Love and Logic
KIES Summer PD
August 2010
Write down your greatest fear with managing a five year old. Name a situation that you are
not sure how to handle.
KEY 1: NEUTRALIZING ARGUMENTS—The One Liner!
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
What’s your one liner?
Love and Logic
KIES Summer PD
August 2010
KEY 2: BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS
Child:
Things that you know about this student that are not academic related:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
How will your team build relationships with students?
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Love and Logic
KIES Summer PD
August 2010
KEY 3: SHARING CONTROL
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
Choices you can offer your kids:
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KIES Summer PD
August 2010
KEY 4: MAKE ONLY ENFORCEABLE STATEMENTS
but Speak Directly.
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
1. Quiet down in the hallway
I take quiet classes to recess
2. Keep your hands to yourself.
3. Quit arguing.
4. Everyone sit with their legs crossed.
5. Behave in the hallway.
6. Don’t leave your coats on the floor.
7. Line up silently.
Love and Logic
KIES Summer PD
August 2010
KEY 5: DELAYED CONSEQUENCES/ANTICIPATORY
CONSEQUENCES
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
KEY 6: LOCK IN EMPATHY BEFORE GIVING A CONSEQUENCE
Notes/Thoughts/Questions:
Teaching Kids to Problem Solve
“What
happened?”
One liner.
“What are you going to do about that?”
“Would you like to hear what others have done?”
“Let me know how that works out.”
Role Play it
Look at your scenarios and let’s Love and Logic them together and in pairs.