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pox 1a1oT GecKOHeYHEIe ClO*KHOCTH, NPOOMeMBI M HeyHoG6cTBA.
Bee omn6xu, onMcaHHble B KHMTe, MMeIOT PA OOMINX YepT.
. OHM BOSHHKAaNOT B mpomecce pasMbUUsIeHHit.
. Cosqalor 118 Hac cepbesunie saTpyquenua.
|. OnM sacTaBiAioT Hac UyECTBORAaTS ceOa MpocTo yxKAcHO.
. Wx JoBonbHO Jerko usbexarTE.
. OHH BleKyT 3a COCO HeNpuATHEIe MOCMeACTBUA, KOTOPLIX MOT~
JO ObI H He GbITS, ecu GObI MBI Jamu cee Tpyz CHOKOMHO MU pa-
3YMHO OCMBICIIMTS COOHITHA.
oR wpe
Mo6nan3zauma cunbi pasyma
Virax, 8 oToi KHUTe paccMaTpHBAIOTCA OMIMOKM, KOTOpEIe CoBep-
MawTca B TeX CYUAAX, KOTPa veMOBeKy He yaeTCH MCHOMb3OBaT
BCe MpeuMylyectBa, Japyembie emy ciocobHocTb MEICuTE. IIpo-
cueTEI, JONycKaeMbIe YMHEIMM JIOAbMU, YTpaTHBOMMU KONTAKT
cO 3qpaBbIM cMEIcIOoM. Mzi nompo6yem paso6patica, Kak BHOHeE
pasyMHBie 0AM GyKBaIbHO 6o10y.mbleaiom ceGe TpyAHOCTH, CKaH-
AasrbI, pasouapoBaHUA, Tpexorn, Aenpeccuu M HecuacTLA AJIMHOIO
B KM3Hb. Mx OMMOKM rtyMbI He MOTOMY, UTO yueHBIe 00M HaBe-
CHIH Ha HUX TaKOi HeHay4HbIii APAEIK, a OTOMY, UTO TAK MX BIIO-
CleACTBMM HasbIBaloT CaM J0Au, donycmueumue nenbLe NDOMAaXU.
Mz ropopuM 06 ommm6Kax, Ipo KOTOpEle Heb3A TOUHO CKasaT,
4TO MMCHHO CJe1aHO HelpaBMJIbHO; M3BeCTHO TOIBKO OfHO — Fema
NOMI BKPUBE UM BKOcK. Hama KHUra TOMOKeT BaM HayaMTECA14 Q 10 rayneiwnx ownGor, Kotopple cosepwatT mogn
pacnosHaBaTb MaO10HbI MBIUIeHUA. Oa HAyIMT Bac AHAU3HpO-
BATb Pyke OMIMOKH, eC OHM OLLIM AONyUeHEI, u npednpunu-
MaMb XOMA Obl uMoO-mo 6 Ux OMHOWERHUU.
Hossrit o6pas Mpicneit HsMeHHT HM Ballle BocIpunTue coOcTBeH-
HOii JMYHOCTH, H OTHOIIeHMe K OKPy2xalomemy Mupy. But nomyauTe
BOSMO2KHOCTS Upecbpas0BaTb CBOIO 2KM3Hb. Kak TOAbKO BbI Haya
TeCh UCMPaBIATb OMMOKU MBIUIeHMA, BbI BbI,eTe Ha IIMpPOKY10
TIpAMy10 MarucTpasb KUSHH.
AukKeTa Mactepa owu60K
B pasHbie MOMeHTEI KUSH — BHe 3ABUCHMOCTH OT ypOBHA pasBu-
TMA MHTeIeKTa — BEI HaBepHAKa COBepmlaIM KakHe-TO OMIMOKH,
onucaHHble B TOM KHure. BecbMa BePOATHO, YTO HEKOTOPbIe 43
HX JOCTABIANIM BAM MHOKecTBO HeupuatuocTeit. IIpeqraraemaa
BallleMy BHUMAHHI0 aHKeTa NOMOXKET BbIJeIUT Te 'aBbl KHUTU,
KOTOPEle NpeACTaBIAIOT AA Bac HANOOALINMA MHTepec.
Oueuute cBo10 peakiMio Ha NepeuncjleHHble HUKe YTREpKe-
HMA D0 urKaze oT 0 fo 4 Gan10B, NepedepKHYB KPeCTHKOM OME 13
KBafpaToR HalpoTuB KaxZoro yrRepxjenua. B Kone TecTa 7a-
JOTCA UpaButa O6paGoTKu pesyAbTAaTOB.
IIpu sni6ope onenkn uMeiite B BUY, UTO:
Q 0 Ganaox osuayaer: HuKorgza, Hu Upu KaKux OOcTosTeALCTBAX
KO MHe He IPUMeHUMO AaHHoe yTBepxTeHve;
Q 1G6ann osHauaer: ato yrnepx jeune IPMMeHMMO KO MHE TOJIBKO
BCaMBIX KpaitHMx cayuaax;
Q 2 anna osHataer: MHOrMa KO MHe IPUMeHMMo 9TO yTRepx7e-
HME;
Q 3 6anza osHauaer: sto yrRepxjeHve IPUMeHUMO KO MHe OueHE
‘dacto;
Q 46anana osnayaer: qannoe yTBep2t{qenue cipaBes.1MB0 10 OTHO-
W1eHH0 KO Mue B GombIIMHCTBE Cy4aeB.
. A common 6ypHo pearupyto 7a2Ke Ha MerKMe MpobzeMEI.
. Mens ympexator B TOM, TO 4 fesalo 43 MyxH COHa.
. A Jerko mpuxoxy B Bos6yxAeHHe.
. He cront ya2xe npoGosatb, Bce paBHo HV4Yero He BEIZeT.
. A sapanee 3Hai0, TO Bce OyJer 110x0.
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41 mory TouHO cKasaTs, 0 4eM ZyMaIOT Apyrue.
Mon 6.1uskue JonmHBI 3HATL, Yero A XOUY.
Beerga MooxHO OnpesesMTh, UTO AyMaeT YeNOBeK, NOHAGTMOAAB
3a eTO 2KeCTAMU H MUMMKOH.
AA nonaran, yTo Korga 107M IpoBOAAT MHOrO BpemeHH BMecTe,
OHM HaCTpauBaroTcs Ha MEICIM {pyr Apyra.
AA paccrpamBarocb 43-3a Toro, UTO, KaK MHe KaKeTCA, JyMaeT
Apyroit ye0Bek, a NOTOM OKasbiBaeTCA, 4TO A ObII He MpaB.
SABorzere 3a 70, 4TOOEI TIOGUMBbIe MHO10 JOAU OBI CUACTIIMBEI.
Ecam uT0-To He nomyyaeTcs, A UYBCTBYIO, UTO STO MOA BUHA.
Mena KpuTukyiT dalle, 4emM Apyrux sro0zer.
Al scerga Mory ompegesuts, Korga “es0BeK HallajaeT MMeHHO
Ha MeHA, — JaxKe ecsIM OH He yIOMMHAeT MOero UMeHH.
41 UyBCTBY10, YTO MCHA HECHpaBeLMBO OOBMHAIOT B TOM, UTO
HAXOMUTCA BHE MOETO KOHTpOIA.
Vis-sa caoeit camonayesHHocTn @ Monagao B HelIpuATHEIe cuTya-
1Mu.
Moa ysepenuocte B ceGe OTTaIKMBaeT T107eH.
A ypepeu, uTo uenonek, Jo6uBUIMiica yonexa B OHO oO6macTu,
MOXKET TOUHO TAK Ike MpeycheTs B ApyToit.
B monx mpomaxax BuHOBaTHI Apyrue.
Ho6usumes ycnexa, MoxKHO OTAOXHYTD H yepKaTEcA Ha AOC-
THIHYTOM YPOBHe 3a CUeT CHIBI MHEPIMH.
Jliogu cosHate1bHO saTparMBaioT MMeHHO Te O61acTH, B KOTO-
PLIX 4 OcobeHHO UyBCTBUTeIeH K KPUTUKe.
B ornomesuu KpuTuKu y MeHa WecToe uyscTBO. A Berga yra-
AprBaio, Kora 060 MHe roBopar.
Herarupunte 3aMeuaHHa paHAT Mews T0-HaCcTOAMeMy, T09TO-
My HHOrsa & Bllasaio B Jempeccuto.
4 cupnmy TOIBKO HeraTuBHbIe saMeyaHMa HM He saMedato T10-
XBaJl.
S[nonaraio, uTO BCe 3AMeUAHUA CTOAT OAHOTO UM TOTO Ke, OHA UM
mena.
AI paccrpawsatcb, ecru MHe He yaeTCa 3aBepIIMT Jem.
Ecru 060 MHe ToBopaT, YTO # «TaKOli KaK BCe> HIM «OfHH U3
MHOrux», A UyBCTBy10 ce6a OcKop6eHHEIM.16 OQ 10 rayneiwux own6ox, koroppe copepuiaior moan
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Jlyume a Huuero He Gy zy Je1aTb, 4eM BOsbMycb 3a paGory HMKE
MOero JOCTOHHCTBA.
J] Mena o¥eHb BaxKHO, YTOGEI JOLM BOCIPHHMMAIM MeHS Kak
yesloBeKa, HM Ha HoTy He OTcrynaioujero OT CraHAapToB Gesy-
lpeuHocru.
TJaxke camai HesHauMTeIbHAd OLIMOKAa MOET HCHOPTUTS MHE
BEC J€Hb WIM TarKe BCIO HKUSHD.
Tlo cpapHeHuto c ApyruMu «A — HeyqadHUK,
Bo ue cueH 2yx copeBHoBanua.
AI paccrpamsaiocb, Korga cubity 06 yenexax Apyrux mnojeli.
Sl nagar AyxoM OTTOrO, 4TO HAXO*Kycb He TAM, fe AoHeH OBL
6EITD.
Mue Kaxkerca, ITO CJM XOUeII NOGMTECA yerlexa, Hao MocTO-
HHO CpaBHuBATE ce6a cC APYTUMH.
Mup, 3HaeTe JIM, OUeHb ONACHOe MeCTO.
Ecuim He XO¥eIIb HMeTh HEMpPHATHOCTeH, coOTIOAali OcTOpOK-
HOCTD B CyIOBAX M enax.
He mo6m0 nompsonarsca cryuaem.
4 yllycTus XOPOLTy! BO3MOKHOCTH, NOTOMY YTO MOGOAICH PU-
CKHYTB.
Al us6erai upeznupuHuMaTb KaKue-To felicrBua us 6ossHH
TPaBMEI WIM HeyAauH.
5 ucrprrprBato 4YBCTBO BUHbI H3-3a TOTO, 4TO FONHeH Onin UTO-
TO CqeNaTh BMPOMJIOM, HO He Creat.
A cunraio, TO Hayo xKUTE No NpaBunaM.
OrasaypiBaich Ha NPOKUTY10 HKUSHb, A BHKY Sombie Heyyau,
Hexen ycrexoB.
Ha Mena JaBUT HeOOXOAMMOCTS NOCTyNaTS IpaBUIbHO.
Meus yrueraer HeoOxogMMocTh CyeaTb Bce esa.
Mue 6espas1nuHo MHeHHe OKpy2KalomHx.
Jlioqu yupekaloT MeHA B TOM, YTO 4 He yMel0 ClyIMaTb.
Korga Meus IIpocaT 410-TO cfenaTh, A OjeTHHMBAIOCh.
A C4HTAaL, ATO BCE JOJIHHO AeaATbCA O-MOeMy HJIM He Fesarb-
Cs BOBCE.
Al cKTOHeH OTKIafpIBaTb Jake OUCH, BAXKHBIe Tella U BeCbMa
MeAJINTeIeH.Beegenne )
Kak OWeHUTb pe3ynbTaT aHKeTbI
JlocmoTpute Ha pucyHOK, KOTOpbIt nozyuMica B pesysb’
uepKUBAHUA KBaspaTos. Ecru 3avepKHYTHIMH OKasaUCch B
HOM KBa{paTBl, cooTBercTBy1omjie Saam 0 u 1, To mpo6e!
cOBCeM HeMHOPO, @ 3HAUHT, HB KUSH y BAC He BOSHUKaeT OCOOBIX
saTpyAHeHUit, CBASAHHBIX C pacCCMATPHBAeMBIMH B KHUre OMIuG-
Kamu,
OyuHako MBI yBepeHBI: MHorne us uNTaTeNeH OOHapyaT, ITO
OHH 3a4ePKHYIM HeMaNO KBApATOB, COOTBETCTBYIOINMX OleHKe B
2 6anua u Bune. Hy a ecru BLI yBUAUTe HesEIe PpynMbI KpecTuKoB,
OTMe%aIONIHX OLeHKH 3 i 4, BEI NOYIUTe BOSMOKHOCTS NOHATH,
KakHe 2ke KOHKPeTHO OMIMOKH MBIMIIeHHA MpescTaBIAIOT A BAC
HanOosbIllylo oacHOcTS.
Himak, ecau evt o6napyncuau epynny Kpecmuxoe 6 Ouanasone
om 2 00 4 Oanioe:
Qa
Q
a
oooooogd
B Bonpocax 1-5 — o6parure BHUMaHHe Ha PaBy BTOpyi0;
B Bompocax 6—10 — oOpatute BHUMaHMe Ha r'laBy TpeTbIO;
B Bompocax 11-15 — o6patute BHUMaHHe Ha rmaBy 4eTBeEpTy10;
B Bompocax 16—20 — o6parure BHUMaHHe Ha rilaBy MATY10;
B Bompocax 21—25 — o6parute BHUMaHUe Ha riaRy IectTy10;
B Bompocax 26—30 — oOpaTuTe BHUMAaHHe Ha rilaBy CeqbMY10;
B Boupocax 31—35 — oOparure BHUMaHHe Ha laBy BOCbMy10;
B Bompocax 36—40 — oOparute BHHMaHHe Ha rlaBy LeBATy10;
B Bompocax 41—45 — o6paTute BHUMaHMe Ha riaBy WecaTy1o;
B Bompocax 46—50 — oOpaTuTe BHUMaHMe Ha rilaBy OAMHHAL-
maryto.fl Ke BCe npekpacHo 3Han!
TACIbHEIe ClCH M3 PUNbMOB «Muquana J2xounc» u <«Ilo-
Onrenmit KpecToBbiii WOx0g> AaloT HarAAAHbIM UpuMep u3-
BecTHOM OOMleveNOBeyeCKO TeHeHUMM «BCe 3HATb» HM OLHO-
BPeMeHHO MrHOpUpoBaTb uMelomlyiocs HEOpMalMiO.
Heycrpammumutit uccnegonatent Mnquana [Kouc u Kpacusaa,
HO C NoBagKaMN AbABONUUEI Oxp3a [lnattzep nocxe Aomrmx upu-
K0"eHHi Haxogat Casto Tpaans — Hexwii noxo2%KMit Ha Basy
UpeAMer, pau KOTOporo OHM MperepnesM BCeBOSMOAXHEIe MCIBITA-
HUA, IpeosoueRad TpyAqHOCTH UW ONnAacHOCcTH. Ho kak TomBKO OB3a
6eper Ipaanb B pyKM, HAUMHaeTCA 3eMJeTpACeHMe, NOUBA pasBep-
saeTca y Hee NO] HoraMH. BuesanHo KeEHIIMHA 3aMeuaeT, ITO OHA
Oanancupyer Hag GesquHon. M cnacaet Jubsy TombKO Maquana
U[xoxHc, OTBAaxXHO yRepKuBalomuii ee 3a pyKy.
Tpaasb BbICKaIbsblBaeT 13 APyTo pyKM *KeHUIMHDI M ayaer Ha
seMIIMHOH BEICTYT 3a MpefenaMu AOCATaemocTu HamIMx repoes.
Ob3a TAHET CBOOOAHYI0 pyKy B OTUAAHHOM MONbITKe JOOpaThca oO
Tpaaas. Unquana upeqynpexgaer, uTo y Hero He XBaTUT CuI
yuepoxatTs ee. «Jlaii MHe BTOPy!0 PyKY, — YMON#eT OH, — y MCHA HE
xBaraet cui!» OnHaKo KpacoTKa HTHOpUpyeT KMSHEHHO BaXKHEIT
UpusbiB, Ha TAHETCA K Tpaamw. WM Bor Korga HaKOHeL, B Mocrey-
HEM YCHJIMH *KeHIMHA JOTATUBACTCA 0 Yall, ee PyKa BLICKAJIb-
sbIBaeT U3 pyku Mu_uann [>xKouca, u HepasyMHan Kpacorka Je-
TUT HaBcTpery HeMMHyeMoit ruben.
Wugmana JI>xouc TombKo 4TO ene pas yOequcA, HACKOIBKO
onacHa nonzitKa ZocraTt ‘paans. MU tem He Meee uepes cekyHAy
OH CaM GaslaHcupyer Hay Mpomacti: OH ye 30dLI 6ce, 4MO BHA,Tnava 1. Ake ece npexpacho sHan! Q 19
OH JOKMasca CHOeK OUepeAM NOMbITaThCA yXBaTUTb AparoleHHy10
uaury. Ha ceit pas nanama Muquauns J[>xouca yepxut ero 3a pyky,
B TO BpeM# Kak CaM repo oruadHHO TaHerca K Tpaamo. «Jai mune
emopyi pyky, — yMoaser JI>xouc-crapmuii, — unaue a Te6a He
yaepacy!»
«Al ezo doemany!» — Kpuuut B orget Mupuana J]xouc. Ceituac
OH AYMaeT TOIBKO 0 TOM, Kak CHbHO XOUeT BaBNajeTb Tpoeem,
XOTA BCeEPO AUULS HECKONbKO MUHYM MomMYy Hazad OH 3aKInHan
Tayny!0 b3y He JexaTb sTOTO — TOUHO TAK *Ke, Kak TeMepb OTeL,
yMouser ero camoro. K cuacrsio aa Mupzmanni J]xouca 1 ero MHO-
TOUMCIECHHEIX MOKJOHHUKOB, OH BHOBb OOpeTaeT cnocobHOCTS
3]paBbO MBICIHTb.
Bot uT0 HaM HY2KHO — cHocobHOCTS ObpecTH KOHTPOJIb Hay co-
6oi mperk ye, 4eM MbI COBepINIMM YTO-TO CTpalliHoe, HeMONpaBUMoe
WIM NpocTo rtynoe. YBEI, CIMMIKOM YacTO MBI YCIemMIHO TaqaeM B
6esqHY, CO3qaHHy!0 HaluMMH COOCTBEHHEIMN «TepomuecKUMu>
ycunuamu!
Korga Hac nokwpaet pa3ym
Cay4anoce JIM C BaMH, 4TO KOrga eNO Chelako, KOra Bhi ye
cKa3asin WIM COBePMIUJIM UTO-TO, O YM CTOUT TOIBKO COKAaICTL,
JIM BbI Tak M HE PelIMJIMCb Ha COBEPIICHHO oueBHaHELL HM eQMHCT-
BeHHO pasyMHBLIii NocTyM0K, BbI MpousHocuTe c syOOBHEIM cKpe-
2keToM: «Hy Kak 4 MOP CBaJIATb TakOro Aypaka?» Bur Gpere ceba
aQOHEIO no 16y u crouere: «Bee 6r1n0 Tak npocto! Hy mouemy 2
sTOro He cfeman?!> A KTO-TO, 1OJDKHO OBIT, NoAsyxuBaeT: «He
moHuMaw Tebal Thi xe Bce NpeKpacHo 3Has!>
Hac noctosHHO UHOpMUPYIOT O KaxKJOM Mare U3BeCTHEIX
sMuHocTeli 13 cchepsi GusHeca H NONMTHKM, KOTOpEIe, Cy4a 10 3a-
HUMaeMOMY HMM BBICOKOMY MON02KHHIO, JOIKHBI ObI ObITH BECb-
Ma YMHBIMH J04bMM. Mf sypyr KTO-TO 43 HHX COBepLiiaeT HeUTO Ha-
CTOBKO HecooOpasHoe, ITO y HeTO PBYTCH WeHHEIe CBASM, JeTHT K
‘epTam 6usHeC, OH TepHUT rpoMasHEIe YORITKH, 1MMIaeTes BOs-
MO2KHOCTH 3aHATh BAKHBI TOCyapCTBeHHbIi NOCT, CBOAUT Ha HeT
yeu Bceii *xusHH. Hakone, ero HMA MpOcTo BEIMASEIBAIOT rps-
SbiO BraszeTAXx M BeYePHUX TeeBUSHOHHBIX HOBOCTAX... BI TOKO
yausaaetecs: «O sem oxe on AyMan? Uro c HUM CIyIHIOCh? >
Tlpoucmepmee spay 1M Dosfaetca busuueckomy OODACHEHMNO.
Her, ero ne ylapuna MONHUA, He HAaKphIIa TemenaTMueCcKas BOII-20 Q 10 raynemunx ownGor, Kotopsie cosepwatoT niogn
Ha, Upumenmas c Mapca. IIcuxonoru sHawwr, ITO cymecTByeT pay
cnenu@uueckux I1pHuMH, KOTOPble 3aCTABJIAIOT YMHBIX monet ae-
JaTb TO, YeTO OHM HaBepHAKA HUKOr AA ObI He COBEPMININ, UCN
ayit OnU OONICHdLM OOpasz0M CeOU MoIC.UMeNoHBIe CnocobHOCMU.
Ecin BbI HOMbITaeTeCh yryOUTECA B IPHUMHEL, 10 KOTOPEIM yT-
paTusu cnocobuoctTS coo6paxxaTb HMeHHO Torga, Korga 9TO 6ELIO
OcobeHHO HEOOXOAMMO, BEI, CKOpee BCeTO, CKaxKeTe: «fl MpocTO He
TosyMast», um «A Bua BOTYAAHHe, MosrH MpocTo MpespaTusuch
B kKallly>, um «H Tak NepexuBana, TAK HepBHUYATA, YTO TpOCTO
mpornagesa oro». Korga sagiviM 410M MBI ToBopuM: «fl 2Ke Be
3Ha, HO...», MBI AOCOMIOTHO UCKPeHHU, MEI OeiicmeumerbHo 3Ha-
am. Ho name NOBeeHHE OCHOBHIBAJIOCh HE HA JIOTHYECKOM AHaJIH3e,
a Ha aMOYUAX, KOTOPLIe H HABAEKIM Ha HAC HeNpUATHOCTH.
Cuna mbicnn
Hamm meicsm o Toi MIM MHOw CHTyalun MoryT ynpocrutTs ee M60
IpespaTuTb B HepaspeniuMy!o MpoOsemy, ycroKouTE Hac mHG0
BCTpesoxKuTh. Baring C pasAM4HbIX TOUeK speHA MsMeHAeT Wake
Rocupnatue dusnueckux crpaganuit. Meuxonoru o6xapyxusn,
YTO CONAaTbI, PAHEHHBIE Ha Nose Cox, HKaOBarucb Ha Gomu ropas-
NO pexke, UeM rpaxfaHCKve JOAN, MepeHecmme, 10 06 beKTHBHEIM
HaG0jeHuaM Bpavell, TpaBMbl aHAOrM4HOK CreneHu TAKECTH.
Tlouemy rak npoucxoguT? Teoperuuecku tormuHo npesMon0-
JKUTD, UTO OMHAKOBIe 10 TAAECTH PAHBI BbISEIBAIOT OJMHAKOBY1O
Gos. PasHuta sak0uaercs B TOM, ¥mo Oymalom NocTpagaBuine
0 cBoux paHenunx. Comgat: «Al moKugat Tose Gon, HO A RUB.
Ypal» C ero rouxn spenus, pana mpuHocutT obneruenne. Konexno,
AbIpKa B IpyAM — He CaMoe IPUATHOE, ITO MOET CIYUUTECH C 4e-
JIOBeKOM, HO, IPHHHMad BO BHMMAHHe 3aqaHHEle YCIOBUA, 2B
Begb. A Ipoiiqu Nya Ha Dapy canTMMerTpos BbIWe? M MbICIb O
TOM, UTO CMepTb MHHOBaa, yomoKauBaert Gomb. Y rpaxjancKoro
YeNOBeKa PAHeHHE BBISIBAeT PASIYMbA 0 603MOWHHOCMU CMEPTH,
a He O BeposTHOCTH ycKoubaHymMd oT Hee. [pax jancKuit denoBer,
€CIM MO2KHO TAK BLIDASHTLCA, KUBET B COSHAHMM CBOETO 30PO-
BLA, H BHesalHas TpaBMa HIM pana BLIGLIBAeT TpeBOry, KOTOpaA
cooTBeTCTBEHHO YCHJMBaeT OoNeBLIe OMYMeHUA.
Ecrt uanectHas ucTopus 0 TOM, Kak OAMH UeOBeK XOTEN OON-
2KMTD y COCeza rasoHOKOocHAKy. UcTopus ota Kak HesIb3A JIyale WII
suocTpupyeT BinsHHe MbIcreit Ha Hactpoenue. Bept xouer nompo-[nasa 1. Ake sce npexpacno sHan! OQ 21
cuTb y cocezeit rasonoKocusiKy. Bprxoy4 43 JOMY, OH AyMaer 0 TOM,
‘1TO ero cocey OA — oTIMUHEI MapeHt u 6yseT pay BLIPYYMTE 3HaKO-
moro. «CrapuHa 9g, — pasmbiniiset Bept, — uysecubtii ve10BeK».
Ho no nyTu Bapyr sakpagLipaerca yokachad MLICIB: «A 4TO, CCIM OH
He COTIacHTCA NOMOU MHe?» BepT HayMHaeT CHOpHUTS caM Cc Cobol:
«KoneuHo, OH MHe He OTKa2KeT. OH 2te xOpomIi napenb. B kone
KOHIOB, 4 TOKE MHOTOe AH Hero cHeran». A YepHbIe MBICIH IpO-
JosKarIOT CBOe rpasHoe AeN0: «A 4TO, ECM OH He HMI Te *KePTBBI,
Ha KOTOpbIe MHe TIpumtAoch nouTu? A BAPyT OH M3 Tex STOUCTOR, KO-
TOPBIe [OTOBHI BCe B3ATS, a CAM HUMYerO OTAaBAaTb He xoTAT?» V1 Bor
Bepr mpeyerapaser, kak cocey AaeT emy or BOpoT ToBOpoT, MpuKU-
abiBaeTca, GyATO GbI rasoHOKOCHsIKa BOBCe eMy He IpuHaexKUT
(«Hey2xemu on AyMaer, UTO 4 ToBep1 ero Gaiikam?>» ), 41M BCTOMH-
HaeT, YTO Kak pas CaM COOpasicnA saHATHCA Jy2Kalikoli Mepex JOMOM
(«Ho AA-TO 3HAIO, UTO OH BperT. Buguo ke, UTO Taso0H HeAaBHO Toz-
cTpuraiu»), “1M Wpocto rozopuT: «He fam» («Bor xtagioral»).
K tomy momeuty, korga Bept qoGupaerca 0 foma Opa, On yate
HaCTOJIBKO yBepeH B OTKase, YTO CUNTaeT CBOIO NpOcEoy nycToH
TpatTowt BpemeHH. Ox 31nTCA m3-3a TOTO, 4TO Mpoyesant 1yTb BIyC-
tyro. MU xorga 94 oxnuxaer ero: «Jlo6poe ytpo, Bept!» — nacrpoe-
HMe COcesza OTH] He cnoco6cTByeT ApyKeckou Geceye. Bepr ur0-
TO LeAUT CKBOSb 3yOnI UM OEICTpoO UpoxoguT cBoelt Aoporoi, jenaa
BU, YTO O8a04eH BAXKHEIM JeIOM.
Tax uro xe, Zan 641 99 Bepry cpow rasonoKocuaKy? Kro snaer?
Bepr-To HapepHaka He y3HaeT OTBETA, IIOCKOMEKY OH He Tpezocta-
BHI cocexy HH Maseimero Maca cKasarTb HH «fa», Hu «HeT>. Uc-
KIIOUMTENSHO CHO COOCTBEHHOM MBICIU OH IpeBpaTus OOporo
cocefa B sTOMCTH4HOLO CKpAry.
OgHo HecoMHeHHO — mporcxogzamme B Haleli ronope mpomec-
Cbl BIMAIOT Ha Hall o6pas MEICeH, a OOpas MbICIei onpesemaeT
upexqnpuHnMaemple Hamu Jeiicraua. [ocne paszoya J>Keppu me-
‘YasIbHO UpHsHasca: «Iloxomxe, A He cOsqaH Ayla CemeiiHOi 2Kus-
Hu». On crar us6eraTh OTHOIMeHM c KeHIMHAMH, KOTOpHiIe MOr-
JM MepepacTu Bo 4TO-TO cepbesHoe. J>xeppu MedTaJI O CUaCTIMBOM
6pake, Ho B TO 2Ke BPeEMA MOCTOAHHO JyMal O TOM, UTO OH POKACH
Asia pasOTEl, a He AJA W106BH, HW TOTOMY OTPHasi BCAKY!O BOSMO2K-
HOCTE 38K MIOUNTS HOBLI co1w3. JuH_a UpuzepxXNBANAck MHOIt
Touxu spexua. locne pasBoya ona NoKNAsach: «A nonyuusa xo-
pommuit ypox. Bompuie a He NoBTopio Takux ommmO6oK. VB cnepyto-22 Q 10 rnyneiunx own6ok, KoToppie copepwiatoT niogK
Iai pas chesaio pasyMubiii BbiOop». JImHAa CoxpaHuJia OTKpbI-
TOCTb HOBBIM OTHOMeHHAM. B Kaxk,OM M3 ONMCaHHEIX CyyaeB
onpeseis10M1uM (bakKTOPOM ABUIOCH He CaMo COGLITHE — pasBon,
aTO, TO AyMasu oO Hem JIungza u Jxeppu.
Kak pacno3HaTb wa6n0HHoe MbIWieHKe
OnvcaHHble B oTOl KHUTe AeCAT WaOOHOB MbIIJIeHUA HACTOJIb-
KO paciipocTpaHeHbl, UTO HABeCPHAKA B KAKHEC-TO MOMCHTHI 9KHSHH
BEI yoKe NoMa sau NOX WX BIMAHWE, BOSMO?KHO, U He OCOSHABas TO-
ro. [IcuxorepanesTni wacto rosopat 06 «Ara!»-ad@derte. Hanpu-
Mep, JOA, BlepBble ycubIMaBliMe 06 omlMOKax MbIIWeHHA, He-
pegzko ropopaT Apyr Apyry: «Ara! Oro xe mpo Mena. Sl Trak a
nena». Wau: «Ara! Teneps 4 Buk, UTO BOT TOrMa-TO A COBepIIn.A
mpomax». O6napy2kenve ommOKu — nepBbIit War Ha NyTH K U30aB-
eHM10 OT Hee.
Kaxyaa rnapa ato KHUrM NOcBAneHa paccmoTpeHuIo OfHO!t
M3 THIMUHEIX OMIMGOK, KOTOPy!0 AOMycKalr OTHIOAb He rrymtpre
044, 4 OObACHHET, KakuM OGpasom Ta HIM MHA ONNOMIHOCTS
BIIMAeT HA TIIPHHATHE pemeHnit, Ha CAMOUYBCTBHE, Ha BOCIIpuATHe
ce6a camoro u OKpy2Kaiouix. Ho pacnosHaHve OMMOKU eCTb TOIb-
Ko Cambri nepBuiii mar. Br ysHaeTe, KaKHM 06pa30M MO2KHO u36e-
WKaTb IPOMAXOB H Kak u36aBHTbCH OT HX BpewHbIxX TocJeyqCTBHi.
Jjanee 8 KHUre UpMBO_UTCA KpaTKoe ONMCaHVe MpecmoByTEIX
yecatu omm6ox. Ho, npexye vem BbI IpucTynUTe K UTeHMIO, XO-
THM TpesyupeAutTL: BUOTHeE BEPOATHO, KTO-TO He COracuTca Cc
TEM, UTO Ta WIM MHad OLIMOKa BKIOVeHA B CIIMCOK HM, HANPOTHB,
B Hero He lollasia. Haupumep, TlOd HOMePOM IleCTEIM y Hac 3HaAUHT-
CH MAKCHMaIU3M, ADYTMMM CiOBAaMH, NOBLIMeHHas TpeGoBaTeJb-
HOCTL UM CTpeMyleHve K coBepmieHcTBy. YMecrHo BosparKeHHe,
YTO MAKCHMAJH3M MO2KHO PaClleHUTb 10-PasHOMY, HO TOKO He
HaBelIMBATE HA ETO APABIK «Tynoi ommOru». MB camom gene,
c1OBa «BbICOKAA TPeGOBATEIEHOCTD» walle BCerO SBYTAT KaK KOM-
mauMent. BosMoxHo, BEI GyfeTe HacTaHBaTh Ha TOM, ITO CTpemMsie-
He K COBEPIMICHCTBY ABIAeTCA OHO U3 LOOporeTenei.
Tak ono u ecrb — unorga. Ho o6nrmaHo xKeraHHe oOs3aTeIbHO
AOCTHYS Hfeata IpeBpaliaerca B OByMKy. Ec BEI, K WpuMepy,
pelmure, ITO He cTaHeTe cAaBaTL padoTy 3akasuKy JO TeX Wop, I0-
Ka He Josefete ee 10 copepmiencTBa (a BAM HMKOTa He yAacTca
AOcTuUL UfeanbHOro ee UcHONHeHUA), BEI OyzeTe MOCTOAHHO OT-Trawa 1. Ake sce npexpacho suant Q 23
KJajbiBarb Cyaty padorsi. B KoHIe KOHIOB 3akas4HK pocro pac-
cpupeneer. Ja Hero Balla HecmocoOHOcTE saBepuIuTE paoory B
cpOK BOBCe He O3HAUAeT CTPeMJeHUA K COBepleHcTBy. IIpounTaB
Hally KHUTY, BBI HolMere, 4TO ONpeseIUTD pasHULy Mexqy upo-
AYKTHBHBIM MBITIIeCHHeM MW JOKHEIMH BBIKIIAIKAMU BO3MO}KHO
AMUIb Nocse ananusa pesyibTaToB. B TakuXx CIyyadx UcMxXoTepa-
WeBTEI WpHOeraiT K TepMHHAM: H .
Kakoe-s1H60 Balle JeHicTBMe WIM MBICIb IpeBpalllawrTca B OMMOKY
B TOM CJlydae, Kora OHM NepeKpoleaiom NyMmb TOMY, 4TO BbI Ha Ca-
MOM Jee xOTeIM COBepMIMTL, AIM Ke TOMA, KOra BEI MCIBITEI-
BaeTe JylleBHy0 6o1b. TakuM O6pason, eC BbICOKad TPeOOBa-
TeEJILHOCTh MH CTpeMJIeHHe K COBCPUICHCTBY MPHHOCAT BaM ycriex H
AOBONBCTBO, KOHEYHO Ke, WIA BAC OHM He ABIAIOTCA rIyNBIMU
omm6xamu. Ho ecm Ber BHAMTE, 4TO Balla TpeOoBaTebHOCTb T'po-
3HT BaM CKOpee IIpOBaJIOM, He2KeJIM YCIeXOM, eCJIM OHA He FOCTAB-
Ase? BaM OcoOoi payocTH, HMeeT CMBICA MepecMorpers NOsHLUH.
Hacrano spema 3saqyMatTca 0 cBoem OOpase MEIMIIEHHA.
fopayaa qecatka
Kax u 6v1.10 oSewano, mot npueodum cnucok decamu nauenyneit-
wux ouru6oK.
1. Cundpom Maazenvxozo Hvinaenxa. Ectb rakas jeTeKas cKa304u-
ka, Ha Manenpxoro I[pimenka yas ¢ JepeBa opex H CTYKHYI
no rosioze, Ho I[pimmexoK nosyMad, uTO Ha Hero oOOpymiMics He-
GecHbIi cBon. AHaJIOrHUHEIM 06pa3z0M JOU YacTo MpHxXoLAT K
coBepmieHHo KaTacTpoduyeckuM yMosaKsI0ueHHAM, He faBas
ce6e Tpyfa 3anyMaTEca xora Ob Ha MuHYTy. Mcnyr noBepraerT
yeOBeKa B COCTOAHUe AyMeBHOrO H YMCTBeHHOPO Mapasmmya.
2. Umenue mucneit. OqHa ua camerx Gepex Ho weneemnIx uO3Hit
BaKJ0UaeTCH B TOM, UTO MbI YBEpeHbI B CBOEM YMeHHM 4MTATb
uy -KHe MBICJIM HB cmoco6HocTu OKpy:Kalonjux OpHeHTUPOBaTE-
ca B CKpHxKaiax Halle Ayn. «fl HMdero He cTaHy eMy TOBO-
PHT, OH AONKeH CaM JoragaTEcal» — oueHb pacnpocTpaHeH-
Hoe yTBepxXJeHHe, HeM3MeHHO Befymee K ryGoKomy pasoua-
PpoOBaHH10, Kora B KOHL KOHILOB CTAHOBUTCA ACHO, UTO UeIO-
BeK HE TOJIbKO He 3H TOFO, YTO OH AKOGEI AOIKEH CHeMaTh, HO
Raxxe He OMOspeBan O TOM, Yero BEI OT Hero ou AaTH!24 Q 10 rnyneiwnx ownGor, Kotoppie copepwaloT moqn
3. CxnonHocme 6ce omHocumM> Ha Ceol crem. MHOrve roTOBBI He-
CTH NH4HY!O OTBETCTBEHHOCTS abcorIOTHO 3a BCe MpoucKoAA-
lee. OHH BOTBeTEe H 3a UbE-TO I10X0e HACTPOeHHe, M 3a NIOXy10
nOrofy, M 3a seMueTpACeHMe Ha Kpaio cBera. Ecrecrsenno, uM
He OcTaeTCH HHYerO TPyTOro, Kak TOKO CepAMTbCA WIM pac-
cTpanHBaTbca.
4, JJogepue ceoemy npece-cexpemapwo — Tunvunas omu6ka sHa-
MeHUTOCTe, HO H CaMELe OOLIKHOBEHHEIe JOM, He HMewomlmne B
cBOeM pachopsKeHHH Cy OBI 10 CBASAM C OGIECTBEHHOCTHIO,
HepeAKO OKasbIBalTca 2KePTBAMM AHAOTMU4HOTO Mpocueta.
Tlomumo Beero Wpouero, OH 3aKOUaeTCA B cBATOM yBepeHHO-
CTH, UTO Hekoe JOCTUAeHHe B KAaKOii-To ofHOL OOmacTu aBTOMAa-
TH4eCKH rapaHTupyerT yciex Hi BO BCeX OCTAJIbHBIX Cipepax %Ku3-
Hu 6e3 Tex ycuuuii, KOTOpbie B cBoe BpeMa OBI IPUIOKeHEL
0a depBoit nodennI.
5. Josepue kpumuxam. OwuGka, 1poTMBOnOOMHAA UpeABIAy-
mei, Ho HenpusTHocted MocTaRsAeT He MeHbIIe. Ona sak.110ua-
eTCH B TOM, YTO BEI 6e3 paccy2kJeHuit IpMHUMaeTe Ha Bepy JII0-
6ylo KpuTucy B cBoii ampec, He sagyMbIBance: «A cyqbU KTO? >.
6. Maxcumaanu3m. Jlannoe KauecTBo o3HayaeT CTpeMseHHe K CO-
BeplleHCTBy BO BCeX OOlaCTAX. SBYYMT TesMc Upocro sameya-
TeILHO: BPA, 1M KTO-nu60 GyzeT cHopuTs c TeM, TO yeTaHOB-
JleHHe BbICOKUX CTaHJapTOB — Jeo xopomee. Ho tpeGoBaTesb-
HOCTL CTAHOBUTCA HeyMecTHOH, Korda Baulu CTAHLapThI OKa-
SBIBAIOTCA HACTOIBKO BBICOKM, YTO BBI He MOMKeTe Marke IPH-
OnusuTLea K ux ypoBHio. JlocraTouHo rsly0 CTpeMHTCA K CTO-
TIPOWeHTHOMY COBePIIeHCTBY 4 NONYINTS HyseBOl PesyETAT.
7. Bomesnennoe cpaenenue. Cpapuenue i BbIABJIeHHe KOHTpa-
cToB — yocToiiHErit cnoco6 anamusa pasanuait. Ho m104M uacTo
cTpagaiT OTTOFO, YTO OOpalljaioT BHUMAHMe TONBKO Ha Te 43
HMX, KOTOPbIe roBopsAT He B UX MOsb3y, M60 Korga cneno mpu-
HMMAIOT Ha Bepy HeraTUBHbIe OWeHKU OKPyKalomMx. Takoit
HOAXOA Wpocro obeckyparxuBaer.
8. «Aumo, ecu...» Tpepora! Tpezora!! Tpexzoral!! Bor x uemy BezeT
MBbIMJIedHe THa «A 4TO, eCIH...» Bac GecHOKOUT HeYTO, 4ero
BooOile He cylecTByeT HJIM BepoOATHOCTS 4ero OmMsKa K HYJ0.
Takum 06pa30M, oGocHOBaHHEIe TpeBOru O 3f0poBEe i Omaro-
COCTOAHHH JONOMHAIOTCA NYCTLIMH XJONOTAMH, CHA KalIuMhTnaea 1. Awe ace npexpacto snan! Q 25
nOTeHIMa, KOTOpbIi BbI Mors Obl MCHOb3OBaTb AJA MpOTu-
BOCTOAHUA PeasIbHEIM TpyqHOCTAM.
9. «Tot Jonxen!» Tomxen. OOnraHoe, MOBCeqHEBHOEe CJIOBO, HO
TONbKO He TOrAa, Korga OHO OsHavaeT IpuKas, He NozTexKanit
o6cyxxzenm10. Wnaye camoe o6“x0qHOe C10B0 MpeBpalaeTca B
ykas3y1olnii nepcr, Kareropuueckuit umnepaTus, TpedyioniHit:
«He cmeit yKIOHUTECA OT yKa3aHHOPO TyTu xoTA 6bI Ha COTYIO
AOJLO MMIMMeTpa — He TO roppkKo Howmaseeir! Thr Gy fen BL-
HoBaT, Te6e 6yzeT cTEIAHO!> Jl104u, KOTOpEle uacTo IPHMeHAIOT
110 OTHOMMEHHW K CeGe COBO «O01IKEH» , CAMU CTPOAT BOKpyr ce-
6a TIopemHEie creHEI. OHM HaCTONEKO cocpesOTOUeHLI Ha TOM,
YTO OHH AOJMKHBI WIM JOJKHBI OLIN Obl ChetaTb B Ipom0M,
‘ITO y HUX IpOcTo He OCTaeTCA BpeMeHH BALYMATECA, Kak 9TO e-
WaeTCH B HaCTOAIeM H YTO UM MpexcTouT coBepuIuTS B Gyzy-
nem.
10. «fa, Ho...» Uenozex, uacto ynorpebistomuiit Takoe BEIpaxe-
HU, BCeTf{a H BO BCEM HaxO{UT KaKMe-TO OTPUAaTesbHbIe CTO-
POHEI, KOTOpEIe lepeBeliMBaloT BCe TOMO%KUTeETEHOe, UH CO-
UMHAeT (PAHTACTMYeCKHe ONpAaBAAHUA MOOKIM HeTaTHBHEIM
apenuaM. Jliogu Takoro CKlaza YacTo HepeKpEIBaloT Zopory
OKpy2KalolluM, Ja 4 caMuM ce6e.
Mpumexeune metopos KOrHMTMBHON Tepannu
Ana 6opp6bi c own6KaMu
Merogpl KOrHUTHBHOL Tepaliuy NOsBOIIAIOT CHPaBUTECA C KaxKTOK
43 MepeuMceHHEIX ommMGOK. Onn AoKazamuM CBOIO abeKTUBHOCTE
B Oopb6e C NPOAB.ACHHAMM SMOMMOHAIbHBIX Kpainocreii y Mozel,
B Takoii CTelleHH CTpagaBlIMX OT TAKEIEIX Jempeccuii, wTo 10 yT-
PaM GoubHEIe He XOTEAM IPOCLINATLCA MIM MepexuBaH IpUcTy-
UbI WaHwueckKoro crpaxa. Meroybl KOrHHTHBHOM Tepanuu ycnemm-
40 TOMOTA@IOT JOTAM U30aBIATECH OM PYMUHHLLX, NoEcedHEEHbLx
IMOYUOHAMbHELX OWUOOK, COMBAIOIAX C TOMKY CaMBbIX 3paBo-
MBICJIALUIMX uOge. Ec ofHarKIbI BbI MOUyBCTBYeTe, YTO CIOCOG-
HEI Camu (c NOMOMILIO 9THX MeTOAOB) OCOsHAaTh M NepecmMoTpeTb
MBbICIM, KOTOPBIe NPOHOCATCH Y BAC BToIOBe, BbI LanVTe BOSMOIK-
Hocrs pasyMy B TpyAHY10 MUHYyTYy UpuiiTu BaM Ha NoMonS. Bui He
AonycTuTe coBepiieHHA OfHOH “3 TUNMUHEIX PIyMbIxX omuGoK,
Bllekymyux 3a co6oik Apyrue HeucuUcNMMEIe NpocueTsI. 3qpaBsrit26 Q 10 rnynetiwnx own6or, koTopble cosepwatoT nioan
CMBICII CaM OpefeINT, B Kakoli MOMeHT BallIM 9MOILMH IPHrOTOBU-
JIMCb 3AXBaTUTE BUACTb, UW NOMO%KeT BEPHYTH NOM KOHTPOsb COOEI-
THA Ballet KUSHH.
Ho ne apasnerca 14 WaHHoe yTRep-xK ene, Kak 3aABJAIOT HHbIC
MaJsIOCBeAyl{He KPHTUKH, HeKUM SKBUBAeHTOM TIcMxON0ru4e-
ckoro MaKnsaxa? He sacraBiaem 1M MBI ceOA BUJCTE Be B.Tyd-
1eM, 4M eCTb Ha CaMOM Jeme, cBeTe? HuckorbKo! KornuTusnas
Tepalua OcHOBaHA Ha MeTOAaX JIOTHUeCKOrO aHalHsa. Oua sacraB-
Ase Hac aMEKTHBHO UCTOI3OBAT MOLb YeOBeYeCKOFO pasyMa
AJA NOcTpoeHuA HeNpoTHBOpeIMBHIX JIOrMueCKUX KOHCTpyKUH,
a He (Id TOMCKa ONpaBsaHUl (4TO MBI YMeeM CIMINKOM XOponio 7e-
aat!).
He npegqnonaraior 1M DpesaraeMEle HAMM MeTOLEI OTpUIaHHe
HWHTYHTMBHEIX, HHCTHHKTUBHBIX ZeiicrBuit? Bey» u B CaMoM Jere,
uHO pas Tyumeli peakuueli oKasbIBAaeTCA CAaMad MepBas, HH-
cTuuKTusHaa. Mnorga Bech onbIT npesbIAy Wet *Ku3sHM NOA_TBEp-
2KaeT, UTO MMCHHO TAKUM MYTeM HY2KHO uATH. Ja, OprBaeT u TAK.
Ho cammmkom yacTo MHCTHHKTUBHAA PeaKUMA OKasbIBaeTCA IMIIb
IPUKPhITHeEM SMOMHOHANBHOLO MBIMINeCHUA, Beyuyero HAC OT
ommm6Ku K ommm6Ke. MoxkHo ccbopmympoBaTb Ty Ke CAMY1O MBICJIb
HeCKOJBKO MHAVe: UHOA BANIMM 3HOPOBbIM HHCTHHKTAM He
oGoiitucb 6e3 NOAWepxKKU pasyMa.
TIpegctasnre ce6e, uT0 BbI HAXOJUTECh Ha HeeSHOROPOXKHOM
mepeesge. Ha sHake Hanucano: «Cro! Crymai! Cmorpu!» V8 qe-
BAHOCTA JCBATH MpOneHTax ClyuaeB BbI ATHOpupyere 3Hak H Ipo-
cKakuBaeTe Yepes perbcbl. BEI MpemMonaraere, UTO ecm Moesy
upvO1usuTea K Mepeesyy, TO Mepey BAaMM ONycTUuTCs WardayM.
Ho ecu BEI IPHNOMHUTE, ITO WarGayMEI JaseKo He Bcerga ObIBa-
JoT UcnpaBHBl, 3qpaBElit CMEICI NOACKaKeT: OCTAHOBUCE, OFJIA-
HUCb, Upucsyualica... Ecmu ecTh JONOAHMTeIbHaA BO3MO%KHOCTS
y6epeubca, TO HOueMy On! e10 He BOCTONLZOBAaTECA?
Hospie NpMBbI4KH MBILINeCHKA
OcHoBHad Mex MeTOAUKU KOrHUTUBHOM Tepaluu COCTONT B TOM,
"TO OT BPeAHEIX IPHBEINeK MoxKHO H3baBuTECH. IIponecc usmene-
HMA HelpaBHJIbHOU MaHepbl MEIMWIeCHUA HHYeM He OTM YAeTCA OT
KoppeKUHH AYPHEIX MaHep Nosegenua. B waurmx cumax BEIpaGo-
TaTb HOBbIe NPUBLIYKH, Kyfa Ooslee sfopoBble MU NoOWesHbIe, YeM
cTapzie.Fraga 1, Axe ace npexpaco 3uan! Q 27
Camoe cu102k Hoe 3aKJOUAeTCA He B OTKase OT BPeMHbIX IPUBBI-
4eK MBIIJI€HMA H axe He B YCROCHMM HOBEIX, a B JOBeeHUM UX JO
apToMaTusma. J|aHHoe yTBepateHue clipabesIMBO u 118 busude-
cKMX IpHBEuek, BepHo? Ovens mpocTo Hay4MTLCA MpaBHALHO
JepskaTb TCHHUCHY10 pakeTKy. TpeHep NOcTaBuT BaM PYKY, HM BEI
6e30 BcaKoro Tpysa Oy ZeTe JepxKaTb pakeTHy Tak, Kak clexyeT, HO
TOKO AO Tex HOP, NOKa BbI O Heli AyMaete. A Beqb riaBHoe — J0-
OUTHCA TOFO, YTOOLI MCHATH HEMpaBMIbHBI 3axXBaT Ha HOBBIM BCA-
Kui pas, Kora BbI GepeTe B PYKH PakeTKy, Jaxke B Pasrap TPyAHO-
ro Marya. [ls sToro Hy2kHa NpakTuKa.
J[n# Toro, KTO TevaTaeT [BYMA NasbaMU, He cocraBisaer Tpyza
o6y4vTbcs Ipwemam cuenot neyaru. Ho uroGpi noKasaTb 3aMetT-
HY10 CKOPOCTE llewaTu HOBEIM MeTOAOM, ONATE-TakM HyKeH OLBIT.
Hepegqko npusoputcs Takoe coo6paxenue: «1 Mory 3alpocro yo-
BOHTE HIM YTPOUTE CKOpOCTE NewaTu, ec Hay4ych MeyaTaTs Je-
CATbIO Hasbiamu. Ho cTrOuT 1H TpaTHTb Ha 9TO BpeMA?» Moser
6uITb, 1 HeT, ECM UCHONbSOBAHKe BCero IMMb ABaguUATH MpoueH-
TOB BallMX BO3MO2KHOCTeH He cosfzacT ocobEIx mpobsmem. OzHaKo
eCiIM BEI 3a YMaeTECE O NepcleKTUBaX, BbI, CKOpee BCero, UPHMeETe
mHoe perenne.
Axasorm4Hplit BOIpOC MpaBoMepeH M B OTHOLMeHUM HOBEIX
IPWeMOB MBIMNeHUA: CTOAT IM OHM BaTpPAYeHABIX ycurni? Ecaw
clywaiHblit mpomMax, KOTOpbIit HepexKo Jonyckaer m1060ii us Hac,
He co3faeT Aid Bac GOALUIMx MpobleM, He IpUHOCUT HeIpUuATHO-
cei, BAM, MO2xKeT OLITh, M HET CMbICIA TpaTUTb BpeMA Ha H3y4eHHe
MeTOJMK KOTHHTHBHO Tepanuu. Ho ecm BLI YyBCTByeTe AUCKOM-
opr, ecru Jena HAYT He TAK, KaK BAM TOTO XOUeTCA, ToMesHO OC-
TAHOBUTECA, OFIAHYTECA H U3MEHHTH cocob npoxox,eHuA Ipe-
WATCTBHH.
«A €CTb JIM yBepeHHOCTh, 4TO Ball MeTOAHKN yOeperyT MeHA
OT HOBBIX OLIMO0K, HeBepHOrO BLIOOpA, YTPATbI CAMOKOHTDOJIA, T0-
TepH feHer, Aenpeccuu M yHBIHUA?» — BO3MO2#KHO, CIIpocHTe BbI.
Yepi, TaKMX PapaHTHit HUKTO JaTb He Mower. Tora 3a4eM BAM 3Ta
kEura? Ona nomooKer Bam OOpecru OoubUIMit KOHTPONb Hay MBIC-
JIAMU 1 cRecTH K MHHUMyMy BONnMIONIHe OMIMOKH.
IIpeaiaraembie MeToquku He BepHyT B pycsio pasbylleBaBline-
CH BOAEL, HO OHM MOSBONAT BAM X18 HOKPOBHO JelicrBoBaTh B aBa-
buitHot curyanun. Toppimenue yposHa onpeyeneHHocTu, pocr
YBepeHHOcTu B CROMX CuaX CaMM NO ceGe BPAN JIM IPUReAYT K Kpy-28 Q 10 rayneiunx ownGok, KoTopsie copepuiaioT noah
TOMY B3JleTy KaPbEPbI, OAHAKO BEPOATHOCTh Balllero yciexa BO3s-
pacraer. Pagocruoe oxujanue 1068 He rapaHTupyer, UTO B Ba-
iy ABepb HeINpeMeHHO HocTyyuTCA NpeKpacHyiit Ipunu, Ho c
apepy 6yyfeT CHAT 3aMOK, KOTOpbIii He 103B0NMI OBI eMy BOTH, ec-
IM WHOA BCe-TAKH 3artAHeT Ha OTOHEK.
Apy:xectsennaa repanua
B mocnezyiomMx riapax OTJeIbHO paccMaTpMBAeTCH KaKTat U3
OWIMG6OK MBINLIeHHA, HO BOBCE HE IIOTOMY, 4TO TaKHe NIpomaxu cyry-
WaloTcA 10 OTJeNbHOCTH. Ha camom ene OHM TepeceKariorcs UW Ha-
KJlafbiBaloTcd pyr Ha Apyra — TOUYHO TaK 2Ke, Kak B KM3HM pas-
JIMUHbIe MpobseMbI HABAIMBAIOTCA Ha HAC, UTO HASbIBAeCTCH, «mad-
Kamu». [logpo6Hoe onucanve Kako omm6KM NpuBeserT Bac K Go-
wee 21y6oKomy noHUMaHUTO TOTO, KAKUM OOpa3zom Ona BIMKeT HA
Bac caMa 110 CeGe MB COueTaHMH ¢ Apyrumu (bak Topamu. TlonumaHue
IpupogE omu6ok HeobxoxMMo, YTOOLI HAYUMTECA yeTpaHATL ux
nocaeycrsua. Heth Hactosljei KHMTM 3aKs0UaeTCA He B OTpHa-
HUM ClO*KHOCTH YeMOBeUeCKO MM4HOCTH WH peasILHbIx 2KU3HEH-
HBIX YCHOBUA, a B TOM, YTOOHI Clear CIOHKHYIO HM MOLMHY1 Tepa-
THO ocrynHoit Asia TOHMUMAaHHA. Buripastanch IpHHATLIM B KOMIIb-
JOTEPHOM MUpe ASEIKOM, LeJIb HACTOAMETO PYKOBOACTBA 3aKJIO-
waeTcA B UpesocTaBJICHHH NOJL3OBaTeJIO Apy2KeCTBCHHOrO HHTep-
celica.
Apaquare ATL H31OXKCHHEIX B KHHTC MCTOAMK MOMOryT BaM MO-
OuM30BaTb MEILIEHHe, IPOOMTECH CKBOSb 9MOMMOHAIBHBIe Oapbe-
pal, o6pecta KOHTDPOJIb Haj] HUSHbIO, He NOSBOAA oOcTOATeEIECTBAM
BUAaCTBOBATh Hay BAMH. Hexoropnie 3 HUX TMOKAaKyTCA BaM Tosre3-
HBIMH B OopE6e NpoTHs BCex Ges MCKNOYeHUA OWIMOOK MBILIEHA;
Apyrve NpMroszATcA TOJILKO Ip olnpeyeeHHLIX MpocueTax. Ho,
ODATE-Taku, KaxK1ai# MeTOAMKa BBOAUTCA OTJe1bHO HM TocTeneH-
HO, ITO JACT BAM BOSMOKHOCTL OCBOHTb HX War 3a WIaroM. Bor-
AeNbHBIX PaBaX OMUChIBACTCA NPUMeHEHHE MeTOAUK B PasIuy-
HBIX 2KH3HEHHBIX OOCTOATEIBCTBAX.
B camom Koutlle KHUTH B IPHOxKeHUN IpUBO_MTCA TabmMIA CO-
OTBETCTBUA KOTHMTMBHEIX MeTOAMK M OmmMO0K MbUeHUA. Heco-
MHeHHO, Tabnuna Oy zer Kya Oonee NOmesHa BAM, eCIM BEI IpesBa-
PHUTeCIbHO OSHAKOMUTECCE C KHUrOn. OyqHako Tp *KeJlaHUy BI
MoskeTe OOpalaTsca K Heil B 11060e BpeMa.Tapa 1. Ake Bce npekpacHo 3Han! QQ 29
B qBenaguatoi 4 TpuHagUaToOw riaBax ONMCaHHbIe paee MeTO-
AUKM MOBTOPALTCA UW AONOIHAWTCA. Bur MookeTe O3HAKOMUTECH C
9TUMU PrlaBaMH, UTOOEI Y3HATb, KaKve *Ke cpescTBa pasBuTUA
MBICIMTCIBHEIX clocoGHocTeli HauGomee NonesHEI. Bce BmMecte
OHM IpescTaB.1sioT codoli HeyTO BpOse «PyKOBOACTBA O.Ab3OBaTe-
IA» TOMOBHOFO MOSra, IpeAOCTABIAIOMIero COBETEI 10 AMaArHOCTH-
Ke M yCTpaveHMo HeHcupaBHocrei «ycTpoiicrBa» Ip cry uaiiHErx
c6oax. Korya BbI ycnoure uHtpopMalMio, 1310%KeHHYIO B kHure,
BBI OyfeTe He TONbKO OOAbIe 3HaTb, HO H JIVUIe KUT.Cungpom Manenbkoro LibinneHka
orga Manenbxuit Ipinienok u3 AeTcKoli ckaskm HoyaAa
OpeXOM I10 rojIoBe, OH HEME JECHHO CelasI BLIBO], UTO He60
maqaeT Ha 3eMJ110, HC KpPHKaMM yoxaca HOMYAJICA Kya riasa ria-
AST.
Tanubiit run NOBeAeHUA MO-KHO HasBaTb pacceMBanvem MaHu-
KH. Pasym HeMeJJICHHO TOTOB MOBeEPHTb BO BCe CaMOe XyALIee,
CtTpamHoe HecuactTbe moycteperaeT GyKBaNIbHO 3a yriom. [Icuxo-
aor An6ept O1Mc HasEiBaeT Takoe COCTOAHMe «ysKacaHHem>, 110-
TOMY TO YeOBeK, B HEM MpeOniBalomuii, BOOOpaxKaerT ceOe TAKE
cTpaulHbie NociexcTBHA, UTO OKASLIBACTCA He B CHJIaX BbIHeCTH
CBOHX 2Ke (aHTasuii. BupoveM, HasBaHUa CHHEPOMY MOXKHO IpU-
AYMBIBATE CaMble HaydHble, HO IPOHCXOJUT BCe JOBOJIBHO Mpocro.
Bee Mbi 3HaeM, UTO B HEKOTOPBIX CLyUaAX Hallie COsHAHHE T0-
4demy-TO Kya Jlerye HacTpamBacTCA Ha BONY NeccuMusMa, HerKe-
4M Ha ONTHMUCTHYeCKy10 «cTaHIHi0». PeOeHoK IPMHOCHT 13 IKO-
JI 3allicky OT KlaccHoro pyKosoguTena. Map, euje He wuTaA,
cKopee Bcero ClIpocuT cBOe YaQO: «TO TE OATS TAM HATBOPUI? »
Eius TOJOBy He IpHAeT IpeANOIOZKUTH, ITO ChIH IpMHec IpHria-
MleHve Ha KOJMEKTUBHOe YaAeNUTHe, yCTPAaMBaeMOe POLHTEIECKUM
KOMHTETOM.
Taron «ToHyTb» XOpOIo OTpaxaeT coctosHue AHHBI, Kora
eH Nepeganu, uTO met x eT ee B CBOeM KaGuHeTe depes ABagNATD
muuyt. Kaketca, cepaie 1pOBaIUJIOCb B Key AOK, a WOTOM H BO-
BCe yuI0 B naTKH. Horu croBHo cBHHILOM HasmusMce. «HapepHaka
OyzeT pyraTb, a To H Hoxyxe...» [loka AnHa B yMe TepeOupaeT Bce
ONIMOKM, COBEPIIeHHBIe €10 3a MATS eT padorsi B dpupMe, UpuKU-Tapa 2. Cnugpom Manenskoro Ubinnenka Q 34
Abibad, KOTOpad M3 HUX MOPla ABATbCHA mpHwunHot noycreperaro-
myero ee HeCuacTLA, JBalWaTL MHHYT TAHYTCA Kak ABagWAaTh eT.
AB Geceze BLIACHAeTCA, TO Med MHTepecyeTcs, He COracuTca 1
oHa CTATb OTBETCTBEHHOM 3a COop AeHer Ha Nosapku MMeHMHHM-
xam. Kak oka3as0cb, MopasIbHble W (pusuuecKkue crpayaHia AHHEI
ObIIM JIMMeHbI BCAKUX OCHOBAHUM.
Oguako 6ecnpuuuHHoe cTpayaHue — ova us caMEIX MeIKUX
1po6leM, BEISBIBAeMEIX CHHAPOMOM Mastexxoro [[pmtenka.
Notepa xnagHoKposua
Maneupxuit pmitexox ne npocro oGecriokoe — oH mpenewem or
yoxaca. On yBepeH He TOIEKO B TOM, 4TO CTOJKHYsICa C HEMMHYeMEIM
HECYACTEEM, HO HB TOM, YTO HUYEZO HE1b3A COeLAM, YTO IPMBOAMT
ero B COCTOAHHe NOHO yTpaTE camoKoHTpoua. Bequpiit Maneub-
kuit I[nmmmexok He B CocTrosHUM MpoTMROCTOATS HamBUrawllelica
KaTacrpobe, CMY TOJIbKO H OCTaeTCA ITO GexkaTb MU KpUYATE,
Bor HekoTopbie cuTyalluu, NpMBOAAMIMe K MOTepe caMOKOH-
Tpoms.
Q [ler ue npumsu yomoit Bospems. Mars zymaer: «Onn mpona-
aul» wim: «Mx noxuTuau!» Y nee nauuHaerca GemleHoe cepale-
Ouenne. JKexmuHa B Takoii NaHMKe, uTO He clocobHa Jacke N0-
SBOHMTS Ilo Tereouy.
Q Pansq@ eget Ha BaxHoe cobeceqoBanve u BbIOMpaeT HeENpaBIb-
Hyto Aopory. On TOHUM2eT, UTO OAs Ab BaeT, M HAUMHAeT 1aHH-
KosatTb: «Boe nponaso. He BuyaTb MHe padorbi». OH HacTOJIbKO
NOrsomjeH LepcneKTHBOH ee NOTepH, ITO COBCeM He CIequT 3a
noporoi. B uTore 0H NPOMycKaeT MOBOPOT, KOTOPbIM BHOBb BbI-
BeJ Obl ero Ha BEpHELii IyTb.
Q Wuxorga pesynptatom cungzpoma Manensxoro [[pimmenka oKa-
SbIBAeTCA He TOKO NPOMYCK Hy2KHOTO MOBOpoTa JOporu, HO u
yTpata cnoco6Hocru ucKats ero. [lia Tex, KTO yBepeH B HeMH-
HyeMOCTH rpaqymei KaTacrpobsl, xapakTepHa TeHAeHInA
omycKaTb pyKu, He Upe”MpuHMMan HWUerO KOHCTpyKTMBHOTO
aa pemenus npobsemsr. B Kone KOHIIOR, eCJIM BbI MPMI K
BBIBOLY, YTO JeIaT 4TO-sMG0 GeccMBICeHHO, CTOuT JIM «fep-
raTecsa»?32 Q 10 rnynetunx own6or, kotopbie cosepwaioT monn
Q OMMMA Kyfa-TO DONO KUIa OTUeT, Fes KOTOpOrO elt He O6OTHCD
Ha npeycrosmjem copemjaHuu. Ona zymaet: «Hapepxoe, a ero
BbIOpocusa. BeuHo A BLIKHbIBalO Bce CaMoe BartHoe! Her cMBIC-
sa uckats. Bee paBHo ero Tenepp He HaiiTu».
Q [Io yBonex c paborsi M «3HaeT>, ITO HOBOe MeCTO eMy He CBe-
tur. OH NockiIaeT apouky pesiome u He NoMy4aeT OTBETA, YTO
TOABKO yKpelliner ero nogospenua. «BesnayexkHo» , — MpauHo
koucTatupyer oH. [pyr coobmaet emy 06 oTKpEIBLIefica BaKaH-
cuu. «Mena Bce paBHO He BOSbMyT», — BaypixaeT [KO m Dame
He mpoGyeT nosBOHUTH.
Q Mapcus orkioHnser npurnaiienne Ha BeYep, NOTOMy 4TO yBepe-
Ha, UTo ee 6yAyT HTHOpupoBaTs, OTBEpraTb U TEM CaMBIM yYHU-
3hT. Tlostomy OHA CUAUT OMA U TauerT.
Yero Bb Goutecb?
K coxkanenmio, CKMOHHOCTH MpemonaraTp xymilee UMeer CBOCT-
BO npo6y2KAaTb CaMbIe TeMHEIe CHJIbI. AmenHo nostTomy selictBy-
JOT MPOKIATUA U UCHOMHAIOTCA MpauHble WpopowecrTBa. Scuoe ae-
JO, eC OMMIMA He 3aiiMercs IOMCKaMM OTYeTA, OHA ero HMKOrAa
He Haityer, (aoe ecu ceifuac OH JleoKUT Ha CAMOM BUHOM MecTe.
Ecau JIxo He upiraerca Haittm padory, OH HMUKOra ee Mi He TOJly-
unt. M1 Bor ero coO6crBeHHOe MpauHoe IpeyicKasaHue cOpIBaeTCa.
Mapcus ue nget Ha BeyepuBKy, Ooxcb ObITL OTBeprHyToH, HM IMuIa-
er ce6a BOSMOxKHOCTH Xopomo MpoBecTu Bpema, Ecrecrsenno, eit
BPA AM BecedO OAHOM FOMAa, Korda CEMMHCTBEHHEIM 3H ATHEM OKAa-
SBIBAIOTCA PbIqaHHa.
MbicuM 0 Xy{UleM HaBeKaloT HeC4YACTEA, KOTOPBIX B TIyOuHe
AYU BEI Bcerga ONacanuch. OnATE-TakH yadHblit mpamep — Ma-
eubkuii Ipmnenox. On noTepss ronoBy B yBepeHHOCTH, UTO He
MO2KeT IpUAyMaT, HUYerO Goslee NOMesHOTO, YeM NaHM4ecKHi Ger 1
KpuK. IloqHaATEI MM WyM Hyraet ero npuatetet, Yrenka Kpaky 4
Muyromonna Bpynazysaka, 4 OHM BMeCTe yAupaloT OT CTpaliHoit
onacxoctu. Ho tyr MuMo mpoGeraer xuTpaa JIucwuKa-cecrpHuka 1
mpeyyiaraeT AM YKPBITLCA B C€aMOM 6esonacHom MecTe — cBoeii HO-
pe. Hy Kakoii ke UBITIIeHOK, YTeHOK WIM HHDIOMIOHOK B 3{paBOM
yMe caM noiizeT B 1McbIo Hopy?! Onn cpasy noiimyT, B 4eM Jew:
«KaaHycb MouMy Teppamu! Kakoe yx TyT yOexume! Jia ara xuT-
pas JIuca mpocro xouer moobezaTs». Ho yssi! Manensxuik [umane-Tnasa 2. CnHapom ManeHtkoro Upinnenka Q 33
HOK HM ero Apysbx Sombie Bcero osaboueHbI UpOOemol, Kak clla-
cTHCh OT Hagatomero HeSocBoya. A noTomy oun He sagatoT JIuce
HUKAaKUX BONPOCOB HM Cleqyt0T 3a Heit. HeGo Tak u OcTaNocb aseKO-
gasekO, a Tpycullek mpocTo cbesa nucuya. Katacrpohuyeckoe
MbIIILIeHHe IpHBeO K BIOHe peatbHoli Karacrpoie.
Takue Bem MpoucxogaT nocroxHHo. BsaTb xora 6p1 Mapka.
Ox 6510 yBepeH B CBOUX clocoOHOcTAX TOproROro MpepcTaBuTesz.
Ho yokacuas Nepciex Tusa Ny6.1W4HOro BEICTYINeHUA NpespaTuna
ero B Xossuuit cryfqeHE. Emy uu pasy He AOBOAMN0Cb BLICTyNAaTh
meped ayauTopueli, of yBepeH, ¥TO NpoBamuTcs. MapK ue k TpH-
GyHe, a B ero MOSTy IIPOHOCATCA MBICIM OfHa CTpalilHee Apyroit:
Muxpotou cromaerca.
SI pacrepsiocb 4 NOTepalo HUTb BBICTYIVIeHHA.
Or sroro 4 HauHy 3aMkKaTECca.
A ml0Tom # Bce HepemyTaw.
Bee 6yayT Hayo MHOli cMenTSca.
ILe@ ossepeert.
ILnakazo Moe mosiimenne...
Kak 651 MeHs He yBonumu!
Bee nponaso.
ooogoooona
8a Kakue-To HeckomBKO cekyHy Mapx paspa6oran cuenapuit
HecuacTba mu yOequa ce6a B ero HeoTBpaTumocTH. CronT 1M yAMB-
AISATECA, UTO KOLA OH OTKPLLI POT, A3bIK y HeTO PUM K ropraHy,
JaOHM CTaJid JMMKAMH OT 1OTa, KOJICEHH 8a pOKAaJIN, a POJlOC Wpe-
pRacsa, Ui on JeiicrauTerbHO Hauad 3aMKaTbcA HW NOTepAJ HUTL
BBICTYIIeHHA. «Tak 4 M 3Has!» — TOBOPHT OH C HeEC4YaCTHBIM BH-
JOM. Tounee, TAK OH H Clea, TOAAaBUIMCch CHHAPOMy ManeuxKo-
ro I[pimmenka.
Jjapaiite Mbicnutb peanucTH4Ho
Peanucmuunoe mowuinenue He osHayaeT GoypenbKoro «Bee 6yzeT
Xopomro!» uu «Co MHoit Takoro He cnyuutes!» Ho B To xe BpeMa
OHO AaeKO H OT YHBLLIOLO 4 OOpeseHHOYO Bsr Asa Ha KUsHB: «Bee
I110xo, u 4 O6peueH>.
Bee MbI 3HaeM, 4TO II0X0e B KUSH CAyuaeTca. O6 aTOM KpuuaT
UW 8aronOBKU exKeRHEBHEIX Fraser, Ja u Halll coOcTBeHHIM 2KU3HeH-34 Q 10 rnyneiwux own6ox, KoToptie cosepwianr niogn
HEI onbIT. M Tem He MeHee B GOJIDILIMHCTBe Cly¥aeB CKOpOnaJu-
TeIbHOe yMOZaKIIOUeHe 0 TOM, UTO HebocBOy ye OOpymmMusca
HJM BOT-BOT yHaeT, OKASbIBAETCA HECKOJIbKO NpeweapemeHHoiM.
A 970 cosfaeT Mpo6s1eMEI, KOTOpPLIe B MHOM CJIy4ae IIpOCTO He BO3-
HUKIM Ob, IPHIBHAeT OONb, KOTOPOH MOKHO ObLIO Obi M3GE2KATb.
Ecan 611 Ham JaBanu cTo py6nelt 3a KaxkLyl0 MHHYTY, Kora MEI
UpeqaeMcs MEICIAM 0 CaMOM XY{IIIeM, 470 1uG60 He CIy4aeTCH BO-
BCe, 1460 OK AasbIBAeTCH COBCeM He TAKUM y2k CTPaLIHEIM, MEI [aBHO
mpespaTHucb ObI BO BONHe OOecNeveHHBIX Jofel. K comase-
HHO, MbI KOIHMM BOBCe He ACHOKKH, a TONLKO 6ecemEIceHHLIe
cTpamanua.
Uenoset, MbIcnALH peanMcTHUHO, sHaeT, ITO CymyecTByeT He-
Kad TOUKA PABHOBECHA, ITO WA COOLITHH HM ABNMEHU NOWKHE
OBIT pasyMuHbBIe oObACHeEHHA. Uenoper, MBICIANH peasucTH4-
HO, He OTPUIaeT BOSMOKHOCTH CaMOTO XYAIMerO, HO OF H He JOrye-
KaeT, TO 2apanmupo6anHo mponsoiyeT TOJIDKO II0X0e, HE BbIAC~
HUB CHadala BCX OOCTOATEECTB.
Manexpxuii [pmaenox ne crpocua: «A uo 9T0 ynaso MHe Ha
romopy?» On He cKasam: «Iloxome, Ha MeHS CBasIMNICA KycoueK He-
6a. Hayo 6pI nonHTepecoBaTsca MHeHMeM cheynamucToB». Her. On
HemejleHHO yfapunes B nanuky. Manenpxuit [[pmmnenox mpocro
GepeT Kakoii-To @parmeut ABMeHUA (YTO-TO yAapusIO ero 10 rovio-
Be) H HCM3MepUuMO IIpeyBeAUUMBAeT ero OTPUNATeILHBIe Oc TenCT-
Bux («OnpeszeneHHO, HeOo pyliuTca Ha 3eMJ10»). Takoe OTHOLIe-
HME K JleiHCTBUTeIEHOCTH UM HAaSbIBAeTCA «eATb M3 MYXH CIOHA>.
Uenozexa, MBICIAMeETO PeaIHCTHUHO, MO)KET OXBATUTb CTpax
Tepe, OMacHOCTbIO, OH HepeAKO MCHBITLIBAeT PAZOUApOBAaHHUe, HO
He ipeyBeIMUMBaeT UX MACIITAGOB, He JOIYCKaeT HM MBICIH 0 TOM,
uTO TosORKeHve OesHazexKHO 4 HMUePO HENIL3A NOFetaTh.
Npucaywaitect k ce6e
EcJu B IpOLIOM BaM Cy4anocb WoxmaBaTEca cHHApOMy MameHb-
xoro [[binenka, cKopee Bcero, HCxOAHOH ero TOUKON GbIIa NOBEI-
WleHHAg YBEPEHHOCTS B TOM, UTO B XKU3HM MPOMCXOAAT y2KacHBIe
Benjy, BosmoxHO, nofo6uan yOexK,eHHOCTL — 4acTb Balllero MH-
poomymenua. Manenbkuit [[pmmeHok Mor y3HaTb 43 BIOIHeE
AOCTOBEPHEIX MH BaCILYKMBAIOMIUX JOBEPUA MCTOUHHKOB, ITO IPH
HEKOTOPHIX yCNOBMAX HeGOCBOY AeiicrTBUTeIbHO MOKeT OOpy-
murTEca Ha 3emmo. Muicas o BepoaTHocTu Takoro co6niITuA 3a-[napa 2. Caapom Manenbkoro Ubinnenka 35
cTpasla y Hero B rouoBe, M BOT IIpOM3OLIIO HeKoe coGETHe (yar
opex), BEICBO6o_uBUTee ee. OcBoGoxAeHue NaHM4eCKuX MEICIeit
He IpoucxogzuT mruopeuxHo. [Icuxuatp Aapou T. Bek B xoje uc-
cule fOBaHnit BIACHU, ITO YeMOBeK 3aroBapuBaeT cam ce6aA, UpH-
xO K CAMBIM CTPalIHbIM YMO3aKJIIOUeHUAM.
Bentomuu Mapka # ero Heyga4Hoe Bbictynsenne. ye-T0 Ha 3a-
qpopkax cosHanua Mapka rBo3yem sacesa MBICJIb O BO3MOKHOI
yrpose ysobHenua. Ho korg OH TOJIbKO Ha¥al HyTb K TpuGyHe,
oH ellje He AyMau 0 Heit. Bce Hauasoct c HeKOTOporo GecnoKolicTBa
110 NOBOAY BOSMOXHO HeucHpaBHocTU MUKpo*oua. Ho nepBoHa-
YaJIbHaA MBICIb, Bpowe TOO camoro opexa, MoAcTerHy sa cIeqy10-
my! («A pactepsiocb HM NOTepalo HUTb BbICTYNeHHA»), a 3a Heli
eme ony, ene Gonee crpamuyt0... M sot necuacTHprit Mapk BuazMT
ceOat yBO.JeHHBIM.
Mapk ue cosHaer, uTo oH cam ceOa y6exxaeT, YTO BOT-BOT Ipo-
usoiyer yoKacHoe HecuacTbe. Ero BHYTpeHHUL MOHOJIOr 3aHHMaeT
qamke He MMHyTbI — ceKyH{bl, ThICHUHbIe JOM cexyHAbI! Mpican
MpoHocarca B MOSTY ¢c TakOil 6LICTPOTOHi, UTO BLIUeHUTE Kak Ly10
OTJeIbHY1O HEBOSMO2xHO. JoKTop A. Bex HasbiBaeT TakMe MBICAM
«MalIMHaJIbHEIMH >.
Mamnna.bHble MbICJIM — MBICIIM a6CO.1IOTHO 3f0POBOrO IICHxH-
ueckH uenopeka. Y 6obUIMHCTBA J07eil B MOsry Te¥er HenpepBiB-
HEI HOTOK CO3HAHUA: KOPOTKHE MeYTEI HIM CHEI HAABY, KOTOpbIe
He HMEIOT HHYerO OOero C peabHOH AelicTBUTeNBHOCTEIO. «IIpo-
CTHTe, 4 OTBIeKCA>, — ObIBaeT, TOBOPUM MBI. Muorgza ManiMHasb-
HBI€ MBICIM MrpaioT pelalollyio pOlb IPH BEINOMHEHMM KaKoi-
a1u60 pa6otE!. Croco6HocTb MrHOBeEHHO IpOJIMCTaTb B yMe KaTasior
MbIcIei — HeoOxoqMMad COCTaBHad 4acTb Uporecca IpMHATHA pe-
menus. «Cyenats sT0?.. Anu sto?» — cnpallivBaem MBI CaMy ce-
6a. Bot «epeskeBbIBaeTe» PesOHEI B NOMb3y TOLO MIM MHOFO CHeHAa-
DUA, Ipexje vem pelinTh, ITO Ke CIeMyeT AenaTh.
Ho TOCKOJIbKy BalllM MbICJIM — Kak NOUOKUTECIbHbIC, TAK MK OT-
punarenbubie — oKxasEBaioT riy60Koe BosselicTBHe Ha MOCTyIKU,
B HEKOTOPBIX CJlydaiX BAM COBEPpUIeEHHO HEOOXOAHMO 67l0.HE CO3s-
HameavHo eocnpuHUMaMb BCe, ITO BEI AyMaerTe. Bur JocraTouHo
Jerk 3aMeHUTe «KacceTy MbICIei», ecm no_olizeTe K ITOMY CO3-
HaTebHo uM cocpesoToueHHo. Kora BI elle pas «mpocmorpute»
MBICIM, KOTOpble IpUBeIM Bac K TOMY HM MHOMY yMOsaK.I10ue-
HUI, BbI DOAYYTe BOSMOKHOCTE OWCHUTL UX TOUHOCTE. MoxHo36 Q 10 rnyneiunx ownGok, KoTopbie cosepwiaioT niogn
Jake OCHOpHTh CBOM COGCTBEHHEIe MBICIM, Kak ObI IEITAACh pasy-
6eqMTE KOrO-TO NOCTOPOHHErO B TOM, 4TO Yepes ABAAWaTh MUHYT
mpousoiizer cBeTorpecTaBsieHHe («BpI B STOM yBepeHbI? A oTky4a
BbI 3Haete? M nouemy 4 A022KeH BAM BeEpUTE? >»).
Ecuu BbI HayUMTECh OCHApUBAT NOCHeMHbIe YMO3AKIOUeHUA,
K KOTOPLIM He€O*KHIAHHO IPHXOAUT CO3HAHHE, BEI 6xIcTpo paciio-
sHaeTe CUTYAaNMM, KOTAa JOTMueCcKHe BBIBOALI He MOATBEp xX TaIoT-
cA @aktTamn. Oczsous TIpHeMBI CONPOTHBACHHA MAMIMHaJIbBHEIM
MBICIIAM, Bb! U30aBUTECh OT CAMOCOBIBAIONIMXCA MPAYHEIX NpOpo-
4eCTB H, OLCHHBAA CHTYAIMO peasIbHO, CMO?7KETE IPOTHBOCTOATL
HeITATHBIM CHTyallusaM. PasyMeeTcs, BaM JaseKo He BCerga yia-
eTCA IpeAOTBpAaTHTh HeCuaCTbe HIM HEMPHATHOCTH, HO BEI 10
Kpaiineli Mepe He OyzeTe IpuAaBaTb CIyuuBIemyca Oomee riy6o-
Koro CMEICIa, UeM eCTb Ha CaMoM gene. Berpaxkanch TepmuHaMn
uctopuu o ManeubKom I[pinmenke, BbI He B COCTOAHUM penoT-
BpaTuTb Mayenne Opexa Ha MAKYIIKy, HO BHOMHE CHOCOOHEI Ipo-
THBOCTOATS NaHUKe, CTPaXaM U MPAaYHBIM MpeYyBCTBUAM, BbI-
TeKalolMM M3 NOCHEMMHOTO BbIBOAa 0 TOM, 4TO yAap 10 ToTOBe 03-
HauaeT layenne HeGecHoro cBora. Het Heo6xoqumocTu NocTosHHO
OTCEKMBATS KaK V1 CBO MBICJIb, AHAJM3MPOBaTb Kar foe Lei-
ersne. Mpi mpeyaraem Bcero IMIIb MeTOAUKy, KOTOpy!o cezyer
IpMMeCHATH B CTPeCcOBbIX CHTyauWAX, KOra BOSHUKAeT O1ac-
HOCTE JlerKO NOAAaTECA UCKyMeHMIO M HeayeKBaTHO OTpearupo-
BaT> Ha COOLITHA.
Nocnoppte CO CBOMMH MbICAAMK
Tlonpo6yitre, Korga BbI MOwyBCTByeTe, UTO paccTpaMBacTech, TO
eCTh KOrga HakaTHIBAWT NpesyyBCTBUA: «Bce mporano!», «A Bce
meperyraio», «A mpoBamiock...» — BCTYNUTb B AMCKyCccHIO co
CBOHMMH MBICIAMH.
Tlepzoe, 1 camoe BaxkHoe, cpexcTBo Gopr6nI c naryOHLIMH MEIC-
JIMH 3aKJOFaeTCA BIPOBEPKE: a ECTS JIM B HUX CMBICA? JlocTarou-
HO sajaTb ce6e Bompoc: «4To Ha caMoM Jese OSHAUAeT MBICJIb, OT
KOTOPOM MeHA TOMHUT, HepBEI HalIpA2KeHbI Kak CTPyHA, a MOST Je-
peBeHeer?»
Tonycrum, 4To BE IpULI K CrexyIoMjeMy yMO3aKsI0UeHMI0:
«A mposamocs...» Auro sHaiuT «Al»? Bamemy Tesy nopa nogro-
TOBUTECA K Nagqenuto? Unu Bei OouTech NpOBANMTECA B UHAHCO-
Bylo Mponacts? Uro sHauuT «mpoparuteca»? CymecrByer 1m pe-Thawa 2. Cniapom Manenpxoro Usinnenka Q 37
aulbHad yrposa «xusHu? MM BooGuje, KakuM O6pasom Bol OyzeTe
mpoBammBaTeca? Takoe HexuTpoe cpecTBO OKasbiBaeTca yAHEH-
TeIbHO aeKTHBHLIM. Ilouemy? Jia noTOMy, 4TO BI MpOTuBO-
cTOUTe BaMH *Ke MOCTpOeHHOMy KaTacTpoduyeckomy cileHaputo.
Mapk rozoput ce6e: «Al mponamiocn...» Ho on 2ke He JyMaer, YTO
ero Teslo AelicrsuTesbHO Kyfa-TO eHeTCH. OH M He ,yMaeT yMu-
paTb M3-3a TOTO, UTO eTO BLICTYIIeHve He CJIORKUIOCk. Uro oe on
viMeeT B Buy? CMyujenue? BosmoxkHOoe HEJOBOIECTBO HavasIbHu-
xa? Jla, nepenexTuBa ne onpaBgaT> YbUX-TO O*UJanUH, KOHEIHO,
He OUeHb IPHATHA, HO OHA He MMeeT HUKAKOYO OTHOMMeHHA K busu-
4“eCKOMy HMC4esHOBeHHW. MoxHo 1m CIpaBHTbCaA C HEIMPMATHOCTA-
mu? Korga Mapx qact ce6e Trpyy, NOxyMaTb Hay TeM, UTO OH Ha ca-
MOM Jeue UMeeT B BUAY, eTO NanwKa Noize Ha yORUIb.
Ham upuatuo nosarath, UTO MEI BCerya rOBOpuM TO, ITO ZyMa-
eM, M yMaeM TO, ¥TO ropopum. Ho ecm xopollleHbKO Mopa3MBIC-
AMTb, UPMAeTCA IpUsHaTD, YTO NOAOOHBIe yTBepxX_eHUA BecbMa
AaneKu OT UCTHHEI. Mp1 uacto TOBOpUM — HU flyMaem — HackKopo:
«Uymb», «SameyaTebHO». Mp oveHb YacTo rumep6omusHpyem:
«Sl wyTb He yMep oT cMyljeHus> (BEI Kora-HuOyAL Bue UeNO-
BeKa, KOTODbIi CKOHUAJICA OT 3ACTEHYMBOCTH?), «1 C CaMoro yTpa
wero He ex. [Ipocro ymmpaio c ronogy» (spt xoTuTe ecrs? Ja. Br
ymupaere c ronogy? Comumrenbuo. Yuupars oT ronoqa — sHaunT
cTpaglaTb OT J.IMTebHOrO HeAOcTaTKa MMI u KpaiiHero ucToue-
Hus). MspI uacro BocIpHHHMaeM 3HAYeHHe CIOBa HIM pask 10
IpHBEIUKe.
B uspecrHom aHekyoTe qecaTuneTunit MaJIbBIuK CipalinBaerT
oTya: «xum rosoput, 470 of u3 Kanpnensa...>
Ouexb 4acTo BbI MMEeTE B BULy COBCeM He TO, O ¥em AyMaete. Bar
Toiimete sro, ecm Kak-HuOyab OcTAaHOBUTeC U cIpocnTe cebx:
«410 4 uMeW B BUY M Kakoli cMbICI A IpHjaio TeM C1OBaM, KOTO-
Pure saHuMAIOT Moli Mosr?>38 Q 10 raynetuux own6ox, KoTopbie copepuiaiT mogn
He Hago KaTactpop
Ecam 6n1 Mapk npoananm3upoBal MBICIN, MeIbKaBLUMe y Hero 10
NYT K Tpu6yHe, OH JOROMBHO AerkKo ompoRepr 61 cam cea 10 Ka-
aK OMY IYHKTY C MOMOLIbIO [pyro nouesHoO MeToAMKU, KOTOpyIO
MO2KHO yCJIOBHO HasBaTb Mapk mpocmaTpuzaet cBou MBICAH — mporo-
HAT UX Tepe] MEICICHHBIM B3OPOM 4 IIpoBeps#eT UX Ha COOTBETCT-
Bue AelicrBuTenbHOcTH.
«/1aKai0 Moe noBbIWeHUe. XOPOUIO, ECU MeHA XOMA ObI He yBONAM...»
«Hey2xesm Bce Tak rpycTHo? Hey2xesM OfHO BRICTyNMeHHe, Fake
He OWeHL yauHoe, TepeBecuT BCe TO XOporlee, UTO A CAeTAaI PaHb-
we? Bri 1M B Halle (bupMe cayuait, YTOGbI Koro-TO yBOmMIM 3a
TO, ¥TO OH 8aMKaJICA BO BpeMs BEICTyNeHUA? CBoero camoro lep-
BOrO BBICTYIeHHA? »
«Al nomepsio Hume ebicmynneHua. A HaYHy 3auUKameca. A ace nepeny-
maw. Bce 6yOym cmeamoca Hado MHOU».
«Ja Hey2xeM? Y MeHA eCTb TeKCT peu Ha AecaTu crpanunax. He
Oyay 2Ke 4 NyTaTbcs Ha kaxjon? [ymazo, sro Her. K romy xe Bpay,
IM KTO-TO OKUJaeT, YTO A GyAy BLICTYMATb, Kak YuucToH Uep-
WHWIb uM Puget Kactpo». Tlaxe ecrm mpousHecenuas MapKom
IyTKa OKaKeTCA HeyMecTHOM, JaKe ecu OH M BUpABLy HadHeT
3aHKaTLCa, HeyKeJIM BCe CTaHyT Had] HUM cmeaTEca? Hazrepuaka B
gamle ECT OAM, KOTOpbie Mpomm yepes HeEYTO TOAOGHOe. Onn ca-
MM TOUHO TAK 2Ke OMIMOaIUCh. Cxopee BCeroO, OHH OTHECYTCA K He-
onbITHOMY OpaTopy cOouyBCTBeHHO. A MHOrHe MpocTo He O6paTaT
BHUMaHUaA Ha orpexu. Mapk mor 651 HanOMHUTE ce6e 06 9TOM.[napa 2. CuHapom Manenbkoro Ubinnenka OQ 39
«Mukpopou cromaemca».
«Ecau Mukpoon comaetTca, TO MHe IpHyeTcA TOBOpMTb rpom-
ue». Peanucruueckoe MbIIIeHHe He JaeT rapaHTHu Toro, 4TO san
Harpagur Mapka BocTopxkeHHbimu annoqucmenramu. Ecrecrsen-
HO, OH XOYeT CeTaTh CROIO paboTy Kak MOxHO Jlyume. Koneuno, on
paccTpoucs, eciu eMy He yJacTca CuelaTs BCe TAK, KaK OH Hayes
ea. OjHako camo 3HaHue 0 cun_pome Maxexsxoro I[pimenka 1
CHOCOGHOCTh aHaJIM3HpOBaTb MbICJIM yoke LoMoryT Mapky ycnoKo-
utses. On Nosyuaer BO3MO2%KHOCTE CocpesOTOUNTECA Ha BBICTYTIIE-
HMM, a He Ha COUMHEHMM CleHAapUA NOCeAOBATeIbHBIX HeCuacTHi.
Ox Bce ele BOMHYeTCA, HO yxKe He HanloMMHaeT HEpBHO paccTpoeH-
HY} pasBanuHy. A eCi OH OTJACT BCe CHJIbI BICTYIeHHIO, TO CHH-
SHT BepOATHOCTS HacTyImeHHA Hectacruil, KOTOpEIX OMacaeTes.
Ajonpoc cengetena
Bee BbIilecKasaHHoe eCTeCTBEHHEIM 06Pa30M NOABOMUT HAC K Ce
Aytoujeii MeToquKe, KoTOpad HOCUT HasBaHne <«]lonpoc cBuzeTe-
as», [locnenrHsie BEIBOAE YBEIMYMBaIOT BEPOATHOCTE NpONycKa
HeKOeFO CBUJETEIECTBA, KOTOPOe, SyMb OHO IPHHATO BO BHUMA-
Hwe, MOrso ObI IPUBeCTH K COBePIIeHHO MHBIM 3ak0GeHMAM. Ec-
IM 9MOUMM 3aXBaTbIBAIOT KOHTPONb Hay COsHAHMeM, OHO serKo
UPUXOUT K BLIBOZAaM, KOTOpsIe 160 Boobie HUUeM He OGOCHOBa-
HEI, 160 GasMpyIOTCa Ha BECbMa COMHMTENIBHBIX CBUCTEIbCTBAX.
TIpeqnonoxum, uro Manenbxnit [binmenox Ha MrHoBeHne oc-
TaHOBMIca M sagas ceGe JOrm4HBIit BOMpoc: «A ¥TO sacTaBUO Me-
Hs TogyMars, uTo Hebo nagaer?» On nomyunn yap no ronoze. Ho
uouemy 6bI He WOcMOTpeTb Ha HeGo? — «Iloxorxe, OHO BHIrIAAUT
Kak o6nrdHO» . Mo Ho cnpocnTs ce6a, U3BECTHEI 1M Cyaan OOpy-
WeHMA HeOOcBOsa B IpOULWIOM? BosMO2KHO, CTOMT OFIAeTHCH BO-
Kpyr, 4 Torga o6Hapy2xXuTca opex. Muoroe MoxKHO cenaTh, eC
Aarb cebe LepesbILIKY, KOTOpad MO3BONMT 3aaBaTb BOMpOCEI.
3anncb mbicnei
Cungzpomy Manenpxoro I[nmnmenka 10,Bep2KeHEI HE TOKO JI0-
AM, Tonajaronne B CTpeccoByi0 CUTYyallMi0 (cheniKa, onosqaHue Ha
Toesq, MoAroToRKa kK ny6M4HOMY BEICTyIeHHI0). OH MOKET Mpo-
ABMTECA B 11060 MoMeHT. Beyepom B cHoKOHO OGcTaHOBKe y ce-
65 JoMa BEI pasMBINLIATM O YeM-TO M BAPyr TouyBeTRORAIH ceba40 Q 10 rnyneiumx own6ox, koTopeie cosepwanr niogn
mpocto yxxacHo. Cepalfe peppaljaerca B KycoK Jbyqa. Tloapanet-
ex OMyIeHHe, 4TO Bce Nponano: «Mue Hukorga He yBUeTE MOUX
Jeteii», «Mue Hukorsa He CIpaBHTECA C IpoeKToM», «Fl ero coBep-
IIeHHO He uHTepecy1o», «/KenmMHEI He 1106aT Mena». Huxorga.
Huxak. Yoxacuo. Hecuactse. Karacrpotba.
B rakHe MOMCHTHI OWL BAHKHO He TOIbKO OCOSHaTb MalIH-
HaJIbHBI€ MEICIM, KOTOPble MOABeTM HAC K TAKUM BEIBOZaM, HO 1
samucaTE ux. Eom MbI YBHIMM HX 3allMcaHHbIMH YepHEIM 10 6est0-
MY, MBI ObIcTpee clipaBuMcs Cc UpequyBCTBHEM KaTacTpods!. Mpic-
IM, Nepenecenutle Ha GyMary, MoxHO od(beKTHBHO Mpoanamusn-
poBaTb.
Tlonpo6yiite npogenatp creqytoujee. Sante BEIBOABI, CAe-
JaHHble BaMM B CJIO%KHO cuTyanuu. Ilorom nozyMaiire u Hanu-
IIHTe TO, YTO IpuBeo Bac K HUM. Kakoii cMBICH BBI BKAAaABIBAH B
cBou copa? Tlouemy BbI AyMaeTe, ¥TO MpousoliseT caMoe cTpall-
Hoe? Ilouemy 6ega HeorspaTuma? Uro caupeTembcrByerT 0 ee HEN3-
6exHocTu?
Cupocure ce6a: «[louemy a Tax qyMaio? YsepeH 1 & B BBIBO-
ax? Uro camoe m0xoe MoxkeT Mpousoiitu? Cuory mM 4 nepexuTh
ato? A apyrue?» Bri yOequTech, YTO OTBETHI Ha BONPOCbI BAM aBHO
uspecrunt. [pocro Hanomuute ce6e, uTO HayO 3aaBaTb Takue BO-
Mpocel. Vuorga CaMa 3alIMCb MBICJIei 0 HecuacTbe M1 mocieszyroujee
uX IpoureHve pa3sBeuBaioT rHycHoe HacrpoeHue. To, TO KaxKeTCA
YKACHBIM B MBICJIAX, B 3aTMCH BbITVIAAMT COBCEM He TAK y2K CTpalli-
HO. Cyemas 3allvcb, BbI CTAHOBUTECE B Gosee yAOOHY10 NOSHIMIO Jt
BEIACHEHUA BCEX OGCTOATENECTB.
BctaHbTe Ha CBOlW 3alyMTy
VMuorga nonesxHo mpescraButs, 470 BEI yOeKaeTe K020-mo Opyzozo
B TOM, ¥TO Jewa COBCeM He Tak yox W0xH. Ecru Ont BbI ObIIM 3a-
INMTHHKOM Ha yroJIOBHOM Ipotecce, Balla padora BakJIIOUaAIach
6EI B TOM, UTOOLI 3aqaBaTb BOMPOCHI M BLIHOCHTD Ha CBeT I0GBIe
bakT4I, KOTOPbIe MOryT MocesTE B AyWMax IPHCAKHLIX PasyMHBIe
comHenna: «Tocnoga, Kak BEI MoxeTe ObITb YBePeHEI B TOM, UTO
MOA TOAsaluTHAaA CoBepmua yOulicTBO? Ona cama MpusHaach?
Her. Kro-Hu6yAb Bujen, Kak ona yOuBaeT? Her».
Jlaoxe ecm HeT HUKaKkUX COMHCHHIE B TOM, ITO MO,OspeBaemast
AelicTBuTeIbHO CoBepIIuIa MHKPAMUAMpyemoe eli NeAHHe, a{BO-
Kav yopHo 6yzeT NpenosHOCUTE Npucs2KHEIM OHO CMaAruaionieeTasa 2. CnHapom MeneHskoro Ybinnenka Q 41
oOcTOxTeIbCTBO 3a ApyruM, 4TOObI yMeHbIIMTb TAKECTh MPHro-
Bopa:
— Ja, ona crpersna, HO OH TepBbIM MOgHAI opyxue.
— Ha, ona crpemana, Ho WenMack B MUIIeHE, a OH Meu Kak pas
HalIpoTus.
— Ja, ona na2Kana Ha Kypor, Ho Ona 2Ke He sHama, TTO MUCTONeT
sapsKeH.
— fa, ona crpensna B Hero, HO B pasrap ApocTHo# ccopsi. A n0-
Tomy yOulicTBO He GbIIO IpeqHaMepeHHEIM.
Ecau bbl UyBCTBYeTe, ITO OTOBbI BbIHeCTH BEPAMKT 0 Heu3s6exK-
HOCTH M HEOTBPAaTUMOCTH KaTAacTpOdEI, mompoGyiire mepecmoTpeTh
cBMeTeIbCKve NoKasaHua. JleiicrBuTesbHO JIM TO, Yero BEI ONa-
caeTech, CTOIb OUCBUAHO, Kak BEI yrBepxpaete? Ecrs 2 cmar-
yalomue O6crosTembcTBa?
Zleru Boppema He Npuliau Jomo u He NoOsBoHUIM. VY Matepu
MPOHOCHTCH OfHA CTPallHas MBICIb 3a APyrou, HU B KOHWE KOHIOB
OHa IpHXOAUT K BLIBOAY, ITO AeTH yOuTEI HM NoxumenLI. Kora
oHa MOWyBCTBYET, UTO ee 3AXJECTHIBACT BOHA NaHUKH, KeHUIMHA
AOsKHA OCTAHOBUTECA U CIIpoCUTS ceba:
«3Hal0 IM Af HABePHAKA, UTO COGEITHE, KOTOpOrO A OTacalocn,
AelicTBUTebHO Mpousous0?
Tlockompxy 4 He Tomyunsa nMchMa c TpeGoBaHHem BEIkyna 1
MH He 3B0HMJIM M3 NOMILMM, y MeHs OTCyTCTByeT HeoOxoguMad
wHopMalua».
B Tex MHOTOUMCHeHHBIX CIYYAAX, KOTMa BI y2Ke TOTOBHI B TOI
HH HHO cbopMe MoBepHTE B MageHHe HeOocBosa, sasalire ce6e 10-
AOOUBIE KIOUeBLIE BOMPOCHI M BLI HABEPHAKA YECTHO WalUuTe Ha
HUX OTPHUATeNbHBIH OTBeT. To eCTb TO, 4ero BbI GouTech, mozcem
okazamoca npasdoil, HO y 6ac Hem HUKaKUX pewaiwuux JoKasa-
meavcme.
— AB IIpomiom AeTH ona3zqbIBaIM AOMOM? OObaAcHAIMCh IH
UX O103qaHMA TeM, ITO OHM CTaIKMBANMCh C KPHMMHAIbHEIMH
enyuasmu?
— fla, onn u panbure onasapiBanu. UM ornwa”b He nOTOMy, 4TO
OHM CTaHOBMINCh KepTBAaMH pecTyiieHua.
Ecuu 8 MpOWWJIOM Bald ONaceHuA He OpaBALIBA/MCb, TO 10ue-
My UMeHHO ceiiuac OHV JOKHEI COBITBCA?
Tlockompky paubiie JeTn He ona3{bIBaH AOMON, JaBalire saya-
uM cmepzyiouyue Bompocst:42 Q 10 raynefumx own6ox, Kotopsie cosepwiaioT mogn
Q Ecrs 1m pasymubie o6bacHeHua TOMY, 4¥TO peGaT ele HeT Joma?
Q Mosxer 6nrTb, y ux aBTOMOOuNA ChycTHNa WIMHA, a PAOM HeT
Tereoua?
Q BosmoxHo, AeTu CuAAT B Kade u OonTaioT c NpHATeIAMM, UM
Becesl0, H OHM He SaMeuaIOT BpeMeHH.
a Pe6Osra npeneOpernn moum TpeOoBaHveM BepHYTECA JOMOi k On-
peyeeHHOMy cpoKy H Mofzanuch UcKyWeHMIO NoliTu MepeKy-
cuTb c npuatersmu. la, onM HenocryMIHbIe AeTu, HO OHM — MOH
cern.
But Moxere BO3pasHTb, UTO y MATePH HET TOKasaTeIbCTB U B
WOJb3y BCeX Nepe4YMCJleHHEIX OObAcHeHUM. Mower 1M OHA ObITb
yBepenHoii B Hux? Her. Ho ecu y Hee HeT apryMeHTOR B NOMbSy HU
TOro, HU {pyroro OOBACHEHUA, 110 KaKOli IpHuMHe Hago BLIGUpaTb
caMoe CTpalllHoe, MOBepuTE B KaTacTpody u BuazaT B ucTepuKy?
Hafiqute owm6ku Ha KapTHHKe
Bam, HapepHoe, BCTpeyasMch TaKkve TOMOBROIOMKU, Korya Ha Pu-
cyHKe Hao HaiitH aJleMeHT HeyMeCTHBIit, HeEJIOIM4HEI, Helpa-
BUIbHBI: AepeRO, CTOAINee BREPx HOTaMN, 1u60 KpaH, U3 KOTO-
poro Boga TeyeT BBepXx, 160 coGaky, BeAyy10 Ha IOBOAKe 4eJI0-
Beka. Wuorga, paccmMaTpuBanr HapucopaHHEit BooOpaxeHuem
cyeHapuk KaTacTpobl, HMeeT cMBICI CUpocuTh ceOa: «ro He-
TpaBuseHo Ha sTOM KapTuHKe?» Mamuna Mapu-Osnex cnoma-
JaCb IPAMO B TYHHE Le, Bla OT BIXOfa HOT PeMOHTHOM MacTep-
exoi. Teppas mutem: «A TyT sacTpaAHY Ha HeCKOEKO 4AaCcoR>.
Tlocnequaa: «Mue He XBaTHT BOSLyxa, H A 3ag0xHycb». Mapu-on-
eH MHOBeHHO Mpumiia K BEIBOJY 0 TOM, ¥TO OHA sallepTa B MaLIM-
He HW HUYEZO He Moncem COenamb. Ona BUAUT ceOA BaNbIXatollelica
BHYTPH sanepro Mamuust. Uro HenpaBusbHo Ha KapruHKe Ma-
pu-OneH? Jlapaitre Hapucyem Maiuuy. EcTb 1M B Heli He4TO Ta-
K0e, UTO MO2KeT IOMOUL OKasaBlieiics 1 GesBEIXOAHOM NoTOKeHun
Keune?
Ecrp 10 y Mammut oKHa? Mono 1H HX OTKPEITL, Mperkye vem
BeCh BO3IyX B MalllMHe KOHUNTCA? EcTs JIM y MalMHEI ABepu? Morx-
Ho 1H Buritt? Bosmoxuo, Mapu-Drsen 1 cama coo6pasnr, uTo y Ma-
IIMHEI €CTb OKHA M [BEPU, UTO MX MO)KHO OTKDBITS H BBIHTH, HO Te-
mepb OHA ONacaeTCs TOTO, UTO cTata GessallMTHO Nepeyx HanayeHu-Tnawa 2. Cmiapom Maneneioro Ubinnenka Q 43
eM rumorervueckux rpadurese, KoTopble HaBepHAKa efyT BCE,
3a Heli. Bor TyT-To oHa u JOH PACCMOTpeTE BCe IpeuMylecTBa H
HeMOCTATKM BCX BO3MO2KHBIX BAPHAHTOB JelictBui. UTo omac-
Hee — OTKDPEITS OKHA WIM OCTATECA B 3AKPEITOM MalmmHe? EcTs 11
kakoe-HHGy2b KOMNPOMUCCHOe pemteHue? MoxHO, Halipumep,
UPHOTKpLITE OKHO coBceM HeMHOKO. IepesecuT mm nory4aemoe
TIpe“MylecTBO NOTeHIMaIbHy!O onacHocTs? Ler pasmMbiiitenuit
COCTOUT B TOM, TTOOEI OCIIOpuTE MepBoe KaTacTpouyecKoe yMoza-
KIIOUeHHE, BEPHYTECA K AKOOBI OesHayeoXHOMY MOOK eHMIO UM Hepe-
CMOTpeTL YCIOBHA HaHvueckKol KanuTyauun. Mut AouKHEI Ha-
YUTCA NPOTABOCTOATS UCKYIIeHMIO CKATUTECA 10 CaMoii KOpoT-
KOH AOpoxxKe OT nepBol 2e HETATHBHOH MbICIM K BbIBOAY O HeOT-
BPaTMMOCTH H Heu3sbeKHOCTH HecuacThA, JoKasamenvcmea 1ez0
nonnocmbio omcymcmeyiom.
Bce nyt Beayt B Begorpag
Ecau Bur pemmre 103BONMTE CeCe MPOKATUTECH 10 NYTH CTpalABIX
Mbicueii, BEI, CKOpee BCero, He GyfeTe UCIIITHIBATS HEAOCTATKa HH
B cpeycTBax MepeABUKeHUA, HU B BEIGOpe BapuaHToR Joporu. Ana-
U3UPyA CBOU MBICIV, Monpobyiite pacnosHars, He UJeTe JIM BBI 10
OnHOH 13 OACHEIX JopoxkeK.
Nytb rno6anbHbIx BbIBOAOB
Bsr ropopute ce6e: «SI He yMel0 JeNarTb oTO. SHauuT, A He yMelo Je-
arp xuvezo». Bur Bri6panu ofHy Heysauy B OAHOM 4acTHOM cJly-
‘ae H IPUXOAUTE K rI0GaJIbHOMY BEIBOAY.
Keir xorera craTb MequIMHCKOH cecTpoii, Ho oOujeo6pasoza-
TeNbHBIM HAaYYHEIM KYPC OHA MPOMINa He O4eHb YCNewtHO, uM eByII-
Ke IPHUIUNOCh OCTABHTL MCAMIMHCKOe YUMIUIIe. pyr TlOCOBeTO-
Basi eit BEIOPATb APYTY10 ClleMMaABHOCTd 10 YXOAY 3a JOALMH, He
Tpe6yromyro HaysHol nogroropnH. Ho Keiir c ropproit yememoit
Bospaswa: «41H Tam Bce saBamo. A mpocTo Tynuma>. Keiit muma-
eT ce6A BCAKOM BOSMO*KHOCTH yaHaTb, CyWecTByeT 1H Kakaa-ToO
OONacTh AeATENbHOCTH, B KOTOPOH OHA MOrsa ObI NPOABUTE CBO
TAJIAHTHI.
Nytb o606uweHnii
Bur ropopute cede: «Ceroqua HuverO He HOMyuM0Cb. SHayuT, HU-
korga He BbIiieT>.44 Q 10 rnyneiwux own6ok, Kotopsie cosepwiaioT niogn
Honycrum, Bet ZyMaere: «A aBa pasa Npurmamian MOnOABIX
2KeHIIHH Ha cBuAaHHe. O6a pasa MHe OTKasamu. 3HauHT, A He
HpaBJ1H0Cb 2KeHIMHAM. HukTO HUKorsa He IpupeT KO MHe Ha CBU-
anne, u7o Gb A HH Jenan». A BEI yBepeHEI?
Iicuxonor Anp6ept ImMc O4eHb J0OUT paccKasbIBaTb UCTO-
PHIO 0 TOM, Kak B MOJIOM0CTH emy yAasOcb AOOuUTLCA yerexa BOTHO-
WeHUAX C HKeHUMHAaMH. Jlo FeBATHAqUATH eT On ObIT pOOKHM MO-
AOAbIM Ye10BeKOM, NaHM4ecKH GoALIMMCA BOSMOMHOFO OTKAsA
aesymuku. Topasmsicane 0 croeit pobocru, I1muc Mpulien K BLIBO-
Ay, 4TO HM4ELO TAKOLO y2KACHOLO HE mpousoiizer, eCJIM eMy MW OTKa-
axyt. MZ noromy on sagan ce6e camocTostesbHy0 padorty B Ayxe
KOFHUTMBHOM MCHXOJOTUH: OH pelMs NocuAeTS Ha OAHOU Ui TOM Ke
cKaMeiike c coTHeii 2Xe€HUJHH HM NOrOBOpHTE C Kaxgont ofHy MMHy-
TY, XOTA ObI OAHY MMHYTY, He OOpalijad BHUMAHHA Ha TepexkuBae-
MBbIit HM ZucKomdopt. Brmornaag saganue 10 «mpeosonennio
CTEIAIMBOCTH» (KCTATH, Fob CIIYCTA OH BEK.IOUMJI IpoBepeHHoe Ha
upakTuke yipaxHenue B paspaSoTaHHyto0 MM cucTemy pallwoHasb-
HO-9MOUMOHAILHOM Tepalun), IHC 3a MeCHIL TOSHAKOMUJICA C
corHeit xenujuH. Kayo us HMX HasHatal CBUyaHuA, HM He Upu-
mma TOMBKO ofHa! Y6equBiiuch, TO HuYerO yoKACHOTO U KaTAaCcTpo-
(buveckoro pu sHaKOMCTBe HM OTKase He NpovcxoguT, Anb6ept 91-
Jtuc NpeBpaTHsica B a6comI0THO PacKOBaHHOrO YeOBeKAa Wake B
OOWIeHHM C CAMBIMU, Kasa0cb Ob, HENPUCTYIMHEIMM 2KeHIMHAaMH.
SapasaB Abe, a 3aTe€M H TPH COTHH 3HAKOMCTB, OH mpHo6pen Tako
yenlex, kak HUKaKoii Apyroi Momojoit uenozex B Hp10-Mopxe.
B rparegun B. Iexcnupa «lOnuii Iesapn» ects rakue crpoxn:
«Tpyc yMupaeT MHOrO pa3 10 cMepTH, a xpabpEiii cmepTb ORME
JIMIIb pas BKyWaeT!» Tenopeky, CK.IOHHOMY K o6o6mjeHHAM, AO0C-
TaTOUHO O1MH pas NoTepleTh Hey faty, YTOOLI HeMe/IeHHO BOOOpa-
auTb ce6e Len NocaexyIomMx MpoBasos, a BoOOparkaemble Heysa-
‘4M He MeHee GonesHeHHEI, 4eM PeaTBHBIe.
Nytb noapaxkanua
TlogpaxxaHue Mo2xtHO yCIOBHO Ha3BaTb atphextom Mumomonka.
Ero cyt — mpuuatue Ha Bepy (6e3 BEIAcHeHUA MpHUHH, Ges BO-
mpocos) KaTacrpotpuyeckHx yMOsaKIOVeHH Apyrnx rope. Ko-
ra Manenpenit I[pintenox IIpOMUaJICA MMMO C BOIJIAMHM O TOM,
TO HeGo MaqaeT, APysbs C ITMUberO ABOpa NOBepHIH ero CIOBaM.
Vi nauuna nompixuyya, Kak JlecHoit moxap.Tnasa 2. Cavapom Manexsxoro Ubinnenka QQ 45
Tlanukepsi o61afaior cocoGHocrbio lepexasarb Halilpaxenue
oxpyxalomjum. CymjecrsByer Takoit o6opor pean: «B KomuHarTe T0-
BUCO TAKOe HAIIpAXKEHHE, ITO ETO MOXHO ObLIO pesaTh HOXKOM>.
Kaxerca, cam Bosayx IpomuTan HalIps»KeHHeM, KOTOpOe OOLTUHO
co3qaeTCH YeOBEKOM, COBePIeHHO yBePeHHEIM: BOT-BOT I1pO-
uaoiizer caMoe cTrpatHoe, OHO yxxe pszoM. Ecan sui naenute Ha
TPpYAb 3HAYOK «3aBTPa HACTYNMT KOHeI cBeTa», TO cKOpo 6yzeTe
OKpy2KeHbI JIOALMU, yOok JCHHLIMU B Balleii mpazore. Ho zaxe
eCIH AeliCTBUTEIbHO 3aBTPa KAKAA-TO YaCTh MMPOSTAHUA NPOBa-
AHTCA B TapTapapEl, BpAg JM AWA Bac oTO GyseT TeM CaMEIM COGEI-
THEM, KOTOPOTO BBI Bcerla olacamucb. Crpalinee Bcero Aut 4esO-
BeKa TO, 4TO KacaeTca ero 14H. [na oMHUX camoii HacToAIeH
KaTacTpo@ou oKasbiBaeTCA HeyWaya B JU0OBH, JIA ADyTux HeT HH-
uero yxacHee pyxHyBilei kappepsi. [lia MHorux KaTacTpoba
mpeAcTaBIAeTCA B UMCTO 1eHe*KHOM BbIpArKeHUH.
Nyt» npeysenuyenna
Cyenars us Myxu CiloHa O¥eHb Npocro. MoxkHo JollycTuTb HesHa-
UMTeCJIBHY!IO omu6ny JIM NepeKUTL MCJIKY!IO HeEIIPHATHOCTL, HO
UpeqmoiaraTh, ITO OHH OyayT MMeTb CaMble MpadHble NOCIezCT-
sua. [IpeyBermuenue — m106uMoe sanaTue mnOxOHApUKoB. Jler-
Kui HACMOPK OKasbIBaeTCA Y HUX IPH3HaKOM HeMMHyeMO HayBu-
ratoujeiica cmeptu. Ecrs rTakoii anekyor mpo HNOxoHApHKa,
KOTOPBIi CKOHYAICH B BOSPAcTe JeBAHOCTA JEBATH JeT, HO 3aBe-
Iasi HanMcaTE Ha Hagrpobun: «fl xe BaM ropopus, ITO A GoaeH!»>
Tera HepegKo paccKasbIBalor HDAaBOYUMTebEBI CTUIIOK,
KOTOphIit NPUsBAaH NO_YepKHYTE BaxxtHOCTE Memouel. Ou HauHHa-
eTca copamu: «He Obi0 rBosqa — MOAKOBa yilasa».
He 6pi10 nNoAKoBbI — AOWIAayb 3axpomasia.
Jlomay» 3axpomasia — KoMaHaMp your.
Koununa paa6ura, apmus Gexur.
Bpar BopBasica B ropog, UAeHHBIX He Wala,
Tloromy uo B kysHune He Gr110 rBo3nal
Npomerkytounpie atanbi
TipeqnonoxuM, YTO MMeHHO BaM MOpy4eHO BecTH BOlicKO B Goi.
Ogun us congat ropoput Bam: «Jlyume 651 HaM cpagy cyarEca, T0-
TOMY 4TO y JOMALM 43 NOAKOBEI BLIBAIHJICHA TBO3Ab». LTO MOA
HO BOspasuTb MaHuKepy, uTOOEI AOKasaTh, YTO WaHcEI Ha MoGeny46 Q 10 raynetiwux own6ox, KoTopHie copepwiatoT miogn
BCe-TaKH CoxpaHaloTca? Jlasalire NOCMOTpUM, Kakve IIpomexky-
TOUHEIE STALE! OTMEIAIOT MOTePlO TBO3AA OT KpylleHua rocyzaper-
Ba. 1 Hemb3a JIM MepenoMuTs xog cobzITui BO BpeMa OAHOTO U3
Hux?
UTo HaM U3BeCTHO HaBepHaka? TBo3ab notepssica. Ho peqb
TLOAKOBAa DepxxHTCA He Ha OAHOM Boze. Ckopee Bcero, OHA OCTA-
aacb Ha MecTe.
Aazaiire npeznonoxKuM, ITO NOAKOBA BCe-TAKM OTBANMIACh.
Jlomayb Bexb MOKeT ABUTATECA U Oe3 NOAKOBH. B KOHL KOHIOB,
He BCce JOMAaTH MOAKOBAHEI.
Hy saquo. *Kepeber saxpoma u cOpocus KomaHyupa. Ho Benb
OH MovKeT MepececTb Ha Apyroro. Ha xyfoli Konen, on OOasaH cpa-
2KATCA 1 B Melle CTpoWw.
Ho jae ecuu Komangup yOuT — cpaxenue eile He Ipourpano.
Congatsi xpa6pbl M CMeKasIMCTEI, OH CTpeMaTCs K Mobexe.
Tlaxxe ecum cpaxeHue mpourpano, BoliHa Bexb He OKOHYeHA?
MoI noxTOTOBMMCA K KOHTPHACTYIeHUIO U OTBOWEM ropor.
Mor paso6panu cruxoTBopenve He AA TOrO, UTOObI JOKasaTD,
UTO B XKU3HU MeJIOUN He MMeWT 3HaAveHHA. OuesuzHo, a4TO pay Te-
vTasel MoxKeT OlpeseiaTb padory Bcero MexaHusma. Ho sgecb
KJHOUCBBIM CJIOBOM ABJIAETCA COBO «mozcem». Moet uMeT pe-
Iatollee 3HayeHHe. A MoxeT H He uMetTb. PeamucruuHoe MBIUIIE-
Hie IIpM3eIBaeT Bac He IpeyBeIMuMBATE NocMeACTBui e_UBMIHOTO
HeraTHBHOrO coOLITHA Ges BhINCHeEHUA OOCTOATEILCTB, 6e3 MONbI-
TOK conpoTuB.leHua, 6e3 HoBTOpHOro OOsyMEIBAHUA.
TIpopa6orka BO3MOXKHEIX NPOMeKYTOUHBIX Warow TOMOAeT
BaM [IpeZOTBpaTUTL Mepexog K KaTacrpodbuueckuM yMosak.110Ue-
HUSAM H He HaKUKamMb Hacmosuyw Oedy.
3auta, a He paspyweHne
OcropoxHocTs — Belly, oueHE noesHad. OcHOBEIBas CBOM HocTyII-
KM Ha Ipeso107KeHUH, YTO C HAM, YTO ObI MBI HM JeranM, HuerO
CJIYIHTLCA He MO2KET, KOC-KTO IbITAeTCA BCTATE Ha IyTH y TAIKEIO-
TO rpy30BMKa, Koropsiit He ocTaBMT M MOKporo MecTa OT Gesymila.
Ecaua HrHOPHPpOBaTL mpobusaktuyeckue MeZHIMHCKHe o6cueq0Ba-
HUA, MO*KHO NPONycTuTh pasBuTve TAKeOTO saGoeBaHUA. Bee je-
JO B TOM, “TOG Halli MBICIH H peAcTaBsIeHHA TpaBHJILbHO COOT-
HOCHJIMCS C PeasIbHBIMU COOITHAMM, Yero pH XApAaKTepHEIX OMIHO-
KaX MBIMJIeHUA yAaeTcs JOOMTECA AaseKo He Bcersa.Tnaea 2. Canapon Manenskoro Usinnenka O47
Tlonumanne TOrO, 4TO He B HallIMx CHJlax CHeEMaTb ATO-TO AIA
cBoeP0 CIACeHUA, B HEKOTOPEIX CILyUaAX — NpMsHak peamucTuue-
CKOFO MBIMWIe€HUA, HO, IPHHATHI 3a OCHOBy OOpasa KU3HH, Takolt
MOAXO BeeT TOMEKO K AyWeBHO! ONycTOMeHHOCTH, He NO3BOAA
3ABASbIBATb OTHOMEHHA C OAM («Het cMBICIa NOKasbIBaTb
cBOe pactomoxXkeHHe, BCe paBHO MeHA OTBepruyT»). Takoit MosxX0g
quae? Hac 603MONHHOCMU IPO,YMAaTh UPHHUMaeMBIe pemeHuA
(«A copepmienxo o6eccunena oT ces»). Takoii no_xog sallpemaer
HaM [peApHHUMarTs War, yBOLAIIMe B CTOPOHY OT BO3MO2KHOTO
HeCUACTEA,
YBepPeHHOCTS B TOM, YTO CaMOe TIOXOe y2Ke IPOM3OLLNO HH TO-
TOBO BOT-BOT NPOHSOHTH, IHIMAeT Hac cnoco6HOcTH Hu MoTpeOHocTH
AecTBOBATb, OTHUMAET CHIEI, HEOOXOMMMEIe ANA 3allMTHI ceOA 1
cBoux 62u3Kux. M nao6opot, peanucru4HbIit BarnAy Ha Mp OT-
KDPBIBaeT HAI Pa3yM HOBBIM PellleHMAM HM BOSMOXHOCTAM, KOTO-
pre B IpOTHBHOM Cilydae OcTamuch Obl 3a MpeseaMM Halllero NOAA
speuua. Paccmarpusaiite pasyMHbIit PUCK Kak Mary 3a BXO_HOit
6useT, KOTOpBIit HEOOXOAUMO IpeAbABUTD, UTOOBI OOpecTu ycuex,
TOY4HTS yAOBIETBOPeHHe U BOsHarpartjeHne.
Hacroamaa saujuta sakawuaerca B peanucTu4Hom oneHKe
cUTyaluu, B TOTOBHOCTH TpOaHaIU3supOBaTh abTepHATHBHBIe
pewenua. Jlocrarouno KoporKo nepesbimku, HeOobMION nay-
3B, UTOOBI 3afaTb Cee HECKObKO BOMpOCcoB, JOCTATOUHO 6EICTpO-
TO B3riaja BOK pyr cea, 4roObl BHECTH H8MeHEHHA, KOTOpbie 61a-
TOTBOPHO OTpasarca Ha BCe MocmeRyomed #KU3Hu.»
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Urenne mbicnen
'@ IPOTAXKEHUM BEKOB JOAN WaTat HeMasHe JeHbIU, ITO-
6bI HOCeTHTE IpesCTaBeHUA pasIMIHEIX «BemuKUX ToHs0»
MIM «MOrylecTBeHHEIX MepsuHOB», eMOHCTPUPYIONUX CBO
cnoco6HocTu 4uTATE MEICIH.
«[lymaiite 0 Kapre, KOTOpY!0 BEI JepxuTe B pykKe, cyzapb. Yer-
Bepka Tped, He Tak 11?!»
«[lyMaiite 0 Tol Bellu, KoTOpad JexKUT B Balleli cymouKe. Ma-
aM, BbI AyMaete o ryGHoii nomaze>.
Tak u xoverca BOCKIMKHYTE: «Hesepoatxo! YqusuterpHo! He-
mocTuaxuMo!» Ecam ae Hac camux TLOMpOCAT NOMHATHCA Ha ClleHy H
pacckasaTb, 0 ¥eM AYMAaI0T JOIN, CHIAIIMe B Base, MBI, CKopee
BCeTO, OTKaKeMCaA: «fl Ke He TeIenaT! SI He yMel0...>
B ray6une 7ymIM BCe MBI 3HaeM, 4TO UTeHHe MbICIe mu60 He-
BO3MO2KHO, M60 (ecm BCe-TAaKH CheaTb AOMyUeHMe B IOb3y
«BeauKux Tous0» u «MorymjecTBeHHEIX MepmuHos») BeTpeuaeTes
Kpaiiue peqKo.
OgHako MHorne Joc qevicrsyror B OKU3HU Tak, Kak ec 6nr
UTEHHE MBICJei ObIIO CTOJIb Ke ECTECTBEHHBIM Ad GeJlOBeKa, Kak
abixanne wu rnoranue. ByzTo 651 B HeM HeT HUYerO OcobeHHOrO!
Takoli crepeoTHn NoBeseHHA IMpOABJIAeTCA ABYMA ClocoOaMH:
1. Jlu60 npegnoroxKeHuAMM, UTO HAM U3BECTHEI MBICIM Apyrux
suoneit («Het cmpica mpocuTses K Hemy Ha paboty. Bce paBHo
OH HMKOrga He IPUMeT *KeHIIMHY WIM YeTOBeKa MoeTO BOSpac-
Ta... WJIM MeHS JIMUHO>).
2. Jiu6o0 yOexqeHueM, UTO OKPy?Kalolve He TOJIbKO MOryT, HO H
0643aHbI 3HaTb, O 4eM MBI JYMaeM, Tak 4TO HM HUYEFO He HY2K-Thaea 3.4rerme moicnenh OQ 49
HO 4 OObACHATD («Ecum ona AeiicTBUTebHO J0OMT MeHA, TO
UPHTOTOBUT Ha JeHb pork FeHUA Moe 1106uMoe Gs0R0. OHa 3Ha-
eT, UTO H XOUy Goubue Bcero»).
Yem TecHee OTHOWEHMA, TEM CHJIbHEe MIIO3KK
Bul MoxkeTe BospasuTB: «fl xe He IpeTeHAylo Ha 3HaHMe MBICJIeit
HeSHAKOMEIX J0Jeli, HO MHe TOUHO U3z6ecmHo, O tem AyMaer JI>Ko,
HOTOMY UTO A OYeHL XOpomo ero sHaro. A Mory mpezcKasaTL KaxK-
bi ero OTBET>.
Vian: «51 ue yrBepogaio, 470 BCe JOJMKHLI FOTAALIBATLCA 0 TOM,
uero a xouy. Ho Beg MbI TOBOpUM O JKo3euHe, MbI CTObKO JleT
pa6oTaem BMecTe, OHa IpocTo OOasaHa amo sHamv».
Benukas U1.1103MA MPOUSBOAUT HACTOALIee OnycToMeHue B O6-
dacTH YeroBeyeckux oTHOMeHHH, [elicrBuTebHO, JOAN 4acTO
IPeABUAAT NOCTYNKM HIM NOKeTAHUA TEX, KTO uM OcObeHHO 61u-
30K, Koro OHM xopouto sHatoT. Jlopymika no_KUAAeT Mpex ye Bcero
Tex, KTO yBepeH, YTO MOXKeT IpeycKa3zaTb peakulo 6MaKoro Ye-
aoBeka 6 11060e 6pema. Damen sHaer, 470 JKyAM TepieTb He MOET
Kaprodeib pu u HUukKorsa ero He A106usa. Tlostomy ona HUKOrAa
ero He rorosut, ecm [axyqu coOmpaercs UpuiiTu Brocry Ha yKMH.
Ho zor kak-To pa3 oun BMecrTe O6enamn, u [Ky AM 3akasana KapTo-
cheb pu. «Ho roi Ke He J00MIb 2XapeHy!0 KapTouiKy!» — Boc-
KIMKHys1a yAuBIeHHad Iinen. «Jia, — orpeTuma Mo~pyra, — HOB
9TOM Kade ee rOTOBAT YAMBUTeIbHO BKYCHO. Kak-To 3HaKomMaa
yrobopusia MeHS mlompo6onaTh, Hc Tex Op & Bcersa 3aKasbiBalo
3eCb KapTodeib pu».
Takue peuja upoucxogat oueHE uacTo. Ecu BbI XOpomio sHaeTe
YemoBekKa, BaM He TpyAHO ceaTb OGOCHOBaHHOe IpezNONOKeHve,
KoTopoe B OO1BIIMHCTBE CIyuaeB OKASbIBAeTCA CipabesJIUBbIM,
Aaoke B losaBIAloMem OoAbMIMECTBe cy4aes. Ho u B OTHOMIeHUH
weslopeKa, C KOTOPbIM BbI TeCHO oomaerech, He CTOMT paccuMTBI-
BaTb Ha CTONPOMeHTHY10 MpaBory BO Bcex cryyasx. Jiogu Henmpey-
cKasyembl. Beerga cylljecTByeT BepOATHOCTL TOO, YTO OHM MOTyT
M3MeHHT MHeHHe, NepesyMaTb XOTA ObI B KAKOM-TO EA MHMUHOM
cay4ae 10 Kakoli-ro oco6oii mpuunHe. Kpome Toro, Kak bili weJIO-
Bek Bcergja COxXpaHAer KakoOli-To yrou0K Ayu B Taine — JaxKe OT
Camnrx 61u3Kux H 1106uMEIX. Bor mpuMep Toro, Kak UTeHHe MEIC-
elt NOpomUO HENOHUMAaHHe M KOHQIMKT MEXKTY ABYMA J0bMM,
KoTopnie JelicTBUuTeIbHO JaBHO M XOPOMO 3HAIIM Apyr Apyra.50 Q 10 rayneiwux own6ox, KoTopEie copepuiaior monn
Panieab BosBpajaetTcx JOMOii c paGoTbI paHbilie cBOero My2Ka
Toma. Ona ocraByaer sallucky, UTO OTMpaBIaeTCA B MarasHH 1
BepHeTca B TeveHHe yaca. Ilo yopore Jomo *KeHIIMHA, OOBelIAaH-
Hag WakeTaMy H CyMKaMH, BUAMT y Nosbesza Mamuuy Toma u pe-
mlaeT, YTO My yaKe JOMAa. BaTaCkMBad B KYXHIO TAKEIbIC CYMKH,
Pate nocreleHHo pasbapserca.
«Tlouemy OH He BEIXOZUT, UTOObI TIOMOUb MHE? — TOBOpUT OHA Ce-
6e. — Ox 2ke sHaer, ¥TO a NoMa B Marasuu. fl Bech FeHb padoTana
TOUHO Tak 2Ke, Kak u on. Brpouem, kakoe emy emo! Cuan ce6e B
TOCTHHOM, OTAbIXaeT, UMTaeT raseTy, a A TYT HagpHiBarocb. Huo Kom
oH He 3aGoTuTCA, Kpome ceGa».
Moxouor Pawtesb o6paliieH TOKO K cee. OHa HU4EFO He TOBO-
put Tomy. He xpuxuer emy: «Jloporoii, nomoru Mue, noxaryii-
cera, JoHecTu cymKu!» Pamienb yBepena, 170 ToM Jo2KeH Ipoun-
TATL ee MBICIH. Kenna CuHTaeT, UTO MYK o6s3aH 6e3 BCAKHX
mpoce6 c ee cTOpoHE! AorazaTbea, ITO OHA HYKMAeTCA B MOMOIIM.
YW Pamenp ocagxyeT H3-3a TOTO, 4TO Tom He HcnomHMII ee HEBLICKa-
3aHHO MpoceGnt 4 He ONpaBzan oxMAAaHUE. Ona OpemeMeHHO xO-
Teja 6b1, uroGbI Tom oKasasica ACHOBUALeM. Bouee Toro, Pamenb
yBepeHa, UTO yMeeT IIpaBUMJIbHO UUTATS ETO MEIC. Oua yOexu jena,
auto Tom ropoput ceGe: «Ona, KOHEYHO, eT, 4TO A eli MOMOTY, HO
A YIOTHO ycTpomJicad Ha WMBaHe HW He pachio/oOKeH BCTABATb. TIpu-
TBOPIOCb-Ka, UTO HHVETO He CIBIMIy». Pallletb BO3pAa3UT, UTO 4Te-
HMe MBICJeii B JaHHOM CJlyuae HH pH 4eM. Ona cKarKeT: «1 ate oc-
TaBMJa 3aNMCKY, ITO Wy B MarasHH, a 3HAUMT, OH 3HaeT: A IPULY,
Harpy:kenuaa cymramu. He nyo OnrTb ACHOBHALEM, YTOOHI N0-
HATb, UTO MHe HY2KHa OyzeT ero TOMO. KoneuHo, oH MeHs IpO-
cTO HrHOpupyeT>.
Ho Tom, nornomenusiii ureHHem raserul, OnITh MoxKeT, JeticT-
BUTEIbHO He ycubIan, Kak Paweub BOLIIa B AOM, M MOTOMY He
3HaeT, UTO OT HETO KAYT NOMOMN 6 amy camyi0 MUHymy. BosMox-
HO, OH IipefJlaraJ ei CBOM yCJIyrH paHbule, HO Cylpyra OTBeTHJIa:
«He Gecnoxoiica, qoporoli, a cama cnpaBsiocs. Tocugu, oTq0xHu,
mountait raseTy>. B aHHOM CJly4ae OH TOKE YMTAeT Ce MBICIIN,
Kak 0 Ux cebe TpeAcrTaBiaer, U ORUMACT yCIbIWATh BMOTHE Onpe-
eneHHbIii oTBer.
Ect emje Bapnant. Hecmortps Ha TO, ¥TO MaMa CTONT y NOE-
e3ya, ToMa Her B OMe, M OH OTHIOAb He pasBausca «IpecrynHo»
Ha 7MuBaHe. Coceyx, TIOMpocHJI ero NMOMOUE, HM OH Balled K IpMATeJIO.rasa 3. 4renne moicneh Qo 514
Ecsm 61 Panes nosBasia: «ToM, 4 IpHuLia, MOMOrM MHe JOHeCTH
cym«ul» — a on orserus 6nr: «Her, 4 money, a THI Cama BCe Cze-
sail», BOT Torma ee rHeB MMe ObI 3AKOHHBIe OCHOBAHHA.
Cyrb sakmo4sercs B TOM, To Pamen, He MOKeT sHATL, O4eM
B JelicTBuTeNbHOCTH AyMaeT ToM, ToKa He CIIPOCHT ero 06 aTOM.
On Ke, CO cBoeit CTOPOHBI, TO2KE HE MOJKET 3HATb, O YOM AyYMaeT
wKeHa, 10Ka Ona Cama emy 06 stom He cKaxKeT. Ecru BEI Jemaere
UpeqnosomeHHe, BbI puckyeTe ommMGuTECH.
CKAOHHOCTS K NpeAnonoKenuam
JliogaM CBOLCTBEHHO. AeMAaTh IpeqUOOKECHAA O MBICJIAX, KeETaHH-
aX W noTpe6Hocrax apyrux. [peqnonoxenua — Buy yMcTBeHHOI
cTeHorpajun. Ouu O4eHb HOsesHI UpM pellleHHM pPasIMUHBIX
2KMSHEHHEIX 3agau. Ecru 651 MBI BEIACHANM CMBICI KaxK DON yrEI6-
KH, KMBKa, B8Maxa PyKOH; eC1H ObI MEI YCTPaMBaJIM AOMpoc ¢ MpU-
cTpacTuem aBTopy Kak AO KOpOTKOii sallMcKu WIM MHChMa; eCIn
ObI MEI Gpocarucb OcHapuBaTb KaxKsoe HEIPUHYXTeHHO CKasaH-
HOe COBO, CYUAiHO yeIEIMIAaHHOe HAMM, TO B KOHIe KOHIOB IpH-
IH ObI B U3HEMOKeHHE, a elle OONbUIe YTOMHIHC OBI OT OOre-
HUA C HAMM OKpymaronne.
BuiTb MOXKeT, BEI CIMA AHEK JOT IPO IcMxXMaTpa, KOTOPBITi
BCTPeTHJI Ha yIMIle 3HaKOMOTO. Tor TMIOMpHBETCTBOBAI ero, H Bpayt
sanqymasca: «A 4TO OH JeiicTBHTeIbHO uMel B Buy?» Icuxonoru 1
TICMXMATPbI YMEIOT OTKJUOYATb NpodeccHOHuaJIbHbI Cyx B OOBId-
HEIX KUTeMCKUX cHTyaluax. Takozo ux cpeJCTBO CaMO3aluTHI.
Ouu He mpefaiores nocrosHHomy aHamusy («ro on Men B Buy Ha
caMom yese?»).
VWnaue meguku Bcxope 651M Obi HorpeGeHbI Tox BOPOXOM 4esIO-
Beueckux mpo6sem. HU noromy ofuH McHxuaTPp, BCTpeTHB Ha yuune
3HaKOMOTO H YCAIbIMaB OT Hero: «[Ipuzet!», pasyMHO npeanonara-
et, uro «IIpuset!> — nuyero Gosee, uem upocro «IIpuset!>, mpH-
Yem JonyleHue yallye BCeTO OKAashIBAeTCA BEPHBIM. TOUHO TAK 2Ke B
SompurmHcTBe CLy¥aeB Balu AOraAKU O TOM, Yero OrKHAaIOT OT Bac
Apyrue m04u, u runoresbi OKpyKalolf{ux 0 TOM, YTO XOTUTe OT HUX
BI, OKASbIBAIOTCA UpaBiJibHbiMH.
Hy yox ecm uM HenpaBULHbIMA, TO, Ipo Kpaitueit Mepe, Ges-
Bpequbimu. He crout o6palljatb BHMMaHHA Ha MeJIKHe HeTOWHO-
cru. Hanpumep, 106amlaa TeryllkKa, ray Ha HOBOpOxKyeHHOro52 Q 10 raynetwnx own6or, kotopbie cosepwaioT nionn
MiaaqeHya B KoubIGeIM, yMMIAeTCH: «CMOTpHTe, OH MHE y.IbIGaeT-
cal» Ona ourmGaerca.
Yupi6ka MiajeHa He ABIAeTCA MopMok oOmenua. YabI6-
ka — He BpooKeHHas croco6HocTE. Maayexer, TpuMacHuuaeT U3-
3a TOTO, UTO eTO GectoKoaT rasbl. [1A HOBOPOXKAeHHBIX TO ecTeCT-
senno. Ho rerymiKa 1pegounTaeT JyMaTb, YTO pedeHoR OOpara-
eTCA MMeCHHO K Heli, M IPHUMCEIBaeT EMY IPOABIEHMe YJOBOIbCT-
BHA, a He OoesHEHHLIX OMlymeHHit.
Bee ato — ecTecTBeHHas YaCTh HOPMAIbHOK xXusHH. Ho WaxKe
TOrAa, KOrAa BALIN MpeAMOOKeHUA O MEICIAX APyroro sen0BeKA
OKA3EIBAIOTCA BEPHBIMH, Bb OTHIOAb HE NDOHUKLU 6 €20 3AMdIC IDI.
Bam ycnex — ckopee npusHak xopomei zeTeKTuBHON padorsl,
UpaBubHoe YMOsaKIeHHe HA OCHOBe YIUK U HaMekoB. Bosb-
IIMHCTBO U3 Hac yMeeT IpekpacHo pasOupaTsca B MHTOHANUAX,
BHIPAKCHUM T'1a3, XAPAKTeEPHEIX KECTAX, KOTOPLIe, Kak IPaBUIO,
JerkogOcTynHs! Aa YTeHHA.
«YAMKM> HW HaMeKM
B croem JeTeKTMBHOM paccleqORAHMM MEI MCTIOE3yeM BCe HMeIO-
mjweca yuku. Mpi npujaem sHaueHne BCeMy, YTO BUAMM HM CJIBI-
IMM, a TAK2Ke TOMY, YeTO MEI He BUM Mi He CJIBINIMM, TOMY, UTO
CIYYMIOCb, M TOMY, 4TO He cy4duOcK. MbI feaeM BEIBOALI U3
«J@HHEIX® MUMMKH, BbIPaKeHUA JIM, KecTOB, OCaHKM, IpHMpaB-
HMUBAS MOYIeHHEIe CBeJEHHA CORAM «MOACIesCTBEHHOTO>.
Korga 8 zeTeTBe MBI MpUXo_WIM JOMOM UW BUEN, UTO MATE CTO-
WT CKpeCTUB PyKH Ha 'py{u, HAXMyPUBINMCh H NPHTONbIBaA HOrolt,
MBI cpazy 2ke NOHMMANH, 170 Ona cepguTes. A Bez OHA elle U CIOBA
He CKazasia.
Ecam mui scrpewaem nospyry ¢ onyXIMMM 3allakaHHeIMy ria-
3aMM, NOHUKIIMMY IievaMu, HeTpy{HO JOrasaTbcn, 4TO OHA TeM-
TO OUeHL pacerpoena. 3a UcKO0UeHHeM, KOHEUHO, TOrO cry4as,
korga Balla Hospyra — akTpuca, urpatomlas pos. Mr pacniosHa-
eM, ITO Ye10BeK MpayeH, HAM HEpBHMUAeT, MIM CYaCcTIMB, 10 Of-
HOMY TOJIbKO BHEMIHeMy BUY.
Ho suemnoct, o6Manuupa. Touno Tak 2Ke Kak GonesneHHy10
TpHMacy MilayeHa IPMHUMANT 3a YIbIOKy, MO%KHO HeENpaBuIbHO
HCTOJKOBATL BHEIIAMe MpPOABIeHUA BSpocmOrO YenoBeKa. Heps-
HbIii CMex He ABIMeTCA NPUSHAKOM BecenbA. Cesbl TeKYT HOT TO-
PA, 4 oT cuactLa. Hexotopsie 104M OTKPHITO MpOABIAIOT MEICTrasa 3. 4tenve meicneh O53
H 4YBCTBA, Y HMX Aya HapacnauiKy, M BCe MbICIM HanMcaHbl Ha
auue. [[pyrue He cTO.1b OTKPLITEI — 10 KpaitHeli Mepe, He Bcerga.
B 3HakOMBIX CUTyallHAX MBI Cpa3y *Ke IPUXOAUM K onpeyereH-
HBIM BEIBOZaM. Bor, HalpuMep, BEI BHAUTE *KeHMIMHY, KoTOpasa
wget 10 yruue, Harpy2keHHasd CyMKaMu U Naketamu. OquH M3 Ta-
KeTOB HauMHaeT BEICKAIbSbIBarb. TroOnl yqepxKaTb ero, HYKHO
o61aqarb 10 Kpaiineit Mepe rpema pykamu. Bui to_xogute K 2KeH-
juve H Hpeswaraere ei MoMOUb. Ona Bac HY 0 eM He Ipocusta. Ho
BI SHAeTe HIM MOUTH YBePeHEI, YTO OHA XOTeNA GbI, ITOOEI BEI eit
nomoru. Korga ona OrarogapuT Bac — a BbI OK AAIN MMeHHO Ta-
Koi peakyuu, — Bali upexnonoenua no_TBepxgawTca. Ho
BEI 2Ke He UnTaNM ee MbIcreli!
HenpasunbHaa MHTepnpeTayna MMeloLMXxCA YANK
Uem syultle MEI 3HaeM YeTOBeKa, TeM Jlerue yaBIMBaeM OT HeTO
KakMe-TO JIMLIb emy NpucyuMe cooOujeHuaA. Ec on xsomaer ABe-
PbIO, 3HAUHT, y Hero BLIZaICa TaKeIbI FeHb. Ecru ona o6M3bIBa-
eTry6bl, 3HauHT, eli xOUeTCA NOliTH B KuTalicKuii pecropaH. Bepo-
ATHO, 110 ocoOoMy BLIpaKeHHIO JIMA Ballero W06UMOrO AAAIOWKH
BaM He COCTaBUT Tpyfa AOrasaTEcs, YTO B JaHHbIit MOMeHT ceii Joc-
TOUTHMBIi TOCHOAMH CTpagaeT OT HecBapeHuA 2%KeyaKa, TOTOMy
4TO MMeHHO Tak OH BBITIAUT Bera, Kora y HeTO CAyaaeTcs Ta-
Kas HempHaTHoctTs. Bul nomyuaete y.AHKy HC N0JIHbIM OCHOBaHHeM
Bockmmaete: «Aral»
TIpyauman BO BHHMAaHHe OFpOMHOe KOJHUeCCTBO NOAKHHYTHIX
YJMK, YAMTHIBAA TO, ITO OUeHb FACTO 3alloHeHMe mpo6enos wwerko
UpMBogut kK UpaBHJIbHOMY OTBeTY, BPA JIM KOTO YAMBUT, YTO MHO-
Tne BOCIIPHHUMAIOT Kak JaHHOCTL CBOM — Ha CaMOM Jesle MHH-
MbI€ — CIOCOOHOCTH UMTATS Uy2KHe MBICIU M «OOH3aHHOCTB» OK-
Py2kalouqHx MpOHUKAaTL B ux coOcTBeHHLIe.
A Takoli BBIBOJ UpeBaT ONpeseeHHLIMM OCOKHEHMAME.
Tlomuurte: urenue mubicseit BBepraeT Hac B HempuaTHOcTH, ec-
AM MBI CUMTAeM, ITO MOXKeM AeIAaTb ITO:
QB orHomeHHn m060r0 Yen0BeKa,
Q 6esomn6ouHo,
QB m60e Bpema.
A WTO xe Ham JocTynHO? Mzt cnoco6usI yraybIBaTb MBICIM:54 OQ 10 rayneiwnx ownGor, KoTopsie copepwaioT moan
Q HekOTOpEIX J1107ei,
Q c onpegexennoit crenenb10 AOcTOBepHocTH,
Q unHorga.
Henpasunbubii npnem coobweHnit
TJapaitre paccMorpuM HexkoTOple HaMGouee pacnpocrpaHeHHbie
omu6ku, BLISBaHHble IpesMON02XeHHeM O TOM, UTO HAM U3BECTHO
CofepxKHUMoe UY7KUX MOSTOB.
Bet npuxodume K 3aKmo04eHUIO 0 Mom, ¥Ymo 3HaeMe, Oo Yem Oymaem Opyeoli
YenogeK, nomoMy Ymo, Gydb Bb! Ha e20 Mecme, pa3sMbiLINANU Obl MOYHO
mak *e.
Kpynuaa rasera coOupaetca OTKpEITS HOBOe G10po B Bammmurrone.
CorpyaHuku rajaior, KTO NONyINT BEITOAHOe HasHayeHve. OOmee
MHeHMe TacuT, 4TO HaBepHaKa OyfeT BEIOpaH KTO-TO U3 Tpex
OnecTrammx paGorHUKoB: OOospeBaTeb Mex TyHaPOAHbIX HOBO-
creii, HawasIbHUK OT/ea 10 CBASAM C Mopuelit Mam crapuMii pe-
noprep yronosHoit xponuKu. Kora pyKOBO_CTRO HasbiBaeT UMA
Puka, COBCeM elle MON0J0rO COTpyAHuKa, KONNerM NpUXxOAAT B
Heyoymenne. Kora rnmaBnoro pegakTopa cipocusm, mouemy On
HaSH@YMI Ha HOBY10 J0J2KHOCTh MMeHHO Puka, TOT OTBeETHI, 4TO
OAUH TOIBKO Pux oOpaTuscs K pyKoBorerBy ¢ 1pocEGoit o MOBI-
Menuu. HKypHasuctel, KoTOpbIe Obi yBepeHbI, UTO Gocc AyMa-
er: «Hao 651 HaSHauMTh OMHOLO 13 IpOBepeHHEIX VM OMbITHEIX CO-
TPYAHUKOB», MPU K TAKOMY 3aKJIOUeHHIO MOTOMY, UTO HM
Kagasl0cb, UTO UMeHHO Tak uM OygzeT CyemaH BEIGOp. Ha camom xe
Heme pegaktop nogyman: «Al HasHauy YenOBeKa, KOTOPEIi mpo-
SIBMT MEOMATUBY>.
Bor npuxodume K 30KN0YEHUN, OCHOBbIEAACb Ha NPOUIOM onbIMe.
Mat» orkppipaer zBepb Aouepn. Juno KeHUMHEI HAXMYpeHO, Py-
KM CKpeljeubi Ha rpyau, ry6ni nomKarsl. Jou, esaer BEIBOA, UTO
MaTb CepAUTCA Ha Hee, MOTOMY 4TO paHbIle, KOra MATb BLIXOAMIA
us ce6s, y Hee 6bII TOUHO Takoii xe BU. IIpomstit onniIT, Heco-
MHeHHO, ABJIAeTCA OoraTbIM MCTOUHMKOM MHopManun. MI Bce-Ta-
KH CuleqyeT IOMHUTE 0 TOM, ITO HUKaKOll HCTOUHHK He CBOOO eH OT
omm6ox. Bor u ceituac MaTb JelcCTBUTeIbHO Nocasyer, HO COBCeM
He Ha JOUKy. Oua HepBHHTaeT, OKUAA HEIpPMATHOTO eii rocra.Thasa 3. 4tenne meicneh OQ 55
Bol npuxodume K 3QK04eHUIO Ha OCHOBe OKUdaHUE, Mo ecmb Camu Co4U-
yaeme KOHeY ucmopuu.
Jlogpyra upurnacuna JIusy Ha BeuepuuKy. «Kakoii empicn uy-
ou, — AyMaer JIuga, — Bce paBHO 4 HUKOTO TaM He BcTpeyy. Byay
CHfeTb B OMMHOYECTBE H UyBCTBOBATE CeO MocmesHeH HAMOTKON,
a BCe OCTAJIBHEIe TEM BpeMeHeM OyzyT pasBeKaTEen. Tepmerb He
mory Beyepnukn. Iocae Hux 4 Bcerfa UyBCTByt0 ceOa elle xy2Ke,
weM Tpexkye>.
Vi ace xe JIusa peuiaetca orBeruTb Ha Upuraamenue. Ho rax
Kak OHA yoKe ROKaszasa ceGe, UTO BCe IpOiTeT OTBPATUTeEIBHO,
JIusa, ecrecTBeHHO, Ha4MHaer MCTOAKOBbIBATS BCE CIOBa M COOBI-
Tua COOTBeTCTRYIOIIMM OOpasom. Et ynuiGaerca MonozOu den0-
Bek, a JIuaa, crapaTesbHO raga BCropony, Aymaet: «Hasepxoe,
OH YB Je Koro-To y MeHA 3a CHMHO!». JleticrBuTenbHO, TeopeTu-
¥eCKH JOMyCTUMO, 4TO C3a1M CTOUT MaHeKeHIN MIA M MOMOpON de-
aqoBeK CTapaeTCa NPUBIeUb BHUMaHHe sex THoO KpacoTtKu. Ho
AONYCTUMO H TO, YTO, HeECMOTPA Ha OKMAaHMA JIM3bI, Ha ceili pas
joHomla ybibaeTca HMeHHO elf.
Be! npuxodume K 3aKM0YeHUH) Ha OCHOBe OMBeMa, KOMopblii Kenaeme
nonyyumb.
Tomy nosponvaa 6prBmiaa no”pyra Anuerta. O6mnit suakomtit co-
06mm efi, ur0 y Toma yMep OTell, H BOT OHA 3BOHUT, YTOOEI BLIDASHTS
cBon co6omesHoBaHUa. «Ona ene m106uT Mena, — AyMaet Tom. — Ee
3BOHOK JOKa3bIBaeT 3TO. OHA HapOFHO BBIINIA 3AMY2K 38 TOTO TapHus,
‘4TOGbI YOCayquTb MHe». Moxer OnirTs, 1a, a MO2xeT ObITb, H HeT. IIpe-
‘Ke uem 6pocarEca NoKynaTs OOpyuaLHble KOEN A, Hayo Obi cHaua-
la y3HaTb, KaKOBBI 2Ke MCTHHHIe YyBCTBa AHHETTHI.
Be! denaeme ebigode! Ha OcHoge Hedocmamo4noll UNopmayuu.
¢«]lenymmku Mena He 1106aT» , — crpanaeT Maxc. A orkyjja on 3Ha-
er? Ja, y Hero OblIM ABe HeyfadHble NOMbITKH 3aBAsaTb OMsKHeE
OTHomenua. Ho spay 1H Be UpescTraBuTeILHUUEI Cra6oro noma
ToqospeBalM, YTO OH, OKasbIBAeTCH, BbIPAKaloT MHEHHE BCeX
Keun Mupa.
Berry omHopasack, PoToBACh BEICTYTMTS Heper rpynnoii crenua-
Avecros, Huxorga panbute ona HH 3a UTO NOZOGHOe He Spanace. He
Yenena oHa HauaTb BBICTYIIeHMe, Kak 3aMeTHIa, YTO [Boe CLyMAa-
Teneti Hauamu KreBaTS HocaMM. O(MH IpsMO-TaKH ypOHUJI PoOOBy56 Q 10 rayneiwux own6ox, Koropeie copepuiaior moan
Harpyb. «Al ux yromusa, — qymaet Bertu. — Onn pemusn, uro a
copcem Gesmosrian>. .
Ho segp sacnysu He Bce! BrITb MOwKeT, 9TH ABOe IpocTO BYepa
1034HO Jers cath. BosMoxKHO, MM IpocTo HeuHTepeceH IpeyMeT
oOcy2«eHHs BHe 3aBAMCMMOCTH OT AM4HOCTH JoKNaqanka. VM paxe
ecm BEIcTyIIeHHe Berru He 1pHHecso eli Gemenoro ycnexa, oKa-
SBIBAeT JIM CMOKOMHAA peakUMA AYAMTOPUH, TO BCe COUIM ee TY-
muyek? Bepoatuee Bcero, cilymaTeIH OTHeCIMCh K Heit CONyBCT-
BeHHO, BCIOMHUB 0 TpyAHOCTAX, KOTOPbIe OHM HCIIBITHIBAI BO
BpeMA MepBEIX NYOAMUINIX BLICTYIIeHHi.
Bawiu yMonocmpoeHus He yyumblea‘om CyWeCmBOBAHUA AUYHOCMHbIX
paanuyud u ocobexHocmeti KyabmypHeix mpaduyud.
Tlogo6uxle pasmuuua mera B OcHoBy (bustEMa pexuccepa Bygn
Adnena «
Tleppas peakuua Toma — 4yBCTBO BHHEI: «Pallerb Bce ele
cepAuTcs Ha MeHs U3-3a TOYO, YTO 4 BYepa He MoMor ei ¢ MoKynKa-
mu». Bropas peakiua — pasapaxenne: «OTKya MHe O40 3HaTb,
uTO OHa Kasia Moeli HoMomja? Beano ona AeaeT 13 MyXU COA».Traea 3. 4tenne mpicnen Q 57
Ecau 6st Tom He nbiTaica unTaTb MbICIM Paes, a mpocro
cmpocun ee, ¥TO cyUM0CH, Ona GE OTBeTU Ia: «Y Meus OLLI OUeHb
qarkebilt JeHb. 1 yokacho ycrasla, ropa packalibipaerca» .
VWxnimu cropamu, fake ecu BbI BepHO pactiosHatM HaCTpoeHue
yelloBeka, BbI JaJsieKo He BCer fa IpaBuJIbHO OWeHMBaeTe IPHAMHEL
ero BOSHUKHOBeHUA. Hecmorpa Ha TO, UTO paHbiie BaM CAyUAIOCh
yrablBaTh, HeJIb3A rapaHTUpOBATE, 4TO BbI Bcerqa OyserTe TpaBel.
O6bexm «ymeHus mbicneii» nepedaem noxHoe coobujeHue.
Tlof06Ho TOMY Kak CBIIIMKM B JeTeKTUBHEIX pOMaHax CHauasa Oe-
py? HempaBusbuLtit cneq, COuTHIe c TOMKy CHeluambHO TMopKMHY-
THIMH CAIbCH@UTMPOBAHHLIMM YIMKAaMH, Tak HW JOM, CunTAaIO-
uyve ceOa CHOCOOHBIMM UNTATh MBICIM, MOryT MomacTb BUpocaK.
Bee MbI He pa3 nonayasuch Ha yOUKYy NONUTHKOB HIM KOMMUBOR-
3KepoB, KOTOpble, KasaJiocb, 6ykBaIbHO wcTOdwaIA s3adoTy oHalieM
6narococTOsHUM, a Ha CaMOM Jese IpecreqoBann ropa3syo Gonee
IpHseMJIeHHY10 Ledb — co6cTBeHHY10 BbIrosy.
Jlronu HepexKo IryT 43 caMBIX WyUMMX nobyxTeHnnit. Pruapy
HapsAwKaeTca C MOJOUKH, uToObI TMpousBectTu BuewaTieHve Ha
Taunn. Topasyo 103:Ke ona y3HaeT, UTO AIA Hero HeT HuUerO Go-
Jee HelIPMATHOTO, ¥eM MepcheKTUBA BLIeSTU U3 CBOMX MOTepTEIX
AKUHCOB, Txuns, nant Tpou3BecTH BieuaTieHve Ha Puuapza,
yBepsert, 4TO oGoxKaerT Gelic6on, a BCKOpe EMy CTAHOBHTCA U3BeCT-
HO, UTO FeByuIKa Ges yMa oT Gasnera.
Korga nony4eHo noxkHoe coobuweHne
Tockonpky utenve MbICMei — w11103M4 ABYCTOPOHHAA, B pactio-
PAKEHUM OKPyKAIOMIUX Macca BO3MO7KHOCTeli HeBepHO HCTOIKO-
BATb He TONbKO Ball MBICIM, HO HM C10Ba MW NOCTYNKU.
But HedocmamoyHo YemKo ebipasusU ceoU MBICTU U Yyecmea — @ cnoBec-
4odi unu UHOu @opme.
Q Urenve pax MbIciei OKpy2atoulUMu He cpadarsiBaeT 110
TeM 2ke CAMBIM IIPHUMHAM, 110 KOTOPLIM OHO HeBepHO TOIKyeTCH
BaMH.
° Onn HEBEPHO IpeACKasEIBaloT, UTO BbI CoGupaeTecb CAeNAaTh,
NOTOMYy 4TO Ha BallleM MecTe OHM NOCTYNMIN 6bI MMEHHO Tak.
Qa Onn MOryT He II0OHHMAaTh, ITO BbI H3MCHHJIA MHeEHHe KH ceituac
xXOTuTe TOrO, 0 ueM paHbitie 4 He TyMasu.58 Q 10 rnyneiwnx own6ok, koTopele cosepwaroT nan
Q OM yKe IpHszyMasm 3a Bac «KOHL McTOpuu» u Tenepb HY2KZa-
1OTCA TOJIBKO B TOTUKE C Ballleii CTOPOHEI, UTOOLI HalucaTE ero.
Q Onn yxe cormacHbt c yROOHEIM [Jt HUX OTBETOM.
Q OHM MoryT IPHyMaTb TO, Yero BI HM He FOBOPUIM, WIM 2Ke He-
UpaBYIbHO UCTOMKOBATE Balin cxoBa. He uck0ueHO, ¥TO ONL
UpocTo n10xHe JeTeKTHBEI.
Q BuITb MOKeT, BEI CaMM BBEJIM MX B 3aG1y2KAeHue, xoTA ObI 4 10
caMbIm O2aropogHEIM IipranHaM.
Bbl max 3awu@poeanu ceoe coo6weHue, ¥mo HUKMO He 8 COCmosHUU
npowumame ezo.
B oxypuane «You-ctpvT» Kak-TO PacCKAasbIBAJOCh, UTO B peak-
IMOHEBI OTFeM «3BOHOK Wed-NoBapy» OOpaTusach Hekasn Jama H
TOMpocu.1a CleMMANHCTOB NPOKOHCYbTHpOBATh e€ 110 BECbMA Ile
KOTIMBOMy BONpocy.
«Jjex0 B TOM, — CKasasia OHA, — 4TO K Ham CooOupaioTca Upniira
Apy3ba My>Ka, H A XOUy UPUrOTOBUTS Takue GOMa, KOTOpEIe HM
HaBepHAka He nonpaBatca». Kak BbIACHUOCD, NpezMONaraembre
TocTH 6biIH elt HENPUATHEI, H OHA B 3allIMppoBAaHHOM Bue XOTeTA
aTb MM NOHATS, 4TO He *KeaeT Mx GoMbUIe BULETH, He OyCKasxCh
AO UpAMEIX ockop6neHuit.
Ilcuxotepanestsi HasbisaloT Takoe oBeseHHe MaccMBHO-arpec-
cuBHEIM. Uenonex, nochmal coobmenue, SouTca OTKpLITOrO
UpOTHBOCTOAHMA M NOTOMY TeM WIM MHBIM O6pas0M Kogupyer cBoe
coo6ujenue.
Tipo6.1ema sakm04aeTCA B TOM, 4TO aXpecaT NOZOGHOrO coobmye-
HUA MOKeT IpocTo He NOHATE ero. Tak, K IpuMepy, CyUMTOCE C
cemeiiHoii napoii, y KoTopoii Kaxxybiii Beyep B TeyeHHe AecATH eT
4130 JHA B JeHb Ha Y2KUH NOJaRanu xKapenyl Kypuny. Kena upu-
3HAaCb KOHCYJIbTaHTY 10 CeMelHEIM BOIpocaM, UTO OHa TOTOBAT
OAMH pas B HeesI0, IpuueM OAHO H TO xe GOZO, a 10 BeYepaM
mpocTo pasorpesaer napy nopumit.
Tlouemy? Ona xpaiine HeqOB0IbHa TEM, UTO ee MY2K CUMTAeT IpH-
TOTOBNeHHe MULTUM ee OO3aHHOCTHIO. «Ei OH XO¥eT, YTOOBI A 10-
CTOAHHO KpyTHacb Ha KyXHe, Tak IyCTb ecT KaxK Abii AEH OAHO H
TO Ke», — 3aABUa pasrHeBaHHad XpaHUTeIbHUIa Ouara. Eli xoTe-
OCh YASBUTL Myra (qaxe NeHOi co6cTReEHHEIX JMIMeHHi, Tak Kak
caMa oa IpeznouuTana Gosee pasHoobpasHbiii crom), H xeHINMHa
AecaTh nev oxufasa, Kora 2Ke ee cIIpocs#T, NOUeMy OHA TAK WemaeT.Traea 3. 4tenne mpicned QO 59
Ho My2k Tak HH pasy MU He HOMHTepecoBaJicAa, Cy7KeHO JIM eMy JO2K-
gaTbea Ha yoxun Oudpurrekca.
SavHTpuroBaHHbli CeMeHHEIM KOHCYJIbTaHT NOMHTepecoBasca
yuero: «Heysxenu BE Tak GesponorHo equTe Kak ALI Jeb OHO 1
ro Ke O1070?» Ha uTo MyKUMHA OTBETHN: «A H J00J1K0 HKapeHyIo
xypuuy. K tomy oxe y sKeHBI Oa KarKAbIii pas Monyyaerca c Ka-
KUM-TO OCOGEIM HOBEIM apOMaTOM>.
Ecau coo6uyenue mepegaetca B 3akOqUpOBAHHOM Bue, HeT HH-
KaKMX PapaHTUil, 4YTo NOyyaTenb pacuiudpyer ero. Korma Ha Bo-
Upoc, 4TO ObI BbI XOTeM NOAYAMTH B MOAAapoOK Ha Jeb pox peHuaA,
BEI OTReuaeTe: «UTo-HuGyAb TellI0e MymucToe», — no_pasyme-
Bax HOPKOBy!O iy6y, MlOMHHTe, 4TO WOW Balle OMCaHHe BIIOJIHE
nOAXOAUT OOLIUHEIit KOTeHOK.
‘UTo KacaeTca IpesqNoMoxKeHUit 0 TOM, TO HalllM MEICIM U3BeCT-
HEI OKPY2KalollUM, TO B SHAINTeIEHOH Mepe 3a HUX HecyT OTBeTCT-
BeHHOCTh KMHO HM JIMTepaTypa. OHM HepexKO TOporpeBaior Hal
oon AAHUA, OcobeHHO B OTHOMeHHH 61u3KHX.
— OnHo TBOe IpukKocHOBeHHe — HM A BCe OHA.
— A npounrana orser B ero rmasax.
— Kak Ts Mus! 1 o6o:xa10 nomapKu. K Tomy xe TE MpHHeC
HME€HHO TO, 4erO MHE TAK XOTEJIOCh.
— Ob He oTBeyaet 10 Tenepouy, XOTA 3HAaeT, UTO A WOJKHA T0-
3BOHUTD. CepaHT, Hy Kak elje 9TO MOXKHO OObACHUTD?.. On
Mepre!
— Or MatepwHcKoro cepsiia Hu4ero He CKpoeLb.
B peanbuoit 2KuU3HVY NOMUMO OfHOrO-eqUHCTBeHHOrO Npukoc-
HOBeHHA HY3KHBI elle H COBa, MOMUMO B3rJIAa HYKHbI qeticr-
Bus. Moser clyauTEca TAK: OH He B KypCce, UTO OHA JOJIKHA 103B0-
HUTb, HW MPOCTO BbIMeT KynuTh rasety. [la H MaTb He Bcerga BCe
aHaer,
Nowemy Tak TpyaHo “36aBMTbCA OT NPHBbINKA
K «4TeHMIO MbICNei»?
Tlepurit mar B ocpoenun o6ujenus c ypyruMu ju0_bMuU Ges «uTe-
Hua Mbicaeti> HauGosee TpyAeH: BaM NpUeTCA OTKasaTbCA OT Be-
PBL B BOSMOXKHOCTh NPOHMKHOBEHUA B 3aMBICIBI APyrUx sopel.
Oco6aa cr0%KHOCTh 3aKJIOUAeTCH B TOM, UTO BbI HaBePHAKa 10-
Aumaere sogeit Ges con u Apyrue crocoGHEI MOHATH Bac ¢ JoOcTA-60 Q 10 rnaynetwnx own6or, Kotoppie cosepwaoT nogH
TOUHOK atpeKTUBHOCTHIO M BO MHOrUXx Ciyyaax. K Heo6xosuMo-
cru u36aBneHUaA OT BPeAHOH IpUBLIUKU TpyAHO MPUBLIKHYTS,
MOTOMY ¥TO OTKAa3 CTaBUT Bac B YA3BUMOe NOs0KeHHe.
Ymenue moicneti daem eo3moxHOCMb U36eKAMb CNOB U NUCbMeHHbIX No-
cnaxuli, a mawke yeenu4ueaem WaHCbl nonyyums noOmeepxdexue, ¥mO
6b! He 3pA OKUdAaNU NNOXUX HOBOCMeL.
Buitb MoomerT, BaM yyoOHee ZyMaTb: «Ero He HHTepecylor MOH Je-
Ja», YM PeIMTECA Ha OTKPOBEHHEIM PasrOBOp MU NOMyAUTb NOA-
TBep2keHHe CBOUM JorayKam.
Bam npote cuuTaTb HadaJIbHUKa HAMOTOM, KOTOpbIii HHKAaK He
ypasyMeeT, 4T0 HUKTO, KpOMe Bac, He MOAXOAUT AIA HOBOL pabo-
THI, YeM OTKPHITO Mpe102KUTS CBO YC M HapBATECA Ha OTKA3.
Bam npuspranee ropoputs camomy ce6e: «On 3HaeT, TO A He XO-
Uy HasHaveHUA, UTO y MeHA BOSHUKHYT MpOONeMbI», eM OTKDBITO
OTKagaTbca OT HOBOM AON HOCTH M OOcyAMTS C pyKOBOACTBOM Apy-
rue BapuaHTHI padorst.
Bal cumTaere OveHb POMAHTHUHDIM, Korga 61msKuii Ye0BeK
AOraybiBaeTcA O BAMIMX KeNaAHHAX. Bac TPpeeT MEICJIb, UTO y m06Bn
HeT HYXK[{bI B COAX. Bol yBepeHbI, UTO ECM BAC 10-HaCTOAINeMy
mo6ar, cmoco6HocTb MOHUMaTE BCce 6e3 COB mpHyet cama.
Bam He xoverca NpusHaBarh, UTO JOM HepesKO JelicrBuTeb-
HO OnIBaIOT TUIyUb, JFOMCTHUHEI UM HEBHUMATECJIBHBI.
Bul cunraete, TO UTeHue KPUTHYECKUX MEICed APyTUx B CBOit
ayjpec He Tak Hey06HO, Kak BBICJIYUIMBaHle TOFO 2ke CaMOro MHe-
HUA, BEICKA3AHHOFO BCNYX.
Kopoue rosopa, BbI AyMaere, ¥TO «uTeHHe MbICHel» aBaaeTcs
HekKoero powa 3alluTou. OHO AaeT BOSMO2KHOCTh BbIOpaTh cee JO-
IYCTHMY10 AONIO cTpagzannii, 1T06nI uaGexaTb CHILHOH Oomn.
TIpo6sema 3aks04aeTCA B TOM, UTO, 3al[MIasch TAKMM OOpa-
30M, usGeraa HpoBbepKH, aHasuza BbICKasbIBaHHii, BbI o6pexaere
ceOa Ha NoparkeHue elle Ao Toro, Kak KTO-TO Apyroli AelicrBuTesb-
HO HaHeceT yylap. Tak POMA&HTHYHO LH Tak SPOTHUHO: Beuep pH CBe-
“Wax — HM HeT Hy! B CJLOBax. Ho ecam Bawa usOpaHHna Hepa”
BUIbHO UCTOIKyeT CHrHAJIbI, OHA BOCIPUMeT MOJIUAHVe BEChMAa
mposanuHo: «Emy mpocto Het Zea 40 Mena». Ecv ake BbI Hempa-
BYJIbHO NPOUMTAIIM YyKMe MEICIM WIM CCIM BALM «(POM EI» Te
pefaior cnaGniii curnan, BEI WumIaeTe ce6A BCAKOM BOsMOxHOCTH
HOYYTS NOTOKUTeIBHY! peaknu. Jo Tex Nop, NOKa BH He
TIpu3Haerte, UTO Ballle UCTOJIKOBaHHe CUTyalluu MOKeT 6xITE u He-[nasa 3.4tenne moicned OQ 61
BePHBIM, BbI He OCTaBsIAeTe CeGe HH EAMHOFO WaHca NOLYYMTb
BYKHBIM OTReT WIN XOTA ObI WpaBMILHO ero MHTepnpeTuporRaTs,
qToOnI, 10 KpaliHei mepe, clenaTb uToO-HuOyAb AJA MCUpaBleHua
ONOKeHA.
Ec BbI roToBbI IpHsHaTb akT, ITO «aTeHHE MICE» acpdeK-
TMBHO JaseKo He BCerma, — BbI Ha MyTH K TOMY, 4TOOL HayaTh
ylaBIMBaTh, Korga ono delicmeumeanvno npoucxodum u Koza
nem. IlomuMTe: eCaM OT Bac HKLYT HY2KHBIX COB, He CTOUT Mez-
aHTb.
[pucBanBaHne umeHn
Korga uMeenis feno c comuOKoit wrens MEIcnel> (uu c 11060K
pyro onucaHHol HaMH OMIMOKON), MepBbIM feJIOM Hayo IpocTo
ujeuTuuyuposats npobszemy. Takoii Meroy usBecTeH 104 HasBa-
HveM «HaksIenBaHve ApIbIKay. [lenb HacTonIeH KHMIU sak110Na-
eTCA He TOJIEKO B OIMCaHHH AecaTH HavOowlee THOMYHELX OMN60K
MBINLICHHA, UTOOLI YUTATeTh HAYYHIICH PACMO3HABATh UX, HO H B
TOM, 4TOOEI AaTb HM MMA. Ouenb uacTto AOcTATOUHO HABECHTEL Ap-
JEK Ha TOT HIM WHOM MBICIUTEIBHDIM Wad10H, YTOOBI IpucTpy-
HHTb NOTOK M@llMHAaIbHbIxX MBICHeH, TlOcTaBHTb ero TO, KOH-
Tpomb.
Ecan Ber 4yBCTByeTe, ITO HAIMHAETE CEPAMTbCA Ha KaKOrO-TO
YeOBeKAa 34 TO, UTO OH (10 BallleMy MHeHUIO) AyMaeT, TO npexKre
YeM BCTYMAaTb B KOHMIIUKT, cupocuTe ceba: «Vx He 3AHMMAIOCS IH
4 UTeHVeM MbICIeH? Orkyma MHe U3BeCTHO, 0 UeM OH AyMaeT?»>
Ocnapueanue npeanonomennii
Haknevpanve ApbIKOB MOMOraeT MIpOBepHTb MpeMMooxKenna.
Tlofimas ce6a Ha uTeHUM MEICHeli, BBL MOmKeTe UcceqOBAaTD, Ha-
CKOJBKO Balle MHEHHE O MBICIAX APYTOTO ueOBeKA COOTBETCTBYeT
JeticrsureabHoctu. Ouens nomesHo OprBaer sanucaTs CBou mpesno-
JOKEHUA, CCIM Y BAC CCTb TAKA BOSMOXHOCTH. TlepenecenHyi Ha
Symary msicnb werue npoananusuponaTs. Mnorga poctarouno
YBUleTb 3allMcaHHble YEPHEIM 10 GeOMy C10Ba, YTOOHI U3MeHUTD
CBoe MHeHHe.
Bouun paccrpoena u3-3a TOTO, 4TO HavaIbHUK, 10 ee MHEHHIO,
Cunraer ee HexomneTeHTHOM coTpyzHUnel. Ona He B cocTosHAU62 QO 10 rnyneiunx own6ok, Kotoptie cosepwaioT pK
cocpeOTOUNTECA Ha padoTe, MOTOMy YTO B row1oBe y Hee IpoKpy4u-
BaIOTCA ONL H Te Ke MEICAu. Jepyuika pacnasaeres, eit Kakerca,
UTO HAvaNbHUK HeCIpaBeAUB.
Bowun noseso — ona sakanunBaeT YTeHHe TOM riaBbl, a 10-
TOMY HeMejeHHO crpocusa ceOa: «Y2x He UMTAIO JIM A ETO MEIC-
M4?» Ona ocraHoBHJiach, B3Avla GyMary uM py4ky sallucala, 4TO,
To ee MHeHMHI0, AyMaer Goce: «Ou cunTaer, UTO 1 HEKOMMeTeHTHA>.
3arem BoHHH 3aqtyMaslach, KaKHe ClleACTBUA BEITeKAIOT M3 Iep-
BOHAYAIIbHOM NOChIIK H 4TO Gosbile Bcero ee oropyaeT: «EcnH on
cunTaeT MeHA HEKOMMeTeHTHOU, 3HauHT, 4 He Ipeycrieo B paGoTe.
Torga HeT CMBICJIa CTApaTbCH, BCC PaBHO AIA ce6x JIM4HO 4 HMYerO
xopomero He nomyuy». Hy u aakouer ona sayasa cebe nocneqHuit
Bompoc: «OTKyza # 3Hat0, 0 4eM OH AyMaeT?» Orser: «A Tak MHOTO
paGotana Hay TocsieqHAM OTUeCTOM, Aa OH HH CJIOBA MHE He CKasaJl.
On mpoxogur MuMo Moero crosla, Kak GyTO 4 MycTOe MecTO».
Bowuu rorospa IpoOBecTH aHaJUu3, B AaHHOM CJlydae O4eH Towes-
HEI TPH MeTOAMKH, MBBeCTHEIe NO HasRAHUAMM: ebIpabom«Ka a.1b-
MepHamueHvlx MvICLEl, BLpavOMKA AlomepHamueBHolx Lyecme
u evipabomna arvmepnamusnnlx Oeiicmeui..
Boipabomka anvmepramueHolx mMbicreil 3aKNOUAeTCA B TOM,
uTOOEI 3agqaTb ce6e Bompoc: «A cymjecTByeT 1M HHOe OObACHEHME
OBeeHUA HayabAUKa?»
AeiicrautebHO, BOZMO2xXHO, YTO OH He eHUT padoty Bouxu. Ho
Ha CosHaeT, UTO He yBepeHa B STOM Ha CTO NporeHTos. Ox, mpaBya,
ee He HOXBaJIMN, HO Bef{b H He CKasas HuUYero NOXoro. CymlecTByeT
IM WHO O6bACHEHHE ero ACHicTBUAM — TOUHEe, UX OTCYTCTBUIO?
Bonun mors 651 cmpocus ce6a: « Hey2kenu 4 eXUHCTBEHHBIM 4es0-
BeK B Hallleii opraHusalluu, KOTOpOrO He 3ameuaeT Le? SpopoBa-
eTCH JM OH C APyrUMM COTpyAHUKaMH, Korja IpoXxo_UT MUMO ux pa-
Gounx MecT?»
Ecam Ha nocTaBieHHble BOMpOckI CilezyeT OTPHNATeIbHBIi OT-
BET, ANbTePHATHBHOE OOEACHEHHE MOXKET 3AKIIOUATECA B TOM, YTO Y
HawaibHukKa TakOl CTuJIb pykoBogcTBa. He ucksm10%eHO, 4TO Goce
TOKE CTpayaeT .
Tlo Mepe Toro KaK Bouuu sanata AJbTepHaTHBHEIMY MBICIAMH
W 4YBCTBAMH, MeHAeTCH 3HaueHHe, KOTOPOe OHA IPUNMCHIBaIAa
CBOHM IlepBOHadaJIbBHBIM yMO3akKJIIOUeHHAM. Ecan y HavaibHHka
xBaTaeT [PYTUX Fel WIM ec OH «LyO», oTCyTCTBHe OOpaTHO! cBA-
3M He O3HadaeT, uTO y Bonuu 4TO-To He AaquTcA c paGorolt,
Boipavomny alomepramuenwx Oeiicmeui: HauuHatoT, 3ayaB
ce6e Bompoc: «UTo xe # MOry CyelaTb (OMMMO CHfeHHA HM KuTe-
HUA Ha MeAJICHHOM OFHe) JJIA TOTO, UTOOEI pasoOpaTLca B CIOKUB-
melica cuTyanun?»
Bousn Mower TOMpocuTh HaiaJbHuka IPHHATL ee HW Wposc-
HUTS cuTyanmo. Man npocto mpoBepuTh, NOU 1M OH ee OTUET.
Ona Mower IPHHATD peeve BLIOPOCMT BCe M3 TOJOBbI VM HK AAT
nosyuenus Gonee no_pobuoit uEdopManun, pas yx ona IuMIeHa
BOSMO2KHOCTH y3HATb, 0 4eM AymaeT Goce.
Cys mo Bcemy, SombuIMHCTBO sI0Rei HaxoguT noceqHee Jeit-
erBue Ham6onee TpyHOMCHOAHUMEIM. OY cnpalimpaior: «A oT-
Kya BbI 3HaeTe, ITO OH HE CUMTAeT MEHA HeEKOMIeTeHTHEIM? Bat
Moslaraete, YTO eTO MOUAHHe He O3HAYAeT AMEHHO TO, UTO A nped-
nonaeaio? »
Pasymeetes, HUKTO, KpOMe CaMOPo HauaIbHukKa, He MOKeET TOU-
HO CKagaTb, 0 YeM OH AyMaeT. He HcK.1104eHO, UTO NepBOHAYAbHOe
Muenne Bonu 61110 npapunbunim. Ho geno B Tom, uTo ecm Goce
He CKasad 0 CBOeM OTHOMeHUE K ee paboTe, albTepHATUBHEIC YMO-
3AKTIOYCHMA ABIAIOTCA PasHosepoamHo npasusbHuMU. BonHU
Avuyero He BEIMTpEIBaeT, PACCTPAUBAACh elle NO TOTO, KaK NOLYUUT
Xakve-1u60 OYeBAAHbIe AOKasaTeIbCTBA, UTO eli ECT H3-3a Vero
BonHopaTEcs.64 QO 10 ryneiunx own6ok, Kotoppie cosepwaiT niogn
Mposepka BocnpuaTua
Besyc0BHO, 6biI0 GbI OYeHb 3f0pOBO, ecm GbI BCE NpeAUOORE-
HUA, CBASAHHBIe C , MOXKHO ObII0 NOATBEPAUTh,
poco 3afaz YeloBeky IpAMoi Bompoc. K comkaseHHI0, OYeHb 4ac-
TO TakOii sleMeHTapHBI cioco6 aHamusa OKasbIBaeTCA HesocTy-
neu. M1 Tem He MeHee CyliecTByeT cioco6 npoBepuTs Balu runoTe-
3bI XOTA ObI B MepBOM NpuomMKeHUM.
Hanpumep, Po6epty oueHb NOHpaBMach JeBylIKa, KOTOPyI0
OH BCTperus Ha BeuepuHKe. Ho pobKnii Monosol venoReK pemmun,
6yaTO JeBylika No_yMaet, YTO OH HEAOCTATOUHO XOpoml AIA Hee.
Onacasch oTKa3a, OH He CMeeT nogoiTa MU UpHracuTs ee Ha TAHEL.
Yi sce-taxn Pooepr He BnOmHe yBepeH, UTO NOAyUNT OTKas. UTo on
MO?KeT CyemaTb?
Q O8 MoxeT yrbIOHyTHCA ef 1 OLEHUTE ee peakIMN.
Q PoGepr MoxeT NompocuTE Koro-TO U3 SHAKOMBIX IpeyCTaBHTD
ero Jepylike.
Q O8 Moxker saBasaTb HENpHHYKAeHHDIM pasroBop, Hadas C Of"
HOii 13 Tex BROJHEIX (ppas, KOTOPHIe pelleTUpyloT chelwatbHO
Awa TAKMX Caryyaes («Mue Bcerga HeslerKo HaYMHaTb pasroBop
Ha TAKUX BeyepuHKax»). BosmookHo, JeByUIKa OTBETUT eMy:
«Mue Toke» (Bexb HeKOTOPOe saMeMAaTeJIbCTBO B TAKUX CIy4a-
AX — ABJIeHHe JocTaTOUHO pacipocrpaHeHHoe).
Vi3mennem npeqctapnerue o ce6e
TlonesHEIm MooKeT OKa3aTbCa IpHMeHeHve MeTOANKU ebipabomKu
uxozo npedcmaérenus o cede. TockornKy Pobepr cmyujaetca Ha
BevepUHKax, OH ORUMACT, UTO XeEHTIMHEI SyAYT OTKASHIBATECH OT
UpOfODKeHuA 3HAKOMCTEBA. Takos ero 06pa3 Ayia ceOa UM DA HUX.
Ha ero ocuoze Po6epr u unTrepuperupyer BLIpaxKeHua Iu WeBy-
IleK, Crapasich B MepByl0 Ovepesb OOHAPY*KUTS B HUX IPUsHAKH
orkasa. On yBepeH, 4TO 3HaeT, 0 YeM OHM AyMaloT, — a 3HAUUT,
emy HesaueM um cipanimsBars. VW Bot, cosHaTembHo uM GeccosHa-
Te1bHO, PoGepr pacipocrpaHser BoKpyr ce6a CMrHansI, roBopa-
je 0 HeusGexK HOCTH OTKAa3a HO CTO TOTOBHOCTH IPHHATS eFo, UTO
cTaHOBMTCa CObIBAIDINMMCH CAaMOMpopovecTBOM.
B Takux cilyyaax Wemecoo6pasHo BbIpadoTaTb y ceOa 4 y OKPy-
2Kalolux WHOe IpercraBsenue o ceGe. IIpeacrassre cea wen0Be-Thasa3.4tenne meicneh OQ 65
KOM, KOTOPBIit BeCeJIO NPOBOAUT BpeM#, NOy4aeT UCTHHHOe Ha-
cnakeHue OT BcTped c Apyrumu so0gEMu. [pegcrapsre, uTo 4
Apyrve m04M oOujalwTCa C BAMM C He MeHBINIMM yJOBONBCTBHeM.
Tlocrapaiirect, 4To6LI Bac BOCIpHHAMAIH UMeHHO Tax. Bosmox-
HO, KTO-TO 43 Apy3eli NoAMepxXUT BAI yCusIMA CBOeEBPeMeHHON
noxBanoi. IIpopeneTupyiite nepeg sepKasom. [Ipaxruxa noityer
BaM Ha lousy. Tem ocronepHee BEI GyzeTe us06paxxaTh 4em0Re-
ka, MCKpeHHe pagyiwueroca KUSH, Tem ObIcTpee BAM IpeyCTa-
BUTCH BOSMOXHOCTE AelicrBuTebHO HacraguTca ero. Ecru apy-
THe JHOLM 3aXOTAT NpPOYeCTh BAIN MBICIH, Aalire uM MOUMTATL
4TO-HHOyAL NonoxKuTeNLHOe. CamompopoyecrBa padoraior He
TONbKO B OTPULATeIbHOM HallpaBeHuH.
Bpicka3biBaHve CO6cCTBeEHHbIX MbICnei
Orkas OT YTeHHA UyKUX MBICHe O3HAdAeT NPAMOE HM UeCTHOE BEI-
cKasbipaHue coGcTBeHHEIX Mbicsei. Ecam Bam auy2tHa uHqopma-
UA, 3ampocute ee. Ecsm BbI 4TO-HHOYAb XOTUTE, HOMpocuTe NpAMO.
Hurakux Hamekos, umppos, +KecTos. ToubKo ACHBIi u 4deTKHi
AISI.
Mapu rosopnt: «SI cuuTato, 4ro KypuTb HenpummM4Ho. Hey2xe-
JIM THI 3a COCeMHHM CTOIMKOM He NOHUM2eT, UTO KypeHMe pasypa-
wkaeT OKpyKaloumx?» — aro osHauaeT: «Passe OH He DOHUMaeT,
UTO Kypenue paszpaxaer MeHa?» Orger Taxon: «Jla, rocnoquHy He
moHuMaer!»
Mapu mora Oni o6paTuTica Kk Kypalemy My2KuHHe: «MsBuun-
Te, NooKasylicra, 3a GeclOKOMCTBO, HO MeHA OUeHb PasaparkaeT Ta-
Sauniiit arm. He morsu 6nI BbI MoKypuTs Ha yrue?» Brrmeyno-
MAHYTHI TocnoquH 1vO0 BeKAUBO 3aTyMUT CurapeTy, 1460
8aABUT, ITO OH GyAeT KypuTD Tam, rye emy BazyMaerca, a ecm eit
He HpaBUTCA, TO OHA MOXKET yOupaTbCA OTCIOAa. OueBUAHO, ITO BbI-
¢ka3sanHax UpocbOa He rapanTupyer Mapu ucnosiHeHMa ee *Kesa-
uus. Ho rombko mpomsHeceHHEie BcIyXx CioBa AaloT Wane Tosy-
HT KeTaeMbIi pesyibTat. MoryanuBan mpocb6a rapanTupyer
Jum To, wro Mapu 6yzer BLIHy2KAeHa BALIXATE AbIM CHPapeTEl.
BuickasbipaHve CBOUX MbICIel He 3HAIMT, ITO BbI BeJeTe ceOH
Tpy60, pesKo, HaxpalluCTO, UTO BbI CIMIIKOM TpeOoBaTeJIBHE! AIK
TparMaTWuHBl, ¥TO BI He CIOCOGHEI HH C KeM JOTOBOpUTECA WK
Koro-ro 8 uem-To o6puHsere. Bul mpocro mpomsHocuTe BeTyX: