BDSM Check-List

The first BDSM checklist was initially created, it seems, by Tammad.

Rimilia.
I am proposing here a reinterpretation of the Alpha Male version that I found on the web and which
seems to me the most complete possible.

It includes items that may shock you because they do not fit into your vision.
du BDSM.
But it is important to mention, even though the human spirit means that this list is not
will never be exhaustive, providing the most comprehensive overview of practices to be the most
as precise as possible.

The primary purpose of this list is to offer the submitted person the opportunity to give their
opinion or openly confessing one's likes and dislikes for such or such a practice that could come
to graft oneself into the domination-submission relationship before any practices and commitment.
But it is also the opportunity given to the Dominant person to lay out their own
practices.
The list includes titles of practices that sometimes suffer from their original English.
The dominant person and the submissive person must fill out each column honestly.
without worrying about the positive or negative influence that their answers might have on the other. The
But here is the knowledge of the other, and honesty is required - this form should not be taken.
like a wish list, neither on one side nor the other.
The dominant person and the submissive person will have to make choices, re-read once or
two, compare and possibly correct the items they rated similarly, then acknowledge the fact
that a simple list cannot perfectly reflect his tastes and fears in any case - without
talk about the fact that these tastes change and evolve over time.
The generated result will be, like many things, a valuable tool for the person.
dominant passionate about his submissive person.
For more precision on the purpose and use of the checklist, this article is at your disposal.
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BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 1
 User manual
This questionnaire must be completed honestly, without shame and without any intentions of manipulation.
For each item, you will need to indicate:

In the first column, Tried

Oh yes if you have already practiced this activity.
N for no if you have never practiced it.
if the activity does not apply to you, to your gender, etc.

In the second column, Desire, a number from 0 to 5...

0 - No desire.
1 - Don't feel like it. But maybe with a lot of time and patience...
3 – Meh... Neither desire nor no desire.
4 - Send
5 – Very, very eager!

In the third column, Difficulty, a number from 0 to 5, or an N:

0 - No problem doing that
Quite easy
Not really easy to achieve
3 - Difficult, but I'm ready for it
4 - Very difficult: I am ready, but be very careful
5 - Limit: I do not accept in the current state of things
N – Categoric refusal

If for example you have no attraction to wearing a necklace, or even a certain

repulsion, but that you would feel ready to wear it to please your person
Dominant, provided that it does not abuse it, you can indicate a 0 for taste and a 4 for
the difficulty (keep in mind that a 0 in the first column does not mean a refusal in itself at all,
but a lack of interest or disgust. If your message is meant to be a refusal, then enter a 0, and a
N in the Difficulty column.
N'hésitez pas à compléter le présent questionnaire de façon à inclure toute information que vous
judge pertinent and/or that the other should know.
You can even add entries of your choice to this list.
But I wouldn't recommend taking any away. You never know. One person's kink is not another person's kink.
And knowing as much as possible before diving in is, for me, the minimum.
Finally, all of you, if you have any suggestions to improve the list... I am at your disposal here:
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BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 2
 The questionnaire

Bondage games –
Tried Send Difficulty Observations

Description
Light bondage
Bondage (heavy, difficult)
Bondage (long period)
Bondage (in public, underwear)
Bondage with ropes
Complex bondage with rope (Shibari)
Bondage with chains
Bondage with straps
Handcuffs (in leather)

Strap handcuffs
Handcuffs (in metal)
Arm binders (arm immobilization sleeve)
Complex leather restraint equipment
Harness Harness (rope)
Harness Harness (leather)
Straightjacket

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 Tried Send Difficulty
Hands tied behind the back
Hands attached in front
Tied feet
Standing attaché with arms raised spread or not
Arms attached behind and raised
Suspension in standing position
Suspender bras attached at the back
Suspension (upside down)
Suspension (horizontal)
Attached on trestle / donkey
Crucifixion (e.g. St. Andrew's cross)
Pillory (put up)
Mummification
Wrapped in plastic wrap ("Saran Wrap")
Sleep attached
Leashed / on a long line (in private)
Leashed / on a long leash (in a restricted circle)
Leashed / on a long leash (in public)
Baton (cloth)
Gag (ball gag, harness)
Duct tape
Eye mask
Hood covering the entire head (to wear)
Spacers

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Domination – Description
tried Send Difficulty

Kneel (to)
Colliers (carried privately)
Colliers (carried in a limited circle)
Colliers (brought to the public)

Competition (with other submitted individuals)

Control of the use of the bathroom
Control of toilet use
Homework (studies, exercises to be done alone)
Physical exercise, gymnastics (forced and mandatory)
Harems (servitude with other submissive people)
Homage with the tongue (non-sexual)
Humiliation (in private)
Humiliation (in a small circle)
Humiliation (in public)
verbal humiliation
Include other people
Initiation (rites of)
Interrogations
Board games in private
Board games with other people
Standing in the corner (on restriction)
Obey the orders

BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 5/15
 Tried Send Difficulty
Wear symbolic jewelry
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (hair)
Restrictive remote behavior rules
Restriction of speech (when, what)
Sleep restriction
Restriction of visual contacts
Restriction of the senses, sensory deprivation
Rituals
To be lent to another dominant person
To be given to another dominant person
To be imposed with food
Getting "branded"
Sermon, lesson in case of misbehavior
Serve other dominant people (supervised)
Serve other dominant people (unsupervised)
Imposed servitude
Housework (to do)
Pulling hair (to get oneself)

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 Tried Send Difficulty
Sexual practices -
Description
Analingus (giving)
Analingus (receiving)
Swallowing sperm
Forced chastity
Orgasm control
Denial of orgasm, frustration
Kali's Tooth, or 'Gates of Hell' (man)
anal dilation
Vaginal dilation
Dildo, godemiché (sucker)
Dildo, phallic (penetrated by)
Dildo, strap-on (to wear)
Double penetration
Fellatio or cunnilingus (to give)
Fellatio or cunnilingus (receiving)
Fisting (anal)
Vaginal fisting
Imposed homosexuality
Forced masturbation
Tried Send Difficulty
Sexual intercourse

BDSM Checklist created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 7/15
Receive (sexual) services
Sexual restriction (short term)
sexual restriction (long term)
Manual services (give)
Manual services (to receive)
Outdoor sex
Anal sex
Anal sex - Insertion of objects, small (Anal plugs)
Anal sex - Insertion of objects, large (Anal plugs)
Anal sex - object play, in public, underwear
Phone sex (at the service of the dominant person)
Phone sex (for the service of another, imposed)
Anal Speculums
Vaginal Speculums
Triple penetration

BDSM Checklist created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 8/15
 Tried Send Difficulty
Supplicants, sweet or more
durs - Description
gentle correction (to receive a)
correction due (to receive a)
Spankings etc.
Standing or kneeling spanking

Spanking 'on the lap'

Spanking with a hairbrush
Slaps to the face
Claps on the breasts
Whipping (to be whipped) and other forms of flogging
Whip the buttocks
Whip the thighs (back)
Whip the thighs (front)
Whip the calves
Whip the breasts
Whip the back
Whip the belly
Whip the sex/genitals
Whip the whole body
Whipping tools
Tried Send Difficulty
Baguettes / rods

BDSM Checklist created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 9/15
Flexible cane
Rigid cane
whip
Martinet
Strip whip
Equestrian dressage whip
Strapping (fastened with strap, belt...)
Single tail whip
Wooden paddles
Spiky branches
Other tortures
Needles (in the body in general)
Needles (in the breasts)
Needles (in the genital areas)
Burns (cigarettes, ...)
Chalumeau
Hot wax
Cut (oneself)
Electric heat gun
Electricity (electric racket, violet wand, tens units...)
Fireplay
Knifeplay
Clothespins on the body
Tried Send Difficulty
Clamps to the breasts

BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 10/15
Weight on the breasts

Pulling or twisting the genitals with the fingers

Pulling or twisting the nipples / breasts with the fingers
Water torture - drinking, enemas...
Torture of the genitals
Tormentor (teasing)

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 Tried Send Difficulty
Fantasies or desires
diverse - Description
Erotic abrasions (frictions)
Adoration/Worship of boots/shoes (boot worship)
Adoration/Veneration of the penis/genital parts
Adoration/Veneration of the feet
Adoration/Veneration of high heels
Asphyxia, control of breathing
Swallowing urine
Catheter (receive, catheterization)
Tickles
Chastity belts
Cells/Closets (to get locked in)
Ice cubes
Control of breathing
Brown shower (excrement)
Golden shower (urine)
Swap (with another couple)
Exchange (several pairs)
Scratches (to receive)
Scratches (to give)
Tried Send Difficulty
Abduction (scenario)

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Pony slave
Strangulation
Exams (physics)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (foreigners)
Public exhibition
Fetishism (nylon stockings, other clothing, etc.)
Provide new partners for the dominant person
Hot oil (on genitals)
Hypnotism
Injections
Age games (role-playing games)

Animal games (role-playing games)

Play the dog (role-playing game)
Enema - anal
Vaginal douching
Licking (non-sexual)
Wrestling
Massage (give)
Massage (to receive)
Auction (loan, sale)
Piercing (temporary, 'play-piercing')
Piercing (permanent)
Tried Send Difficulty
Photographed (private use / face masked)

BDSM Check-List created by The Girl from Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 13/15
Photographed (restricted distribution)
Photographed (public use)
Scene outside
Prison scene
Medical scene
Religious scene
To be bitten
Serve (servant)
Serve as art
Serve as an ashtray
Serve as a maid
Serve as furniture
Serve as a toilet
Serve as a waiter/waitress
Abandon simulation
Simulation of a rape (by a person)
Simulation of a rape (by a group of people)
Tattoo
Video (watching other people)
Video (recording of yourselves)
Voyeurism (watching other people)
Voyeurism (your dominant person with others)

Tried Send Difficulty

Clothing - Description
BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 14/15
Corsets (wear)
Domestic (French maid)
Imposed partial or complete nudity (in private)
Partial or complete nudity imposed (in the presence of others
people)
Being imposed clothing
Uniforms
Leather clothing
Latex/rubber clothing
Lycra clothing ("spandex")
Daring clothing (in private)
Daring clothes (in a limited circle)
Daring clothing (in public)

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BDSM Check-List created by La Fille de Mars based on the document by Khayyam & Male-alpha page 15/15