LADY BYRON VINDICATED

BY HARRIET BEECHER STOWE.

A history of the Byron Controversy from its beginning in 1816 to the present time.

NOTE BY THE PUBLISHERS.

The subject of this volume is of such painful notoriety that any apology from the Publishers may seem
unnecessary upon issuing the Author’s reply to the counter statements which her narrative in Macmillan’s
Magazine has called forth. Nevertheless they consider it right to state that their strong regard for the Author,
respect for her motives, and assurance of her truthfulness, would, even in the absence of all other
considerations, be sufficient to induce them to place their imprint on the title-page.

The publication has been undertaken by them at the Author’s request, ‘as her friends,’ and as the publishers of
her former works, and from a feeling that whatever difference of opinion may be entertained respecting the
Author’s judiciousness in publishing ‘The True Story,’ she is entitled to defend it, having been treated with
grave injustice, and often with much maliciousness, by her critics and opponents, and been charged with
motives from which no person living is more free. An intense love of justice and hatred of oppression, with
an utter disregard of her own interests, characterise Mrs. Stowe’s conduct and writings, as all who know her
well will testify; and the Publishers can unhesitatingly affirm their belief that neither fear for loss of her
literary fame, nor hope of gain, has for one moment influenced her in the course she has taken.

LONDON: January 1870.

CONTENTS.
PART I.

CHAPTER I. INTRODUCTION
CHAPTER II. THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON
CHAPTER III. RÉSUMÉ OF THE CONSPIRACY
CHAPTER IV. RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON’S DEATH
CHAPTER V. THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON’S GRAVE

PART II.

CHAPTER I. LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER

CHAPTER II. LADY BYRON’S STORY AS TOLD ME
CHAPTER III. CHRONOLOGICAL SUMMARY OF EVENTS
CHAPTER IV. THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES COMPARED
CHAPTER V. THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME
CHAPTER VI. PHYSIOLOGICAL ARGUMENT
CHAPTER VII. HOW COULD SHE LOVE HIM?
CHAPTER VIII. CONCLUSION

PART III. MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS.

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THE TRUE STORY OF LADY BYRON’S LIFE (AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN ‘THE ATLANTIC
MONTHLY’)
LORD LINDSAY’S LETTER TO ‘THE LONDON TIMES’
DR. FORBES WINSLOW’S LETTER TO ‘THE LONDON TIMES’
EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON’S EXPUNGED LETTER TO MURRAY
EXTRACTS FROM ‘BLACKWOOD’S MAGAZINE’
LETTERS OF LADY BYRON TO H. C. ROBINSON
DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON

PART I.

CHAPTER I. INTRODUCTION.
The interval since my publication of ‘The True Story of Lady Byron’s Life’ has been one of stormy discussion
and of much invective.

I have not thought it necessary to disturb my spirit and confuse my sense of right by even an attempt at
reading the many abusive articles that both here and in England have followed that disclosure. Friends have
undertaken the task for me, giving me from time to time the substance of anything really worthy of attention
which came to view in the tumult.

It appeared to me essential that this first excitement should in a measure spend itself before there would be a
possibility of speaking to any purpose. Now, when all would seem to have spoken who can speak, and, it is to
be hoped, have said the utmost they can say, there seems a propriety in listening calmly, if that be possible, to
what I have to say in reply.

And, first, why have I made this disclosure at all?

To this I answer briefly, Because I considered it my duty to make it.

I made it in defence of a beloved, revered friend, whose memory stood forth in the eyes of the civilised world
charged with most repulsive crimes, of which I certainly knew her innocent.

I claim, and shall prove, that Lady Byron’s reputation has been the victim of a concerted attack, begun by her
husband during her lifetime, and coming to its climax over her grave. I claim, and shall prove, that it was not
I who stirred up this controversy in this year 1869. I shall show who did do it, and who is responsible for
bringing on me that hard duty of making these disclosures, which it appears to me ought to have been made
by others.

I claim that these facts were given to me unguarded by any promise or seal of secrecy, expressed or implied;
that they were lodged with me as one sister rests her story with another for sympathy, for counsel, for
defence. Never did I suppose the day would come that I should be subjected to so cruel an anguish as this use
of them has been to me. Never did I suppose that,—when those kind hands, that had shed nothing but
blessings, were lying in the helplessness of death, when that gentle heart, so sorely tried and to the last so full
of love, was lying cold in the tomb,—a countryman in England could be found to cast the foulest slanders on
her grave, and not one in all England to raise an effective voice in her defence.

I admit the feebleness of my plea, in point of execution. It was written in a state of exhausted health, when no
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dictate to another.

I have been told that I have no reason to congratulate myself on it as a literary effort. O my brothers and
sisters! is there then nothing in the world to think of but literary efforts? I ask any man with a heart in his
bosom, if he had been obliged to tell a story so cruel, because his mother’s grave gave no rest from
slander,—I ask any woman who had been forced to such a disclosure to free a dead sister’s
name from grossest insults, whether she would have thought of making this work of bitterness a literary
success?

Are the cries of the oppressed, the gasps of the dying, the last prayers of mothers,—are any words
wrung like drops of blood from the human heart to be judged as literary efforts?

My fellow-countrymen of America, men of the press, I have done you one act of justice,—of all your
bitter articles, I have read not one. I shall never be troubled in the future time by the remembrance of any
unkind word you have said of me, for at this moment I recollect not one. I had such faith in you, such pride in
my countrymen, as men with whom, above all others, the cause of woman was safe and sacred, that I was at
first astonished and incredulous at what I heard of the course of the American press, and was silent, not
merely from the impossibility of being heard, but from grief and shame. But reflection convinces me that you
were, in many cases, acting from a misunderstanding of facts and through misguided honourable feeling; and I
still feel courage, therefore, to ask from you a fair hearing. Now, as I have done you this justice, will you also
do me the justice to hear me seriously and candidly?

What interest have you or I, my brother and my sister, in this short life of ours, to utter anything but the truth?
Is not truth between man and man and between man and woman the foundation on which all things rest?
Have you not, every individual of you, who must hereafter give an account yourself alone to God, an interest
to know the exact truth in this matter, and a duty to perform as respects that truth? Hear me, then, while I tell
you the position in which I stood, and what was my course in relation to it.

A shameless attack on my friend’s memory had appeared in the ‘Blackwood’ of July

1869, branding Lady Byron as the vilest of criminals, and recommending the Guiccioli book to a Christian
public as interesting from the very fact that it was the avowed production of Lord Byron’s mistress.
No efficient protest was made against this outrage in England, and Littell’s ‘Living
Age’ reprinted the ‘Blackwood’ article, and the Harpers, the largest publishing house in
America, perhaps in the world, re-published the book.

Its statements—with those of the ‘Blackwood,’ ‘Pall Mall Gazette,’ and

other English periodicals—were being propagated through all the young reading and writing world of
America. I was meeting them advertised in dailies, and made up into articles in magazines, and thus the
generation of to-day, who had no means of judging Lady Byron but by these fables of her slanderers, were
being foully deceived. The friends who knew her personally were a small select circle in England, whom
death is every day reducing. They were few in number compared with the great world, and were silent. I saw
these foul slanders crystallising into history uncontradicted by friends who knew her personally, who, firm in
their own knowledge of her virtues and limited in view as aristocratic circles generally are, had no idea of the
width of the world they were living in, and the exigency of the crisis. When time passed on and no voice was
raised, I spoke. I gave at first a simple story, for I knew instinctively that whoever put the first steel point of
truth into this dark cloud of slander must wait for the storm to spend itself. I must say the storm exceeded my
expectations, and has raged loud and long. But now that there is a comparative stillness I shall proceed, first,
to prove what I have just been asserting, and, second, to add to my true story such facts and incidents as I did
not think proper at first to state.

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CHAPTER II. THE ATTACK ON LADY BYRON.

In proving what I asserted in the first chapter, I make four points:

1st. A concerted attack upon Lady Byron’s reputation, begun by Lord Byron in self-defence.

2nd. That he transmitted his story to friends to be continued after his death.

3rd. That they did so continue it.

4th. That the accusations reached their climax over Lady Byron’s grave in ‘Blackwood’
of 1869, and the Guiccioli book, and that this re-opening of the controversy was my reason for speaking.

And first I shall adduce my proofs that Lady Byron’s reputation was, during the whole course of her
husband’s life, the subject of a concentrated, artfully planned attack, commencing at the time of the
separation and continuing during his life. By various documents carefully prepared, and used publicly or
secretly as suited the case, he made converts of many honest men, some of whom were writers and men of
letters, who put their talents at his service during his lifetime in exciting sympathy for him, and who, by his
own request, felt bound to continue their defence of him after he was dead.

In order to consider the force and significance of the documents I shall cite, we are to bring to our view just
the issues Lord Byron had to meet, both at the time of the separation and for a long time after.

In Byron’s ‘Memoirs,’ Vol. IV. Letter 350, under date December 10, 1819, nearly four
years after the separation, he writes to Murray in a state of great excitement on account of an article in
‘Blackwood,’ in which his conduct towards his wife had been sternly and justly commented on,
and which he supposed to have been written by Wilson, of the ‘Noctes Ambrosianae.’ He says
in this letter: ‘I like and admire W---n, and he should not have indulged himself in such outrageous
license. . . . . When he talks of Lady Byron’s business he talks of what he knows nothing about; and
you may tell him no man can desire a public investigation of that affair more than I do.’ {7}

He shortly after wrote and sent to Murray a pamphlet for publication, which was printed, but not generally
circulated till some time afterwards. Though more than three years had elapsed since the separation, the
current against him at this time was so strong in England that his friends thought it best, at first, to use this
article of Lord Byron’s discreetly with influential persons rather than to give it to the public.

The writer in ‘Blackwood’ and the indignation of the English public, of which that writer was
the voice, were now particularly stirred up by the appearance of the first two cantos of ‘Don
Juan,’ in which the indecent caricature of Lady Byron was placed in vicinity with other indecencies,
the publication of which was justly considered an insult to a Christian community.

It must here be mentioned, for the honour of Old England, that at first she did her duty quite respectably in
regard to ‘Don Juan.’ One can still read, in Murray’s standard edition of the poems,
how every respectable press thundered reprobations, which it would be well enough to print and circulate as
tracts for our days.

Byron, it seems, had thought of returning to England, but he says, in the letter we have quoted, that he has
changed his mind, and shall not go back, adding ‘I have finished the Third Canto of “Don
Juan,” but the things I have heard and read discourage all future publication. You may try the copy
question, but you’ll lose it; the cry is up, and the cant is up. I should have no objection to return the

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price of the copyright, and have written to Mr. Kinnaird on this subject.’

One sentence quoted by Lord Byron from the ‘Blackwood’ article will show the modern
readers what the respectable world of that day were thinking and saying of him:—

‘It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted every species of
sensual gratification—having drained the cup of sin even to its bitterest
dregs—were resolved to show us that he is no longer a human being even in his
frailties, but a cool, unconcerned fiend, laughing with detestable glee over the whole of the
better and worse elements of which human life is composed.’

The defence which Lord Byron makes, in his reply to that paper, is of a man cornered and fighting for his
life. He speaks thus of the state of feeling at the time of his separation from his wife:—

‘I was accused of every monstrous vice by public rumour and private rancour; my
name, which had been a knightly or a noble one since my fathers helped to conquer the
kingdom for William the Norman, was tainted. I felt that, if what was whispered and
muttered and murmured was true, I was unfit for England; if false, England was unfit for me.
I withdrew; but this was not enough. In other countries—in Switzerland, in the shadow
of the Alps, and by the blue depth of the lakes—I was pursued and breathed upon by
the same blight. I crossed the mountains, but it was the same; so I went a little farther, and
settled myself by the waves of the Adriatic, like the stag at bay, who betakes him to the
waters.

‘If I may judge by the statements of the few friends who gathered round me, the outcry
of the period to which I allude was beyond all precedent, all parallel, even in those cases
where political motives have sharpened slander and doubled enmity. I was advised not to go
to the theatres lest I should be hissed, nor to my duty in parliament lest I should be insulted by
the way; even on the day of my departure my most intimate friend told me afterwards that he
was under the apprehension of violence from the people who might be assembled at the door
of the carriage.’

Now Lord Byron’s charge against his wife was that SHE was directly responsible for getting up and
keeping up this persecution, which drove him from England,—that she did it in a deceitful, treacherous
manner, which left him no chance of defending himself.

He charged against her that, taking advantage of a time when his affairs were in confusion, and an execution
in the house, she left him suddenly, with treacherous professions of kindness, which were repeated by letters
on the road, and that soon after her arrival at her home her parents sent him word that she would never return
to him, and she confirmed the message; that when he asked the reason why, she refused to state any; and that
when this step gave rise to a host of slanders against him she silently encouraged and confirmed the slanders.
His claim was that he was denied from that time forth even the justice of any tangible accusation against
himself which he might meet and refute.

He observes, in the same article from which we have quoted:—

‘When one tells me that I cannot “in any way justify my own behaviour in that
affair,” I acquiesce, because no man can “justify” himself until he
knows of what he is accused; and I have never had—and, God knows, my whole desire
has ever been to obtain it—any specific charge, in a tangible shape, submitted to me by
the adversary, nor by others, unless the atrocities of public rumour and the mysterious silence

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of the lady’s legal advisers may be deemed such.’

Lord Byron, his publishers, friends, and biographers, thus agree in representing his wife as the secret author
and abettor of that persecution, which it is claimed broke up his life, and was the source of all his subsequent
crimes and excesses.

Lord Byron wrote a poem in September 1816, in Switzerland, just after the separation, in which he stated, in
so many words, these accusations against his wife. Shortly after the poet’s death Murray published
this poem, together with the ‘Fare thee well,’ and the lines to his sister, under the title of
‘Domestic Pieces,’ in his standard edition of Byron’s poetry. It is to be remarked, then,
that this was for some time a private document, shown to confidential friends, and made use of judiciously, as
readers or listeners to his story were able to bear it. Lady Byron then had a strong party in England. Sir
Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington were her counsel. Lady Byron’s parents were living, and the
appearance in the public prints of such a piece as this would have brought down an aggravated storm of public
indignation.

For the general public such documents as the ‘Fare thee well’ were circulating in England, and
he frankly confessed his wife’s virtues and his own sins to Madame de Staël and others in Switzerland,
declaring himself in the wrong, sensible of his errors, and longing to cast himself at the feet of that serene
perfection,

‘Which wanted one sweet weakness—to forgive.’

But a little later he drew for his private partisans this bitter poetical indictment against her, which, as we have
said, was used discreetly during his life, and published after his death.

Before we proceed to lay that poem before the reader we will refresh his memory with some particulars of the
tragedy of Æschylus, which Lord Byron selected as the exact parallel and proper illustration of his
wife’s treatment of himself. In his letters and journals he often alludes to her as Clytemnestra, and the
allusion has run the round of a thousand American papers lately, and been read by a thousand good honest
people, who had no very clear idea who Clytemnestra was, and what she did which was like the proceedings
of Lady Byron. According to the tragedy, Clytemnestra secretly hates her husband Agamemnon, whom she
professes to love, and wishes to put him out of the way that she may marry her lover, Ægistheus. When her
husband returns from the Trojan war she receives him with pretended kindness, and officiously offers to serve
him at the bath. Inducing him to put on a garment, of which she had adroitly sewed up the sleeves and neck
so as to hamper the use of his arms, she gives the signal to a concealed band of assassins, who rush upon him
and stab him. Clytemnestra is represented by Æschylus as grimly triumphing in her success, which leaves her
free to marry an adulterous paramour.

‘I did it, too, in such a cunning wise,

That he could neither ’scape nor ward off doom.
I staked around his steps an endless net,
As for the fishes.’

In the piece entitled ‘Lines on hearing Lady Byron is ill,’ Lord Byron charges on his wife a
similar treachery and cruelty. The whole poem is in Murray’s English edition, Vol. IV. p. 207. Of it
we quote the following. The reader will bear in mind that it is addressed to Lady Byron on a
sick-bed:—

‘I am too well avenged, but ’t was my right;

Whate’er my sins might be, thou wert not sent

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To be the Nemesis that should requite,
Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument.
Mercy is for the merciful! If thou
Hast been of such, ’t will be accorded now.
Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep,
For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep;
Yes! they may flatter thee, but thou shalt feel
A hollow agony that will not heal.
Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap
The bitter harvest in a woe as real.
I have had many foes, but none like thee;
For ’gainst the rest myself I could defend,
And be avenged, or turn them into friend;
But thou, in safe implacability,
Hast naught to dread,—in thy own weakness shielded,
And in my love, which hath but too much yielded,
And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare.
And thus upon the world, trust in thy truth,
And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,—
On things that were not and on things that are,—
Even upon such a basis thou halt built
A monument whose cement hath been guilt!
The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord,
And hewed down with an unsuspected sword
Fame, peace, and hope, and all that better life
Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart,
Might yet have risen from the grave of strife
And found a nobler duty than to part.
But of thy virtues thou didst make a vice,
Trafficking in them with a purpose cold,
And buying others’ woes at any price,
For present anger and for future gold;
And thus, once entered into crooked ways,
The early truth, that was thy proper praise,
Did not still walk beside thee, but at times,
And with a breast unknowing its own crimes,
Deceits, averments incompatible,
Equivocations, and the thoughts that dwell
In Janus spirits, the significant eye
That learns to lie with silence, {14} the pretext
Of prudence with advantages annexed,
The acquiescence in all things that tend,
No matter how, to the desired end,—
All found a place in thy philosophy.
The means were worthy and the end is won.
I would not do to thee as thou hast done.’

Now, if this language means anything, it means, in plain terms, that, whereas, in her early days, Lady Byron
was peculiarly characterised by truthfulness, she has in her recent dealings with him acted the part of a
liar,—that she is not only a liar, but that she lies for cruel means and malignant purposes,—that
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and adulteress of ancient history, that she has learned to lie skilfully and artfully, that she equivocates, says
incompatible things, and crosses her own tracks,—that she is double-faced, and has the art to lie even
by silence, and that she has become wholly unscrupulous, and acquiesces in anything, no matter what, that
tends to the desired end, and that end the destruction of her husband. This is a brief summary of the story that
Byron made it his life’s business to spread through society, to propagate and make converts to during
his life, and which has been in substance reasserted by ‘Blackwood’ in a recent article this year.

Now, the reader will please to notice that this poem is dated in September 1816, and that on the 29th of March
of that same year, he had thought proper to tell quite another story. At that time the deed of separation was
not signed, and negotiations between Lady Byron, acting by legal counsel, and himself were still pending. At
that time, therefore, he was standing in a community who knew all he had said in former days of his
wife’s character, who were in an aroused and excited state by the fact that so lovely and good and
patient a woman had actually been forced for some unexplained cause to leave him. His policy at that time
was to make large general confessions of sin, and to praise and compliment her, with a view of enlisting
sympathy. Everybody feels for a handsome sinner, weeping on his knees, asking pardon for his offences
against his wife in the public newspapers.

The celebrated ‘Fare thee well,’ as we are told, was written on the 17th of March, and
accidentally found its way into the newspapers at this time ‘through the imprudence of a friend whom
he allowed to take a copy.’ These ‘imprudent friends’ have all along been such a
marvellous convenience to Lord Byron.

But the question met him on all sides, What is the matter? This wife you have declared the brightest,
sweetest, most amiable of beings, and against whose behaviour as a wife you actually never had nor can have
a complaint to make,—why is she now all of a sudden so inflexibly set against you?

This question required an answer, and he answered by writing another poem, which also accidentally found its
way into the public prints. It is in his ‘Domestic Pieces,’ which the reader may refer to at the
end of this volume, and is called ‘A Sketch.’

There was a most excellent, respectable, well-behaved Englishwoman, a Mrs. Clermont, {16} who had been
Lady Byron’s governess in her youth, and was still, in mature life, revered as her confidential friend.
It appears that this person had been with Lady Byron during a part of her married life, especially the bitter
hours of her lonely child-bed, when a young wife so much needs a sympathetic friend. This Mrs. Clermont
was the person selected by Lord Byron at this time to be the scapegoat to bear away the difficulties of the case
into the wilderness.

We are informed in Moore’s Life what a noble pride of rank Lord Byron possessed, and how when the
headmaster of a school, against whom he had a pique, invited him to dinner, he declined, saying, ‘To
tell you the truth, Doctor, if you should come to Newstead, I shouldn’t think of inviting you to dine
with me, and so I don’t care to dine with you here.’ Different countries, it appears, have
different standards as to good taste; Moore gives this as an amusing instance of a young lord’s spirit.

Accordingly, his first attack against this ‘lady,’ as we Americans should call her, consists in
gross statements concerning her having been born poor and in an inferior rank. He begins by stating that she
was

‘Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred,

Promoted thence to deck her mistress’ head;
Next—for some gracious service unexpressed
And from its wages only to be guessed—

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Raised from the toilet to the table, where
Her wondering betters wait behind her chair.
With eye unmoved and forehead unabashed,
She dines from off the plate she lately washed:
Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie,
The genial confidante and general spy,—
Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess,—
An only infant’s earliest governess!
What had she made the pupil of her art
None knows; but that high soul secured the heart,
And panted for the truth it could not hear
With longing soul and undeluded ear!’ {17}

The poet here recognises as a singular trait in Lady Byron her peculiar love of truth,—a trait which
must have struck everyone that had any knowledge of her through life. He goes on now to give what he
certainly knew to be the real character of Lady Byron:—

‘Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind,

Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,
Deceit infect not, nor contagion soil,
Indulgence weaken, or example spoil,
Nor mastered science tempt her to look down
On humbler talent with a pitying frown,
Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,
Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain.’

We are now informed that Mrs. Clermont, whom he afterwards says in his letters was a spy of Lady
Byron’s mother, set herself to make mischief between them. He says:—

‘If early habits,—those strong links that bind

At times the loftiest to the meanest mind,
Have given her power too deeply to instil
The angry essence of her deadly will;
If like a snake she steal within your walls,
Till the black slime betray her as she crawls;
If like a viper to the heart she wind,
And leaves the venom there she did not find,—
What marvel that this hag of hatred works
Eternal evil latent as she lurks.’

The noble lord then proceeds to abuse this woman of inferior rank in the language of the upper circles. He
thus describes her person and manner:—

‘Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal’s tints

With all the kind mendacity of hints,
While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles,
A thread of candour with a web of wiles;
A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming,
To hide her bloodless heart’s soul-harden’d scheming;
A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal,
And without feeling mock at all who feel;

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With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown,—
A cheek of parchment and an eye of stone.
Mark how the channels of her yellow blood
Ooze to her skin and stagnate there to mud,
Cased like the centipede in saffron mail,
Or darker greenness of the scorpion’s scale,—
(For drawn from reptiles only may we trace
Congenial colours in that soul or face,)
Look on her features! and behold her mind
As in a mirror of itself defined:
Look on the picture! deem it not o’ercharged
There is no trait which might not be enlarged.’

The poem thus ends:—

‘May the strong curse of crushed affections light

Back on thy bosom with reflected blight,
And make thee in thy leprosy of mind
As loathsome to thyself as to mankind!
Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate,
Black—as thy will for others would create;
Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust,
And thy soul welter in its hideous crust.
O, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed,
The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread
Then when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer,
Look on thy earthly victims—and despair!
Down to the dust! and as thou rott’st away,
Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay.
But for the love I bore and still must bear
To her thy malice from all ties would tear,
Thy name,—thy human name,—to every eye
The climax of all scorn, should hang on high,
Exalted o’er thy less abhorred compeers,
And festering in the infamy of years.’
March 16, 1816.

Now, on the 29th of March 1816, this was Lord Byron’s story. He states that his wife had a
truthfulness even from early girlhood that the most artful and unscrupulous governess could not
pollute,—that she always panted for truth,—that flattery could not fool nor baseness blind
her,—that though she was a genius and master of science, she was yet gentle and tolerant, and one
whom no envy could ruffle to retaliate pain.

In September of the same year she is a monster of unscrupulous deceit and vindictive cruelty. Now, what had
happened in the five months between the dates of these poems to produce such a change of opinion? Simply
this:—

1st. The negotiation between him and his wife’s lawyers had ended in his signing a deed of separation
in preference to standing a suit for divorce.

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2nd. Madame de Staël, moved by his tears of anguish and professions of repentance, had offered to negotiate
with Lady Byron on his behalf, and had failed.

The failure of this application is the only apology given by Moore and Murray for this poem, which gentle
Thomas Moore admits was not in quite as generous a strain as the ‘Fare thee well.’

But Lord Byron knew perfectly well, when he suffered that application to be made, that Lady Byron had been
entirely convinced that her marriage relations with him could never be renewed, and that duty both to man and
God required her to separate from him. The allowing the negotiation was, therefore, an artifice to place his
wife before the public in the attitude of a hard-hearted, inflexible woman; her refusal was what he knew
beforehand must inevitably be the result, and merely gave him capital in the sympathy of his friends, by which
they should be brought to tolerate and accept the bitter accusations of this poem.

We have recently heard it asserted that this last-named piece of poetry was the sudden offspring of a fit of
ill-temper, and was never intended to be published at all. There were certainly excellent reasons why his
friends should have advised him not to publish it at that time. But that it was read with sympathy by the circle
of his intimate friends, and believed by them, is evident from the frequency with which allusions to it occur in
his confidential letters to them. {21}

About three months after, under date March 10, 1817, he writes to Moore: ‘I suppose now I shall never
be able to shake off my sables in public imagination, more particularly since my moral ----- clove down my
fame.’ Again to Murray in 1819, three years after, he says: ‘I never hear anything of Ada, the
little Electra of Mycenae.’

Electra was the daughter of Clytemnestra, in the Greek poem, who lived to condemn her wicked mother, and
to call on her brother to avenge the father. There was in this mention of Electra more than meets the ear.
Many passages in Lord Byron’s poetry show that he intended to make this daughter a future partisan
against her mother, and explain the awful words he is stated in Lady Anne Barnard’s diary to have
used when first he looked on his little girl,—‘What an instrument of torture I have gained in
you!’

In a letter to Lord Blessington, April 6, 1823, he says, speaking of Dr. Parr:— {22a}

‘He did me the honour once to be a patron of mine, though a great friend of the other
branch of the house of Atreus, and the Greek teacher, I believe, of my moral Clytemnestra. I
say moral because it is true, and is so useful to the virtuous, that it enables them to do
anything without the aid of an Ægistheus.’

If Lord Byron wrote this poem merely in a momentary fit of spleen, why were there so many persons
evidently quite familiar with his allusions to it? and why was it preserved in Murray’s hands? and why
published after his death? That Byron was in the habit of reposing documents in the hands of Murray, to be
used as occasion offered, is evident from a part of a note written by him to Murray respecting some verses so
intrusted: ‘Pray let not these versiculi go forth with my name except to the initiated.’ {22b}

Murray, in publishing this attack on his wife after Lord Byron’s death, showed that he believed in it,
and, so believing, deemed Lady Byron a woman whose widowed state deserved neither sympathy nor
delicacy of treatment. At a time when every sentiment in the heart of the most deeply wronged woman would
forbid her appearing to justify herself from such cruel slander of a dead husband, an honest, kind-hearted,
worthy Englishman actually thought it right and proper to give these lines to her eyes and the eyes of all the
reading world. Nothing can show more plainly what this poem was written for, and how thoroughly it did its
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justice. His editor prefaced the whole set of ‘Domestic Pieces’ with the following
statements:—

‘They all refer to the unhappy separation, of which the precise causes are still a
mystery, and which he declared to the last were never disclosed to himself. He admitted that
pecuniary embarrassments, disordered health, and dislike to family restraints had aggravated
his naturally violent temper, and driven him to excesses. He suspected that his mother-in-law
had fomented the discord,—which Lady Byron denies,—and that more was due
to the malignant offices of a female dependant, who is the subject of the bitterly satirical
sketch.

* * * *

‘To these general statements can only be added the still vaguer allegations of Lady
Byron, that she conceived his conduct to be the result of insanity,—that, the physician
pronouncing him responsible for his actions, she could submit to them no longer, and that Dr.
Lushington, her legal adviser, agreed that a reconciliation was neither proper nor possible.
No weight can be attached to the opinions of an opposing counsel upon accusations made by
one party behind the back of the other, who urgently demanded and was pertinaciously
refused the least opportunity of denial or defence. He rejected the proposal for an amicable
separation, but consented when threatened with a suit in Doctors’ Commons.’
{23}

Neither John Murray nor any of Byron’s partisans seem to have pondered the admission in these last
words.

Here, as appears, was a woman, driven to the last despair, standing with her child in her arms, asking from
English laws protection for herself and child against her husband.

She had appealed to the first counsel in England, and was acting under their direction.

Two of the greatest lawyers in England have pronounced that there has been such a cause of offence on his
part that a return to him is neither proper nor possible, and that no alternative remains to her but separation or
divorce.

He asks her to state her charges against him. She, making answer under advice of her counsel, says,
‘That if he insists on the specifications, he must receive them in open court in a suit for
divorce.’

What, now, ought to have been the conduct of any brave, honest man, who believed that his wife was taking
advantage of her reputation for virtue to turn every one against him, who saw that she had turned on her side
even the lawyer he sought to retain on his; {24} that she was an unscrupulous woman, who acquiesced in
every and any thing to gain her ends, while he stood before the public, as he says, ‘accused of every
monstrous vice, by public rumour or private rancour’? When she, under advice of her lawyers, made
the alternative legal separation or open investigation in court for divorce, what did he do?

HE SIGNED THE ACT OF SEPARATION AND LEFT ENGLAND.

Now, let any man who knows the legal mind of England,—let any lawyer who knows the character of
Sir Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington, ask whether they were the men to take a case into court for a woman
that had no evidence but her own statements and impressions? Were they men to go to trial without proofs?

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Did they not know that there were artful, hysterical women in the world, and would they, of all people, be the
men to take a woman’s story on her own side, and advise her in the last issue to bring it into open
court, without legal proof of the strongest kind? Now, as long as Sir Samuel Romilly lived, this statement of
Byron’s—that he was condemned unheard, and had no chance of knowing whereof he was
accused—never appeared in public.

It, however, was most actively circulated in private. That Byron was in the habit of intrusting to different
confidants articles of various kinds to be shown to different circles as they could bear them, we have already
shown. We have recently come upon another instance of this kind. In the late eagerness to exculpate Byron,
a new document has turned up, of which Mr. Murray, it appears, had never heard when, after Byron’s
death, he published in the preface to his ‘Domestic Pieces’ the sentence: ‘He rejected
the proposal for an amicable separation, but consented when threatened with a suit in Doctors’
Commons.’ It appears that, up to 1853, neither John Murray senior, nor the son who now fills his
place, had taken any notice of this newly found document, which we are now informed was drawn up by Lord
Byron in August 1817, while Mr. Hobhouse was staying with him at La Mira, near Venice, given to Mr.
Matthew Gregory Lewis, for circulation among friends in England, found in Mr. Lewis’s papers after
his death, and now in the possession of Mr. Murray.’ Here it is:—

‘It has been intimated to me that the persons understood to be the legal advisers of
Lady Byron have declared “their lips to be sealed up” on the cause of the
separation between her and myself. If their lips are sealed up, they are not sealed up by me,
and the greatest favour they can confer upon me will be to open them. From the first hour in
which I was apprised of the intentions of the Noel family to the last communication between
Lady Byron and myself in the character of wife and husband (a period of some months), I
called repeatedly and in vain for a statement of their or her charges, and it was chiefly in
consequence of Lady Byron’s claiming (in a letter still existing) a promise on my part
to consent to a separation, if such was really her wish, that I consented at all; this claim, and
the exasperating and inexpiable manner in which their object was pursued, which rendered it
next to an impossibility that two persons so divided could ever be reunited, induced me
reluctantly then, and repentantly still, to sign the deed, which I shall be happy—most
happy—to cancel, and go before any tribunal which may discuss the business in the
most public manner.

‘Mr. Hobhouse made this proposition on my part, viz. to abrogate all prior
intentions—and go into court—the very day before the separation was signed,
and it was declined by the other party, as also the publication of the correspondence during
the previous discussion. Those propositions I beg here to repeat, and to call upon her and
hers to say their worst, pledging myself to meet their allegations,—whatever they may
be,—and only too happy to be informed at last of their real nature.

‘BYRON.’

‘August 9, 1817.

‘P.S.—I have been, and am now, utterly ignorant of what description her
allegations, charges, or whatever name they may have assumed, are; and am as little aware for
what purpose they have been kept back,—unless it was to sanction the most infamous
calumnies by silence.

‘BYRON.’

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‘La Mira, near Venice.’

It appears the circulation of this document must have been very private, since Moore, not over-delicate
towards Lady Byron, did not think fit to print it; since John Murray neglected it, and since it has come out at
this late hour for the first time.

If Lord Byron really desired Lady Byron and her legal counsel to understand the facts herein stated, and was
willing at all hazards to bring on an open examination, why was this privately circulated? Why not issued as a
card in the London papers? Is it likely that Mr. Matthew Gregory Lewis, and a chosen band of friends acting
as a committee, requested an audience with Lady Byron, Sir Samuel Romilly, and Dr. Lushington, and
formally presented this cartel of defiance?

We incline to think not. We incline to think that this small serpent, in company with many others of like kind,
crawled secretly and privately around, and when it found a good chance, bit an honest Briton, whose blood
was thenceforth poisoned by an undetected falsehood.

The reader now may turn to the letters that Mr. Moore has thought fit to give us of this stay at La Mira,
beginning with Letter 286, dated July 1, 1817, {28a} where he says: ‘I have been working up my
impressions into a Fourth Canto of Childe Harold,’ and also ‘Mr. Lewis is in Venice. I am
going up to stay a week with him there.’

Next, under date La Mira, Venice, July 10, {28b} he says, ‘Monk Lewis is here; how pleasant!’

Next, under date July 20, 1817, to Mr. Murray: ‘I write to give you notice that I have completed the
fourth and ultimate canto of Childe Harold. . . . It is yet to be copied and polished, and the notes are to
come.’

Under date of La Mira, August 7, 1817, he records that the new canto is one hundred and thirty stanzas in
length, and talks about the price for it. He is now ready to launch it on the world; and, as now appears, on
August 9, 1817, two days after, he wrote the document above cited, and put it into the hands of Mr. Lewis, as
we are informed, ‘for circulation among friends in England.’

The reason of this may now be evident. Having prepared a suitable number of those whom he calls in his
notes to Murray ‘the initiated,’ by private documents and statements, he is now prepared to
publish his accusations against his wife, and the story of his wrongs, in a great immortal poem, which shall
have a band of initiated interpreters, shall be read through the civilised world, and stand to accuse her after his
death.

In the Fourth Canto of ‘Childe Harold,’ with all his own overwhelming power of language, he
sets forth his cause as against the silent woman who all this time had been making no party, and telling no
story, and whom the world would therefore conclude to be silent because she had no answer to make. I
remember well the time when this poetry, so resounding in its music, so mournful, so apparently generous,
filled my heart with a vague anguish of sorrow for the sufferer, and of indignation at the cold insensibility that
had maddened him. Thousands have felt the power of this great poem, which stands, and must stand to all
time, a monument of what sacred and solemn powers God gave to this wicked man, and how vilely he abused
this power as a weapon to slay the innocent.

It is among the ruins of ancient Rome that his voice breaks forth in solemn imprecation:—

‘O Time, thou beautifier of the dead,

Adorner of the ruin, comforter,

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And only healer when the heart hath bled!—

Time, the corrector when our judgments err,
The test of truth, love,—sole philosopher,
For all besides are sophists,—from thy shrift
That never loses, though it doth defer!—
Time, the avenger! unto thee I lift
My hands and heart and eyes, and claim of thee a gift.

* * * *

‘If thou hast ever seen me too elate,

Hear me not; but if calmly I have borne
Good, and reserved my pride against the hate
Which shall not whelm me, let me not have worn
This iron in my soul in vain, shall THEY not mourn?
And thou who never yet of human wrong
Left the unbalanced scale, great Nemesis,
Here where the ancients paid their worship long,
Thou who didst call the Furies from the abyss,
And round Orestes bid them howl and hiss
For that unnatural retribution,—just
Had it but come from hands less near,—in this
Thy former realm I call thee from the dust.
Dost thou not hear, my heart? awake thou shalt and must!
It is not that I may not have incurred
For my ancestral faults and mine, the wound
Wherewith I bleed withal, and had it been conferred
With a just weapon it had flowed unbound,
But now my blood shall not sink in the ground.

* * * *

‘But in this page a record will I seek;

Not in the air shall these my words disperse,
Though I be ashes,—a far hour shall wreak
The deep prophetic fulness of this verse,
And pile on human heads the mountain of my curse.
That curse shall be forgiveness. Have I not,—
Hear me, my Mother Earth! behold it, Heaven,—
Have I not had to wrestle with my lot?
Have I not suffered things to be forgiven?
Have I not had my brain seared, my heart riven,
Hopes sapped, name blighted, life’s life lied away,
And only not to desperation driven,
Because not altogether of such clay
As rots into the soul of those whom I survey?

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‘From mighty wrongs to petty perfidy,

Have I not seen what human things could do,—

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From the loud roar of foaming calumny,
To the small whispers of the paltry few,
And subtler venom of the reptile crew,
The Janus glance of whose significant eye,
Learning to lie with silence, would seem true,
And without utterance, save the shrug or sigh,
Deal round to happy fools its speechless obloquy?’ {31}

The reader will please notice that the lines in italics are almost, word for word, a repetition of the lines in
italics in the former poem on his wife, where he speaks of a significant eye that has learned to lie in silence,
and were evidently meant to apply to Lady Byron and her small circle of confidential friends.

Before this, in the Third Canto of ‘Childe Harold,’ he had claimed the sympathy of the world,
as a loving father, deprived by a severe fate of the solace and society of his only child:—

‘My daughter,—with this name my song began,—

My daughter,—with this name my song shall end,—
I see thee not and hear thee not, but none
Can be so wrapped in thee; thou art the friend
To whom the shadows of far years extend.

* * * *

‘To aid thy mind’s developments, to watch

The dawn of little joys, to sit and see
Almost thy very growth, to view thee catch
Knowledge of objects,—wonders yet to thee,—
And print on thy soft cheek a parent’s kiss;—
This it should seem was not reserved for me.
Yet this was in my nature,—as it is,
I know not what there is, yet something like to this.

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‘Yet though dull hate as duty should be taught,

I know that thou wilt love me; though my name
Should be shut out from thee as spell still fraught
With desolation and a broken claim,
Though the grave close between us,—’t were the same
I know that thou wilt love me, though to drain
My blood from out thy being were an aim
And an attainment,—all will be in vain.’

To all these charges against her, sent all over the world in verses as eloquent as the English language is
capable of, the wife replied nothing.

‘Assailed by slander and the tongue of strife,

Her only answer was,—a blameless life.’

She had a few friends, a very few, with whom she sought solace and sympathy. One letter from her, written at
this time, preserved by accident, is the only authentic record of how the matter stood with her.

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We regret to say that the publication of this document was not brought forth to clear Lady Byron’s
name from her husband’s slanders, but to shield him from the worst accusation against him, by
showing that this crime was not included in the few private confidential revelations that friendship wrung
from the young wife at this period.

Lady Anne Barnard, authoress of ‘Auld Robin Grey,’ a friend whose age and experience made
her a proper confidante, sent for the broken-hearted, perplexed wife, and offered her a woman’s
sympathy.

To her Lady Byron wrote many letters, under seal of confidence, and Lady Anne says: ‘I will give you
a few paragraphs transcribed from one of Lady Byron’s own letters to me. It is sorrowful to think that
in a very little time this young and amiable creature, wise, patient, and feeling, will have her character
mistaken by every one who reads Byron’s works. To rescue her from this I preserved her letters, and
when she afterwards expressed a fear that anything of her writing should ever fall into hands to injure him (I
suppose she meant by publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But here this letter shall be
placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to herself.

‘I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last Canto of
“Childe Harold” may produce on the minds of indifferent readers.

‘It contains the usual trace of a conscience restlessly awake, though his object has
been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could thus be oppressed into eternal stupor. I
will hope, as you do, that it survives for his ultimate good.

‘It was the acuteness of his remorse, impenitent in its character, which so long seemed
to demand from my compassion to spare every semblance of reproach, every look of grief,
which might have said to his conscience, “You have made me wretched.”

‘I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has wished to be thought

partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to perplex observers and prevent them from tracing
effects to their real causes through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as I told you, at
one time the dupe of his acted insanity, and clung to the former delusions in regard to the
motives that concerned me personally, till the whole system was laid bare.

‘He is the absolute monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did lives, for
conquest, without more regard to their intrinsic value, considering them only as ciphers,
which must derive all their import from the situation in which he places them, and the ends to
which he adapts them, with such consummate skill.

‘Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to give a better colour to his own
character? Because he is too good an actor to over-act, or to assume a moral garb, which it
would be easy to strip off.

‘In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle of his imagination, which it is
difficult for him to kindle on any subject with which his own character and interests are not
identified; but by the introduction of fictitious incidents, by change of scene or time, he has
enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system impenetrable except to a very few; and his
constant desire of creating a sensation makes him not averse to be the object of wonder and
curiosity, even though accompanied by some dark and vague suspicions.

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‘Nothing has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real character than the
lonely grandeur in which he shrouds it, and his affectation of being above mankind, when he
exists almost in their voice. The romance of his sentiments is another feature of this mask of
state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that enthusiasm he so beautifully expresses,
and to which he can work up his fancy chiefly by contagion.

‘I had heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of friends, and I thought
such feelings only required to be warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence.
Though these opinions are eradicated, and could never return but with the decay of my
memory, you will not wonder if there are still moments when the association of feelings
which arose from them soften and sadden my thoughts.

‘But I have not thanked you, dearest Lady Anne, for your kindness in regard to a
principal object,—that of rectifying false impressions. I trust you understand my
wishes, which never were to injure Lord Byron in any way; for, though he would not suffer
me to remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was from
considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my own conduct might
have been more fully justified.

‘It is not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general; it is sufficient that to me it was
hard and impenetrable that my own must have been broken before his could have been
touched. I would rather represent this as my misfortune than as his guilt; but, surely, that
misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such are my feelings; you will judge how to act.

‘His allusions to me in “Childe Harold” are cruel and cold, but with
such a semblance as to make me appear so, and to attract all sympathy to himself. It is said in
this poem that hatred of him will be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all who
have ever heard me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, to witness that there has
been no moment when I have remembered injury otherwise than affectionately and
sorrowfully.

‘It is not my duty to give way to hopeless and wholly unrequited affection; but, so
long as I live, my chief struggle will probably be not to remember him too kindly. I do not
seek the sympathy of the world, but I wish to be known by those whose opinion is valuable
and whose kindness is dear to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will ever be
remembered by your truly affectionate

‘A. BYRON.’

On this letter I observe Lord Lindsay remarks that it shows a noble but rather severe character, and a recent
author has remarked that it seemed to be written rather in a ‘cold spirit of criticism.’ It seems
to strike these gentlemen as singular that Lady Byron did not enjoy the poem! But there are two remarkable
sentences in this letter which have escaped the critics hitherto. Lord Byron, in this, the Third Canto of
‘Childe Harold,’ expresses in most affecting words an enthusiasm of love for his sister. So
long as he lived he was her faithful correspondent; he sent her his journals; and, dying, he left her and her
children everything he had in the world. This certainly seems like an affectionate brother; but in what words
does Lady Byron speak of this affection?

‘I had heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of friends. I thought these feelings only
required to be warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence. THESE OPINIONS ARE
ERADICATED, AND COULD NEVER RETURN BUT WITH THE DECAY OF MEMORY.’ Let

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me ask those who give this letter as a proof that at this time no idea such as I have stated was in Lady
Byron’s mind, to account for these words. Let them please answer these questions: Why had Lady
Byron ceased to think him a good brother? Why does she use so strong a word as that the opinion was
eradicated, torn up by the roots, and could never grow again in her except by decay of memory?

And yet this is a document Lord Lindsay vouches for as authentic, and which he brings forward in defence of
Lord Byron.

Again she says, ‘Though he would not suffer me to remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from
continuing his friend.’ Do these words not say that in some past time, in some decided manner, Lord
Byron had declared to her his rejection of her as a wife? I shall yet have occasion to explain these words.

Again she says, ‘I silenced accusations by which my conduct might have been more fully
justified.’

The people in England who are so very busy in searching out evidence against my true story have searched
out and given to the world an important confirmation of this assertion of Lady Byron’s.

It seems that the confidential waiting-maid who went with Lady Byron on her wedding journey has been
sought out and interrogated, and, as appears by description, is a venerable, respectable old person, quite in
possession of all her senses in general, and of that sixth sense of propriety in particular, which appears not to
be a common virtue in our days.

As her testimony is important, we insert it just here, with a description of her person in full. The ardent
investigators thus speak:—

‘Having gained admission, we were shown into a small but neatly furnished and
scrupulously clean apartment, where sat the object of our visit. Mrs. Mimms is a
venerable-looking old lady, of short stature, slight and active appearance, with a singularly
bright and intelligent countenance. Although midway between eighty and ninety years of
age, she is in full possession of her faculties, discourses freely and cheerfully, hears
apparently as well as ever she did, and her sight is so good that, aided by a pair of spectacles,
she reads the Chronicle every day with ease. Some idea of her competency to contribute
valuable evidence to the subject which now so much engages public attention on three
continents may be found from her own narrative of her personal relations with Lady Byron.
Mrs. Mimms was born in the neighbourhood of Seaham, and knew Lady Byron from
childhood. During the long period of ten years she was Miss Milbanke’s
lady’s-maid, and in that capacity became the close confidante of her mistress. There
were circumstances which rendered their relationship peculiarly intimate. Miss Milbanke had
no sister or female friend to whom she was bound by the ties of more than a common
affection; and her mother, whatever other excellent qualities she may have possessed, was too
high-spirited and too hasty in temper to attract the sympathies of the young. Some months
before Miss Milbanke was married to Lord Byron, Mrs. Mimms had quitted her service on
the occasion of her own marriage with Mr. Mimms; but she continued to reside in the
neighbourhood of Seaham, and remained on the most friendly terms with her former
mistress. As the courtship proceeded, Miss Milbanke concealed nothing from her faithful
attendant; and when the wedding-day was fixed, she begged Mrs. Mimms to return and fulfil
the duties of lady’s-maid, at least during the honeymoon. Mrs. Mimms at the time
was nursing her first child, and it was no small sacrifice to quit her own home at such a
moment, but she could not refuse her old mistress’s request. Accordingly, she
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then preceded Lord and Lady Byron to Halnaby Hall, near Croft, in the North Riding of
Yorkshire, one of Sir Ralph Milbanke’s seats, where the newly married couple were to
spend the honeymoon. Mrs. Mimms remained with Lord and Lady Byron during the three
weeks they spent at Halnaby Hall, and then accompanied them to Seaham, where they spent
the next six weeks. It was during the latter period that she finally quitted Lady
Byron’s service; but she remained in the most friendly communication with her
ladyship till the death of the latter, and for some time was living in the neighbourhood of
Lady Byron’s residence in Leicestershire, where she had frequent opportunities of
seeing her former mistress. It may be added that Lady Byron was not unmindful of the
faithful services of her friend and attendant in the instructions to her executors contained in
her will. Such was the position of Mrs. Mimms towards Lady Byron; and we think no one
will question that it was of a nature to entitle all that Mrs. Mimms may say on the subject of
the relations of Lord and Lady Byron to the most respectful consideration and credit.’

Such is the chronicler’s account of the faithful creature whom nothing but intense indignation and
disgust at Mrs. Beecher Stowe would lead to speak on her mistress’s affairs; but Mrs. Beecher Stowe
feels none the less sincere respect for her, and is none the less obliged to her for having spoken. Much of Mrs.
Mimms’s testimony will be referred to in another place; we only extract one passage, to show that
while Lord Byron spent his time in setting afloat slanders against his wife, she spent hers in sealing the
mouths of witnesses against him.

Of the period of the honeymoon Mrs. Mimms says:—

‘The happiness of Lady Byron, however, was of brief duration; even during the short
three weeks they spent at Halnaby, the irregularities of Lord Byron occasioned her the
greatest distress, and she even contemplated returning to her father. Mrs. Mimms was her
constant companion and confidante through this painful period, and she does not believe that
her ladyship concealed a thought from her. With laudable reticence, the old lady absolutely
refuses to disclose the particulars of Lord Byron’s misconduct at this time; she gave
Lady Byron a solemn promise not to do so.

* * * *

‘So serious did Mrs. Mimms consider the conduct of Lord Byron, that she
recommended her mistress to confide all the circumstances to her father, Sir Ralph Milbanke,
a calm, kind, and most excellent parent, and take his advice as to her future course. At one
time Mrs. Mimms thinks Lady Byron had resolved to follow her counsel and impart her
wrongs to Sir Ralph; but on arriving at Seaham Hall her ladyship strictly enjoined Mrs.
Mimms to preserve absolute silence on the subject—a course which she followed
herself;—so that when, six weeks later, she and Lord Byron left Seaham for London,
not a word had escaped her to disturb her parents’ tranquillity as to their
daughter’s domestic happiness. As might be expected, Mrs. Mimms bears the
warmest testimony to the noble and lovable qualities of her departed mistress. She also
declares that Lady Byron was by no means of a cold temperament, but that the affectionate
impulses of her nature were checked by the unkind treatment she experienced from her
husband.’

We have already shown that Lord Byron had been, ever since his separation, engaged in a systematic attempt
to reverse the judgment of the world against himself, by making converts of all his friends to a most odious
view of his wife’s character, and inspiring them with the zeal of propagandists to spread these views
through society. We have seen how he prepared partisans to interpret the Fourth Canto of ‘Childe

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Harold.’

This plan of solemn and heroic accusation was the first public attack on his wife. Next we see him
commencing a scurrilous attempt to turn her to ridicule in the First Canto of ‘Don Juan.’

It is to our point now to show how carefully and cautiously this Don Juan campaign was planned.

Vol. IV. p.138, we find Letter 325 to Mr. Murray:—

‘Venice: January 25, 1819.

‘You will do me the favour to print privately, for private distribution, fifty copies of
“Don Juan.” The list of the men to whom I wish it presented I will send
hereafter.’

The poem, as will be remembered, begins with the meanest and foulest attack on his wife that ever ribald
wrote, and puts it in close neighbourhood with scenes which every pure man or woman must feel to be the
beastly utterances of a man who had lost all sense of decency. Such a potion was too strong to be
administered even in a time when great license was allowed, and men were not over-nice. But Byron chooses
fifty armour-bearers of that class of men who would find indecent ribaldry about a wife a good joke, and talk
about the ‘artistic merits’ of things which we hope would make an honest boy blush.

At this time he acknowledges that his vices had brought him to a state of great exhaustion, attended by such
debility of the stomach that nothing remained on it; and adds, ‘I was obliged to reform my way of life,
which was conducting me from the yellow leaf to the ground with all deliberate speed.’ {41} But as
his health is a little better he employs it in making the way to death and hell elegantly easy for other young
men, by breaking down the remaining scruples of a society not over-scrupulous.

Society revolted, however, and fought stoutly against the nauseous dose. His sister wrote to him that she
heard such things said of it that she never would read it; and the outcry against it on the part of all women of
his acquaintance was such that for a time he was quite overborne; and the Countess Guiccioli finally extorted
a promise from him to cease writing it. Nevertheless, there came a time when England accepted ‘Don
Juan,’—when Wilson, in the ‘Noctes Ambrosianae,’ praised it as a classic, and
took every opportunity to reprobate Lady Byron’s conduct. When first it appeared the
‘Blackwood’ came out with that indignant denunciation of which we have spoken, and to which
Byron replied in the extracts we have already quoted. He did something more than reply. He marked out
Wilson as one of the strongest literary men of the day, and set his ‘initiated’ with their
documents to work upon him.

One of these documents to which he requested Wilson’s attention was the private autobiography,
written expressly to give his own story of all the facts of the marriage and separation.

In the indignant letter he writes Murray on the ‘Blackwood’ article, Vol. IV., Letter
350—under date December 10, 1819—he says:—

‘I sent home for Moore, and for Moore only (who has my journal also), my memoir
written up to 1816, and I gave him leave to show it to whom he pleased, but not to publish on
any account. You may read it, and you may let Wilson read it if he likes—not for his
public opinion, but his private, for I like the man, and care very little about the magazine.
And I could wish Lady Byron herself to read it, that she may have it in her power to mark any
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fair she should see it; that is to say, herself willing. Your “Blackwood” accuses
me of treating women harshly; but I have been their martyr; my whole life has been sacrificed
to them and by them.’

It was a part of Byron’s policy to place Lady Byron in positions before the world where she could not
speak, and where her silence would be set down to her as haughty, stony indifference and obstinacy. Such
was the pretended negotiation through Madame de Staël, and such now this apparently fair and generous offer
to let Lady Byron see and mark this manuscript.

The little Ada is now in her fifth year—a child of singular sensibility and remarkable mental
powers—one of those exceptional children who are so perilous a charge for a mother.

Her husband proposes this artful snare to her,—that she shall mark what is false in a statement which is
all built on a damning lie, that she cannot refute over that daughter’s head,—and which would
perhaps be her ruin to discuss.

Hence came an addition of two more documents, to be used ‘privately among friends,’ {43}
and which ‘Blackwood’ uses after Lady Byron is safely out of the world to cast ignominy on
her grave—the wife’s letter, that of a mother standing at bay for her daughter, knowing that she
is dealing with a desperate, powerful, unscrupulous enemy.

‘Kirkby Mallory: March 10, 1820.

‘I received your letter of January 1, offering to my perusal a Memoir of part of your
life. I decline to inspect it. I consider the publication or circulation of such a composition at
any time as prejudicial to Ada’s future happiness. For my own sake, I have no reason
to shrink from publication; but, notwithstanding the injuries which I have suffered, I should
lament some of the consequences.

‘A. Byron.

‘To Lord Byron.’

Lord Byron, writing for the public, as is his custom, makes reply:—

‘Ravenna: April 3, 1820.

‘I received yesterday your answer, dated March 10. My offer was an honest one, and
surely could only be construed as such even by the most malignant casuistry. I could answer
you, but it is too late, and it is not worth while. To the mysterious menace of the last
sentence, whatever its import may be—and I cannot pretend to unriddle it—I
could hardly be very sensible even if I understood it, as, before it can take place, I shall be
where “nothing can touch him further.” . . . I advise you, however, to
anticipate the period of your intention, for, be assured, no power of figures can avail beyond
the present; and if it could, I would answer with the Florentine:—

‘“Ed io, che posto son con loro in croce

. . . . . e certo
La fiera moglie, più ch’altro, mi nuoce.” {44}

‘BYRON.

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‘To Lady Byron.’

Two things are very evident in this correspondence: Lady Byron intimates that, if he publishes his story, some
consequences must follow which she shall regret.

Lord Byron receives this as a threat, and says he doesn’t understand it. But directly after he says,
‘Before IT can take place, I shall be,’ etc.

The intimation is quite clear. He does understand what the consequences alluded to are. They are evidently
that Lady Byron will speak out and tell her story. He says she cannot do this till after he is dead, and then he
shall not care. In allusion to her accuracy as to dates and figures, he says: ‘Be assured no power of
figures can avail beyond the present’ (life); and then ironically advises her to anticipate the
period,—i.e. to speak out while he is alive.

In Vol. VI. Letter 518, which Lord Byron wrote to Lady Byron, but did not send, he says: ‘I burned
your last note for two reasons,—firstly, because it was written in a style not very agreeable; and,
secondly, because I wished to take your word without documents, which are the resources of worldly and
suspicious people.’

It would appear from this that there was a last letter of Lady Byron to her husband, which he did not think
proper to keep on hand, or show to the ‘initiated’ with his usual unreserve; that this letter
contained some kind of pledge for which he preferred to take her word, without documents.

Each reader can imagine for himself what that pledge might have been; but from the tenor of the three letters
we should infer that it was a promise of silence for his lifetime, on certain conditions, and that the publication
of the autobiography would violate those conditions, and make it her duty to speak out.

This celebrated autobiography forms so conspicuous a figure in the whole history, that the reader must have a
full idea of it, as given by Byron himself, in Vol. IV. Letter 344, to Murray:—

‘I gave to Moore, who is gone to Rome, my life in MS.,—in seventy-eight folio
sheets, brought down to 1816 . . . also a journal kept in 1814. Neither are for publication
during my life, but when I am cold you may do what you please. In the mean time, if you like
to read them you may, and show them to anybody you like. I care not. . . . ’

He tells him also:—

‘You will find in it a detailed account of my marriage and its consequences, as true as
a party concerned can make such an account.’

Of the extent to which this autobiography was circulated we have the following testimony of Shelton
Mackenzie, in notes to ‘The Noctes’ of June 1824.

In ‘The Noctes’ Odoherty says:—

‘The fact is, the work had been copied for the private reading of a great lady in
Florence.’

The note says:—

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‘The great lady in Florence, for whose private reading Byron’s autobiography
was copied, was the Countess of Westmoreland. . . . Lady Blessington had the autobiography
in her possession for weeks, and confessed to having copied every line of it. Moore
remonstrated, and she committed her copy to the flames, but did not tell him that her sister,
Mrs. Home Purvis, now Viscountess of Canterbury, had also made a copy! . . . From the
quantity of copy I have seen,—and others were more in the way of falling in with it
than myself,—I surmise that at least half a dozen copies were made, and of these five
are now in existence. Some particular parts, such as the marriage and separation, were copied
separately; but I think there cannot be less than five full copies yet to be found.’

This was written after the original autobiography was burned.

We may see the zeal and enthusiasm of the Byron party,—copying seventy-eight folio sheets, as of old
Christians copied the Gospels. How widely, fully, and thoroughly, thus, by this secret process, was society
saturated with Byron’s own versions of the story that related to himself and wife! Against her there
was only the complaint of an absolute silence. She put forth no statements, no documents; had no party,
sealed the lips of her counsel, and even of her servants; yet she could not but have known, from time to time,
how thoroughly and strongly this web of mingled truth and lies was being meshed around her steps.

From the time that Byron first saw the importance of securing Wilson on his side, and wrote to have his
partisans attend to him, we may date an entire revolution in the ‘Blackwood.’ It became
Byron’s warmest supporter,—is to this day the bitterest accuser of his wife.

Why was this wonderful silence? It appears by Dr. Lushington’s statements, that, when Lady Byron
did speak, she had a story to tell that powerfully affected both him and Romilly,—a story supported by
evidence on which they were willing to have gone to public trial. Supposing, now, she had imitated Lord
Byron’s example, and, avoiding public trial, had put her story into private circulation; as he sent
‘Don Juan’ to fifty confidential friends, suppose she had sent a written statement of her story to
fifty judges as intelligent as the two that had heard it; or suppose she had confronted his autobiography with
her own,—what would have been the result?

The first result might have been Mrs. Leigh’s utter ruin. The world may finally forgive the man of
genius anything; but for a woman there is no mercy and no redemption.

This ruin Lady Byron prevented by her utter silence and great self-command. Mrs. Leigh never lost position.
Lady Byron never so varied in her manner towards her as to excite the suspicions even of her confidential old
servant.

To protect Mrs. Leigh effectually, it must have been necessary to continue to exclude even her own mother
from the secret, as we are assured she did at first; for, had she told Lady Milbanke, it is not possible that so
high-spirited a woman could have restrained herself from such outward expressions as would at least have
awakened suspicion. There was no resource but this absolute silence.

Lady Blessington, in her last conversation with Lord Byron, thus describes the life Lady Byron was leading.
She speaks of her as ‘wearing away her youth in almost monastic seclusion, questioned by some,
appreciated by few, seeking consolation alone in the discharge of her duties, and avoiding all external
demonstrations of a grief that her pale cheek and solitary existence alone were vouchers for.’ {49}

The main object of all this silence may be imagined, if we remember that if Lord Byron had not
died,—had he truly and deeply repented, and become a thoroughly good man, and returned to England
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his way.

HIS PLACE WAS KEPT IN SOCIETY, ready for him to return to whenever he came clothed and in his right
mind. He might have had the heart and confidence of his daughter unshadowed by a suspicion. He might
have won the reverence of the great and good in his own lands and all lands. That hope, which was the strong
support, the prayer of the silent wife, it did not please God to fulfil.

Lord Byron died a worn-out man at thirty-six. But the bitter seeds he had sown came up, after his death, in a
harvest of thorns over his grave; and there were not wanting hands to use them as instruments of torture on the
heart of his widow.

CHAPTER III. RÉSUMÉ OF THE CONSPIRACY.

We have traced the conspiracy of Lord Byron against his wife up to its latest device. That the reader’s
mind may be clear on the points of the process, we shall now briefly recapitulate the documents in the order of
time.

I. March 17, 1816.—While negotiations for separation were pending,—‘Fare thee well,
and if for ever.’

While writing these pages, we have received from England the testimony of one who has seen the original
draught of that ‘Fare thee well.’ This original copy had evidently been subjected to the most
careful and acute revision. Scarcely two lines that were not interlined, scarcely an adjective that was not
exchanged for a better; showing that the noble lord was not so far overcome by grief as to have forgotten his
reputation. (Found its way to the public prints through the imprudence of a friend.)

II. March 29, 1816.—An attack on Lady Byron’s old governess for having been born poor, for
being homely, and for having unduly influenced his wife against him; promising that her grave should be a
fiery bed, etc.; also praising his wife’s perfect and remarkable truthfulness and discernment, that made
it impossible for flattery to fool, or baseness blind her; but ascribing all his woes to her being fooled and
blinded by this same governess. (Found its way to the prints by the imprudence of a friend.)

III. September 1816.—Lines on hearing that Lady Byron is ill. Calls her a Clytemnestra, who has
secretly set assassins on her lord; says she is a mean, treacherous, deceitful liar, and has entirely departed from
her early truth, and become the most unscrupulous and unprincipled of women. (Never printed till after Lord
Byron’s death, but circulated privately among the ‘initiated.’)

IV. Aug. 9, 1817.—Gives to M. G. Lewis a paper for circulation among friends in England, stating that
what he most wants is public investigation, which has always been denied him; and daring Lady Byron and
her counsel to come out publicly. (Found in M. G. Lewis’s portfolio after his death; never heard of
before, except among the ‘initiated.’)

Having given M. G. Lewis’s document time to work,—

January 1818.—Gives the Fourth Canto of ‘Childe Harold’ {51} to the public.

Jan. 25, 1819.—Sends to Murray to print for private circulation among the ‘initiated’ the
First Canto of ‘Don Juan.’

Is nobly and severely rebuked for this insult to his wife by the ‘Blackwood,’ August 1819.

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October 1819.—Gives Moore the manuscript ‘Autobiography,’ with leave to show it to

whom he pleases, and print it after his death.

Oct. 29, 1819, Vol. IV. Letter 344.—Writes to Murray, that he may read all this
‘Autobiography,’ and show it to anybody he likes.

Dec. 10, 1819.—Writes to Murray on this article in ‘Blackwood’ against ‘Don

Juan’ and himself, which he supposes written by Wilson; sends a complimentary message to Wilson,
and asks him to read his ‘Autobiography’ sent by Moore. (Letter 350.)

March 15, 1820.—Writes and dedicates to I. Disraeli, Esq., a vindication of himself in reply to the
‘Blackwood’ on ‘Don Juan,’ containing an indignant defence of his own conduct
in relation to his wife, and maintaining that he never yet has had an opportunity of knowing whereof he has
been accused; accusing Sir S. Romilly of taking his retainer, and then going over to the adverse party, etc.
(Printed for private circulation; to be found in the standard English edition of Murray, vol. ix. p.57.)

To this condensed account of Byron’s strategy we must add the crowning stroke of policy which
transmitted this warfare to his friends, to be continued after his death.

During the last visit Moore made him in Italy, and just before Byron presented to him his
‘Autobiography,’ the following scene occurred, as narrated by Moore (vol. iv. p.221):—

‘The chief subject of conversation, when alone, was his marriage, and the load of
obloquy which it had brought upon him. He was most anxious to know the worst that had
been alleged of his conduct; and, as this was our first opportunity of speaking together on the
subject, I did not hesitate to put his candour most searchingly to the proof, not only by
enumerating the various charges I had heard brought against him by others, but by specifying
such portions of these charges as I had been inclined to think not incredible myself.

‘To all this he listened with patience, and answered with the most unhesitating
frankness; laughing to scorn the tales of unmanly outrage related of him, but at the same time
acknowledging that there had been in his conduct but too much to blame and regret, and
stating one or two occasions during his domestic life when he had been irritated into letting
the “breath of bitter words” escape him,. . . which he now evidently
remembered with a degree of remorse and pain which might well have entitled them to be
forgotten by others.

‘It was, at the same time, manifest, that, whatever admissions he might be inclined to
make respecting his own delinquencies, the inordinate measure of the punishment dealt out to
him had sunk deeply into his mind, and, with the usual effect of such injustice, drove him also
to be unjust himself; so much so, indeed, as to impute to the quarter to which he now traced
all his ill fate a feeling of fixed hostility to himself, which would not rest, he thought, even at
his grave, but continue to persecute his memory as it was now embittering his life. So strong
was this impression upon him, that, during one of our few intervals of seriousness, he
conjured me by our friendship, if, as he both felt and hoped, I should survive him, not to let
unmerited censure settle upon his name.’

In this same account, page 218, Moore testifies that

‘Lord Byron disliked his countrymen, but only because he knew that his morals were
held in contempt by them. The English, themselves rigid observers of family duties, could

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not pardon him the neglect of his, nor his trampling on principles; therefore, neither did he
like being presented to them, nor did they, especially when they had wives with them, like to
cultivate his acquaintance. Still there was a strong desire in all of them to see him; and the
women in particular, who did not dare to look at him but by stealth, said in an under-voice,
“What a pity it is!” If, however, any of his compatriots of exalted rank and
high reputation came forward to treat him with courtesy, he showed himself obviously
flattered by it. It seemed that, to the wound which remained open in his ulcerated heart, such
soothing attentions were as drops of healing balm, which comforted him.’

When in society, we are further informed by a lady quoted by Mr. Moore, he was in the habit of speaking of
his wife with much respect and affection, as an illustrious lady, distinguished for her qualities of heart and
understanding; saying that all the fault of their cruel separation lay with himself. Mr. Moore seems at times to
be somewhat puzzled by these contradictory statements of his idol, and speculates not a little on what could be
Lord Byron’s object in using such language in public; mentally comparing it, we suppose, with the
free handling which he gave to the same subject in his private correspondence.

The innocence with which Moore gives himself up to be manipulated by Lord Byron, the naïveté with which
he shows all the process, let us a little into the secret of the marvellous powers of charming and blinding
which this great actor possessed.

Lord Byron had the beauty, the wit, the genius, the dramatic talent, which have constituted the strength of
some wonderfully fascinating women.

There have been women able to lead their leashes of blinded adorers; to make them swear that black was
white, or white black, at their word; to smile away their senses, or weep away their reason. No matter what
these sirens may say, no matter what they may do, though caught in a thousand transparent lies, and doing a
thousand deeds which would have ruined others, still men madly rave after them in life, and tear their hair
over their graves. Such an enchanter in man’s shape was Lord Byron.

He led captive Moore and Murray by being beautiful, a genius, and a lord; calling them ‘Dear
Tom’ and ‘Dear Murray,’ while they were only commoners. He first insulted Sir Walter
Scott, and then witched his heart out of him by ingenuous confessions and poetical compliments; he took
Wilson’s heart by flattering messages and a beautifully-written letter; he corresponded familiarly with
Hogg; and, before his death, had made fast friends, in one way or another, of the whole ‘Noctes
Ambrosianae’ Club.

We thus have given the historical résumé of Lord Byron’s attacks on his wife’s reputation: we
shall add, that they were based on philosophic principles, showing a deep knowledge of mankind. An analysis
will show that they can be philosophically classified:—

1st. Those which addressed the sympathetic nature of man, representing her as cold, methodical, severe,
strict, unforgiving.

2nd. Those addressed to the faculty of association, connecting her with ludicrous and licentious images;
taking from her the usual protection of womanly delicacy and sacredness.

3rd. Those addressed to the moral faculties, accusing her as artful, treacherous, untruthful, malignant.

All these various devices he held in his hand, shuffling and dealing them as a careful gamester his pack of
cards according to the exigencies of the game. He played adroitly, skilfully, with blinding flatteries and
seductive wiles, that made his victims willing dupes.

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Nothing can more clearly show the power and perfectness of his enchantments than the masterly way in which
he turned back the moral force of the whole English nation, which had risen at first in its strength against
him. The victory was complete.

CHAPTER IV. RESULTS AFTER LORD BYRON’S DEATH.

At the time of Lord Byron’s death, the English public had been so skilfully manipulated by the Byron
propaganda, that the sympathy of the whole world was with him. A tide of emotion was now aroused in
England by his early death—dying in the cause of Greece and liberty. There arose a general wail for
him, as for a lost pleiad, not only in England, but over the whole world; a great rush of enthusiasm for his
memory, to which the greatest literary men of England freely gave voice. By general consent, Lady Byron
seems to have been looked upon as the only cold-hearted unsympathetic person in this general mourning.

From that time the literary world of England apparently regarded Lady Byron as a woman to whom none of
the decorums, nor courtesies of ordinary womanhood, nor even the consideration belonging to common
humanity, were due.

‘She that is a widow indeed, and desolate,’ has been regarded in all Christian countries as an
object made sacred by the touch of God’s afflicting hand, sacred in her very helplessness; and the old
Hebrew Scriptures give to the Supreme Father no dearer title than ‘the widow’s God.’
But, on Lord Byron’s death, men not devoid of tenderness, men otherwise generous and of fine
feeling, acquiesced in insults to his widow with an obtuseness that seems, on review, quite incredible.

Lady Byron was not only a widow, but an orphan. She had no sister for confidante; no father and mother to
whom to go in her sorrows—sorrows so much deeper and darker to her than they could be to any other
human being. She had neither son nor brother to uphold and protect her. On all hands it was acknowledged
that, so far, there was no fault to be found in her but her utter silence. Her life was confessed to be pure,
useful, charitable; and yet, in this time of her sorrow, the writers of England issued article upon article not
only devoid of delicacy, but apparently injurious and insulting towards her, with a blind unconsciousness
which seems astonishing.

One of the greatest literary powers of that time was the ‘Blackwood:’ the reigning monarch on
that literary throne was Wilson, the lion-hearted, the brave, generous, tender poet, and, with some sad
exceptions, the noble man. But Wilson had believed the story of Byron, and, by his very generosity and
tenderness and pity, was betrayed into injustice.

In ‘The Noctes’ of November 1824 there is a conversation of the Noctes Club, in which North
says, ‘Byron and I knew each other pretty well; and I suppose there’s no harm in adding, that
we appreciated each other pretty tolerably. Did you ever see his letter to me?’

The footnote to this says, ‘This letter, which was PRINTED in Byron’s lifetime, was not
published till 1830, when it appeared in Moore’s “Life of Byron.” It is one of the most
vigorous prose compositions in the language. Byron had the highest opinion of Wilson’s genius and
noble spirit.’

In the first place, with our present ideas of propriety and good taste, we should reckon it an indecorum to
make the private affairs of a pure and good woman, whose circumstances under any point of view were trying,
and who evidently shunned publicity, the subject of public discussion in magazines which were read all over
the world.

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Lady Byron, as they all knew, had on her hands a most delicate and onerous task, in bringing up an only
daughter, necessarily inheriting peculiarities of genius and great sensitiveness; and the many mortifications
and embarrassments which such intermeddling with her private matters must have given, certainly should
have been considered by men with any pretensions to refinement or good feeling.

But the literati of England allowed her no consideration, no rest, no privacy.

In ‘The Noctes’ of November 1825 there is the record of a free conversation upon Lord and
Lady Byron’s affairs, interlarded with exhortations to push the bottle, and remarks on whisky-toddy.
Medwin’s ‘Conversations with Lord Byron’ is discussed, which, we are told in a note,
appeared a few months after the noble poet’s death.

There is a rather bold and free discussion of Lord Byron’s character—his fondness for gin and
water, on which stimulus he wrote ‘Don Juan;’ and James Hogg says pleasantly to Mullion,
‘O Mullion! it’s a pity you and Byron could na ha’ been acquaint. There would
ha’ been brave sparring to see who could say the wildest and the dreadfullest things; for he had neither
fear of man or woman, and would ha’ his joke or jeer, cost what it might.’ And then follows a
specimen of one of his jokes with an actress, that, in indecency, certainly justifies the assertion. From the
other stories which follow, and the parenthesis that occurs frequently (‘Mind your glass, James, a little
more!’), it seems evident that the party are progressing in their peculiar kind of civilisation.

It is in this same circle and paper that Lady Byron’s private affairs come up for discussion. The
discussion is thus elegantly introduced:—

Hogg.—‘Reach me the black bottle. I say, Christopher, what, after all, is your
opinion o’ Lord and Leddy Byron’s quarrel? Do you yoursel’ take part
with him, or with her? I wad like to hear your real opinion.’

North.—‘Oh, dear! Well, Hogg, since you will have it, I think Douglas Kinnard
and Hobhouse are bound to tell us whether there be any truth, and how much, in this story
about the declaration, signed by Sir Ralph’ [Milbanke].

The note here tells us that this refers to a statement that appeared in ‘Blackwood’ immediately
after Byron’s death, to the effect that, previous to the formal separation from his wife, Byron required
and obtained from Sir Ralph Milbanke, Lady Byron’s father, a statement to the effect that Lady Byron
had no charge of moral delinquency to bring against him. {61}

North continues:—

‘And I think Lady Byron’s letter—the “Dearest Duck”

one I mean—should really be forthcoming, if her ladyship’s friends wish to
stand fair before the public. At present we have nothing but loose talk of society to go upon;
and certainly, if the things that are said be true, there must be thorough explanation from
some quarter, or the tide will continue, as it has assuredly begun, to flow in a direction very
opposite to what we were for years accustomed. Sir, they must explain this business of the
letter. You have, of course, heard about the invitation it contained, the warm, affectionate
invitation, to Kirkby Mallory’—

Hogg interposes,—

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‘I dinna like to be interruptin’ ye, Mr. North; but I must inquire, Is the jug to
stand still while ye’re going on at that rate?’

North—‘There, Porker! These things are part and parcel of the chatter of every
bookseller’s shop; à fortiori, of every drawing-room in May Fair. Can the matter stop
here? Can a great man’s memory be permitted to incur damnation while these saving
clauses are afloat anywhere uncontradicted?’

And from this the conversation branches off into strong, emphatic praise of Byron’s conduct in Greece
during the last part of his life.

The silent widow is thus delicately and considerately reminded in the ‘Blackwood’ that she is
the talk, not only over the whisky jug of the Noctes, but in every drawing-room in London; and that she must
speak out and explain matters, or the whole world will set against her.

But she does not speak yet. The public persecution, therefore, proceeds. Medwin’s book being
insufficient, another biographer is to be selected. Now, the person in the Noctes Club who was held to have
the most complete information of the Byron affairs, and was, on that account, first thought of by Murray to
execute this very delicate task of writing a memoir which should include the most sacred domestic affairs of a
noble lady and her orphan daughter, was Maginn. Maginn, the author of the pleasant joke, that ‘man
never reaches the apex of civilisation till he is too drunk to pronounce the word,’ was the first person
in whose hands the ‘Autobiography,’ Memoirs, and Journals of Lord Byron were placed with
this view.

The following note from Shelton Mackenzie, in the June number of ‘The Noctes,’ 1824,
says,—

‘At that time, had he been so minded, Maginn (Odoherty) could have got up a popular
Life of Byron as well as most men in England. Immediately on the account of
Byron’s death being received in London, John Murray proposed that Maginn should
bring out Memoirs, Journals, and Letters of Lord Byron, and, with this intent, placed in his
hand every line that he (Murray) possessed in Byron’s handwriting. . . . . The strong
desire of Byron’s family and executors that the “Autobiography” should
be burned, to which desire Murray foolishly yielded, made such an hiatus in the materials,
that Murray and Maginn agreed it would not answer to bring out the work then. Eventually
Moore executed it.’

The character of the times in which this work was to be undertaken will appear from the following note of
Mackenzie’s to ‘The Noctes’ of August 1824, which we copy, with the author’s
own Italics:—

‘In the “Blackwood” of July 1824 was a poetical epistle by the

renowned Timothy Tickler to the editor of the “John Bull” magazine, on an
article in his first number. This article. . . professed to be a portion of the veritable
“Autobiography” of Byron which was burned, and was called “My
Wedding Night.” It appeared to relate in detail everything that occurred in the
twenty-four hours immediately succeeding that in which Byron was married. It had plenty of
coarseness, and some to spare. It went into particulars such as hitherto had been given only
by Faublas; and it had, notwithstanding, many phrases and some facts which evidently did not
belong to a mere fabricator. Some years after, I compared this “Wedding
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manuscripts of Byron, and was persuaded that the magazine-writer must have had the actual
statement before him, or have had a perusal of it. The writer in “Blackwood”
declared his conviction that it really was Byron’s own writing.’

The reader must remember that Lord Byron died April 1824; so that, according to this, his
‘Autobiography’ was made the means of this gross insult to his widow three months after his
death.

If some powerful cause had not paralysed all feelings of gentlemanly honour, and of womanly delicacy, and
of common humanity, towards Lady Byron, throughout the whole British nation, no editor would have dared
to open a periodical with such an article; or, if he had, he would have been overwhelmed with a storm of
popular indignation, which, like the fire upon Sodom, would have made a pillar of salt of him for a warning to
all future generations.

‘Blackwood’ reproves the ‘John Bull’ in a poetical epistle, recognising the article
as coming from Byron, and says to the author,—

‘But that you, sir, a wit and a scholar like you,

Should not blush to produce what he blushed not to do,—
Take your compliment, youngster; this doubles, almost,
The sorrow that rose when his honour was lost.’

We may not wonder that the ‘Autobiography’ was burned, as Murray says in a recent account,
by a committee of Byron’s friends, including Hobhouse, his sister, and Murray himself.

Now, the ‘Blackwood’ of July 1824 thus declares its conviction that this outrage on every
sentiment of human decency came from Lord Byron, and that his honour was lost. Maginn does not
undertake the memoir. No memoir at all is undertaken; till finally Moore is selected, as, like Demetrius of
old, a well-skilled gilder and ‘maker of silver shrines,’ though not for Diana. To Moore is
committed the task of doing his best for this battered image, in which even the worshippers recognise foul
sulphurous cracks, but which they none the less stand ready to worship as a genuine article that ‘fell
down from Jupiter.’

Moore was a man of no particular nicety as to moralities, but in that matter seems not very much below what
this record shows his average associates to be. He is so far superior to Maginn, that his vice is rose-coloured
and refined. He does not burst out with such heroic stanzas as Maginn’s frank invitation to Jeremy
Bentham:—

‘Jeremy, throw your pen aside,

And come get drunk with me;
And we’ll go where Bacchus sits astride,
Perched high on barrels three.’

Moore’s vice is cautious, soft, seductive, slippery, and covered at times with a thin, tremulous veil of
religious sentimentalism.

In regard to Byron, he was an unscrupulous, committed partisan: he was as much bewitched by him as ever
man has been by woman; and therefore to him, at last, the task of editing Byron’s
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This Byron, whom they all knew to be obscene beyond what even their most drunken tolerance could at first
endure; this man, whose foul license spoke out what most men conceal from mere respect to the decent
instincts of humanity; whose ‘honour was lost,’—was submitted to this careful
manipulator, to be turned out a perfected idol for a world longing for an idol, as the Israelites longed for the
calf in Horeb.

The image was to be invested with deceitful glories and shifting haloes,—admitted faults spoken of as
peculiarities of sacred origin,—and the world given to understand that no common rule or measure
could apply to such an undoubtedly divine production; and so the hearts of men were to be wrung with pity
for his sorrows as the yearning pain of a god, and with anger at his injuries as sacrilege on the sacredness of
genius, till they were ready to cast themselves at his feet, and adore.

Then he was to be set up on a pedestal, like Nebuchadnezzar’s image on the plains of Dura; and what
time the world heard the sound of cornet, sackbut, and dulcimer, in his enchanting verse, they were to fall
down and worship.

For Lady Byron, Moore had simply the respect that a commoner has for a lady of rank, and a good deal of the
feeling that seems to underlie all English literature,—that it is no matter what becomes of the woman
when the man’s story is to be told. But, with all his faults, Moore was not a cruel man; and we cannot
conceive such outrageous cruelty and ungentlemanly indelicacy towards an unoffending woman, as he shows
in these ‘Memoirs,’ without referring them to Lord Byron’s own influence in making
him an unscrupulous, committed partisan on his side.

So little pity, so little sympathy, did he suppose Lady Byron to be worthy of, that he laid before her, in the
sight of all the world, selections from her husband’s letters and journals, in which the privacies of her
courtship and married life were jested upon with a vulgar levity; letters filled, from the time of the act of
separation, with a constant succession of sarcasms, stabs, stings, epigrams, and vindictive allusions to herself,
bringing her into direct and insulting comparison with his various mistresses, and implying their superiority
over her. There, too, were gross attacks on her father and mother, as having been the instigators of the
separation; and poor Lady Milbanke, in particular, is sometimes mentioned with epithets so offensive, that the
editor prudently covers the terms with stars, as intending language too gross to be printed.

The last mistress of Lord Byron is uniformly brought forward in terms of such respect and consideration, that
one would suppose that the usual moral laws that regulate English family life had been specially repealed in
his favour. Moore quotes with approval letters from Shelley, stating that Lord Byron’s connection
with La Guiccioli has been of inestimable benefit to him; and that he is now becoming what he should be,
‘a virtuous man.’ Moore goes on to speak of the connection as one, though somewhat
reprehensible, yet as having all those advantages of marriage and settled domestic ties that Byron’s
affectionate spirit had long sighed for, but never before found; and in his last résumé of the poet’s
character, at the end of the volume, he brings the

mistress into direct comparison with the wife in a single sentence: ‘The woman to whom he gave the
love of his maturer years idolises his name; and, with a single unhappy exception, scarce an instance is to be
found of one brought. . . into relations of amity with him who did not retain a kind regard for him in life, and
a fondness for his memory.’

Literature has never yet seen the instance of a person, of Lady Byron’s rank in life, placed before the
world in a position more humiliating to womanly dignity, or wounding to womanly delicacy.

The direct implication is, that she has no feelings to be hurt, no heart to be broken, and is not worthy even of
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which generally must awaken many emotions, and call for some consideration, even in the most callous
hearts.

The woman who we are told walked the room, vainly striving to control the sobs that shook her frame, while
she sought to draw from the servant that last message of her husband which she was never to hear, was not
thought worthy even of the rights of common humanity.

The first volume of the ‘Memoir’ came out in 1830. Then for the first time came one flash of
lightning from the silent cloud; and she who had never spoken before spoke out. The libels on the memory of
her dead parents drew from her what her own wrongs never did. During all this time, while her husband had
been keeping her effigy dangling before the public as a mark for solemn curses, and filthy lampoons, and
secretly-circulated disclosures, that spared no sacredness and violated every decorum, she had not uttered a
word. She had been subjected to nameless insults, discussed in the assemblies of drunkards, and challenged to
speak for herself. Like the chaste lady in ‘Comus,’ whom the vile wizard had bound in the
enchanted seat to be ‘grinned at and chattered at’ by all the filthy rabble of his dehumanised
rout, she had remained pure, lofty, and undefiled; and the stains of mud and mire thrown upon her had fallen
from her spotless garments.

Now that she is dead, a recent writer in ‘The London Quarterly’ dares give voice to an
insinuation which even Byron gave only a suggestion of when he called his wife Clytemnestra; and hints that
she tried the power of youth and beauty to win to her the young solicitor Lushington, and a handsome young
officer of high rank.

At this time, such insinuations had not been thought of; and the only and chief allegation against Lady Byron
had been a cruel severity of virtue.

At all events, when Lady Byron spoke, the world listened with respect, and believed what she said.

Here let us, too, read her statement, and give it the careful attention she solicits (Moore’s ‘Life
of Byron,’ vol. vi. p.275):—

‘I have disregarded various publications in which facts within my own knowledge
have been grossly misrepresented; but I am called upon to notice some of the erroneous
statements proceeding from one who claims to be considered as Lord Byron’s
confidential and authorised friend. Domestic details ought not to be intruded on the public
attention: if, however, they are so intruded, the persons affected by them have a right to refute
injurious charges. Mr. Moore has promulgated his own impressions of private events in
which I was most nearly concerned, as if he possessed a competent knowledge of the subject.
Having survived Lord Byron, I feel increased reluctance to advert to any circumstances
connected with the period of my marriage; nor is it now my intention to disclose them further
than may be indispensably requisite for the end I have in view. Self-vindication is not the
motive which actuates me to make this appeal, and the spirit of accusation is unmingled with
it; but when the conduct of my parents is brought forward in a disgraceful light by the
passages selected from Lord Byron’s letters, and by the remarks of his biographer, I
feel bound to justify their characters from imputations which I know to be false. The
passages from Lord Byron’s letters, to which I refer, are,—the aspersion on my
mother’s character (p.648, l.4): {70a} “My child is very well and flourishing, I
hear; but I must see also. I feel no disposition to resign it to the contagion of its
grandmother’s society.” The assertion of her dishonourable conduct in
employing a spy (p.645, l.7, etc.): “A Mrs. C. (now a kind of housekeeper and spy of
Lady N’s), who, in her better days, was a washerwoman, is supposed to be—by

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the learned—very much the occult cause of our domestic discrepancies.” The
seeming exculpation of myself in the extract (p.646), with the words immediately following
it, “Her nearest relations are a—-;” where the blank clearly implies
something too offensive for publication. These passages tend to throw suspicion on my
parents, and give reason to ascribe the separation either to their direct agency, or to that of
“officious spies” employed by them. {70b} From the following part of the
narrative (p.642), it must also be inferred that an undue influence was exercised by them for
the accomplishment of this purpose: “It was in a few weeks after the latter
communication between us (Lord Byron and Mr. Moore) that Lady Byron adopted the
determination of parting from him. She had left London at the latter end of January, on a visit
to her father’s house in Leicestershire; and Lord Byron was in a short time to follow
her. They had parted in the utmost kindness, she wrote him a letter, full of playfulness and
affection, on the road; and, immediately on her arrival at Kirkby Mallory, her father wrote to
acquaint Lord Byron that she would return to him no more.”

‘In my observations upon this statement, I shall, as far as possible, avoid touching on
any matters relating personally to Lord Byron and myself. The facts are,—I left
London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my father and mother, on the 15th of January,
1816. Lord Byron had signified to me in writing (Jan. 6) his absolute desire that I should
leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix. It was not safe for me to
undertake the fatigue of a journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to my departure, it had
been strongly impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of insanity.
This opinion was derived in a great measure from the communications made to me by his
nearest relatives and personal attendant, who had more opportunities than myself of observing
him during the latter part of my stay in town. It was even represented to me that he was in
danger of destroying himself. With the concurrence of his family, I had consulted Dr. Baillie,
as a friend (Jan. 8), respecting this supposed malady. On acquainting him with the state of the
case, and with Lord Byron’s desire that I should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought that
my absence might be advisable as an experiment, assuming the fact of mental derangement;
for Dr. Baillie, not having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a positive opinion
on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but
light and soothing topics. Under these impressions I left London, determined to follow the
advice given by Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the nature of Lord Byron’s
conduct towards me from the time of my marriage, yet, supposing him to be in a state of
mental alienation, it was not for me, nor for any person of common humanity, to manifest at
that moment a sense of injury. On the day of my departure, and again on my arrival at Kirkby
(Jan. 16), I wrote to Lord Byron in a kind and cheerful tone, according to those medical
directions.

‘The last letter was circulated, and employed as a pretext for the charge of my having
been subsequently influenced to “desert” {72} my husband. It has been argued
that I parted from Lord Byron in perfect harmony; that feelings incompatible with any deep
sense of injury had dictated the letter which I addressed to him; and that my sentiments must
have been changed by persuasion and interference when I was under the roof of my parents.
These assertions and inferences are wholly destitute of foundation. When I arrived at Kirkby
Mallory, my parents were unacquainted with the existence of any causes likely to destroy my
prospects of happiness; and, when I communicated to them the opinion which had been
formed concerning Lord Byron’s state of mind, they were most anxious to promote his
restoration by every means in their power. They assured those relations who were with him
in London, that “they would devote their whole care and attention to the alleviation of
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induced to visit them.

‘With these intentions, my mother wrote on the 17th to Lord Byron, inviting him to
Kirkby Mallory. She had always treated him with an affectionate consideration and
indulgence, which extended to every little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating
word escape her lips in her whole intercourse with him. The accounts given me after I left
Lord Byron, by the persons in constant intercourse with him, added to those doubts which had
before transiently occurred to my mind as to the reality of the alleged disease; and the reports
of his medical attendant were far from establishing the existence of anything like lunacy.
Under this uncertainty, I deemed it right to communicate to my parents, that, if I were to
consider Lord Byron’s past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, nothing could
induce me to return to him. It therefore appeared expedient, both to them and myself, to
consult the ablest advisers. For that object, and also to obtain still further information
respecting the appearances which seemed to indicate mental derangement, my mother
determined to go to London. She was empowered by me to take legal opinions on a written
statement of mine, though I had then reasons for reserving a part of the case from the
knowledge even of my father and mother. Being convinced by the result of these inquiries,
and by the tenor of Lord Byron’s proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an
illusion, I no longer hesitated to authorise such measures as were necessary in order to secure
me from being ever again placed in his power. Conformably with this resolution, my father
wrote to him on the 2nd of February to propose an amicable separation. Lord Byron at first
rejected this proposal; but when it was distinctly notified to him that, if he persisted in his
refusal, recourse must be had to legal measures, he agreed to sign a deed of separation. Upon
applying to Dr. Lushington, who was intimately acquainted with all the circumstances, to
state in writing what he recollected upon this subject, I received from him the following letter,
by which it will be manifest that my mother cannot have been actuated by any hostile or
ungenerous motives towards Lord Byron:—

‘“MY DEAR LADY BYRON,—I can rely upon the accuracy of my

memory for the following statement. I was originally consulted by Lady Noel, on your
behalf, whilst you were in the country. The circumstances detailed by her were such as
justified a separation; but they were not of that aggravated description as to render such a
measure indispensable. On Lady Noel’s representation, I deemed a reconciliation
with Lord Byron practicable, and felt most sincerely a wish to aid in effecting it. There was
not on Lady Noel’s part any exaggeration of the facts; nor, so far as I could perceive,
any determination to prevent a return to Lord Byron: certainly none was expressed when I
spoke of a reconciliation. When you came to town, in about a fortnight, or perhaps more,
after my first interview with Lady Noel, I was for the first time informed by you of facts
utterly unknown, as I have no doubt, to Sir Ralph and Lady Noel. On receiving this
additional information, my opinion was entirely changed: I considered a reconciliation
impossible. I declared my opinion, and added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I
could not, either professionally or otherwise, take any part towards effecting it.

‘“Believe me, very faithfully yours,

‘“STEPH. LUSHINGTON.

‘“Great George Street, Jan. 31, 1830.”

‘I have only to observe, that, if the statements on which my legal advisers (the late Sir
Samuel Romilly and Dr. Lushington) formed their opinions were false, the responsibility and

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the odium should rest with me only. I trust that the facts which I have here briefly
recapitulated will absolve my father and mother from all accusations with regard to the part
they took in the separation between Lord Byron and myself.

‘They neither originated, instigated, nor advised that separation; and they cannot be
condemned for having afforded to their daughter the assistance and protection which she
claimed. There is no other near relative to vindicate their memory from insult. I am therefore
compelled to break the silence which I had hoped always to observe, and to solicit from the
readers of Lord Byron’s “Life” an impartial consideration of the
testimony extorted from me.

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.

‘Hanger Hill, Feb. 19, 1830.’

The effect of this statement on the literary world may be best judged by the discussion of it by Christopher
North (Wilson) in the succeeding May number of ‘The Noctes,’ where the bravest and most
generous of literary men that then were—himself the husband of a gentle wife—thus gives
sentence: the conversation is between North and the Shepherd:—

North.—‘God forbid I should wound the feelings of Lady Byron, of whose

character, known to me but by the high estimation in which it is held by all who have enjoyed
her friendship, I have always spoken with respect! . . . But may I, without harshness or
indelicacy, say, here among ourselves, James, that, by marrying Byron, she took upon herself,
with eyes wide open and conscience clearly convinced, duties very different from those of
which, even in common cases, the presaging foresight shadows. . . the light of the first nuptial
moon?’

Shepherd.—‘She did that, sir; by my troth, she did that.’

. . . .

North.—‘Miss Milbanke knew that he was reckoned a rake and a roué; and
although his genius wiped off, by impassioned eloquence in love-letters that were felt to be
irresistible, or hid the worst stain of, that reproach, still Miss Milbanke must have believed it
a perilous thing to be the wife of Lord Byron. . . . But still, by joining her life to his in
marriage, she pledged her troth and her faith and her love, under probabilities of severe,
disturbing, perhaps fearful trials, in the future. . . .

‘But I think Lady Byron ought not to have printed that Narrative. Death abrogates not
the rights of a husband to his wife’s silence when speech is fatal. . . to his character as
a man. Has she not flung suspicion over his bones interred, that they are the bones of
a—monster? . . . If Byron’s sins or crimes—for we are driven to use
terrible terms—were unendurable and unforgivable as if against the Holy Ghost, ought
the wheel, the rack, or the stake to have extorted that confession from his widow’s
breast? . . . But there was no such pain here, James: the declaration was voluntary, and it was
calm. Self-collected, and gathering up all her faculties and feelings into unshrinking strength,
she denounced before all the world—and throughout all space and all time—her
husband, as excommunicated by his vices from woman’s bosom.

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‘’Twas to vindicate the character of her parents that Lady Byron
wrote,—a holy purpose and devout, nor do I doubt sincere. But filial affection and
reverence, sacred as they are, may be blamelessly, nay, righteously, subordinate to conjugal
duties, which die not with the dead, are extinguished not even by the sins of the dead, were
they as foul as the grave’s corruption.’

Here is what John Stuart Mill calls the literature of slavery for woman, in length and breadth; and, that all
women may understand the doctrine, the Shepherd now takes up his parable, and expounds the true position
of the wife. We render his Scotch into English:—

‘Not a few such widows do I know, whom brutal, profligate, and savage husbands
have brought to the brink of the grave,—as good, as bright, as innocent as, and far
more forgiving than, Lady Byron. There they sit in their obscure, rarely-visited dwellings; for
sympathy instructed by suffering knows well that the deepest and most hopeless misery is
least given to complaint.’

Then follows a pathetic picture of one such widow, trembling and fainting for hunger, obliged, on her way to
the well for a can of water, her only drink, to sit down on a ‘knowe’ and say a prayer.

‘Yet she’s decently, yea, tidily dressed, poor creature! in sair worn
widow’s clothes, a single suit for Saturday and Sunday; her hair, untimely gray, is
neatly braided under her crape cap; and sometimes, when all is still and solitary in the fields,
and all labour has disappeared into the house, you may see her stealing by herself, or leading
one wee orphan by the hand, with another at her breast, to the kirkyard, where the love of her
youth and the husband of her prime is buried.

‘Yet,’ says the Shepherd, ‘he was a brute, a ruffian, a monster. When
drunk, how he raged and cursed and swore! Often did she dread that, in his fits of inhuman
passion, he would have murdered the baby at her breast; for she had seen him dash their only
little boy, a child of eight years old, on the floor, till the blood gushed from his ears; and then
the madman threw himself down on the body, and howled for the gallows. Limmers haunted
his door, and he theirs; and it was hers to lie, not sleep, in a cold, forsaken bed, once the bed
of peace, affection, and perfect happiness. Often he struck her; and once when she was
pregnant with that very orphan now smiling on her breast, reaching out his wee fingers to
touch the flowers on his father’s grave. . . .

‘But she tries to smile among the neighbours, and speaks of her boy’s likeness
to its father; nor, when the conversation turns on bygone times, does she fear to let his name
escape her white lips, “My Robert; the bairn’s not ill-favoured, but he will
never look like his father,”—and such sayings, uttered in a calm, sweet voice.
Nay, I remember once how her pale countenance reddened with a sudden flush of pride, when
a gossiping crone alluded to their wedding; and the widow’s eye brightened through
her tears to hear how the bridegroom, sitting that sabbath in his front seat beside his bonny
bride, had not his equal for strength, stature, and all that is beauty in man, in all the
congregation. That, I say, sir, whether right or wrong, was—forgiveness.

Here is a specimen of how even generous men had been so perverted by the enchantment of Lord
Byron’s genius, as to turn all the pathos and power of the strongest literature of that day against the
persecuted, pure woman, and for the strong, wicked man. These ‘Blackwood’ writers knew, by
Byron’s own filthy, ghastly writings, which had gone sorely against their own moral stomachs, that he
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had caught an innocent girl’s heart by sending a love-letter, and offer of marriage, at the end of a long
friendly correspondence,—a letter that had been written to show to his libertine set, and sent on the
toss-up of a copper, because he cared nothing for it one way or the other.

They admit that, having won this poor girl, he had been savage, brutal, drunken, cruel. They had read the
filthy taunts in ‘Don Juan,’ and the nameless abominations in the
‘Autobiography.’ They had admitted among themselves that his honour was lost; but still this
abused, desecrated woman must reverence her brutal master’s memory, and not speak, even to defend
the grave of her own kind father and mother.

That there was no lover of her youth, that the marriage-vow had been a hideous, shameless cheat, is on the
face of Moore’s account; yet the ‘Blackwood’ does not see it nor feel it, and brings up
against Lady Byron this touching story of a poor widow, who really had had a true lover once,—a lover
maddened, imbruted, lost, through that very drunkenness in which the Noctes Club were always glorying.

It is because of such transgressors as Byron, such supporters as Moore and the Noctes Club, that there are so
many helpless, cowering, broken-hearted, abject women, given over to the animal love which they share alike
with the poor dog,—the dog, who, beaten, kicked, starved, and cuffed, still lies by his drunken master
with great anxious eyes of love and sorrow, and with sweet, brute forgiveness nestles upon his bosom, as he
lies in his filth in the snowy ditch, to keep the warmth of life in him. Great is the mystery of this fidelity in
the poor, loving brute,—most mournful and most sacred

But, oh that a noble man should have no higher ideal of the love of a high-souled, heroic woman! Oh that
men should teach women that they owe no higher duties, and are capable of no higher tenderness, than this
loving, unquestioning animal fidelity! The dog is ever-loving, ever-forgiving, because God has given him no
high range of moral faculties, no sense of justice, no consequent horror at impurity and vileness.

Much of the beautiful patience and forgiveness of women is made possible to them by that utter deadness to
the sense of justice which the laws, literature, and misunderstood religion of England have sought to induce in
woman as a special grace and virtue.

The lesson to woman in this pathetic piece of special pleading is, that man may sink himself below the brute,
may wallow in filth like the swine, may turn his home into a hell, beat and torture his children, forsake the
marriage-bed for foul rivals; yet all this does not dissolve the marriage-vow on her part, nor free his bounden
serf from her obligation to honour his memory,—nay, to sacrifice to it the honour due to a kind father
and mother, slandered in their silent graves.

Such was the sympathy, and such the advice, that the best literature of England could give to a young widow,
a peeress of England, whose husband, as they verily believed and admitted, might have done worse than all
this; whose crimes might have been ‘foul, monstrous, unforgivable as the sin against the Holy
Ghost.’ If these things be done in the green tree, what shall be done in the dry? If the peeress as a wife
has no rights, what is the state of the cotter’s wife?

But, in the same paper, North again blames Lady Byron for not having come out with the whole story before
the world at the time she separated from her husband. He says of the time when she first consulted counsel
through her mother, keeping back one item,—

‘How weak, and worse than weak, at such a juncture, on which hung her whole fate, to
ask legal advice on an imperfect document! Give the delicacy of a virtuous woman its due;
but at such a crisis, when the question was whether her conscience was to be free from the
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unashamed—if such there were—the records of uttermost pollution.’

Shepherd.—‘And what think ye, sir, that a’ this pollution could hae
been, that sae electrified Dr. Lushington?’

North.—‘Bad—bad—bad, James. Nameless, it is horrible; named,

it might leave Byron’s memory yet within the range of pity and forgiveness; and,
where they are, their sister affections will not be far; though, like weeping seraphs, standing
aloof, and veiling their wings.’

Shepherd.—‘She should indeed hae been silent—till the grave had closed
on her sorrows as on his sins.’

North.—‘Even now she should speak,—or some one else for

her,— . . . and a few words will suffice. Worse the condition of the dead man’s
name cannot be—far, far better it might—I believe it would be—were all
the truth somehow or other declared; and declared it must be, not for Byron’s sake
only, but for the sake of humanity itself; and then a mitigated sentence, or eternal
silence.’

We have another discussion of Lady Byron’s duties in a further number of

‘Blackwood.’

The ‘Memoir’ being out, it was proposed that there should be a complete annotation of
Byron’s works gotten up, and adorned, for the further glorification of his memory, with portraits of the
various women whom he had delighted to honour.

Murray applied to Lady Byron for her portrait, and was met with a cold, decided negative. After reading all
the particulars of Byron’s harem of mistresses, and Moore’s comparisons between herself and
La Guiccioli, one might imagine reasons why a lady, with proper self-respect, should object to appearing in
this manner. One would suppose there might have been gentlemen who could well appreciate the motive of
that refusal; but it was only considered a new evidence that she was indifferent to her conjugal duties, and
wanting in that respect which Christopher North had told her she owed a husband’s memory, though
his crimes were foul as the rottenness of the grave.

Never, since Queen Vashti refused to come at the command of a drunken husband to show herself to his
drunken lords, was there a clearer case of disrespect to the marital dignity on the part of a wife. It was a plain
act of insubordination, rebellion against law and order; and how shocking in Lady Byron, who ought to feel
herself but too much flattered to be exhibited to the public as the head wife of a man of genius!

Means were at once adopted to subdue her contumacy, of which one may read in a note to the
‘Blackwood’ (Noctes), September 1832. An artist was sent down to Ealing to take her picture
by stealth as she sat in church. Two sittings were thus obtained without her knowledge. In the third one, the
artist placed himself boldly before her, and sketched, so that she could not but observe him. We shall give the
rest in Mackenzie’s own words, as a remarkable specimen of the obtuseness, not to say indelicacy of
feeling, which seemed to pervade the literary circles of England at the time:—

‘After prayers, Wright and his friend (the artist) were visited by an ambassador from
her ladyship to inquire the meaning of what she had seen. The reply was, that Mr. Murray
must have her portrait, and was compelled to take what she refused to give. The result was,
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very good, but another, in which there was a strong touch of caricature. Rather than allow
that to appear as her likeness (a very natural and womanly feeling by the way), she consented
to sit for the portrait to W. J. Newton, which was engraved, and is here alluded to.’

The artless barbarism of this note is too good to be lost; but it is quite borne out by the conversation in the
Noctes Club, which it illustrates.

It would appear from this conversation that these Byron beauties appeared successively in pamphlet form; and
the picture of Lady Byron is thus discussed:—

Mullion.—‘I don’t know if you have seen the last brochure. It has a
charming head of Lady Byron, who, it seems, sat on purpose: and that’s very
agreeable to hear of; for it shows her ladyship has got over any little soreness that
Moore’s “Life” occasioned, and is now willing to contribute anything in
her power to the real monument of Byron’s genius.’

North.—‘I am delighted to hear of this: ’tis really very noble in the

unfortunate lady. I never saw her. Is the face a striking one?’

Mullion.—‘Eminently so,—a most calm, pensive, melancholy style of

native beauty,—and a most touching contrast to the maids of Athens, Annesley, and all
the rest of them. I’m sure you’ll have the proof Finden has sent you framed for
the Boudoir at the Lodge.’

North.—‘By all means. I mean to do that for all the Byron Beauties.’

But it may be asked, Was there not a man in all England with delicacy enough to feel for Lady Byron, and
chivalry enough to speak a bold word for her? Yes: there was one. Thomas Campbell the poet, when he read
Lady Byron’s statement, believed it, as did Christopher North; but it affected him differently. It
appears he did not believe it a wife’s duty to burn herself on her husband’s funeral-pile, as did
Christopher North; and held the singular idea, that a wife had some rights as a human being as well as a
husband.

Lady Byron’s own statement appeared in pamphlet form in 1830: at least, such is the date at the foot of
the document. Thomas Campbell, in ‘The New Monthly Magazine,’ shortly after, printed a
spirited, gentlemanly defence of Lady Byron, and administered a pointed rebuke to Moore for the rudeness
and indelicacy he had shown in selecting from Byron’s letters the coarsest against herself, her parents,
and her old governess Mrs. Clermont, and by the indecent comparisons he had instituted between Lady Byron
and Lord Byron’s last mistress.

It is refreshing to hear, at last, from somebody who is not altogether on his knees at the feet of the popular
idol, and who has some chivalry for woman, and some idea of common humanity. He says,—

‘I found my right to speak on this painful subject on its now irrevocable publicity,
brought up afresh as it has been by Mr. Moore, to be the theme of discourse to millions, and,
if I err not much, the cause of misconception to innumerable minds. I claim to speak of Lady
Byron in the right of a man, and of a friend to the rights of woman, and to liberty, and to
natural religion. I claim a right, more especially, as one of the many friends of Lady Byron,
who, one and all, feel aggrieved by this production. It has virtually dragged her forward from
the shade of retirement, where she had hid her sorrows, and compelled her to defend the
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in a general view, it has forced her to defend herself; though, with her true sense and her pure
taste, she stands above all special pleading. To plenary explanation she ought not—she
never shall be driven. Mr. Moore is too much a gentleman not to shudder at the thought of
that; but if other Byronists, of a far different stamp, were to force the savage ordeal, it is her
enemies, and not she, that would have to dread the burning ploughshares.

‘We, her friends, have no wish to prolong the discussion: but a few words we must
add, even to her admirable statement; for hers is a cause not only dear to her friends, but
having become, from Mr. Moore and her misfortunes, a publicly-agitated cause, it concerns
morality, and the most sacred rights of the sex, that she should (and that, too, without more
special explanations) be acquitted out and out, and honourably acquitted, in this business, of
all share in the blame, which is one and indivisible. Mr. Moore, on further reflection, may see
this; and his return to candour will surprise us less than his momentary deviation from its
path.

‘For the tact of Mr. Moore’s conduct in this affair, I have not to answer; but, if
indelicacy be charged upon me, I scorn the charge. Neither will I submit to be called Lord
Byron’s accuser; because a word against him I wish not to say beyond what is
painfully wrung from me by the necessity of owning or illustrating Lady Byron’s
unblamableness, and of repelling certain misconceptions respecting her, which are now
walking the fashionable world, and which have been fostered (though Heaven knows where
they were born) most delicately and warily by the Christian godfathership of Mr. Moore.

‘I write not at Lady Byron’s bidding. I have never humiliated either her or
myself by asking if I should write, or what I should write; that is to say, I never applied to her
for information against Lord Byron, though I was justified, as one intending to criticise Mr.
Moore, in inquiring into the truth of some of his statements. Neither will I suffer myself to be
called her champion, if by that word be meant the advocate of her mere legal innocence; for
that, I take it, nobody questions.

‘Still less is it from the sorry impulse of pity that I speak of this noble woman; for I
look with wonder and even envy at the proud purity of her sense and conscience, that have
carried her exquisite sensibilities in triumph through such poignant tribulations. But I am
proud to be called her friend, the humble illustrator of her cause, and the advocate of those
principles which make it to me more interesting than Lord Byron’s. Lady Byron (if
the subject must be discussed) belongs to sentiment and morality (at least as much as Lord
Byron); nor is she to be suffered, when compelled to speak, to raise her voice as in a desert,
with no friendly voice to respond to her. Lady Byron could not have outlived her sufferings if
she had not wound up her fortitude to the high point of trusting mainly for consolation, not to
the opinion of the world, but to her own inward peace; and, having said what ought to
convince the world, I verily believe that she has less care about the fashionable opinion
respecting her than any of her friends can have. But we, her friends, mix with the world; and
we hear offensive absurdities about her, which we have a right to put down.

. . . .

‘I proceed to deal more generally with Mr. Moore’s book. You speak, Mr.
Moore, against Lord Byron’s censurers in a tone of indignation which is perfectly
lawful towards calumnious traducers, but which will not terrify me, or any other man of
courage who is no calumniator, from uttering his mind freely with regard to this part of your
hero’s conduct. I question your philosophy in assuming that all that is noble in

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Byron’s poetry was inconsistent with the possibility of his being devoted to a pure and
good woman; and I repudiate your morality for canting too complacently about “the
lava of his imagination,” and the unsettled fever of his passions, being any excuses for
his planting the tic douloureux of domestic suffering in a meek woman’s bosom.

‘These are hard words, Mr. Moore; but you have brought them on yourself by your
voluntary ignorance of facts known to me; for you might and ought to have known both sides
of the question; and, if the subject was too delicate for you to consult Lady Byron’s
confidential friends, you ought to have had nothing to do with the subject. But you cannot
have submitted your book even to Lord Byron’s sister, otherwise she would have set
you right about the imaginary spy, Mrs. Clermont.’

Campbell now goes on to print, at his own peril, he says, and without time to ask leave, the following note
from Lady Byron in reply to an application he made to her, when he was about to review Moore’s
book, for an ‘estimate as to the correctness of Moore’s statements.’

The following is Lady Byron’s reply:—

‘DEAR MR. CAMPBELL,—In taking up my pen to point out for your private
information {86} those passages in Mr. Moore’s representation of my part of the story
which were open to contradiction, I find them of still greater extent than I had supposed; and
to deny an assertion here and there would virtually admit the truth of the rest. If, on the
contrary, I were to enter into a full exposure of the falsehood of the views taken by Mr.
Moore, I must detail various matters, which, consistently with my principles and feelings, I
cannot under the existing circumstances disclose. I may, perhaps, convince you better of the
difficulty of the case by an example: It is not true that pecuniary embarrassments were the
cause of the disturbed state of Lord Byron’s mind, or formed the chief reason for the
arrangements made by him at that time. But is it reasonable for me to expect that you or any
one else should believe this, unless I show you what were the causes in question? and this I
cannot do.

‘I am, etc.,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

Campbell then goes on to reprove Moore for his injustice to Mrs. Clermont, whom Lord Byron had
denounced as a spy, but whose respectability and innocence were vouched for by Lord Byron’s own
family; and then he pointedly rebukes one false statement of great indelicacy and cruelty concerning Lady
Byron’s courtship, as follows:—

‘It is a further mistake on Mr. Moore’s part, and I can prove it to be so, if proof
be necessary, to represent Lady Byron, in the course of their courtship, as one inviting her
future husband to correspondence by letters after she had at first refused him. She never
proposed a correspondence. On the contrary, he sent her a message after that first refusal,
stating that he meant to go abroad, and to travel for some years in the East; that he should
depart with a heart aching, but not angry; and that he only begged a verbal assurance that she
had still some interest in his happiness. Could Miss Milbanke, as a well-bred woman, refuse
a courteous answer to such a message? She sent him a verbal answer, which was merely kind
and becoming, but which signified no encouragement that he should renew his offer of
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‘After that message, he wrote to her a most interesting letter about
himself,—about his views, personal, moral, and religious,—to which it would
have been uncharitable not to have replied. The result was an insensibly increasing
correspondence, which ended in her being devotedly attached to him. About that time, I
occasionally saw Lord Byron; and though I knew less of him than Mr. Moore, yet I suspect I
knew as much of him as Miss Milbanke then knew. At that time, he was so pleasing, that, if I
had had a daughter with ample fortune and beauty, I should have trusted her in marriage with
Lord Byron.

‘Mr. Moore at that period evidently understood Lord Byron better than either his
future bride or myself; but this speaks more for Moore’s shrewdness than for
Byron’s ingenuousness of character.

‘It is more for Lord Byron’s sake than for his widow’s that I resort not
to a more special examination of Mr. Moore’s misconceptions. The subject would
lead me insensibly into hateful disclosures against poor Lord Byron, who is more unfortunate
in his rash defenders than in his reluctant accusers. Happily, his own candour turns our
hostility from himself against his defenders. It was only in wayward and bitter remarks that
he misrepresented Lady Byron. He would have defended himself irresistibly if Mr. Moore
had left only his acknowledging passages. But Mr. Moore has produced a
“Life” of him which reflects blame on Lady Byron so dexterously, that
“more is meant than meets the ear.” The almost universal impression produced
by his book is, that Lady Byron must be a precise and a wan, unwarming spirit, a
blue-stocking of chilblained learning, a piece of insensitive goodness.

‘Who that knows Lady Byron will not pronounce her to be everything the reverse?
Will it be believed that this person, so unsuitably matched to her moody lord, has written
verses that would do no discredit to Byron himself; that her sensitiveness is surpassed and
bounded only by her good sense; and that she is

‘“Blest with a temper, whose unclouded ray

Can make to-morrow cheerful as to-day”?

‘She brought to Lord Byron beauty, manners, fortune, meekness, romantic affection,
and everything that ought to have made her to the most transcendent man of
genius—had he been what he should have been—his pride and his idol. I speak
not of Lady Byron in the commonplace manner of attesting character: I appeal to the gifted
Mrs. Siddons and Joanna Baillie, to Lady Charlemont, and to other ornaments of their sex,
whether I am exaggerating in the least when I say, that, in their whole lives, they have seen
few beings so intellectual and well-tempered as Lady Byron.

‘I wish to be as ingenuous as possible in speaking of her. Her manner, I have no

hesitation to say, is cool at the first interview, but is modestly, and not insolently, cool: she
contracted it, I believe, from being exposed by her beauty and large fortune, in youth, to
numbers of suitors, whom she could not have otherwise kept at a distance. But this manner
could have had no influence with Lord Byron; for it vanishes on nearer acquaintance, and has
no origin in coldness. All her friends like her frankness the better for being preceded by this
reserve. This manner, however, though not the slightest apology for Lord Byron, has been
inimical to Lady Byron in her misfortunes. It endears her to her friends; but it piques the
indifferent. Most odiously unjust, therefore, is Mr. Moore’s assertion, that she has had
the advantage of Lord Byron in public opinion. She is, comparatively speaking, unknown to

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the world; for though she has many friends, that is, a friend in everyone who knows her, yet
her pride and purity and misfortunes naturally contract the circle of her acquaintance.

‘There is something exquisitely unjust in Mr. Moore comparing her chance of

popularity with Lord Byron’s, the poet who can command men of
talents,—putting even Mr. Moore into the livery of his service,—and who has
suborned the favour of almost all women by the beauty of his person and the voluptuousness
of his verses. Lady Byron has nothing to oppose to these fascinations but the truth and justice
of her cause.

‘You said, Mr. Moore, that Lady Byron was unsuitable to her lord: the word is
cunningly insidious, and may mean as much or as little as may suit your convenience. But, if
she was unsuitable, I remark that it tells all the worse against Lord Byron. I have not read it
in your book (for I hate to wade through it); but they tell me that you have not only warily
depreciated Lady Byron, but that you have described a lady that would have suited him. If
this be true, “it is the unkindest cut of all,”—to hold up a florid
description of a woman suitable to Lord Byron, as if in mockery over the forlorn flower of
virtue that was drooping in the solitude of sorrow.

‘But I trust there is no such passage in your book. Surely you must be conscious of
your woman, with her ‘virtue loose about her, who would have suited Lord
Byron,” to be as imaginary a being as the woman without a head. A woman to suit
Lord Byron! Poo, poo! I could paint to you the woman that could have matched him, if I had
not bargained to say as little as possible against him.

‘If Lady Byron was not suitable to Lord Byron, so much the worse for his lordship; for
let me tell you, Mr. Moore, that neither your poetry, nor Lord Byron’s, nor all our
poetry put together, ever delineated a more interesting being than the woman whom you have
so coldly treated. This was not kicking the dead lion, but wounding the living lamb, who was
already bleeding and shorn, even unto the quick. I know, that, collectively speaking, the
world is in Lady Byron’s favour; but it is coldly favourable, and you have not warmed
its breath. Time, however, cures everything; and even your book, Mr. Moore, may be the
means of Lady Byron’s character being better appreciated.

‘THOMAS CAMPBELL.’

Here is what seems to be a gentlemanly, high-spirited, chivalric man, throwing down his glove in the lists for
a pure woman.

What was the consequence? Campbell was crowded back, thrust down, overwhelmed, his eyes filled with
dust, his mouth with ashes.

There was a general confusion and outcry, which reacted both on him and on Lady Byron. Her friends were
angry with him for having caused this re-action upon her; and he found himself at once attacked by Lady
Byron’s enemies, and deserted by her friends. All the literary authorities of his day took up against
him with energy. Christopher North, professor of moral philosophy in the Edinburgh University, in a fatherly
talk in ‘The Noctes,’ condemns Campbell, and justifies Moore, and heartily recommends his
‘Biography,’ as containing nothing materially objectionable on the score either of manners or
morals. Thus we have it in ‘The Noctes’ of May 1830:—

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‘Mr. Moore’s biographical book I admired; and I said so to my little world, in
two somewhat lengthy articles, which many approved, and some, I am sorry to know,
condemned.’

On the point in question between Moore and Campbell, North goes on to justify Moore altogether, only
admitting that ‘it would have been better had he not printed any coarse expression of Byron’s
about the old people;’ and, finally, he closes by saying,—

‘I do not think that, under the circumstances, Mr. Campbell himself, had he written
Byron’s “Life,” could have spoken, with the sentiments he then held, in
a better, more manly, and more gentlemanly spirit, in so far as regards Lady Byron, than Mr.
Moore did: and I am sorry he has been deterred from “swimming” through Mr.
Moore’s work by the fear of “wading;” for the waters are clear and
deep; nor is there any mud, either at the bottom or round the margin.’

Of the conduct of Lady Byron’s so-called friends on this occasion it is more difficult to speak.

There has always been in England, as John Stuart Mill says, a class of women who glory in the utter
self-abnegation of the wife to the husband, as the special crown of womanhood. Their patron saint is the
Griselda of Chaucer, who, when her husband humiliates her, and treats her as a brute, still accepts all with
meek, unquestioning, uncomplaining devotion. He tears her from her children; he treats her with personal
abuse; he repudiates her,—sends her out to nakedness and poverty; he installs another mistress in his
house, and sends for the first to be her handmaid and his own: and all this the meek saint accepts in the words
of Milton,—

‘My guide and head,

What thou hast said is just and right.’

Accordingly, Miss Martineau tells us that when Campbell’s defence came out, coupled with a note
from Lady Byron,—

‘The first obvious remark was, that there was no real disclosure; and the whole affair
had the appearance of a desire, on the part of Lady Byron, to exculpate herself, while yet no
adequate information was given. Many, who had regarded her with favour till then, gave her
up so far as to believe that feminine weakness had prevailed at last.’

The saint had fallen from her pedestal! She had shown a human frailty! Quite evidently she is not a Griselda,
but possessed with a shocking desire to exculpate herself and her friends.

Is it, then, only to slandered men that the privilege belongs of desiring to exculpate themselves and their
families and their friends from unjust censure?

Lord Byron had made it a life-long object to vilify and defame his wife. He had used for that one particular
purpose every talent that he possessed. He had left it as a last charge to Moore to pursue the warfare after
death, which Moore had done to some purpose; and Christopher North had informed Lady Byron that her
private affairs were discussed, not only with the whisky-toddy of the Noctes Club, but in every drawing-room
in May Fair; and declared that the ‘Dear Duck’ letter, and various other matters, must be
explained, and urged somebody to speak; and then, when Campbell does speak with all the energy of a real
gentleman, a general outcry and an indiscriminate mêlée is the result.

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The reasons for this seemed to be, first, that Campbell states that he did not ask Lady Byron’s leave,
and that she did not authorise him to defend her; and, second, that, having asked some explanations from her,
he prints a note in which she declines to give any.

We know not how a lady could more gently yet firmly decline to make a gentleman her confidant than in this
published note of Lady Byron; and yet, to this day, Campbell is spoken of by the world as having been Lady
Byron’s confidant at this time. This simply shows how very trustworthy are the general assertions
about Lady Byron’s confidants.

The final result of the matter, so far as Campbell was concerned, is given in Miss Martineau’s sketch,
in the following paragraph:—

‘The whole transaction was one of poor Campbell’s freaks. He excused

himself by saying it was a mistake of his; that he did not know what he was about when he
published the paper.’

It is the saddest of all sad things to see a man, who has spoken from moral convictions, in advance of his day,
and who has taken a stand for which he ought to honour himself, thus forced down and humiliated, made to
doubt his own better nature and his own honourable feelings, by the voice of a wicked world.

Campbell had no steadiness to stand by the truth he saw. His whole story is told incidentally in a note to
‘The Noctes,’ in which it is stated, that in an article in ‘Blackwood,’ January
1825, on Scotch poets, the palm was given to Hogg over Campbell; ‘one ground being, that he could
drink “eight and twenty tumblers of punch, while Campbell is hazy upon seven.”’

There is evidence in ‘The Noctes,’ that in due time Campbell was reconciled to Moore, and was
always suitably ashamed of having tried to be any more generous or just than the men of his generation.

And so it was settled as a law to Jacob, and an ordinance in Israel, that the Byron worship should proceed, and
that all the earth should keep silence before him. ‘Don Juan,’ that, years before, had been
printed by stealth, without Murray’s name on the title-page, that had been denounced as a book which
no woman should read, and had been given up as a desperate enterprise, now came forth in triumph, with
banners flying and drums beating. Every great periodical in England that had fired moral volleys of artillery
against it in its early days, now humbly marched in the glorious procession of admirers to salute this edifying
work of genius.

‘Blackwood,’ which in the beginning had been the most indignantly virtuous of the whole, now
grovelled and ate dust as the serpent in the very abjectness of submission. Odoherty (Maginn) declares that he
would rather have written a page of ‘Don Juan’ than a ton of ‘Childe Harold.’
{95a} Timothy Tickler informs Christopher North that he means to tender Murray, as Emperor of the North,
an interleaved copy {95b} of ‘Don Juan,’ with illustrations, as the only work of Byron’s
he cares much about; and Christopher North, professor of moral philosophy in Edinburgh, smiles approval!
We are not, after this, surprised to see the assertion, by a recent much-aggrieved writer in ‘The London
Era,’ that ‘Lord Byron has been, more than any other man of the age, the teacher of the youth
of England;’ and that he has ‘seen his works on the bookshelves of bishops’ palaces, no
less than on the tables of university undergraduates.’

A note to ‘The Noctes’ of July 1822 informs us of another instance of Lord Byron’s
triumph over English morals:—

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‘The mention of this’ (Byron’s going to Greece) ‘reminds me,
by the by, of what the Guiccioli said in her visit to London, where she was so lionised as
having been the lady-love of Byron. She was rather fond of speaking on the subject,
designating herself by some Venetian pet phrase, which she interpreted as meaning
“Love-Wife.”’

What was Lady Byron to do in such a world? She retired to the deepest privacy, and devoted herself to works
of charity, and the education of her only child, that brilliant daughter, to whose eager, opening mind the whole
course of current literature must bring so many trying questions in regard to the position of her father and
mother,—questions that the mother might not answer. That the cruel inconsiderateness of the literary
world added thorns to the intricacies of the path trodden by every mother who seeks to guide, restrain, and
educate a strong, acute, and precociously intelligent child, must easily be seen.

What remains to be said of Lady Byron’s life shall be said in the words of Miss Martineau, published
in ‘The Atlantic Monthly:’—

‘Her life, thenceforth, was one of unremitting bounty to society administered with as
much skill and prudence as benevolence. She lived in retirement, changing her abode
frequently; partly for the benefit of her child’s education and the promotion of her
benevolent schemes, and partly from a restlessness which was one of the few signs of injury
received from the spoiling of associations with home.

‘She felt a satisfaction which her friends rejoiced in when her daughter married Lord
King, at present the Earl of Lovelace, in 1835; and when grief upon grief followed, in the
appearance of mortal disease in her only child, her quiet patience stood her in good stead as
before. She even found strength to appropriate the blessings of the occasion, and took
comfort, as did her dying daughter, in the intimate friendship, which grew closer as the time
of parting drew nigh.

‘Lady Lovelace died in 1852; and, for her few remaining years, Lady Byron was
devoted to her grandchildren. But nearer calls never lessened her interest in remoter objects.
Her mind was of the large and clear quality which could comprehend remote interests in their
true proportions, and achieve each aim as perfectly as if it were the only one. Her agents used
to say that it was impossible to mistake her directions; and thus her business was usually well
done. There was no room, in her case, for the ordinary doubts, censures, and sneers about the
misapplication of bounty.

‘Her taste did not lie in the “Charity-Ball” direction; her funds were not
lavished in encouraging hypocrisy and improvidence among the idle and worthless; and the
quality of her charity was, in fact, as admirable as its quantity. Her chief aim was the
extension and improvement of popular education; but there was no kind of misery that she
heard of that she did not palliate to the utmost, and no kind of solace that her quick
imagination and sympathy could devise that she did not administer.

‘In her methods, she united consideration and frankness with singular success. For
one instance among a thousand: A lady with whom she had had friendly relations some time
before, and who became impoverished in a quiet way by hopeless sickness, preferred poverty
with an easy conscience to a competency attended by some uncertainty about the perfect
rectitude of the resource. Lady Byron wrote to an intermediate person exactly what she
thought of the case. Whether the judgment of the sufferer was right or mistaken was
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could never be pitied by anybody: that was the second. But it was painful to others to think of
the mortification to benevolent feelings which attends poverty; and there could be no
objection to arresting that pain. Therefore she, Lady Byron, had lodged in a neighbouring
bank the sum of one hundred pounds, to be used for benevolent purposes; and, in order to
preclude all outside speculation, she had made the money payable to the order of the
intermediate person, so that the sufferer’s name need not appear at all.

‘Five and thirty years of unremitting secret bounty like this must make up a great
amount of human happiness; but this was only one of a wide variety of methods of doing
good. It was the unconcealable magnitude of her beneficence, and its wise quality, which
made her a second time the theme of English conversation in all honest households within the
four seas. Years ago, it was said far and wide that Lady Byron was doing more good than
anybody else in England; and it was difficult to imagine how anybody could do more.

‘Lord Byron spent every shilling that the law allowed him out of her property while he
lived, and left away from her every shilling that he could deprive her of by his will; yet she
had, eventually, a large income at her command. In the management of it, she showed the
same wise consideration that marked all her practical decisions. She resolved to spend her
whole income, seeing how much the world needed help at the moment. Her care was for the
existing generation, rather than for a future one, which would have its own friends. She
usually declined trammelling herself with annual subscriptions to charities; preferring to keep
her freedom from year to year, and to achieve definite objects by liberal bounty, rather than to
extend partial help over a large surface which she could not herself superintend.

‘It was her first industrial school that awakened the admiration of the public, which
had never ceased to take an interest in her, while sorely misjudging her character. We hear
much now—and everybody hears it with pleasure—of the spread of education in
“common things;” but long before Miss Coutts inherited her wealth, long
before a name was found for such a method of training, Lady Byron had instituted the thing,
and put it in the way of making its own name.

‘She was living at Ealing, in Middlesex, in 1834; and there she opened one of the first
industrial schools in England, if not the very first. She sent out a master to Switzerland, to be
instructed in De Fellenburgh’s method. She took, on lease, five acres of land, and
spent several hundred pounds in rendering the buildings upon it fit for the purposes of the
school. A liberal education was afforded to the children of artisans and labourers during the
half of the day when they were not employed in the field or garden. The allotments were
rented by the boys, who raised and sold produce, which afforded them a considerable yearly
profit if they were good workmen. Those who worked in the field earned wages; their labour
being paid by the hour, according to the capability of the young labourer. They kept their
accounts of expenditure and receipts, and acquired good habits of business while learning the
occupation of their lives. Some mechanical trades were taught, as well as the arts of
agriculture.

‘Part of the wisdom of the management lay in making the pupils pay. Of one hundred
pupils, half were boarders. They paid little more than half the expenses of their maintenance,
and the day-scholars paid threepence per week. Of course, a large part of the expense was
borne by Lady Byron, besides the payments she made for children who could not otherwise
have entered the school. The establishment flourished steadily till 1852, when the owner of
the land required it back for building purposes. During the eighteen years that the Ealing
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poor-law commissioners pointed out their merits. Land-owners and other wealthy persons
visited them, and went home and set up similar establishments. During those years, too, Lady
Byron had herself been at work in various directions to the same purpose.

‘A more extensive industrial scheme was instituted on her Leicestershire property, and
not far off she opened a girls’ school and an infant school; and when a season of
distress came, as such seasons are apt to befall the poor Leicestershire stocking-weavers,
Lady Byron fed the children for months together, till they could resume their payments.
These schools were opened in 1840. The next year, she built a schoolhouse on her
Warwickshire property; and, five years later, she set up an iron schoolhouse on another
Leicestershire estate.

‘By this time, her educational efforts were costing her several hundred pounds a year
in the mere maintenance of existing establishments; but this is the smallest consideration in
the case. She has sent out tribes of boys and girls into life fit to do their part there with skill
and credit and comfort. Perhaps it is a still more important consideration, that scores of
teachers and trainers have been led into their vocation, and duly prepared for it, by what they
saw and learned in her schools. As for the best and the worst of the Ealing boys, the best
have, in a few cases, been received into the Battersea Training School, whence they could
enter on their career as teachers to the greatest advantage; and the worst found their school a
true reformatory, before reformatory schools were heard of. At Bristol, she bought a house
for a reformatory for girls; and there her friend, Miss Carpenter, faithfully and energetically
carries out her own and Lady Byron’s aims, which were one and the same.

‘There would be no end if I were to catalogue the schemes of which these are a
specimen. It is of more consequence to observe that her mind was never narrowed by her
own acts, as the minds of benevolent people are so apt to be. To the last, her interest in great
political movements, at home and abroad, was as vivid as ever. She watched every step won
in philosophy, every discovery in science, every token of social change and progress in every
shape. Her mind was as liberal as her heart and hand. No diversity of opinion troubled her:
she was respectful to every sort of individuality, and indulgent to all constitutional
peculiarities. It must have puzzled those who kept up the notion of her being
“strait-laced” to see how indulgent she was even to Epicurean
tendencies,—the remotest of all from her own.

‘But I must stop; for I do not wish my honest memorial to degenerate into panegyric.
Among her latest known acts were her gifts to the Sicilian cause, and her manifestations on
behalf of the antislavery cause in the United States. Her kindness to William and Ellen Craft
must be well known there; and it is also related in the newspapers, that she bequeathed a
legacy to a young American to assist him under any disadvantages he might suffer as an
abolitionist.

‘All these deeds were done under a heavy burden of ill health. Before she had passed
middle life, her lungs were believed to be irreparably injured by partial ossification. She was
subject to attacks so serious, that each one, for many years, was expected to be the last. She
arranged her affairs in correspondence with her liabilities: so that the same order would have
been found, whether she died suddenly or after long warning.

‘She was to receive one more accession of outward greatness before she departed. She
became Baroness Wentworth in November, 1856. This is one of the facts of her history; but
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were bright in honour, and cheered by the attachment of old friends worthy to pay the duty
she deserved. Above all, it is consoling to know that she who so long outlived her only child
was blessed with the unremitting and tender care of her grand-daughter. She died on the 16th
of May, 1860.

‘The portrait of Lady Byron as she was at the time of her marriage is probably
remembered by some of my readers. It is very engaging. Her countenance afterwards
became much worn; but its expression of thoughtfulness and composure was very interesting.
Her handwriting accorded well with the character of her mind. It was clear, elegant, and
womanly. Her manners differed with circumstances. Her shrinking sensitiveness might
embarrass one visitor; while another would be charmed with her easy, significant, and
vivacious conversation. It depended much on whom she talked with. The abiding certainty
was, that she had strength for the hardest of human trials, and the composure which belongs
to strength. For the rest, it is enough to point to her deeds, and to the mourning of her friends
round the chasm which her departure has made in their life, and in the society in which it is
spent. All that could be done in the way of personal love and honour was done while she
lived: it only remains now to see that her name and fame are permitted to shine forth at last in
their proper light.’

We have simply to ask the reader whether a life like this was not the best, the noblest answer that a woman
could make to a doubting world.

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We have now brought the review of the antagonism against Lady Byron down to the period of her death.
During all this time, let the candid reader ask himself which of these two parties seems to be plotting against
the other.

Which has been active, aggressive, unscrupulous? which has been silent, quiet, unoffending? Which of the
two has laboured to make a party, and to make that party active, watchful, enthusiastic?

Have we not proved that Lady Byron remained perfectly silent during Lord Byron’s life, patiently
looking out from her retirement to see the waves of popular sympathy, that once bore her up, day by day
retreating, while his accusations against her were resounding in his poems over the whole earth? And after
Lord Byron’s death, when all the world with one consent began to give their memorials of him, and
made it appear, by their various ‘recollections of conversations,’ how incessantly he had
obtruded his own version of the separation upon every listener, did she manifest any similar eagerness?

Lady Byron had seen the ‘Blackwood’ coming forward, on the first appearance of ‘Don
Juan,’ to rebuke the cowardly lampoon in words eloquent with all the unperverted vigour of an honest
Englishman. Under the power of the great conspirator, she had seen that ‘Blackwood’ become
the very eager recipient and chief reporter of the stories against her, and the blind admirer of her adversary.

All this time, she lost sympathy daily by being silent. The world will embrace those who court it; it will
patronise those who seek its favour; it will make parties for those who seek to make parties: but for the often
accused who do not speak, who make no confidants and no parties, the world soon loses sympathy.

When at last she spoke, Christopher North says ‘she astonished the world.’ Calm, clear,
courageous, exact as to time, date, and circumstance, was that first testimony, backed by the equally clear
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It showed that her secret had been kept even from her parents. In words precise, firm, and fearless, she says,
‘If these statements on which Dr. Lushington and Sir Samuel Romilly formed their opinion were false,
the responsibility and the odium should rest with me only.’ Christopher North did not pretend to
disbelieve this statement. He breathed not a doubt of Lady Byron’s word. He spoke of the crime
indicated, as one which might have been foul as the grave’s corruption, unforgivable as the sin against
the Holy Ghost. He rebuked the wife for bearing this testimony, even to save the memory of her dead father
and mother, and, in the same breath, declared that she ought now to go farther, and speak fully the one awful
word, and then—‘a mitigated sentence, or eternal silence!’

But Lady Byron took no counsel with the world, nor with the literary men of her age. One knight, with some
small remnant of England’s old chivalry, set lance in rest for her: she saw him beaten back unhorsed,
rolled in the dust, and ingloriously vanquished, and perceived that henceforth nothing but injury could come
to any one who attempted to speak for her.

She turned from the judgments of man and the fond and natural hopes of human nature, to lose herself in
sacred ministries to the downcast and suffering. What nobler record for woman could there be than that
which Miss Martineau has given?

Particularly to be noted in Lady Byron was her peculiar interest in reclaiming fallen women. Among her
letters to Mrs. Prof. Follen, of Cambridge, was one addressed to a society of ladies who had undertaken this
difficult work. It was full of heavenly wisdom and of a large and tolerant charity. Fénelon truly says, it is
only perfection that can tolerate imperfection; and the very purity of Lady Byron’s nature made her
most forbearing and most tender towards the weak and the guilty. This letter, with all the rest of Lady
Byron’s, was returned to the hands of her executors after her death. Its publication would greatly
assist the world in understanding the peculiarities of its writer’s character.

Lady Byron passed to a higher life in 1860. {105} After her death, I looked for the publication of her Memoir
and Letters as the event that should give her the same opportunity of being known and judged by her life and
writings that had been so freely accorded to Lord Byron.

She was, in her husband’s estimation, a woman of genius. She was the friend of many of the first men
and women of her times, and corresponded with them on topics of literature, morals, religion, and, above all,
on the benevolent and philanthropic movements of the day, whose principles she had studied with acute
observation, and in connection with which she had acquired a large experience.

The knowledge of her, necessarily diffused by such a series of letters, would have created in America a
comprehension of her character, of itself sufficient to wither a thousand slanders.

Such a Memoir was contemplated. Lady Byron’s letters to Mrs. Follen were asked for from Boston;
and I was applied to by a person in England, who I have recently learned is one of the existing trustees of
Lady Byron’s papers, to furnish copies of her letters to me for the purpose of a Memoir. Before I had
time to have copies made, another letter came, stating that the trustees had concluded that it was best not to
publish any Memoir of Lady Byron at all.

This left the character of Lady Byron in our American world precisely where the slanders of her husband, the
literature of the Noctes Club, and the unanimous verdict of May Fair as recorded by
‘Blackwood,’ had placed it.

True, Lady Byron had nobly and quietly lived down these slanders in England by deeds that made her name
revered as a saint among all those who valued saintliness.

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But in France and Italy, and in these United States, I have had abundant opportunity to know that Lady Byron
stood judged and condemned on the testimony of her brilliant husband, and that the feeling against her had a
vivacity and intensity not to be overcome by mere allusions to a virtuous life in distant England.

This is strikingly shown by one fact. In the American edition of Moore’s ‘Life of
Byron,’ by Claxton, Remsen, and Haffelfinger, Philadelphia, 1869, which I have been consulting,
Lady Byron’s statement, which is found in the Appendix of Murray’s standard edition, is
entirely omitted. Every other paper is carefully preserved. This one incident showed how the tide of
sympathy was setting in this New World. Of course, there is no stronger power than a virtuous life; but, for a
virtuous life to bear testimony to the world, its details must be told, so that the world may know them.

Suppose the memoirs of Clarkson and Wilberforce had been suppressed after their death, how soon might the
coming tide have wiped out the record of their bravery and philanthropy! Suppose the lives of Francis Xavier
and Henry Martyn had never been written, and we had lost the remembrance of what holy men could do and
dare in the divine enthusiasm of Christian faith! Suppose we had no Fénelon, no Book of Martyrs!

Would there not be an outcry through all the literary and artistic world if a perfect statue were allowed to
remain buried for ever because some painful individual history was connected with its burial and its
recovery? But is not a noble life a greater treasure to mankind than any work of art?

We have heard much mourning over the burned Autobiography of Lord Byron, and seen it treated of in a
magazine as ‘the lost chapter in history.’ The lost chapter in history is Lady Byron’s
Autobiography in her life and letters; and the suppression of them is the root of this whole mischief.

We do not in this intend to censure the parties who came to this decision.

The descendants of Lady Byron revere her memory, as they have every reason to do. That it was their desire
to have a Memoir of her published, I have been informed by an individual of the highest character in England,
who obtained the information directly from Lady Byron’s grandchildren.

But the trustees in whose care the papers were placed drew back on examination of them, and declared, that,
as Lady Byron’s papers could not be fully published, they should regret anything that should call
public attention once more to the discussion of her history.

Reviewing this long history of the way in which the literary world had treated Lady Byron, we cannot wonder
that her friends should have doubted whether there was left on earth any justice, or sense that anything is due
to woman as a human being with human rights. Evidently this lesson had taken from them all faith in the
moral sense of the world. Rather than re-awaken the discussion, so unsparing, so painful, and so indelicate,
which had been carried on so many years around that loved form, now sanctified by death, they sacrificed the
dear pleasure of the memorials, and the interests of mankind, who have an indefeasible right to all the help
that can be got from the truth of history as to the living power of virtue, and the reality of that great victory
that overcometh the world.

There are thousands of poor victims suffering in sadness, discouragement, and poverty; heart-broken wives of
brutal, drunken husbands; women enduring nameless wrongs and horrors which the delicacy of their sex
forbids them to utter,—to whom the lovely letters lying hidden away under those seals might bring
courage and hope from springs not of this world.

But though the friends of Lady Byron, perhaps from despair of their kind, from weariness of the utter injustice
done her, wished to cherish her name in silence, and to confine the story of her virtues to that circle who knew
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scruple.

Lord Byron had artfully contrived during his life to place his wife in such an antagonistic position with regard
to himself, that his intimate friends were forced to believe that one of the two had deliberately and wantonly
injured the other. The published statement of Lady Byron contradicted boldly and point-blank all the
statement of her husband concerning the separation; so that, unless she was convicted as a false witness, he
certainly was.

The best evidence of this is Christopher North’s own shocked, astonished statement, and the words of
the Noctes Club.

The noble life that Lady Byron lived after this hushed every voice, and silenced even the most desperate
calumny, while she was in the world. In the face of Lady Byron as the world saw her, of what use was the
talk of Clytemnestra, and the assertion that she had been a mean, deceitful conspirator against her
husband’s honour in life, and stabbed his memory after death?

But when she was in her grave, when her voice and presence and good deeds no more spoke for her, and a
new generation was growing up that knew her not; then was the time selected to revive the assault on her
memory, and to say over her grave what none would ever have dared to say of her while living.

During these last two years, I have been gradually awakening to the evidence of a new crusade against the
memory of Lady Byron, which respected no sanctity,—not even that last and most awful one of death.

Nine years after her death, when it was fully understood that no story on her side or that of her friends was to
be forthcoming, then her calumniators raked out from the ashes of her husband’s sepulchre all his
bitter charges, to state them over in even stronger and more indecent forms.

There seems to be reason to think that the materials supplied by Lord Byron for such a campaign yet exist in
society.

To ‘The Noctes’ of November 1824, there is the following note apropos to a discussion of the
Byron question:—

‘Byron’s Memoirs, given by him to Moore, were burned, as everybody knows.

But, before this, Moore had lent them to several persons. Mrs. Home Purvis, afterwards
Viscountess of Canterbury, is known to have sat up all one night, in which, aided by her
daughter, she had a copy made. I have the strongest reason for believing that one other
person made a copy; for the description of the first twenty-four hours after the marriage
ceremonial has been in my hands. Not until after the death of Lady Byron, and Hobhouse,
who was the poet’s literary executor, can the poet’s Autobiography see the
light; but I am certain it will be published.’

Thus speaks Mackenzie in a note to a volume of ‘The Noctes,’ published in America in 1854.
Lady Byron died in 1860.

Nine years after Lady Byron’s death, when it was ascertained that her story was not to see the light,
when there were no means of judging her character by her own writings, commenced a well-planned set of
operations to turn the public attention once more to Lord Byron, and to represent him as an injured man,
whose testimony had been unjustly suppressed.

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It was quite possible, supposing copies of the Autobiography to exist, that this might occasion a call from the
generation of to-day, in answer to which the suppressed work might appear. This was a rather delicate
operation to commence; but the instrument was not wanting. It was necessary that the subject should be first
opened by some irresponsible party, whom more powerful parties might, as by accident, recognise and
patronise, and on whose weakness they might build something stronger.

Just such an instrument was to be found in Paris. The mistress of Lord Byron could easily be stirred up and
flattered to come before the world with a book which should re-open the whole controversy; and she proved a
facile tool. At first, the work appeared prudently in French, and was called ‘Lord Byron jugé par les
Témoins de sa Vie,’ and was rather a failure. Then it was translated into English, and published by
Bentley.

The book was inartistic, and helplessly, childishly stupid as to any literary merits,—a mere mass of
gossip and twaddle; but after all, when one remembers the taste of the thousands of circulating-library readers,
it must not be considered the less likely to be widely read on that account. It is only once in a century that a
writer of real genius has the art to tell his story so as to take both the cultivated few and the average many. De
Foe and John Bunyan are almost the only examples. But there is a certain class of reading that sells and
spreads, and exerts a vast influence, which the upper circles of literature despise too much ever to fairly
estimate its power.

However, the Guiccioli book did not want for patrons in the high places of literature. The
‘Blackwood’—the old classic magazine of England; the defender of conservatism and
aristocracy; the paper of Lockhart, Wilson, Hogg, Walter Scott, and a host of departed grandeurs—was
deputed to usher into the world this book, and to recommend it and its author to the Christian public of the
nineteenth century.

The following is the manner in which ‘Blackwood’ calls attention to it:—

‘One of the most beautiful of the songs of Béranger is that addressed to his Lisette, in
which he pictures her, in old age, narrating to a younger generation the loves of their youth;
decking his portrait with flowers at each returning spring, and reciting the verses that had
been inspired by her vanished charms:—

‘Lorsque les yeux chercheront sous vos rides

Les traits charmants qui m’auront inspiré,
Des doux récits les jeunes gens avides,
Diront: Quel fut cet ami tant pleuré?
De men amour peignez, s’il est possible,
Vardeur, l’ivresse, et même les soupçons,
Et bonne vieille, an coin d’un feu paisible
De votre ami répétez les chansons.
“On vous dira: Savait-il être aimable?
Et sans rougir vous direz: Je l’aimais.
D’un trait méchant se montra-t-il capable?
Avec orgueil vous répondrez: Jamais!’”

‘This charming picture,’ ‘Blackwood’ goes on to say,

‘has been realised in the case of a poet greater than Béranger, and by a mistress more
famous than Lisette. The Countess Guiccioli has at length given to the world her
“Recollections of Lord Byron.” The book first appeared in France under the
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countess. A more unfortunate designation could hardly have been selected. The
“witnesses of his life” told us nothing but what had been told before over and
over again; and the uniform and exaggerated tone of eulogy which pervaded the whole book
was fatal to any claim on the part of the writer to be considered an impartial judge of the
wonderfully mixed character of Byron.

‘When, however, the book is regarded as the avowed production of the Countess
Guiccioli, it derives value and interest from its very faults. {113} There is something
inexpressibly touching in the picture of the old lady calling up the phantoms of half a century
ago; not faded and stricken by the hand of time, but brilliant and gorgeous as they were when
Byron, in his manly prime of genius and beauty, first flashed upon her enraptured sight, and
she gave her whole soul up to an absorbing passion, the embers of which still glow in her
heart.

‘To her there has been no change, no decay. The god whom she worshipped with all
the ardour of her Italian nature at seventeen is still the “Pythian of the age” to
her at seventy. To try such a book by the ordinary canons of criticism would be as absurd as
to arraign the authoress before a jury of British matrons, or to prefer a bill of indictment
against the Sultan for bigamy to a Middlesex grand jury.’

This, then, is the introduction which one of the oldest and most classical periodicals of Great Britain gives to a
very stupid book, simply because it was written by Lord Byron’s mistress. That fact, we are assured,
lends grace even to its faults.

Having brought the authoress upon the stage, the review now goes on to define her position, and assure the
Christian world that

‘The Countess Guiccioli was the daughter of an impoverished noble. At the age of
sixteen, she was taken from a convent, and sold as third wife to the Count Guiccioli, who was
old, rich, and profligate. A fouler prostitution never profaned the name of marriage. A short
time afterwards, she accidentally met Lord Byron. Outraged and rebellious nature vindicated
itself in the deep and devoted passion with which he inspired her. With the full assent of
husband, father, and brother, and in compliance with the usages of Italian society, he was
shortly afterwards installed in the office, and invested with all the privileges, of her
“Cavalier Servente.”’

It has been asserted that the Marquis de Boissy, the late husband of this Guiccioli lady, was in the habit of
introducing her in fashionable circles as ‘the Marquise de Boissy, my wife, formerly mistress to Lord
Byron’! We do not give the story as a verity; yet, in the review of this whole history, we may be
pardoned for thinking it quite possible.

The mistress, being thus vouched for and presented as worthy of sympathy and attention by one of the oldest
and most classic organs of English literature, may now proceed in her work of glorifying the popular idol, and
casting abuse on the grave of the dead wife.

Her attacks on Lady Byron are, to be sure, less skilful and adroit than those of Lord Byron. They want his
literary polish and tact; but what of that? ‘Blackwood’ assures us that even the faults of manner
derive a peculiar grace from the fact that the narrator is Lord Byron’s mistress; and so we suppose the
literary world must find grace in things like this:—

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‘She has been called, after his words, the moral Clytemnestra of her husband. Such a
surname is severe: but the repugnance we feel to condemning a woman cannot prevent our
listening to the voice of justice, which tells us that the comparison is still in favour of the
guilty one of antiquity; for she, driven to crime by fierce passion overpowering reason, at
least only deprived her husband of physical life, and, in committing the deed, exposed herself
to all its consequences; while Lady Byron left her husband at the very moment that she saw
him struggling amid a thousand shoals in the stormy sea of embarrassments created by his
marriage, and precisely when he more than ever required a friendly, tender, and indulgent
hand to save him.

‘Besides, she shut herself up in silence a thousand times more cruel than
Clytemnestra’s poniard: that only killed the body; whereas Lady Byron’s
silence was destined to kill the soul,—and such a soul!—leaving the door open
to calumny, and making it to be supposed that her silence was magnanimity destined to cover
over frightful wrongs, perhaps even depravity. In vain did he, feeling his conscience at ease,
implore some inquiry and examination. She refused; and the only favour she granted was to
send him, one fine day, two persons to see whether he were not mad.

‘And, why, then, had she believed him mad? Because she, a methodical, inflexible
woman, with that unbendingness which a profound moralist calls the worship rendered to
pride by a feelingless soul, because she could not understand the possibility of tastes and
habits different to those of ordinary routine, or of her own starched life. Not to be hungry
when she was; not to sleep at night, but to write while she was sleeping, and to sleep when
she was up; in short, to gratify the requirements of material and intellectual life at hours
different to hers,—all that was not merely annoying for her, but it must be madness; or,
if not, it betokened depravity that she could neither submit to nor tolerate without perilling her
own morality.

‘Such was the grand secret of the cruel silence which exposed Lord Byron to the most
malignant interpretations, to all the calumny and revenge of his enemies.

‘She was, perhaps, the only woman in the world so strangely organised,—the
only one, perhaps, capable of not feeling happy and proud at belonging to a man superior to
the rest of humanity; and fatally was it decreed that this woman alone of her species should be
Lord Byron’s wife!’

In a note is added,—

‘If an imaginary fear, and even an unreasonable jealousy, may be her excuse (just as
one excuses a monomania), can one equally forgive her silence? Such a silence is morally
what are physically the poisons which kill at once, and defy all remedies; thus insuring the
culprit’s safety. This silence it is which will ever be her crime; for by it she poisoned
the life of her husband.’

The book has several chapters devoted to Lord Byron’s peculiar virtues; and under the one devoted to
magnanimity and heroism, his forgiving disposition receives special attention. The climax of all is stated to
be that he forgave Lady Byron. All the world knew that, since he had declared this fact in a very noisy and
impassioned manner in the fourth canto of ‘Childe Harold,’ together with a statement of the
wrongs which he forgave; but the Guiccioli thinks his virtue, at this period, has not been enough appreciated.
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‘An absolute moral monstrosity, an anomaly in the history of types of female
hideousness, had succeeded in showing itself in the light of magnanimity. But false as was
this high quality in Lady Byron, so did it shine out in him true and admirable. The position in
which Lady Byron had placed him, and where she continued to keep him by her harshness,
silence, and strange refusals, was one of those which cause such suffering, that the highest
degree of self-control seldom suffices to quiet the promptings of human weakness, and to
cause persons of even slight sensibility to preserve moderation. Yet, with his sensibility and
the knowledge of his worth, how did he act? what did he say? I will not speak of his
“farewell;” of the care he took to shield her from blame by throwing it on
others, by taking much too large a share to himself.’

With like vivacity and earnestness does the narrator now proceed to make an incarnate angel of her subject by
the simple process of denying everything that he himself ever confessed,—everything that has ever
been confessed in regard to him by his best friends. He has been in the world as an angel unawares from his
cradle. His guardian did not properly appreciate him, and is consequently mentioned as that wicked Lord
Carlisle. Thomas Moore is never to be sufficiently condemned for the facts told in his biography.
Byron’s own frank and lawless admissions of evil are set down to a peculiar inability he had for
speaking the truth about himself,—sometimes about his near relations; all which does not in the least
discourage the authoress from giving a separate chapter on ‘Lord Byron’s Love of
Truth.’

In the matter of his relations with women, she complacently repeats (what sounds rather oddly as coming from
her) Lord Byron’s own assurance, that he never seduced a woman; and also the equally convincing
statement, that he had told her (the Guiccioli) that his married fidelity to his wife was perfect. She discusses
Moore’s account of the mistress in boy’s clothes who used to share Byron’s apartments
in college, and ride with him to races, and whom he presented to ladies as his brother.

She has her own view of this matter. The disguised boy was a lady of rank and fashion, who sought Lord
Byron’s chambers, as, we are informed, noble ladies everywhere, both in Italy and England, were
constantly in the habit of doing; throwing themselves at his feet, and imploring permission to become his
handmaids.

In the authoress’s own words, ‘Feminine overtures still continued to be made to Lord Byron;
but the fumes of incense never hid from his sight his IDEAL.’ We are told that in the case of these
poor ladies, generally ‘disenchantment took place on his side without a corresponding result on the
other: THENCE many heart-breakings.’ Nevertheless, we are informed that there followed the
indiscretions of these ladies ‘none of those proceedings that the world readily forgives, but which his
feelings as a man of honour would have condemned.’

As to drunkenness, and all that, we are informed he was an anchorite. Pages are given to an account of the
biscuits and soda-water that on this and that occasion were found to be the sole means of sustenance to this
ethereal creature.

As to the story of using his wife’s money, the lady gives, directly in the face of his own Letters and
Journal, the same account given before by Medwin, and which caused such merriment when talked over in the
Noctes Club,—that he had with her only a marriage portion of £10,000; and that, on the separation, he
not only paid it back, but doubled it. {119}

So on the authoress goes, sowing right and left the most transparent absurdities and misstatements with what
Carlyle well calls ‘a composed stupidity, and a cheerful infinitude of ignorance.’ Who should
know, if not she, to be sure? Had not Byron told her all about it? and was not his family motto Crede Byron?

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The ‘Blackwood,’ having a dim suspicion that this confused style of attack and defence in
reference to the two parties under consideration may not have great weight, itself proceeds to make the book
an occasion for re-opening the controversy of Lord Byron with his wife.

The rest of the review devoted to a powerful attack on Lady Byron’s character, the most fearful attack
on the memory of a dead woman we have ever seen made by living man. The author proceeds, like a lawyer,
to gather up, arrange, and restate, in a most workmanlike manner, the confused accusations of the book.

Anticipating the objection, that such a re-opening of the inquiry was a violation of the privacy due to
womanhood and to the feelings of a surviving family, he says, that though marriage usually is a private matter
which the world has no right to intermeddle with or discuss, yet—

‘Lord Byron’s was an exceptional case. It is not too much to say, that, had his
marriage been a happy one, the course of events of the present century might have been
materially changed; that the genius which poured itself forth in “Don Juan” and
“Cain” might have flowed in far different channels; that the ardent love of
freedom which sent him to perish at six and thirty at Missolonghi might have inspired a long
career at home; and that we might at this moment have been appealing to the counsels of his
experience and wisdom at an age not exceeding that which was attained by Wellington,
Lyndhurst, and Brougham.

‘Whether the world would have been a gainer or a loser by the exchange is a question
which every man must answer for himself, according to his own tastes and opinions; but the
possibility of such a change in the course of events warrants us in treating what would
otherwise be a strictly private matter as one of public interest.

‘More than half a century has elapsed, the actors have departed from the stage, the
curtain has fallen; and whether it will ever again be raised so as to reveal the real facts of the
drama, may, as we have already observed, be well doubted. But the time has arrived when
we may fairly gather up the fragments of evidence, clear them as far as possible from the
incrustations of passion, prejudice, and malice, and place them in such order, as, if possible,
to enable us to arrive at some probable conjecture as to what the skeleton of the drama
originally was.’

Here the writer proceeds to put together all the facts of Lady Byron’s case, just as an adverse lawyer
would put them as against her, and for her husband. The plea is made vigorously and ably, and with an air of
indignant severity, as of an honest advocate who is thoroughly convinced that he is pleading the cause of a
wronged man who has been ruined in name, shipwrecked in life, and driven to an early grave, by the arts of a
bad woman,—a woman all the more horrible that her malice was disguised under the cloak of religion.

Having made an able statement of facts, adroitly leaving out ONE, {121} of which he could not have been
ignorant had he studied the case carefully enough to know all the others, he proceeds to sum up against the
criminal thus:—

‘We would deal tenderly with the memory of Lady Byron. Few women have been
juster objects of compassion. It would seem as if Nature and Fortune had vied with each
other which should be most lavish of her gifts, and yet that some malignant power had
rendered all their bounty of no effect. Rank, beauty, wealth, and mental powers of no
common order, were hers; yet they were of no avail to secure common happiness. The spoilt
child of seclusion, restraint, and parental idolatry, a fate (alike evil for both) cast her into the
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suffered, we may never know; but those which she inflicted are sufficiently apparent.

‘It is said that there are some poisons so subtle that they will destroy life, and yet leave
no trace of their action. The murderer who uses them may escape the vengeance of the law;
but he is not the less guilty. So the slanderer who makes no charge; who deals in hints and
insinuations: who knows melancholy facts he would not willingly divulge,—things too
painful to state; who forbears, expresses pity, sometimes even affection, for his victim, shrugs
his shoulders, looks with

“The significant eye,

Which learns to lie with silence,—”

is far more guilty than he who tells the bold falsehood which may be met and answered, and
who braves the punishment which must follow upon detection.

‘Lady Byron has been called

“The moral Clytemnestra of her lord.”

The “moral Brinvilliers” would have been a truer designation.

‘The conclusion at which we arrive is, that there is no proof whatever that Lord Byron
was guilty of any act that need have caused a separation, or prevented a re-union, and that the
imputations upon him rest on the vaguest conjecture; that whatever real or fancied wrongs
Lady Byron may have endured are shrouded in an impenetrable mist of her own
creation,—a poisonous miasma in which she enveloped the character of her husband,
raised by her breath, and which her breath only could have dispersed.

“She dies and makes no sign. O God! forgive her.”’

As we have been obliged to review accusations on Lady Byron founded on old Greek tragedy, so now we are
forced to abridge a passage from a modern conversations-lexicon, that we may understand what sort of
comparisons are deemed in good taste in a conservative English review, when speaking of ladies of rank in
their graves.

Under the article ‘Brinvilliers,’ we find as follows:—

MARGUERITE D’AUBRAI, MARCHIONESS OF BRINVILLIERS.—The

singular atrocity of this woman gives her a sort of infamous claim to notice. She was born in
Paris in 1651; being daughter of D’Aubrai, lieutenant-civil of Paris, who married her
to the Marquis of Brinvilliers. Although possessed of attractions to captivate lovers, she was
for some time much attached to her husband, but at length became madly in love with a
Gascon officer. Her father imprisoned the officer in the Bastille; and, while there, he learned
the art of compounding subtle and most mortal poisons; and, when he was released, he taught
it to the lady, who exercised it with such success, that, in one year, her father, sister, and two
brothers became her victims. She professed the utmost tenderness for her victims, and nursed
them assiduously. On her father she is said to have made eight attempts before she
succeeded. She was very religious, and devoted to works of charity; and visited the hospitals
a great deal, where it is said she tried her poisons on the sick.’

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People have made loud outcries lately, both in America and England, about violating the repose of the dead.
We should like to know what they call this. Is this, then, what they mean by respecting the dead?

Let any man imagine a leading review coming out with language equally brutal about his own mother, or any
dear and revered friend.

Men of America, men of England, what do you think of this?

When Lady Byron was publicly branded with the names of the foulest ancient and foulest modern assassins,
and Lord Byron’s mistress was publicly taken by the hand, and encouraged to go on and prosper in her
slanders, by one of the oldest and most influential British reviews, what was said and what was done in
England?

That is a question we should be glad to have answered. Nothing was done that ever reached us across the
water.

And why was nothing done? Is this language of a kind to be passed over in silence?

Was it no offence to the house of Wentworth to attack the pure character of its late venerable head, and to
brand her in her sacred grave with the name of one of the vilest of criminals?

Might there not properly have been an indignant protest of family solicitors against this insult to the person
and character of the Baroness Wentworth?

If virtue went for nothing, benevolence for nothing, a long life of service to humanity for nothing, one would
at least have thought, that, in aristocratic countries, rank might have had its rights to decent consideration, and
its guardians to rebuke the violation of those rights.

We Americans understand little of the advantages of rank; but we did understand that it secured certain
decorums to people, both while living and when in their graves. From Lady Byron’s whole history, in
life and in death, it would appear that we were mistaken.

What a life was hers! Was ever a woman more evidently desirous of the delicate and secluded privileges of
womanhood, of the sacredness of individual privacy? Was ever a woman so rudely dragged forth, and
exposed to the hardened, vulgar, and unfeeling gaze of mere curiosity?—her maiden secrets of love
thrown open to be handled by roués; the sanctities of her marriage-chamber desecrated by leering satyrs; her
parents and best friends traduced and slandered, till one indignant public protest was extorted from her, as by
the rack,—a protest which seems yet to quiver in every word with the indignation of outraged womanly
delicacy!

Then followed coarse blame and coarser comment,—blame for speaking at all, and blame for not
speaking more. One manly voice, raised for her in honourable protest, was silenced and overborne by the
universal roar of ridicule and reprobation; and henceforth what refuge? Only this remained: ‘Let them
that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him as to a faithful
Creator.’

Lady Byron turned to this refuge in silence, and filled up her life with a noble record of charities and
humanities. So pure was she, so childlike, so artless, so loving, that those who knew her best, feel, to this day,
that a memorial of her is like the relic of a saint. And could not all this preserve her grave from insult? O
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I speak in sorrow of heart to those who must have known, loved, and revered Lady Byron, and ask them, Of
what were you thinking when you allowed a paper of so established literary rank as the
‘Blackwood,’ to present and earnestly recommend to our New World such a compendium of
lies as the Guiccioli book?

Is the great English-speaking community, whose waves toss from Maine to California, and whose literature is
yet to come back in a thousand voices to you, a thing to be so despised?

If, as the solicitors of the Wentworth family observe, you might be entitled to treat with silent contempt the
slanders of a mistress against a wife, was it safe to treat with equal contempt the indorsement and
recommendation of those slanders by one of your oldest and most powerful literary authorities?

No European magazine has ever had the weight and circulation in America that the
‘Blackwood’ has held. In the days of my youth, when New England was a comparatively
secluded section of the earth, the wit and genius of the ‘Noctes Ambrosianae’ were in the
mouths of men and maidens, even in our most quiet mountain-towns. There, years ago, we saw all Lady
Byron’s private affairs discussed, and felt the weight of Christopher North’s decisions against
her. Shelton Mackenzie, in his American edition, speaks of the American circulation of
‘Blackwood’ being greater than that in England. {126} It was and is now reprinted monthly;
and, besides that, ‘Littell’s Magazine’ reproduces all its striking articles, and they come
with the weight of long established position. From the very fact that it has long been considered the Tory
organ, and the supporter of aristocratic orders, all its admissions against the character of individuals in the
privileged classes have a double force.

When ‘Blackwood,’ therefore, boldly denounces a lady of high rank as a modern Brinvilliers,
and no sensation is produced, and no remonstrance follows, what can people in the New World suppose, but
that Lady Byron’s character was a point entirely given up; that her depravity was so well established
and so fully conceded, that nothing was to be said, and that even the defenders of aristocracy were forced to
admit it?

I have been blamed for speaking on this subject without consulting Lady Byron’s friends, trustees, and
family. More than ten years had elapsed since I had had any intercourse with England, and I knew none of
them. How was I to know that any of them were living? I was astonished to learn, for the first time, by the
solicitors’ letters, that there were trustees, who held in their hands all Lady Byron’s carefully
prepared proofs and documents, by which this falsehood might immediately have been refuted.

If they had spoken, they might have saved all this confusion. Even if bound by restrictions for a certain period
of time, they still might have called on a Christian public to frown down such a cruel and indecent attack on
the character of a noble lady who had been a benefactress to so many in England. They might have stated that
the means of wholly refuting the slanders of the ‘Blackwood’ were in their hands, and only
delayed in coming forth from regard to the feelings of some in this generation. Then might they not have
announced her Life and Letters, that the public might have the same opportunity as themselves for knowing
and judging Lady Byron by her own writings?

Had this been done, I had been most happy to have remained silent. I have been astonished that any one
should have supposed this speaking on my part to be anything less than it is,—the severest act of
self-sacrifice that one friend can perform for another, and the most solemn and difficult tribute to justice that a
human being can be called upon to render.

I have been informed that the course I have taken would be contrary to the wishes of my friend. I think
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to the public but an attack upon the honour of the dead. In her statement, she says of her parents,
‘There is no other near relative to vindicate their memory from insult: I am therefore compelled to
break the silence I had hoped always to have observed.’

If there was any near relative to vindicate Lady Byron’s memory, I had no evidence of the fact; and I
considered the utter silence to be strong evidence to the contrary. In all the storm of obloquy and rebuke that
has raged in consequence of my speaking, I have had two unspeakable sources of joy; first, that they could not
touch her; and, second, that they could not blind the all-seeing God. It is worth being in darkness to see the
stars.

It has been said that I have drawn on Lady Byron’s name greater obloquy than ever before. I deny the
charge. Nothing fouler has been asserted of her than the charges in the ‘Blackwood,’ because
nothing fouler could be asserted. No satyr’s hoof has ever crushed this pearl deeper in the mire than
the hoof of the ‘Blackwood,’ but none of them have defiled it or trodden it so deep that God
cannot find it in the day ‘when he maketh up his jewels.’

I have another word, as an American, to say about the contempt shown to our great people in thus suffering
the materials of history to be falsified to subserve the temporary purposes of family feeling in England.

Lord Byron belongs not properly either to the Byrons or the Wentworths. He is not one of their family jewels
to be locked up in their cases. He belongs to the world for which he wrote, to which he appealed, and before
which he dragged his reluctant, delicate wife to a publicity equal with his own: the world has, therefore, a
right to judge him.

We Americans have been made accessories, after the fact, to every insult and injury that Lord Byron and the
literary men of his day have heaped upon Lady Byron. We have been betrayed into injustice and a complicity
with villainy. After Lady Byron had nobly lived down slanders in England, and died full of years and
honours, the ‘Blackwood’ takes occasion to re-open the controversy by recommending a book
full of slanders to a rising generation who knew nothing of the past. What was the consequence in America?
My attention was first called to the result, not by reading the ‘Blackwood’ article, but by
finding in a popular monthly magazine two long articles,—the one an enthusiastic recommendation of
the Guiccioli book, and the other a lamentation over the burning of the Autobiography as a lost chapter in
history.

Both articles represented Lady Byron as a cold, malignant, mean, persecuting woman, who had been her
husband’s ruin. They were so full of falsehoods and misstatements as to astonish me. Not long after,
a literary friend wrote to me, ‘Will you, can you, reconcile it to your conscience to sit still and allow
that mistress so to slander that wife,—you, perhaps, the only one knowing the real facts, and able to set
them forth?’

Upon this, I immediately began collecting and reading the various articles and the book, and perceived that
the public of this generation were in a way of having false history created, uncontradicted, under their own
eyes.

I claim for my countrymen and women, our right to true history. For years, the popular literature has held up
publicly before our eyes the facts as to this man and this woman, and called on us to praise or condemn. Let
us have truth when we are called on to judge. It is our right.

There is no conceivable obligation on a human being greater than that of absolute justice. It is the deepest
personal injury to an honourable mind to be made, through misrepresentation, an accomplice in injustice.
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is guilty of a sin against human nature and the inalienable rights of justice. I claim that I have not only a right,
but an obligation, to bring in my solemn testimony upon this subject.

For years and years, the silence-policy has been tried; and what has it brought forth? As neither word nor
deed could be proved against Lady Byron, her silence has been spoken of as a monstrous, unnatural crime,
‘a poisonous miasma,’ in which she enveloped the name of her husband.

Very well; since silence is the crime, I thought I would tell the world that Lady Byron had spoken.

Christopher North, years ago, when he condemned her for speaking, said that she should speak
further,—

‘She should speak, or some one for her. One word would suffice.’

That one word has been spoken.

PART II.

CHAPTER I. LADY BYRON AS I KNEW HER.

An editorial in The London Times’ of Sept. 18 says:—

‘The perplexing feature in this “True Story” is, that it is impossible to

distinguish what part in it is the editress’s, and what Lady Byron’s own. We
are given the impression made on Mrs. Stowe’s mind by Lady Byron’s
statements; but it would have been more satisfactory if the statement itself had been
reproduced as bare as possible, and been left to make its own impression on the
public.’

In reply to this, I will say, that in my article I gave a brief synopsis of the subject-matter of Lady
Byron’s communications; and I think it must be quite evident to the world that the main fact on which
the story turns was one which could not possibly be misunderstood, and the remembrance of which no lapse
of time could ever weaken.

Lady Byron’s communications were made to me in language clear, precise, terrible; and many of her
phrases and sentences I could repeat at this day, word for word. But if I had reproduced them at first, as
‘The Times’ suggests, word for word, the public horror and incredulity would have been
doubled. It was necessary that the brutality of the story should, in some degree, be veiled and softened.

The publication, by Lord Lindsay, of Lady Anne Barnard’s communication, makes it now possible to
tell fully, and in Lady Byron’s own words, certain incidents that yet remain untold. To me, who know
the whole history, the revelations in Lady Anne’s account, and the story related by Lady Byron, are
like fragments of a dissected map: they fit together, piece by piece, and form one connected whole.

In confirmation of the general facts of this interview, I have the testimony of a sister who accompanied me on
this visit, and to whom, immediately after it, I recounted the story.

Her testimony on the subject is as follows:—

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‘MY DEAR SISTER,—I have a perfect recollection of going with you to visit
Lady Byron at the time spoken of in your published article. We arrived at her house in the
morning; and, after lunch, Lady Byron and yourself spent the whole time till evening alone
together.

‘After we retired to our apartment that night, you related to me the story given in your
published account, though with many more particulars than you have yet thought fit to give to
the public.

‘You stated to me that Lady Byron was strongly impressed with the idea that it might
be her duty to publish a statement during her lifetime, and also the reasons which induced her
to think so. You appeared at that time quite disposed to think that justice required this step,
and asked my opinion. We passed most of the night in conversation on the subject,—a
conversation often resumed, from time to time, during several weeks in which you were
considering what opinion to give.

‘I was strongly of opinion that justice required the publication of the truth, but felt
exceedingly averse to its being done by Lady Byron herself during her own lifetime, when
she personally would be subject to the comments and misconceptions of motives which
would certainly follow such a communication.

‘Your sister,

‘M. F. PERKINS.’

I am now about to complete the account of my conversation with Lady Byron; but as the credibility of a
history depends greatly on the character of its narrator, and as especial pains have been taken to destroy the
belief in this story by representing it to be the wanderings of a broken-down mind in a state of dotage and
mental hallucination, I shall preface the narrative with some account of Lady Byron as she was during the
time of our mutual acquaintance and friendship.

This account may, perhaps, be deemed superfluous in England, where so many knew her; but in America,
where, from Maine to California, her character has been discussed and traduced, it is of importance to give
interested thousands an opportunity of learning what kind of a woman Lady Byron was.

Her character as given by Lord Byron in his Journal, after her first refusal of him, is this:—

‘She is a very superior woman, and very little spoiled; which is strange in an heiress, a
girl of twenty, a peeress that is to be in her own right, an only child, and a savante, who has
always had her own way. She is a poetess, a mathematician, a metaphysician; yet, withal,
very kind, generous, and gentle, with very little pretension. Any other head would be turned
with half her acquisitions and a tenth of her advantages.’

Such was Lady Byron at twenty. I formed her acquaintance in the year 1853, during my first visit in
England. I met her at a lunch-party in the house of one of her friends.

The party had many notables; but, among them all, my attention was fixed principally on Lady Byron. She
was at this time sixty-one years of age, but still had, to a remarkable degree, that personal attraction which is
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Her form was slight, giving an impression of fragility; her motions were both graceful and decided; her eyes
bright, and full of interest and quick observation. Her silvery-white hair seemed to lend a grace to the
transparent purity of her complexion, and her small hands had a pearly whiteness. I recollect she wore a plain
widow’s cap of a transparent material; and was dressed in some delicate shade of lavender, which
harmonised well with her complexion.

When I was introduced to her, I felt in a moment the words of her husband:—

‘There was awe in the homage that she drew;

Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne.’

Calm, self-poised, and thoughtful, she seemed to me rather to resemble an interested spectator of the
world’s affairs, than an actor involved in its trials; yet the sweetness of her smile, and a certain very
delicate sense of humour in her remarks, made the way of acquaintance easy.

Her first remarks were a little playful; but in a few moments we were speaking on what every one in those
days was talking to me about,—the slavery question in America.

It need not be remarked, that, when any one subject especially occupies the public mind, those known to be
interested in it are compelled to listen to many weary platitudes. Lady Byron’s remarks, however,
caught my ear and arrested my attention by their peculiar incisive quality, their originality, and the evidence
they gave that she was as well informed on all our matters as the best American statesman could be. I had no
wearisome course to go over with her as to the difference between the General Government and State
Governments, nor explanations of the United States Constitution; for she had the whole before her mind with
a perfect clearness. Her morality upon the slavery question, too, impressed me as something far higher and
deeper than the common sentimentalism of the day. Many of her words surprised me greatly, and gave me
new material for thought.

I found I was in company with a commanding mind, and hastened to gain instruction from her on another
point where my interest had been aroused. I had recently been much excited by Kingsley’s novels,
‘Alton Locke’ and ‘Yeast,’ on the position of religious thought in England.
From these works I had gathered, that under the apparent placid uniformity of the Established Church of
England, and of ‘good society’ as founded on it, there was moving a secret current of
speculative enquiry, doubt, and dissent; but I had met, as yet, with no person among my various acquaintances
in England who seemed either aware of this fact, or able to guide my mind respecting it. The moment I
mentioned the subject to Lady Byron, I received an answer which showed me that the whole ground was
familiar to her, and that she was capable of giving me full information. She had studied with careful
thoughtfulness all the social and religious tendencies of England during her generation. One of her remarks
has often since occurred to me. Speaking of the Oxford movement, she said the time had come when the
English Church could no longer remain as it was. It must either restore the past, or create a future. The
Oxford movement attempted the former; and of the future she was beginning to speak, when our conversation
was interrupted by the presentation of other parties.

Subsequently, in reply to a note from her on some benevolent business, I alluded to that conversation, and
expressed a wish that she would finish giving me her views of the religious state of England. A portion of the
letter that she wrote me in reply I insert, as being very characteristic in many respects:—

‘Various causes have been assigned for the decaying state of the English Church;
which seems the more strange, because the clergy have improved, morally and intellectually,
in the last twenty years. Then why should their influence be diminished? I think it is owing
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‘Doubts have arisen in the minds of many who are unhappily bound by subscription
not to doubt; and, in consequence, they are habitually pretending either to believe or to
disbelieve. The state of Denmark cannot but be rotten, when to seem is the first object of the
witnesses of truth.

‘They may lead better lives, and bring forward abler arguments; but their efforts are
paralysed by that unsoundness. I see the High Churchman professing to believe in the
existence of a church, when the most palpable facts must show him that no such church
exists; the “Low” Churchman professing to believe in exceptional
interpositions which his philosophy secretly questions; the “Broad” Churchman
professing as absolute an attachment to the Established Church as the narrowest could feel,
while he is preaching such principles as will at last pull it down.

‘I ask you, my friend, whether there would not be more faith, as well as earnestness, if
all would speak out. There would be more unanimity too, because they would all agree in a
certain basis. Would not a wider love supersede the creed-bound charity of sects?

‘I am aware that I have touched on a point of difference between us, and I will not
regret it; for I think the differences of mind are analogous to those differences of nature,
which, in the most comprehensive survey, are the very elements of harmony.

‘I am not at all prone to put forth my own opinions; but the tone in which you have
written to me claims an unusual degree of openness on my part. I look upon creeds of all
kinds as chains,—far worse chains than those you would break,—as the causes
of much hypocrisy and infidelity. I hold it to be a sin to make a child say, “I
believe.” Lead it to utter that belief spontaneously. I also consider the institution of
an exclusive priesthood, though having been of service in some respects, as retarding the
progress of Christianity at present. I desire to see a lay ministry.

‘I will not give you more of my heterodoxy at present: perhaps I need your pardon,
connected as you are with the Church, for having said so much.

‘There are causes of decay known to be at work in my frame, which lead me to believe
I may not have time to grow wiser; and I must therefore leave it to others to correct the
conclusions I have now formed from my life’s experience. I should feel happy to
discuss them personally with you; for it would be soul to soul. In that confidence I am yours
most truly,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

It is not necessary to prove to the reader that this letter is not in the style of a broken-down old woman subject
to mental hallucinations. It shows Lady Byron’s habits of clear, searching analysis, her
thoughtfulness, and, above all, that peculiar reverence for truth and sincerity which was a leading
characteristic of her moral nature. {139} It also shows her views of the probable shortness of her stay on
earth, derived from the opinion of physicians about her disease, which was a gradual ossification of the lungs.
It has been asserted that pulmonary diseases, while they slowly and surely sap the physical life, often appear
to give added vigour to the play of the moral and intellectual powers.

I parted from Lady Byron, feeling richer in that I had found one more pearl of great price on the shore of life.

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Three years after this, I visited England to obtain a copyright for the issue of my novel of
‘Dred.’

The hope of once more seeing Lady Byron was one of the brightest anticipations held out to me in this
journey. I found London quite deserted; but, hearing that Lady Byron was still in town, I sent to her, saying in
my note, that, in case she was not well enough to call, I would visit her. Her reply I give:—

‘MY DEAR FRIEND,—I will be indebted to you for our meeting, as I am

barely able to leave my room. It is not a time for small personalities, if they could ever exist
with you; and, dressed or undressed, I shall hope to see you after two o’clock.

‘Yours very truly,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

I found Lady Byron in her sick-room,—that place which she made so different from the chamber of
ordinary invalids. Her sick-room seemed only a telegraphic station whence her vivid mind was flashing out
all over the world.

By her bedside stood a table covered with books, pamphlets, and files of letters, all arranged with exquisite
order, and each expressing some of her varied interests. From that sick-bed she still directed, with systematic
care, her various works of benevolence, and watched with intelligent attention the course of science, literature,
and religion; and the versatility and activity of her mind, the flow of brilliant and penetrating thought on all
the topics of the day, gave to the conversations of her retired room a peculiar charm. You forgot that she was
an invalid; for she rarely had a word of her own personalities, and the charm of her conversation carried you
invariably from herself to the subjects of which she was thinking. All the new books, the literature of the
hour, were lighted up by her keen, searching, yet always kindly criticism; and it was charming to get her fresh,
genuine, clear-cut modes of expression, so different from the world-worn phrases of what is called good
society. Her opinions were always perfectly clear and positive, and given with the freedom of one who has
long stood in a position to judge the world and its ways from her own standpoint. But it was not merely in
general literature and science that her heart lay; it was following always with eager interest the progress of
humanity over the whole world.

This was the period of the great battle for liberty in Kansas. The English papers were daily filled with the
thrilling particulars of that desperate struggle, and Lady Byron entered with heart and soul into it.

Her first letter to me, at this time, is on this subject. It was while ‘Dred’ was going through the
press.

‘CAMBRIDGE TERRACE, Aug. 15.

‘MY DEAR MRS. STOWE,—Messrs. Chambers liked the proposal to publish

the Kansas Letters. The more the public know of these matters, the better prepared they will
be for your book. The moment for its publication seems well chosen. There is always in
England a floating fund of sympathy for what is above the everyday sordid cares of life; and
these better feelings, so nobly invested for the last two years in Florence Nightingale’s
career, are just set free. To what will they next be attached? If you can lay hold of them, they
may bring about a deeper abolition than any legislative one,—the abolition of the
heart-heresy that man’s worth comes, not from God, but from man.

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‘I have been obliged to give up exertion again, but hope soon to be able to call and
make the acquaintance of your daughters. In case you wish to consult H. Martineau’s
pamphlets, I send more copies. Do not think of answering: I have occupied too much of your
time in reading.

‘Yours affectionately,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

As soon as a copy of ‘Dred’ was through the press, I sent it to her, saying that I had been
reproved by some excellent people for representing too faithfully the profane language of some of the wicked
characters. To this she sent the following reply:—

‘Your book, dear Mrs. Stowe, is of the little leaven kind, and must prove a great moral
force; perhaps not manifestly so much as secretly. And yet I can hardly conceive so much
power without immediate and sensible effects: only there will be a strong disposition to resist
on the part of all hollow-hearted professors of religion, whose heathenisms you so
unsparingly expose. They have a class feeling like others.

‘To the young, and to those who do not reflect much on what is offered to their belief,
you will do great good by showing how spiritual food is often adulterated. The bread from
heaven is in the same case as bakers’ bread.

‘If there is truth in what I heard Lord Byron say, that works of fiction live only by the
amount of truth which they contain, your story is sure of a long life. Of the few critiques I
have seen, the best is in “The Examiner.” I find an obtuseness as to the spirit
and aim of the book, as if you had designed to make the best novel of the season, or to keep
up the reputation of one. You are reproached, as Walter Scott was, with too much scriptural
quotation; not, that I have heard, with phrases of an opposite character.

‘The effects of such reading till a late hour one evening appeared to influence me very
singularly in a dream. The most horrible spectres presented themselves, and I woke in an
agony of fear; but a faith still stronger arose, and I became courageous from trust in God, and
felt calm. Did you do this? It is very insignificant among the many things you certainly will
do unknown to yourself. I know more than ever before how to value communion with you. I
have sent Robertson’s Sermons for you; and, with kind regards to your family, am

‘Yours affectionately,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

I was struck in this note with the mention of Lord Byron, and, the next time I saw her, alluded to it, and
remarked upon the peculiar qualities of his mind as shown in some of his more serious conversations with Dr.
Kennedy.

She seemed pleased to continue the subject, and went on to say many things of his singular character and
genius, more penetrating and more appreciative than is often met with among critics.

I told her that I had been from childhood powerfully influenced by him; and began to tell her how much, as a
child, I had been affected by the news of his death,—giving up all my plays, and going off to a lonely
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quick, impulsive movement. ‘I know all that,’ she said: ‘I heard it all from Mrs. ---; and
it was one of the things that made me wish to know you. I think you could understand him.’ We
talked for some time of him then; she, with her pale face slightly flushed, speaking, as any other great
man’s widow might, only of what was purest and best in his works, and what were his undeniable
virtues and good traits, especially in early life. She told me many pleasant little speeches made by him to
herself; and, though there was running through all this a shade of melancholy, one could never have
conjectured that there were under all any deeper recollections than the circumstances of an ordinary separation
might bring.

Not many days after, with the unselfishness which was so marked a trait with her, she chose a day when she
could be out of her room, and invited our family party, consisting of my husband, sister, and children, to lunch
with her.

What showed itself especially in this interview was her tenderness for all young people. She had often
enquired after mine; asked about their characters, habits, and tastes; and on this occasion she found an
opportunity to talk with each one separately, and to make them all feel at ease, so that they were able to talk
with her. She seemed interested to point out to them what they should see and study in London; and the
charm of her conversation left on their minds an impression that subsequent years have never effaced. I
record this incident, because it shows how little Lady Byron assumed the privileges or had the character of an
invalid absorbed in herself, and likely to brood over her own woes and wrongs.

Here was a family of strangers stranded in a dull season in London, and there was no manner of obligation
upon her to exert herself to show them attention. Her state of health would have been an all-sufficient reason
why she should not do it; and her doing it was simply a specimen of that unselfish care for others, even down
to the least detail, of which her life was full.

A little while after, at her request, I went, with my husband and son, to pass an evening at her house.

There were a few persons present whom she thought I should be interested to know,—a Miss
Goldsmid, daughter of Baron Goldsmid, and Lord Ockham, her grandson, eldest son and heir of the Earl of
Lovelace, to whom she introduced my son.

I had heard much of the eccentricities of this young nobleman, and was exceedingly struck with his personal
appearance. His bodily frame was of the order of the Farnese Hercules,—a wonderful development of
physical and muscular strength. His hands were those of a blacksmith. He was broadly and squarely made,
with a finely-shaped head, and dark eyes of surpassing brilliancy. I have seldom seen a more interesting
combination than his whole appearance presented.

When all were engaged in talking, Lady Byron came and sat down by me, and glancing across to Lord
Ockham and my son, who were talking together, she looked at me, and smiled. I immediately expressed my
admiration of his fine eyes and the intellectual expression of his countenance, and my wonder at the
uncommon muscular development of his frame.

She said that that of itself would account for many of Ockham’s eccentricities. He had a body that
required a more vigorous animal life than his station gave scope for, and this had often led him to seek it in
what the world calls low society; that he had been to sea as a sailor, and was now working as a mechanic on
the iron work of ‘The Great Eastern.’ He had laid aside his title, and went in daily with the
other workmen, requesting them to call him simply Ockham.

I said that there was something to my mind very fine about this, even though it might show some want of
proper balance.

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She said he had noble traits, and that she felt assured he would yet accomplish something worthy of himself.
‘The great difficulty with our nobility is apt to be, that they do not understand the working-classes, so
as to feel for them properly; and Ockham is now going through an experience which may yet fit him to do
great good when he comes to the peerage. I am trying to influence him to do good among the workmen, and
to interest himself in schools for their children. I think,’ she added, ‘I have great influence over
Ockham,—the greater, perhaps, that I never make any claim to authority.’

This conversation is very characteristic of Lady Byron as showing her benevolent analysis of character, and
the peculiar hopefulness she always had in regard to the future of every one brought in connection with her.
Her moral hopefulness was something very singular; and in this respect she was so different from the rest of
the world, that it would be difficult to make her understood. Her tolerance of wrong-doing would have
seemed to many quite latitudinarian, and impressed them as if she had lost all just horror of what was morally
wrong in transgression; but it seemed her fixed habit to see faults only as diseases and immaturities, and to
expect them to fall away with time.

She saw the germs of good in what others regarded as only evil. She expected valuable results to come from
what the world looked on only as eccentricities; {147} and she incessantly devoted herself to the task of
guarding those whom the world condemned, and guiding them to those higher results of which she often
thought that even their faults were prophetic.

Before I quit this sketch of Lady Byron as I knew her, I will give one more of her letters. My return from that
visit in Europe was met by the sudden death of the son mentioned in the foregoing account. At the time of
this sorrow, Lady Byron was too unwell to write to me. The letter given alludes to this event, and speaks also
of two coloured persons of remarkable talent, in whose career in England she had taken a deep interest. One
of them is the ‘friend’ she speaks of.

‘LONDON, Feb. 6, 1859.

DEAR MRS. STOWE,—I seem to feel our friend as a bridge, over which our broken
outward communication can be renewed without effort. Why broken? The words I would
have uttered at one time were like drops of blood from my heart. Now I sympathise with the
calmness you have gained, and can speak of your loss as I do of my own. Loss and
restoration are more and more linked in my mind, but “to the present live.” As
long as they are in God’s world they are in ours. I ask no other consolation.

‘Mrs. W---’s recovery has astonished me, and her husband’s prospects
give me great satisfaction. They have achieved a benefit to their coloured people. She had a
mission which her burning soul has worked out, almost in defiance of death. But who is
“called” without being “crucified,” man or woman? I know of
none.

‘I fear that H. Martineau was too sanguine in her persuasion that the slave power had
received a serious check from the ruin of so many of your Mammon-worshippers. With the
return of commercial facilities, that article of commerce will again find purchasers enough to
raise its value. Not that way is the iniquity to be overthrown. A deeper moral earthquake is
needed. {148} We English had ours in India; and though the cases are far from being alike,
yet a consciousness of what we ought to have been and ought to be toward the natives could
not have been awakened by less than the reddened waters of the Ganges. So I fear you will
have to look on a day of judgment worse than has been painted.

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‘As to all the frauds and impositions which have been disclosed by the failures, what a
want of the sense of personal responsibility they show. It seems to be thought that
“association” will “cover a multitude of sins;” as if “and
Co.” could enter heaven. A firm may be described as a partnership for lowering the
standard of morals. Even ecclesiastical bodies are not free from the “and Co.;”
very different from “the goodly fellowship of the apostles.”

‘The better class of young gentlemen in England are seized with a mediaeval mania, to
which Ruskin has contributed much. The chief reason for regretting it is that taste is made to
supersede benevolence. The money that would save thousands from perishing or suffering
must be applied to raise the Gothic edifice where their last prayer may be uttered. Charity
may be dead, while Art has glorified her. This is worse than Catholicism, which cultivates
heart and eye together. The first cathedral was Truth, at the beginning of the fourth century,
just as Christianity was exchanging a heavenly for an earthly crown. True religion may have
to cast away the symbol for the spirit before “the kingdom” can come.

‘While I am speculating to little purpose, perhaps you are doing—what? Might

not a biography from your pen bring forth again some great, half-obscured soul to act on the
world? Even Sir Philip Sidney ought to be superseded by a still nobler type.

‘This must go immediately, to be in time for the bearer, of whose meeting with you I
shall think as the friend of both. May it be happy!

‘Your affectionate

‘A. I. N. B.’

One letter more from Lady Byron I give,—the last I received from her:—

LONDON, May 3, 1859.

DEAR FRIEND,—I have found, particularly as to yourself, that, if I did not answer
from the first impulse, all had evaporated. Your letter came by ‘The Niagara,’
which brought Fanny Kemble to learn the loss of her best friend, the Miss F---- whom you
saw at my house.

‘Her death, after an illness in which she was to the last a minister of good to others, is
a soul-loss to me also; and your remarks are most appropriate to my feelings. I have been
taught, however, to accept survivorship; even to feel it, in some cases, Heaven’s best
blessing.

‘I have an intense interest in your new novel. {149} More power in these few
numbers than in any of your former writings, relating, at least, to my own mind. It would
amuse you to hear my granddaughter and myself attempting to foresee the future of the
love-story; being, for the moment, quite persuaded that James is at sea, and the minister about
to ruin himself. We think that Mary will labour to be in love with the self-devoted man,
under her mother’s influence, and from that hyper-conscientiousness so common with
good girls; but we don’t wish her to succeed. Then what is to become of her older
lover? Time will show.

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‘The lady you desired to introduce to me will be welcomed as of you. She has been
misled with respect to my having any house in Yorkshire (New Leeds). I am in London now
to be of a little use to A----; not ostensibly, for I can neither go out, nor give parties: but I am
the confidential friend to whom she likes to bring her social gatherings, as she can see
something of the world with others. Age and infirmity seem to be overlooked in what she
calls the harmony between us,—not perfect agreement of opinion (which I should
regret, with almost fifty years of difference), but the spirit-union: can you say what it is?

‘I am interrupted by a note from Mrs. K----. She says that she cannot write of our lost
friend yet, though she is less sad than she will be. Mrs. F---- may like to hear of her arrival,
should you be in communication with our friend. She is the type of youth in age.

‘I often converse with Miss S----, a judicious friend of the W----s, about what is likely
to await them. She would not succeed here as well as where she was a novelty. The
character of our climate this year has been injurious to the respiratory organs; but I hope still
to serve them.

‘I have just missed Dale Owen, with whom I wished to have conversed on
spiritualism. {150} Harris is lecturing here on religion. I do not hear him praised.

‘People are looking for helps to believe, everywhere but in life,—in music, in
architecture, in antiquity, in ceremony; and upon all these is written, “Thou shalt not
believe.” At least, if this be faith, happier the unbeliever. I am willing to see through
that materialism; but, if I am to rest there, I would rend the veil.

‘June 1.

‘The day of the packet’s sailing. I shall hope to be visited by you here. The
best flowers sent me have been placed in your little vases, giving life to the remembrance of
you, though not, like them, to pass away.

‘Ever yours,

‘A. I. NOEL BYRON.’

Shortly after, I was in England again, and had one more opportunity of resuming our personal intercourse.
The first time that I called on Lady Byron, I saw her in one of those periods of utter physical exhaustion to
which she was subject on account of the constant pressure of cares beyond her strength. All who knew her
will testify, that, in a state of health which would lead most persons to become helpless absorbents of service
from others, she was assuming burdens, and making outlays of her vital powers in acts of love and service,
with a generosity that often reduced her to utter exhaustion. But none who knew or loved her ever
misinterpreted the coldness of those seasons of exhaustion. We knew that it was not the spirit that was
chilled, but only the frail mortal tabernacle. When I called on her at this time, she could not see me at first;
and when, at last, she came, it was evident that she was in a state of utter prostration. Her hands were like ice;
her face was deadly pale; and she conversed with a restraint and difficulty which showed what exertion it was
for her to keep up at all. I left as soon as possible, with an appointment for another interview. That interview
was my last on earth with her, and is still beautiful in memory. It was a long, still summer afternoon, spent
alone with her in a garden, where we walked together. She was enjoying one of those bright intervals of
freedom from pain and languor, in which her spirits always rose so buoyant and youthful; and her eye
brightened, and her step became elastic.

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One last little incident is cherished as most expressive of her. When it became time for me to leave, she took
me in her carriage to the station. As we were almost there, I missed my gloves, and said, ‘I must have
left them; but there is not time to go back.’

With one of those quick, impulsive motions which were so natural to her in doing a kindness, she drew off her
own and said, ‘Take mine if they will serve you.’

I hesitated a moment; and then the thought, that I might never see her again, came over me, and I said,
‘Oh, yes! thanks.’ That was the last earthly word of love between us. But, thank God, those
who love worthily never meet for the last time: there is always a future.

CHAPTER II. LADY BYRON’S STORY AS TOLD ME.

I now come to the particulars of that most painful interview which has been the cause of all this controversy.
My sister and myself were going from London to Eversley to visit the Rev. C. Kingsley. On our way, we
stopped, by Lady Byron’s invitation, to lunch with her at her summer residence on Ham Common,
near Richmond; and it was then arranged, that on our return, we should make her a short visit, as she said she
had a subject of importance on which she wished to converse with me alone.

On our return from Eversley, we arrived at her house in the morning.

It appeared to be one of Lady Byron’s well days. She was up and dressed, and moved about her house
with her usual air of quiet simplicity; as full of little acts of consideration for all about her as if they were the
habitual invalids, and she the well person.

There were with her two ladies of her most intimate friends, by whom she seemed to be regarded with a sort
of worship. When she left the room for a moment, they looked after her with a singular expression of respect
and affection, and expressed freely their admiration of her character, and their fears that her unselfishness
might be leading her to over-exertion.

After lunch, I retired with Lady Byron; and my sister remained with her friends. I should here remark, that
the chief subject of the conversation which ensued was not entirely new to me. In the interval between my
first and second visits to England, a lady who for many years had enjoyed Lady Byron’s friendship and
confidence, had, with her consent, stated the case generally to me, giving some of the incidents: so that I was
in a manner prepared for what followed.

Those who accuse Lady Byron of being a person fond of talking upon this subject, and apt to make
unconsidered confidences, can have known very little of her, of her reserve, and of the apparent difficulty she
had in speaking on subjects nearest her heart.

Her habitual calmness and composure of manner, her collected dignity on all occasions, are often mentioned
by her husband, sometimes with bitterness, sometimes with admiration. He says, ‘Though I accuse
Lady Byron of an excess of self-respect, I must in candour admit that, if ever a person had excuse for an
extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all her thoughts, words, and deeds, she is the most decorous woman
that ever existed, and must appear, what few I fancy could, a perfectly refined gentlewoman, even to her
femme de chambre.’

This calmness and dignity were never more manifested than in this interview. In recalling the conversation at
this distance of time, I cannot remember all the language used. Some particular words and forms of
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was said.

There was something awful to me in the intensity of repressed emotion which she showed as she proceeded.
The great fact upon which all turned was stated in words that were unmistakable:—

‘He was guilty of incest with his sister!’

She here became so deathly pale, that I feared she would faint; and hastened to say, ‘My dear friend, I
have heard that.’ She asked quickly, ‘From whom?’ and I answered, ‘From Mrs.
----;’ when she replied, ‘Oh, yes!’ as if recollecting herself.

I then asked her some questions; in reply to which she said, ‘I will tell you.’

She then spoke of her first acquaintance with Lord Byron; from which I gathered that she, an only child,
brought up in retirement, and living much within herself, had been, as deep natures often were, intensely
stirred by his poetry; and had felt a deep interest in him personally, as one that had the germs of all that is
glorious and noble.

When she was introduced to him, and perceived his admiration of herself, and at last received his offer,
although deeply moved, she doubted her own power to be to him all that a wife should be. She declined his
offer, therefore, but desired to retain his friendship. After this, as she said, a correspondence ensued, mostly
on moral and literary subjects; and, by this correspondence, her interest in him was constantly increased.

At last, she said, he sent her a very beautiful letter, offering himself again. ‘I thought,’ she
added, ‘that it was sincere, and that I might now show him all I felt. I wrote just what was in my heart.

‘Afterwards,’ she said, ‘I found in one of his journals this notice of my letter: “A
letter from Bell,—never rains but it pours.”’

There was through her habitual calm a shade of womanly indignation as she spoke these words; but it was
gone in a moment. I said, ‘And did he not love you, then?’ She answered, ‘No, my
dear: he did not love me.’

‘Why, then, did he wish to marry you?’ She laid her hand on mine, and said in a low voice,
‘You will see.’

She then told me, that, shortly after the declared engagement, he came to her father’s house to visit her
as an accepted suitor. The visit was to her full of disappointment. His appearance was so strange, moody, and
unaccountable, and his treatment of her so peculiar, that she came to the conclusion that he did not love her,
and sought an opportunity to converse with him alone.

She told him that she saw from his manner that their engagement did not give him pleasure; that she should
never blame him if he wished to dissolve it; that his nature was exceptional; and if, on a nearer view of the
situation, he shrank from it, she would release him, and remain no less than ever his friend.

Upon this, she said, he fainted entirely away.

She stopped a moment, and then, as if speaking with great effort, added, ‘Then I was sure he must love
me.’

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She looked at me very sadly, and said, ‘Fear of detection.’

‘What!’ said I, ‘did that cause then exist?’

‘Yes,’ she said, ‘it did.’ And she explained that she now attributed Lord
Byron’s great agitation to fear, that, in some way, suspicion of the crime had been aroused in her mind,
and that on this account she was seeking to break the engagement. She said, that, from that moment, her
sympathies were aroused for him, to soothe the remorse and anguish which seemed preying on his mind, and
which she then regarded as the sensibility of an unusually exacting moral nature, which judged itself by higher
standards, and condemned itself unsparingly for what most young men of his times regarded as venial faults.
She had every hope for his future, and all the enthusiasm of belief that so many men and women of those
times and ours have had in his intrinsic nobleness. She said the gloom, however, seemed to be even deeper
when he came to the marriage; but she looked at it as the suffering of a peculiar being, to whom she was
called to minister. I said to her, that, even in the days of my childhood, I had heard of something very painful
that had passed as they were in the carriage, immediately after marriage. She then said that it was so; that
almost his first words, when they were alone, were, that she might once have saved him; that, if she had
accepted him when he first offered, she might have made him anything she pleased; but that, as it was, she
would find she had married a devil.

The conversation, as recorded in Lady Anne Barnard’s Diary, seems only a continuation of the
foregoing, and just what might have followed upon it.

I then asked how she became certain of the true cause.

She said, that, from the outset of their married life, his conduct towards her was strange and unaccountable,
even during the first weeks after the wedding, while they were visiting her friends, and outwardly on good
terms. He seemed resolved to shake and combat both her religious principles and her views of the family
state. He tried to undermine her faith in Christianity as a rule of life by argument and by ridicule. He set
before her the Continental idea of the liberty of marriage; it being a simple partnership of friendship and
property, the parties to which were allowed by one another to pursue their own separate individual tastes. He
told her, that, as he could not be expected to confine himself to her, neither should he expect or wish that she
should confine herself to him; that she was young and pretty, and could have her lovers, and he should never
object; and that she must allow him the same freedom.

She said that she did not comprehend to what this was tending till after they came to London, and his sister
came to stay with them.

At what precise time the idea of an improper connection between her husband and his sister was first forced
upon her, she did not say; but she told me how it was done. She said that one night, in her presence, he treated
his sister with a liberty which both shocked and astonished her. Seeing her amazement and alarm, he came up
to her, and said, in a sneering tone, ‘I suppose you perceive you are not wanted here. Go to your own
room, and leave us alone. We can amuse ourselves better without you.’

She said, ‘I went to my room, trembling. I fell down on my knees, and prayed to my heavenly Father
to have mercy on them. I thought, “What shall I do?”’

I remember, after this, a pause in the conversation, during which she seemed struggling with thoughts and
emotions; and, for my part, I was unable to utter a word, or ask a question.

She did not tell me what followed immediately upon this, nor how soon after she spoke on the subject with
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boldly avowed the connection as having existed in time past, and as one that was to continue in time to come;
and implied that she must submit to it. She put it to his conscience as concerning his sister’s soul, and
he said that it was no sin, that it was the way the world was first peopled: the Scriptures taught that all the
world descended from one pair; and how could that be unless brothers married their sisters? that, if not a sin
then, it could not be a sin now.

I immediately said, ‘Why, Lady Byron, those are the very arguments given in the drama of
“Cain.”’

‘The very same,’ was her reply. ‘He could reason very speciously on this
subject.’ She went on to say, that, when she pressed him hard with the universal sentiment of mankind
as to the horror and the crime, he took another turn, and said that the horror and crime were the very
attraction; that he had worn out all ordinary forms of sin, and that he ‘longed for the stimulus of a new
kind of vice.’ She set before him the dread of detection; and then he became furious. She should never
be the means of his detection, he said. She should leave him; that he was resolved upon: but she should
always bear all the blame of the separation. In the sneering tone which was common with him, he said,
‘The world will believe me, and it will not believe you. The world has made up its mind that
“By” is a glorious boy; and the world will go for “By,” right or wrong. Besides,
I shall make it my life’s object to discredit you: I shall use all my powers. Read “Caleb
Williams,” {161} and you will see that I shall do by you just as Falkland did by Caleb.’

I said that all this seemed to me like insanity. She said that she was for a time led to think that it was insanity,
and excused and pitied him; that his treatment of her expressed such hatred and malignity, that she knew not
what else to think of it; that he seemed resolved to drive her out of the house at all hazards, and threatened her,
if she should remain, in a way to alarm the heart of any woman: yet, thinking him insane, she left him at last
with the sorrow with which anyone might leave a dear friend whose reason was wholly overthrown, and to
whom in this desolation she was no longer permitted to minister.

I inquired in one of the pauses of the conversation whether Mrs. Leigh was a peculiarly beautiful or attractive
woman.

‘No, my dear: she was plain.’

‘Was she, then, distinguished for genius or talent of any kind?’

‘Oh, no! Poor woman! she was weak, relatively to him, and wholly under his control.’

‘And what became of her?’ I said.

‘She afterwards repented, and became a truly good woman.’ I think it was here she mentioned
that she had frequently seen and conversed with Mrs. Leigh in the latter part of her life; and she seemed to
derive comfort from the recollection.

I asked, ‘Was there a child?’ I had been told by Mrs. ---- that there was a daughter, who had
lived some years.

She said there was one, a daughter, who made her friends much trouble, being of a very difficult nature to
manage. I had understood that at one time this daughter escaped from her friends to the Continent, and that
Lady Byron assisted in efforts to recover her. Of Lady Byron’s kindness both to Mrs. Leigh and the
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It is also strongly impressed on my mind, that Lady Byron, in answer to some question of mine as to whether
there was ever any meeting between Lord Byron and his sister after he left England, answered, that she had
insisted upon it, or made it a condition, that Mrs. Leigh should not go abroad to him.

When the conversation as to events was over, as I stood musing, I said, ‘Have you no evidence that he
repented?’ and alluded to the mystery of his death, and the message be endeavoured to utter.

She answered quickly, and with great decision, that whatever might have been his meaning at that hour, she
felt sure he had finally repented; and added with great earnestness, ‘I do not believe that any child of
the heavenly Father is ever left to eternal sin.’

I said that such a hope was most delightful to my feelings, but that I had always regarded the indulgence of it
as a dangerous one.

Her look, voice, and manner, at that moment, are indelibly fixed in my mind. She looked at me so sadly, so
firmly, and said,—

‘Danger, Mrs. Stowe! What danger can come from indulging that hope, like the danger that comes
from not having it?’

I said in my turn, ‘What danger comes from not having it?’

‘The danger of losing all faith in God,’ she said, ‘all hope for others, all strength to try
and save them. I once knew a lady,’ she added, ‘who was in a state of scepticism and despair
from belief in that doctrine. I think I saved her by giving her my faith.’

I was silent; and she continued: ‘Lord Byron believed in eternal punishment fully: for though he
reasoned against Christianity as it is commonly received, he could not reason himself out of it; and I think it
made him desperate. He used to say, “The worst of it is I do believe.” Had he seen God as I
see him, I am sure his heart would have relented.’

She went on to say, that his sins, great as they were, admitted of much palliation and excuse; that he was the
child of singular and ill-matched parents; that he had an organisation originally fine, but one capable equally
of great good or great evil; that in his childhood he had only the worst and most fatal influences; that he grew
up into manhood with no guide; that there was everything in the classical course of the schools to develop an
unhealthy growth of passion, and no moral influence of any kind to restrain it; that the manners of his day
were corrupt; that what were now considered vices in society were then spoken of as matters of course among
young noblemen; that drinking, gaming, and licentiousness everywhere abounded and that, up to a certain
time, he was no worse than multitudes of other young men of his day,—only that the vices of his day
were worse for him. The excesses of passion, the disregard of physical laws in eating, drinking, and living,
wrought effects on him that they did not on less sensitively organised frames, and prepared him for the evil
hour when he fell into the sin which shaded his whole life. All the rest was a struggle with its
consequences,—sinning more and more to conceal the sin of the past. But she believed he never
outlived remorse; that he always suffered; and that this showed that God had not utterly forsaken him.
Remorse, she said, always showed moral sensibility, and, while that remained, there was always hope.

She now began to speak of her grounds for thinking it might be her duty fully to publish this story before she
left the world.

First she said that, through the whole course of her life, she had felt the eternal value of truth, and seen how
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had demoralised the moral sense of England, and he had done it in a great degree by the sympathy excited by
falsehood. This had been pleaded in extenuation of all his crimes and vices, and led to a lowering of the
standard of morals in the literary world. Now it was proposed to print cheap editions of his works, and sell
them among the common people, and interest them in him by the circulation of this same story.

She then said in effect, that she believed in retribution and suffering in the future life, and that the
consequences of sins here follow us there; and it was strongly impressed upon her mind that Lord Byron must
suffer in looking on the evil consequences of what he had done in this life, and in seeing the further extension
of that evil.

‘It has sometimes strongly appeared to me,’ she said, ‘that he cannot be at peace until
this injustice has been righted. Such is the strong feeling that I have when I think of going where he
is.’

These things, she said, had led her to inquire whether it might not be her duty to make a full and clear
disclosure before she left the world.

Of course, I did not listen to this story as one who was investigating its worth. I received it as truth. And the
purpose for which it was communicated was not to enable me to prove it to the world, but to ask my opinion
whether she should show it to the world before leaving it. The whole consultation was upon the assumption
that she had at her command such proofs as could not be questioned.

Concerning what they were I did not minutely inquire: only, in answer to a general question, she said that she
had letters and documents in proof of her story. Knowing Lady Byron’s strength of mind, her
clear-headedness, her accurate habits, and her perfect knowledge of the matter, I considered her judgment on
this point decisive.

I told her that I would take the subject into consideration, and give my opinion in a few days. That night, after
my sister and myself had retired to our own apartment, I related to her the whole history, and we spent the
night in talking of it. I was powerfully impressed with the justice and propriety of an immediate disclosure;
while she, on the contrary, represented the painful consequences that would probably come upon Lady Byron
from taking such a step.

Before we parted the next day, I requested Lady Byron to give me some memoranda of such dates and
outlines of the general story as would enable me better to keep it in its connection; which she did.

On giving me the paper, Lady Byron requested me to return it to her when it had ceased to be of use to me for
the purpose indicated.

Accordingly, a day or two after, I enclosed it to her in a hasty note, as I was then leaving London for Paris,
and had not yet had time fully to consider the subject.

On reviewing my note, I can recall that then the whole history appeared to me like one of those singular cases
where unnatural impulses to vice are the result of a taint of constitutional insanity. This has always seemed to
me the only way of accounting for instances of utterly motiveless and abnormal wickedness and cruelty.
These my first impressions were expressed in the hasty note written at the time:—

‘LONDON, Nov. 5, 1856.

‘DEAREST FRIEND,—I return these. They have held mine eyes waking!
How strange! how unaccountable! Have you ever subjected the facts to the judgment of a

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medical man learned in nervous pathology?

‘Is it not insanity?

“Great wits to madness nearly are allied,

And thin partitions do their bounds divide.”

‘But my purpose to-night is not to write you fully what I think of this matter. I am
going to write to you from Paris more at leisure.’

The rest of the letter was taken up in the final details of a charity in which Lady Byron had been engaged with
me in assisting an unfortunate artist. It concludes thus:—

‘I write now in all haste, en route for Paris. As to America, all is not lost yet. {168}
Farewell! I love you, my dear friend, as never before, with an intense feeling I cannot easily
express. God bless you!

‘H. B. S.’

The next letter is as follows:—

‘Paris, Dec. 17, 1856.

‘DEAR LADY BYRON,—The Kansas Committee have written me a letter

desiring me to express to Miss ---- their gratitude for the five pounds she sent them. I am not
personally acquainted with her, and must return these acknowledgments through you.

‘I wrote you a day or two since, enclosing the reply of the Kansas Committee to you.

‘On that subject on which you spoke to me the last time we were together, I have
thought often and deeply.

‘I have changed my mind somewhat. Considering the peculiar circumstances of the
case, I could wish that the sacred veil of silence, so bravely thrown over the past, should
never be withdrawn during the time that you remain with us.

‘I would say, then, Leave all with some discreet friends, who, after both have passed
from earth, shall say what was due to justice.

‘I am led to think this by seeing how low, how unjust, how unworthy, the judgments
of this world are; and I would not that what I so much respect, love, and revere should be
placed within reach of its harpy claw, which pollutes what it touches.

‘The day will yet come which will bring to light every hidden thing. “There is
nothing covered that shall not be revealed, neither hid that shall not be known;” and so
justice will not fail.

‘Such, my dear friend, are my thoughts; different from what they were since first I
heard that strange, sad history. Meanwhile, I love you ever, whether we meet again on earth
or not.

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‘Affectionately yours,

‘H. B. S.’

The following letter will here be inserted as confirming a part of Lady Byron’s story:—

TO THE EDITOR OF ‘MACMILLAN’S MAGAZINE.’

‘SIR,—I trust that you will hold me excused from any desire to be troublesome,
or to rush into print. Both these things are far from my wish. But the publication of a book
having for its object the vindication of Lord Byron’s character, and the subsequent
appearance in your magazine of Mrs. Stowe’s article in defence of Lady Byron,
having led to so much controversy in the various newspapers of the day, I feel constrained to
put in a few words among the rest.

‘My father was intimately acquainted with Lady Byron’s family for many
years, both before and after her marriage; being, in fact, steward to Sir Ralph Milbanke at
Seaham, where the marriage took place; and, from all my recollections of what he told me of
the affair (and he used often to talk of it, up to the time of his death, eight years ago), I fully
agree with Mrs. Stowe’s view of the case, and desire to add my humble testimony to
the truth of what she has stated.

‘Whilst Byron was staying at Seaham, previous to his marriage, he spent most of his
time pistol-shooting in the plantations adjoining the hall, often making use of his glove as a
mark; his servant being with him to load for him.

‘When all was in readiness for the wedding-ceremony (which took place in the
drawing-room of the hall), Byron had to be sought for in the grounds, where he was walking
in his usual surly mood.

‘After the marriage, they posted to Halnaby Lodge in Yorkshire, a distance of about
forty miles; to which place my father accompanied them, and he always spoke strongly of
Lady Byron’s apparent distress during and at the end of the journey.

‘The insulting words mentioned by Mrs. Stowe were spoken by Byron before leaving
the park at Seaham; after which he appeared to sit in moody silence, reading a book, for the
rest of the journey. At Halnaby, a number of persons, tenants and others, were met to cheer
them on their arrival. Of these he took not the slightest notice, but jumped out of the carriage,
and walked away, leaving his bride to alight by herself. She shook hands with my father, and
begged that he would see that some refreshment was supplied to those who had thus come to
welcome them.

‘I have in my possession several letters (which I should be glad to show to anyone
interested in the matter) both from Lady Byron, and her mother, Lady Milbanke, to my father,
all showing the deep and kind interest which they took in the welfare of all connected with
them, and directing the distribution of various charities, etc. Pensions were allowed both to
the old servants of the Milbankes and to several poor persons in the village and
neighbourhood for the rest of their lives; and Lady Byron never ceased to take a lively interest
in all that concerned them.

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‘I desire to tender my humble thanks to Mrs. Stowe for having come forward in
defence of one whose character has been much misrepresented; and to you, sir, for having
published the same in your pages.

‘I have the honour to be, sir, yours obediently,

‘G. H. AIRD.

‘DAOURTY, NORTHAMPTONSHIRE, Sept. 29, 1869.’

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I have now fulfilled as conscientiously as possible the requests of those who feel that they have a right to
know exactly what was said in this interview.

It has been my object, in doing this, to place myself just where I should stand were I giving evidence under
oath before a legal tribunal. In my first published account, there were given some smaller details of the story,
of no particular value to the main purpose of it, which I received not from Lady Byron, but from her
confidential friend. One of these was the account of her seeing Lord Byron’s favourite spaniel lying at
his door, and the other was the scene of the parting.

The first was communicated to me before I ever saw Lady Byron, and under these circumstances:—I
was invited to meet her, and had expressed my desire to do so, because Lord Byron had been all my life an
object of great interest to me. I inquired what sort of a person Lady Byron was. My friend spoke of her with
enthusiasm. I then said, ‘but of course she never loved Lord Byron, or she would not have left
him.’ The lady answered, ‘I can show you with what feelings she left him by relating this
story;’ and then followed the anecdote.

Subsequently, she also related to me the other story of the parting-scene between Lord and Lady Byron. In
regard to these two incidents, my recollection is clear.

It will be observed by the reader that Lady Byron’s conversation with me was simply for consultation
on one point, and that point whether she herself should publish the story before her death. It was not,
therefore, a complete history of all the events in their order, but specimens of a few incidents and facts. Her
object was, not to prove her story to me, nor to put me in possession of it with a view to my proving it, but
simply and briefly to show me what it was, that I might judge as to the probable results of its publication at
that time.

It therefore comprised primarily these points:—

1. An exact statement, in so many words, of the crime.

2. A statement of the manner in which it was first forced on her attention by Lord Byron’s words and
actions, including his admissions and defences of it.

3. The admission of a period when she had ascribed his whole conduct to insanity.

4. A reference to later positive evidences of guilt, the existence of a child, and Mrs. Leigh’s
subsequent repentance.

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And here I have a word to say in reference to the alleged inaccuracies of my true story.

The dates that Lady Byron gave me on the memoranda did not relate either to the time of the first disclosure,
or the period when her doubts became certainties; nor did her conversation touch either of these points: and,
on a careful review of the latter, I see clearly that it omitted dwelling upon anything which I might be
supposed to have learned from her already published statement.

I re-enclosed that paper to her from London, and have never seen it since.

In writing my account, which I designed to do in the most general terms, I took for my guide Miss
Martineau’s published Memoir of Lady Byron, which has long stood uncontradicted before the public,
of which Macmillan’s London edition is now before me. The reader is referred to page 316, which
reads thus:—

‘She was born 1792; married in January 1814; returned to her father’s house in 1816; died on
May 16, 1860.’ This makes her married life two years; but we need not say that the date is inaccurate,
as Lady Byron was married in 1815.

Supposing Lady Byron’s married life to have covered two years, I could only reconcile its continuance
for that length of time to her uncertainty as to his sanity; to deceptions practised on her, making her doubt at
one time, and believe at another; and his keeping her in a general state of turmoil and confusion, till at last he
took the step of banishing her.

Various other points taken from Miss Martineau have also been attacked as inaccuracies; for example, the
number of executions in the house: but these points, though of no importance, are substantially borne out by
Moore’s statements.

This controversy, unfortunately, cannot be managed with the accuracy of a legal trial. Its course, hitherto, has
rather resembled the course of a drawing-room scandal, where everyone freely throws in an assertion, with or
without proof. In making out my narrative, however, I shall use only certain authentic sources, some of which
have for a long time been before the public, and some of which have floated up from the waves of the recent
controversy. I consider as authentic sources,—

Moore’s Life of Byron;

Lady Byron’s own account of the separation, published in 1830;

Lady Byron’s statements to me in 1856;

Lord Lindsay’s communication, giving an extract from Lady Anne Barnard’s diary, and a copy
of a letter from Lady Byron dated 1818, about three years after her marriage;

Mrs. Mimms’ testimony, as given in a daily paper published at Newcastle, England;

And Lady Byron’s letters, as given recently in the late ‘London Quarterly.’

All which documents appear to arrange themselves into a connected series.

From these, then, let us construct the story.

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According to Mrs. Mimms’ account, which is likely to be accurate, the time spent by Lord and Lady
Byron in bridal-visiting was three weeks at Halnaby Hall, and six weeks at Seaham, when Mrs. Mimms
quitted their service.

During this first period of three weeks, Lord Byron’s treatment of his wife, as testified to by the
servant, was such that she advised her young mistress to return to her parents; and, at one time, Lady Byron
had almost resolved to do so.

What the particulars of his conduct were, the servant refuses to state; being bound by a promise of silence to
her mistress. She, however, testifies to a warm friendship existing between Lady Byron and Mrs. Leigh, in a
manner which would lead us to feel that Lady Byron received and was received by Lord Byron’s sister
with the greatest affection. Lady Byron herself says to Lady Anne Barnard, ‘I had heard that he was
the best of brothers;’ and the inference is, that she, at an early period of her married life, felt the
greatest confidence in his sister, and wished to have her with them as much as possible. In Lady
Anne’s account, this wish to have the sister with her was increased by Lady Byron’s distress at
her husband’s attempts to corrupt her principles with regard to religion and marriage.

In Moore’s Life, vol. iii., letter 217, Lord Byron writes from Seaham to Moore, under date of March 8,
sending a copy of his verses in Lady Byron’s handwriting, and saying, ‘We shall leave this
place to-morrow, and shall stop on our way to town, in the interval of taking a house there, at Colonel
Leigh’s, near Newmarket, where any epistle of yours will find its welcome way. I have been very
comfortable here, listening to that d---d monologue which elderly gentlemen call conversation, in which my
pious father-in-law repeats himself every evening, save one, when he played upon the fiddle. However, they
have been vastly kind and hospitable, and I like them and the place vastly; and I hope they will live many
happy months. Bell is in health and unvaried good-humour and behaviour; but we are in all the agonies of
packing and parting.’

Nine days after this, under date of March 17, Lord Byron says, ‘We mean to metropolize to-morrow,
and you will address your next to Piccadilly.’ The inference is, that the days intermediate were spent
at Colonel Leigh’s. The next letters, and all subsequent ones for six months, are dated from Piccadilly.

As we have shown, there is every reason to believe that a warm friendship had thus arisen between Mrs. Leigh
and Lady Byron, and that, during all this time, Lady Byron desired as much of the society of her sister-in-law
as possible. She was a married woman and a mother, her husband’s nearest relative; and Lady Byron
could with more propriety ask, from her, counsel or aid in respect to his peculiarities than she could from her
own parents. If we consider the character of Lady Byron as given by Mrs. Mimms, that of a young person of
warm but repressed feeling, without sister or brother, longing for human sympathy, and having so far found
no relief but in talking with a faithful dependant,—we may easily see that the acquisition of a sister
through Lord Byron might have been all in all to her, and that the feelings which he checked and rejected for
himself might have flowed out towards his sister with enthusiasm. The date of Mrs. Leigh’s visit does
not appear.

The first domestic indication in Lord Byron’s letters from London is the announcement of the death of
Lady Byron’s uncle, Lord Wentworth, from whom came large expectations of property. Lord Byron
had mentioned him before in his letters as so kind to Bell and himself that he could not find it in his heart to
wish him in heaven if he preferred staying here. In his letter of April 23, he mentions going to the play
immediately after hearing this news, ‘although,’ as he says, ‘he ought to have stayed at
home in sackcloth for “unc.”’

On June 12, he writes that Lady Byron is more than three months advanced in her progress towards maternity;
and that they have been out very little, as he wishes to keep her quiet. We are informed by Moore that Lord

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Byron was at this time a member of the Drury-Lane Theatre Committee; and that, in this unlucky connection,
one of the fatalities of the first year of trial as a husband lay. From the strain of Byron’s letters, as
given in Moore, it is apparent, that, while he thinks it best for his wife to remain at home, he does not propose
to share the retirement, but prefers running his own separate career with such persons as thronged the
greenroom of the theatre in those days.

In commenting on Lord Byron’s course, we must not by any means be supposed to indicate that he
was doing any more or worse than most gay young men of his time. The licence of the day as to getting drunk
at dinner-parties, and leading, generally, what would, in these days, be called a disorderly life, was great. We
should infer that none of the literary men of Byron’s time would have been ashamed of being drunk
occasionally. The Noctes Ambrosianae Club of ‘Blackwood’ is full of songs glorying, in the
broadest terms, in out-and-out drunkenness, and inviting to it as the highest condition of a civilised being.
{178a}

But drunkenness upon Lord Byron had a peculiar and specific effect, which he notices afterwards, in his
Journal, at Venice: ‘The effect of all wines and spirits upon me is, however, strange. It settles, but
makes me gloomy—gloomy at the very moment of their effect: it composes, however, though
sullenly.’ {178b} And, again, in another place, he says, ‘Wine and spirits make me sullen, and
savage to ferocity.’

It is well known that the effects of alcoholic excitement are various as the natures of the subjects. But by far
the worst effects, and the most destructive to domestic peace, are those that occur in cases where spirits,
instead of acting on the nerves of motion, and depriving the subject of power in that direction, stimulate the
brain so as to produce there the ferocity, the steadiness, the utter deadness to compassion or conscience, which
characterise a madman. How fearful to a sensitive young mother in the period of pregnancy might be the
return of such a madman to the domestic roof! Nor can we account for those scenes described in Lady Anne
Barnard’s letters, where Lord Byron returned from his evening parties to try torturing experiments on
his wife, otherwise than by his own statement, that spirits, while they steadied him, made him
‘gloomy, and savage to ferocity.’

Take for example this:—

‘One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me (Lady B.) so
indignantly collected, and bearing all with such a determined calmness, that a rush of remorse
seemed to come over him. He called himself a monster, and, though his sister was present,
threw himself in agony at my feet. “I could not, no, I could not, forgive him such
injuries! He had lost me forever!” Astonished at this return to virtue, my tears, I
believe, flowed over his face; and I said, “Byron, all is forgotten; never, never shall
you hear of it more.”

‘He started up, and folding his arms while he looked at me, burst out into laughter.
“What do you mean?” said I. “Only a philosophical experiment;
that’s all,” said he. “I wished to ascertain the value of your
resolutions.”’

To ascribe such deliberate cruelty as this to the effect of drink upon Lord Byron, is the most charitable
construction that can be put upon his conduct.

Yet the manners of the period were such, that Lord Byron must have often come to this condition while only
doing what many of his acquaintances did freely, and without fear of consequences.

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Mr. Moore, with his usual artlessness, gives us an idea of a private supper between himself and Lord Byron.
We give it, with our own italics, as a specimen of many others:—

‘Having taken upon me to order the repast, and knowing that Lord Byron for the last
two days had done nothing towards sustenance beyond eating a few biscuits and (to appease
appetite) chewing mastic, I desired that we should have a good supply of at least two kinds of
fish. My companion, however, confined himself to lobsters; and of these finished two or
three, to his own share, interposing, sometimes, a small liqueur-glass of strong white brandy,
sometimes a tumbler of very hot water, and then pure brandy again, to the amount of near half
a dozen small glasses of the latter, without which, alternately with the hot water, he appeared
to think the lobster could not be digested. After this, we had claret, of which, having
despatched two bottles between us, at about four o’clock in the morning we parted.

‘As Pope has thought his “delicious lobster-nights” worth

commemorating, these particulars of one in which Lord Byron was concerned may also have
some interest.

‘Among other nights of the same description which I had the happiness of passing
with him, I remember once, in returning home from some assembly at rather a late hour, we
saw lights in the windows of his old haunt, Stevens’s in Bond Street, and agreed to
stop there and sup. On entering, we found an old friend of his, Sir G---- W----, who joined
our party; and, the lobsters and brandy and water being put in requisition, it was (as usual on
such occasions) broad daylight before we separated.’—Vol. iii. p.83.

During the latter part of Lady Byron’s pregnancy, it appears from Moore that Byron was, night after
night, engaged out at dinner parties, in which getting drunk was considered as of course the finale, as appears
from the following letters:—

(LETTER 228.)

TO MR. MOORE.

‘TERRACE, PICCADILLY, OCT. 31,1815.

‘I have not been able to ascertain precisely the time of duration of the stock-market;
but I believe it is a good time for selling out, and I hope so. First, because I shall see you;
and, next, because I shall receive certain moneys on behalf of Lady B., the which will
materially conduce to my comfort; I wanting (as the duns say) “to make up a
sum.”

‘Yesterday I dined out with a large-ish party, where were Sheridan and Colman, Harry
Harris, of C. G., and his brother, Sir Gilbert Heathcote, Ds. Kinnaird, and others of note and
notoriety. Like other parties of the kind, it was first silent, then talky, then argumentative,
then disputatious, then unintelligible, * then altogethery, then inarticulate, and then drunk.
When we had reached the last step of this glorious ladder, it was difficult to get down again
without stumbling; and, to crown all, Kinnaird and I had to conduct Sheridan down a d---d
corkscrew staircase, which had certainly been constructed before the discovery of fermented
liquors, and to which no legs, however crooked, could possibly accommodate themselves.
We deposited him safe at home, where his man, evidently used to the business, {181} waited
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‘Both he and Colman were, as usual, very good; but I carried away much wine, and
the wine had previously carried away my memory: so that all was hiccough and happiness for
the last hour or so, and I am not impregnated with any of the conversation. Perhaps you heard
of a late answer of Sheridan to the watchman who found him bereft of that “divine
particle of air” called reason . . . He (the watchman) found Sherry in the street fuddled
and bewildered, and almost insensible. “Who are you, sir?”—No
answer. “What’s your name?”—A hiccough.
“What’s your name?”—Answer, in a slow, deliberate, and
impassive tone, “Wilberforce!” Is not that Sherry all over?—and, to my
mind, excellent. Poor fellow, his very dregs are better than the “first sprightly
runnings” of others.

‘My paper is full, and I have a grievous headache.

‘P.S.—Lady B. is in full progress. Next month will bring to light (with the aid
of “Juno Lucina, fer opem,” or rather opes, for the last are most wanted) the
tenth wonder of the world; Gil Blas being the eighth, and he (my son’s father) the
ninth.’

Here we have a picture of the whole story,—Lady Byron within a month of her confinement; her
money being used to settle debts; her husband out at a dinner-party, going through the usual course of such
parties, able to keep his legs and help Sheridan downstairs, and going home ‘gloomy, and savage to
ferocity,’ to his wife.

Four days after this (letter 229), we find that this dinner-party is not an exceptional one, but one of a series:
for he says, ‘To-day I dine with Kinnaird,—we are to have Sheridan and Colman again; and
to-morrow, once more, at Sir Gilbert Heathcote’s.’

Afterward, in Venice, he reviews the state of his health, at this period in London; and his account shows that
his excesses in the vices of his times had wrought effects on his sensitive, nervous organisation, very different
from what they might on the more phlegmatic constitutions of ordinary Englishmen. In his journal, dated
Venice, Feb. 2, 1821, he says,—

‘I have been considering what can be the reason why I always wake at a certain hour
in the morning, and always in very bad spirits,—I may say, in actual despair and
despondency, in all respects, even of that which pleased me over night. In about an hour or
two this goes off, and I compose either to sleep again, or at least to quiet. In England, five
years ago, I had the same kind of hypochondria, but accompanied with so violent a thirst, that
I have drunk as many as fifteen bottles of soda-water in one night, after going to bed, and
been still thirsty,—calculating, however, some lost from the bursting-out and
effervescence and overflowing of the soda-water in drawing the corks, or striking off the
necks of the bottles from mere thirsty impatience. At present, I have not the thirst; but the
depression of spirits is no less violent.’—Vol. v. p.96.

These extracts go to show what must have been the condition of the man whom Lady Byron was called to
receive at the intervals when he came back from his various social excitements and pleasures. That his nerves
were exacerbated by violent extremes of abstinence and reckless indulgence; that he was often day after day
drunk, and that drunkenness made him savage and ferocious,—such are the facts clearly shown by Mr.
Moore’s narrative. Of the natural peculiarities of Lord Byron’s temper, he thus speaks to the
Countess of Blessington:—

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‘I often think that I inherit my violence and bad temper from my poor mother, not that
my father, from all I could ever learn, had a much better; so that it is no wonder I have such a
very bad one. As long as I can remember anything, I recollect being subject to violent
paroxysms of rage, so disproportioned to the cause as to surprise me when they were over;
and this still continues. I cannot coolly view any thing which excites my feelings; and, once
the lurking devil in me is roused, I lose all command of myself. I do not recover a good fit of
rage for days after. Mind, I do not by this mean that the ill humour continues, as, on the
contrary, that quickly subsides, exhausted by its own violence; but it shakes me terribly, and
leaves me low and nervous after.’—Lady Blessington’s Conversations,
p.142.

That during this time also his irritation and ill temper were increased by the mortification of duns, debts, and
executions, is on the face of Moore’s story. Moore himself relates one incident, which gives some idea
of the many which may have occurred at these times, in a note on p.215, vol. iv., where he speaks of Lord
Byron’s destroying a favourite old watch that had been his companion from boyhood, and gone with
him to Greece. ‘In a fit of vexation and rage, brought upon him by some of these humiliating
embarrassments, to which he was now almost daily a prey, he furiously dashed this watch on the hearth, and
ground it to pieces with the poker among the ashes.’

It is no wonder, that, with a man of this kind to manage, Lady Byron should have clung to the only female
companionship she could dare to trust in the case, and earnestly desired to retain with her the sister, who
seemed, more than herself, to have influence over him.

The first letter given by ‘The Quarterly,’ from Lady Byron to Mrs. Leigh, without a date,
evidently belongs to this period, when the sister’s society presented itself as a refuge in her
approaching confinement. Mrs Leigh speaks of leaving. The young wife, conscious that the house presents
no attractions, and that soon she herself shall be laid by, cannot urge Mrs. Leigh’s stay as likely to give
her any pleasure, but only as a comfort to herself.

‘You will think me very foolish; but I have tried two or three times, and cannot talk to
you of your departure with a decent visage: so let me say one word in this way to spare my
philosophy. With the expectations which I have, I never will nor can ask you to stay one
moment longer than you are inclined to do. It would [be] the worst return for all I ever
received from you. But in this at least I am “truth itself,” when I say, that
whatever the situation may be, there is no one whose society is dearer to me, or can contribute
more to my happiness. These feelings will not change under any circumstances, and I should
be grieved if you did not understand them. Should you hereafter condemn me, I shall not
love you less. I will say no more. Judge for yourself about going or staying. I wish you to
consider yourself, if you could be wise enough to do that, for the first time in your life.

‘Thine,

‘A. I. B.’

Addressed on the cover, ‘To The Hon. Mrs. Leigh.’

This letter not being dated, we have no clue but what we obtain from its own internal evidence. It certainly is
not written in Lady Byron’s usual clear and elegant style; and is, in this respect, in striking contrast to
all her letters that I have ever seen.

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But the notes written by a young woman under such peculiar and distressing circumstances must not be
judged by the standard of calmer hours.

Subsequently to this letter, and during that stormy, irrational period when Lord Byron’s conduct
became daily more and more unaccountable, may have come that startling scene in which Lord Byron took
every pains to convince his wife of improper relations subsisting between himself and his sister.

What an utter desolation this must have been to the wife, tearing from her the last hold of friendship, and the
last refuge to which she had clung in her sorrows, may easily be conceived.

In this crisis, it appears that the sister convinced Lady Byron that the whole was to be attributed to insanity. It
would be a conviction gladly accepted, and bringing infinite relief, although still surrounding her path with
fearful difficulties.

That such was the case is plainly asserted by Lady Byron in her statement published in 1830. Speaking of her
separation, Lady Byron says:—

‘The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my father and
mother, on the 15th of January, 1816. Lord Byron had signified to me in writing, Jan. 6, his
absolute desire that I should leave London on the earliest day that I could conveniently fix. It
was not safe for me to encounter the fatigues of a journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to
my departure, it had been strongly impressed on my mind that Lord Byron was under the
influence of insanity.

‘This opinion was in a great measure derived from the communications made to me by
his nearest relatives and personal attendant’

Now there was no nearer relative than Mrs. Leigh; and the personal attendant was Fletcher. It was therefore
presumably Mrs. Leigh who convinced Lady Byron of her husband’s insanity.

Lady Byron says, ‘It was even represented to me that he was in danger of destroying himself.

‘With the concurrence of his family, I had consulted with Dr. Baillie, as a friend, on Jan. 8, as to his
supposed malady.’ Now, Lord Byron’s written order for her to leave came on Jan. 6. It
appears, then, that Lady Byron, acting in concurrence with Mrs. Leigh and others of her husband’s
family, consulted Dr. Baillie, on Jan. 8, as to what she should do; the symptoms presented to Dr. Baillie being,
evidently, insane hatred of his wife on the part of Lord Byron, and a determination to get her out of the house.
Lady Byron goes on:—

‘On acquainting him with the state of the case, and with Lord Byron’s desire
that I should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought my absence might be advisable as an
experiment, assuming the fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not having had access
to Lord Byron, could not pronounce an opinion on that point. He enjoined, that, in
correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but light and soothing topics. Under
these impressions, I left London, determined to follow the advice given me by Dr. Baillie.
Whatever might have been the nature of Lord Byron’s treatment of me from the time
of my marriage, yet, supposing him to have been in a state of mental alienation, it was not for
me, nor for any person of common humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of
injury.’

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It appears, then, that the domestic situation in Byron’s house at the time of his wife’s expulsion
was one so grave as to call for family counsel; for Lady Byron, generally accurate, speaks in the plural
number. ‘His nearest relatives’ certainly includes Mrs. Leigh. ‘His family’
includes more. That some of Lord Byron’s own relatives were cognisant of facts at this time, and that
they took Lady Byron’s side, is shown by one of his own chance admissions. In vol. vi. p.394, in a
letter on Bowles, he says, speaking of this time, ‘All my relations, save one, fell from me like leaves
from a tree in autumn.’ And in Medwin’s Conversations he says, ‘Even my cousin
George Byron, who had been brought up with me, and whom I loved as a brother, took my wife’s
part.’ The conduct must have been marked in the extreme that led to this result.

We cannot help stopping here to say that Lady Byron’s situation at this time has been discussed in our
days with a want of ordinary human feeling that is surprising. Let any father and mother, reading this, look on
their own daughter, and try to make the case their own.

After a few short months of married life,—months full of patient endurance of the strangest and most
unaccountable treatment,—she comes to them, expelled from her husband’s house, an object of
hatred and aversion to him, and having to settle for herself the awful question, whether he is a dangerous
madman or a determined villain.

Such was this young wife’s situation.

With a heart at times wrung with compassion for her husband as a helpless maniac, and fearful that all may
end in suicide, yet compelled to leave him, she writes on the road the much-quoted letter, beginning
‘Dear Duck.’ This is an exaggerated and unnatural letter, it is true, but of precisely the
character that might be expected from an inexperienced young wife when dealing with a husband supposed to
be insane.

The next day, she addressed to Augusta this letter:—

‘MY DEAREST A.,—It is my great comfort that you are still in

Piccadilly.’

And again, on the 23rd:—

‘DEAREST A.,—I know you feel for me, as I do for you; and perhaps I am
better understood than I think. You have been, ever since I knew you, my best comforter; and
will so remain, unless you grow tired of the office,—which may well be.’

We can see here how self-denying and heroic appears to Lady Byron the conduct of the sister, who patiently
remains to soothe and guide and restrain the moody madman, whose madness takes a form, at times, so
repulsive to every womanly feeling. She intimates that she should not wonder should Augusta grow weary of
the office.

Lady Byron continues her statement thus:—

‘When I arrived at Kirkby Mallory, my parents were unacquainted with the existence
of any causes likely to destroy my prospects of happiness; and, when I communicated to them
the opinion that had been formed concerning Lord Byron’s state of mind, they were
most anxious to promote his restoration by every means in their power. They assured those
relations that were with him in London that “they would devote their whole case and
attention to the alleviation of his malady.”’

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Here we have a quotation {190a} from a letter written by Lady Milbanke to the anxious
‘relations’ who are taking counsel about Lord Byron in town. Lady Byron also adds, in
justification of her mother from Lord Byron’s slanders, ‘She had always treated him with an
affectionate consideration and indulgence, which extended to every little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did
an irritating word escape her lips in her whole intercourse with him.’

Now comes a remarkable part of Lady Byron’s statement:—

‘The accounts given me after I left Lord Byron, by those in constant intercourse with
him, {190b} added to those doubts which had before transiently occurred to my mind as to
the reality of the alleged disease; and the reports of his medical attendants were far from
establishing anything like lunacy.’

When these doubts arose in her mind, it is not natural to suppose that they should, at first, involve Mrs.
Leigh. She still appears to Lady Byron as the devoted, believing sister, fully convinced of her
brother’s insanity, and endeavouring to restrain and control him.

But if Lord Byron were sane, if the purposes he had avowed to his wife were real, he must have lied about his
sister in the past, and perhaps have the worst intentions for the future.

The horrors of that state of vacillation between the conviction of insanity and the commencing conviction of
something worse can scarcely be told.

At all events, the wife’s doubts extend so far that she speaks out to her parents. ‘UNDER THIS
UNCERTAINTY,’ says the statement, ‘I deemed it right to communicate to my parents, that, if
I were to consider Lord Byron’s past conduct as that of a person of sound mind, nothing could induce
me to return to him. It therefore appeared expedient, both to them and to myself, to consult the ablest
advisers. For that object, and also to obtain still further information respecting appearances which indicated
mental derangement, my mother determined to go to London. She was empowered by me to take legal
opinion on a written statement of mine; though I then had reasons for reserving a part of the case from the
knowledge even of my father and mother.’

It is during this time of uncertainty that the next letter to Mrs. Leigh may be placed. It seems to be rather a
fragment of a letter than a whole one: perhaps it is an extract; in which case it would be desirable, if possible,
to view it in connection with the remaining text:—

Jan. 25, 1816.

‘MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,—Shall I still be your sister? I must resign my

right to be so considered; but I don’t think that will make any difference in the
kindness I have so uniformly experienced from you.’

This fragment is not signed, nor finished in any way, but indicates that the writer is about to take a decisive
step.

On the 17th, as we have seen, Lady Milbanke had written, inviting Lord Byron. Subsequently she went to
London to make more particular inquiries into his state. This fragment seems part of a letter from Lady
Byron, called forth in view of some evidence resulting from her mother’s observations. {192}

Lady Byron now adds,—

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‘Being convinced by the result of these inquiries, and by the tenour of Lord
Byron’s proceedings, that the notion of insanity was an illusion, I no longer hesitated
to authorize such measures as were necessary in order to secure me from ever being again
placed in his power.

‘Conformably with this resolution, my father wrote to him, on the 2nd of February, to
request an amicable separation.’

The following letter to Mrs. Leigh is dated the day after this application, and is in many respects a noticeable
one:—

‘KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 3, 1816.

‘MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,—You are desired by your brother to ask if my

father has acted with my concurrence in proposing a separation. He has. It cannot be
supposed, that, in my present distressing situation, I am capable of stating in a detailed
manner the reasons which will not only justify this measure, but compel me to take it; and it
never can be my wish to remember unnecessarily [sic] those injuries for which, however
deep, I feel no resentment. I will now only recall to Lord Byron’s mind his avowed
and insurmountable aversion to the married state, and the desire and determination he has
expressed ever since its commencement to free himself from that bondage, as finding it quite
insupportable, though candidly acknowledging that no effort of duty or affection has been
wanting on my part. He has too painfully convinced me that all these attempts to contribute
towards his happiness were wholly useless, and most unwelcome to him. I enclose this letter
to my father, wishing it to receive his sanction.

‘Ever yours most affectionately,

‘A. I. BYRON.’

We observe in this letter that it is written to be shown to Lady Byron’s father, and receive his sanction;
and, as that father was in ignorance of all the deeper causes of trouble in the case, it will be seen that the letter
must necessarily be a reserved one. This sufficiently accounts for the guarded character of the language when
speaking of the causes of separation. One part of the letter incidentally overthrows Lord Byron’s
statement, which he always repeated during his life, and which is repeated for him now; namely, that his wife
forsook him, instead of being, as she claims, expelled by him.

She recalls to Lord Byron’s mind the ‘desire and determination he has expressed ever since his
marriage to free himself from its bondage.’

This is in perfect keeping with the ‘absolute desire,’ signified by writing, that she should leave
his house on the earliest day possible; and she places the cause of the separation on his having ‘too
painfully’ convinced her that he does not want her—as a wife.

It appears that Augusta hesitates to show this note to her brother. It is bringing on a crisis which she, above
all others, would most wish to avoid.

In the meantime, Lady Byron receives a letter from Lord Byron, which makes her feel it more than ever
essential to make the decision final. I have reason to believe that this letter is preserved in Lady
Byron’s papers:—

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‘Feb. 4, 1816.

‘I hope, my dear A., that you would on no account withhold from your brother the
letter which I sent yesterday in answer to yours written by his desire, particularly as one
which I have received from himself to-day renders it still more important that he should know
the contents of that addressed to you. I am, in haste and not very well,

‘Yours most affectionately,

‘A. I. BYRON.’

The last of this series of letters is less like the style of Lady Byron than any of them. We cannot judge
whether it is a whole consecutive letter, or fragments from a letter, selected and united. There is a great want
of that clearness and precision which usually characterised Lady Byron’s style. It shows, however,
that the decision is made,—a decision which she regrets on account of the sister who has tried so long
to prevent it.

‘KIRKBY MALLORY, Feb. 14, 1816.

‘The present sufferings of all may yet be repaid in blessings. Do not despair
absolutely, dearest; and leave me but enough of your interest to afford you any consolation by
partaking of that sorrow which I am most unhappy to cause thus unintentionally. You will be
of my opinion hereafter; and at present your bitterest reproach would be forgiven, though
Heaven knows you have considered me more than a thousand would have
done,—more than anything but my affection for B., one most dear to you, could
deserve. I must not remember these feelings. Farewell! God bless you from the bottom of
my heart!

‘A. I. B.’

We are here to consider that Mrs. Leigh has stood to Lady Byron in all this long agony as her only confidante
and friend; that she has denied the charges her brother has made, and referred them to insanity, admitting
insane attempts upon herself which she has been obliged to watch over and control.

Lady Byron has come to the conclusion that Augusta is mistaken as to insanity; that there is a real wicked
purpose and desire on the part of the brother, not as yet believed in by the sister. She regards the sister as one,
who, though deceived and blinded, is still worthy of confidence and consideration; and so says to her,
‘You will be of my opinion hereafter.’

She says, ‘You have considered me more than a thousand would have done.’ Mrs. Leigh is, in
Lady Byron’s eyes, a most abused and innocent woman, who, to spare her sister in her delicate
situation, has taken on herself the whole charge of a maniacal brother, although suffering from him language
and actions of the most injurious kind. That Mrs. Leigh did not flee the house at once under such
circumstances, and wholly decline the management of the case, seems to Lady Byron consideration and
self-sacrifice greater than she can acknowledge.

The knowledge of the whole extent of the truth came to Lady Byron’s mind at a later period.

We now take up the history from Lushington’s letter to Lady Byron, published at the close of her
statement.

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The application to Lord Byron for an act of separation was positively refused at first; it being an important
part of his policy that all the responsibility and insistence should come from his wife, and that he should
appear forced into it contrary to his will.

Dr. Lushington, however, says to Lady Byron,—

‘I was originally consulted by Lady Noel on your behalf while you were in the
country. The circumstances detailed by her were such as justified a separation; but they were
not of that aggravated description as to render such a measure indispensable. On Lady
Noel’s representations, I deemed a reconciliation with Lord Byron practicable, and felt
most sincerely a wish to aid in effecting it. There was not, on Lady Noel’s part, any
exaggeration of the facts, nor, so far as I could perceive, any determination to prevent a return
to Lord Byron: certainly none was expressed when I spoke of a reconciliation.’

In this crisis, with Lord Byron refusing the separation, with Lushington expressing a wish to aid in a
reconciliation, and Lady Noel not expressing any aversion to it, the whole strain of the dreadful responsibility
comes upon the wife.

She resolves to ask counsel of her lawyer, in view of a statement of the whole case.

Lady Byron is spoken of by Lord Byron (letter 233) as being in town with her father on the 29th of February;
viz., fifteen days after the date of the last letter to Mrs. Leigh. It must have been about this time, then, that she
laid her whole case before Lushington; and he gave it a thorough examination.

The result was, that Lushington expressed in the most decided terms his conviction that reconciliation was
impossible. The language be uses is very striking:—

‘When you came to town in about a fortnight, or perhaps more, after my first interview
with Lady Noel, I was, for the first time, informed by you of facts utterly unknown, as I have
no doubt, to Sir Ralph and Lady Noel. On receiving this additional information, my opinion
was entirely changed. I considered a reconciliation impossible. I declared my opinion, and
added, that, if such an idea should be entertained, I could not, either professionally or
otherwise, take any part towards effecting it.’

It does not appear in this note what effect the lawyer’s examination of the case had on Lady
Byron’s mind. By the expressions he uses, we should infer that she may still have been hesitating as to
whether a reconciliation might not be her duty.

This hesitancy he does away with most decisively, saying, ‘A reconciliation is impossible;’
and, supposing Lady Byron or her friends desirous of one, he declares positively that he cannot, either
professionally as a lawyer or privately as a friend, have anything to do with effecting it.

The lawyer, it appears, has drawn, from the facts of the case, inferences deeper and stronger than those which
presented themselves to the mind of the young woman; and he instructs her in the most absolute terms.

Fourteen years after, in 1830, for the first time the world was astonished by this declaration from Dr.
Lushington, in language so pronounced and positive that there could be no mistake.

Lady Byron had stood all these fourteen years slandered by her husband, and misunderstood by his friends,
when, had she so chosen, this opinion of Dr. Lushington’s could have been at once made public, which
fully justified her conduct.

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If, as the ‘Blackwood’ of July insinuates, the story told to Lushington was a malignant slander,
meant to injure Lord Byron, why did she suppress the judgment of her counsel at a time when all the world
was on her side, and this decision would have been the decisive blow against her husband? Why, by sealing
the lips of counsel, and of all whom she could influence, did she deprive herself finally of the very advantage
for which it has been assumed she fabricated the story?

CHAPTER IV. THE CHARACTER OF THE TWO WITNESSES

COMPARED.
It will be observed, that, in this controversy, we are confronting two opposing stories,—one of Lord
and the other of Lady Byron; and the statements from each are in point-blank contradiction.

Lord Byron states that his wife deserted him. Lady Byron states that he expelled her, and reminds him, in her
letter to Augusta Leigh, that the expulsion was a deliberate one, and that he had purposed it from the
beginning of their marriage.

Lord Byron always stated that he was ignorant why his wife left him, and was desirous of her return. Lady
Byron states that he told her that he would force her to leave him, and to leave him in such a way that the
whole blame of the separation should always rest on her, and not on him.

To say nothing of any deeper or darker accusations on either side, here, in the very outworks of the story, the
two meet point-blank.

In considering two opposing stories, we always, as a matter of fact, take into account the character of the
witnesses.

If a person be literal and exact in his usual modes of speech, reserved, careful, conscientious, and in the habit
of observing minutely the minor details of time, place, and circumstances, we give weight to his testimony
from these considerations. But if a person be proved to have singular and exceptional principles with regard
to truth; if he be universally held by society to be so in the habit of mystification, that large allowances must
be made for his statements; if his assertions at one time contradict those made at another; and if his
statements, also, sometimes come in collision with those of his best friends, so that, when his language is
reported, difficulties follow, and explanations are made necessary,—all this certainly disqualifies him
from being considered a trustworthy witness.

All these disqualifications belong in a remarkable degree to Lord Byron, on the oft-repeated testimony of his
best friends.

We shall first cite the following testimony, given in an article from ‘Under the Crown,’ which
is written by an early friend and ardent admirer of Lord Byron:—

‘Byron had one pre-eminent fault,—a fault which must be considered as deeply
criminal by everyone who does not, as I do, believe it to have resulted from monomania. He
had a morbid love of a bad reputation. There was hardly an offence of which he would not,
with perfect indifference, accuse himself. An old schoolfellow who met him on the Continent
told me that he would continually write paragraphs against himself in the foreign journals,
and delight in their republication by the English newspapers as in the success of a practical
joke. Whenever anybody has related anything discreditable of Byron, assuring me that it
must be true, for he heard it from himself, I always felt that he could not have spoken upon
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remember, and were willing to repeat, the various misdoings which I have from time to time
heard him attribute to himself, I could fill a volume. But I never believed them. I very soon
became aware of this strange idiosyncrasy: it puzzled me to account for it; but there it was, a
sort of diseased and distorted vanity. The same eccentric spirit would induce him to report
things which were false with regard to his family, which anybody else would have concealed,
though true. He told me more than once that his father was insane, and killed himself. I shall
never forget the manner in which he first told me this. While washing his hands, and singing
a gay Neapolitan air, he stopped, looked round at me, and said, “There always was
madness in the family.” Then, after continuing his washing and his song, he added, as
if speaking of a matter of the slightest indifference, “My father cut his throat.”
The contrast between the tenour of the subject and the levity of the expression was fearfully
painful: it was like a stanza of “Don Juan.” In this instance, I had no doubt that
the fact was as he related it; but in speaking of it, only a few years since, to an old lady in
whom I had perfect confidence, she assured me that it was not so. Mr. Byron, who was her
cousin, had been extremely wild, but was quite sane, and had died very quietly in his bed.
What Byron’s reason could have been for thus calumniating not only himself but the
blood which was flowing in his veins, who can divine? But, for some reason or other, it
seemed to be his determined purpose to keep himself unknown to the great body of his
fellow-creatures; to present himself to their view in moral masquerade.’

Certainly the character of Lord Byron here given by his friend is not the kind to make him a trustworthy
witness in any case: on the contrary, it seems to show either a subtle delight in falsehood for
falsehood’s sake, or else the wary artifices of a man who, having a deadly secret to conceal, employs
many turnings and windings to throw the world off the scent. What intriguer, having a crime to cover, could
devise a more artful course than to send half a dozen absurd stories to the press, which should, after a while,
be traced back to himself, till the public should gradually look on all it heard from him as the result of this
eccentric humour?

The easy, trifling air with which Lord Byron made to this friend a false statement in regard to his father would
lead naturally to the inquiry, on what other subjects, equally important to the good name of others, he might
give false testimony with equal indifference.

When Medwin’s ‘Conversations with Lord Byron’ were first published, they contained
a number of declarations of the noble lord affecting the honour and honesty of his friend and publisher
Murray. These appear to have been made in the same way as those about his father, and with equal
indifference. So serious were the charges, that Mr. Murray’s friends felt that he ought, in justice to
himself, to come forward and confront them with the facts as stated in Byron’s letters to himself; and
in vol. x., p.143, of Murray’s standard edition, accordingly these false statements are confronted with
the letters of Lord Byron. The statements, as reported, are of a most material and vital nature, relating to
Murray’s financial honour and honesty, and to his general truthfulness and sincerity. In reply, Murray
opposes to them the accounts of sums paid for different works, and letters from Byron exactly contradicting
his own statements as to Murray’s character.

The subject, as we have seen, was discussed in ‘The Noctes.’ No doubt appears to be
entertained that Byron made the statements to Medwin; and the theory of accounting for them is, that
‘Byron was “bamming” him.’

It seems never to have occurred to any of these credulous gentlemen, who laughed at others for being
‘bammed,’ that Byron might be doing the very same thing by themselves. How many of his
so-called packages sent to Lady Byron were real packages, and how many were mystifications? We find, in
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never sent by him. He told Lady Blessington that he was in the habit of writing to her constantly. Was this
‘bamming’? Was he ‘bamming,’ also, when he told the world that Lady Byron
suddenly deserted him, quite to his surprise, and that he never, to his dying day, could find out why?

Lady Blessington relates, that, in one of his conversations with her, he entertained her by repeating epigrams
and lampoons, in which many of his friends were treated with severity. She inquired of him, in case he should
die, and such proofs of his friendship come before the public, what would be the feelings of these friends, who
had supposed themselves to stand so high in his good graces. She says,—

‘“That,” said Byron, “is precisely one of the ideas that most
amuses me. I often fancy the rage and humiliation of my quondam friends in hearing the
truth, at least from me, for the first time, and when I am beyond the reach of their malice. . . .
What grief,” continued Byron, laughing, “could resist the charges of ugliness,
dulness, or any of the thousand nameless defects, personal or mental, ‘that flesh is heir
to,’ when reprisal or recantation was impossible? . . . People are in such daily habits
of commenting on the defects of friends, that they are unconscious of the unkindness of it. . .
Now, I write down as well as speak my sentiments of those who think they have gulled me;
and I only wish, in case I die before them, that I might return to witness the effects my
posthumous opinions of them are likely to produce in their minds. What good fun this would
be! . . . You don’t seem to value this as you ought,” said Byron with one of his
sardonic smiles, seeing I looked, as I really felt, surprised at his avowed insincerity. “I
feel the same pleasure in anticipating the rage and mortification of my soi-disant friends at the
discovery of my real sentiments of them, that a miser may be supposed to feel while making a
will that will disappoint all the expectants that have been toadying him for years. Then how
amusing it will be to compare my posthumous with my previously given opinions, the one
throwing ridicule on the other!”’

It is asserted, in a note to ‘The Noctes,’ that Byron, besides his Autobiography, prepared a
voluminous dictionary of all his friends and acquaintances, in which brief notes of their persons and character
were given, with his opinion of them. It was not considered that the publication of this would add to the noble
lord’s popularity; and it has never appeared.

In Hunt’s Life of Byron, there is similar testimony. Speaking of Byron’s carelessness in

exposing his friends’ secrets, and showing or giving away their letters, he says,—

‘If his five hundred confidants, by a reticence as remarkable as his laxity, had not kept
his secrets better than he did himself, the very devil might have been played with I
don’t know how many people. But there was always this saving reflection to be made,
that the man who could be guilty of such extravagances for the sake of making an impression
might be guilty of exaggeration, or inventing what astonished you; and indeed, though he was
a speaker of the truth on ordinary occasions,—that is to say, he did not tell you he had
seen a dozen horses when he had seen only two,—yet, as he professed not to value the
truth when in the way of his advantage (and there was nothing he thought more to his
advantage than making you stare at him), the persons who were liable to suffer from his
incontinence had all the right in the world to the benefit of this consideration.’ {205a}

With a person of such mental and moral habits as to truth, the inquiry always must be, Where does
mystification end, and truth begin?

If a man is careless about his father’s reputation for sanity, and reports him a crazy suicide; if he gaily
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Mrs. Clermont, {205b} to which his sister offers a public refutation,—is it to be supposed that he will
always tell the truth about his wife, when the world is pressing him hard, and every instinct of self-defence is
on the alert?

And then the ingenuity that could write and publish false documents about himself, that they might reappear
in London papers,—to what other accounts might it not be turned? Might it not create documents,
invent statements, about his wife as well as himself?

The document so ostentatiously given to M. G. Lewis ‘for circulation among friends in

England’ was a specimen of what the Noctes Club would call ‘bamming.’

If Byron wanted a legal investigation, why did he not take it in the first place, instead of signing the
separation? If he wanted to cancel it, as he said in this document, why did he not go to London, and enter a
suit for the restitution of conjugal rights, or a suit in chancery to get possession of his daughter? That this was
in his mind, passages in Medwin’s ‘Conversations’ show. He told Lady Blessington
also that he might claim his daughter in chancery at any time.

Why did he not do it? Either of these two steps would have brought on that public investigation he so longed
for. Can it be possible that all the friends who passed this private document from hand to hand never
suspected that they were being ‘bammed’ by it?

But it has been universally assumed, that, though Byron was thus remarkably given to mystification, yet all
his statements in regard to this story are to be accepted, simply because he makes them. Why must we accept
them, any more than his statements as to Murray or his own father?

So we constantly find Lord Byron’s incidental statements coming in collision with those of others: for
example, in his account of his marriage, he tells Medwin that Lady Byron’s maid was put between his
bride and himself, on the same seat, in the wedding journey. The lady’s maid herself, Mrs. Mimms,
says she was sent before them to Halnaby, and was there to receive them when they alighted.

He said of Lady Byron’s mother, ‘She always detested me, and had not the decency to conceal
it in her own house. Dining with her one day, I broke a tooth, and was in great pain; which I could not help
showing. “It will do you good,” said Lady Noel; “I am glad of it!”’

Lady Byron says, speaking of her mother, ‘She always treated him with an affectionate consideration
and indulgence, which extended to every little peculiarity of his feelings. Never did an irritating word escape
her.’

Lord Byron states that the correspondence between him and Lady Byron, after his refusal, was first opened by
her. Lady Byron’s friends deny the statement, and assert that the direct contrary is the fact.

Thus we see that Lord Byron’s statements are directly opposed to those of his family in relation to his
father; directly against Murray’s accounts, and his own admission to Murray; directly against the
statement of the lady’s maid as to her position in the journey; directly against Mrs. Leigh’s as
to Mrs. Clermont, and against Lady Byron as to her mother.

We can see, also, that these misstatements were so fully perceived by the men of his times, that
Medwin’s ‘Conversations’ were simply laughed at as an amusing instance of how far a
man might be made the victim of a mystification. Christopher North thus sentences the book:—

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‘I don’t mean to call Medwin a liar . . . The captain lies, sir, but it is under a
thousand mistakes. Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by virtue of his own egregious
stupidity, was the sole and sufficient bammifier of himself, I know not; neither greatly do I
care. This much is certain, . . . that the book throughout is full of things that were not, and
most resplendently deficient quoad the things that were.’

Yet it is on Medwin’s ‘Conversations’ alone that many of the magazine assertions in

regard to Lady Byron are founded.

It is on that authority that Lady Byron is accused of breaking open her husband’s writing-desk in his
absence, and sending the letters she found there to the husband of a lady compromised by them; and likewise
that Lord Byron is declared to have paid back his wife’s ten-thousand-pound wedding portion, and
doubled it. Moore makes no such statements; and his remarks about Lord Byron’s use of his
wife’s money are unmistakable evidence to the contrary. Moore, although Byron’s ardent
partisan, was too well informed to make assertions with regard to him, which, at that time, it would have been
perfectly easy to refute.

All these facts go to show that Lord Byron’s character for accuracy or veracity was not such as to
entitle him to ordinary confidence as a witness, especially in a case where he had the strongest motives for
misstatement.

And if we consider that the celebrated Autobiography was the finished, careful work of such a practised
‘mystifier,’ who can wonder that it presented a web of such intermingled truth and lies that
there was no such thing as disentangling it, and pointing out where falsehood ended and truth began?

But in regard to Lady Byron, what has been the universal impression of the world? It has been alleged against
her that she was a precise, straightforward woman, so accustomed to plain, literal dealings, that she could not
understand the various mystifications of her husband; and from that cause arose her unhappiness. Byron
speaks, in ‘The Sketch,’ of her peculiar truthfulness; and even in the
‘Clytemnestra’ poem, when accusing her of lying, he speaks of her as departing from

‘The early truth that was her proper praise.’

Lady Byron’s careful accuracy as to dates, to time, place, and circumstances, will probably be vouched
for by all the very large number of persons whom the management of her extended property and her works of
benevolence brought to act as co-operators or agents with her. She was not a person in the habit of making
exaggerated or ill-considered statements. Her published statement of 1830 is clear, exact, accurate, and
perfectly intelligible. The dates are carefully ascertained and stated, the expressions are moderate, and all the
assertions firm and perfectly definite.

It therefore seems remarkable that the whole reasoning on this Byron matter has generally been conducted by
assuming all Lord Byron’s statements to be true, and requiring all Lady Byron’s statements to
be sustained by other evidence.

If Lord Byron asserts that his wife deserted him, the assertion is accepted without proof; but, if Lady Byron
asserts that he ordered her to leave, that requires proof. Lady Byron asserts that she took counsel, on this
order of Lord Byron, with his family friends and physician, under the idea that it originated in insanity. The
‘Blackwood’ asks, “What family friends?’ says it doesn’t know of any;
and asks proof.

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If Lord Byron asserts that he always longed for a public investigation of the charges against him, the
‘Quarterly’ and ‘Blackwood’ quote the saying with ingenuous confidence. They
are obliged to admit that he refused to stand that public test; that he signed the deed of separation rather than
meet it. They know, also, that he could have at any time instituted suits against Lady Byron that would have
brought the whole matter into court, and that he did not. Why did he not? The ‘Quarterly’
simply intimates that such suits would have been unpleasant. Why? On account of personal delicacy? The
man that wrote ‘Don Juan,’ and furnished the details of his wedding-night, held back from
clearing his name by delicacy! It is astonishing to what extent this controversy has consisted in simply
repeating Lord Byron’s assertions over and over again, and calling the result proof.

Now, we propose a different course. As Lady Byron is not stated by her warm admirers to have had any
monomania for speaking untruths on any subject, we rank her value as a witness at a higher rate than Lord
Byron’s. She never accused her parents of madness or suicide, merely to make a sensation; never
‘bammed’ an acquaintance by false statements concerning the commercial honour of anyone
with whom she was in business relations; never wrote and sent to the press as a clever jest false statements
about herself; and never, in any other ingenious way, tampered with truth. We therefore hold it to be a mere
dictate of reason and common sense, that, in all cases where her statements conflict with her
husband’s, hers are to be taken as the more trustworthy.

The ‘London Quarterly,’ in a late article, distinctly repudiates Lady Byron’s statements
as sources of evidence, and throughout quotes statements of Lord Byron as if they had the force of
self-evident propositions. We consider such a course contrary to common sense as well as common good
manners.

The state of the case is just this: If Lord Byron did not make false statements on this subject it was certainly
an exception to his usual course. He certainly did make such on a great variety of other subjects. By his own
showing, he had a peculiar pleasure in falsifying language, and in misleading and betraying even his friends.

But, if Lady Byron gave false witness upon this subject, it was an exception to the whole course of her life.

The habits of her mind, the government of her conduct, her life-long reputation, all were those of a literal,
exact truthfulness.

The accusation of her being untruthful was first brought forward by her husband in the
‘Clytemnestra’ poem, in the autumn of 1816; but it never was publicly circulated till after his
death, and it was first formally made the basis of a published attack on Lady Byron in the July
‘Blackwood’ of 1869. Up to that time, we look in vain through current literature for any
indications that the world regarded Lady Byron otherwise than as a cold, careful, prudent woman, who made
no assertions, and had no confidants. When she spoke in 1830, it is perfectly evident that Christopher North
and his circle believed what she said, though reproving her for saying it at all.

The ‘Quarterly’ goes on to heap up a number of vague assertions,—that Lady Byron,

about the time of her separation, made a confidant of a young officer; that she told the clergyman of Ham of
some trials with Lord Ockham; and that she told stories of different things at different times.

All this is not proof: it is mere assertion, and assertion made to produce prejudice. It is like raising a
whirlwind of sand to blind the eyes that are looking for landmarks. It is quite probable Lady Byron told
different stories about Lord Byron at various times. No woman could have a greater variety of stories to tell;
and no woman ever was so persecuted and pursued and harassed, both by public literature and private
friendship, to say something. She had plenty of causes for a separation, without the fatal and final one. In her
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of them are the chief one. It is not different stories, but contradictory stories, that must be relied on to
disprove the credibility of a witness. The ‘Quarterly’ has certainly told a great number of
different stories,—stories which may prove as irreconcilable with each other as any attributed to Lady
Byron; but its denial of all weight to her testimony is simply begging the whole question under consideration.

A man gives testimony about the causes of a railroad accident, being the only eye-witness.

The opposing counsel begs, whatever else you do, you will not admit that man’s testimony. You ask,
‘Why? Has he ever been accused of want of veracity on other subjects?’—‘No:
he has stood high as a man of probity and honour for years.’—‘Why, then, throw out his
testimony?’

‘Because he lies in this instance,’ says the adversary: ‘his testimony does not agree with
this and that.’—‘Pardon me, that is the very point in question,’ say you:
‘we expect to prove that it does agree with this and that.’

Because certain letters of Lady Byron’s do not agree with the ‘Quarterly’s’
theory of the facts of the separation, it at once assumes that she is an untruthful witness, and proposes to throw
out her evidence altogether.

We propose, on the contrary, to regard Lady Byron’s evidence with all the attention due to the
statement of a high-minded conscientious person, never in any other case accused of violation of truth; we
also propose to show it to be in strict agreement with all well-authenticated facts and documents; and we
propose to treat Lord Byron’s evidence as that of a man of great subtlety, versed in mystification and
delighting in it, and who, on many other subjects, not only deceived, but gloried in deception; and then we
propose to show that it contradicts well-established facts and received documents.

One thing more we have to say concerning the laws of evidence in regard to documents presented in this
investigation.

This is not a London West-End affair, but a grave historical inquiry, in which the whole English-speaking
world are interested to know the truth.

As it is now too late to have the securities of a legal trial, certainly the rules of historical evidence should be
strictly observed. All important documents should be presented in an entire state, with a plain and open
account of their history,—who had them, where they were found, and how preserved.

There have been most excellent, credible, and authentic documents produced in this case; and, as a specimen
of them, we shall mention Lord Lindsay’s letter, and the journal and letter it authenticates. Lord
Lindsay at once comes forward, gives his name boldly, gives the history of the papers he produces, shows
how they came to be in his hands, why never produced before, and why now. We feel confidence at once.

But in regard to the important series of letters presented as Lady Byron’s, this obviously proper course
has not been pursued. Though assumed to be of the most critical importance, no such distinct history of them
was given in the first instance. The want of such evidence being noticed by other papers, the
‘Quarterly’ appears hurt that the high character of the magazine has not been a sufficient
guarantee; and still deals in vague statements that the letters have been freely circulated, and that two
noblemen of the highest character would vouch for them if necessary.

In our view, it is necessary. These noblemen should imitate Lord Lindsay’s example,—give a
fair account of these letters, under their own names; and then, we would add, it is needful for complete

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satisfaction to have the letters entire, and not in fragments.

The ‘Quarterly’ gave these letters with the evident implication that they are entirely destructive
to Lady Byron’s character as a witness. Now, has that magazine much reason to be hurt at even an
insinuation on its own character when making such deadly assaults on that of another? The individuals who
bring forth documents that they suppose to be deadly to the character of a noble person, always in her
generation held to be eminent for virtue, certainly should not murmur at being called upon to substantiate
these documents in the manner usually expected in historical investigations.

We have shown that these letters do not contradict, but that they perfectly confirm the facts, and agree with
the dates in Lady Byron’s published statements of 1830; and this is our reason for deeming them
authentic.

These considerations with regard to the manner of conducting the inquiry seem so obviously proper, that we
cannot but believe that they will command a serious attention.

CHAPTER V. THE DIRECT ARGUMENT TO PROVE THE CRIME.

We shall now proceed to state the argument against Lord Byron.

1st, There is direct evidence that Lord Byron was guilty of some unusual immorality.

The evidence is not, as the ‘Blackwood’ says, that Lushington yielded assent to the ex parte
statement of a client; nor, as the ‘Quarterly’ intimates, that he was affected by the charms of an
attractive young woman.

The first evidence of it is the fact that Lushington and Romilly offered to take the case into court, and make
there a public exhibition of the proofs on which their convictions were founded.

2nd, It is very strong evidence of this fact, that Lord Byron, while loudly declaring that he wished to know
with what he was charged, declined this open investigation, and, rather than meet it, signed a paper which he
had before refused to sign.

3rd, It is also strong evidence of this fact, that although secretly declaring to all his intimate friends that he
still wished open investigation in a court of justice, and affirming his belief that his character was being ruined
for want of it, he never afterwards took the means to get it. Instead of writing a private handbill, he might
have come to England and entered a suit; and he did not do it.

That Lord Byron was conscious of a great crime is further made probable by the peculiar malice he seemed to
bear to his wife’s legal counsel.

If there had been nothing to fear in that legal investigation wherewith they threatened him, why did he not
only flee from it, but regard with a peculiar bitterness those who advised and proposed it? To an innocent
man falsely accused, the certainties of law are a blessing and a refuge. Female charms cannot mislead in a
court of justice; and the atrocities of rumour are there sifted, and deprived of power. A trial is not a threat to
an innocent man: it is an invitation, an opportunity. Why, then, did he hate Sir Samuel Romilly, so that he
exulted like a fiend over his tragical death? The letter in which he pours forth this malignity was so brutal,
that Moore was obliged, by the general outcry of society, to suppress it. Is this the language of an innocent
man who has been offered a fair trial under his country’s laws? or of a guilty man, to whom the very
idea of public trial means public exposure?

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4th, It is probable that the crime was the one now alleged, because that was the most important crime charged
against him by rumour at the period. This appears by the following extract of a letter from Shelley, furnished
by the ‘Quarterly,’ dated Bath, Sept. 29, 1816:—

‘I saw Kinnaird, and had a long talk with him. He informed me that Lady Byron was
now in perfect health; that she was living with your sister. I felt much pleasure from this
intelligence. I consider the latter part of it as affording a decisive contradiction to the only
important calumny that ever was advanced against you. On this ground, at least, it will
become the world hereafter to be silent.’

It appears evident here that the charge of improper intimacy with his sister was, in the mind of Shelley, the
only important one that had yet been made against Lord Byron.

It is fairly inferable, from Lord Byron’s own statements, that his family friends believed this charge.
Lady Byron speaks, in her statement, of ‘nearest relatives’ and family friends who were
cognizant of Lord Byron’s strange conduct at the time of the separation; and Lord Byron, in the letter
to Bowles, before quoted, says that every one of his relations, except his sister, fell from him in this crisis like
leaves from a tree in autumn. There was, therefore, not only this report, but such appearances in support of it
as convinced those nearest to the scene, and best apprised of the facts; so that they fell from him entirely,
notwithstanding the strong influence of family feeling. The Guiccioli book also mentions this same allegation
as having arisen from peculiarities in Lord Byron’s manner of treating his sister:—

‘This deep, fraternal affection assumed at times, under the influence of his powerful
genius, and under exceptional circumstances, an almost too passionate expression, which
opened a fresh field to his enemies.’ {219}

It appears, then, that there was nothing in the character of Lord Byron and of his sister, as they appeared
before their generation, that prevented such a report from arising: on the contrary, there was something in
their relations that made it seem probable. And it appears that his own family friends were so affected by it,
that they, with one accord, deserted him. The ‘Quarterly’ presents the fact that Lady Byron
went to visit Mrs. Leigh at this time, as triumphant proof that she did not then believe it. Can the
‘Quarterly’ show just what Lady Byron’s state of mind was, or what her motives were,
in making that visit?

The ‘Quarterly’ seems to assume, that no woman, without gross hypocrisy, can stand by a sister
proven to have been guilty. We can appeal on this subject to all women. We fearlessly ask any wife,
‘Supposing your husband and sister were involved together in an infamous crime, and that you were
the mother of a young daughter whose life would be tainted by a knowledge of that crime, what would be
your wish? Would you wish to proclaim it forthwith? or would you wish quietly to separate from your
husband, and to cover the crime from the eye of man?’

It has been proved that Lady Byron did not reveal this even to her nearest relatives. It is proved that she
sealed the mouths of her counsel, and even of servants, so effectually, that they remain sealed even to this
day. This is evidence that she did not wish the thing known. It is proved also, that, in spite of her secrecy
with her parents and friends, the rumour got out, and was spoken of by Shelley as the only important one.

Now, let us see how this note, cited by the ‘Quarterly,’ confirms one of Lady Byron’s
own statements. She says to Lady Anne Barnard,—

‘I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord Byron in any way;
for, though he would not suffer me to remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing

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his friend; and it was from considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by
which my own conduct might have been more fully justified.’

How did Lady Byron silence accusations? First, by keeping silence to her nearest relatives; second, by
shutting the mouths of servants; third, by imposing silence on her friends,—as Lady Anne Barnard;
fourth, by silencing her legal counsel; fifth, and most entirely, by treating Mrs. Leigh, before the world, with
unaltered kindness. In the midst of the rumours, Lady Byron went to visit her; and Shelley says that the
movement was effectual. Can the ‘Quarterly’ prove that, at this time, Mrs. Leigh had not
confessed all, and thrown herself on Lady Byron’s mercy?

It is not necessary to suppose great horror and indignation on the part of Lady Byron. She may have regarded
her sister as the victim of a most singularly powerful tempter. Lord Byron, as she knew, had tried to corrupt
her own morals and faith. He had obtained a power over some women, even in the highest circles in England,
which had led them to forego the usual decorums of their sex, and had given rise to great scandals. He was a
being of wonderful personal attractions. He had not only strong poetical, but also strong logical power. He
was daring in speculation, and vigorous in sophistical argument; beautiful, dazzling, and possessed of
magnetic power of fascination. His sister had been kind and considerate to Lady Byron when Lord Byron was
brutal and cruel. She had been overcome by him, as a weaker nature sometimes sinks under the force of a
stronger one; and Lady Byron may really have considered her to be more sinned against than sinning.

Lord Byron, if we look at it rightly, did not corrupt Mrs. Leigh any more than he did the whole British public.
They rebelled at the immorality of his conduct and the obscenity of his writings; and he resolved that they
should accept both. And he made them do it. At first, they execrated ‘Don Juan.’ Murray was
afraid to publish it. Women were determined not to read it. In 1819, Dr. William Maginn of the Noctes wrote
a song against it in the following virtuous strain:—

‘Be “Juan,” then, unseen, unknown;

It must, or we shall rue it.
We may have virtue of our own:
Ah! why should we undo it?
The treasured faith of days long past
We still would prize o’er any,
And grieve to hear the ribald jeer
Of scamps like Don Giovanni.’

Lord Byron determined to conquer the virtuous scruples of the Noctes Club; and so we find this same Dr.
William Maginn, who in 1819 wrote so valiantly, in 1822 declaring that he would rather have written a page
of ‘Don Juan’ than a ton of ‘Childe Harold.’ All English morals were, in like
manner, formally surrendered to Lord Byron. Moore details his adulteries in Venice with unabashed
particularity: artists send for pictures of his principal mistresses; the literary world call for biographical
sketches of their points; Moore compares his wife and his last mistress in a neatly-turned sentence; and yet the
professor of morals in Edinburgh University recommends the biography as pure, and having no mud in it.
The mistress is lionized in London; and in 1869 is introduced to the world of letters by
‘Blackwood,’ and bid, ‘without a blush, to say she loved’—

This much being done to all England, it is quite possible that a woman like Lady Byron, standing silently
aside and surveying the course of things, may have thought that Mrs. Leigh was no more seduced than all the
rest of the world, and have said as we feel disposed to say of that generation, and of a good many in this,
‘Let him that is without sin among you cast the first stone.’

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The peculiar bitterness of remorse expressed in his works by Lord Byron is a further evidence that he had
committed an unusual crime. We are aware that evidence cannot be drawn in this manner from an
author’s works merely, if unsupported by any external probability. For example, the subject most
frequently and powerfully treated by Hawthorne is the influence of a secret, unconfessed crime on the soul:
nevertheless, as Hawthorne is well known to have always lived a pure and regular life, nobody has ever
suspected him of any greater sin than a vigorous imagination. But here is a man believed guilty of an
uncommon immorality by the two best lawyers in England, and threatened with an open exposure, which he
does not dare to meet. The crime is named in society; his own relations fall away from him on account of it; it
is only set at rest by the heroic conduct of his wife. Now, this man is stated by many of his friends to have
had all the appearance of a man secretly labouring under the consciousness of crime. Moore speaks of this
propensity in the following language:—

‘I have known him more than once, as we sat together after dinner, and he was a little
under the influence of wine, to fall seriously into this dark, self-accusing mood, and throw out
hints of his past life with an air of gloom and mystery designed evidently to awaken curiosity
and interest.’

Moore says that it was his own custom to dispel these appearances by ridicule, to which his friend was keenly
alive. And he goes on to say,—

‘It has sometimes occurred to me, that the occult causes of his lady’s separation
from him, round which herself and her legal advisers have thrown such formidable mystery,
may have been nothing more than some imposture of this kind, some dimly-hinted confession
of undefined horror, which, though intended by the relater to mystify and surprise, the hearer
so little understood as to take in sober seriousness.’ {225}

All we have to say is, that Lord Byron’s conduct in this respect is exactly what might have been
expected if he had a crime on his conscience.

The energy of remorse and despair expressed in ‘Manfred’ were so appalling and so vividly
personal, that the belief was universal on the Continent that the experience was wrought out of some actual
crime. Goethe expressed this idea, and had heard a murder imputed to Byron as the cause.

The allusion to the crime and consequences of incest is so plain in ‘Manfred,’ that it is
astonishing that any one can pretend, as Galt does, that it had any other application.

The hero speaks of the love between himself and the imaginary being whose spirit haunts him as having been
the deadliest sin, and one that has, perhaps, caused her eternal destruction.

‘What is she now? A sufferer for my sins;

A thing I dare not think upon.’

He speaks of her blood as haunting him, and as being

‘My blood,—the pure, warm stream

That ran in the veins of my fathers, and in ours
When we were in our youth, and had one heart,
And loved each other as we should not love.’

This work was conceived in the commotion of mind immediately following his separation. The scenery of it
was sketched in a journal sent to his sister at the time.

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In letter 377, defending the originality of the conception, and showing that it did not arise from reading
‘Faust,’ he says,—

‘It was the Steinbach and the Jungfrau, and something else, more than Faustus, that
made me write “Manfred.”’

In letter 288, speaking of the various accounts given by critics of the origin of the story, he says,—

‘The conjecturer is out, and knows nothing of the matter. I had a better origin than he
could devise or divine for the soul of him.’

In letter 299, he says:—

‘As to the germs of “Manfred,” they may be found in the journal I sent to Mrs. Leigh,
part of which you saw.’

It may be said, plausibly, that Lord Byron, if conscious of this crime, would not have expressed it in his
poetry. But his nature was such that he could not help it. Whatever he wrote that had any real power was
generally wrought out of self; and, when in a tumult of emotion, he could not help giving glimpses of the
cause. It appears that he did know that he had been accused of incest, and that Shelley thought that accusation
the only really important one; and yet, sensitive as he was to blame and reprobation, he ran upon this very
subject most likely to re-awaken scandal.

But Lord Byron’s strategy was always of the bold kind. It was the plan of the fugitive, who, instead of
running away, stations himself so near to danger, that nobody would ever think of looking for him there. He
published passionate verses to his sister on this principle. He imitated the security of an innocent man in
every thing but the unconscious energy of the agony which seized him when he gave vent to his nature in
poetry. The boldness of his strategy is evident through all his life. He began by charging his wife with the
very cruelty and deception which he was himself practising. He had spread a net for her feet, and he accused
her of spreading a net for his. He had placed her in a position where she could not speak, and then leisurely
shot arrows at her; and he represented her as having done the same by him. When he attacked her in
‘Don Juan,’ and strove to take from her the very protection {227}of womanly sacredness by
putting her name into the mouth of every ribald, he did a bold thing, and he knew it. He meant to do a bold
thing. There was a general outcry against it; and he fought it down, and gained his point. By sheer boldness
and perseverance, he turned the public from his wife, and to himself, in the face of their very groans and
protests. His ‘Manfred’ and his ‘Cain’ were parts of the same game. But the
involuntary cry of remorse and despair pierced even through his own artifices, in a manner that produced a
conviction of reality.

His evident fear and hatred of his wife were other symptoms of crime. There was no apparent occasion for
him to hate her. He admitted that she had been bright, amiable, good, agreeable; that her marriage had been a
very uncomfortable one; and he said to Madame de Staël, that he did not doubt she thought him deranged.
Why, then, did he hate her for wanting to live peaceably by herself? Why did he so fear her, that not one year
of his life passed without his concocting and circulating some public or private accusation against her? She,
by his own showing, published none against him. It is remarkable, that, in all his zeal to represent himself
injured, he nowhere quotes a single remark from Lady Byron, nor a story coming either directly or indirectly
from her or her family. He is in a fever in Venice, not from what she has spoken, but because she has sealed
the lips of her counsel, and because she and her family do not speak: so that he professes himself utterly
ignorant what form her allegations against him may take. He had heard from Shelley that his wife silenced
the most important calumny by going to make Mrs. Leigh a visit; and yet he is afraid of her,—so afraid,
that he tells Moore he expects she will attack him after death, and charges him to defend his grave.

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Now, if Lord Byron knew that his wife had a deadly secret that she could tell, all this conduct is explicable: it
is in the ordinary course of human nature. Men always distrust those who hold facts by which they can be
ruined. They fear them; they are antagonistic to them; they cannot trust them. The feeling of Falkland to
Caleb Williams, as portrayed in Godwin’s masterly sketch, is perfectly natural, and it is exactly
illustrative of what Byron felt for his wife. He hated her for having his secret; and, so far as a human being
could do it, he tried to destroy her character before the world, that she might not have the power to testify
against him. If we admit this solution, Byron’s conduct is at least that of a man who is acting as men
ordinarily would act under such circumstances: if we do not, he is acting like a fiend. Let us look at admitted
facts. He married his wife without love, in a gloomy, melancholy, morose state of mind. The servants testify
to strange, unaccountable treatment of her immediately after marriage; such that her confidential maid advises
her return to her parents. In Lady Byron’s letter to Mrs. Leigh, she reminds Lord Byron that he always
expressed a desire and determination to free himself from the marriage. Lord Byron himself admits to
Madame de Staël that his behaviour was such, that his wife must have thought him insane. Now we are asked
to believe, that simply because, under these circumstances, Lady Byron wished to live separate from her
husband, he hated and feared her so that he could never let her alone afterwards; that he charged her with
malice, slander, deceit, and deadly intentions against himself, merely out of spite, because she preferred not to
live with him. This last view of the case certainly makes Lord Byron more unaccountably wicked than the
other.

The first supposition shows him to us as a man in an agony of self-preservation; the second as a fiend,
delighting in gratuitous deceit and cruelty.

Again: a presumption of this crime appears in Lord Byron’s admission, in a letter to Moore, that he
had an illegitimate child born before he left England, and still living at the time.

In letter 307, to Mr. Moore, under date Venice, Feb. 2, 1818, Byron says, speaking of Moore’s loss of
a child,—

‘I know how to feel with you, because I am quite wrapped up in my own children.
Besides my little legitimate, I have made unto myself an illegitimate since [since
Ada’s birth] to say nothing of one before; and I look forward to one of these as the
pillar of my old age, supposing that I ever reach, as I hope I never shall, that desolating
period.’

The illegitimate child that he had made to himself since Ada’s birth was Allegra, born about nine or
ten months after the separation. The other illegitimate alluded to was born before, and, as the reader sees, was
spoken of as still living.

Moore appears to be puzzled to know who this child can be, and conjectures that it may possibly be the child
referred to in an early poem, written, while a schoolboy of nineteen, at Harrow.

On turning back to the note referred to, we find two things: first, that the child there mentioned was not
claimed by Lord Byron as his own, but that he asked his mother to care for it as belonging to a schoolmate
now dead; second, that the infant died shortly after, and, consequently, could not be the child mentioned in
this letter.

Now, besides this fact, that Lord Byron admitted a living illegitimate child born before Ada, we place this
other fact, that there was a child in England which was believed to be his by those who had every opportunity
of knowing.

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On this subject we shall cite a passage from a letter recently received by us from England, and written by a
person who appears well informed on the subject of his letter:—

‘The fact is, the incest was first committed, and the child of it born before, shortly
before, the Byron marriage. The child (a daughter) must not be confounded with the natural
daughter of Lord Byron, born about a year after his separation.

‘The history, more or less, of that child of incest, is known to many; for in Lady
Byron’s attempts to watch over her, and rescue her from ruin, she was compelled to
employ various agents at different times.’

This letter contains a full recognition, by an intelligent person in England, of a child corresponding well with
Lord Byron’s declaration of an illegitimate, born before he left England.

Up to this point, we have, then, the circumstantial evidence against Lord Byron as follows:—

A good and amiable woman, who had married him from love, determined to separate from him.

Two of the greatest lawyers of England confirmed her in this decision, and threatened Lord Byron, that, unless
he consented to this, they would expose the evidence against him in a suit for divorce. He fled from this
exposure, and never afterwards sought public investigation.

He was angry with and malicious towards the counsel who supported his wife; he was angry at and afraid of a
wife who did nothing to injure him, and he made it a special object to defame and degrade her. He gave such
evidence of remorse and fear in his writings as to lead eminent literary men to believe he had committed a
great crime. The public rumour of his day specified what the crime was. His relations, by his own showing,
joined against him. The report was silenced by his wife’s efforts only. Lord Byron subsequently
declares the existence of an illegitimate child, born before he left England. Corresponding to this, there is the
history, known in England, of a child believed to be his, in whom his wife took an interest.

All these presumptions exist independently of any direct testimony from Lady Byron. They are to be
admitted as true, whether she says a word one way or the other.

From this background of proof, I come forward, and testify to an interview with Lady Byron, in which she
gave me specific information of the facts in the case. That I report the facts just as I received them from her,
not altered or misremembered, is shown by the testimony of my sister, to whom I related them at the time. It
cannot, then, be denied that I had this interview, and that this communication was made. I therefore testify
that Lady Byron, for a proper purpose, and at a proper time, stated to me the following things:—

1. That the crime which separated her from Lord Byron was incest.

2. That she first discovered it by improper actions towards his sister, which, he meant to make her
understand, indicated the guilty relation.

3. That he admitted it, reasoned on it, defended it, tried to make her an accomplice, and, failing in that, hated
her and expelled her.

4. That he threatened her that he would make it his life’s object to destroy her character.

5. That for a period she was led to regard this conduct as insanity, and to consider him only as a diseased
person.

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6. That she had subsequent proof that the facts were really as she suspected; that there had been a child born
of the crime, whose history she knew; that Mrs. Leigh had repented.

The purpose for which this was stated to me was to ask, Was it her duty to make the truth fully known during
her lifetime?

Here, then, is a man believed guilty of an unusual crime by two lawyers, the best in England, who have seen
the evidence,—a man who dares not meet legal investigation. The crime is named in society, and
deemed so far probable to the men of his generation as to be spoken of by Shelley as the only important
allegation against him. He acts through life exactly like a man struggling with remorse, and afraid of
detection; he has all the restlessness and hatred and fear that a man has who feels that there is evidence which
might destroy him. He admits an illegitimate child besides Allegra. A child believed to have been his is
known to many in England. Added to all this, his widow, now advanced in years, and standing on the borders
of eternity, being, as appears by her writings and conversation, of perfectly sound mind at the time, testifies to
me the facts before named, which exactly correspond to probabilities.

I publish the statement; and the solicitors who hold Lady Byron’s private papers do not deny the truth
of the story. They try to cast discredit on me for speaking; but they do not say that I have spoken falsely, or
that the story is not true. The lawyer who knew Lady Byron’s story in 1816 does not now deny that
this is the true one. Several persons in England testify that, at various times, and for various purposes, the
same story has been told to them. Moreover, it appears from my last letter addressed to Lady Byron on this
subject, that I recommended her to leave all necessary papers in the hands of some discreet persons, who,
after both had passed away, should see that justice was done. The solicitors admit that Lady Byron has left
sealed papers of great importance in the hands of trustees, with discretionary power. I have been informed
very directly that the nature of these documents was such as to lead to the suppression of Lady Byron’s
life and writings. This is all exactly as it would be, if the story related by Lady Byron were the true one.

The evidence under this point of view is so strong, that a great effort has been made to throw out Lady
Byron’s testimony.

This attempt has been made on two grounds. 1st, That she was under a mental hallucination. This theory has
been most ably refuted by the very first authority in England upon the subject. He says,—

‘No person practically acquainted with the true characteristics of insanity would
affirm, that, had this idea of “incest” been an insane hallucination, Lady Byron
could, from the lengthened period which intervened between her unhappy marriage and death,
have refrained from exhibiting it, not only to legal advisers and trustees (assuming that she
revealed to them the fact), but to others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from them as to her
mental impressions. Lunatics do for a time, and for some special purpose, most cunningly
conceal their delusions; but they have not the capacity to struggle for thirty-six years, as Lady
Byron must have done, with so frightful an hallucination, without the insane state of mind
becoming obvious to those with whom they are daily associating. Neither is it consistent with
experience to suppose, that, if Lady Byron had been a monomaniac, her state of disordered
understanding would have been restricted to one hallucination. Her diseased brain, affecting
the normal action of thought, would, in all probability, have manifested other symptoms
besides those referred to of aberration of intellect.

‘During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity (assuming the
hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with that of Lady Byron. In my experience, it is
unique. I never saw a patient with such a delusion.’

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We refer our readers to a careful study of Dr. Forbes Winslow’s consideration of this subject given in
Part III. Anyone who has been familiar with the delicacy and acuteness of Dr. Winslow, as shown in his work
on obscure diseases of the brain and nerves, must feel that his positive assertion on this ground is the best
possible evidence. We here gratefully acknowledge our obligations to Dr. Winslow for the corrected proof of
his valuable letter, which he has done us the honour to send for this work. We shall consider that his
argument, in connection with what the reader may observe of Lady Byron’s own writings, closes that
issue of the case completely.

The other alternative is, that Lady Byron deliberately committed false witness. This was the ground assumed
by the ‘Blackwood,’ when in July, 1869, it took upon itself the responsibility of re-opening the
Byron controversy. It is also the ground assumed by ‘The London Quarterly’ of to-day.

Both say, in so many words, that no crime was imputed to Lord Byron; that the representations made to
Lushington in the beginning were false ones; and that the story told to Lady Byron’s confidential
friends in later days was also false.

Let us examine this theory. In the first place, it requires us to believe in the existence of a moral monster of
whom Madame Brinvilliers is cited as the type. The ‘Blackwood,’ let it be remembered, opens
the controversy with the statement that Lady Byron was a Madame Brinvilliers. The
‘Quarterly’ does not shrink from the same assumption.

Let us consider the probability of this question.

If Lady Byron were such a woman, and wished to ruin her husband’s reputation in order to save her
own, and, being perfectly unscrupulous, had circulated against him a story of unnatural crime which had no
proofs, how came two of the first lawyers of England to assume the responsibility of offering to present her
case in open court? How came her husband, if he knew himself guiltless, to shrink from that public
investigation which must have demonstrated his innocence? Most astonishing of all, when he fled from trial,
and the report got abroad against him in England, and was believed even by his own relations, why did not his
wife avail herself of the moment to complete her victory? If at that moment she had publicly broken with
Mrs. Leigh, she might have confirmed every rumour. Did she do it? and why not? According to the
‘Blackwood,’ we have here a woman who has made up a frightful story to ruin her
husband’s reputation, yet who takes every pains afterwards to prevent its being ruined. She fails to do
the very thing she undertakes; and for years after, rather than injure him, she loses public sympathy, and, by
sealing the lips of her legal counsel, deprives herself of the advantage of their testimony.

Moreover, if a desire for revenge could have been excited in her, it would have been provoked by the first
publication of the fourth canto of ‘Childe Harold,’ when she felt that Byron was attacking her
before the world. Yet we have Lady Anne Barnard’s testimony, that, at this time, she was so far from
wishing to injure him, that all her communications were guarded by cautious secrecy. At this time, also, she
had a strong party in England, to whom she could have appealed. Again: when ‘Don Juan’ was
first printed, it excited a violent re-action against Lord Byron. Had his wife chosen then to accuse him, and
display the evidence she had shown to her counsel, there is little doubt that all the world would have stood
with her; but she did not. After his death, when she spoke at last, there seems little doubt from the strength of
Dr. Lushington’s language, that Lady Byron had a very strong case, and that, had she been willing, her
counsel could have told much more than he did. She might then have told her whole story, and been
believed. Her word was believed by Christopher North, and accepted as proof that Byron had been a great
criminal. Had revenge been her motive, she could have spoken the ONE WORD more that North called for.

The ‘Quarterly’ asks why she waited till everybody concerned was dead. There is an obvious
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there were the best reasons for withholding it. When all were gone from earth, and she herself was in constant
expectation of passing away, there was a reason, and a proper one, why she should speak. By nature and
principle truthful, she had had the opportunity of silently watching the operation of a permitted lie upon a
whole generation. She had been placed in a position in which it was necessary, by silence, to allow the spread
and propagation through society of a radical falsehood. Lord Byron’s life, fame, and genius had all
struck their roots into this lie, been nourished by it, and had derived thence a poisonous power.

In reading this history, it will be remarked that he pleaded his personal misfortunes in his marriage as excuses
for every offence against morality, and that the literary world of England accepted the plea, and tolerated and
justified the crimes. Never before, in England, had adultery been spoken of in so respectful a manner, and an
adulteress openly praised and fêted, and obscene language and licentious images publicly tolerated; and all on
the plea of a man’s private misfortunes.

There was, therefore, great force in the suggestion made to Lady Byron, that she owed a testimony in this case
to truth and justice, irrespective of any personal considerations. There is no more real reason for allowing the
spread of a hurtful falsehood that affects ourselves than for allowing one that affects our neighbour. This
falsehood had corrupted the literature and morals of both England and America, and led to the public
toleration, by respectable authorities, of forms of vice at first indignantly rejected. The question was, Was this
falsehood to go on corrupting literature as long as history lasted? Had the world no right to true history? Had
she who possessed the truth no responsibility to the world? Was not a final silence a confirmation of a lie
with all its consequences?

This testimony of Lady Byron, so far from being thrown out altogether, as the ‘Quarterly’
proposes, has a peculiar and specific value from the great forbearance and reticence which characterised the
greater part of her life.

The testimony of a person who has shown in every action perfect friendliness to another comes with the more
weight on that account. Testimony extorted by conscience from a parent against a child, or a wife against a
husband, where all the other actions of the life prove the existence of kind feeling, is held to be the strongest
form of evidence.

The fact that Lady Byron, under the severest temptations and the bitterest insults and injuries, withheld every
word by which Lord Byron could be criminated, so long as he and his sister were living, is strong evidence,
that, when she did speak, it was not under the influence of ill-will, but of pure conscientious convictions; and
the fullest weight ought, therefore, to be given to her testimony.

We are asked now why she ever spoke at all. The fact that her story is known to several persons in England is
brought up as if it were a crime. To this we answer, Lady Byron had an undoubted moral right to have
exposed the whole story in a public court in 1816, and thus cut herself loose from her husband by a divorce.
For the sake of saving her husband and sister from destruction, she waived this right to self-justification, and
stood for years a silent sufferer under calumny and misrepresentation. She desired nothing but to retire from
the whole subject; to be permitted to enjoy with her child the peace and seclusion that belong to her sex. Her
husband made her, through his life and after his death, a subject of such constant discussion, that she must
either abandon the current literature of her day, or run the risk of reading more or less about herself in almost
every magazine of her time. Conversations with Lord Byron, notes of interviews with Lord Byron, journals of
time spent with Lord Byron, were constantly spread before the public. Leigh Hunt, Galt, Medwin, Trelawney,
Lady Blessington, Dr. Kennedy, and Thomas Moore, all poured forth their memorials; and in all she figured
prominently. All these had their tribes of reviewers and critics, who also discussed her. The profound
mystery of her silence seemed constantly to provoke inquiry. People could not forgive her for not speaking.
Her privacy, retirement, and silence were set down as coldness, haughtiness, and contempt of human
sympathy. She was constantly challenged to say something: as, for example, in the ‘Noctes’ of

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November 1825, six months after Byron’s death, Christopher North says, speaking of the burning of
the Autobiography,—

‘I think, since the Memoir was burned by these people, these people are bound to put
us in possession of the best evidence they still have the power of producing, in order that we
may come to a just conclusion as to a subject upon which, by their act, at least, as much as by
any other people’s act, we are compelled to consider it our duty to make up our
deliberate opinion,—deliberate and decisive. Woe be to those who provoke this
curiosity, and will not allay it! Woe be to them! say I. Woe to them! says the world.’

When Lady Byron published her statement, which certainly seemed called for by this language, Christopher
North blamed her for doing it, and then again said that she ought to go on and tell the whole story. If she was
thus adjured to speak, blamed for speaking, and adjured to speak further, all in one breath, by public prints,
there is reason to think that there could not have come less solicitation from private sources,—from
friends who had access to her at all hours, whom she loved, by whom she was beloved, and to whom her
refusal to explain might seem a breach of friendship. Yet there is no evidence on record, that we have seen,
that she ever had other confidant than her legal counsel, till after all the actors in the events were in their
graves, and the daughter, for whose sake largely the secret was guarded, had followed them.

Now, does anyone claim, that, because a woman has sacrificed for twenty years all cravings for human
sympathy, and all possibility of perfectly free and unconstrained intercourse with her friends, that she is
obliged to go on bearing this same lonely burden to the end of her days?

Let anyone imagine the frightful constraint and solitude implied in this sentence. Let anyone, too, think of its
painful complications in life. The roots of a falsehood are far-reaching. Conduct that can only be explained
by criminating another must often seem unreasonable and unaccountable; and the most truthful person, who
feels bound to keep silence regarding a radical lie of another, must often be placed in positions most trying to
conscientiousness. The great merit of ‘Caleb Williams’ as a novel consists in its philosophical
analysis of the utter helplessness of an innocent person who agrees to keep the secret of a guilty one. One
sees there how that necessity of silence produces all the effect of falsehood on his part, and deprives him of
the confidence and sympathy of those with whom he would take refuge.

For years, this unnatural life was forced on Lady Byron, involving her as in a network, even in her dearest
family relations.

That, when all the parties were dead, Lady Byron should allow herself the sympathy of a circle of intimate
friends, is something so perfectly proper and natural, that we cannot but wonder that her conduct in this
respect has ever been called in question. If it was her right to have had a public exposé in 1816, it was
certainly her right to show to her own intimate circle the secret of her life when all the principal actors were
passed from earth.

The ‘Quarterly’ speaks as if, by thus waiting, she deprived Lord Byron of the testimony of
living witnesses. But there were as many witnesses and partisans dead on her side as on his. Lady Milbanke
and Sir Ralph, Sir Samuel Romilly and Lady Anne Barnard were as much dead as Hobhouse, Moore, and
others of Byron’s partisans.

The ‘Quarterly’ speaks of Lady Byron as ‘running round, and repeating her story to
people mostly below her own rank in life.’

To those who know the personal dignity of Lady Byron’s manners, represented and dwelt on by her
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cause which can defend itself by no better weapons.

Lord Byron speaks of his wife as ‘highly cultivated;’ as having ‘a degree of self-control
I never saw equalled.’

‘I am certain,’ he says, ‘that Lady Byron’s first idea is what is

due to herself: I mean that it is the undeviating rule of her conduct . . . . Now, my besetting
sin is a want of that self-respect which she has in excess . . . . But, though I accuse Lady
Byron of an excess of self-respect, I must, in candour, admit, that, if any person ever had
excuse for an extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all her thoughts, words, and actions,
she is the most decorous woman that ever existed.’

This is the kind of woman who has lately been accused in the public prints as a babbler of secrets and a gossip
in regard to her private difficulties with children, grandchildren, and servants. It is a fair specimen of the
justice that has generally been meted out to Lady Byron.

In 1836, she was accused of having made a confidant of Campbell, on the strength of having written him a
note declining to give him any information, or answer any questions. In July, 1869, she was denounced by
‘Blackwood’ as a Madame Brinvilliers for keeping such perfect silence on the matter of her
husband’s character; and in the last ‘Quarterly’ she is spoken of as a gossip
‘running round, and repeating her story to people below her in rank.’

While we are upon this subject, we have a suggestion to make. John Stuart Mill says that utter
self-abnegation has been preached to women as a peculiarly feminine virtue. It is true; but there is a moral
limit to the value of self-abnegation.

It is a fair question for the moralist, whether it is right and proper wholly to ignore one’s personal
claims to justice. The teachings of the Saviour give us warrant for submitting to personal injuries; but both
the Saviour and St. Paul manifested bravery in denying false accusations, and asserting innocence.

Lady Byron was falsely accused of having ruined the man of his generation, and caused all his vices and
crimes, and all their evil effects on society. She submitted to the accusation for a certain number of years for
reasons which commended themselves to her conscience; but when all the personal considerations were
removed, and she was about passing from life, it was right, it was just, it was strictly in accordance with the
philosophical and ethical character of her mind, and with her habit of considering all things in their widest
relations to the good of mankind, that she should give serious attention and consideration to the last duty
which she might owe to abstract truth and justice in her generation.

In her letter on the religious state of England, we find her advocating an absolute frankness in all religious
parties. She would have all openly confess those doubts, which, from the best of motives, are usually
suppressed; and believed, that, as a result of such perfect truthfulness, a wider love would prevail among
Christians. This shows the strength of her conviction of the power and the importance of absolute truth; and
shows, therefore, that her doubts and conscientious inquiries respecting her duty on this subject are exactly
what might have been expected from a person of her character and principles.

Having thus shown that Lady Byron’s testimony is the testimony of a woman of strong and sound
mind, that it was not given from malice nor ill-will, that it was given at a proper time and in a proper manner,
and for a purpose in accordance with the most elevated moral views, and that it is coincident with all the
established facts of this history, and furnishes a perfect solution of every mystery of the case, we think we
shall carry the reader with us in saying that it is to be received as absolute truth.

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This conviction we arrive at while as yet we are deprived of the statement prepared by Lady Byron, and the
proof by which she expected to sustain it; both which, as we understand, are now in the hands of her trustees.

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The credibility of the accusation of the unnatural crime charged to Lord Byron is greater than if charged to
most men. He was born of parents both of whom were remarkable for perfectly ungoverned passions. There
appears to be historical evidence that he was speaking literal truth when he says to Medwin of his
father,—

‘He would have made a bad hero for Hannah More. He ran out three fortunes, and
married or ran away with three women . . . He seemed born for his own ruin and that of the
other sex. He began by seducing Lady Carmarthen, and spent her four thousand pounds; and,
not content with one adventure of this kind, afterwards eloped with Miss
Gordon.’—Medwin’s Conversations, p.31.

Lady Carmarthen here spoken of was the mother of Mrs. Leigh. Miss Gordon became Lord Byron’s
mother.

By his own account, and that of Moore, she was a passionate, ungoverned, though affectionate woman. Lord
Byron says to Medwin,—

‘I lost my father when I was only six years of age. My mother, when she was in a
passion with me (and I gave her cause enough), used to say, “O you little dog! you are
a Byron all over; you are as bad as your father!”’—Ibid., p.37.

By all the accounts of his childhood and early youth, it is made apparent that ancestral causes had sent him
into the world with a most perilous and exceptional sensitiveness of brain and nervous system, which it would
have required the most judicious course of education to direct safely and happily.

Lord Byron often speaks as if he deemed himself subject to tendencies which might terminate in insanity.
The idea is so often mentioned and dwelt upon in his letters, journals, and conversations, that we cannot but
ascribe it to some very peculiar experience, and not to mere affectation.

But, in the history of his early childhood and youth, we see no evidence of any original malformation of
nature. We see only evidence of one of those organisations, full of hope and full of peril, which adverse
influences might easily drive to insanity, but wise physiological training and judicious moral culture might
have guided to the most splendid results. But of these he had neither. He was alternately the pet and victim of
his mother’s tumultuous nature, and equally injured both by her love and her anger. A Scotch maid of
religious character gave him early serious impressions of religion, and thus added the element of an awakened
conscience to the conflicting ones of his character.

Education, in the proper sense of the word, did not exist in England in those days. Physiological
considerations of the influence of the body on the soul, of the power of brain and nerve over moral
development, had then not even entered the general thought of society. The school and college education
literally taught him nothing but the ancient classics, of whose power in exciting and developing the animal
passions Byron often speaks.

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The morality of the times is strikingly exemplified even in its literary criticism.

For example: One of Byron’s poems, written while a schoolboy at Harrow, is addressed to ‘My
Son.’ Mr. Moore, and the annotator of the standard edition of Byron’s poems, gravely give the
public their speculations on the point, whether Lord Byron first became a father while a schoolboy at Harrow;
and go into particulars in relation to a certain infant, the claim to which lay between Lord Byron and another
schoolfellow. It is not the nature of the event itself, so much as the cool, unembarrassed manner in which it is
discussed, that gives the impression of the state of public morals. There is no intimation of anything unusual,
or discreditable to the school, in the event, and no apparent suspicion that it will be regarded as a serious
imputation on Lord Byron’s character.

Modern physiological developments would lead any person versed in the study of the reciprocal influence of
physical and moral laws to anticipate the most serious danger to such an organisation as Lord Byron’s,
from a precocious development of the passions. Alcoholic and narcotic stimulants, in the case of such a
person, would be regarded as little less than suicidal, and an early course of combined drinking and
licentiousness as tending directly to establish those unsound conditions which lead towards moral insanity.
Yet not only Lord Byron’s testimony, but every probability from the licence of society, goes to show
that this was exactly what did take place.

Neither restrained by education, nor warned by any correct physiological knowledge, nor held in check by any
public sentiment, he drifted directly upon the fatal rock.

Here we give Mr. Moore full credit for all his abatements in regard to Lord Byron’s excesses in his
early days. Moore makes the point very strongly that he was not, de facto, even so bad as many of his
associates; and we agree with him. Byron’s physical organisation was originally as fine and sensitive
as that of the most delicate woman. He possessed the faculty of moral ideality in a high degree; and he had
not, in the earlier part of his life, an attraction towards mere brutal vice. His physical sensitiveness was so
remarkable that he says of himself, ‘A dose of salts has the effect of a temporary inebriation, like light
champagne, upon me.’ Yet this exceptionally delicately-organised boy and youth was in a circle
where not to conform to the coarse drinking-customs of his day was to incur censure and ridicule. That he
early acquired the power of bearing large quantities of liquor is manifested by the record in his Journal, that,
on the day when he read the severe ‘Edinburgh’ article upon his schoolboy poems, he drank
three bottles of claret at a sitting.

Yet Byron was so far superior to his times, that some vague impulses to physiological prudence seem to have
suggested themselves to him, and been acted upon with great vigour. He never could have lived so long as he
did, under the exhaustive process of every kind of excess, if he had not re-enforced his physical nature by an
assiduous care of his muscular system. He took boxing-lessons, and distinguished himself in all athletic
exercises.

He also had periods in which he seemed to try vaguely to retrieve himself from dissipation, and to acquire
self-mastery by what he called temperance.

But, ignorant and excessive in all his movements, his very efforts at temperance were intemperate. From
violent excesses in eating and drinking, he would pass to no less unnatural periods of utter abstinence. Thus
the very conservative power which Nature has of adapting herself to any settled course was lost. The extreme
sensitiveness produced by long periods of utter abstinence made the succeeding debauch more maddening and
fatal. He was like a fine musical instrument, whose strings were every day alternating between extreme
tension and perfect laxity. We have in his Journal many passages, of which the following is a
specimen:—

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‘I have dined regularly to-day, for the first time since Sunday last; this being Sabbath
too,—all the rest, tea and dry biscuits, six per diem. I wish to God I had not dined,
now! It kills me with heaviness, stupor, and horrible dreams; and yet it was but a pint of
bucellas, and fish. Meat I never touch, nor much vegetable diet. I wish I were in the country,
to take exercise, instead of being obliged to cool by abstinence, in lieu of it. I should not so
much mind a little accession of flesh: my bones can well bear it. But the worst is, the Devil
always came with it, till I starved him out; and I will not be the slave of any appetite. If I do
err, it shall be my heart, at least, that heralds the way. O my head! how it aches! The horrors
of digestion! I wonder how Bonaparte’s dinner agrees with
him.’—Moore’s Life, vol. ii. p.264.

From all the contemporary history and literature of the times, therefore, we have reason to believe that Lord
Byron spoke the exact truth when he said to Medwin,—

‘My own master at an age when I most required a guide, left to the dominion of my
passions when they were the strongest, with a fortune anticipated before I came into
possession of it, and a constitution impaired by early excesses, I commenced my travels, in
1809, with a joyless indifference to the world and all that was before
me.’—Medwin’s Conversations, p.42.

Utter prostration of the whole physical man from intemperate excess, the deadness to temptation which comes
from utter exhaustion, was his condition, according to himself and Moore, when he first left England, at
twenty-one years of age.

In considering his subsequent history, we are to take into account that it was upon the brain and nerve-power,
thus exhausted by early excess, that the draughts of sudden and rapid literary composition began to be made.
There was something unnatural and unhealthy in the rapidity, clearness, and vigour with which his various
works followed each other. Subsequently to the first two cantos of ‘Childe Harold,’
‘The Bride of Abydos,’ ‘The Corsair,’ ‘The Giaour,’
‘Lara,’ ‘Parisina,’ and ‘The Siege of Corinth,’ all followed close
upon each other, in a space of less than three years, and those the three most critical years of his life.
‘The Bride of Abydos’ came out in the autumn of 1813, and was written in a week; and
‘The Corsair’ was composed in thirteen days. A few months more than a year before his
marriage, and the brief space of his married life, was the period in which all this literary labour was
performed, while yet he was running the wild career of intrigue and fashionable folly. He speaks of
‘Lara’ as being tossed off in the intervals between masquerades and balls, etc. It is with the
physical results of such unnatural efforts that we have now chiefly to do. Every physiologist would say that
the demands of such poems on a healthy brain, in that given space, must have been exhausting; but when we
consider that they were cheques drawn on a bank broken by early extravagance, and that the subject was
prodigally spending vital forces in every other direction at the same time, one can scarcely estimate the
physiological madness of such a course as Lord Byron’s.

It is evident from his Journal, and Moore’s account, that any amount of physical force which was for
the time restored by his first foreign travel was recklessly spent in this period, when he threw himself with a
mad recklessness into London society in the time just preceding his marriage. The revelations made in
Moore’s Memoir of this period are sad enough: those to Medwin are so appalling as to the state of
contemporary society in England, as to require, at least, the benefit of the doubt for which Lord
Byron’s habitual carelessness of truth gave scope. His adventures with ladies of the highest rank in
England are there paraded with a freedom of detail that respect for womanhood must lead every woman to
question. The only thing that is unquestionable is, that Lord Byron made these assertions to Medwin, not as
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face of the society to which they related.

When Lord Byron says, ‘I have seen a great deal of Italian society, and swum in a gondola; but nothing
could equal the profligacy of high life in England . . . when I knew it,’ he makes certainly strong
assertions, if we remember what Mr. Moore reveals of the harem kept in Venice.

But when Lord Byron intimates that three married women in his own rank in life, who had once held illicit
relations with him, made wedding-visits to his wife at one time, we must hope that he drew on his active
imagination, as he often did, in his statements in regard to women.

When he relates at large his amour with Lord Melbourne’s wife, and represents her as pursuing him
with an insane passion, to which he with difficulty responded; and when he says that she tracked a rival lady
to his lodgings, and came into them herself, disguised as a carman—one hopes that he exaggerates.
And what are we to make of passages like this?—

‘There was a lady at that time, double my own age, the mother of several children who
were perfect angels, with whom I formed a liaison that continued without interruption for
eight months. She told me she was never in love till she was thirty, and I thought myself so
with her when she was forty. I never felt a stronger passion, which she returned with equal
ardour . . . . . . .

‘Strange as it may seem, she gained, as all women do, an influence over me so strong
that I had great difficulty in breaking with her.’

Unfortunately, these statements, though probably exaggerated, are, for substance, borne out in the history of
the times. With every possible abatement for exaggeration in these statements, there remains still undoubted
evidence from other sources that Lord Byron exercised a most peculiar and fatal power over the moral sense
of the women with whom he was brought in relation; and that love for him, in many women, became a sort of
insanity, depriving them of the just use of their faculties. All this makes his fatal history both possible and
probable.

Even the article in ‘Blackwood,’ written in 1825 for the express purpose of vindicating his
character, admits that his name had been coupled with those of three, four, or more women of rank, whom it
speaks of as ‘licentious, unprincipled, characterless women.’

That such a course, in connection with alternate extremes of excess and abstinence in eating and drinking, and
the immense draughts on the brain-power of rapid and brilliant composition, should have ended in that
abnormal state in which cravings for unnatural vice give indications of approaching brain-disease, seems only
too probable.

This symptom of exhausted vitality becomes often a frequent type in periods of very corrupt society. The
dregs of the old Greek and Roman civilisation were foul with it; and the apostle speaks of the turning of the
use of the natural into that which is against nature, as the last step in abandonment.

The very literature of such periods marks their want of physical and moral soundness. Having lost all sense of
what is simple and natural and pure, the mind delights to dwell on horrible ideas, which give a shuddering
sense of guilt and crime. All the writings of this fatal period of Lord Byron’s life are more or less
intense histories of unrepentant guilt and remorse or of unnatural crime. A recent writer in ‘Temple
Bar’ brings to light the fact, that ‘The Bride of Abydos,’ the first of the brilliant and
rapid series of poems which began in the period immediately preceding his marriage, was, in its first
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declared, in a letter to Galt, that it was drawn from real life; that, in compliance with the prejudices of the age,
he altered the relationship to that of cousins before publication.

This same writer goes on to show, by a series of extracts from Lord Byron’s published letters and
journals, that his mind about this time was in a fearfully unnatural state, and suffering singular and
inexplicable agonies of remorse; that, though he was accustomed fearlessly to confide to his friends
immoralities which would be looked upon as damning, there was now a secret to which he could not help
alluding in his letters, but which he told Moore he could not tell now, but ‘some day or other when we
are veterans.’ He speaks of his heart as eating itself out; of a mysterious person, whom he says,
‘God knows I love too well, and the Devil probably too.’ He wrote a song, and sent it to
Moore, addressed to a partner in some awful guilt, whose very name he dares not mention, because

‘There is grief in the sound, there is guilt in the fame.’

He speaks of struggles of remorse, of efforts at repentance, and returns to guilt, with a sort of horror very
different from the well-pleased air with which he relates to Medwin his common intrigues and adulteries. He
speaks of himself generally as oppressed by a frightful, unnatural gloom and horror, and, when occasionally
happy, ‘not in a way that can or ought to last.’

‘The Giaour,’ ‘The Corsair,’ ‘Lara,’ ‘Parisina,’

‘The Siege of Corinth,’ and ‘Manfred,’ all written or conceived about this period
of his life, give one picture of a desperate, despairing, unrepentant soul, whom suffering maddens, but cannot
reclaim.

In all these he paints only the one woman, of concentrated, unconsidering passion, ready to sacrifice heaven
and defy hell for a guilty man, beloved in spite of religion or reason. In this unnatural literature, the stimulus
of crime is represented as intensifying love. Medora, Gulnare, the Page in ‘Lara,’ Parisina, and
the lost sister of Manfred, love the more intensely because the object of the love is a criminal, out-lawed by
God and man. The next step beyond this is—madness.

The work of Dr. Forbes Winslow on ‘Obscure Diseases of the Brain and Nerves’ {258}
contains a passage so very descriptive of the case of Lord Byron, that it might seem to have been written for
it. The sixth chapter of his work, on ‘Anomalous and Masked Affections of the Mind,’
contains, in our view, the only clue that can unravel the sad tragedy of Byron’s life. He says,
p.87,—

‘These forms of unrecognised mental disorder are not always accompanied by any
well-marked disturbance of the bodily health requiring medical attention, or any obvious
departure from a normal state of thought and conduct such as to justify legal interference;
neither do these affections always incapacitate the party from engaging in the ordinary
business of life . . . . The change may have progressed insidiously and stealthily, having
slowly and almost imperceptibly induced important molecular modifications in the delicate
vesicular neurine of the brain, ultimately resulting in some aberration of the ideas, alteration
of the affections, or perversion of the propensities or instincts. . . .

‘Mental disorder of a dangerous character has been known for years to be stealthily
advancing, without exciting the slightest notion of its presence, until some sad and terrible
catastrophe, homicide, or suicide, has painfully awakened attention to its existence. Persons
suffering from latent insanity often affect singularity of dress, gait, conversation, and
phraseology. The most trifling circumstances stimulate their excitability. They are martyrs to
ungovernable paroxysms of passion, are inflamed to a state of demoniacal fury by the most

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insignificant of causes, and occasionally lose all sense of delicacy of feeling, sentiment,
refinement of manners and conversation. Such manifestations of undetected mental disorder
may be seen associated with intellectual and moral qualities of the highest order.’

In another place, Dr. Winslow again adverts to this latter symptom, which was strikingly marked in the case
of Lord Byron:—

‘All delicacy and decency of thought are occasionally banished from the mind, so
effectually does the principle of thought in these attacks succumb to the animal instincts and
passions . . . .

‘Such cases will commonly be found associated with organic predisposition to insanity
or cerebral disease . . . . Modifications of the malady are seen allied with genius. The
biographies of Cowper, Burns, Byron, Johnson, Pope, and Haydon establish that the most
exalted intellectual conditions do not escape unscathed.

‘In early childhood, this form of mental disturbance may, in many cases, be detected.
To its existence is often to be traced the motiveless crimes of the young.’

No one can compare this passage of Dr. Forbes Winslow with the incidents we have already cited as occurring
in that fatal period before the separation of Lord and Lady Byron, and not feel that the hapless young wife was
indeed struggling with those inflexible natural laws, which, at some stages of retribution, involve in their
awful sweep the guilty with the innocent. She longed to save; but he was gone past redemption. Alcoholic
stimulants and licentious excesses, without doubt, had produced those unseen changes in the brain, of which
Dr. Forbes Winslow speaks; and the results were terrible in proportion to the peculiar fineness and delicacy of
the organism deranged.

Alas! the history of Lady Byron is the history of too many women in every rank of life who are called, in
agonies of perplexity and fear, to watch that gradual process by which physical excesses change the organism
of the brain, till slow, creeping, moral insanity comes on. The woman who is the helpless victim of cruelties
which only unnatural states of the brain could invent, who is heart-sick to-day and dreads
to-morrow,—looks in hopeless horror on the fatal process by which a lover and a protector changes
under her eyes, from day to day, to a brute and a fiend.

Lady Byron’s married life—alas! it is lived over in many a cottage and tenement-house, with no
understanding on either side of the cause of the woeful misery.

Dr. Winslow truly says, ‘The science of these brain-affections is yet in its infancy in England.’
At that time, it had not even begun to be. Madness was a fixed point; and the inquiries into it had no nicety.
Its treatment, if established, had no redeeming power. Insanity simply locked a man up as a dangerous being;
and the very suggestion of it, therefore, was resented as an injury.

A most peculiar and affecting feature of that form of brain disease which hurries its victim, as by an
overpowering mania, into crime, is, that often the moral faculties and the affections remain to a degree
unimpaired, and protest with all their strength against the outrage. Hence come conflicts and agonies of
remorse proportioned to the strength of the moral nature. Byron, more than any other one writer, may be
called the poet of remorse. His passionate pictures of this feeling seem to give new power to the English
language:—

‘There is a war, a chaos of the mind,

When all its elements convulsed—combined,

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Lie dark and jarring with perturbèd force,

And gnashing with impenitent remorse,
That juggling fiend, who never spake before,
But cries, “I warned thee!” when the deed is o’er.’

It was this remorse that formed the only redeeming feature of the case. Its eloquence, its agonies, won from
all hearts the interest that we give to a powerful nature in a state of danger and ruin; and it may be hoped that
this feeling, which tempers the stern justice of human judgments, may prove only a faint image of the wider
charity of Him whose thoughts are as far above ours as the heaven is above the earth.

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It has seemed, to some, wholly inconsistent, that Lady Byron, if this story were true, could retain any kindly
feeling for Lord Byron, or any tenderness for his memory; that the profession implied a certain hypocrisy: but,
in this sad review, we may see how the woman who once had loved him, might, in spite of every wrong he
had heaped upon her, still have looked on this awful wreck and ruin chiefly with pity. While she stood afar,
and refused to justify or join in the polluted idolatry which defended his vices, there is evidence in her
writings that her mind often went back mournfully, as a mother’s would, to the early days when he
might have been saved.

One of her letters in Robinson’s Memoirs, in regard to his religious opinions, shows with what intense
earnestness she dwelt upon the unhappy influences of his childhood and youth, and those early theologies
which led him to regard himself as one of the reprobate. She says,—

‘Not merely from casual expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord
Byron’s feelings, I could not but conclude that he was a believer in the inspiration of
the Bible, and had the gloomiest Calvinistic tenets. To that unhappy view of the relation of
the creature to the Creator I have always ascribed the misery of his life.

‘It is enough for me to know that he who thinks his transgression beyond forgiveness .
. . has righteousness beyond that of the self-satisfied sinner. It is impossible for me to doubt,
that, could he once have been assured of pardon, his living faith in moral duty, and love of
virtue (“I love the virtues that I cannot claim”), would have conquered every
temptation. Judge, then, how I must hate the creed that made him see God as an Avenger,
and not as a Father! My own impressions were just the reverse, but could have but little
weight; and it was in vain to seek to turn his thoughts from that fixed idea with which he
connected his personal peculiarity as a stamp. Instead of being made happier by any apparent
good, he felt convinced that every blessing would be turned into a curse to him . . .
“The worst of it is, I do believe,” he said. I, like all connected with him, was
broken against the rock of predestination. I may be pardoned for my frequent reference to the
sentiment (expressed by him), that I was only sent to show him the happiness he was
forbidden to enjoy.’

In this letter we have the heart, not of the wife, but of the mother,—the love that searches everywhere
for extenuations of the guilt it is forced to confess.

That Lady Byron was not alone in ascribing such results to the doctrines of Calvinism, in certain cases,
appears from the language of the Thirty-nine Articles, which says:—

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‘As the godly consideration of predestination, and our election in Christ, is full of
sweet, pleasant, and unspeakable comfort to godly persons, and such as feel in themselves the
workings of the spirit of Christ; . . . so, for curious and carnal persons, lacking the spirit of
Christ, to have continually before their eyes the sentence of God’s predestination, is a
most dangerous downfall, whereby the Devil doth thrust them either into desperation, or into
recklessness of most unclean living,—no less perilous than desperation.’

Lord Byron’s life is an exact commentary on these words, which passed under the revision of Calvin
himself.

The whole tone of this letter shows not only that Lady Byron never lost her deep interest in her husband, but
that it was by this experience that all her religious ideas were modified. There is another of these letters in
which she thus speaks of her husband’s writings and character:—

‘The author of the article on “Goethe” appears to me to have the mind

which could dispel the illusion about another poet, without depreciating his claims . . . to the
truest inspiration.

‘Who has sought to distinguish between the holy and the unholy in that spirit? to
prove, by the very degradation of the one, how high the other was. A character is never done
justice to by extenuating its faults: so I do not agree to nisi bonum. It is kinder to read the
blotted page.’

These letters show that Lady Byron’s idea was that, even were the whole mournful truth about Lord
Byron fully told, there was still a foundation left for pity and mercy. She seems to have remembered, that if
his sins were peculiar, so also were his temptations; and to have schooled herself for years to gather up, and
set in order in her memory, all that yet remained precious in this great ruin. Probably no English writer that
ever has made the attempt could have done this more perfectly. Though Lady Byron was not a poet par
excellence, yet she belonged to an order of souls fully equal to Lord Byron. Hers was more the analytical
mind of the philosopher than the creative mind of the poet; and it was, for that reason, the one mind in our day
capable of estimating him fully both with justice and mercy. No person in England had a more intense
sensibility to genius, in its loftier acceptation, than Lady Byron; and none more completely sympathised with
what was pure and exalted in her husband’s writings.

There is this peculiarity in Lord Byron, that the pure and the impure in his poetry often run side by side
without mixing,—as one may see at Geneva the muddy stream of the Arve and the blue waters of the
Rhone flowing together unmingled. What, for example, can be nobler, and in a higher and tenderer moral
strain than his lines on the dying gladiator, in ‘Childe Harold’? What is more like the vigour of
the old Hebrew Scriptures than his thunderstorm in the Alps? What can more perfectly express moral ideality
of the highest kind than the exquisite descriptions of Aurora Raby,—pure and high in thought and
language, occurring, as they do, in a work full of the most utter vileness?

Lady Byron’s hopes for her husband fastened themselves on all the noble fragments yet remaining in
that shattered temple of his mind which lay blackened and thunder-riven; and she looked forward to a sphere
beyond this earth, where infinite mercy should bring all again to symmetry and order. If the strict theologian
must regret this as an undue latitude of charity, let it at least be remembered that it was a charity which sprang
from a Christian virtue, and which she extended to every human being, however lost, however low. In her
view, the mercy which took him was mercy that could restore all.

In my recollections of the interview with Lady Byron, when this whole history was presented, I can remember
that it was with a softened and saddened feeling that I contemplated the story, as one looks on some awful,

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inexplicable ruin.

The last letter which I addressed to Lady Byron upon this subject will show that such was the impression of
the whole interview. It was in reply to the one written on the death of my son:—

‘Jan. 30, 1858.

‘MY DEAR FRIEND,—I did long to hear from you at a time when few knew
how to speak, because I knew that you had known everything that sorrow can
teach,—you, whose whole life has been a crucifixion, a long ordeal.

‘But I believe that the Lamb, who stands for ever “in the midst of the throne, as
it had been slain,” has everywhere His followers,—those who seem sent into
the world, as He was, to suffer for the redemption of others; and, like Him, they must look to
the joy set before them,—of redeeming others.

‘I often think that God called you to this beautiful and terrible ministry when He
suffered you to link your destiny with one so strangely gifted and so fearfully tempted.
Perhaps the reward that is to meet you when you enter within the veil where you must so soon
pass will be to see that spirit, once chained and defiled, set free and purified; and to know that
to you it has been given, by your life of love and faith, to accomplish this glorious change.

‘I think increasingly on the subject on which you conversed with me once,—the
future state of retribution. It is evident to me that the spirit of Christianity has produced in the
human spirit a tenderness of love which wholly revolts from the old doctrine on this subject;
and I observe, that, the more Christ-like anyone becomes, the more difficult it seems for them
to accept it as hitherto presented. And yet, on the contrary, it was Christ who said,
“Fear Him that is able to destroy both soul and body in hell;” and the most
appalling language is that of Christ himself.

‘Certain ideas, once prevalent, certainly must be thrown off. An endless infliction for
past sins was once the doctrine: that we now generally reject. The doctrine now generally
taught is, that an eternal persistence in evil necessitates everlasting suffering, since evil
induces misery by the eternal nature of things; and this, I fear, is inferable from the analogies
of Nature, and confirmed by the whole implication of the Bible.

‘What attention have you given to this subject? and is there any fair way of disposing
of the current of assertion, and the still deeper under-current of implication, on this subject,
without admitting one which loosens all faith in revelation, and throws us on pure
naturalism? But of one thing I always feel sure: probation does not end with this present life;
and the number of the saved may therefore be infinitely greater than the world’s
history leads us to suppose.

‘I think the Bible implies a great crisis, a struggle, an agony, in which God and Christ
and all the good are engaged in redeeming from sin; and we are not to suppose that the little
portion that is done for souls as they pass between the two doors of birth and death is all.

‘The Bible is certainly silent there. The primitive Church believed in the mercies of an
intermediate state; and it was only the abuse of it by Romanism that drove the Church into its
present position, which, I think, is wholly indefensible, and wholly irreconcilable with the
spirit of Christ. For if it were the case, that probation in all cases begins and ends here,

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God’s example would surely be one that could not be followed, and He would seem to
be far less persevering than even human beings in efforts to save.

‘Nothing is plainer than that it would be wrong to give up any mind to eternal sin till
every possible thing had been done for its recovery; and that is so clearly not the case here,
that I can see that, with thoughtful minds, this belief would cut the very roots of religious
faith in God: for there is a difference between facts that we do not understand, and facts
which we do understand, and perceive to be wholly irreconcilable with a certain character
professed by God.

‘If God says He is love, and certain ways of explaining Scripture make Him less
loving and patient than man, then we make Scripture contradict itself. Now, as no passage of
Scripture limits probation to this life, and as one passage in Peter certainly unequivocally
asserts that Christ preached to the spirits in prison while His body lay in the grave, I am clear
upon this point.

‘But it is also clear, that if there be those who persist in refusing God’s love,
who choose to dash themselves for ever against the inflexible laws of the universe, such souls
must for ever suffer.

‘There may be souls who hate purity because it reveals their vileness; who refuse
God’s love, and prefer eternal conflict with it. For such there can be no peace. Even
in this life, we see those whom the purest self-devoting love only inflames to madness; and
we have only to suppose an eternal persistence in this to suppose eternal misery.

‘But on this subject we can only leave all reverently in the hands of that Being whose
almighty power is “declared chiefly in showing mercy.”’

CHAPTER VIII. CONCLUSION.

In leaving this subject, I have an appeal to make to the men, and more especially to the women, who have
been my readers.

In justice to Lady Byron, it must be remembered that this publication of her story is not her act, but mine. I
trust you have already conceded, that, in so severe and peculiar a trial, she had a right to be understood fully
by her immediate circle of friends, and to seek of them counsel in view of the moral questions to which such
very exceptional circumstances must have given rise. Her communication to me was not an address to the
public: it was a statement of the case for advice. True, by leaving the whole, unguarded by pledge or promise,
it left discretionary power with me to use it if needful.

You, my sisters, are to judge whether the accusation laid against Lady Byron by the
‘Blackwood,’ in 1869, was not of so barbarous a nature as to justify my producing the truth I
held in my hands in reply.

The ‘Blackwood’ claimed a right to re-open the subject because it was not a private but a public
matter. It claimed that Lord Byron’s unfortunate marriage might have changed not only his own
destiny, but that of all England. It suggested, that, but for this, instead of wearing out his life in vice, and
corrupting society by impure poetry, he might, at this day, have been leading the counsels of the State, and
helping the onward movements of the world. Then it directly charged Lady Byron with meanly forsaking her
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confirming this accusation by years of persistent silence more guilty than open assertion.

It has been alleged, that, even admitting that Lady Byron’s story were true, it never ought to have been
told. Is it true, then, that a woman has not the same right to individual justice that a man has? If the cases
were reversed, would it have been thought just that Lord Byron should go down in history loaded with
accusations of crime because he could be only vindicated by exposing the crime of his wife?

It has been said that the crime charged on Lady Byron was comparatively unimportant, and the one against
Lord Byron was deadly.

But the ‘Blackwood,’ in opening the controversy, called Lady Byron by the name of an
unnatural female criminal, whose singular atrocities alone entitle her to infamous notoriety; and the crime
charged upon her was sufficient to warrant the comparison.

Both crimes are foul, unnatural, horrible; and there is no middle ground between the admission of the one or
the other.

You must either conclude that a woman, all whose other works, words, and deeds were generous, just, and
gentle, committed this one monstrous exceptional crime, without a motive, and against all the analogies of her
character, and all the analogies of her treatment of others; or you must suppose that a man known by all
testimony to have been boundlessly licentious, who took the very course which, by every physiological law,
would have led to unnatural results, did, at last, commit an unnatural crime.

The question, whether I did right, when Lady Byron was thus held up as an abandoned criminal by the
‘Blackwood,’ to interpose my knowledge of the real truth in her defence, is a serious one; but it
is one for which I must account to God alone, and in which, without any contempt of the opinions of my
fellow-creatures, I must say, that it is a small thing to be judged of man’s judgment.

I had in the case a responsibility very different from that of many others. I had been consulted in relation to
the publication of this story by Lady Byron, at a time when she had it in her power to have exhibited it with
all its proofs, and commanded an instant conviction. I have reason to think that my advice had some weight
in suppressing that disclosure. I gave that advice under the impression that the Byron controversy was a thing
for ever passed, and never likely to return.

It had never occurred to me, that, nine years after Lady Byron’s death, a standard English periodical
would declare itself free to re-open this controversy, when all the generation who were her witnesses had
passed from earth; and that it would re-open it in the most savage form of accusation, and with the
indorsement and commendation of a book of the vilest slanders, edited by Lord Byron’s mistress.

Let the reader mark the retributions of justice. The accusations of the ‘Blackwood,’ in 1869,
were simply an intensified form of those first concocted by Lord Byron in his ‘Clytemnestra’
poem of 1816. He forged that weapon, and bequeathed it to his party. The ‘Blackwood’ took it
up, gave it a sharper edge, and drove it to the heart of Lady Byron’s fame. The result has been the
disclosure of this history. It is, then, Lord Byron himself, who, by his network of wiles, his ceaseless
persecutions of his wife, his efforts to extend his partisanship beyond the grave, has brought on this
tumultuous exposure. He, and he alone, is the cause of this revelation.

And now I have one word to say to those in England who, with all the facts and documents in their hands
which could at once have cleared Lady Byron’s fame, allowed the barbarous assault of the
‘Blackwood’ to go over the civilised world without a reply. I speak to those who, knowing that
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which this cause might be instantly settled, and who do not produce them.

I do not judge them; but I remind them that a day is coming when they and I must stand side by side at the
great judgment-seat,—I to give an account for my speaking, they for their silence.

In that day, all earthly considerations will have vanished like morning mists, and truth or falsehood, justice or
injustice, will be the only realities.

In that day, God, who will judge the secrets of all men, will judge between this man and this woman. Then, if
never before, the full truth shall be told both of the depraved and dissolute man who made it his life’s
object to defame the innocent, and the silent, the self-denying woman who made it her life’s object to
give space for repentance to the guilty.

PART III. MISCELLANEOUS DOCUMENTS.

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AS ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN ‘THE ATLANTIC
MONTHLY.’
The reading world of America has lately been presented with a book which is said to sell rapidly, and which
appears to meet with universal favour.

The subject of the book may be thus briefly stated: The mistress of Lord Byron comes before the world for the
sake of vindicating his fame from slanders and aspersions cast on him by his wife. The story of the mistress
versus wife may be summed up as follows:—

Lord Byron, the hero of the story, is represented as a human being endowed with every natural charm, gift,
and grace, who, by the one false step of an unsuitable marriage, wrecked his whole life. A narrow-minded,
cold-hearted precisian, without sufficient intellect to comprehend his genius, or heart to feel for his
temptations, formed with him one of those mere worldly marriages common in high life; and, finding that she
could not reduce him to the mathematical proprieties and conventional rules of her own mode of life,
suddenly, and without warning, abandoned him in the most cruel and inexplicable manner.

It is alleged that she parted from him in apparent affection and good-humour, wrote him a playful, confiding
letter upon the way, but, after reaching her father’s house, suddenly, and without explanation,
announced to him that she would never see him again; that this sudden abandonment drew down upon him a
perfect storm of scandalous stories, which his wife never contradicted; that she never in any way or shape
stated what the exact reasons for her departure had been, and thus silently gave scope to all the malice of
thousands of enemies. The sensitive victim was actually driven from England, his home broken up, and he
doomed to be a lonely wanderer on foreign shores.

In Italy, under bluer skies, and among a gentler people, with more tolerant modes of judgment, the authoress
intimates that he found peace and consolation. A lovely young Italian countess falls in love with him, and,
breaking her family ties for his sake, devotes herself to him; and, in blissful retirement with her, he finds at
last that domestic life for which he was so fitted.

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Soothed, calmed, and refreshed, he writes ‘Don Juan,’ which the world is at this late hour
informed was a poem with a high moral purpose, designed to be a practical illustration of the doctrine of total
depravity among young gentlemen in high life.

Under the elevating influence of love, he rises at last to higher realms of moral excellence, and resolves to
devote the rest of his life to some noble and heroic purpose; becomes the saviour of Greece; and dies
untimely, leaving a nation to mourn his loss.

The authoress dwells with a peculiar bitterness on Lady Byron’s entire silence during all these years,
as the most aggravated form of persecution and injury. She informs the world that Lord Byron wrote his
Autobiography with the purpose of giving a fair statement of the exact truth in the whole matter; and that
Lady Byron bought up the manuscript of the publisher, and insisted on its being destroyed, unread; thus
inflexibly depriving her husband of his last chance of a hearing before the tribunal of the public.

As a result of this silent persistent cruelty on the part of a cold, correct, narrow-minded woman, the character
of Lord Byron has been misunderstood, and his name transmitted to after-ages clouded with aspersions and
accusations which it is the object of this book to remove.

*****

Such is the story of Lord Byron’s mistress,—a story which is going the length of this American
continent, and rousing up new sympathy with the poet, and doing its best to bring the youth of America once
more under the power of that brilliant, seductive genius, from which it was hoped they had escaped. Already
we are seeing it revamped in magazine-articles, which take up the slanders of the paramour and enlarge on
them, and wax eloquent in denunciation of the marble-hearted insensible wife.

All this while, it does not appear to occur to the thousands of unreflecting readers that they are listening
merely to the story of Lord Byron’s mistress, and of Lord Byron; and that, even by their own showing,
their heaviest accusation against Lady Byron is that she has not spoken at all. Her story has never been told.

For many years after the rupture between Lord Byron and his wife, that poet’s personality, fate, and
happiness had an interest for the whole civilized world, which, we will venture to say, was unparalleled. It is
within the writer’s recollection, how, in the obscure mountain-town where she spent her early days,
Lord Byron’s separation from his wife was, for a season, the all-engrossing topic.

She remembers hearing her father recount at the breakfast-table the facts as they were given in the public
papers, together with his own suppositions and theories of the causes.

Lord Byron’s ‘Fare thee well,’ addressed to Lady Byron, was set to music, and sung
with tears by young school-girls, even in this distant America.

Madame de Staël said of this appeal, that she was sure it would have drawn her at once to his heart and his
arms; she could have forgiven everything: and so said all the young ladies all over the world, not only in
England but in France and Germany, wherever Byron’s poetry appeared in translation.

Lady Byron’s obdurate cold-heartedness in refusing even to listen to his prayers, or to have any
intercourse with him which might lead to reconciliation, was the one point conceded on all sides.

The stricter moralists defended her; but gentler hearts throughout all the world regarded her as a
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Literature in its highest walks busied itself with Lady Byron. Hogg, in the character of the Ettrick Shepherd,
devotes several eloquent passages to expatiating on the conjugal fidelity of a poor Highland shepherd’s
wife, who, by patience and prayer and forgiveness, succeeds in reclaiming her drunken husband, and making a
good man of him; and then points his moral by contrasting with this touching picture the cold-hearted
pharisaical correctness of Lady Byron.

Moore, in his ‘Life of Lord Byron,’ when beginning the recital of the series of disgraceful
amours which formed the staple of his life in Venice, has this passage:—

‘Highly censurable in point of morality and decorum as was his course of life while under the roof of
Madame ----, it was (with pain I am forced to confess) venial in comparison with the strange, headlong career
of licence to which, when weaned from that connection, he so unrestrainedly, and, it may be added, defyingly
abandoned himself. Of the state of his mind on leaving England, I have already endeavoured to convey some
idea; and among the feelings that went to make up that self-centred spirit of resistance which he then opposed
to his fate was an indignant scorn for his own countrymen for the wrongs he thought they had done him. For
a time, the kindly sentiments which he still harboured toward Lady Byron, and a sort of vague hope, perhaps,
that all would yet come right again, kept his mind in a mood somewhat more softened and docile, as well as
sufficiently under the influence of English opinions to prevent his breaking out into open rebellion against it,
as he unluckily did afterward.

‘By the failure of the attempted mediation with Lady Byron, his last link with home was severed:
while, notwithstanding the quiet and unobtrusive life which he led at Geneva, there was as yet, he found, no
cessation of the slanderous warfare against his character; the same busy and misrepresenting spirit which had
tracked his every step at home, having, with no less malicious watchfulness, dogged him into exile.’

We should like to know what the misrepresentations and slanders must have been, when this sort of thing is
admitted in Mr. Moore’s justification. It seems to us rather wonderful how anybody, unless it were a
person like the Countess Guiccioli, could misrepresent a life such as even Byron’s friend admits he
was leading.

During all these years, when he was setting at defiance every principle of morality and decorum, the interest
of the female mind all over Europe in the conversion of this brilliant prodigal son was unceasing, and reflects
the greatest credit upon the faith of the sex.

Madame de Staël commenced the first effort at evangelization immediately after he left England, and found
her catechumen in a most edifying state of humility. He was, metaphorically, on his knees in penitence, and
confessed himself a miserable sinner in the loveliest manner possible. Such sweetness and humility took all
hearts. His conversations with Madame de Staël were printed, and circulated all over the world; making it to
appear that only the inflexibility of Lady Byron stood in the way of his entire conversion.

Lady Blessington, among many others, took him in hand five or six years afterwards, and was greatly
delighted with his docility, and edified by his frank and free confessions of his miserable offences. Nothing
now seemed wanting to bring the wanderer home to the fold but a kind word from Lady Byron. But, when the
fair countess offered to mediate, the poet only shook his head in tragic despair; ‘he had so many times
tried in vain; Lady Byron’s course had been from the first that of obdurate silence.’

Any one who would wish to see a specimen of the skill of the honourable poet in mystification will do well to
read a letter to Lady Byron, which Lord Byron, on parting from Lady Blessington, enclosed for her to read
just before he went to Greece. He says,—

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‘The letter which I enclose I was prevented from sending by my despair of its doing any good. I was
perfectly sincere when I wrote it, and am so still. But it is difficult for me to withstand the thousand
provocations on that subject which both friends and foes have for seven years been throwing in the way of a
man whose feelings were once quick, and whose temper was never patient.’

*****

‘TO LADY BYRON, CARE OF THE HON. MRS. LEIGH, LONDON.

‘PISA, Nov. 17, 1821.

‘I have to acknowledge the receipt of “Ada’s hair,” which is very soft and pretty,
and nearly as dark already as mine was at twelve years old, if I may judge from what I recollect of some in
Augusta’s possession, taken at that age. But it don’t curl—perhaps from its being let
grow.

‘I also thank you for the inscription of the date and name; and I will tell you why: I believe that they
are the only two or three words of your handwriting in my possession. For your letters I returned; and except
the two words, or rather the one word, “Household,” written twice in an old account book, I
have no other. I burnt your last note, for two reasons: firstly, it was written in a style not very agreeable; and,
secondly, I wished to take your word without documents, which are the worldly resources of suspicious
people.

‘I suppose that this note will reach you somewhere about Ada’s birthday—the 10th of
December, I believe. She will then be six: so that, in about twelve more, I shall have some chance of meeting
her; perhaps sooner, if I am obliged to go to England by business or otherwise. Recollect, however, one thing,
either in distance or nearness—every day which keeps us asunder should, after so long a period, rather
soften our mutual feelings; which must always have one rallying point as long as our child exists, which, I
presume, we both hope will be long after either of her parents.

‘The time which has elapsed since the separation has been considerably more than the whole brief
period of our union, and the not much longer one of our prior acquaintance. We both made a bitter mistake;
but now it is over, and irrevocably so. For at thirty-three on my part, and few years less on yours, though it is
no very extended period of life, still it is one when the habits and thought are generally so formed as to admit
of no modification; and, as we could not agree when younger, we should with difficulty do so now.

‘I say all this, because I own to you, that notwithstanding everything, I considered our reunion as not
impossible for more than a year after the separation; but then I gave up the hope entirely and for ever. But
this very impossibility of reunion seems to me at least a reason why, on all the few points of discussion which
can arise between us, we should preserve the courtesies of life, and as much of its kindness as people who are
never to meet may preserve,—perhaps more easily than nearer connections. For my own part, I am
violent, but not malignant; for only fresh provocations can awaken my resentments. To you, who are colder
and more concentrated, I would just hint, that you may sometimes mistake the depth of a cold anger for
dignity, and a worse feeling for duty. I assure you that I bear you now (whatever I may have done) no
resentment whatever. Remember, that, if you have injured me in aught, this forgiveness is something; and
that, if I have injured you, it is something more still, if it be true, as the moralists say, that the most offending
are the least forgiving.

‘Whether the offence has been solely on my side, or reciprocal, or on yours chiefly, I have ceased to
reflect upon any but two things; viz., that you are the mother of my child, and that we shall never meet again.
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three.

‘Yours ever,

‘NOEL BYRON.’

The artless Thomas Moore introduces this letter in the ‘Life,’ with the remark,—

‘There are few, I should think, of my readers, who will not agree with me in pronouncing, that, if the
author of the following letter had not right on his side, he had at least most of those good feelings which are
found in general to accompany it.’

The reader is requested to take notice of the important admission; that the letter was never sent to Lady Byron
at all. It was, in fact, never intended for her, but was a nice little dramatic performance, composed simply
with the view of acting on the sympathies of Lady Blessington and Byron’s numerous female
admirers; and the reader will agree with us, we think, that, in this point of view, it was very neatly done, and
deserves immortality as a work of high art. For six years he had been plunged into every kind of vice and
excess, pleading his shattered domestic joys, and his wife’s obdurate heart, as the apology and the
impelling cause; filling the air with his shrieks and complaints concerning the slander which pursued him,
while he filled letters to his confidential correspondents with records of new mistresses. During all these
years, the silence of Lady Byron was unbroken; though Lord Byron not only drew in private on the
sympathies of his female admirers, but employed his talents and position as an author in holding her up to
contempt and ridicule before thousands of readers. We shall quote at length his side of the story, which he
published in the First Canto of ‘Don Juan,’ that the reader may see how much reason he had for
assuming the injured tone which he did in the letter to Lady Byron quoted above. That letter never was sent to
her; and the unmanly and indecent caricature of her, and the indelicate exposure of the whole story on his own
side, which we are about to quote, were the only communications that could have reached her solitude.

In the following verses, Lady Byron is represented as Donna Inez, and Lord Byron as Don José; but the
incidents and allusions were so very pointed, that nobody for a moment doubted whose history the poet was
narrating.

‘His mother was a learned lady, famed

For every branch of every science known
In every Christian language ever named,
With virtues equalled by her wit alone:
She made the cleverest people quite ashamed;
And even the good with inward envy groaned,
Finding themselves so very much exceeded
In their own way by all the things that she did.
. . . .
Save that her duty both to man and God
Required this conduct; which seemed very odd.

She kept a journal where his faults were noted,

And opened certain trunks of books and letters,
(All which might, if occasion served, be quoted);
And then she had all Seville for abettors,
Besides her good old grandmother (who doted):
The hearers of her case become repeaters,
Then advocates, inquisitors, and judges,—

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Some for amusement, others for old grudges.

And then this best and meekest woman bore

With such serenity her husband’s woes!
Just as the Spartan ladies did of yore,
Who saw their spouses killed, and nobly chose
Never to say a word about them more.
Calmly she heard each calumny that rose,
And saw his agonies with such sublimity,
That all the world exclaimed, “What magnanimity!”’

This is the longest and most elaborate version of his own story that Byron ever published; but he busied
himself with many others, projecting at one time a Spanish romance, in which the same story is related in the
same transparent manner: but this he was dissuaded from printing. The booksellers, however, made a good
speculation in publishing what they called his domestic poems; that is, poems bearing more or less relation to
this subject.

Every person with whom he became acquainted with any degree of intimacy was made familiar with his side
of the story. Moore’s Biography is from first to last, in its representations, founded upon
Byron’s communicativeness, and Lady Byron’s silence; and the world at last settled down to
believing that the account so often repeated, and never contradicted, must be substantially a true one.

The true history of Lord and Lady Byron has long been perfectly understood in many circles in England; but
the facts were of a nature that could not be made public. While there was a young daughter living whose
future might be prejudiced by its recital, and while there were other persons on whom the disclosure of the
real truth would have been crushing as an avalanche, Lady Byron’s only course was the perfect silence
in which she took refuge, and those sublime works of charity and mercy to which she consecrated her blighted
early life.

But the time is now come when the truth may be told. All the actors in the scene have disappeared from the
stage of mortal existence, and passed, let us have faith to hope, into a world where they would desire to
expiate their faults by a late publication of the truth.

No person in England, we think, would as yet take the responsibility of relating the true history which is to
clear Lady Byron’s memory; but, by a singular concurrence of circumstances, all the facts of the case,
in the most undeniable and authentic form, were at one time placed in the hands of the writer of this sketch,
with authority to make such use of them as she should judge best. Had this melancholy history been allowed
to sleep, no public use would have been made of them; but the appearance of a popular attack on the character
of Lady Byron calls for a vindication, and the true story of her married life will therefore now be related.

Lord Byron has described in one of his letters the impression left upon his mind by a young person whom he
met one evening in society, and who attracted his attention by the simplicity of her dress, and a certain air of
singular purity and calmness with which she surveyed the scene around her.

On inquiry, he was told that this young person was Miss Milbanke, an only child, and one of the largest
heiresses in England.

Lord Byron was fond of idealising his experiences in poetry; and the friends of Lady Byron had no difficulty
in recognising the portrait of Lady Byron, as she appeared at this time of her life, in his exquisite description
of Aurora Raby:—

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‘There was
Indeed a certain fair and fairy one,
Of the best class, and better than her class,—
Aurora Raby, a young star who shone
O’er life, too sweet an image for such glass;
A lovely being scarcely formed or moulded;
A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded.

. . . .

Early in years, and yet more infantine

In figure, she had something of sublime
In eyes which sadly shone as seraphs’ shine;
All youth, but with an aspect beyond time;
Radiant and grave, as pitying man’s decline;
Mournful, but mournful of another’s crime,
She looked as if she sat by Eden’s door,
And grieved for those who could return no more.

. . . .

She gazed upon a world she scarcely knew,

As seeking not to know it; silent, lone,
As grows a flower, thus quietly she grew,
And kept her heart serene within its zone.
There was awe in the homage which she drew;
Her spirit seemed as seated on a throne,
Apart from the surrounding world, and strong
In its own strength,—most strange in one so young!’

Some idea of the course which their acquaintance took, and of the manner in which he was piqued into
thinking of her, is given in a stanza or two:—

‘The dashing and proud air of Adeline

Imposed not upon her: she saw her blaze
Much as she would have seen a glow-worm shine;
Then turned unto the stars for loftier rays.
Juan was something she could not divine,
Being no sibyl in the new world’s ways;
Yet she was nothing dazzled by the meteor,
Because she did not pin her faith on feature.

His fame too (for he had that kind of fame

Which sometimes plays the deuce with womankind,—
A heterogeneous mass of glorious blame,
Half virtues and whole vices being combined;
Faults which attract because they are not tame;
Follies tricked out so brightly that they blind),—
These seals upon her wax made no impression,
Such was her coldness or her self-possession.

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Aurora sat with that indifference

Which piques a preux chevalier,—as it ought.
Of all offences, that’s the worst offence
Which seems to hint you are not worth a thought.

. . . .

To his gay nothings, nothing was replied,

Or something which was nothing, as urbanity
Required. Aurora scarcely looked aside,
Nor even smiled enough for any vanity.
The Devil was in the girl! Could it be pride,
Or modesty, or absence, or inanity?

. . . .

Juan was drawn thus into some attentions,

Slight but select, and just enough to express,
To females of perspicuous comprehensions,
That he would rather make them more than less.
Aurora at the last (so history mentions,
Though probably much less a fact than guess)
So far relaxed her thoughts from their sweet prison
As once or twice to smile, if not to listen.

. . . .

But Juan had a sort of winning way,

A proud humility, if such there be,
Which showed such deference to what females say,
As if each charming word were a decree.
His tact, too, tempered him from grave to gay,
And taught him when to be reserved or free.
He had the art of drawing people out,
Without their seeing what he was about.

Aurora, who in her indifference,

Confounded him in common with the crowd
Of flatterers, though she deemed he had more sense
Than whispering foplings or than witlings loud,
Commenced (from such slight things will great commence)
To feel that flattery which attracts the proud,
Rather by deference than compliment,
And wins even by a delicate dissent.

And then he had good looks: that point was carried

Nem. con. amongst the women.

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Now, though we know of old that looks deceive,
And always have done, somehow these good looks,
Make more impression than the best of books.

Aurora, who looked more on books than faces,

Was very young, although so very sage:
Admiring more Minerva than the Graces,
Especially upon a printed page.
But Virtue’s self, with all her tightest laces,
Has not the natural stays of strict old age;
And Socrates, that model of all duty,
Owned to a penchant, though discreet for beauty.’

The presence of this high-minded, thoughtful, unworldly woman is described through two cantos of the wild,
rattling ‘Don Juan,’ in a manner that shows how deeply the poet was capable of being affected
by such an appeal to his higher nature.

For instance, when Don Juan sits silent and thoughtful amid a circle of persons who are talking scandal, the
poet says,—

‘’Tis true, he saw Aurora look as though

She approved his silence: she perhaps mistook
Its motive for that charity we owe,
But seldom pay, the absent.

. . . .

He gained esteem where it was worth the most;

And certainly Aurora had renewed
In him some feelings he had lately lost
Or hardened,—feelings which, perhaps ideal,
Are so divine that I must deem them real:—

The love of higher things and better days;

The unbounded hope and heavenly ignorance
Of what is called the world and the world’s ways;
The moments when we gather from a glance
More joy than from all future pride or praise,
Which kindled manhood, but can ne’er entrance
The heart in an existence of its own
Of which another’s bosom is the zone.

And full of sentiments sublime as billows

Heaving between this world and worlds beyond,
Don Juan, when the midnight hour of pillows
Arrived, retired to his.’ . . .

In all these descriptions of a spiritual unworldly nature acting on the spiritual and unworldly part of his own
nature, every one who ever knew Lady Byron intimately must have recognised the model from which he
drew, and the experience from which he spoke, even though nothing was further from his mind than to pay
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real character, had come one stanza of ribald, vulgar caricature, designed as a slight to her:—

‘There was Miss Millpond, smooth as summer’s sea,

That usual paragon, an only daughter,
Who seemed the cream of equanimity
‘Till skimmed; and then there was some milk and water;
With a slight shade of blue, too, it might be,
Beneath the surface: but what did it matter?
Love’s riotous; but marriage should have quiet,
And, being consumptive, live on a milk diet.’

The result of Byron’s intimacy with Miss Milbanke and the enkindling of his nobler feelings was an
offer of marriage, which she, though at the time deeply interested in him, declined with many expressions of
friendship and interest. In fact, she already loved him, but had that doubt of her power to be to him all that a
wife should be, which would be likely to arise in a mind so sensitively constituted and so unworldly. They,
however, continued a correspondence as friends; on her part, the interest continually increased; on his, the
transient rise of better feelings was choked and overgrown by the thorns of base unworthy passions.

From the height at which he might have been happy as the husband of a noble woman, he fell into the depths
of a secret adulterous intrigue with a blood relation, so near in consanguinity, that discovery must have been
utter ruin and expulsion from civilised society.

From henceforth, this damning guilty secret became the ruling force in his life; holding him with a morbid
fascination, yet filling him with remorse and anguish, and insane dread of detection. Two years after his
refusal by Miss Milbanke, his various friends, seeing that for some cause he was wretched, pressed marriage
upon him.

Marriage has often been represented as the proper goal and terminus of a wild and dissipated career; and it has
been supposed to be the appointed mission of good women to receive wandering prodigals, with all the rags
and disgraces of their old life upon them, and put rings on their hands, and shoes on their feet, and introduce
them, clothed and in their right minds, to an honourable career in society.

Marriage was, therefore, universally recommended to Lord Byron by his numerous friends and well-wishers;
and so he determined to marry, and, in an hour of reckless desperation, sat down and wrote proposals to two
ladies. One was declined: the other, which was accepted, was to Miss Milbanke. The world knows well that
he had the gift of expression, and will not be surprised that he wrote a very beautiful letter, and that the
woman who had already learned to love him fell at once into the snare.

Her answer was a frank, outspoken avowal of her love for him, giving herself to him heart and hand. The
good in Lord Byron was not so utterly obliterated that he could receive such a letter without emotion, or
practise such unfairness on a loving, trusting heart without pangs of remorse. He had sent the letter in mere
recklessness; he had not seriously expected to be accepted; and the discovery of the treasure of affection
which he had secured was like a vision of lost heaven to a soul in hell.

But, nevertheless, in his letters written about the engagement, there are sufficient evidences that his self-love
was flattered at the preference accorded him by so superior a woman, and one who had been so much sought.
He mentions with an air of complacency that she has employed the last two years in refusing five or six of his
acquaintance; that he had no idea she loved him, admitting that it was an old attachment on his part. He
dwells on her virtues with a sort of pride of ownership. There is a sort of childish levity about the frankness
of these letters, very characteristic of the man who skimmed over the deepest abysses with the lightest jests.
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of the deadly secret that lay cold at the bottom of his heart.

When he went to visit Miss Milbanke’s parents as her accepted lover, she was struck with his manner
and appearance: she saw him moody and gloomy, evidently wrestling with dark and desperate thoughts, and
anything but what a happy and accepted lover should be. She sought an interview with him alone, and told
him that she had observed that he was not happy in the engagement; and magnanimously added, that, if on
review, he found he had been mistaken in the nature of his feelings, she would immediately release him, and
they should remain only friends.

Overcome with the conflict of his feelings, Lord Byron fainted away. Miss Milbanke was convinced that his
heart must really be deeply involved in an attachment with reference to which he showed such strength of
emotion, and she spoke no more of a dissolution of the engagement.

There is no reason to doubt that Byron was, as he relates in his ‘Dream,’ profoundly agonized
and agitated when he stood before God’s altar with the trusting young creature whom he was leading
to a fate so awfully tragic; yet it was not the memory of Mary Chaworth, but another guiltier and more
damning memory, that overshadowed that hour.

The moment the carriage-doors were shut upon the bridegroom and the bride, the paroxysm of remorse and
despair—unrepentant remorse and angry despair—broke forth upon her gentle head:—

‘You might have saved me from this, madam! You had all in your own power when I offered myself
to you first. Then you might have made me what you pleased; but now you will find that you have married a
devil!’

In Miss Martineau’s Sketches, recently published, is an account of the termination of this

wedding-journey, which brought them to one of Lady Byron’s ancestral country seats, where they
were to spend the honeymoon.

Miss Martineau says,—

‘At the altar she did not know that she was a sacrifice; but before sunset of that winter day she knew it,
if a judgment may be formed from her face, and attitude of despair, when she alighted from the carriage on the
afternoon of her marriage-day. It was not the traces of tears which won the sympathy of the old butler who
stood at the open door. The bridegroom jumped out of the carriage and walked away. The bride alighted, and
came up the steps alone, with a countenance and frame agonized and listless with evident horror and despair.
The old servant longed to offer his arm to the young, lonely creature, as an assurance of sympathy and
protection. From this shock she certainly rallied, and soon. The pecuniary difficulties of her new home were
exactly what a devoted spirit like hers was fitted to encounter. Her husband bore testimony, after the
catastrophe, that a brighter being, a more sympathising and agreeable companion, never blessed any
man’s home. When he afterwards called her cold and mathematical, and over-pious, and so forth, it
was when public opinion had gone against him, and when he had discovered that her fidelity and mercy, her
silence and magnanimity, might be relied on, so that he was at full liberty to make his part good, as far as she
was concerned.

‘Silent she was even to her own parents, whose feelings she magnanimously spared. She did not act
rashly in leaving him, though she had been most rash in marrying him.’

Not all at once did the full knowledge of the dreadful reality into which she had entered come upon the young
wife. She knew vaguely, from the wild avowals of the first hours of their marriage, that there was a dreadful
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her in return for a love which was ready to do and dare all for him. Yet bravely she addressed herself to the
task of soothing and pleasing and calming the man whom she had taken ‘for better or for
worse.’

Young and gifted; with a peculiar air of refined and spiritual beauty; graceful in every movement; possessed
of exquisite taste; a perfect companion to his mind in all the higher walks of literary culture; and with that
infinite pliability to all his varying, capricious moods which true love alone can give; bearing in her hand a
princely fortune, which, with a woman’s uncalculating generosity, was thrown at his
feet,—there is no wonder that she might feel for a while as if she could enter the lists with the very
Devil himself, and fight with a woman’s weapons for the heart of her husband.

There are indications scattered through the letters of Lord Byron, which, though brief indeed, showed that his
young wife was making every effort to accommodate herself to him, and to give him a cheerful home. One of
the poems that he sends to his publisher about this time, he speaks of as being copied by her. He had always
the highest regard for her literary judgments and opinions; and this little incident shows that she was already
associating herself in a wifely fashion with his aims as an author.

The poem copied by her, however, has a sad meaning, which she afterwards learned to understand only too
well:—

‘There’s not a joy the world can give like that it takes away
When the glow of early thought declines in feeling’s dull decay:
’Tis not on youth’s smooth cheek the blush alone that fades so fast;
But the tender bloom of heart is gone e’er youth itself be past.
Then the few whose spirits float above the wreck of happiness
Are driven o’er the shoals of guilt, or ocean of excess:
The magnet of their course is gone, or only points in vain
The shore to which their shivered sail shall never stretch again.’

Only a few days before she left him for ever, Lord Byron sent Murray manuscripts, in Lady Byron’s
handwriting, of the ‘Siege of Corinth,’ and ‘Parisina,’ and wrote,—

‘I am very glad that the handwriting was a favourable omen of the morale of the piece: but you must
not trust to that; for my copyist would write out anything I desired, in all the ignorance of innocence.’

There were lucid intervals in which Lord Byron felt the charm of his wife’s mind, and the strength of
her powers. ‘Bell, you could be a poet too, if you only thought so,’ he would say. There were
summer-hours in her stormy life, the memory of which never left her, when Byron was as gentle and tender as
he was beautiful; when he seemed to be possessed by a good angel: and then for a little time all the ideal
possibilities of his nature stood revealed.

The most dreadful men to live with are those who thus alternate between angel and devil. The buds of hope
and love called out by a day or two of sunshine are frozen again and again, till the tree is killed.

But there came an hour of revelation,—an hour when, in a manner which left no kind of room for
doubt, Lady Byron saw the full depth of the abyss of infamy which her marriage was expected to cover, and
understood that she was expected to be the cloak and the accomplice of this infamy.

Many women would have been utterly crushed by such a disclosure; some would have fled from him
immediately, and exposed and denounced the crime. Lady Byron did neither. When all the hope of
womanhood died out of her heart, there arose within her, stronger, purer, and brighter, that immortal kind of

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love such as God feels for the sinner,—the love of which Jesus spoke, and which holds the one
wanderer of more account than the ninety and nine that went not astray. She would neither leave her husband
nor betray him, nor yet would she for one moment justify his sin; and hence came two years of convulsive
struggle, in which sometimes, for a while, the good angel seemed to gain ground, and then the evil one
returned with sevenfold vehemence.

Lord Byron argued his case with himself and with her with all the sophistries of his powerful mind. He
repudiated Christianity as authority; asserted the right of every human being to follow out what he called
‘the impulses of nature.’ Subsequently he introduced into one of his dramas the reasoning by
which he justified himself in incest.

In the drama of ‘Cain,’ Adah, the sister and the wife of Cain, thus addresses him:—

‘Cain, walk not with this spirit.

Bear with what we have borne, and love me: I
Love thee.

Lucifer. More than thy mother and thy sire?

Adah. I do. Is that a sin, too?

Lucifer. No, not yet:

It one day will be in your children.

Adah. What!
Must not my daughter love her brother Enoch?

Lucifer. Not as thou lovest Cain.

Adah. O my God!
Shall they not love, and bring forth things that love
Out of their love? Have they not drawn their milk
Out of this bosom? Was not he, their father,
Born of the same sole womb, in the same hour
With me? Did we not love each other, and,
In multiplying our being, multiply
Things which will love each other as we love
Them? And as I love thee, my Cain, go not
Forth with this spirit: he is not of ours.

Lucifer. The sin I speak of is not of my making

And cannot be a sin in you, whate’er
It seems in those who will replace ye in
Mortality.

Adah. What is the sin which is not

Sin in itself? Can circumstance make sin
Of virtue? If it doth, we are the slaves
Of’—

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Lady Byron, though slight and almost infantine in her bodily presence, had the soul, not only of an angelic
woman, but of a strong reasoning man. It was the writer’s lot to know her at a period when she formed
the personal acquaintance of many of the very first minds of England; but, among all with whom this
experience brought her in connection, there was none who impressed her so strongly as Lady Byron. There
was an almost supernatural power of moral divination, a grasp of the very highest and most comprehensive
things, that made her lightest opinions singularly impressive. No doubt, this result was wrought out in a great
degree from the anguish and conflict of these two years, when, with no one to help or counsel her but
Almighty God, she wrestled and struggled with fiends of darkness for the redemption of her husband’s
soul.

She followed him through all his sophistical reasonings with a keener reason. She besought and implored, in
the name of his better nature, and by all the glorious things that he was capable of being and doing; and she
had just power enough to convulse and shake and agonise, but not power enough to subdue.

One of the first of living writers, in the novel of ‘Romola,’ has given, in her masterly sketch of
the character of Tito, the whole history of the conflict of a woman like Lady Byron with a nature like that of
her husband. She has described a being full of fascinations and sweetnesses, full of generosities and of
good-natured impulses; a nature that could not bear to give pain, or to see it in others, but entirely destitute of
any firm moral principle; she shows how such a being, merely by yielding step by step to the impulses of
passion, and disregarding the claims of truth and right, becomes involved in a fatality of evil, in which deceit,
crime, and cruelty are a necessity, forcing him to persist in the basest ingratitude to the father who has done all
for him, and hard-hearted treachery to the high-minded wife who has given herself to him wholly.

There are few scenes in literature more fearfully tragic than the one between Romola and Tito, when he
finally discovers that she knows him fully, and can be deceived by him no more. Some such hour always
must come for strong decided natures irrevocably pledged—one to the service of good, and the other to
the slavery of evil. The demoniac cried out, ‘What have I to do with thee, Jesus of Nazareth? Art thou
come to torment me before the time?’ The presence of all-pitying purity and love was a torture to the
soul possessed by the demon of evil.

These two years in which Lady Byron was with all her soul struggling to bring her husband back to his better
self were a series of passionate convulsions.

During this time, such was the disordered and desperate state of his worldly affairs, that there were ten
executions for debt levied on their family establishment; and it was Lady Byron’s fortune each time
which settled the account.

Toward the last, she and her husband saw less and less of each other; and he came more and more decidedly
under evil influences, and seemed to acquire a sort of hatred of her.

Lady Byron once said significantly to a friend who spoke of some causeless dislike in another, ‘My
dear, I have known people to be hated for no other reason than because they impersonated conscience.’

The biographers of Lord Byron, and all his apologists, are careful to narrate how sweet and amiable and
obliging he was to everybody who approached him; and the saying of Fletcher, his man-servant, that
‘anybody could do anything with my Lord, except my Lady,’ has often been quoted.

The reason of all this will now be evident. ‘My Lady’ was the only one, fully understanding
the deep and dreadful secrets of his life, who had the courage resolutely and persistently and inflexibly to
plant herself in his way, and insist upon it, that, if he went to destruction, it should be in spite of her best
efforts.

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He had tried his strength with her fully. The first attempt had been to make her an accomplice by sophistry;
by destroying her faith in Christianity, and confusing her sense of right and wrong, to bring her into the ranks
of those convenient women who regard the marriage-tie only as a friendly alliance to cover licence on both
sides.

When her husband described to her the Continental latitude (the good-humoured marriage, in which
complaisant couples mutually agreed to form the cloak for each other’s infidelities), and gave her to
understand that in this way alone she could have a peaceful and friendly life with him, she answered him
simply, ‘I am too truly your friend to do this.’

When Lord Byron found that he had to do with one who would not yield, who knew him fully, who could not
be blinded and could not be deceived, he determined to rid himself of her altogether.

It was when the state of affairs between herself and her husband seemed darkest and most hopeless, that the
only child of this union was born. Lord Byron’s treatment of his wife during the sensitive period that
preceded the birth of this child, and during her confinement, was marked by paroxysms of unmanly brutality,
for which the only possible charity on her part was the supposition of insanity. Moore sheds a significant
light on this period, by telling us that, about this time, Byron was often drunk, day after day, with Sheridan.
There had been insanity in the family; and this was the plea which Lady Byron’s love put in for him.
She regarded him as, if not insane, at least so nearly approaching the boundaries of insanity as to be a subject
of forbearance and tender pity; and she loved him with that love resembling a mother’s, which good
wives often feel when they have lost all faith in their husband’s principles, and all hopes of their
affections. Still, she was in heart and soul his best friend; true to him with a truth which he himself could not
shake.

In the verses addressed to his daughter, Lord Byron speaks of her as

‘The child of love, though born in bitterness,

And nurtured in convulsion.’

A day or two after the birth of this child, Lord Byron came suddenly into Lady Byron’s room, and told
her that her mother was dead. It was an utter falsehood; but it was only one of the many nameless injuries and
cruelties by which he expressed his hatred of her. A short time after her confinement, she was informed by
him, in a note, that, as soon as she was able to travel, she must go; that he could not and would not longer
have her about him; and, when her child was only five weeks old, he carried this threat of expulsion into
effect.

Here we will insert briefly Lady Byron’s own account (the only one she ever gave to the public) of this
separation. The circumstances under which this brief story was written are affecting.

Lord Byron was dead. The whole account between him and her was closed for ever in this world.
Moore’s ‘Life’ had been prepared, containing simply and solely Lord Byron’s
own version of their story. Moore sent this version to Lady Byron, and requested to know if she had any
remarks to make upon it. In reply, she sent a brief statement to him,—the first and only one that had
come from her during all the years of the separation, and which appears to have mainly for its object the
exculpation of her father and mother from the charge, made by the poet, of being the instigators of the
separation.

In this letter, she says, with regard to their separation,—

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‘The facts are, I left London for Kirkby Mallory, the residence of my father and mother, on the 15th of
January, 1816. LORD BYRON HAD SIGNIFIED TO ME IN WRITING, JAN. 6, HIS ABSOLUTE DESIRE
THAT I SHOULD LEAVE LONDON ON THE EARLIEST DAY THAT I COULD CONVENIENTLY
FIX. It was not safe for me to undertake the fatigue of a journey sooner than the 15th. Previously to my
departure, it had been strongly impressed upon my mind that Lord Byron was under the influence of insanity.
This opinion was derived, in a great measure, from the communications made me by his nearest relatives and
personal attendant, who had more opportunity than myself for observing him during the latter part of my stay
in town. It was even represented to me that he was in danger of destroying himself.

‘With the concurrence of his family, I had consulted Dr. Baillie as a friend (Jan. 8) respecting the
supposed malady. On acquainting him with the state of the case, and with Lord Byron’s desire that I
should leave London, Dr. Baillie thought that my absence might be advisable as an experiment, assuming the
fact of mental derangement; for Dr. Baillie, not having had access to Lord Byron, could not pronounce a
positive opinion on that point. He enjoined that, in correspondence with Lord Byron, I should avoid all but
light and soothing topics. Under these impressions, I left London, determined to follow the advice given by
Dr. Baillie. Whatever might have been the conduct of Lord Byron toward me from the time of my marriage,
yet, supposing him to be in a state of mental alienation, it was not for me, nor for any person of common
humanity, to manifest at that moment a sense of injury.’

Nothing more than this letter from Lady Byron is necessary to substantiate the fact, that she did not leave her
husband, but was driven from him,—driven from him that he might give himself up to the guilty
infatuation that was consuming him, without being tortured by her imploring face, and by the silent power of
her presence and her prayers.

For a long time before this, she had seen little of him. On the day of her departure, she passed by the door of
his room, and stopped to caress his favourite spaniel, which was lying there; and she confessed to a friend the
weakness of feeling a willingness even to be something as humble as that poor little creature, might she only
be allowed to remain and watch over him. She went into the room where he and the partner of his sins were
sitting together, and said, ‘Byron, I come to say goodbye,’ offering, at the same time, her hand.

Lord Byron put his hands behind him, retreated to the mantel-piece, and, looking on the two that stood there,
with a sarcastic smile said, ‘When shall we three meet again?’ Lady Byron answered,
‘In heaven, I trust’. And those were her last words to him on earth.

Now, if the reader wishes to understand the real talents of Lord Byron for deception and dissimulation, let him
read, with this story in his mind, the ‘Fare thee well,’ which he addressed to Lady Byron
through the printer:—

‘Fare thee well; and if for ever,

Still for ever fare thee well!
Even though unforgiving, never
’Gainst thee shall my heart rebel.

Would that breast were bared before thee

Where thy head so oft hath lain,
While that placid sleep came o’er thee
Thou canst never know again!

Though my many faults defaced me,

Could no other arm be found
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To inflict a careless wound?’

The re-action of society against him at the time of the separation from his wife was something which he had
not expected, and for which, it appears, he was entirely unprepared. It broke up the guilty intrigue and drove
him from England. He had not courage to meet or endure it. The world, to be sure, was very far from
suspecting what the truth was: but the tide was setting against him with such vehemence as to make him
tremble every hour lest the whole should be known; and henceforth, it became a warfare of desperation to
make his story good, no matter at whose expense.

He had tact enough to perceive at first that the assumption of the pathetic and the magnanimous, and general
confessions of faults, accompanied with admissions of his wife’s goodness, would be the best policy in
his case. In this mood, he thus writes to Moore:—

‘The fault was not in my choice (unless in choosing at all); for I do not believe (and I must say it in the
very dregs of all this bitter business) that there ever was a better, or even a brighter, a kinder, or a more
amiable, agreeable being than Lady Byron. I never had, nor can have, any reproach to make her while with
me. Where there is blame, it belongs to myself.’

As there must be somewhere a scapegoat to bear the sin of the affair, Lord Byron wrote a poem called
‘A Sketch,’ in which he lays the blame of stirring up strife on a friend and former governess of
Lady Byron’s; but in this sketch he introduces the following just eulogy on Lady Byron:—

‘Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind

Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,
Deceit infect not, near contagion soil,
Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil,
Nor mastered science tempt her to look down
On humbler talents with a pitying frown,
Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,
Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain,
Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow,
Nor virtue teach austerity,—till now;
Serenely purest of her sex that live,
But wanting one sweet weakness,—to forgive;
Too shocked at faults her soul can never know,
She deemed that all could be like her below:
Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue’s friend;
For Virtue pardons those she would amend.’

In leaving England, Lord Byron first went to Switzerland, where he conceived and in part wrote out the
tragedy of ‘Manfred.’ Moore speaks of his domestic misfortunes, and the sufferings which he
underwent at this time, as having influence in stimulating his genius, so that he was enabled to write with a
greater power.

Anybody who reads the tragedy of ‘Manfred’ with this story in his mind will see that it is true.

The hero is represented as a gloomy misanthrope, dwelling with impenitent remorse on the memory of an
incestuous passion which has been the destruction of his sister for this life and the life to come, but which, to
the very last gasp, he despairingly refuses to repent of, even while he sees the fiends of darkness rising to take
possession of his departing soul. That Byron knew his own guilt well, and judged himself severely, may be
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part of the ‘incantation,’ which Moore says was written at this time:—

‘Though thy slumber may be deep,

Yet thy spirit shall not sleep:
There are shades which will not vanish;
There are thoughts thou canst not banish.
By a power to thee unknown,
Thou canst never be alone:
Thou art wrapt as with a shroud;
Thou art gathered in a cloud;
And for ever shalt thou dwell
In the spirit of this spell.

. . . .

From thy false tears I did distil

An essence which had strength to kill;
From thy own heart I then did wring
The black blood in its blackest spring;
From thy own smile I snatched the snake,
For there it coiled as in a brake;
From thy own lips I drew the charm
Which gave all these their chiefest harm:
In proving every poison known,
I found the strongest was thine own.

By thy cold breast and serpent smile,

By thy unfathomed gulfs of guile,
By that most seeming virtuous eye,
By thy shut soul’s hypocrisy,
By the perfection of thine art
Which passed for human thine own heart,
By thy delight in other’s pain,
And by thy brotherhood of Cain,
I call upon thee, and compel
Thyself to be thy proper hell!’

Again: he represents Manfred as saying to the old abbot, who seeks to bring him to repentance,—

‘Old man, there is no power in holy men,

Nor charm in prayer, nor purifying form
Of penitence, nor outward look, nor fast,
Nor agony, nor greater than all these,
The innate tortures of that deep despair,
Which is remorse without the fear of hell,
But, all in all sufficient to itself,
Would make a hell of heaven, can exorcise
From out the unbounded spirit the quick sense
Of its own sins, wrongs, sufferance, and revenge
Upon itself: there is no future pang
Can deal that justice on the self-condemned

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He deals on his own soul.’

And when the abbot tells him,

‘All this is well;

For this will pass away, and be succeeded
By an auspicious hope, which shall look up
With calm assurance to that blessed place
Which all who seek may win, whatever be
Their earthly errors,’

he answers,

‘It is too late.’

Then the old abbot soliloquises:—

‘This should have been a noble creature: he

Hath all the energy which would have made
A goodly frame of glorious elements,
Had they been wisely mingled; as it is,
It is an awful chaos,—light and darkness,
And mind and dust, and passions and pure thoughts,
Mixed, and contending without end or order.’

The world can easily see, in Moore’s Biography, what, after this, was the course of Lord
Byron’s life; how he went from shame to shame, and dishonour to dishonour, and used the fortune
which his wife brought him in the manner described in those private letters which his biographer was left to
print. Moore, indeed, says Byron had made the resolution not to touch his lady’s fortune; but adds,
that it required more self-command than he possessed to carry out so honourable a purpose.

Lady Byron made but one condition with him. She had him in her power; and she exacted that the unhappy
partner of his sins should not follow him out of England, and that the ruinous intrigue should be given up.
Her inflexibility on this point kept up that enmity which was constantly expressing itself in some publication
or other, and which drew her and her private relations with him before the public.

The story of what Lady Byron did with the portion of her fortune which was reserved to her is a record of
noble and skilfully administered charities. Pitiful and wise and strong, there was no form of human suffering
or sorrow that did not find with her refuge and help. She gave not only systematically, but also impulsively.

Miss Martineau claims for her the honour of having first invented practical schools, in which the children of
the poor were turned into agriculturists, artizans, seamstresses, and good wives for poor men. While she
managed with admirable skill and economy permanent institutions of this sort, she was always ready to
relieve suffering in any form. The fugitive slaves William and Ellen Crafts, escaping to England, were
fostered by her protecting care.

In many cases where there was distress or anxiety from poverty among those too self-respecting to make their
sufferings known, the delicate hand of Lady Byron ministered to the want with a consideration which spared
the most refined feelings.

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As a mother, her course was embarrassed by peculiar trials. The daughter inherited from the father not only
brilliant talents, but a restlessness and morbid sensibility which might be too surely traced to the storms and
agitations of the period in which she was born. It was necessary to bring her up in ignorance of the true
history of her mother’s life; and the consequence was that she could not fully understand that mother.

During her early girlhood, her career was a source of more anxiety than of comfort. She married a man of
fashion, ran a brilliant course as a gay woman of fashion, and died early of a lingering and painful disease.

In the silence and shaded retirement of the sick-room, the daughter came wholly back to her mother’s
arms and heart; and it was on that mother’s bosom that she leaned as she went down into the dark
valley. It was that mother who placed her weak and dying hand in that of her Almighty Saviour.

To the children left by her daughter, she ministered with the faithfulness of a guardian angel; and it is owing
to her influence that those who yet remain are among the best and noblest of mankind.

The person whose relations with Byron had been so disastrous, also, in the latter years of her life, felt Lady
Byron’s loving and ennobling influences, and, in her last sickness and dying hours, looked to her for
consolation and help.

There was an unfortunate child of sin, born with the curse upon her, over whose wayward nature Lady Byron
watched with a mother’s tenderness. She was the one who could have patience when the patience of
every one else failed; and though her task was a difficult one, from the strange abnormal propensities to evil in
the object of her cares, yet Lady Byron never faltered, and never gave over, till death took the responsibility
from her hands.

During all this trial, strange to say, her belief that the good in Lord Byron would finally conquer was
unshaken.

To a friend who said to her, ‘Oh! how could you love him?’ she answered briefly, ‘My
dear, there was the angel in him.’ It is in us all.

It was in this angel that she had faith. It was for the deliverance of this angel from degradation and shame and
sin that she unceasingly prayed. She read every work that Byron wrote—read it with a deeper
knowledge than any human being but herself could possess. The ribaldry and the obscenity and the insults
with which he strove to make her ridiculous in the world fell at her pitying feet unheeded.

When he broke away from all this unworthy life to devote himself to a manly enterprise for the redemption of
Greece, she thought that she saw the beginning of an answer to her prayers. Even although one of his latest
acts concerning her was to repeat to Lady Blessington the false accusation which made Lady Byron the author
of all his errors, she still had hopes from the one step taken in the right direction.

In the midst of these hopes came the news of his sudden death. On his death-bed, it is well-known that he
called his confidential English servant to him, and said to him, ‘Go to my sister; tell her—Go to
Lady Byron,—you will see her,—and say’—

Here followed twenty minutes of indistinct mutterings, in which the names of his wife, daughter, and sister,
frequently occurred. He then said, ‘Now I have told you all.’

‘My lord,’ replied Fletcher, ‘I have not understood a word your lordship has been
saying.’

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‘Not understand me!’ exclaimed Lord Byron with a look of the utmost distress: ‘what a
pity! Then it is too late,—all is over!’ He afterwards, says Moore, tried to utter a few words, of
which none were intelligible except ‘My sister—my child.’

When Fletcher returned to London, Lady Byron sent for him, and walked the room in convulsive struggles to
repress her tears and sobs, while she over and over again strove to elicit something from him which should
enlighten her upon what that last message had been; but in vain: the gates of eternity were shut in her face,
and not a word had passed to tell her if he had repented.

For all that, Lady Byron never doubted his salvation. Ever before her, during the few remaining years of her
widowhood, was the image of her husband, purified and ennobled, with the shadows of earth for ever
dissipated, the stains of sin for ever removed; ‘the angel in him,’ as she expressed it,
‘made perfect, according to its divine ideal.’

Never has more divine strength of faith and love existed in woman. Out of the depths of her own loving and
merciful nature, she gained such views of the divine love and mercy as made all hopes possible. There was no
soul of whose future Lady Byron despaired,—such was her boundless faith in the redeeming power of
love.

After Byron’s death, the life of this delicate creature—so frail in body that she seemed always
hovering on the brink of the eternal world, yet so strong in spirit, and so unceasing in her various ministries of
mercy—was a miracle of mingled weakness and strength.

To talk with her seemed to the writer of this sketch the nearest possible approach to talking with one of the
spirits of the just made perfect.

She was gentle, artless; approachable as a little child; with ready, outflowing sympathy for the cares and
sorrows and interests of all who approached her; with a naïve and gentle playfulness, that adorned, without
hiding, the breadth and strength of her mind; and, above all, with a clear, divining, moral discrimination;
never mistaking wrong for right in the slightest shade, yet with a mercifulness that made allowance for every
weakness, and pitied every sin.

There was so much of Christ in her, that to have seen her seemed to be to have drawn near to heaven. She
was one of those few whom absence cannot estrange from friends; whose mere presence in this world seems
always a help to every generous thought, a strength to every good purpose, a comfort in every sorrow.

Living so near the confines of the spiritual world, she seemed already to see into it: hence the words of
comfort which she addressed to a friend who had lost a son:—

‘Dear friend, remember, as long as our loved ones are in God’s world, they are in ours.’

*****

It has been thought by some friends who have read the proof-sheets of the foregoing that the author should
give more specifically her authority for these statements.

The circumstances which led the writer to England at a certain time originated a friendship and
correspondence with Lady Byron, which was always regarded as one of the greatest acquisitions of that visit.

On the occasion of a second visit to England, in 1856, the writer received a note from Lady Byron, indicating
that she wished to have some private, confidential conversation upon important subjects, and inviting her, for

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that purpose, to spend a day with her at her country-seat near London,

The writer went and spent a day with Lady Byron alone; and the object of the invitation was explained to her.
Lady Byron was in such a state of health, that her physicians had warned her that she had very little time to
live. She was engaged in those duties and retrospections which every thoughtful person finds necessary, when
coming deliberately, and with open eyes, to the boundaries of this mortal life.

At that time, there was a cheap edition of Byron’s works in contemplation, intended to bring his
writings into circulation among the masses; and the pathos arising from the story of his domestic misfortunes
was one great means relied on for giving it currency.

Under these circumstances, some of Lady Byron’s friends had proposed the question to her, whether
she had not a responsibility to society for the truth; whether she did right to allow these writings to gain
influence over the popular mind by giving a silent consent to what she knew to be utter falsehoods.

Lady Byron’s whole life had been passed in the most heroic self-abnegation and self-sacrifice: and she
had now to consider whether one more act of self-denial was not required of her before leaving this world;
namely, to declare the absolute truth, no matter at what expense to her own feelings.

For this reason, it was her desire to recount the whole history to a person of another country, and entirely out
of the sphere of personal and local feelings which might be supposed to influence those in the country and
station in life where the events really happened, in order that she might be helped by such a person’s
views in making up an opinion as to her own duty.

The interview had almost the solemnity of a death-bed avowal. Lady Byron stated the facts which have been
embodied in this article, and gave to the writer a paper containing a brief memorandum of the whole, with the
dates affixed.

We have already spoken of that singular sense of the reality of the spiritual world which seemed to encompass
Lady Byron during the last part of her life, and which made her words and actions seem more like those of a
blessed being detached from earth than of an ordinary mortal. All her modes of looking at things, all her
motives of action, all her involuntary exhibitions of emotion, were so high above any common level, and so
entirely regulated by the most unworldly causes, that it would seem difficult to make the ordinary world
understand exactly how the thing seemed to lie before her mind. What impressed the writer more strongly
than anything else was Lady Byron’s perfect conviction that her husband was now a redeemed spirit;
that he looked back with pain and shame and regret on all that was unworthy in his past life; and that, if he
could speak or could act in the case, he would desire to prevent the further circulation of base falsehoods, and
of seductive poetry, which had been made the vehicle of morbid and unworthy passions.

Lady Byron’s experience had led her to apply the powers of her strong philosophical mind to the study
of mental pathology: and she had become satisfied that the solution of the painful problem which first
occurred to her as a young wife, was, after all, the true one; namely, that Lord Byron had been one of those
unfortunately constituted persons in whom the balance of nature is so critically hung, that it is always in
danger of dipping towards insanity; and that, in certain periods of his life, he was so far under the influence of
mental disorder as not to be fully responsible for his actions.

She went over with a brief and clear analysis the history of his whole life as she had thought it out during the
lonely musings of her widowhood. She dwelt on the ancestral causes that gave him a nature of exceptional
and dangerous susceptibility. She went through the mismanagements of his childhood, the history of his
school-days, the influence of the ordinary school-course of classical reading on such a mind as his. She
sketched boldly and clearly the internal life of the young men of the time, as she, with her purer eyes, had

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looked through it; and showed how habits, which, with less susceptible fibre, and coarser strength of nature,
were tolerable for his companions, were deadly to him, unhinging his nervous system, and intensifying the
dangers of ancestral proclivities. Lady Byron expressed the feeling too, that the Calvinistic theology, as heard
in Scotland, had proved in his case, as it often does in certain minds, a subtle poison. He never could either
disbelieve or become reconciled to it; and the sore problems it proposes embittered his spirit against
Christianity.

‘The worst of it is, I do believe,’ he would often say with violence, when he had been
employing all his powers of reason, wit, and ridicule upon these subjects.

Through all this sorrowful history was to be seen, not the care of a slandered woman to make her story good,
but the pathetic anxiety of a mother, who treasures every particle of hope, every intimation of good, in the son
whom she cannot cease to love. With indescribable resignation, she dwelt on those last hours, those words
addressed to her, never to be understood till repeated in eternity.

But all this she looked upon as for ever past; believing, that, with the dropping of the earthly life, these morbid
impulses and influences ceased, and that higher nature which he often so beautifully expressed in his poems
became the triumphant one.

While speaking on this subject, her pale ethereal face became luminous with a heavenly radiance; there was
something so sublime in her belief in the victory of love over evil, that faith with her seemed to have become
sight. She seemed so clearly to perceive the divine ideal of the man she had loved, and for whose salvation
she had been called to suffer and labour and pray, that all memories of his past unworthiness fell away, and
were lost.

Her love was never the doting fondness of weak women; it was the appreciative and discriminating love by
which a higher nature recognised god-like capabilities under all the dust and defilement of misuse and
passion: and she never doubted that the love which in her was so strong, that no injury or insult could shake it,
was yet stronger in the God who made her capable of such a devotion, and that in him it was accompanied by
power to subdue all things to itself.

The writer was so impressed and excited by the whole scene and recital, that she begged for two or three days
to deliberate before forming any opinion. She took the memorandum with her, returned to London, and gave
a day or two to the consideration of the subject. The decision which she made was chiefly influenced by her
reverence and affection for Lady Byron. She seemed so frail, she had suffered so much, she stood at such a
height above the comprehension of the coarse and common world, that the author had a feeling that it would
almost be like violating a shrine to ask her to come forth from the sanctuary of a silence where she had so long
abode, and plead her cause. She wrote to Lady Byron, that while this act of justice did seem to be called for,
and to be in some respects most desirable, yet, as it would involve so much that was painful to her, the writer
considered that Lady Byron would be entirely justifiable in leaving the truth to be disclosed after her death;
and recommended that all the facts necessary should be put in the hands of some person, to be so published.

Years passed on. Lady Byron lingered four years after this interview, to the wonder of her physicians and all
her friends.

After Lady Byron’s death, the writer looked anxiously, hoping to see a Memoir of the person whom
she considered the most remarkable woman that England has produced in the century. No such Memoir has
appeared on the part of her friends; and the mistress of Lord Byron has the ear of the public, and is sowing far
and wide unworthy slanders, which are eagerly gathered up and read by an undiscriminating community.

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There may be family reasons in England which prevent Lady Byron’s friends from speaking. But
Lady Byron has an American name and an American existence; and reverence for pure womanhood is, we
think, a national characteristic of the American; and, so far as this country is concerned, we feel that the public
should have this refutation of the slanders of the Countess Guiccioli’s book.

LORD LINDSAY’S LETTER TO THE LONDON

‘TIMES.’
TO THE EDITOR OF ‘THE TIMES.’
SIR,—I have waited in expectation of a categorical denial of the horrible charge brought by Mrs.
Beecher Stowe against Lord Byron and his sister on the alleged authority of the late Lady Byron. Such denial
has been only indirectly given by the letter of Messrs. Wharton and Fords in your impression of yesterday.
That letter is sufficient to prove that Lady Byron never contemplated the use made of her name, and that her
descendants and representatives disclaim any countenance of Mrs. B. Stowe’s article; but it does not
specifically meet Mrs. Stowe’s allegation, that Lady Byron, in conversing with her thirteen years ago,
affirmed the charge now before us. It remains open, therefore, to a scandal-loving world, to credit the
calumny through the advantage of this flaw, involuntary, I believe, in the answer produced against it. My
object in addressing you is to supply that deficiency by proving that what is now stated on Lady
Byron’s supposed authority is at variance, in all respects, with what she stated immediately after the
separation, when everything was fresh in her memory in relation to the time during which, according to Mrs.
B. Stowe, she believed that Byron and his sister were living together in guilt. I publish this evidence with
reluctance, but in obedience to that higher obligation of justice to the voiceless and defenceless dead which
bids me break through a reserve that otherwise I should have held sacred. The Lady Byron of 1818 would, I
am certain, have sanctioned my doing so, had she foreseen the present unparalleled occasion, and the bar that
the conditions of her will present (as I infer from Messrs Wharton and Fords’ letter) against any fuller
communication. Calumnies such as the present sink deep and with rapidity into the public mind, and are not
easily eradicated. The fame of one of our greatest poets, and that of the kindest and truest and most constant
friend that Byron ever had, is at stake; and it will not do to wait for revelations from the fountain-head, which
are not promised, and possibly may never reach us.

The late Lady Anne Barnard, who died in 1825, a contemporary and friend of Burke, Windham, Dundas, and
a host of the wise and good of that generation, and remembered in letters as the authoress of ‘Auld
Robin Gray,’ had known the late Lady Byron from infancy, and took a warm interest in her; holding
Lord Byron in corresponding repugnance, not to say prejudice, in consequence of what she believed to be his
harsh and cruel treatment of her young friend. I transcribe the following passages, and a letter from Lady
Byron herself (written in 1818) from ricordi, or private family memoirs, in Lady Anne’s autograph,
now before me. I include the letter, because, although treating only in general terms of the matter and causes
of the separation, it affords collateral evidence bearing strictly upon the point of the credibility of the charge
now in question:—

‘The separation of Lord and Lady Byron astonished the world, which believed him a reformed man as
to his habits, and a becalmed man as to his remorses. He had written nothing that appeared after his marriage
till the famous “Fare thee well,” which had the power of compelling those to pity the writer
who were not well aware that he was not the unhappy person he affected to be. Lady Byron’s misery
was whispered soon after her marriage and his ill usage, but no word transpired, no sign escaped, from her.
She gave birth, shortly, to a daughter; and when she went, as soon as she was recovered, on a visit to her
father’s, taking her little Ada with her, no one knew that it was to return to her lord no more. At that
period, a severe fit of illness had confined me to bed for two months. I heard of Lady Byron’s distress;
of the pains he took to give a harsh impression of her character to the world. I wrote to her, and entreated her
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She came; but what a tale was unfolded by this interesting young creature, who had so fondly hoped to have
made a young man of genius and romance (as she supposed) happy! They had not been an hour in the
carriage which conveyed them from the church, when, breaking into a malignant sneer, “Oh! what a
dupe you have been to your imagination! How is it possible a woman of your sense could form the wild hope
of reforming me? Many are the tears you will have to shed ere that plan is accomplished. It is enough for me
that you are my wife for me to hate you! If you were the wife of any other man, I own you might have
charms,” etc. I who listened was astonished. “How could you go on after this,” said I,
“my dear? Why did you not return to your father’s?” “Because I had not a
conception he was in earnest; because I reckoned it a bad jest, and told him so,—that my opinions of
him were very different from his of himself, otherwise he would not find me by his side. He laughed it over
when he saw me appear hurt: and I forgot what had passed, till forced to remember it. I believe he was
pleased with me, too, for a little while. I suppose it had escaped his memory that I was his wife.” But
she described the happiness they enjoyed to have been unequal and perturbed. Her situation, in a short time,
might have entitled her to some tenderness; but she made no claim on him for any. He sometimes reproached
her for the motives that had induced her to marry him: all was “vanity, the vanity of Miss Milbanke
carrying the point of reforming Lord Byron! He always knew her inducements; her pride shut her eyes to his:
he wished to build up his character and his fortunes; both were somewhat deranged: she had a high name, and
would have a fortune worth his attention,—let her look to that for his
motives!”—“O Byron, Byron!” she said, “how you desolate me!”
He would then accuse himself of being mad, and throw himself on the ground in a frenzy, which she believed
was affected to conceal the coldness and malignity of his heart,—an affectation which at that time
never failed to meet with the tenderest commiseration. I could find by some implications, not followed up by
me, lest she might have condemned herself afterwards for her involuntary disclosures, that he soon attempted
to corrupt her principles, both with respect to her own conduct and her latitude for his. She saw the precipice
on which she stood, and kept his sister with her as much as possible. He returned in the evenings from the
haunts of vice, where he made her understand he had been, with manners so profligate! “O the
wretch!” said I. “And had he no moments of remorse?” “Sometimes he
appeared to have them. One night, coming home from one of his lawless parties, he saw me so indignantly
collected, and bearing all with such a determined calmness, that a rush of remorse seemed to come over him.
He called himself a monster, though his sister was present, and threw himself in agony at my feet. I could
not—no—I could not forgive him such injuries. He had lost me for ever! Astonished at the
return of virtue, my tears, I believe, flowed over his face, and I said, ‘Byron, all is forgotten: never,
never shall you hear of it more!’ He started up, and, folding his arms while he looked at me, burst into
laughter. ‘What do you mean?’ said I. ‘Only a philosophical experiment; that’s
all,’ said he. ‘I wished to ascertain the value of your resolutions.’” I need not
say more of this prince of duplicity, except that varied were his methods of rendering her wretched, even to
the last. When her lovely little child was born, and it was laid beside its mother on the bed, and he was
informed he might see his daughter, after gazing at it with an exulting smile, this was the ejaculation that
broke from him: “Oh, what an implement of torture have I acquired in you!” Such he rendered
it by his eyes and manner, keeping her in a perpetual alarm for its safety when in his presence. All this reads
madder than I believe he was: but she had not then made up her mind to disbelieve his pretended insanity, and
conceived it best to intrust her secret with the excellent Dr. Baillie; telling him all that seemed to regard the
state of her husband’s mind, and letting his advice regulate her conduct. Baillie doubted of his
derangement; but, as he did not reckon his own opinion infallible, he wished her to take precautions as if her
husband were so. He recommended her going to the country, but to give him no suspicion of her intentions of
remaining there, and, for a short time, to show no coldness in her letters, till she could better ascertain his
state. She went, regretting, as she told me, to wear any semblance but the truth. A short time disclosed the
story to the world. He acted the part of a man driven to despair by her inflexible resentment and by the arts of
a governess (once a servant in the family) who hated him. “I will give you,” proceeds Lady
Anne, “a few paragraphs transcribed from one of Lady Byron’s own letters to me. It is
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have her character mistaken by every one who reads Byron’s works. To rescue her from this, I
preserved her letters; and, when she afterwards expressed a fear that any thing of her writings should ever fall
into hands to injure him (I suppose she meant by publication), I safely assured her that it never should. But
here this letter shall be placed, a sacred record in her favour, unknown to herself:—

‘“I am a very incompetent judge of the impression which the last canto of ‘Childe
Harold’ may produce on the minds of indifferent readers. It contains the usual trace of a conscience
restlessly awake; though his object has been too long to aggravate its burden, as if it could thus be oppressed
into eternal stupor. I will hope, as you do, that it survives for his ultimate good. It was the acuteness of his
remorse, impenitent in its character, which so long seemed to demand from my compassion to spare every
resemblance of reproach, every look of grief, which might have said to his conscience, ‘You have
made me wretched.’ I am decidedly of opinion that he is responsible. He has wished to be thought
partially deranged, or on the brink of it, to perplex observers, and prevent them from tracing effects to their
real causes through all the intricacies of his conduct. I was, as I told you, at one time the dupe of his acted
insanity, and clung to the former delusions in regard to the motives that concerned me personally, till the
whole system was laid bare. He is the absolute monarch of words, and uses them, as Bonaparte did lives, for
conquest, without more regard to their intrinsic value; considering them only as ciphers, which must derive all
their import from the situation in which he places them, and the ends to which he adapts them with such
consummate skill. Why, then, you will say, does he not employ them to give a better colour to his own
character? Because he is too good an actor to over-act, or to assume a moral garb which it would be easy to
strip off. In regard to his poetry, egotism is the vital principle of his imagination, which it is difficult for him
to kindle on any subject with which his own character and interests are not identified: but by the introduction
of fictitious incidents, by change of scene or time, he has enveloped his poetical disclosures in a system
impenetrable except to a very few; and his constant desire of creating a sensation makes him not averse to be
the object of wonder and curiosity, even though accompanied by some dark and vague suspicions. Nothing
has contributed more to the misunderstanding of his real character than the lonely grandeur in which he
shrouds it, and his affectation of being above mankind, when he exists almost in their voice. The romance of
his sentiments is another feature of this mask of state. I know no one more habitually destitute of that
enthusiasm he so beautifully expresses, and to which he can work up his fancy chiefly by contagion. I had
heard he was the best of brothers, the most generous of friends; and I thought such feelings only required to be
warmed and cherished into more diffusive benevolence. Though these opinions are eradicated, and could
never return but with the decay of my memory, you will not wonder if there are still moments when the
association of feelings which arose from them soften and sadden my thoughts. But I have not thanked you,
dearest Lady Anne, for your kindness in regard to a principal object,—that of rectifying false
impressions. I trust you understand my wishes, which never were to injure Lord Byron in any way: for,
though he would not suffer me to remain his wife, he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and it was
from considering myself as such that I silenced the accusations by which my own conduct might have been
more fully justified. It is not necessary to speak ill of his heart in general: it is sufficient that to me it was hard
and impenetrable; that my own must have been broken before his could have been touched. I would rather
represent this as my misfortune than as his guilt; but surely that misfortune is not to be made my crime! Such
are my feelings: you will judge how to act. His allusions to me in ‘Childe Harold’ are cruel and
cold, but with such a semblance as to make me appear so, and to attract all sympathy to himself. It is said in
this poem that hatred of him will be taught as a lesson to his child. I might appeal to all who have ever heard
me speak of him, and still more to my own heart, to witness that there has been no moment when I have
remembered injury otherwise than affectionately and sorrowfully. It is not my duty to give way to hopeless
and wholly unrequited affection; but, so long as I live, my chief struggle will probably be not to remember
him too kindly. I do not seek the sympathy of the world; but I wish to be known by those whose opinion is
valuable, and whose kindness is clear to me. Among such, my dear Lady Anne, you will ever be remembered
by your truly affectionate,

‘“A. BYRON.”’

LORD LINDSAY’S LETTER TO THE LONDON ‘TIMES.’ TO THE EDITOR OF 149

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It is the province of your readers, and of the world at large, to judge between the two testimonies now before
them,—Lady Byron’s in 1816 and 1818, and that put forward in 1869 by Mrs. B. Stowe, as
communicated by Lady Byron thirteen years ago. In the face of the evidence now given, positive, negative,
and circumstantial, there can be but two alternatives in the case: either Mrs. B. Stowe must have entirely
misunderstood Lady Byron, and been thus led into error and misstatement; or we must conclude that, under
the pressure of a lifelong and secret sorrow, Lady Byron’s mind had become clouded with an
hallucination in respect of the particular point in question.

The reader will admire the noble but severe character displayed in Lady Byron’s letter; but those who
keep in view what her first impressions were, as above recorded, may probably place a more lenient
interpretation than hers upon some of the incidents alleged to Byron’s discredit. I shall conclude with
some remarks upon his character, written shortly after his death by a wise, virtuous, and charitable judge, the
late Sir Walter Scott, likewise in a letter to Lady Anne Barnard:—

‘Fletcher’s account of poor Byron is extremely interesting. I had always a strong attachment to
that unfortunate though most richly-gifted man, because I thought I saw that his virtues (and he had many)
were his own; and his eccentricities the result of an irritable temperament, which sometimes approached
nearly to mental disease. Those who are gifted with strong nerves, a regular temper, and habitual
self-command, are not, perhaps, aware how much of what they may think virtue they owe to constitution; and
such are but too severe judges of men like Byron, whose mind, like a day of alternate storm and sunshine, is
all dark shades and stray gleams of light, instead of the twilight gray which illuminates happier though less
distinguished mortals. I always thought, that, when a moral proposition was placed plainly before Lord
Byron, his mind yielded a pleased and willing assent to it; but, if there was any side view given in the way of
raillery or otherwise, he was willing enough to evade conviction . . . . It augurs ill for the cause of Greece that
this master-spirit should have been withdrawn from their assistance just as he was obtaining a complete
ascendancy over their counsels. I have seen several letters from the Ionian Islands, all of which unite in
speaking in the highest praise of the wisdom and temperance of his counsels, and the ascendancy he was
obtaining over the turbulent and ferocious chiefs of the insurgents. I have some verses written by him on his
last birthday: they breathe a spirit of affection towards his wife, and a desire of dying in battle, which seems
like an anticipation of his approaching fate.’

I remain, sir, your obedient servant,

LINDSAY.

DUNECHT, Sept. 3.

DR. FORBES WINSLOW’S LETTER TO THE LONDON

‘TIMES.’
TO THE EDITOR.

SIR,—Your paper of the 4th of September, containing an able and deeply interesting
‘Vindication of Lord Byron,’ has followed me to this place. With the general details of the
‘True Story’ (as it is termed) of Lady Byron’s separation from her husband, as recorded
in ‘Macmillan’s Magazine,’ I have no desire or intention to grapple. It is only with the
hypothesis of insanity, as suggested by the clever writer of the ‘Vindication’ to account for
Lady Byron’s sad revelations to Mrs. Beecher Stowe, with which I propose to deal. I do not believe
that the mooted theory of mental aberration can, in this case, be for a moment maintained. If Lady
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delusion or hallucination of an insane mind, what part of the narrative are we to draw the boundary-line
between fact and delusion, sanity and insanity? Where are we to fix the point d’appui of the lunacy?
Again: is the alleged ‘hallucination’ to be considered as strictly confined to the idea that Lord
Byron had committed the frightful sin of incest? or is the whole of the ‘True Story’ of her
married life, as reproduced with such terrible minuteness by Mrs. Beecher Stowe, to be viewed as the delusion
of a disordered fancy? If Lady Byron was the subject of an ‘hallucination’ with regard to her
husband, I think it not unreasonable to conclude that the mental alienation existed on the day of her marriage.
If this proposition be accepted, the natural inference will be, that the details of the conversation which Lady
Byron represents to have occurred between herself and Lord Byron as soon as they entered the carriage never
took place. Lord Byron is said to have remarked to Lady Byron, ‘You might have prevented this (or
words to this effect): you will now find that you have married a devil. Is this alleged conversation to be
viewed as fact, or fiction? evidence of sanity, or insanity? Is the revelation which Lord Byron is said to have
made to his wife of his ‘incestuous passion’ another delusion, having no foundation except in
his wife’s disordered imagination? Are his alleged attempts to justify to Lady Byron’s mind
the morale of the plea of ‘Continental latitude—the good-humoured marriage, in which
complaisant couples mutually agree to form the cloak for each other’s
infidelities,’—another morbid perversion of her imagination? Did this conversation ever take
place? It will be difficult to separate one part of the ‘True Story’ from another, and maintain
that this portion indicates insanity, and that portion represents sanity. If we accept the hypothesis of
hallucination, we are bound to view the whole of Lady Byron’s conversations with Mrs. B. Stowe, and
the written statement laid before her, as the wild and incoherent representations of a lunatic. On the day when
Lady Byron parted from her husband, did she enter his private room, and find him with the ‘object of
his guilty passion?’ and did he say, as they parted, ‘When shall we three meet again?’ Is
this to be considered as an actual occurrence, or as another form of hallucination? It is quite inconsistent with
the theory of Lady Byron’s insanity to imagine that her delusion was restricted to the idea of his
having committed ‘incest.’ In common fairness, we are bound to view the aggregate mental
phenomena which she exhibited from the day of the marriage to their final separation and her death. No
person practically acquainted with the true characteristics of insanity would affirm, that, had this idea of
‘incest’ been an insane hallucination, Lady Byron could, from the lengthened period which
intervened between her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained from exhibiting her mental alienation, not
only to her legal advisers and trustees, but to others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from them as to her
disordered impressions. Lunatics do for a time, and for some special purpose, most cunningly conceal their
delusions; but they have not the capacity to struggle for thirty-six years with a frightful hallucination, similar
to the one Lady Byron is alleged to have had, without the insane state of mind becoming obvious to those with
whom they are daily associating. Neither is it consistent with experience to suppose that, if Lady Byron had
been a monomaniac, her state of disordered understanding would have been restricted to one hallucination.
Her diseased brain, affecting the normal action of thought, would, in all probability, have manifested other
symptoms besides those referred to of aberration of intellect.

During the last thirty years, I have not met with a case of insanity (assuming the hypothesis of hallucination)
at all parallel with that of Lady Byron’s. In my experience, it is unique. I never saw a patient with
such a delusion. If it should be established, by the statements of those who are the depositors of the secret
(and they are now bound, in vindication of Lord Byron’s memory, to deny, if they have the power of
doing so, this most frightful accusation), that the idea of incest did unhappily cross Lady Byron’s mind
prior to her finally leaving him, it no doubt arose from a most inaccurate knowledge of facts and perfectly
unjustifiable data, and was not, in the right psychological acceptation of the phrase, an insane hallucination.

Sir, I remain your obedient servant,

FORBES WINSLOW, M.D.

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ZARINGERHOF, FREIBURG-EN-BREISGAU, Sept. 8, 1869.

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EXTRACT FROM LORD BYRON’S EXPUNGED LETTER.

TO MR. MURRAY.

‘BOLOGNA, June 7, 1819.

. . . ‘Before I left Venice, I had returned to you your late, and Mr. Hobhouse’s sheets of
“Juan.” Don’t wait for further answers from me, but address yours to Venice as usual. I
know nothing of my own movements. I may return there in a few days, or not for some time; all this depends
on circumstances. I left Mr. Hoppner very well. My daughter Allegra is well too, and is growing pretty: her
hair is growing darker, and her eyes are blue. Her temper and her ways, Mr. Hoppner says, are like mine, as
well as her features: she will make, in that case, a manageable young lady.

‘I have never seen anything of Ada, the little Electra of my Mycenae . . . . But there will come a day of
reckoning, even if I should not live to see it. I have at least seen ---- shivered, who was one of my assassins.
When that man was doing his worst to uproot my whole family,—tree, branch, and blossoms; when,
after taking my retainer, he went over to them; when he was bringing desolation on my hearth, and destruction
on my household gods,—did he think that, in less than three years, a natural event, a severe domestic,
but an expected and common calamity, would lay his carcass in a cross-road, or stamp his name in a verdict of
lunacy? Did he (who in his sexagenary . . .) reflect or consider what my feelings must have been when wife
and child and sister, and name and fame and country, were to be my sacrifice on his legal altar?—and
this at a moment when my health was declining, my fortune embarrassed, and my mind had been shaken by
many kinds of disappointment? while I was yet young, and might have reformed what might be wrong in my
conduct, and retrieved what was perplexing in my affairs? But he is in his grave, and—What a long
letter I have scribbled!’ . . .

*****

In order that the reader may measure the change of moral tone with regard to Lord Byron, wrought by the
constant efforts of himself and his party, we give the two following extracts from ‘Blackwood:’

The first is ‘Blackwood’ in 1819, just after the publication of ‘Don Juan:’ the
second is ‘Blackwood’ in 1825.

‘In the composition of this work, there is, unquestionably, a more thorough and intense infusion of
genius and vice, power and profligacy, than in any poem which had ever before been written in the English,
or, indeed, in any other modern language. Had the wickedness been less inextricably mingled with the beauty
and the grace and the strength of a most inimitable and incomprehensible Muse, our task would have been
easy. ‘Don Juan’ is by far the most admirable specimen of the mixture of ease, strength, gaiety,
and seriousness, extant in the whole body of English poetry: the author has devoted his powers to the worst of
purposes and passions; and it increases his guilt and our sorrow that he has devoted them entire.

‘The moral strain of the whole poem is pitched in the lowest key. Love, honour, patriotism, religion,
are mentioned only to be scoffed at, as if their sole resting-place were, or ought to be, in the bosoms of fools.
It appears, in short, as if this miserable man, having exhausted every species of sensual gratification, having
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even in his frailties, but a cool, unconcerned fiend, laughing with a detestable glee over the whole of the better
and worse elements of which human life is composed; treating well-nigh with equal derision the most pure of
virtues, and the most odious of vices; dead alike to the beauty of the one, and the deformity of the other; a
mere heartless despiser of that frail but noble humanity, whose type was never exhibited in a shape of more
deplorable degradation than in his own contemptuously distinct delineation of himself. To confess to his
Maker, and weep over in secret agonies the wildest and most fantastic transgressions of heart and mind, is the
part of a conscious sinner, in whom sin has not become the sole principle of life and action; but to lay bare to
the eye of man and of woman all the hidden convulsions of a wicked spirit, and to do all this without one
symptom of contrition, remorse, or hesitation, with a calm, careless ferociousness of contented and satisfied
depravity,—this was an insult which no man of genius had ever before dared to put upon his Creator or
his species. Impiously railing against his God, madly and meanly disloyal to his sovereign and his country,
and brutally outraging all the best feelings of female honour, affection, and confidence, how small a part of
chivalry is that which remains to the descendant of the Byrons!—a gloomy visor and a deadly weapon!

‘Those who are acquainted (and who is not?) with the main incidents in the private life of Lord Byron,
and who have not seen this production, will scarcely believe that malignity should have carried him so far as
to make him commence a filthy and impious poem with an elaborate satire on the character and manners of
his wife, from whom, even by his own confession, he has been separated only in consequence of his own cruel
and heartless misconduct. It is in vain for Lord Byron to attempt in any way to justify his own behaviour in
that affair; and, now that he has so openly and audaciously invited inquiry and reproach, we do not see any
good reason why he should not be plainly told so by the general voice of his countrymen. It would not be an
easy matter to persuade any man who has any knowledge of the nature of woman, that a female such as Lord
Byron has himself described his wife to be would rashly or hastily or lightly separate herself from the love
with which she had once been inspired for such a man as he is or was. Had he not heaped insult upon insult,
and scorn upon scorn, had he not forced the iron of his contempt into her very soul, there is no woman of
delicacy and virtue, as he admitted Lady Byron to be, who would not have hoped all things, and suffered all
things, from one, her love of whom must have been inwoven with so many exalting elements of delicious
pride, and more delicious humility. To offend the love of such a woman was wrong, but it might be forgiven;
to desert her was unmanly, but he might have returned, and wiped for ever from her eyes the tears of her
desertion: but to injure and to desert, and then to turn back and wound her widowed privacy with unhallowed
strains of cold-blooded mockery, was brutally, fiendishly, inexpiably mean. For impurities there might be
some possibility of pardon, were they supposed to spring only from the reckless buoyancy of young blood and
fiery passions; for impiety there might at least be pity, were it visible that the misery of the impious soul
equalled its darkness: but for offences such as this, which cannot proceed either from the madness of sudden
impulse or the bewildered agonies of doubt, but which speak the wilful and determined spite of an
unrepenting, unsoftened, smiling, sarcastic, joyous sinner, there can be neither pity nor pardon. Our
knowledge that it is committed by one of the most powerful intellects our island ever has produced lends
intensity a thousand-fold to the bitterness of our indignation. Every high thought that was ever kindled in our
breasts by the Muse of Byron, every pure and lofty feeling that ever responded from within us to the sweep of
his majestic inspirations, every remembered moment of admiration and enthusiasm, is up in arms against
him. We look back with a mixture of wrath and scorn to the delight with which we suffered ourselves to be
filled by one, who, all the while he was furnishing us with delight, must, we cannot doubt it, have been
mocking us with a cruel mockery; less cruel only, because less peculiar, than that with which he has now
turned him from the lurking-place of his selfish and polluted exile to pour the pitiful chalice of his contumely
on the surrendered devotion of a virgin bosom, and the holy hopes of the mother of his child. It is indeed a
sad and a humiliating thing to know, that in the same year, there proceeded from the same pen two
productions in all things so different as the fourth canto of “Childe Harold” and his loathsome
“Don Juan.”

‘We have mentioned one, and, all will admit, the worst instance of the private malignity which has
been embodied in so many passages of “Don Juan;” and we are quite sure the lofty-minded and

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virtuous men whom Lord Byron has debased himself by insulting will close the volume which contains their
own injuries, with no feelings save those of pity for him that has inflicted them, and for her who partakes so
largely in the same injuries.’—August, 1819.

*****

‘BLACKWOOD,’—iterum.

‘We shall, like all others who say anything about Lord Byron, begin, sans apologie, with his personal
character. This is the great object of attack, the constant theme of open vituperation to one set, and the
established mark for all the petty but deadly artillery of sneers, shrugs, groans, to another. Two widely
different matters, however, are generally, we might say universally, mixed up here,—the personal
character of the man, as proved by his course of life; and his personal character, as revealed in or guessed
from his books. Nothing can be more unfair than the style in which this mixture is made use of. Is there a
noble sentiment, a lofty thought, a sublime conception, in the book? “Ah, yes!” is the answer.
“But what of that? It is only the roué Byron that speaks!” Is a kind, a generous action of the
man mentioned? “Yes, yes!” comments the sage; “but only remember the atrocities of
‘Don Juan:’ depend on it, this, if it be true, must have been a mere freak of caprice, or perhaps a
bit of vile hypocrisy.” Salvation is thus shut out at either entrance: the poet damns the man, and the
man the poet.

‘Nobody will suspect us of being so absurd as to suppose that it is possible for people to draw no
inferences as to the character of an author from his book, or to shut entirely out of view, in judging of a book,
that which they may happen to know about the man who writes it. The cant of the day supposes such things
to be practicable; but they are not. But what we complain of and scorn is the extent to which they are carried
in the case of this particular individual, as compared with others; the impudence with which things are at once
assumed to be facts in regard to his private history; and the absolute unfairness of never arguing from his
writings to him, but for evil.

‘Take the man, in the first place, as unconnected, in so far as we can thus consider him, with his works;
and ask, What, after all, are the bad things we know of him? Was he dishonest or dishonourable? had he ever
done anything to forfeit, or even endanger, his rank as a gentleman? Most assuredly, no such accusations
have ever been maintained against Lord Byron the private nobleman, although something of the sort may have
been insinuated against the author. “But he was such a profligate in his morals, that his name cannot
be mentioned with anything like tolerance.” Was he so, indeed? We should like extremely to have the
catechising of the individual man who says so. That he indulged in sensual vices, to some extent, is certain,
and to be regretted and condemned. But was he worse, as to such matters, than the enormous majority of
those who join in the cry of horror upon this occasion? We most assuredly believe exactly the reverse; and we
rest our belief upon very plain and intelligible grounds. First, we hold it impossible that the majority of
mankind, or that anything beyond a very small minority, are or can be entitled to talk of sensual profligacy as
having formed a part of the life and character of the man, who, dying at six and thirty, bequeathed a collection
of works such as Byron’s to the world. Secondly, we hold it impossible, that laying the extent of his
intellectual labours out of the question, and looking only to the nature of the intellect which generated, and
delighted in generating, such beautiful and noble conceptions as are to be found in almost all Lord
Byron’s works,—we hold it impossible that very many men can be at once capable of
comprehending these conceptions, and entitled to consider sensual profligacy as having formed the principal,
or even a principal, trait in Lord Byron’s character. Thirdly, and lastly, we have never been able to
hear any one fact established which could prove Lord Byron to deserve anything like the degree or even kind
of odium which has, in regard to matters of this class, been heaped upon his name. We have no story of base
unmanly seduction, or false and villainous intrigue, against him,—none whatever. It seems to us quite
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such stories, authentic and authenticated. But there are none such,—absolutely none. His name has
been coupled with the names of three, four, or more women of some rank: but what kind of women? Every
one of them, in the first place, about as old as himself in years, and therefore a great deal older in character;
every one of them utterly battered in reputation long before he came into contact with
them,—licentious, unprincipled, characterless women. What father has ever reproached him with the
ruin of his daughter? What husband has denounced him as the destroyer of his peace?

‘Let us not be mistaken. We are not defending the offences of which Lord Byron unquestionably was
guilty; neither are we finding fault with those, who, after looking honestly within and around themselves,
condemn those offences, no matter how severely: but we are speaking of society in general as it now exists;
and we say that there is vile hypocrisy in the tone in which Lord Byron is talked of there. We say, that,
although all offences against purity of life are miserable things, and condemnable things, the degrees of guilt
attached to different offences of this class are as widely different as are the degrees of guilt between an assault
and a murder; and we confess our belief, that no man of Byron’s station or age could have run much
risk in gaining a very bad name in society, had a course of life similar (in so far as we know any thing of that)
to Lord Byron’s been the only thing chargeable against him.

‘The last poem he wrote was produced upon his birthday, not many weeks before he died. We
consider it as one of the finest and most touching effusions of his noble genius. We think he who reads it, and
can ever after bring himself to regard even the worst transgressions that have been charged against Lord
Byron with any feelings but those of humble sorrow and manly pity, is not deserving of the name of man.
The deep and passionate struggles with the inferior elements of his nature (and ours) which it records; the
lofty thirsting after purity; the heroic devotion of a soul half weary of life, because unable to believe in its own
powers to live up to what it so intensely felt to be, and so reverentially honoured as, the right; the whole
picture of this mighty spirit, often darkened, but never sunk,—often erring, but never ceasing to see and
to worship the beauty of virtue; the repentance of it; the anguish; the aspiration, almost stifled in
despair,—the whole of this is such a whole, that we are sure no man can read these solemn verses too
often; and we recommend them for repetition, as the best and most conclusive of all possible answers
whenever the name of Byron is insulted by those who permit themselves to forget nothing, either in his life or
in his writings, but the good.’—[1825.]

LETTERS OF LADY BYRON TO H. C. ROBINSON

The following letters of Lady Byron’s are reprinted from the Memoirs of H. C. Robinson. They are
given that the reader may form some judgment of the strength and activity of her mind, and the elevated class
of subjects upon which it habitually dwelt.

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘DEC. 31, 1853.

‘DEAR MR. CRABB ROBINSON,—I have an inclination, if I were not afraid of trespassing on
your time (but you can put my letter by for any leisure moment), to enter upon the history of a character which
I think less appreciated than it ought to be. Men, I observe, do not understand men in certain points, without a
woman’s interpretation. Those points, of course, relate to feelings.

‘Here is a man taken by most of those who come in his way either for Dry-as-Dust, Matter-of-fact, or
for a “vain visionary.” There are, doubtless, some defective or excessive characteristics which
give rise to those impressions.

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‘My acquaintance was made, oddly enough, with him twenty-seven years ago. A pauper said to me of
him, “He’s the poor man’s doctor.” Such a recommendation seemed to me a
good one: and I also knew that his organizing head had formed the first district society in England (for Mrs.
Fry told me she could not have effected it without his aid); yet he has always ignored his own share of it. I
felt in him at once the curious combination of the Christian and the cynic,—of reverence for man, and
contempt of men. It was then an internal war, but one in which it was evident to me that the holier cause
would be victorious, because there was deep belief, and, as far as I could learn, a blameless and benevolent
life. He appeared only to want sunshine. It was a plant which could not be brought to perfection in darkness.
He had begun life by the most painful conflict between filial duty and conscience,—a large provision in
the church secured for him by his father; but he could not sign. There was discredit, as you know, attached to
such scruples.

‘He was also, when I first knew him, under other circumstances of a nature to depress him, and to
make him feel that he was unjustly treated. The gradual removal of these called forth his better nature in
thankfulness to God. Still the old misanthropic modes of expressing himself obtruded themselves at times.
This passed in ‘48 between him and Robertson. Robertson said to me, “I want to know
something about ragged schools.” I replied, “You had better ask Dr. King: he knows more
about them.”—“I?” said Dr. King. “I take care to know nothing of ragged
schools, lest they should make me ragged.” Robertson did not see through it. Perhaps I had been
taught to understand such suicidal speeches by my cousin, Lord Melbourne.

‘The example of Christ, imperfectly as it may be understood by him, has been ever before his eyes: he
woke to the thought of following it, and he went to rest consoled or rebuked by it. After nearly thirty years of
intimacy, I may, without presumption, form that opinion. There is something pathetic to me in seeing any one
so unknown. Even the other medical friends of Robertson, when I knew that Dr. King felt a woman’s
tenderness, said on one occasion to him, “But we know that you, Dr. King, are above all
feeling.”

‘If I have made the character more consistent to you by putting in these bits of mosaic, my pen will not
have been ill employed, nor unpleasingly to you.

‘Yours truly,

‘A. NOEL BYRON.’

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, NOV. 15,1854.

‘The thoughts of all this public and private suffering have taken the life out of my pen when I tried to
write on matters which would otherwise have been most interesting to me: these seemed the shadows, that the
stern reality. It is good, however, to be drawn out of scenes in which one is absorbed most unprofitably, and
to have one’s natural interests revived by such a letter as I have to thank you for, as well as its
predecessor. You touch upon the very points which do interest me the most, habitually. The change of form,
and enlargement of design, in “The Prospective” had led me to express to one of the promoters
of that object my desire to contribute. The religious crisis is instant; but the man for it? The next best thing,
if, as I believe, he is not to be found in England, is an association of such men as are to edit the new
periodical. An address delivered by Freeman Clarke at Boston, last May, makes me think him better fitted for
a leader than any other of the religious “Free-thinkers.” I wish I could send you my one copy;

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but you do not need, it, and others do. His object is the same as that of the “Alliance
Universelle:” only he is still more free from “partialism” (his own word) in his
aspirations and practical suggestions with respect to an ultimate “Christian synthesis.” He so
far adopts Comte’s theory as to speak of religion itself under three successive aspects,
historically,—1. Thesis; 2. Antithesis; 3. Synthesis. I made his acquaintance in England; and he
inspired confidence at once by his brave independence (incomptis capillis) and self-unconsciousness. J. J.
Tayler’s address of last month follows in the same path,—all in favour of the
“irenics,” instead of polemics.

‘The answer which you gave me so fully and distinctly to the questions I proposed for your
consideration was of value in turning to my view certain aspects of the case which I had not before observed.
I had begun a second attack on your patience, when all was forgotten in the news of the day.’

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, Dec. 25, 1854.

‘With J. J. Tayler, though almost a stranger to him, I have a peculiar reason for sympathising. A book
of his was a treasure to my daughter on her death-bed. {320a}

‘I must confess to intolerance of opinion as to these two points,—eternal evil in any form, and
(involved in it) eternal suffering. To believe in these would take away my God, who is all-loving. With a
God with whom omnipotence and omniscience were all, evil might be eternal; but why do I say to you what
has been better said elsewhere?’

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, Jan. 31, 1855.

. . . ‘The great difficulty in respect to “The Review” {320b} seems to be to settle a

basis, inclusive and exclusive; in short, a boundary question. From what you said, I think you agreed with
me, that a latitudinarian Christianity ought to be the character of the periodical; but the depth of the roots
should correspond with the width of the branches of that tree of knowledge. Of some of those minds one
might say, “They have no root;” and then, the richer the foliage, the more danger that the trunk
will fall. “Grounded in Christ” has to me a most practical significance and value. I, too, have
anxiety about a friend (Miss Carpenter) whose life is of public importance: she, more than any of the English
reformers, unless Nash and Wright, has found the art of drawing out the good of human nature, and proving
its existence. She makes these discoveries by the light of love. I hope she may recover, from to-day’s
report. The object of a Reformatory in Leicester has just been secured at a county meeting . . . . Now the
desideratum is well-qualified masters and mistresses. If you hear of such by chance, pray let me know. The
regular schoolmaster is an extinguisher. Heart, and familiarity with the class to be educated, are all
important. At home and abroad, the evidence is conclusive on that point; for I have for many years attended
to such experiments in various parts of Europe. “The Irish Quarterly” has taken up the subject
with rather more zeal than judgment. I had hoped that a sound and temperate exposition of the facts might
form an article in the “Might-have-been Review.”’

*****

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LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, Feb. 12, 1855.

‘I have at last earned the pleasure of writing to you by having settled troublesome matters of little
moment, except locally; and I gladly take a wider range by sympathizing in your interests. There is, besides,
no responsibility—for me at least—in canvassing the merits of Russell or Palmerston, but much
in deciding whether the “village politician” Jackson or Thompson shall be leader in the school
or public-house.

‘Has not the nation been brought to a conviction that the system should be broken up? and is Lord
Palmerston, who has used it so long and so cleverly, likely to promote that object?

‘But, whatever obstacles there may be in state affairs, that general persuasion must modify other
departments of action and knowledge. “Unroasted coffee” will no longer be accepted under the
official seal,—another reason for a new literary combination for distinct special objects, a review in
which every separate article should be convergent. If, instead of the problem to make a circle pass through
three given points, it were required to find the centre from which to describe a circle through any three articles
in the “Edinburgh” or “Westminster Review,” who would accomplish it? Much
force is lost for want of this one-mindedness amongst the contributors. It would not exclude variety or
freedom in the unlimited discussion of means towards the ends unequivocally recognized. If St. Paul had
edited a review, he might

have admitted Peter as well as Luke or Barnabas . . . .

‘Ross gave us an excellent sermon, yesterday, on “Hallowing the Name.” Though far
from commonplace, it might have been delivered in any church.

‘We have had Fanny Kemble here last week. I only heard her “Romeo and
Juliet,”—not less instructive, as her readings always are, than exciting; for in her glass
Shakspeare is a philosopher. I know her, and honour her, for her truthfulness amidst all trials.’

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, March 5, 1855.

‘I recollect only those passages of Dr. Kennedy’s book which bear upon the opinions of Lord
Byron. Strange as it may seem, Dr. Kennedy is most faithful where you doubt his being so. Not merely from
casual expressions, but from the whole tenor of Lord Byron’s feelings, I could not but conclude he was
a believer in the inspiration of the Bible, and had the gloomiest Calvinistic tenets. To that unhappy view of
the relation of the creature to the Creator, I have always ascribed the misery of his life . . . . It is enough for
me to remember, that he who thinks his transgressions beyond forgiveness (and such was his own deepest
feeling) has righteousness beyond that of the self-satisfied sinner, or, perhaps, of the half-awakened. It was
impossible for me to doubt, that, could he have been at once assured of pardon, his living faith in a moral
duty, and love of virtue (“I love the virtues which I cannot claim”), would have conquered
every temptation. Judge, then, how I must hate the creed which made him see God as an Avenger, not a
Father! My own impressions were just the reverse, but could have little weight; and it was in vain to seek to
turn his thoughts for long from that idée fixe with which he connected his physical peculiarity as a stamp.
Instead of being made happier by any apparent good, he felt convinced that every blessing would be

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“turned into a curse” to him. Who, possessed by such ideas, could lead a life of love and
service to God or man? They must, in a measure, realize themselves. “The worst of it is, I do
believe,” he said. I, like all connected with him, was broken against the rock of predestination. I may
be pardoned for referring to his frequent expression of the sentiment that I was only sent to show him the
happiness he was forbidden to enjoy. You will now better understand why “The Deformed
Transformed” is too painful to me for discussion. Since writing the above, I have read Dr.
Granville’s letter on the Emperor of Russia, some passages of which seem applicable to the
prepossession I have described. I will not mix up less serious matters with these, which forty years have not
made less than present still to me.’

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

‘BRIGHTON, April 8, 1855.

. . . . ‘The book which has interested me most, lately, is that on “Mosaism,” translated
by Miss Goldsmid, and which I read, as you will believe, without any Christian (unchristian?) prejudice. The
missionaries of the Unity were always, from my childhood, regarded by me as in that sense the people; and I
believe they were true to that mission, though blind, intellectually, in demanding the crucifixion. The present
aspect of Jewish opinions, as shown in that book, is all but Christian. The author is under the error of taking,
as the representatives of Christianity, the Mystics, Ascetics, and Quietists; and therefore he does not know
how near he is to the true spirit of the gospel. If you should happen to see Miss Goldsmid, pray tell her what a
great service I think she has rendered to us soi-disant Christians in translating a book which must make us
sensible of the little we have done, and the much we have to do, to justify our preference of the later to the
earlier dispensation.’ . . .

*****

LADY BYRON TO H. C. R.

BRIGHTON, April 11, 1855.

‘You appear to have more definite information respecting “The Review” than I have
obtained . . . It was also said that “The Review” would, in fact, be “The
Prospective” amplified,—not satisfactory to me, because I have always thought that periodical
too Unitarian, in the sense of separating itself from other Christian churches, if not by a high wall, at least by a
wire-gauze fence. Now, separation is to me the αιρεσις. The
revelation through Nature never separates: it is the revelation through the Book which separates. Whewell
and Brewster would have been one, had they not, I think, equally dimmed their lamps of science when reading
their Bibles. As long as we think a truth better for being shut up in a text, we are not of the wide-world
religion, which is to include all in one fold: for that text will not be accepted by the followers of other books,
or students of the same; and separation will ensue. The Christian Scripture should be dear to us, not as the
charter of a few, but of mankind; and to fashion it into cages is to deny its ultimate objects. These thoughts
hot, like the roll at breakfast, where your letter was so welcome an addition.’

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THREE DOMESTIC POEMS BY LORD BYRON.

FARE THEE WELL.

Fare thee well! and if for ever,

Still for ever fare thee well!
Even though unforgiving, never
’Gainst thee shall my heart rebel.

Would that breast were bared before thee

Where thy head so oft hath lain,
While that placid sleep came o’er thee
Which thou ne’er canst know again!

Would that breast, by thee glanced over,

Every inmost thought could show!
Then thou wouldst at last discover
’Twas not well to spurn it so.

Though the world for this commend thee,

Though it smile upon the blow,
Even its praises must offend thee,
Founded on another’s woe.

Though my many faults defaced me,

Could no other arm be found,
Than the one which once embraced me,
To inflict a cureless wound?

Yet, oh! yet, thyself deceive not:

Love may sink by slow decay;
But, by sudden wrench, believe not
Hearts can thus be torn away:

Still thine own its life retaineth;

Still must mine, though bleeding, beat
And the undying thought which paineth
Is—that we no more may meet.

These are words of deeper sorrow

Than the wail above the dead:
Both shall live, but every morrow
Wake us from a widowed bed.

And when thou wouldst solace gather,

When our child’s first accents flow,
Wilt thou teach her to say ‘Father,’
Though his care she must forego?

When her little hand shall press thee,

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When her lip to thine is pressed,

Think of him whose prayer shall bless thee;
Think of him thy love had blessed.

Should her lineaments resemble

Those thou never more mayst see,
Then thy heart will softly tremble
With a pulse yet true to me.

All my faults, perchance, thou knowest;

All my madness none can know:
All my hopes, where’er thou goest,
Wither; yet with thee they go.

Every feeling hath been shaken:

Pride, which not a world could bow,
Bows to thee, by thee forsaken;
Even my soul forsakes me now.

But ’tis done: all words are idle;

Words from me are vainer still;
But the thoughts we cannot bridle
Force their way without the will.

Fare thee well!—thus disunited,

Torn from every nearer tie,
Seared in heart, and lone and blighted,
More than this I scarce can die.

A SKETCH.

Born in the garret, in the kitchen bred;

Promoted thence to deck her mistress’ head;
Next—for some gracious service unexpress’d,
And from its wages only to be guessed—
Raised from the toilette to the table, where
Her wondering betters wait behind her chair,
With eye unmoved, and forehead unabashed,
She dines from off the plate she lately washed.
Quick with the tale, and ready with the lie,
The genial confidante and general spy,
Who could, ye gods! her next employment guess?—
An only infant’s earliest governess!
She taught the child to read, and taught so well,
That she herself, by teaching, learned to spell.
An adept next in penmanship she grows,
As many a nameless slander deftly shows:
What she had made the pupil of her art,
None know; but that high soul secured the heart,
And panted for the truth it could not hear,
With longing breast and undeluded ear.

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Foiled was perversion by that youthful mind,
Which flattery fooled not, baseness could not blind,
Deceit infect not, near contagion soil,
Indulgence weaken, nor example spoil,
Nor mastered science tempt her to look down
On humbler talents with a pitying frown,
Nor genius swell, nor beauty render vain,
Nor envy ruffle to retaliate pain,
Nor fortune change, pride raise, nor passion bow,
Nor virtue teach austerity, till now.
Serenely purest of her sex that live;
But wanting one sweet weakness,—to forgive;
Too shocked at faults her soul can never know,
She deems that all could be like her below:
Foe to all vice, yet hardly Virtue’s friend;
For Virtue pardons those she would amend.

But to the theme, now laid aside too long,—

The baleful burthen of this honest song.
Though all her former functions are no more,
She rules the circle which she served before.
If mothers—none know why—before her quake;
If daughters dread her for the mothers’ sake;
If early habits—those false links, which bind
At times the loftiest to the meanest mind—
Have given her power too deeply to instil
The angry essence of her deadly will;
If like a snake she steal within your walls
Till the black slime betray her as she crawls;
If like a viper to the heart she wind,
And leave the venom there she did not find,
What marvel that this hag of hatred works
Eternal evil latent as she lurks,
To make a Pandemonium where she dwells,
And reign the Hecate of domestic hells?
Skilled by a touch to deepen scandal’s tints
With all the kind mendacity of hints,
While mingling truth with falsehood, sneers with smiles,
A thread of candour with a web of wiles;
A plain blunt show of briefly-spoken seeming,
To hide her bloodless heart’s soul-hardened scheming;
A lip of lies; a face formed to conceal,
And, without feeling, mock at all who feel;
With a vile mask the Gorgon would disown;
A cheek of parchment, and an eye of stone.
Mark how the channels of her yellow blood
Ooze to her skin, and stagnate there to mud!
Cased like the centipede in saffron mail,
Or darker greenness of the scorpion’s scale,
(For drawn from reptiles only may we trace
Congenial colours in that soul or face,)—

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Look on her features! and behold her mind
As in a mirror of itself defined.
Look on the picture! deem it not o’ercharged;
There is no trait which might not be enlarged:
Yet true to ‘Nature’s journeymen,’ who made
This monster when their mistress left off trade,
This female dog-star of her little sky,
Where all beneath her influence droop or die.

O wretch without a tear, without a thought,

Save joy above the ruin thou hast wrought!
The time shall come, nor long remote, when thou
Shalt feel far more than thou inflictest now,—
Feel for thy vile self-loving self in vain,
And turn thee howling in unpitied pain.
May the strong curse of crushed affections light
Back on thy bosom with reflected blight,
And make thee, in thy leprosy of mind,
As loathsome to thyself as to mankind,
Till all thy self-thoughts curdle into hate
Black as thy will for others would create:
Till thy hard heart be calcined into dust,
And thy soul welter in its hideous crust!
Oh, may thy grave be sleepless as the bed,
The widowed couch of fire, that thou hast spread!
Then, when thou fain wouldst weary Heaven with prayer,
Look on thine earthly victims, and despair!
Down to the dust! and, as thou rott’st away,
Even worms shall perish on thy poisonous clay.
But for the love I bore, and still must bear,
To her thy malice from all ties would tear,
Thy name, thy human name, to every eye
The climax of all scorn, should hang on high,
Exalted o’er thy less abhorred compeers,
And festering in the infamy of years.

LINES ON HEARING THAT LADY BYRON WAS ILL.

And thou wert sad, yet I was not with thee!

And thou wert sick, and yet I was not near!
Methought that joy and health alone could be
Where I was not, and pain and sorrow here.
And is it thus? It is as I foretold,
And shall be more so; for the mind recoils
Upon itself, and the wrecked heart lies cold,
While heaviness collects the shattered spoils.
It is not in the storm nor in the strife
We feel benumbed, and wish to be no more,
But in the after-silence on the shore,

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When all is lost except a little life.
I am too well avenged! But ’twas my right:
Whate’er my sins might be, thou wert not sent
To be the Nemesis who should requite;
Nor did Heaven choose so near an instrument.
Mercy is for the merciful!—if thou
Hast been of such, ’twill be accorded now.
Thy nights are banished from the realms of sleep!
Yes! they may flatter thee; but thou shalt feel
A hollow agony which will not heal;
For thou art pillowed on a curse too deep:
Thou hast sown in my sorrow, and must reap
The bitter harvest in a woe as real!
I have had many foes, but none like thee;
For ’gainst the rest myself I could defend,
And be avenged, or turn them into friend;
But thou in safe implacability
Hadst nought to dread, in thy own weakness shielded;
And in my love, which hath but too much yielded,
And spared, for thy sake, some I should not spare.
And thus upon the world,—trust in thy truth,
And the wild fame of my ungoverned youth,
On things that were not and on things that are,—
Even upon such a basis hast thou built
A monument, whose cement hath been guilt;
The moral Clytemnestra of thy lord,
And hewed down, with an unsuspected sword,
Fame, peace, and hope, and all the better life,
Which, but for this cold treason of thy heart,
Might still have risen from out the grave of strife,
And found a nobler duty than to part.
But of thy virtues didst thou make a vice,
Trafficking with them in a purpose cold,
For present anger and for future gold,
And buying others’ grief at any price.
And thus, once entered into crooked ways,
The early truth, which was thy proper praise,
Did not still walk beside thee, but at times,
And with a breast unknowing its own crimes,
Deceit, averments incompatible,
Equivocations, and the thoughts which dwell
In Janus-spirits; the significant eye
Which learns to lie with silence; the pretext
Of prudence, with advantages annexed;
The acquiescence in all things which tend,
No matter how, to the desired end,—
All found a place in thy philosophy.
The means were worthy, and the end is won:
I would not do by thee as thou hast done!

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FOOTNOTES.
{7} The italics are mine.

{14} The italics are mine.

{16} In Lady Blessington’s ‘Memoirs’ this name is given Charlemont; in the late
‘Temple Bar’ article on the character of Lady Byron it is given Clermont. I have followed the
latter.

{17} The italics are mine.

{21} In Lady Blessington’s conversations with Lord Byron, just before he went to Greece, she records
that he gave her this poem in manuscript. It was published in her ‘Journal.’

{22a} Vol. vi. p.22.

{22b} ‘Byron’s Miscellany,’ vol. ii. p.358. London, 1853.

{23} The italics are mine.

{24} Lord Byron says, in his observations on an article in ‘Blackwood:’ ‘I recollect
being much hurt by Romilly’s conduct: he (having a general retainer for me) went over to the
adversary, alleging, on being reminded of his retainer, that he had forgotten it, as his clerk had so many. I
observed that some of those who were now so eagerly laying the axe to my roof-tree might see their own
shaken. His fell and crushed him.’

In the first edition of Moore’s Life of Lord Byron there was printed a letter on Sir Samuel Romilly, so
brutal that it was suppressed in the subsequent editions. (See Part III.)

{28a} Vol. iv. p.40

{28b} Ibid. p.46.

{31} The italics are mine.

{41} Vol. iv. p.143.

{43} Lord Byron took especial pains to point out to Murray the importance of these two letters. Vol. V.
Letter 443, he says: ‘You must also have from Mr. Moore the correspondence between me and Lady
B., to whom I offered a sight of all that concerns herself in these papers. This is important. He has her letter
and my answer.’

{44} ‘And I, who with them on the cross am placed,

. . . . truly
My savage wife, more than aught else, doth harm me.’
Inferno, Canto, XVI., Longfellow’s translation.

{49} ‘Conversations,’ p.108.

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{51} Murray’s edition of ‘Byron’s Works,’ vol. ii. p.189; date of dedication to
Hobhouse, Jan. 2, 1818.

{61} Recently, Lord Lindsay has published another version of this story, which makes it appear that he has
conversed with a lady who conversed with Hobhouse during his lifetime, in which this story is differently
reported. In the last version, it is made to appear that Hobhouse got this declaration from Lady Byron herself.

{70a} The references are to the first volume of the first edition of Moore’s ‘Life,’
originally published by itself.

{70b} ‘The officious spies of his privacy,’ p.65O.

{72} ‘The deserted husband,’ p.651.

{86} ‘I (Campbell) had not time to ask Lady Byron’s permission to print this private letter; but
it seemed to me important, and I have published it meo periculo.’

{95a} ‘Noctes,’ July 1822.

{95b} ‘Noctes,’ September 1832.

{105} Miss Martineau’s Biographical Sketches.

{113} The italics are mine.—H. B. S.

{119} In ‘The Noctes’ of November, 1824 Christopher North says, ‘I don’t call
Medwin a liar. . . . Whether Byron bammed him, or he, by virtue of his own stupidity, was the sole and
sufficient bammifier of himself, I know not.’ A note says that Murray had been much shocked by
Byron’s misstatements to Medwin as to money-matters with him. The note goes on to say,
‘Medwin could not have invented them, for they were mixed up with acknowledged facts; and the
presumption is that Byron mystified his gallant acquaintance. He was fond of such tricks.’

{121} This one fact is, that Lord Byron might have had an open examination in court, if he had only persisted
in refusing the deed of separation.

{126} In the history of ‘Blackwood’s Magazine,’ prefaced to the American edition of

1854, Mackenzie says of the ‘Noctes’ papers, ‘Great as was their popularity in England
it was peculiarly in America that their high merit and undoubted originality received the heartiest recognition
and appreciation. Nor is this wonderful when it is considered that for one reader of
“Blackwood’s Magazine” in the old country there cannot be less than fifty in the
new.’

{139} The reader is here referred to Lady Byron’s other letters, in Part III.; which also show the
peculiarly active and philosophical character of her mind, and the class of subjects on which it habitually
dwelt.

{147} See her character of Dr. King, Part III.

{148} Alluding to the financial crisis in the United States in 1857.

{149} ‘The Minister’s Wooing.’

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{150} See her letter on spiritualistic phenomena, Part III.

{161} This novel of Godwin’s is a remarkably powerful story. It is related in the first person by the
supposed hero, Caleb Williams. He represents himself as private secretary to a gentleman of high family
named Falkland. Caleb accidentally discovers that his patron has, in a moment of passion, committed a
murder. Falkland confesses the crime to Caleb, and tells him that henceforth he shall always suspect him, and
keep watch over him. Caleb finds this watchfulness insupportable, and tries to escape, but without success.
He writes a touching letter to his patron, imploring him to let him go, and promising never to betray him. The
scene where Falkland refuses this is the most highly wrought in the book. He says to him, “Do not
imagine that I am afraid of you; I wear an armour against which all your weapons are impotent. I have dug a
pit for you: and whichever way you move, backward or forward, to the right or the left, it is ready to swallow
you. Be still! If once you fall, call as loud as you will, no man on earth shall hear your cries: prepare a tale
however plausible or however true, the whole world shall execrate you for an impostor. Your innocence shall
be of no service to you. I laugh at so feeble a defence. It is I that say it: you may believe what I tell you. Do
you know, miserable wretch!” added he, stamping on the ground with fury, “that I have sworn
to preserve my reputation, whatever be the expense; that I love it more than the whole world and its
inhabitants taken together? and do you think that you shall wound it?” The rest of the book shows
how this threat was executed.

{168} Alluding to Buchanan’s election.

{178a} Shelton Mackenzie, in a note to the ‘Noctes’ of July 1822, gives the following saying of
Maginn, one of the principal lights of the club: ‘No man, however much he might tend to civilisation,
was to be regarded as having absolutely reached its apex until he was drunk.’ He also records it as a
further joke of the club, that a man’s having reached this apex was to be tested by his inability to
pronounce the word ‘civilisation,’ which, he says, after ten o’clock at night ought to be
abridged to civilation, ‘by syncope, or vigorously speaking by hic-cup.’

{178b} Vol. v. pp.61, 75.

{181} These italics are ours.

{190a} This little incident shows the characteristic carefulness and accuracy of Lady Byron’s habits.
This statement was written fourteen years after the events spoken of; but Lady Byron carefully quotes a
passage from her mother’s letter written at that time. This shows that a copy of Lady
Milbanke’s letter had been preserved, and makes it appear probable that copies of the whole
correspondence of that period were also kept. Great light could be thrown on the whole transaction, could
these documents be consulted.

{190b} Here, again, Lady Byron’s sealed papers might furnish light. The letters addressed to her at
this time by those in constant intercourse with Lord Byron are doubtless preserved, and would show her
ground of action.

{192} Probably Lady Milbanke’s letters are among the sealed papers, and would more fully explain
the situation.

{205a} Hunt’s Byron, p.77. Philadelphia, 1828.

{205b} From the Temple Bar article, October 1869. ‘Mrs. Leigh, Lord Byron’s sister, had
other thoughts of Mrs. Clermont, and wrote to her offering public testimony to her tenderness and forbearance
under circumstances which must have been trying to any friend of Lady Byron.’—Campbell, in

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the New Monthly Magazine, 183O, p.38O.

{219} ‘My Recollections,’ p.238.

{225} Vol. vi. p.242.

{227} The reader is here referred to the remarks of ‘Blackwood’ on ‘Don Juan’
in Part III.

{258} The article in question is worth a careful reading. Its industry and accuracy in amassing evidence are
worthy attention.

{320a} Probably ‘The Christian Aspects of Faith and Duty.’ Mr. Tayler has also written
‘A Retrospect of the Religious Life of England.’

{320b} ‘The National Review.’

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