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Group Counselling Session Plan
Theme: “Letting Go: Shame, Guilt, and the Path to Forgiveness”
Duration: 90 minutes
Group Size: 12 participants
Facilitator: Riobah Chisose (internship psychologist)
Location: Chipadze Rehabilitation and Detox centre
Setting: Safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space
Reason for Group Therapy
Substance use often coexists with deep emotional wounds—shame from past actions, guilt
over relationships harmed, and a longing for forgiveness that feels out of reach. Group
therapy offers:
- A shared space for reflection and emotional release
- Peer validation that reduces isolation and self-stigma
- A chance to reframe personal narratives and build hope
- Tools to rebuild self-worth and foster accountability
Participant Profile
- Age Range: 20–45
- Profession: Mixed (e.g., laborers, teachers, entrepreneurs, unemployed)
- Commonality: All participants are in recovery from alcohol and/or substance use
Topics to Be Discussed
1. Understanding Shame vs. Guilt
- Definitions and emotional impact
- How shame attacks identity (“I am bad”)
- How guilt relates to behavior (“I did something bad”)
- Group reflection: “What are you ashamed of? What do you feel guilty about?”
2. The Role of Addiction in Emotional Avoidance
- How substances numb painful emotions
- The cycle of guilt → use → shame → isolation
- Group activity: Mapping your emotional triggers
3. Forgiveness: What It Is and What It Isn’t
- Forgiveness as a process—not a one-time event
- Self-forgiveness vs. seeking forgiveness from others
- Myths: “Forgiving means forgetting” or “I don’t deserve forgiveness”
- Guided visualization: “Writing a letter to your past self”
4. Rebuilding Self-Worth
- Affirmations and reframing negative self-talk
- Sharing personal strengths and survival stories
- Group exercise: “One thing I’m proud of today”
5. Making Amends and Moving Forward
- Exploring the 12-step concept of making amends
- Role-play: How to apologize meaningfully
- Planning small acts of repair (e.g., reconnecting with family, volunteering)
Why This Talk Matters
- Shame and guilt are relapse triggers if left unaddressed
- Forgiveness fosters emotional resilience and motivation
- Group sharing builds trust, empathy, and accountability
- Participants learn they are not alone in their pain or healing
- It opens the door to restorative relationships and community reintegration