feat: change query parameter to query_or_table in read_gbq

[ashleyxuu]

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Fixes #<issue_number_goes_here> 🦕

[tswast]

Quick feedback: The commit subject doesn't communicate everything the user needs to know. I update the PR title, but ideally the commit message would reflect this too.