The model of affection in
a relationship
Sexual contact
Trustworthiness Commitment
Knowledge Trust after marriage
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Time
Touches
Presents
Help Words
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Words
Words of encouragement,
commend
You are so beautiful in this dress!
What a tasty potatoes! You cook
wonderfully!
Thank you for taking kids to the
kindergarten!
Do not use commend to get your wish. It’s not
about love. Commend your partner to give
him/her joy.
Encouraging words
You will succeed!
With your smartness they will employ you
everywhere!
You write wonderfully.
Support. Do not press on your partner so that
he/she do something about which he/she is not
interested in.
Kind voice
Politeness.
To forgive and to seek forgiveness.
To issue problems as softly as possible.
Asking, not requiring.
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Time
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
When my partner and me sit
nearby and speak for 20
minutes, we give one to
Time another 20 minutes of our life.
This time cannot be back, so
we have given to each other a
part of our lives.
This is how the love is
expressed.
Be together
Pay attention to each other.
Do something together.
No matter what do you do, the most
important that you do it together.
Two people sitting in the same room are not
necessarily together.
Conversation
Look into each other's eyes.
Confidential friendly conversation; exchange
of thoughts, feelings, desires.
Listening with compassion and patience.
Asking questions sincerely trying to
understand thoughts, desires and
feelings.
What is needed is not advice, but
understanding.
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Presents
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
It is a present that you
can pick up and say:
“He has thought of me”
or “She has
remembered me.” After
all, to give someone a
present you have to
think about him/her.
A present is a symbol of
thinking. No matter how
much money have you
spent. The main thing is
that you have thought
about the person.
The only thing that is
Presents precious is your thinking
about the person which
is reflected in the gift.
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Help
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
To help means to do
something for your
partner. It takes time and
efforts. And if you help
your partner with
pleasure you express
your love.
Help
Service
Making bed
Cooking dinner
Changing baby’s diapers
Vacuuming
Walking his/her dog
Requests, not requirements!
You may need to change your popular
imaginations about what does a husband do
and what does a wife do
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
Touches
5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE
For some people this is
the only way to feel the
love. They need to hold
someone’s hand. They
need to be kissed and Touches
hugged. Then their
vessels of love are filled
and they know that
they are loved.
Otherwise they are not
sure about the love of
the spouse.
Touches
Holding hands
Spontaneous touches
Hugs
Kisses
Massage
Sex (after marriage)
"My soul lives in my body. Touching to my
body means touching me.
Rejecting my body means being away from
me."
Which language of love
is mine?
What does hurt you? The opposite
thing is maybe your language.
How do you imagine your perfect
spouse? Maybe the way you imagine
you want the love is expressed for you.
How do you express your love? This is
probably your language of love.
