This will execute $cmd in the background (no cmd window) without PHP waiting for it to finish, on both Windows and Unix.
<?php
function execInBackground($cmd) {
if (substr(php_uname(), 0, 7) == "Windows"){
pclose(popen("start /B ". $cmd, "r"));
}
else {
exec($cmd . " > /dev/null &");
}
}
?>