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TROUBLE IN PARADISE

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KHANYI, BABALWA
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I SHOT MY WIFE THREE
TIMES BUT I DIDNT KILL HER

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EDITORS NOTE

Lets shape our children

E

VERY WEEK, I receive letters from youngsters who aspire

to be models, artists and entertainers. As much as our role
as members of the media is to empower, educate and

           
          
as actuarial science or forensics. But who can blame our children?
We live in a country where there are very few celebrities who place
value on education. You can count a handful of SA celebrities who
           
young celebs dont hide the fact that they dropped out of college
to pursue careers in acting and singing.
             
good you look and speak. Its even more worrying that our education system has reduced the pass mark to 30 percent and has
recorded that primary school pupils are struggling with maths and
              
prefer the world of arts as they see it as a quick way to make money. Popular fashionista, Dion Cheng, once said that there will come
a time when doctors and architects will be celebrities because they
      !    "     
need to be worried about the future of our children.
          "  
the government or media, but with parents at home. As a parent,
youre the steward and custodian of your childs future. Perhaps,
the starting point is to buy your child an educational book instead
of a PlayStation.
Explain to them that theres more to life than being a celebrity;
that they must invest their time on something that will sustain
them for life. We have enough models, singers, DJs, dancers and
actors as it is. We need young people who will come with technological inventions and change the future of our country. So, parents
encourage your child to read, explore, invent and achieve. Its
never too late to reverse the trend.
We look forward to a future that will have celebrities who are
scientists, doctors, mining engineers, meteorologists, accountants,
speech therapists, among other profes 
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announce that Dorah
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her cooking expertise
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every week. She comes
with wealth of experience. Heres to many
more cooking days for
women on the move
with Sis Dorah.
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READERS LETTERS

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ETTER
DEVELOP THE RIGHT SKILLS

The high unemployment rates and

skills shortages are some of the biggest challenges facing our country
today. This is one of the reasons
our kids are turning their feelings of
frustration to alcohol and substance
abuse as a coping mechanism. Ive
seen many promising careers and
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drain due to these ills.

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editor and her team. Thank you.
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LOVE YOURSELF

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colour and resorts to killing her natural beauty by bleaching her skin and
using other frustrating methods.
Stop destroying the beauty that God

MCDIVETTKHUMBULANITSHEHLA, MIDRAND

MELITA, RUSTENBURG

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When you shut people out of your
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yourself into a cage that you cant
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colleges; they learnt from the
university of life and they can
add value to your life. A dream
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can accomplish more.
SAMUEL RADEBE, HEILBRON

QUOTE OF THE WEEK

A day of worry is
more exhausting
than a week
of work
John Lubbock

What
readers say
80 percent of government
departments do not
comply with service
delivery requirements. Are
you happy with service
delivery in your province?
DOREEN RAMUSHU,,
POLOKWANE
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youth in Ga-Masemola.
Our government has
neglected its people.
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derpreneurs pocket
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SARAH NKUNA,
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the needs of people in
Limpopo and the rest of
South Africa. We cant livee
in poverty all our lives.
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MDUDUZI
NDLOVU,
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M
MPUMALANGA
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MOLEFE
MOTSILENYANE,
RUSTENBURG
Service delivery could
use some improvement. There has to be
strict monitoring of
  
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KZN women

ON THE MOVE

HIS TIME, all

roads led to
eThekwini
the home of
sandy beaches and warm
climatefor the Move!
stokvel event held at the
Royal Hotel.
Durban homies and gospel
duo Sgwili no Babo were
a delight for the bevy of
women who came from
near and far to enjoy
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success that the event has
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COVER STORY

Can she live

WITHOUT
A MAN?
Its clear that Thandaza likes to
keep her relationships in the
family. Tshepiso Makhele
asks if she will change her
ways with Busani

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Pity it cant defend itself. Miss Buthelezi, as we would rather call her, just to
       @
surnames she has acquired when moving from man to man, or rather relative
to relative, is notorious for her track
record with men. She also makes for a
remarkable businesswoman who works
the boardroom just as great as she
works the kitchen.
She is the full package; maybe thats
why men so often become smitten with
her and rush her to the altar.
%&'(')*+-&
Her trail of relationships and marriages
 @  '   * 
Mukwevhos son, Edward.
Their union is still what makes Thandaza the favourite daughter-in-law to
the Mukwevho family.
Though their relationship was rocky
 1     !"
heart, Thandaza managed to snatch the
man and claim his last name.
She made her way up the corporate
ladder through the Mukwevho family
business. Sadly, their romance reached
an untimely end when Edward died.
8 Move! | 25 SEPTEMBER 2013

COVER STORY

PICTURES: MOVE! ARCHIVE / SUPPLIED

TRADITIONAL CUSTOMARY
MARRIAGE
After Edwards death, Catherines
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love, Thandaza was heartbroken.
Yet, the Mukwevhos still made their
customary request clear: Thandaza
had to marry again in the family.
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the idea and wanted to just mourn
the passing of her husband until such
time that she felt she had healed, the
royal family persisted in their expectation that she should follow the
traditional command.
Thandaza then married Ndalamo;
Edwards cousin, Alberts son. They
later fell in love but their marriage unfortunately collapsed due to business
rivals who competed for Ndalamos
attention.
At this point, we empathised with
her as we thought that she was the
unwilling victim of circumstances
beyond her control. We also felt that
she was somehow unlucky in matters
of the heart and marriage.
We thought Miss Buthelezi would
take a breather and maybe go on
holiday to regroup or spend more
time with her son, Vusi. But no, she
soon found love again in the arms of
Pheko Mokoena.
THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY
After she fell for Pheko, the writing
was on the wall: Thandaza was keeping it in the family.
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Edwards cousin from his mothers
side. But with him, Miss Buthelezi fell
head-over-heels in love.
She loved this man with the type of
passion we had gotten a glimpse of
when she was with Edward.
Pheko was powerful but gentle
at the same time, and he knew just
what to say to make Thandaza weak
at the knees.
But even with Pheko, Thandaza had
to battle it out with another woman
to maintain her position in Phekos
life. The ever-scheming Meme was
not ready to stand aside and let Thandazas walk to the altar with Pheko be
an easyy one.

Will Thandaza
once more prove
that she is a
man-magnet
who can never be
alone for long?

The relationship between Pheko

and Thandaza was never on the
agenda for the Mukwevho family, in
fact, they were bitterly opposed to
it. They were against her bringing a
Mokoena into her life and into their
family business.
Things got too complicated for the
love-struck couple and they went
their separate ways, only for Miss
Buthelezi to hop to another man and,
perhaps not surprisingly, another
Mokoena, Ranthumeng.
THE SETTLEMENT
It soon became quite apparent that
Thandaza was just trying to heal a
broken heart, and that Pheko would
always be the one love of her life that
got away.
Maybe it was because, unlike
Edward and Ndalamo, she had
im.
never made it to the altar with him.
Into this scenario stepped Ranthuumeng Mokoena, and with him in the
d
picture of course Thandaza would
ore
be damned not to grab him before
all the other single ladies could.
The two met in a bookshop and in
ells
a short space of time wedding bells
were ringing loud and clear.
Not again, we all collectively
sighed, but yes, she was moving
o
from being called Mrs Mukwevho
to being Mrs Mokoena.
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must have been on its toes keep-ing up with her back-and-forth
surname changes.
Perhaps they should consider
g
g her a special
p
getting
chair for thee

next time she visits.

It could be soon; with Thandaza you
never know. She might just be back
there sooner than we think. After all,
this is the same woman who cheated
on her hubby with Pheko and slept
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its comebacks. Now Ranthumeng is
gone and Pheko has left again, she is
alone once more.
Will this single status last a little
longer than it has in the past, or will
Thandaza once more prove that she
is a man-magnet who can never be
alone for too long? Only time will tell.

COVER STORY

She could be trying to find pieces of

Edward in his relatives. Mrs Mokoena
might still move
on to the next hot,
influential man

^    

what was the story behind him.
1      
curious the ladies were about him, he
kept it as professional as possible and
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family business, only to drop a bomb
on the ladies when he introduced his
wife, Joyce.

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Joyce was not on the scene for long,
but Thandaza ensured that she became close with this humble woman,
who sadly died of cancer.
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Although Thandaza is making us
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dizzy with her man-hopping, maybe
died, she asked Thandaza to take care
if we could try to at least see things
  _     2through her eyes, we would notice
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that perhaps, successful and wealthy    
     
                     
was left when Edward died.
We can only hope against hope that
Why else would she keep it so much          
in the family? She could be trying to
Busani, it lasts.
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search for a while.
Now that Joyce is gone and Busani
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the beginning we had suspected that
Thandazas heart and mind were in
NEW BOSS
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When Busani came on to the scene,
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nobody knew whether he was taken
we can only wonder and wait to see if
or not, but it was clear that most of
the two will keep things strictly prothe ladies found him easy on the eye. fessional, and if Thandaza will ignore
He is strong and manly, and knows
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his business. He turned heads at the
the altar this time.

10 Move! | 225 SEPTEMBER 2013