Strength-Based Coaching Essentials
Strength-Based Coaching Essentials
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Contents
Chapter 1 - A weakness versus Strength Perspective............................................................................. 4
Chapter 2 - Defining Strengths...................................................................................................................... 16
Chapter 3 - Strength-based Practice........................................................................................................... 22
Chapter 4 - The tools in this book ................................................................................................................ 28
This product was created for everyone who aims to increase well-being by adopting
a positive focus. All the tools in this product were designed to identify and build the
best in people by focusing on their personal strengths. We hope this product will help
you to explore and maximize your own potential and the potential of others.
A WEAKNESS
VERSUS
STRENGTH
PERSPECTIVE
The question “What is wrong with people?” has guided the thinking of many
psychologists and dominated countless scientific studies during the 20th century. It is
hard to deny that it is an important question. In our attempts to answer the question,
we have gained an improved understanding of many illnesses and have developed
effective treatments for a wide range of problems. However, as an inevitable
consequence of asking ourselves about distress and disease, we limited our focus in
the research to pathology. The science focused disproportionately on pathology and
repair, and devoted relatively little attention to factors that make life worth living.
A WEAKNESS FOCUS
In a clinical context, this means that the focus is on behavioral or cognitive patterns
that cause suffering and reduce well-being. For instance, a psychologist is only
focusing on the problems that the client experiences. Using this perspective, he may
discover that the client thinks negatively about the past and has trouble dealing with
these thoughts. The idea behind the weakness focus may seem intuitive: by fixing
the weakness, we aim to increase well-being. As we will see, this view is far from
complete and suffers from some fundamental misconceptions about well-being.
After World War II, psychology became a science largely devoted to curing illness.
As a consequence, a disproportionate amount of studies in psychology focused
on psychopathology and factors that make life dysfunctional. In contrast, little
research in the years that followed World War II focused on the factors that promote
psychological well-being. For instance, an analysis of the ratio of positive to negative
subjects researched in the psychology publications from the end of the 19th century
to the year 2000 revealed a ratio greater than 2:1 in favor of the negative topics
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In this picture, -5, represents suffering from problems, 0 represents no suffering from
these problems anymore and +5 represents a flourishing, fulfilled life. The disease
model is focused on the -5 to 0 part. Interventions that are grounded in this model
have the goal of helping people to move from -5 to 0.
In a clinical context, this could mean that a therapist aims to reduce symptoms
and to prevent relapse. The end goal (0-point) is achieved when the client is no
longer experiencing diagnosable symptoms of psychopathology as described in the
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM).
In the context of performance in the business world, this could mean that
an employee takes part in a training program that aims to increase his sales
competencies. Here, the end goal is achieved when the employee is no longer
performing below the desired standard (i.e., he is meeting the required number
of sales). In other words, the focus is on repairing damage in an effort to eliminate
problems.
“Weaknesses are the things at which you both perform poorly and find de-energizing
or draining. When weaknesses are used, they lead to feelings of negativity,
disengagement, and lack of motivation.” (p. 68 Linley et al., 2010)
Draining
Bad performance
Low levels of motivation
Resistance
Negative emotions
Boredom
Frustration
Guilt
Stress
Notice that weaknesses, as we have discussed, are not necessarily clinical deficits.
In the context of hardship, the nature of the weakness is often more severe. For
instance, a client may cope with excessive negative thinking or experience high levels
of anxiety. In this context, weakness consists of patterns of behaving and thinking
that are seriously affecting well-being. Examples include negative thinking about the
past, suppressing difficult emotions, acting aggressively in the eye of frustration, etc.
Examples of negative emotions that typically follow from this kind of weakness:
Fear
Anxiety
Anger
In general, the negative emotions that follow from self-destructive thinking and
behaviour are more severe and intense compared to the emotions that follow from
ineffective performance. Notice that, although the nature of the self-destructive
weakness may be different compared to the more performance-related types of
weakness, the essence remains the same: A weakness prevents us from flourishing. It
prevents us from living a life that is in line with our values and desires.
Although the disease model has been the dominant view for many researchers
and practitioners, there are some important misconceptions that have often been
neglected or overlooked. The awareness of these misconceptions has contributed
to the development of positive psychology as we know it today. In this section, we
discuss some essential misconceptions that are based on the focus of the disease
model.
Underlying the weakness focus of the disease model is the belief that fixing what
is wrong will automatically establish well-being. However, as counterintuitive as
it may sound, happiness and unhappiness are not on the same continuum. Positive
affect is not the opposite of negative affect (Cacioppo & Berntson 1999). Getting
rid of anger, fear, and depression will not automatically cause peace, love, and joy.
In a similar way, strategies to reduce fear, anger, or depression are not identical to
In support of this view, a growing body of research shows that the absence of
mental illness does not imply the presence of mental health. In a similar vein, the
absence of mental health does not imply the presence of mental illness. In a study
by Keyes (2005), the emotional, psychological, and social well-being of more than
3,000 Americans between the ages of 25 and 75 was measured. In addition, using a
diagnostic interview, the presence of the following four psychological disorders was
assessed: mood disorder, generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, and alcohol
dependence. Several models for explaining the relationship between the measures
of well-being and psychopathology were tested. The so-called “two continua
model” appeared to be best in explaining the findings. In this model, well-being and
psychopathology are two different, but related constructs. Although a higher score
on subjective well-being correlates with less psychological complaints and vice versa,
this relationship is far from perfect. In other words, there are people who suffer from
a disorder, but still experience a relatively high level of subjective well-being, and
there are people who report low levels of subjective well-being but experience little
psychopathological symptoms. This model has been replicated in other studies using
different measures and populations, for instance, in American adolescents between
12 and 18 years (Keyes, 2006), South African adults (Keyes et al., 2008), and Dutch
adults (Lamers et al., 2011).
Further support for the idea that it is not merely a reduction in negative states
that reflects effective coping comes from the literature on post-traumatic growth.
Post-traumatic growth is the development of a positive outlook following trauma
(Tedeschi & Calhoun, 1996, 2004). Positive changes may include a different way of
relating to others, awareness of personal strength, spiritual changes, and increased
appreciation for life (Tedeschi & Calhoun, 2004). Post-traumatic growth can be
perceived as an effective way of coping with adversity. It can emerge following
a diversity of traumatic events, including war and terror (Helgeson, Reynolds, &
Tomich, 2006). Growth following adversity, however, is not the absence of post-
traumatic stress reactions, but the presence of positive states.
According to Clifton and Nelson (1996), the behaviour and mindset of many
teachers, employers, parents, and leaders are guided by the implicit belief that
optimal performance results from fixing weaknesses. Indeed, in order to promote
professional development, employees are typically exposed to training programs
that focus on correcting their weakness. In a similar vein, evaluation interviews
often focus on areas that need improvement and aspects of work that employees are
typically struggling with. A similar pattern can be found at many schools. Typically,
the number of mistakes/errors are highlighted when work is corrected and when
report cards are brought home, the lower grades often attract more attention.
According to Clifton and Nelson (1996), fixing or correcting weakness will not result
in an optimally functioning person or organization. In their view, fixing weakness will
at best help the individual or organization to become normal or average. It seems
hard to deny that they have a point here. When I consider one of my own weakness,
statistics, I must agree that all the training programs that I participated in made me
at best average. Over the years, I have developed sufficient skills to deal with most
statistical tasks, but when I compare myself to some of my mathematically gifted
colleagues, I am not even close, despite all of my hours of training. Research findings
show that the opportunity to do what one does best each day, that is, using strengths,
is a core predictor of workplace engagement (Harter, Schmidt, & Keyes, 2002), which,
in turn, has been repeatedly shown to be an important predictor of performance
(see, for instance, Bakker & Matthijs, 2010; Salanova et al, 2005). These findings
indirectly support Clifton and Nelson’s claim that boosting a strength’s use, rather
than improving weaknesses, will contribute to optimal performance.
In 1998, Martin Seligman strongly encouraged the field of psychology to widen its
scope and move beyond human problems and pathology. According to Seligman
(2002), the goal of positive psychology is to move people not from -3 to 0 but from
+2 to +5 (see fig. 2). In order to do so, a different focus is needed. Rather than merely
focusing on what is wrong with people and fixing their problems, the focus should
also be on what is right with people and boosting their [Link] questions that
positive psychology aims to answer are: What are the characteristics of the people
that experience high levels of happiness? What are the qualities of the people that
surmount their troubles so effectively? Or, in other words, what strengths do these
people possess? Obviously, these questions do not fit the disease model. These
questions force us to consider the bigger question of “What is right with people?”
If we learn what differentiates happy and resilient people from unhappy and non-
resilient people, then we can use this knowledge to increase happiness and boost the
resilience of others.
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CRITICAL NOTES
At first glance, the previously discussed misconceptions about a deficit focus may
give rise to the idea that one should predominantly focus on human strengths,
rather than weaknesses. While it may be true that correcting weakness will
not create optimal performance or well-being, it is also true that only focusing
on human strengths while ignoring weaknesses will not automatically lead to
optimal performance or well-being. Especially when weaknesses cause problems
or hinder optimal strength use, they need to be addressed and managed. While
many traditional psychologists may falsely believe that taking away negatives will
automatically create positives, positive psychologists must avoid the trap of believing
Defining
Strengths
The research on human strengths that has been conducted in the past 30 years can
generally be divided into two categories. The first line of research has addressed
human strengths from a perspective that is focused on optimal performance and
positive experiences. Here, we will refer to this focus as “strengths in the context of
performance.” The second line of research has predominantly focused on strengths in
the context of hardship and problems. We will refer to this focus as “strengths in the
context of hardship.” Note that this distinction is far from perfect and, in some cases,
strengths may apply to both contexts. However, for the sake of clarity, we distinguish
here between both contexts.
Pre-existence
A strength is pre-existing, which means that it is already present within us. As Alex
Linley states: it is not something which is “added in” to us from the outside. This is the
reason why many strengths are often visible at an early age. Many of the
strengths that we as adults display or use, like, for instance, creativity, are also
reflected by the preferred activities in our childhood. Pre-existing means it is already
there, but it does not mean that every person has used or developed his or her
strengths equally. While some people use their strengths on a daily basis. For others,
their strengths remain relatively unused.
Authenticity
A strength is authentic. When people use their strengths they feel like their true
selves. In other words, using a strength feels natural. Some people say: “I feel this is
something I was born to do.”
Energy
Using a strength is energising. Perhaps this is one of the most important
characteristics of a strength. While our weaknesses often drain us, strengths provide
Optimal Functioning
Using a strength promotes optimal functioning, development, and performance.
When people use their strengths, they enjoy what they are doing. The focus is on
the process, rather than on the outcome of the activity. As a result of this intrinsic
motivation, in many cases a high level of performance is achieved.
So, there is an internal drive to use strengths, rather than the outside world
requiring or pushing the individual to use strengths. Because of this internal drive,
development of strengths is often a natural and self-guided process.
Table 1.
Confident
Difficult times are part of life. Failing an exam, losing a loved one, physical illness; the
question is not if these events will happen, but rather when they will happen. While
it is hard, if not impossible, to circumvent difficult events from happening, one can
choose how to deal with these hardships and with the emotions that are present.
Research has identified characteristics that allow humans to effectively cope with
difficult times.
“the capacity to cope with difficulties, to maintain functioning in the face of stress, to
bounce back in the face of significant trauma, to use external challenges as a stimulus
for growth, and to use social supports as a source of resilience” (p. 203, McQuaide &
Ehrenreich, 1997).
Thus, when considering strengths in the context of hardship, the emphasis is on their
power to increase resilience and cope with difficulties, rather than on the positive
emotions, energy, and high performance that may result from using them.
First, talents and abilities on the face of it seem more innate, more immutable,
and less voluntary than strengths. Second, talents and abilities seem valued more
for their tangible consequences (acclaim, wealth) than in their own right. Indeed,
someone who “does nothing” with a talent like a high IQ courts eventual disdain.
In contrast, we never hear the criticism that a person did nothing with his or her
kindness or authenticity.
Talents are strengths that are innate abilities, which typically have a strong
biological loading, and may or may not be well-developed (e.g., intelligence,
musical ability, athletic ability).
Skills are strengths that are specific proficiencies developed through training
(e.g., learning a particular trade, computing skills, researching skills)
Interests are areas or topics an individual is passionate about and driven to
pursue, such as playing sports, engaging in particular hobbies, and working with
arts or crafts.
Values are enduring beliefs, principles, or ideals that are of prime importance to
the individual.
Strengths are a set of individual differences. People vary in the degree to which
they possess certain strengths and people have different combinations of strengths.
Even if two people possess the same set of strengths, they are very likely to display
the strengths in different ways. For example, the strength of “creativity” can be
expressed beyond the traditional and stereotypical manifestations, like painting
or writing music. Some people are very creative in finding solutions for complex
commercial problems, while others may be creative in formulating novel and
interesting research ideas, etc. When spotting strengths, it is important to have an
open mindset and remember that strengths can be expressed in many different ways.
The fact that strengths illustrate interpersonal differences is also visible in human
behaviour. Strengths guide our thoughts, feelings, and actions. For instance, a person
with the strength of forgiveness is likely to think, feel, and behave differently when
offended by another person than a hateful person who seeks revenge. Likewise, a
person with a high level of self-regulation will probably be better able to cope with
temptation than a person who is highly impulsive.
Strengths-based
Practice
According to Saleebey (2010), Strength-Based Practice (SBP) means that “everything
you do as a helper will be based on facilitating the discovery and embellishment,
exploration, and use of clients’ strengths and resources in the service of helping them
achieve their goals and realize their dreams (p. 1).” Strength-based practice is based
on the view that the identification and utilization of a client’s strengths will allow
them to regain power over their lives (Greene, Lee, & Hoffpauir, 2005). SBP means
that attention is devoted to what is already working, positive exceptions to problems,
and coping strategies that the client is already using (Saleebey, 2006). This type of
attention allows clients to become aware of their own power and autonomy. In turn,
this realization can positively affect the investment of clients and their willingness to
take action.
Over the years, different strength approaches have been developed. The most well-
known and most commonly used approaches include the Values in Action Survey, The
R2 Strengths Profiler, and the Clifton StrengthFinder 2.0. Each of these approaches
attempts to measure a fixed set of strengths. It is important to note that, although
there is some overlap in terms of strengths, a great amount of strengths are unique
for each assessment. For instance, while the strength “humour” is included in both
the Values in Action Survey and The R2 Strengths Profiler, the strength “narrator” is
only part of the latter approach.
The tools presented in this book were designed to be used in a wide variety of
contexts, including:
Coaching
Clinical Practice
Leadership and talent development
Team building
Organizational development
Performance management
Talent selection
Recruitment
Executive and workplace coaching
Career planning
Student and teacher development
Resilience and well-being development
Note that you are advised to use the tools within the boundaries of your professional
expertise. For instance, if you are a certified clinician, you are allowed to use the tools
within your field of expertise (clinical psychology). Likewise, a school teacher may
use the tools in the classroom, but is not allowed (or not advised) to use the tools for
clinical populations. Positive Psychology Program is not responsible for unauthorized
usage of the tools.
It is further important to note that the tools presented in this product are not, in
themselves, a coaching curriculum that one imposes on a client or group. They are
a set of tools and procedures that are designed to accomplish coaching goals. They
are intended to be used selectively—for a particular client or group, for a particular
issue, for a particular purpose, whether that purpose is to clarify strengths or use it
to increase strengths use.
LEGAL NOTES
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Strength-Based Coaching package.
All of the tools are written in a uniform format. Below the title of each tool, a legend
is displayed. Here, we explain what every symbol of the legend means.
The first icon shows the type of tool. The following options are available:
Exercise (a tool that describes an activity that is done once, during a session)
Overview (a tool that provides an overview or list of something; research
findings, facts, etc.)
Advice (a tool that is directed at the helping professional providing advice on
how to carry out a certain activity)
Intervention (a tool that describes an activity that needs to be done two or more
times during a certain period)
The second icon provides an estimation of the time it takes to complete the tool. For
some tools, it is difficult to provide an estimation. In these cases, n/a (not available) is
written. The third icon describes for whom the tool was designed.
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