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Sneha Bhasha (Love Languages) Malayalam - George Koshy Mylapra

The document discusses the concept of love and how it provides meaning, care, and connection between people. It notes that true love requires understanding from both sides and cannot be forced, as forcing love defeats its purpose. The document also discusses different types of love and how people experience love differently in their lives.

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Sneha Bhasha (Love Languages) Malayalam - George Koshy Mylapra

The document discusses the concept of love and how it provides meaning, care, and connection between people. It notes that true love requires understanding from both sides and cannot be forced, as forcing love defeats its purpose. The document also discusses different types of love and how people experience love differently in their lives.

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PADIKKAAM SNEHA BHAASHA

Malayalam

George Koshy Mylapra


E-version published by:

Kaithiri Malayalm
www.kaithiri.com

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Xn kwkm-cn-p-tmtg
Bi-b-hn-\n-abw \S-p-I-bpq. kwkm-cn-p--bm-fpsS
`mj {^pw, tIhn-mcs `mj P\pw BsWn, F{X aWn-q-dp-I
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kvt\lw an-tmgpw Xncn-dn-b-s-Sp-n-. `mcym-`m-m-cpsS CS-bn CXv
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Ah-kcw Inp-tm-sgms
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kmtd, Cu IeymWw Ignp-I-gn-bp-tm, kvt\lw


Fhn-sS-bmWv t]mbv ad-bp-Xv, Bdp-am-ks IpSpw-_Po-hn-X-n-\p-tijw Hcp
hnhm-l-tam-N-\-ns hnsen \np {]tamZv
tNmZn-p tNmZy-amWn-Xv.

Ah-fpsS Nncn F{X kp-cam-sWtm..., Rm ]e


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]d-n-p-v. \mbn
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hcp-am-bn-cp-n-t... Rm
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`mj {^pw, as-bm-fpsS
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sNpw.?

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Ap `mj-I. hyn-I
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Dv.

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Hmas kvt\l`mj: Dd-t-Ip hmp-I (Affirming Words)


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F\n--Xp-a-Xn, kpK-a-ambn
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aptmv IpXn-p-hm. Hcp
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Is-tW--Xv.
\mn-sbpw hmn-sbpw
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t_m[-h-\m-bn-cpp m\nI-fn m\n-bmb tkmfa. AXp-sIm-mWv acWhpw Poh\pw \mhns
A[n-Im-c-n -C-cn-pp
(k-Zr. 18:21) Fv Atlw
tcJ-s-Sp-n-b-Xv.

kvt\l-ns AXni--amb Hcp {]I-St\m-]m-[n-bmWv Ddt-Ip hmp-I.

hfsc efn-X-amb hmp-I-fneqsSbmhmw AXv Ah-X-cn-n-s-Sp-I.


Cu ]pXnb jv
\nv \mbn tNcp-pv.
\ns-tmse C{X cpNn-I-cambn Cd-n-dn hbvp
Bcpv?
apdn-sbmw ASp-n--Xn\v {]tXyIw \n-bpv,
tItm
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hmp-I, tIp-bmv \Ip Duw
A]m-c-am-Wv.
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]mew Ipep-n-bm-epw.... honsetbm Fstbm Hcp
Imcyhpw sNm
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Ah thZ-\-tbm-sS-bmWv
]d--Xv.
Hcp Imcyhpw sNm-dnt,
a\x-im-kv{X- tNmZn-p.
tM.. tl.., \ntj-[m-XvI-ambn-cpp adp-]-Sn.
Id-v, -t^m _np-I-f-Sbvp--Xmcm ?
AXv At-l-am-Wv.
tj-\dn km[-\-
hmp-tXm ?
AXpw At-lam.
\nv tcmKw hcptm acp-p-hmn Xcp-tXm....
AXpw At-lam

Rm Bdp amk-ambn ]dp-sIm-n-cn-p-Ibm


Fs `m-hn-t\m-Sv,
hoSns tNm H-S-nv
hrn-bmbn s]bnp sNnn-m. Fm amKhpw

CsXms sNbvXp Xcptm Xncnsmcp \-hms-nepw ]d-bm-dptm?


AsX-n-\m.? kzw Npa-Xe-bt sNp-Xv.

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj

icn Rm Hcp \ntiw


]dbmw, a\x-im-kv{X-
A`n{-{]m-b-s-p.,
C\n taen hoSns
tNm-sb-p-dnv At-ltmSv anp-Itb Acp-Xv.
am{X-a-, Fs-nepw Imcyw
sNbvXm- A-Xns\ Hv
A`n-\-n-pIbpw thWw.
a\-nm a\-tmsS cm[nI
AXv k-Xn-p. cm-gvNbv-pdw Ah-cpsS t^m
hp. km Fs `mhv
hoSns ]Wn-I-sfmw
sNbvXp. s]bnpw ASn-n-pXp.
AXp-sIm-m-atm
Fs\ km[n-p..?
Rm km ]d--Xpt]mse sNbvXp. A{X
am{Xw.
cm[n-I-bpsS `m-hns\
kw_-nv am{n-I-sam-gn-Ifm-bn-cpp `mcy-bpsS
t{]mm-l\ hmp-I.
PohnX ]m-fn-bn\npw
Imcyw km[n-s-Sp-m
thn apJ-kvXpXn ]d-bpI
F CXn-\w.
Ahv a\-n-em-Ip
`mj-bn \n-fpsS Dnep kvt\lw {]I-Sn-n-p-

ssIncn.tImw

I. AXp aXn. kvt\ln-p-hp-th-n, kvt\lw Xncn-dn-bp-tm Fpw


sNm kvt\ln--s-Sp-h Xm-dm-Ip-Xv XnIpw
kzm`m-hnIw.
t{]mm-ln-n-pI Fp
]d-m ss[cyw ]IcpI Fpw A-ap-v.
(Encourage = give courage)
`ocp-Xzw-aqew ]e- Im-cypw apn-n-d-msX
aSn-p-\np--h-cp-v.
Akm-[m-cW km[y-i-n-bp-h-cmImw Ah. ]s
Xp\n-n-d-p-hm aSnbpw
Ass[-cy-hp-am-Wv. Ah-cpsS
Dn Dd-n-n-S-p
knwl-p-n-I kS-Ip-Ss-gp-tp-hm,
ss[cyw ]I-cp hmp-I
sImp Hcp Xtem-S-en-\mhpw. Pohn-X-]-m-fn, Fgp-Xmt\m kwL-Sn-n-m-t\m
]mSmt\m Hs Ign-hp
hyn-bm-hmw. ]t A\y
Fv IcpXpw F Nnaqew AsXmw a\-ns
D-d-I-fn-se-hn-sStbm ]qn
hn-cn-p-I-bm-hmw. Hp
s]mSn- X-n-sb-Sp-m, aq
Iqm \n klm-bnp
t\mq... ]mfn asm-cmfmbn amdp-Xv A`n-am-\tmsS t\mn-m-Wq.

hmp-I-tfm-sSm-w-Xs
AXns Dm-cW coXn-bpw,
BwKy-hn-t-]-fpw i_vZns G-p-d-n-ep-samw
(tone & gestures) hmNm-eambn kwkm-cn-p--XmsWpw ad--cp-Xv.
hmp-I-fn imk-\-bp-sStbm, Iev]-\-bp-sStbm [z\n
hcp-tm \n Hcp
t]cns Ipmbw AWn-bpI-bm-Wv. ]m-fnsb Hcp IpnbpsS m\-tv HXpn
\np-I-bm-hpw.
Hcp hj-ambn Cu hon
tIv Dm-n-bn-v. Hmhs\ms Xpcp-np ImWpw.
Cp sshInv Rm hcptm-thpw Hcp tIv- Dm-n-h-bv-Ww. Fv
`mhv `mcy-tbmSv ]d-bptm `mhv Hcp
t]cns A[n-Imcw
FSpp Nmp-I-bm-Wv.
Fm, kqko, \o ]v
Dm-p-am-bn-cp tIv
Fv cpNn-bp--Xm-bn-cp-p.
hmbn Ctm-gpw AXns
cpNn Xn- \np-pv.
Cv, Hp {ian-mtem?
FmWv ]d-bp--sX-n
\nc-kn-m `mcybvv
Bhptam?

\ne-hm-c-ap ka-b-amWv (quality time) cm-as kvt\l-`mj


Hm^o-kv- B-h-iy-pthn aqm-gvN, t_mws_bn Bbn-cpp kmP.
cmhnse hp Ib-dn-b-tX-bpq. ]Xn-hp-t]mse bm{Xmth-f-bn `mcy B\nv
Ghpw ]pXnb ^mj-\nep Npcn-Zm hmn-smp-h-cm kmP ad-n-.
]t hon-sen Ac aWnq Ign--tm-tgpw
Hm^o-kn\npw t^m
hp. Hm^o-kn Nne
{]iv\-. kmPs
kmnyw ASn-b-n-c-ambn
thWw. _mKv Xpdv km\-smXn B\nv \In-bnv
kmP Hm^o-kn-tev IpXnp. {]iv\--sfmw Hv
im-amn XncnsI hon-sen-b-tm cm{Xn 9 aWn
Bbn-cp-p.
cmhnse sImSp km-\smXn B\n Xpd-p-t\m-nbn-p-IqsS Dm-bn-cp-n-.
t{_Iv ^mpw epw
Bcpw IgnmsX ssU\nwKv
tS_n-fn Ccn-p-v.
hop-sI-nb apJ-hp-ambn
B\n s_Uvdq-an InS-ppapv. Imcy-sa-s--dnbmsX `mcysb kmz-\n-nmthn kmP InS-bv-cn-In-tev sNp.
8

Abm-fpsS ssI Xn-am-n-bnv


B\n s]mn-s-dn-p,
\nv Hcp Xcn-snepw FtmSv kvt\laptm? aqm-gvN-bmbn
Rm In-se--bp-sam-gnv
Imn-cn-p-I-bm... Fnv
hp Ib-dnb DSs\ Hm^okn-tev Hcp t]mv. AhnsS-bv Xma-kn-p-Iq-tS.. Fn\m Ctm-p-h--Xv.
]mhw kmP ! A-c-pt]m-bn. t_mws_-bnse Xncn-\n-S-bnepw _m{-bnse
^mj kv{Son t]mbn
G-hpw-hn-e-]n-Sn-p NpcnZm hmn-smv hXv
`mcy-tbm-Sp kvt\lw
sImm-bn-cp-p. ]t
Ctm-gnXm Ah tNmZn-pp, Xcn-s-nepw kvt\lap-tm-F-v. An-p\nmt\ kmP\v Ign-pp.
`mcybvv hne-]n-Sn-p
km\w hmn-b-Xn-eqsS
kvt\lw {]I-Sn-n-m
{ian-p-I-bm-bn-cpp
kmP. Fm B\nv
B `mj Xosc a\-n-em-bn.. ImcWw Ah-cpsS
kvt\l-`mj Izm-fnn ssSw
Bbn-cp--tm.

Hcp-anv Sn.-hn. ImWp--tXm,


km[-\- hmm ISbn t]mIp-tm Hcp-anv
bm{X sNp--tXm, n
Hcp-anv t]mIp--tXm A
Izmfnn ssSw. asm-n\pw
hn`-Pnp \ImsX ]mfnv am{X-ambn ]Ip-p-sImSp-p ka-b-amWv mfnn
ssSw. ]m-fn-Iv XfpsS Izmfnn ssSan, Hp
\S-m t]mhp-I-tbm, Hcpanv _mUvan Ifn-pItbm Hw Bhmw. ]s
B \Spw Ifnbpw Hpw
\S-nt\m Ifn-tm thnbm-I-cp-Xv.
Rm Fs `mcy-bpsS
apn Ah ]d-bp-Xn
{inv 20 an\nv Ccp-m,
hne-]n-Sn Fs Pohn-Xnse 20 an\n-p-I-ft
Rm Ahv sImSp-p-Xv. Fs Bbp-ns Hcp
`mKw-Xs Ahv km\nv kvt\lw {]I-Sn-n-p-IbmWv Rm Atm sNp-Xv, {it-b-\mb Hcp
_nkn-\-p-Im-cs hmp-Ifm-Wnh.
Rm InS-p AtX Inen Nmcn-bn-cp-p-sImv
Hcp aWn-q t\cw

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj

Atlw Cs\v {_ukv


sNpw. Fnv FtmSv CSbvnsS Fs-n-ep-sams
tNmZn-pw. BZy-sams
Rm adp-]Sn ]d-bp-am-bn-cpp. ]noSv Rm\pw ]Tn-p.
Ctm Rm\pw A{Xbpw
kabw Fs-nepw hmbnp-sIm-n-cn-pw. ASp-n-cpm ASp--am-Iptam?
Iukn-enw-Kn-s\-nb Hcp
`mcy- tNmZn-p-p. AsX,
ASp-n-cp-m ASp--am-hpI-bn-.

]m-fn-bpsS hmp-Ifpw, AXns ]nnep hnIm-chpw


Xncn--dn-b--hn[w kwkm-cn-p-Ibpw, CS-bvnsS
tNmZy- D-bnv
Bm X shfns-Sp-p-Ibpw
thWw.
Fs `mhv FtmSv
Hpw kwkm-cn-m-dn
Fv Hcp `mcy ]cm-Xn-sm AXn-s-bw,
Hpta kwkm-cn-m-dn
F. {]Xyp-X, Izmfnn
ssSw F\nv e`n-p-n
FmWv.

ssIncn.tImw

Hm^o-knse taep-tZym-K-\p-am-bp-mb Hcp {]iv\w


`m-hn-t\mSv ]p-h-bvphm {ian `mcy-bpsS IY
Hm-h-cp-p.
{]iv\-hn-h-cWw ]mXn-bm-btm-tgpw amt\-Pva v
Ik v IqsS-bmb
_pn-am-\mb `m-hn\v
AXns aqe-Im-cWw a\-nem-bn. Ccw \nc-h[n
{]iv\-sf \nm-c-ambn
]cn-l-cn-n-p Atlw
`mcy-bpsS hni-Zo-I-cWw
]mXn-h-gn-bn \nn-p-Ibpw, {]iv\ ]cn-lm-c-n\p kpK-aamb hgn ]dp-sIm-Sp-p-Ibpw
sNbvXp. ]t `mcy kwXr]vX-bm-bn-. Imc-Ww,
Ahv Atm thn-bncp-Xv {]iv\w ]cn-l-cn-m\p \nt-i-am-bn-cp-n-.
X\n-p-mb hnj-a-X-I
kl-Xm-]-]qw tIpIbpw Xtm-sSmw AXns
`mK-`m-m-Ip-Ibpw sNp
Hcp `m-hns ImXp-I-fmbn-cpp Ahm-h-iyw.
CXv a\-n-em-m Ignbm `mhv F{X amt\Pvsa v FIvkvt]v BsW-

nepw IpSpw-_-Po-hn-X-n
Hcp h-q-Pyw- X-s-bm-Wv.
A]-cs kwkmcw tIpsIm-n-cn-m-\p Bfp-IfpsS a-bpsS AXnn
Ctm 17 skmbn Ipdn-cn-p-p-shv ]T-\ shfn-s-Sp-p-p. 17
skn\v app-Xs AhcpsS kwkm-c-ns CSbn Ib-dp-hm \mw hy{KX
ImWn-p-p. Fm
PohnX ]m-fn-bpsS kw`mjWw sXv ZoLn-mepw
A-a-cm-ImsX AXn\v
ImXp \Ip-I-bmWv thXv. {]tXy-Inv kvt\l-`mj
Izmfnn ssSw Bb Hcp
hyn-tbmSv kwkm-cn-ptm. AXn-\p- -k-abw
Atm Cs-n AXpw
Xpdp ]d-bmw,
t\mq, \o ]d-bp-Xv apgph F\nv tIp a\-n-em-Ww. ]t Ctm-gXn\p kml-N-cy-an--tm. Hcp
]t Cv sshInv Fmw
FtmSv hni-Z-ambn ]d-bWw, ad--cp-tX. Fv
`mhv `mcy-tbmSv
]dm Fmw Xpd-p-]d kwXr-]vXn-bmWv
`mcybvv Inp--Xv.

aqm-as kvt\l-`mj km-\--fmWv (Gifts)


av kvt\l-`m-j-I-sfm-pwXs In-se-Sp-p-hm
km[n-n-. Fm km\--fm-I-s, Zriycq-]-ap
Hcp kvt\l-`m-j-bm-Wv.
\n ]m-fnv sImSp
Hcp km\w In-se-Spv
Xmtem-en-p-sImv B
hyn-sb-p-dnv ]d-bm-\mhpw, Itm, Fs-p-dnv
Hmn--Xp-sIm-t Cu
km\w hmn-sm-p-h-Xv Fv.
Xo-bmbpw Hcm-sf-p-dnv
Hmn-msX \apv Atl-n-\p-thn Hcp
km\w hmm-\m-hn-. B
Nn-bpsS Hcp {]Xn-^-e-\amWv km-\w.
km-\-n-\ hne. B
Nnbvpw Icp-X-en-\p-am-Wv.
Fm Dn-ep Nnbpw
kvt\lhpw {]I-Sn-n--s-SpXv Cu km-\-n-eq-sSbm-Wv.

10

km-\- kvt\l`m-j-bmbn Xncn--dnbp- -hy-n-Iv


Hmtcm sNdnb km\-n-sbpw hne
hfsc hen-b-Xm-Wv.
Ch hmn-b-tXm, kzbw
Dm-n-btXm Is-nbtXm Hs Bhmw.
]pjv]-fpw sNSn-Ifpw
FhnsS Imepw Gsd
t\cw IuXp-I-tmsS
t\mn-\np kz`m-hamWv tla-eXbptSXv.
Ahv kmam\yw \ Hcp
]qtm--hp-ap-v. Hcn-
tla-bpsS `mhv FhnsStbm t]mbnv Xncn-sI-sbn-b-tm A]q-amb
Hcp ]qsSn sImp-F-Spp. AXp- Iv Ah
Xpn-m-Sn. hgn-tbm-c-s-hnsStbm I Hcp A]qXcw Imp-sN-Sn-bm-bn-cpp
AXv. hgn-bn Cu sNSn
I `mhv DSs\ Im
\nn AXv thscmsS ]dnp-sIm-p-t]m-cn-I-bm-bn-cpp. Imp-sN-Sn-bm-bn-cp-p-sh-

nepw tla-e-Xsb kw_nv AXns hne Af-m\m-hm--Xm-Wv. ImcWw


Ah-cpsS kvt\l-`mj
km-\-am-bn-cp-p.
F\nv Cu km\w
sImSp-p kz`m-h-sam-p-an, km\w sXc-s-Spm\pw F\n--dn-bn-, F\nmcpw Xn-p-an-, Ipsdm-ew -apv tla-e-X-bpsS
`mhv Bm-ambn
Cu Ip-kmcw \S-n-btm Abm al-mb
Hcp Ip-]n-Spw \S-p-Ibm-bn-cp-p. Xsbpw `mcybp-sSbpw kvt\l-`m-j-I
hyXy-kvX-am-sW Ip-]nSp-w. Ah-cpsS IpSpw-_-PohnX hnP-b-ns BZy-]-Snbm-bn-cpp AXv.
]m-fn-bpsS ico-c-kmnyw Hcp henb km-\am-bn-o-cp L-fpw
Dv. Nne knKv thf-Ifn `m-hns / `mcybpsS kmnyw tImSm-\ptImSn cq]-tb-m aqeyap km-\-am-bn-osp-h-cmw.

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj

\mem-as kvt\l-`mj tkh-\hpw klm-b-hp-am-Wv. (Acts & Services)


F\n-ss `mcysb hfsc
CjvS-am-Wv, Hcn- -Hcp
`mhv shfn-s-Sp-n.
AXns Imc-Whpw
Atlw hy-am-n,
Ah F\nv Dm-n-cp Blm-cw Fv cpNn-I-cam-sW-tm, Fs hkv{Xsamw Aen tXv Ae-amc-bn- A-Sp-n-h-bvpw.
Hm^o-kn \npw Rm
hcp-tm IrXy-ambpw Hcp
NqSp-Nm-b. ]ns BgvN-bnsem-cn- Im Igp-Ipw.
`mcy-sb-smv tPmen
sNn-n-m hy{KX ImWnp {Iqc\pw aSn-b-\p-amb
Hcp `m-hmbn At-

ls hne-bn-cp-t-.
At-l-ns apJy-kvt\-l`mj klm-bhpw tkh-\hpw
BsWs AXn-\-apq. A\y \apv sNbvXpX-cp klm-b-k-l-IcWfn-eq-sS-bmWv Cq-
kvt\l-ns Afhv Xns-Sp-p-I.
Fs `mhv sshInv
Ftm-sSmw In-Wn
ImWpw. ]m{Xw Igp-Iptm XpSv It_m-Un
hbvpw. hncp-p-Im hcptm tS_n skv
sNpXpw hmjv t_kn-\Spv ]pXnb Sepw
tkmpw hbvp-Xpw Atl-am-Wv. CSbvv Rm Aenb XpWn FSpv aS-n-hbvm-dp-v. cmhnse Fgptp-tm In

IpSv hncn-p-Xpw
Atlw Xs. \ kvt\lap a\p-jy, kqk
Xs `mhv tPm_n-sbp-dnv ]d-bp-Xv tIptmtg \apv a\-nemmw Ah-cpsS apJy-kvt\l-`mj tkh-\-amWv Fv.
Ieym-W-n-\p-apv
Rms\s hon Hpw
sNbvXn-n-. ]nt
Ctm. Rms\m `mcybpsS i-f-m-c-\mtWm?
em F bphmhv tNmZnXv Cs-s\-bm-bn-cp-p,
Rm hop-Imcyw t\mn
\S-m th ]Ww
km-Zn-p-p-v. AXns
Xe-th-Z\ Ahv Adn-tb-tm. hnhm-l-tam-N-\ns hn-sen \npI-bm-Wv. emepw `mcy kpNn{X-bpw.\n--sfmcp \ `m-hmsW-n F\nnXv sNbvXp
Xcpw Fp ]d-bp `mcybpw. CXp sNbvXn-s-n
\o A\p-`-hnpw Fp
`oj-Wns--Sp-p `mhpw.kvt\lw ]m-fn-bn
\npw Ihs-Sp-m
{ian-p-I-bm-Wv. Ah-cpsS
kvt\l-`mj tkh-\-am-Wv.
]t ]m-fn-bn \n-Xv
Inp--Xp-an-. Atm
\n_--]qw kvt\lw
]nSn-s-Sp-m {ian-ptm hmp-I ]cp-j-ambn-o-cpw. ^ew hn]-coXambn-o-cp-Ibpw sNpw.

ssIncn.tImw

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imco-cnI kv]i\w sshImcnI kvt\l-ns _mly{]-I-S-\-amWv. sImp-Ip-n\p-t]mepw AXv Xncn--dn-bm\m-hpw. AXp-sIm-m-- Wtm
Nne FSp-m Ipv
s]mn--c-bp-I-bpw, av NnecpsS H-s-p-tm
Nncn-p-Ibpw sNp--Xv.
X-fpsS inip-hns\ sXmtS-Xn\v ]me-kvXo-\nse
amXm-]n-Xm- Ipp-tf-bpw-sImv tbip-hns\
kao-]n--Xmbn ss__n
]d-bp-p-v. Fm
injym amXm-]n-Xm-msc XS-p. AXp-Iv
tbip Ip-p-sf ASp-phn-fnv Xmtem-en-p-Ibpw
Npw_n-p-Ibpw amtdm-S-Wbvp-Ibpw sNbvXp. kv]i\-ns hnebpw al-Xzhpw
Xncn--dn--h-cmWv al-p. ZXn-I-fpsS _nepw AXns m\w
AZzn-Xo-b-am-Wv. Xtem-Sp-I,
]c-kv]cw ssItImv
]nSn-p-I, Npw_n-p-I,
sXmp-cp-n-bn-cn-p-I, BenwK\w sNp-I, imco-cnI
_-n-tes-SpI FsXms kvt\l {]I-S-\ns hnhn[ Af-hp-I-fmWv.
imco-cnI kv]i-\w, apJykvt\-l-`m-j-bm-bn-p--hv
]m-fn-bpsS kv]i\w e`nmsX hcp-tm izmkw
app--Xmbn A\p-`-h-s-tmw. t\sc adnv ]m-fnbpsS Ic-h-e-b-n-\p-n
Ah A\p-`-hn-p kpcn-XXzw Ah-\o-b-am-Wv.
Z-Xn-I-fpsS imco-cn-I_w {]Xyp-ev]m-Z-\-]cw
am{X-a-, kv\l-ns ]mcay-n \n-p-m-tI Hcp
hnImc {]I-S\w IqsS-bmWXv.
]pcp-js lrZ-b-n-tep hgn DZ-c-n-eqsS
Fv tI-dn `mhns\ {]km-Zn-n-m GgpXcw Iqm-\p-mn hn`-h-kar--amb A-m-g-sam-cpn
Imn-cpp skeo-\.
Blmcw Ignv InS--bnse-nb juv Ipsd12

kv ] i- \ - a mWv (Physical touch)


Am-as kvt\l-`mj
t\cw skeo-\sb Imn-cpp. Fm hp-hn-f-nb
]m{X-samw IgpIn, In\pw
o sNbvXnv sken InSp-ap-dn-bn-se-n-b-tm
Iqw hen-p-d-p
ju-n-\-bmWv I-Xv.
kmtd, Fn\m F\nv
Ggv Iqm. Htm ctm
t]mtc. t\cs Xonv
hp-IqsS Ahv.. thsd
F{Xtbm Imcy- InS-pp, A-s\-bm-bn-cpp
ju-ns {]Xn-I-c-Ww.
AZv-tZ-l-ns kvt\l`mj `-W-am-bn-cp-n-.
kv]i-\-am-bn-cp-p. AXv
Xncn--dn-bp-hm ]mhw
sken\v Ign-n-.
]t-{n-b--fn Hp
am{X-am-Wv Nw. Fm
av \men \npw hyXykvX-ambn B]m-Z-NqVw
ihi-co-cs s]mXnv
N-ap-v. Fhn-sSbpw e`np Hcp kv]is
AXns ]q Kuc-htmsS Xe-tm-dn Fnp-hm k-cmb \mUn
Rc-p-I-fmWv \ap-p--Xv.
kt-i- e`n-p-tm
Xe-tm B kv]i-\ns `mj hymJym-\nv
hm-bn-s-Sp-pw. Rm
\ns kvt\ln-pp
Fp Xs-bmtWm AXn\w Fv.

F\n-p--sXmw
Fs ico-c-n-et
IpSn-sIm-p--Xv.
AXp-sImv Fs
ico-c-n Hcm
kv]in-p-tm
Fs--s-bmWv
kv]in-p--Xv.
Fs kv]inmsX amdn-\nptm Fn\n-pamWv B hyn
AIp \np-Xv.
\n-fpsS PohnX ]m-fnbpsS apJy-kvt\-l-`mj
kv]i-\-am-sW-n, Iocns thf-I-fn B
hynsb Hp tNp-]n-Snp--Xn-s\-m Bizm-kI-c-ambn asm-p-an-.
ktm-j-th-f-I-fn
\Ip Hcm-enw-K-\-tmfw
Bth-i-I-c-ambpw asm-p-an.
Hcp D-`m-jn-Wn-bn-eqsS
sF ehv bq Fv hnfn-pIqhn ]d-bp--Xnepw iamWv Ahv Hcp arZpkv]i-\w.
AtmXs {in-t
Hcp Imcy-ap-v. ]m-fnsb
\n kv]in-p-Xv
\n B{K-ln-p ka-bpw, coXn-bnepw AI-cp-Xv.
AXv hn]-coX ^ew Df-hmn-sbv hcpw. adnv AhcpsS ka-bpw Ah B{Kln-p coXn-bn-ep-am-h-Ww
B kv]iw.

]Tnmw kvt\l`mj

Pohn-X-]-m-fn-bpsS kvt\lns Smv \nd-p-h-bv-Wsa-n B hyn-bpsS


kvt\l-`mj GXm-sWv
Xncn--dn-b-Ww. ]s AXn\p-apv kzw kvt\l-`mj
GXm-sWv a\-n-em--Ww.
apI-fn]-d Ap `mjI-sf-p-dnv Nnn-ptmXs Nnev XfpsS {]Ya kvt\l-`mj
GXm-sWv t_m[y-am-tbmw. Am--h C\n--dbp tNmZy--fpsS Dcw
kzbw Is-p-I.
1. \n-fpsS ]mfn
t\cs ]d 5 Imcy-fn Fp sNm-sX-bn-cn-ptm-gmWv \n IqSp-X
{hWn-X-cm-Ip--Xv.?
2. \n-fpsS ]m-fnbn\npw IqSp-X-embn
\n Bin-Xpw Bh-iys--Xp-amb Imcyw
FmWv?
3. \n-fpsS ]m-fn-tbm-Sp
kvt\lw km[m-cW {]I-Snn-m Xp\n-bp-Xv Fs\-bmWv?
Cu tNmZy--fpsS D-cn \npw \n-fpsS
apJy-kvt\-l-`mj GXmsWv Xncn--dn-bm Ignbpw. app \mev Imcy--fpsSbpw apK-W-\m--nI
Xm-dm-p-I.
C\nbpw sNt-Xv ]m-fnbpsS kvt\l-`mj IspI F-Xm-Wv. AXn\v
Xmsg--d-bp tNmZy-v
adp-]Sn Xm-dm--Ww.

ssIncn.tImw

1. ]mfn F-s\-bmWv
FtmSv kvt\lw {]I-Sn-nm-dp-Xv?
2. an-tmgpw ]mfn Fns\--n-bmWv e`n-p-n
Fv ]cmXn ]d-bm-dp-Xv?
3. Fs ]mfn IqsS-qsS
Ftm-Sm-h-iy-s-Sp
Imcyw FmWv?
4. \n-fpsS Nn-Ifpw
kvt\lhpw hmp-I-fn-eqsS
thpw-hn[w {]I-Sn-n-m\mhptam?
5. km\w hmn-sm-Spm\pw AXv Gp hmp-h-cpsS apJs ktm-j-{]I-S\w Bkz-Zn-m\pw CjvSamtWm?
6. Hcp Nmbbpw IpSn-psImv ]m-fn-tbm-sSmw
sImp h-am\w ]d-ncn-m \n B{K-ln-ppthm?
7. ]m-fn-bpsS Bh-iy-L--fn Ahsc klm-bnm Ftmgpw aptmv
hcptam? AtXm X{-]qw
cwK-p-\nv Hgn-p-amdptam?
8. kvt\l-{]-I-S-\-ambn CSbvsms Hp sXmp
Xtem-Sm-dptm?
C\n ]m-fn-tbm-sSmw
Ccpv Cu Imcy- ]ckv]cw ]p-h-bvp-I. Dul icn-bm-bn-cptm Fv
tNmZnv a\-n-em-p-I.
Fv sNbvXp Xm
F\nv \ns ktm-jn-nm\mhpw Fv Hcp Znhkw

Hm^o-kn \nv h-tm


Rms\s `mcy-tbmSv tNmZnp. Ah ]dp, XpWnsbmw hmjnwKv sajo-\nenv Aen sImSp--W-sav. ]nt... XpWn-b-e-pXpw kvt\l-{]-I-S-\hpw
Xn-se-mWv _w?
cmPo-h\v AXp sXpw a\n-em-Ip-p-m-bn-cp-n-.
AXmWv {]iv\w. `mcy-bpsS
apJy kvt\l-`mj cmPo-hv,
C\nbpw \n Xncn--dnn-n-. Hm^o-kn\nv
hcp-tm Ah \n
Fp sNbvXp Xc-W-samWv \n B{K-ln-pXv? a\x-im-kv{X-
cmPo-hn-t\mSv tNmZn-p.
hmXnXp-dv Fs
kzoI-cnv F\n-smcp
Npw_\w Xc-Ww.
Hcp Npw_\w e`n-p-tm
`mcy-bn\npw \n
A\p-`-hn-p AtX
kvt\l-amWv \n XpWn
hmjnwKv sajo-\n-enSptm
Ah A\p-`-hn-p--Xpw.
a\x-im-kv{X-s hmpI tI-tm cmPo-hs
adp-]Sn C-s\-bm-bn-cp-p.
kXy-tam, Fn Cp
apX Fm-Zn-h-khpw XpWnI-gp-Ip tPmen Rm GsSp-pw.

kv t \lw Hcn- epw


]cm-P-b-s-Sp-n-.
tPmPv tImin ssae{]
9447213777

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FgppImv ]cnioe\w \evI NnmtKm Bm\ambp


aoUnb Cs\mjWens Gjy]k^nIv doPnbW Ubd,
]{X{]hI, enn an ]ntjs at\PnwKv Ubd

ssIncn.tImw
shfnntev Hcp Xncn\mfw

aebmfnImbn
{]tXyIw XbmdmnbXv !
Km\, {]`mjW, kwhmZ,
hmI, ]T\
Fns\ \nch[n hn`h
(HmUntbm, hoUntbm, C_pv)
kuP\yambn UutemUv sNpXn\v
Cp Xs kinpI.

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