solution in the best possible way in
your presentation).
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‘The second part focuses on what
their future will look like once their
newfound problems are solved.
So, circling back to the Situation
Questions we went over earlier, these
questions help your prospect look at
their present situation.
We call this their “current state.’
Solution awareness questions, on the
other hand, help your prospect see
what their future looks like once the
problems are solved.
This we call their “objective state.”
As in, how will their future reality look
once the urgent problems you just
helped them see very clearly in their
mind are solved with your solution.THEIR
CURRENT SITUATION
State
GAP
Objective
State
WHAT THEIR FUTURE LOOKS LIKE,
ONCE THEIR PROBLEMS ARE
SOLVED
‘The Engagement Stage
What's the cost of not asking
Solution Awareness Questions?
If you don't ask Solution Awareness
‘Questions, your prospect will not be able to
see what their future can look like with your
solution, and they will feel ne urgency to
“buy now.”
This causes uncertainty in their mind, which
in turn triggers objections such as:
“4 want to think it over.”
“I need to keep looking around.”
“I need to do more research.”
“4 don’t have the money for this.”
“I need to get quotes
from other companies.”
4) need to pray about it.”
“I need to talk to my spouse, my
CPA, my mom (my uncle who lives
ina van down by the river)...”
Then you start to rush headlong into “chase
mode," trying to convince them to buy!
But when you ask Solution Awareness
‘Questions correctly.
You'll avoid these headaches and the
conversation will be much smoother.
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NEP@Q Solution
Awareness Questions
—InAction
Remember, Solution Awareness questions get
prospects to emotionally own their problems.
and start to see what their future will look
like once all these newfound problems are
solved.
Solution Awareness
Questions (Part 1)
Before we started talking today, were
you out there looking for [plug in what
they said they want] so you can
{plug in the result they told you
they wanted]?
If they say “NO”
What's prevented you from doing that in
the past?
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What did you do?
CT RESPONDS
How did that work out?
PROSPECT RESPONDS.
you
What kind of results did you get from it?
ean
or
What do you think held you back from
having success...?UR Tae)
Do you know if other people were
getting results from that?
eas
Why do you think others were able to get
results, but you didn’t?
‘What do you think held you back from
getting the kind of results you wanted at
that time?
If they didn’t get started
Uni ns
What prevented you from getting started
with that?
After these Solution Awareness questions,
you want to transition to the second part of
Solution Awareness with a “criterla question”
sequence:
et ea pee tad ete wee
[plug in what they have already told you
chev want what wauld yeu semaly be
looking for in your Product/Service ?
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Sone
Pou]
Like what would be your ideal criteria?
Soe
i
an | ask why that’s important to you.
now though?
Is there anything else you want?
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Before you had me out here today,
were you out there looking for a more
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accessible shower/tub [Plug in what they
said they wanted] | so that you can get <=
in and out safer/better [Plug in the result
they told you they wanted] ...?
ees
‘What's prevented you from doing that in
the past? (softly)
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‘Oh, what prevented you from going with
that company?
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Tae er
‘Oh, okay, what have you be
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‘What prevented you from getting started
with them?
After they answer - ask the criteria question:
7
Let’s do this... just to make sure that what
we're doing would work for you, but...
besides and
[plug in what they have already told you
want] , what are you actually looking
for in a new shower/tub, let's say that we
have you come into the store and we're
all sitting down designing it together...
what do you feel you really need so that
you can... [repeat back what they
wanted] | feel safer/look better/
have a more updated/modern/
more functional tub?Solution Awareness Questions Example
‘TheEngagement Stage
ere oer)
So depending on what you uncovered in
the previous sections, you could ask this
question in a couple different ways:
Cee)
So before today, were you out there
looking for more stable options so you
can retire by the time you're (age 62)
‘or what have you been doing?
Perea UL)
So before today, were you out there
looking for strategies to grow your
money to make sure you left that legacy
behind, or what were you doing to make
sure your family is protected?
ono
Ta oe
am curious: what has prevented you
from doing that in the past? Or what
prevented you from looking at other
strategies previously?
cs
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How has that strategy worked out for you
so far?
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What type of results did you get with
that?
‘What do you think HELD you back from
having success with THAT strategy/
approach?
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with that type of approach, just 50 |
understand?
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Solution Awareness Questions
Example (continu
IUL (Indexed Universal Life)
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How familiar are you with how IULs
work?
ane
Okay, would it help you out if | shared my
screen and showed you how IULs work
for our clients?
‘Then you explain how It works.
Share your sereen with the prospect.
Let’s do this just to make sure an IUL
would actually work for you besides
having something stable that actually
compounds faster for you repeat
back what they said they wanted
based on what we just looked at.
Ean
How do you picture yourself really
utilizing something like this?
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Solution Awareness Questions Example _ # Rea! estate: Buying Distressed Properties
Then use the criteria question sequence:
So, before we started talking, were you
‘out there looking for options to sell your
home so it didn’t go into foreclosure, or co
what were you doing?
Let’s do this Just to make sure that we
could actually help you, but besides
(what they sald) and (what they said) ,
las what are you hoping to get out of the
home If you were able to sell it, what
would be your price range and what
|lam curlous: what prevented you from you're looking to get out of the house?
doing that in the past?
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Now if 90 to my partners and hey sve
me a number lower than tht ke, ont
know, like 90k [lower number than what
they sala), should ust go ahead ana
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anything together, or what do you tel
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‘What prevented you from going with that
Investor?
Option 3
What held you back from listing it then?
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Solution Awareness
Questions (Part 2)
Ask these questions to help the prospect
understand and feel what the future will be
like once the problems are solved.
‘These are a few generic examples:
So besides | [repeat back what they
they already said they wanted] , how
do you see this benefiting you the most,
though?
‘What would it do for you personally,
though?
How would it be diff
nt, though? You
being able to | [plug in what they sai
they wanted] . How would your life/
Maybe different than it
How do you see the benefits of actually
solving this problem? | [Repeat back
the actual problem]
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Seu)
Questions (Part 2) Example
1 Fitness/Personal Trainer/Weight Loss/Gyms
Okay, so let's say we come in and we're
able to help you lose the 105 pounds...
what would you be able to do... that you
feel you can't do right now or can’t do at
your best right now?
Yor
‘What would that do for you to be able to
do those things again? [Plug in what they
said they wanted to be able to do-
play basketball with your son again]
Ean
How would it be different, though,
losing the 105 pounds and, most
Importantly, being able to keep it off
where it doesn’t come back
you see your life being... Maybe different
than it is now?
How doRT Cy
Questions (Part 2) Example
Ed
Let’s say that we are able to lock in your
rate permanently like we do with our
‘other clients... where it never went Up,
and you were saving... | mean, it's not
gonna be much, but... around 10-11k or so
‘over the next 10 years... what would that
do for you personally?
“important to downplay the money they save,
which eautes humans to make ita bigger deal in
their minds, This is called mismatching,
‘So how would it be different, though,
you being able to give the utility co the
middle finger (playful tone), by keeping
that money... knowing literally you're not
FORCED to keep paying the rate hikes
anymore... I guess how would things be...
maybe different than they are now?**
“start with @ playful tone and ond with 2
concerned tone
‘The Engagement Stage
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‘Okay, let’s suppose we're able to get you
a policy that had the nationwide network
the benefit they sald they wanted
s0 that you could see any doctor you
wanted [their desired state] and
know that If anything big did happer
that you would be completely covered
sncially... knowing that was there...
What would that do for you guys?
peer ec
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‘What would that do for you...
personally though?
(Concerned tone)
But besides the [repeat back what they
sald they wanted} nationwide network,
how do you see this... benefiting you the
‘most, though?
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Questions (Part 2) Example
© Cyber Security
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Besides the company being able to
reduce chargebacks, how do you see
this... benefiting you guys the most,
though?
Een
oI
So, if you're the one that is responsible
for bringing in the right company to
solve the chargeback issue... how does
that help you?
Ea
You
In what way?
get that promotion?
After the two parts of Solution Awareness
questions, you can then move on to
Consequence Questions.
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‘The NEPQ™Black Book of QuestionsConsequence
Questions
You have now reached a point in the
conversation where you must get your
potential customer to think about the
consequences of not doing anything to
change their current situation.
‘Consequence Questions are primarily asked
after Solution Awareness questions.
Once they feel and see what that future looks
like we want to rip that away from them by
asking consequence questions.
These get the prospect to defend themselves
‘on why It’s so Important to change now, not
later!
How this works is you simply take a problem
that they themselves have told you they have
and want to solve.
And you ask them a Consequence Question
around that problem.
WARNING: Average salespeople like to use
the customer's problems in a manipulative
way to bully the customer into buying a
product or service.
‘Your goat is not to force anything.
Rather, you want to empower the customer
to realize they can change their own situation
by purchasing your solution to effectively
solve their problems.
Let's see these NEP@ Consequence
‘Questions In Action,
‘The Engagement Stage
NEPQ Consequence
Questions — In Action
Consequence questions help your prospect
question their way of thinking and explore
the consequences of not solving the problem.
This way, you help build massive urgency in
their mind to get the problem solved instead
of pushing it down the road.
Here's a few examples:
What if you don’t do anything about this
problem {plug in what their problom is. ,
and your situation gets even worse?
Have you thought about what would
happen if you don't do anything about this?
Have you considered the possible
ramifications if you don’t do anything
about this...?
What are you going to do if nothing
changes, if you keep using/doing
in what their problem was for the next
[plug in 3, 6, or 12 months, or 5, 10, 15
years, depending on what you sell]
and nothing changes?
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Consequence Questions
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Consequence Questions
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co
What happens if you don’t do anything
about this, though... you keep losing the
bone density in your jaw... and now you
can't even get implants?
For all of these Consequence Question
samples, you want to use a challenging or
oncerned tone - at this point inthe conversation,
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Well, | don’t know, | just hope that won’t
happen,
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Do you want to keep living with that pain
in your mouth... if you... if you didn't
have to?
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Okay, but on the flip side... What
happens if you Just keep the same pla
and your top people keep going over
to your competitors... what happens
to your busines
Eon
you
Do you want to have to go through all
of that... if you... if you didn’t have to?Consequence Questions
rears
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What if you don't do anything about this...
7 and you keep getting these low-quality
leads that don’t pick up when you call.
‘what are the consequences for you...
at that point?
(Challenging/eoncorned tone)
’
- Do you want to have to go through all of
that... if you... if you didn’t have to?
‘The Engagement Stage
Consequence Questions
eel)
Cee
What happens if you just keep your car...
and it keeps breaking down on your way
to work? What would happen to your
job... at that point?
‘Okay, so it’s important for you to do
something then?
Peano n acres
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=
Option 1
Are you willing to settle for that, though?
Well, whose choice is it if you settle
or not?"
You have to be tougher with the prospect here
option 2
Do you want to keep putting yourself
in that situation if you... if you... if you...
didn’t have to?
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Consequence Questions Consequence Questions
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So if you continue to use XYZ vendor..
What happens if you don’t do anything
what are the consequences if you don’t
about this... they keep raising your rates
every year like they have... and now you're do anything about your false positive
75- 80 years old... still having to pay your re poe Reucepmnaun ee ireieee Sond
customers?
bill every month... but the bill is more
than three times what it is now... and now
you're on a limited income/social security...
Ea
or
(concerned tone, verbal pace this out)
How would you pay for it. at that point?
Do you want that to keep happening to
you if you... if you didn’t have to?
Pan
‘You
What happens then?
PROSPECT RESPONDS...
Well, | guess Ill have to figure it out.
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Do you want... to have to keep being
FORCED to pay the RATE HIKES... if you...
If you didn’t have to?
Ean
‘You
Okay, but for you... Why look at going
solar now? Why not push it down,
the road and keep paying the rate
hikes like a lot of people who don’t
know anything about solar do?*
‘Challenging/concerned tone
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‘So what happens if you don’t end up
putting the pool in... the kids keep having
to go ALL the way down to the YMCA...
and you miss out... (slow down pace) on
all the memories of your kids growing up?
SS
Do you want to miss out on all
those memories with the grandkids
If you... it you didn’t have to?
So how important is it for you to change
your situation... get the pool back there..
and actually have all these memories
with your kids... for the rest of your life?*
“This is an example of a Gualitying Question,
Consequence Questions
Example
Fy Ree ae eae eee
‘We can go with two options here depending
‘on what the prospect has given us up to this
point:
Option
‘What if you don’t de anything about
this ... you keep having these issues
with your husband... where you are
arguing and feeling resentment... for
another 3, 6, or 12 months... what would
happen to your marriage at that point?
Option 2
What happens to your marriage if you
don't do anything?
‘So why look at doing therapy now?
Why not push it down the road like a lot
of couples who end up getting divorced?
After we ask Consequence Questions
and get the prospect to think about the
consequences of not doing anything to
change their current situation.
We can enter the Transition Stage.
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aatcr-) Stages of NEPQ (ontinuea)
STAGES
THE
Transition Stage
Transition Questions
The Transition Stage is fairly simple
if you've done the groundwork
in the Engagement Stage.
Remember, the Engagement Stage is 85% of
the work - so if done correctly, the transition
shouldn't require anything complex.
Simply use this Transition formula:
The Transition Formula helps you
transition into presenting your solution
or scheduling the next step.
Based on what you told me... What we are
doing could/would actually work for you.
Because you know how you said.
[Repeat back what they said they
wanted]
‘And because of that, it's making you
feel.... [Repeat back what they told you
it’s doing to them emotionally: frustrated,
stressed, annoying, worried, concerned.]
| think you mentioned a little bit.
Stressed sometimes.
Then, you can move to the
Presentation Stage.SCs
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THE
Presentation
Stage
without presenting.
Remember, if y
enough in the Engagement
uld only be about
challenges and problems you uns
during the Engagement Stage of your
conversation.
their problem,
9¢ is different depending on
give your presentati
requires several appointments.
Base the prese
of your industry.Level ‘The NEPQ™ Black Book of Questions
For example, here's how to bridge for a
one-call close:
With your permission, | can go over a few
things that we would be able to do for
you to help you with your situation and
solve those problems | [repeat the actual
problems] . Would that help you?
If it was a 2-call close, or if you were ina
more complex B28 sales role, whatever
the next step is, let’s say it is to schedule a
demo or a proposal, it would look more
like this:
Good first call; that gives me more
understanding of your situation and the
challenges you guys are going through
‘compared to where you want to be...
Really, the next step would be to book
another call to go over a demo of the XYZ
platform and how we solve those same
problems for our clients to get you where
you want to go. Would that help you?
Or, if you are scheduling a second call
Proposal
Alright, so good first call that helps me
better understand your situation and the
challenges you guys are going through
compared to where you want to be
Really, the next step Is, if i's
appropriat
. put togeth
different options on what we could do
for you to solve all of these problems and
help you [repeat back what they said
they wanted]. Would that help you?
. We would go back and
a proposal for you with
In essence, we want to present without
“presenting” - and tailor it to our prospect.
56How To Present By
Not “Presenting”
Here are some general rules to follow
Do the presentation around the
problems/issues/challenges that the
prospect mentioned:
So many salespeople try to show the
entire solution when presenting to
Prospects.
hat is how 40-page proposals and
90-minute presentations happen. Doing
that will turn most of your prospects off
quickly,
It goes in one ear and out the other as
they lose focus.
Instead, your potential customers want
to know if you can solve their problems
They just care about you solving the key
lallenges that are holding them back
from achieving their desired results.
So stop presenting all the features and
benefits that have nothing to do with
solving the prospect's problem.
Only present directly to the issues
the prospect mentioned during
the Engagement Stage of the sales
conversation.
You have to customize each presentation
to each prospect's challenges. Never do
cookie-cutter presentations; they will
make your prospects feel like you do not
understand their situation
Remember, your prospects will always
buy from the sales professional who
they TRUST understands their unique
situation the most.
Use the 3-step Presentation formula in
this part."Level
The 3-Step Presentation Formula
‘One of the biggest problems that people
have when they come to us Is they don’t
know how to/don’t understand how to/
having issues with..
don’t know how to do, or a big problem
that most prospects have / their main
Issue/challenge]
[plug in what they
Which causes them to... | [go over the
consequences]
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redhct sarc, or program solves tlt
Sorat me pee
(go over how your
‘And what they mean to you Is.
[Repeat back the advantages and benefits
of what it will do for them or mean for
them once it's solved]
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Use Case Studies To Reinforce Solving
Other Prospect’s Problems
This is powerful if done correctly. You
can show real-life examples of other
clients who were in similar situations and
how your solution was able to solve their
problems,
‘The case study should show the
problems the prospect faced, what your
solution was to solve those problems,
and what the results of the work ended
up being for that prospect.
Include real numbers that can be
objectively quantified.
Remember, your prospect cares most
about the results of your solution, not
features and benefits.
But what will your solution do for them?
How does it help them get where they
want to go?
‘Ask Checking for Agreement Questions
‘Throughout
Most sales presentations are an hour
long monologue with the salesperson
talking most of the time about all the
great features and benefits of their
solution...
‘And how we have the best company...
And the best customer service.
And the best quality and the best
delivery.
And the best this and the best that.
Basically, what every salesperson says
about their product or service.
How many salespeople do you know that
when they pitch you, tell you that their
product or service is only 4th or Sth best
in the market?