AISHA BELINDA TIARA
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TPB 37
EARLY TEEN MARRIAGE
Early teen marriage may be prevented by improved our education. These days, the
percentage of teen marriage in Indonesia increased drastically and it become a trend for
teenagers to follow. Most of the case, the average age of teenagers who get married is between
15 and 18 years old. A recent survey showed that 11% of Indonesian women get married under
15 years old. Teenagers see the world in a different way than adults usually do. They only think
for short term without thinking about the consequences in the future. Due to various reasons,
such as accidental pregnancy, cultural conditions and other factors, teenage couples may make
a decision to get married. The only thing that can be blamed here is the lack of education about
marriage for teenagers. Marriage is one of the most important commitments to be made in life.
When a person marries someone, it should be a mature and responsible decision. It should be
a happy and fulfilling relationship filled with communication, love and respect. Marriage is
about compromise and understanding. Teenagers need to experience more in life before
becoming married. It is truly not worth it at all because they are missing out many phases of
life because of the marriage. People usually get married after they already have a job and a
separate place to live, but teenagers usually dependent on their parents in financial. Teenagers
are less skilled in operating their finances. The situation can get even more difficult if they have
a child. Marriage and parenthood is one of the reasons for teenagers not to graduate from high
school. It means that teenagers were not having a basic education and the necessary skills of
socialization and interaction. Most of teen marriages are ended up with divorce within 10 years.
Overall, the best way to deal with this problem is to wait until you are older, mature and more
established in life. Because getting married is not a game. As a stated fact, life is tough for
married teens. So it’s a wise decision to be taken in the end. After they are ready, teen marriages
can be as successful as other marriages.