1.
Family Lifestyle & Daily Habits
Category Vietnam 🇻🇳 United States 🇺🇸
Mealtime Daily family meals Flexible schedules, often
individual
Showing love Quiet care, fewer verbal Open communication,
expressions physical affection
Privacy Less private space Highly valued personal
space
2. Marriage & Divorce
Before Marriage:
Category Vietnam United States
Decision-making Often influenced by family Independent, personal
choice
Wedding customs Traditional, large family Simple or personalized
event ceremonies
After Marriage:
Category Vietnam 🇻🇳 United States 🇺🇸
Living situation May live with parents/in- Independent household
laws
Gender roles Traditional: wife = home, Shared responsibilities
husband = income
Childcare Grandparents often help Couple takes full
responsibility
Maternity support Limited financial support Paid maternity leave,
welfare programs
Privacy Family involvement is high Strong sense of couple’s
privacy
Divorce:
Category Vietnam 🇻🇳 United States 🇺🇸
Social view Still seen as shameful Socially accepted if unhappy
Process Complicated, family Clear legal process, more
pressure involved straightforward
Child custody Usually given to the mother Determined by court with
legal rights
Financial support Not always enforced Clearly structured by law
3. Core Two-Way Family Values
Direction Vietnam 🇻🇳 United States 🇺🇸
Family → Children High expectations, Encouragement for self-
obedience, tradition direction
Children → Family Must make parents proud, Can express opinions,
protect family image reshape family views