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Overview
"Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help
People Change" represents a groundbreaking
paradigm shift in how families and friends approach
addiction treatment and recovery support. Published
by Simon & Schuster, this evidence-based guide
challenges traditional "tough love" approaches and
interventionist models by offering families practical,
compassionate, and scientifically-supported methods
for helping loved ones overcome substance use
disorders and compulsive behaviors. The
groundbreaking method upends current treatment
models and "offers collective hope to families of
substance abusers" (Kirkus Reviews), helping loved
ones conquer addiction and compulsion problems
through positive reinforcement and kindness—from
the leaders in progressive addiction treatment in the
US.
The book emerges from the collective expertise of the
Center for Motivation and Change (CMC), one of the
most progressive addiction treatment centers in the
United States, and represents the culmination of forty
collective years of research and decades of clinical
experience. Delivered with warmth, optimism, and
humor, Beyond Addiction defines a new, empowered
role for friends and family and a paradigm shift for the
field. The authors present a revolutionary approach
that is not only less daunting for both the substance
abuser and his family, but is more effective as well.
Authors' Expertise and Professional Background
The book's credibility rests on the extensive
professional expertise and clinical experience of its
four authors, all of whom are leaders in evidence-
based addiction treatment and research.
Jeffrey Foote, PhD is co-founder and executive
director of CMC and psychologist for the New York
Mets. He has been a leader in the science and
humanity of change for twenty-five years. Jeffrey
Foote, PhD, is cofounder of the Center for Motivation
and Change (CMC) outpatient programs in New York
City, NY; Long Island, NY; and Washington, DC; and
residential program CMC: Berkshires in Western
Massachusetts. He is also cofounder and executive
director of the CMC: Foundation for Change, a
nonprofit organization with the mission of improving
the dissemination of evidence-based ideas and
strategies to the families of persons struggling with
substance use.
Dr. Foote is a nationally recognized clinical research
scientist who has received extensive federal grant
funding for his work on motivational treatment
approaches. He has worked in the addiction
treatment field as a clinician and researcher since the
late 1980s and has developed a unique motivational
treatment approach that incorporates principles of
group treatment and research-based principles of
human behavior change. Previously, he served as
Deputy Director of the Division of Alcohol Treatment
and Research at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in NYC,
Senior Research Associate at The National Center on
Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia
University (CASA), and Chief of the Smithers Addiction
Treatment and Research Center.
Carrie Wilkens, PhD is co-founder and clinical
director of CMC and a dedicated practitioner and
researcher of the most effective treatments for
substance use problems and compulsive behaviors.
Her expertise is regularly sought by the CBS Early
Show; Fox News; Newsweek; O, The Oprah Magazine;
and Psychology Today. Dr. Wilkens has more than
twenty-five years of experience in evidence-based
treatments for substance use and post-traumatic
stress. She completed her fellowship in an addiction
treatment program and spent the next 20 years trying
to bridge the gap between traditional addiction
treatment and mental health services.
Nicole Kosanke, PhD is director of evaluation and
family services at CMC. In 2008 Dr. Kosanke was
featured in an O, The Oprah Magazine article about
her client's experience in treatment at CMC, which
was later published in O's Big Book of Happiness: The
Best of O. She is clinical director of the Center for
Motivation and Change, where she specializes in
evidence-based treatments for substance use and co-
occurring disorders.
Stephanie Higgs contributes her clinical expertise to
the collaborative effort, rounding out the team's
comprehensive approach to family-centered
addiction treatment.
The authors' collective experience at CMC, which they
describe as being part of "a revolution in addiction
treatment based on evidence and on a new model for
change," provides the practical foundation for the
book's recommendations. Their work represents a
departure from traditional abstinence-only
approaches, incorporating harm reduction goals and
evidence-based treatments for both substance use
and co-occurring mental health disorders.
Foundational Philosophy and Approach
Beyond Addiction eschews the theatrics of
interventions and tough love to show family and
friends how they can use kindness, positive
reinforcement, and motivational and behavioral
strategies to help their loved ones change. This
fundamental approach distinguishes the book from
traditional family guides that emphasize detachment,
boundary-setting, and confrontational interventions.
The authors challenge the widespread belief in family
helplessness that characterizes much of the addiction
treatment field. Instead of the old bromides –
detaching and boundary setting – that are based on
assumptions of family helplessness, Beyond
Addiction offers evidence-based methods for families
to motivate and reinforce change for an addicted
loved one. The focus here is on effectiveness training
for families, using collaboration and kindness rather
than confrontation to support behavior change.
The book's subtitle, "How Science and Kindness Help
People Change," encapsulates this revolutionary
approach. The authors demonstrate that applying the
family's natural kindness and positive reinforcement,
rather than withholding it, is what makes change
possible. This represents a fundamental departure
from traditional approaches that often discourage
family involvement or frame kindness as "enabling."
The philosophical foundation rests on several key
principles: that addiction is a complex
biopsychosocial condition rather than a moral failing;
that families can play a positive, active role in
recovery; that change is possible and occurs along a
continuum rather than requiring complete abstinence
as a prerequisite; and that evidence-based
approaches are more effective than intuition-based or
tradition-based methods.
The CRAFT Methodology: Community Reinforcement and
Family Training
The heart of "Beyond Addiction" lies in its presentation
of Community Reinforcement and Family Training
(CRAFT), a scientifically supported, evidence-based,
clinically proven approach to helping families of
substance abusers. CRAFT was originally developed
by Robert J. Meyers and William R. Miller in the late
1970s as an adaptation of the Community
Reinforcement Approach (CRA).
According to the book, "CRAFT has three goals: 1.) to
teach you skills to take care of yourself; 2.) to teach
you skills you can use to help your loved one change;
and 3.) to reduce substance use, period, whether your
loved one gets formal treatment or not." This multi-
faceted approach recognizes that family members
need support for themselves while also learning
effective strategies for helping their loved ones.
The effectiveness of CRAFT is well-documented in
research literature. Best of all, using the CRAFT
approach, the person with addiction seeks treatment
at a rate of about 65-75%, which is 2-3 times higher
than interventions or 12-step approaches. This
dramatically higher success rate in treatment
engagement makes CRAFT a particularly valuable
approach for families dealing with treatment-resistant
individuals.
CRAFT operates on principles of behavioral
psychology, specifically operant conditioning, where
behaviors that are rewarded are more likely to
continue while behaviors that are not rewarded are
less likely to persist. The CRAFT method is much more
scientific [than old intervention techniques]. It's based
on the idea you reinforce good behavior, and you don't
reinforce bad behavior. One of the core principles
behind CRAFT is that recovery from addiction should
not be purely about negative consequences. The CSO
will be trained in offering positive reinforcement for
success in tackling the problem, though will also be
taught not to shield the substance user from natural
consequences of their substance misuse.
The methodology involves training Concerned
Significant Others (CSOs) – the family members and
friends of individuals with substance use disorders –
in specific skills and strategies. These include positive
communication techniques, problem-solving skills,
behavioral reinforcement strategies, safety planning,
and treatment engagement methods. The approach is
explicitly non-confrontational, recognizing that
confrontation often increases resistance to change
and damages relationships.
Structural Organization and Content Framework
The book is broken down into four parts: What to
Know; How to Cope; How to Help; and Live Your Life.
This organization reflects a logical progression from
understanding the nature of addiction and change
through developing personal coping skills, learning
helping strategies, and ultimately maintaining long-
term well-being.
Part I: What to Know
This foundational section likely addresses the nature
of addiction, the science of behavior change, and the
evidence base for family involvement in recovery. The
authors provide readers with current understanding of
addiction as a biopsychosocial condition, challenging
common misconceptions and stigmatizing beliefs.
This section probably includes information about how
substances affect the brain, the development and
progression of addiction, and the factors that
influence recovery.
The "What to Know" section also likely addresses the
research evidence supporting family involvement in
treatment and recovery. This challenges the
traditional belief that families are powerless and
should "detach with love." Instead, the authors
present evidence that family members can have a
significant positive impact on their loved one's
recovery trajectory.
Part II: How to Cope
This section focuses on self-care and emotional
regulation for family members. The authors recognize
that dealing with a loved one's addiction takes a
tremendous toll on family members' physical health,
mental health, and overall well-being. The "How to
Cope" section likely provides strategies for managing
stress, anxiety, anger, and other difficult emotions
that arise when dealing with addiction in the family.
Self-care is presented not as selfishness but as an
essential component of being able to help effectively.
Family members who are overwhelmed, depressed, or
burned out are less able to provide the consistent,
patient support that facilitates positive change. This
section probably includes strategies for maintaining
physical health, seeking social support, managing
finances, and protecting other family relationships.
Part III: How to Help
This is the practical heart of the book, where the
authors present specific CRAFT strategies for
influencing positive behavior change. This section
likely includes detailed instruction in positive
communication techniques, behavioral reinforcement
strategies, natural consequences management, and
treatment engagement approaches.
The "How to Help" section probably provides specific
scripts, role-playing exercises, and step-by-step
guidance for implementing CRAFT principles in real-
world situations. This might include how to have
conversations about substance use without triggering
defensiveness, how to reward positive behaviors
without seeming manipulative, and how to avoid
inadvertently reinforcing substance use behaviors.
Part IV: Live Your Life
The final section addresses long-term sustainability
and the recognition that recovery is often a long-term
process with potential setbacks. This section likely
helps family members maintain their own well-being
and relationships while providing ongoing support for
their loved one's recovery journey.
"Live Your Life" probably addresses how to maintain
boundaries while remaining supportive, how to handle
relapses or treatment failures, and how to continue
growing and healing regardless of the loved one's
progress. This section recognizes that family
members' healing and growth cannot be contingent
solely on their loved one's recovery.
Evidence-Based Foundation and Research Support
The book's recommendations are grounded in
decades of research on behavior change, addiction
treatment, and family therapy. The authors present
scientific evidence throughout the text, challenging
readers to move beyond intuition-based or culturally-
transmitted beliefs about addiction and recovery.
Research on CRAFT consistently demonstrates its
effectiveness compared to other family intervention
approaches. Research on CRAFT shows that
approaching 70% of families who receive CRAFT are
able to help their loved ones start treatment within a
year (Miller, Meyers, & Tonigan, 1999). CRAFT also
helps family members improve their own lives,
whether their loved one ends up seeking treatment or
not.
These outcomes significantly exceed those of other
commonly recommended approaches. From the
limited number of research studies done on Al-
Anon/Nar-Anon, it appears that Al-Anon and Nar-Anon
improve family members' well-being, but isn't very
effective in getting the person with the addiction into
treatment (Meyers, Villanueva, & Smith, 2005). In fact,
in a study done in 1999 (Miller, Meyers, & Tonigan),
approximately 1 in 10 family members who took part
in Al-Anon were able to get their loved ones into
treatment.
Similarly, traditional intervention methods show
limited effectiveness. Research on the Johnson
Intervention shows that it can be effective for getting
people with addictions into treatment, but that only
30% of family members are willing to actually go
through with the intervention after being trained,
probably because the method is so confrontational
(Meyers et al., 2005).
The book also draws on research from motivational
interviewing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, family
systems theory, and behavioral psychology to provide
a comprehensive, evidence-based approach to family
involvement in addiction recovery.
Practical Application and Skill Development
Beyond Addiction actually teaches family members
and friends how to become empowered and make a
huge difference in a substance user's life, using an
actual plan. The book goes beyond general principles
to provide specific, actionable strategies that families
can implement immediately.
You can choose to read the book in order or skip
around, depending on what parts you think are most
important to you at any given time. There are also
interesting sidebars entitled "Good News" and "What's
Hard About This." (I especially appreciated the
"What's Hard About This" explanations, which are very
clear, concise, and informative.) This format
recognizes that families are often in crisis and may
need to access specific information quickly.
The book likely includes numerous practical
exercises, role-playing scenarios, communication
scripts, and behavioral strategies. Through guided
exercises, examples, and tips for navigating the
system, readers can tap the transformative power of
relationships for positive change and discover the
best treatment option for their loved one.
The authors recognize that implementing CRAFT
principles requires practice and skill development.
They provide realistic expectations about the
challenges involved while maintaining optimism about
the potential for positive change. It may require work,
practice, stumbles, practice and more practice — but
CRAFT also teaches you that you can help.
Communication and Relationship Strategies
A central component of the book involves teaching
family members new ways to communicate with their
loved ones about substance use and recovery.
Traditional approaches often rely on confrontation,
ultimatums, or emotional appeals, which research
shows are generally ineffective and may actually
increase resistance to change.
CRAFT-based communication strategies emphasize
empathy, respect, and collaboration rather than
confrontation and control. Family members learn to
express their concerns and needs without triggering
defensiveness or shame in their loved ones. They also
learn to listen more effectively and to understand their
loved one's perspective and motivations.
The book likely provides specific guidance on how to
have conversations about substance use, how to
express emotions without blaming or criticizing, and
how to make requests in ways that are more likely to
be heard and considered. These communication skills
benefit the entire family system, not just the specific
issue of substance use.
Behavioral Reinforcement and Natural Consequences
A key component of CRAFT involves teaching family
members how to provide positive reinforcement for
healthy behaviors while allowing natural
consequences for unhealthy behaviors. This approach
requires a sophisticated understanding of behavioral
psychology and careful application to avoid
manipulation or coercion.
Instead of an old-school intervention where the family
and friends get together and ask the person to enroll in
a rehabilitation program, the CRAFT method
encourages close significant others (which the
program calls CSOs) to reward their loved one when
they choose sobriety or show control. Another critical
aspect of this method is that it encourages families to
step back and allow bad consequences to happen
when the person consumes.
This balanced approach helps family members avoid
the extremes of either enabling substance use or
completely withdrawing support. Instead, they learn
to provide selective reinforcement that encourages
positive change while maintaining their own well-
being and safety.
The book likely provides detailed guidance on how to
identify appropriate rewards and consequences, how
to implement them consistently, and how to maintain
this approach over time. This requires ongoing
assessment and adjustment based on the loved one's
responses and changing circumstances.
Safety and Risk Management
The book addresses the reality that substance use can
sometimes involve dangerous or violent behavior.
Family members need to know how to maintain their
own safety while attempting to help their loved ones.
This includes recognizing signs of dangerous
intoxication, understanding when to call for
emergency help, and developing safety plans for high-
risk situations.
How to deal with violence and threats of violence
during the relationship with the substance misuser.
This will obviously involve putting one's safety above
the relationship and setting red lines that maintain the
CSO's safety. The authors likely provide specific
guidance on safety planning, boundary setting, and
knowing when professional intervention or legal
involvement may be necessary.
This safety-focused approach distinguishes CRAFT
from approaches that might inadvertently put family
members at risk by encouraging them to maintain
involvement in dangerous situations. The
methodology prioritizes family member safety while
still providing options for helping when it is safe to do
so.
Treatment Engagement and Navigation
One of CRAFT's primary goals is helping treatment-
resistant individuals become willing to seek
professional help. The book likely provides detailed
strategies for treatment engagement that go beyond
simply encouraging or demanding that the loved one
"get help."
CRAFT teaches family members how to identify
windows of opportunity when their loved one might be
more open to considering treatment, how to present
treatment options in appealing ways, and how to
reduce barriers to treatment engagement. This might
include practical assistance with insurance,
transportation, or scheduling, as well as emotional
support during the often-difficult process of
acknowledging the need for help.
Through guided exercises, examples, and tips for
navigating the system, readers can tap the
transformative power of relationships for positive
change and discover the best treatment option for
their loved one. The book likely provides guidance on
different types of treatment, how to evaluate
treatment quality, and how to advocate for
appropriate care.
The authors probably also address the reality that not
all treatment is effective for all people and that finding
the right fit may require trying multiple approaches.
They likely help family members understand how to
support their loved ones through treatment while
maintaining appropriate boundaries and expectations.
Long-Term Recovery Support
The book recognizes that recovery is typically a long-
term process that may involve setbacks, relapses, and
multiple treatment episodes. Family members need
strategies for providing ongoing support while
maintaining their own well-being over extended
periods.
Perhaps most importantly, the skills, strategies and
insight you gain through CRAFT are built for the long
haul: what you learn now will remain applicable
beyond your current situation; the skills are not just
useful when "trying to get him to say yes to treatment."
Saying yes matters, but what matters more are the
changes you can make in your family, because these
changes are the ones that provide the fuel for lasting
change — not just for putting out the immediate fire.
This long-term perspective helps family members
develop sustainable approaches to supporting
recovery that don't lead to burnout or resentment. The
book likely addresses how to handle relapses, how to
maintain hope during difficult periods, and how to
celebrate progress even when it falls short of
complete recovery.
Addressing Common Misconceptions and Resistance
The book directly challenges many commonly held
beliefs about addiction and family involvement that
may interfere with effective helping. Some of the
strategies in Beyond Addiction may come as a shock
to you if you're used to reading and hearing about the
old school approaches to addiction, which frequently
tell us that we are helpless when it comes to assisting
a loved one.
The authors likely address concepts like "enabling,"
"codependency," and "hitting rock bottom" that are
frequently misunderstood or misapplied. the term
codependency has always made me feel uneasy.
When you are in a non-addict relationship, it's called
being kind and caring. When one is an addict,
suddenly you are "enabling" and "codependent". The
book helps family members understand the difference
between helping and enabling while avoiding the guilt
and self-blame that often accompany these concepts.
The authors also challenge the "rock bottom"
mythology that suggests people must reach their
lowest point before they can recover. Instead, they
present evidence that early intervention and family
support can prevent some of the devastating
consequences traditionally associated with addiction
and can facilitate change at any stage of the process.
Cultural and Systemic Considerations
The book likely addresses how cultural factors,
socioeconomic status, and systemic barriers affect
both addiction development and recovery access. The
authors probably provide guidance on adapting CRAFT
principles to different cultural contexts while
maintaining respect for family values and traditions.
They likely also address systemic barriers to
treatment, including insurance limitations, wait lists,
geographic access issues, and stigma within
healthcare systems. Family members need to
understand how to navigate these systems effectively
and advocate for appropriate care for their loved ones.
The book probably provides resources for families
with limited financial means, guidance on accessing
public services, and strategies for working with
various healthcare providers, legal systems, and
social service agencies that families often encounter.
Technology and Modern Applications
While the core CRAFT principles remain consistent,
the authors likely address how modern technology
can support family efforts to help their loved ones.
This might include discussion of smartphone apps for
recovery support, online treatment options, social
media considerations, and digital communication
strategies.
The book probably also addresses how technology
can sometimes complicate addiction issues, such as
online gambling, social media-related problems, or
access to substances through online sources. Family
members need guidance on how to address these
modern challenges while applying traditional CRAFT
principles.
Companion Resources and Support Systems
The Beyond Addiction Workbook for Family and
Friends: Evidence-Based Skills to Help a Loved One
Make Positive Change serves as a companion
resource that provides additional practical exercises
and skill-building opportunities. The authors have also
developed other resources including The Parent's 20
Minute Guide and The Partner's 20 Minute Guide,
which offer specific tools and practice in evidence-
based strategies for helping a loved one change.
The Center for Motivation and Change has also
developed the Invitation to Change approach, which
blends components of community reinforcement and
family training (CRAFT), motivational interviewing (MI),
and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)
together into an accessible set of understandings and
practices that empower families to remain engaged
and effective in helping their struggling loved one.
These resources reflect the authors' commitment to
making evidence-based family support approaches
widely accessible and providing ongoing support for
families implementing these strategies.
Professional and Clinical Applications
While primarily written for families, the book also
serves as a valuable resource for healthcare
providers, counselors, and other professionals
working with addiction. Many professionals receive
limited training in family involvement or may have
been taught approaches that are less effective than
CRAFT.
The book likely provides guidance for professionals on
how to incorporate CRAFT principles into their
practice, how to support families more effectively,
and how to collaborate with family members as
partners in treatment rather than obstacles to
overcome.
Outcomes and Effectiveness
The book emphasizes that CRAFT's effectiveness
extends beyond simply getting people into treatment.
Research has shown that 7 out of 10 participants are
successful at getting their loved ones struggling with
addiction one to treatment. Research has also shown
that CRAFT participants reported lower levels of
anger, anxiety, and depression after joining the
program, independent of whether or not their loved
one gets help.
This dual benefit – helping both the identified patient
and the family members – distinguishes CRAFT from
approaches that focus solely on the person with
addiction. Family members gain valuable skills,
improved emotional well-being, and increased sense
of empowerment regardless of their loved one's
immediate response to their efforts.
Hope and Empowerment Themes
Throughout the book, the authors maintain a tone of
realistic optimism and empowerment. And have hope:
this guide is designed not only to help someone
change but to help someone want to change. This
focus on fostering intrinsic motivation rather than
applying external pressure represents a sophisticated
understanding of behavior change psychology.
The authors help family members move from feelings
of helplessness and desperation to a sense of agency
and hope. They provide evidence that change is
possible, that families can make a difference, and that
there are effective strategies available even in difficult
situations.
This is the most important new resource for the
millions of families struggling with drug and alcohol
problems, and all the hopelessness and helplessness
that goes with it. First, it provides reason for hope
based on science, not conventional wisdom. Second,
it provides a comprehensive, compassionate, and
understandable plan, not a recipe for a quick fix.
Critical Reception and Impact
The book has received widespread critical acclaim for
its innovative approach and practical utility.
Objectively written and conveyed with congenial
authority, the book offers collective hope to families of
substance abusers... Essential (Kirkus Reviews).
[Beyond Addiction's] gentle, optimistic and
explanatory approach offers hope by giving family
members outlets besides fighting, feeling stress, or
idly waiting for motivation to happen (Publishers
Weekly).
Professional endorsements highlight the book's
evidence-based approach and practical utility. Mental
health professionals have praised it as essential
reading for families dealing with addiction, and
addiction specialists have noted its potential to
transform how families approach these challenging
situations.
Conclusion
"Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help
People Change" represents a paradigm shift in
addiction treatment and family support. By combining
rigorous scientific evidence with compassionate,
practical guidance, the authors have created a
resource that empowers families to move beyond
traditional approaches that often leave them feeling
helpless and hopeless.
The book's foundation in CRAFT methodology
provides families with proven strategies for
influencing positive change while maintaining their
own well-being. The emphasis on kindness, positive
reinforcement, and non-confrontational approaches
offers a refreshing alternative to the adversarial
methods that have dominated addiction treatment for
decades.
Perhaps most importantly, the book provides hope –
hope based on scientific evidence rather than wishful
thinking. The authors demonstrate that families can
make a significant difference in their loved ones'
recovery trajectories and that change is possible even
in seemingly hopeless situations.
The comprehensive approach addresses not only
immediate crisis situations but also long-term
recovery support, family healing, and sustainable
change strategies. By recognizing that addiction
affects entire family systems and that recovery
requires ongoing support, the authors provide a
roadmap for families to navigate both immediate
challenges and long-term recovery processes.
Through its combination of scientific rigor, clinical
expertise, and compassionate wisdom, "Beyond
Addiction" has established itself as an essential
resource for anyone seeking to help a loved one
overcome addiction while maintaining their own
health and well-being. The book's influence extends
beyond individual families to shape professional
practice and public policy discussions about the role
of families in addiction treatment and recovery.
This revolutionary approach to family involvement in
addiction recovery has the potential to transform
countless lives by moving beyond punishment and
confrontation toward collaboration and support. In
doing so, it offers not just new strategies but a
fundamentally different way of understanding
addiction, recovery, and the healing power of human
relationships guided by both science and kindness.
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