Discipleship Booklet 2
Discipleship Booklet 2
Lessons:
A 16 Lesson Series to Help Growing
Christians
Compiled by Dr. Mark Bird
Discipleship Lessons:
Lesson:
Memory Verse:
I John 5:13 – “These things I have written to you who believe in the
name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life,
and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God.”
What does Christ promise to do? Does he always keep his promises?
Our faith must be in the fact of God’s trustworthiness (He will keep
His promises). Our feelings are changeable and undependable. We
must put our faith in the facts, and not in our feelings.
If we trust our feelings rather than God and His Word, how will this
affect our attitudes and actions?
If we put our trust in God despite how we feel, how does this change
our attitudes and actions?
Question: If you were to die tonight, are you sure that you would be in
Heaven with God? Why or why not?
Application: Write down the names of two people that you will share
with this week why you are assured of your salvation.
1. If you had lived in Galilee during Jesus’ time, would you have been
interested in being among the twelve disciples?
3. What do you think Jesus was looking for when He chose the original
twelve disciples?
I. What Is a Disciple?
A disciple in the ancient world was a learner, but much more than a
learner, he was a committed adherent to a master teacher. Becoming a
disciple involved a long-term personal relationship from which a disciple
learned, was transformed and trained. So out of the master/disciple
relationship came the development of the individual person (character),
understanding and acceptance of ideas (thinking), and a preparation for
one’s life work (ministry).
Turn to John 1:35-51 and read it carefully. Make a list of all the
characteristics of the five people chosen by Jesus to be disciples who
are introduced in this passage.
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From your observations we are going to lift out and accent four general
characteristics from the larger group. From what you have seen, what
evidence would support these as qualifications to be a disciple?
This group seemed to have a heart hunger for God. They are already
involved in a revival movement and have attached themselves to John so
that he might help them seek God. They are making themselves
continually available to be with Jesus. They are responsible with the
spiritual opportunities that God gives them, and they are faithful to the
truth. When they begin to establish a relationship with Jesus, they
remain faithful to Him for the rest of His earthly life. Lastly, they seem
to have a teachable spirit and are anxious to know more about Jesus as
well as to learn from Him.
If you have made the choice to make these four characteristics a part of
your life, then Jesus could have chosen you to be among the twelve in the
first century. More importantly, He is still in the business of choosing
disciples, and if you have made these choices, you now have the privilege
of becoming a disciple in our age. These are the qualifications to begin
the process of discipleship.
If there is any one (or more) of these characteristics that you have not
fully chosen, now is the time to do so. Please indicate with a completely
honest heart which areas you need to choose or to reaffirm an earlier
choice in your life.
We would like to now invite you to pray and tell God that you want to make
these choices for your own life so that it is a settled issue. You are
making or remaking these commitments so that you might qualify to begin
to be a disciple of Jesus.
>It is through Bible study that we grow in Christ and become victorious.
a. What are we to use when fighting the devil’s schemes? Eph. 6:17
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b. How does Scripture memorization help us according to Psalm 119:11?
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c. What are the results of meditating on the Word according to Psalm
1?_______________________________________
d. According to the II Timothy 3:16-17, what is the result of yielding
to the Bible’s teaching and correction?
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e. According to James 1:22-25, why is application important?
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1. Read
2. Study
3. Memorize
4. Meditate
5. Apply
Remember these by associating them with the fingers on your hand. The
more fingers you use, the better grip you have on the Bible.
III. Three Steps to Studying the Bible
A. Observation: Ask, “What does the passage say?”
>Look for key words and important connectors
>Look for admonitions, commands, promises
>Look for contrasts, comparisons, illustrations
>Look for reasons and arguments, etc.
Memory Verse:
“The proof of God’s love for you is His faithfulness in temptation. The
proof of your love to God is your fleeing temptation.” J. Maxwell
Sin is conceived when our will yields to the desire to do what is wrong.
Sin is full-grown when its destructive forces push out saving faith
through its rebellious persistence.
Why is it important to resist temptation?
4. Ephesians 6 _______________________________________
What parts of the armor of God do we need to have on to defeat the tempting
forces of Satan?
Application:
What is a specific temptation that you are frequently faced with?
“Plunge yourself in the Godhead’s deepest sea: be lost in His immensity; and you
shall come forth as from a couch of rest, refreshed and invigorated. I know
nothing which can so comfort the soul; so calm the swelling billows of sorrow and
grief; so speak peace to the winds of trial, as a devout musing upon the subject of
the Godhead.” -- Charles H. Spurgeon
As we see God’s ATTRIBUTES, we will see the things we are to know about God
that help us establish an intimate relationship with Him.
B. God is Eternal. There has never been a time when God did not exist.
He has no beginning and He has no end.
Application – Being eternal, God is not bound by time. He sees the past and
the future as clearly as the present. With this perspective, God knows what
is best for our lives. Knowing this, we should be willing to trust Him with our
lives. (Proverbs 3:5, 6)
Application – The Bible contains thousands of things that God has promised
to do for those who belong to Him. He can be trusted to keep His Word.
Application – In dealing with man, God patiently takes us from where we are
to where He wants us to be. It is up to us to cooperate with His methods.
As He is patient with us, so we are to be patient with others.
C. God is Love. God is perfect, infinite love. His love is given freely and
without any consideration of the loveliness or merit of the object.
Application – Godly love is that which seeks good for the object loved. Love
expresses itself in action. God is our example. He demonstrated His love
for us in sending Jesus to die in our place (Romans 5:8).
Meditate on one attribute of God per week for the next two months.
Meditate on one attribute of God per day for the next two weeks.
How To Talk With God
Memory Verse
John 16:24 – “Until now you have asked for nothing in My name; ask, and
you will receive, that your joy may be made full.”
Introduction
Continual prayer is essential to a meaningful relationship with Christ
because it is the only way that we can communicate with Him. The five
levels of communication are (These levels are possible in any relationship):
1. Using Cliches
2. Sharing Facts
3. Expressing Ideas/Opinions
4. Sharing Feelings
5. Total Honesty
Think about the levels at which you communicate with Christ. The higher
the level, the deeper the relationship.
3. What does James 1:6-7 say will keep us from receiving anything
from the Lord?
III. Effective Praying is Determined by Certain Conditions
In Luke 11:1-13, Jesus showed us how we should pray. List some of these
characteristics of effective praying:
1. _____________________________
2. _____________________________
3. _____________________________
4. _____________________________
What other lessons about prayer have you learned that you could share with
the group?
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Goals: What commitment are you willing to make concerning your prayer life?
Some have found that committing to keep a prayer journal has been very
helpful. Others have found that using a prayer list was important to their
success in praying. Still others have found that committing to spend a certain
number of minutes in the early hours of the morning has helped them
tremendously in their relationship with Christ. Maybe you would like to modify
your covenant to reflect a greater focus on prayer. What goals would you like
to set in this area?
Memory Verse:
Ephesians 5:18 – “And do not get drunk with wine, for that is
dissipation, but be filled with the Holy Spirit.”
Coming to Christ is the greatest event one can ever experience. The
Holy Spirit brings a person to Christ and continues to dwell with that
person. However, after conversion, the believer often experiences
defeat and fruitlessness. Even though he has the Holy Spirit, the Holy
Spirit does not have all of the believer. It is possible for the believer
to be filled with the Holy Spirit and walk in spiritual power.
Question:
Ask yourself this question: “Do I experience spiritual defeat in my
life? In what way(s)?”
The New Testament refers to the Holy Spirit nearly 300 times.
“Power” is the one work which is continually associated with the Holy
Spirit. The process of being filled and controlled by God’s Spirit could
be explained like this:
What I give Him—He takes
What He takes—He cleanses
What He cleanses—He fills with His Spirit
What He fills—He anoints with His power
What He anoints with His power—He uses effectively!
Today we will study how the Holy Spirit works in our lives
2. How does the Holy Spirit give assurance of salvation? Romans 8:16
II. After One is Born Again
1. Admit your need for inner cleansing and purity. Romans 7:21
>Ask God to give you the Holy Spirit in His fullness. Luke 11:13
Question: Have I been filled with the Holy Spirit? Does He abide in His
fullness right now?
Application: If you are not fully satisfied that you are entirely sanctified,
pray to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
“Ye shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and
you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and
Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth.”
>Question: How does a person overcome his fear of sharing the gospel
with others?
II. How should the believer share his faith with others?
B. The Plan
Application:
Mark your Bible with the following soul-winning verses:
Possible goals:
Memory Verse:
I. We can make the right decisions if we know God’s instructions and his
promises to us.
Suggested Comments:
1. I commit to using the above tests when making decisions.
3. ______________________________________
Worshipping a Holy God
“It is only when men begin to worship that they begin to grow.”
- Calvin Coolidge
What is Worship? True worship flows from a grateful heart that knows
God’s mercy and grace firsthand. When you begin to comprehend all that
God did to forgive you and restore you to fellowship with Him, your natural
response should be one of overwhelming reverence and gratitude, not just in
what you say, but, in the way you live your life.
True worship might be more than you think. It’s not limited to the common
practices of a Sunday morning or Wednesday evening service. In fact, in its
most basic form, worship is entering into the presence of a holy God with a
clean heart, and attributing to Him the praise and honor that He rightly
deserves. It can be offered through a song that proclaims God’s “Amazing
Grace,” or in a prayer that acknowledges His many attributes (Ephesians
3:14-21), or through music (Psalm 150), or by sharing God’s love with others
(Psalm 89:1-2), or through obedient living (Micah 6:6-8).
There are many different forms of worship but one common focus – the
Almighty God, who created you, died for you, and continues to love you
unconditionally despite your faults.
Worship is a privilege that’s reserved for those who know God and desire to
do His will. Worship should be more than something you do when you’re in a
church building. Does God only help, encourage, guide, and love you on
Sunday and Wednesday? Has He ever stopped helping, encouraging, guiding,
and loving you? Then, worship should be a part of your everyday life.
John 4:24 says, “God is Spirit, and His worshippers must worship in spirit
and in truth.” What exactly does that mean? For starters, it means that
you cannot worship God unless you’re doing so through the Holy Spirit.
If you’re acting apart from God’s will, you’re also acting apart from the Holy
Spirit. You cannot worship God if you’re out of His will. When there’s
nothing hindering your relationship with God, and you’re carrying out His
purpose for your life, your worship is pure, acceptable, and pleasing to Him.
Your worship must also be “in truth.” Although there is not a “best” way to
worship, there are five ingredients that all forms of worship must include to
be “true.”
4. With a willing heart (Psalm 139:23-24). If you are grateful for what
God’s done in your life, you will be more than willing to show Him your thanks.
5. To bring glory to God (John 17:4). The focus of all true worship is to
ascribe the glory to God that He deserves.
Now that we have discussed a little more about true, Spirit-filled worship,
what are three more ways that you personally worship God on a regular
basis?
We Benefit
True personal worship creates a boomerang effect in your life. Every time
you enter God’s presence, you acknowledge that He’s worthy of your praise
and gratitude, and more than able to meet your needs. As a result, He
continually meets your needs and equips you to do His will, or, in other words,
to be a worshipper. The many benefits of personal worship are simply the
promised blessings of obedience.
A Symphony of Praise
APPLICATION
Each day this week, ask God to help you become a better worshipper.
Determine to obey God in everything, so that your worship is pure and
acceptable. Think of specific ways to worship God each day. If you have a
Prayer Journal (or are willing to start one), write out prayers of worship.
Consider the definition of Steward: A person who was asked to manage the
estate and resources of his master.
How would you answer these more specific questions in the areas of money,
time, and talents?
MONEY:
During this past week, what took up most of your “free” time?
How much of a priority is it for me to spend time with the Lord?
Do I focus at all on spending time with others for the purpose of
edification?
What does Matthew 6:34 mean when it says, “Take no thought for
tomorrow?”
TALENTS:
Hold loosely to the things of this world. One day they will be so worthless.
The time you spent for personal enjoyment and achievement will seem so
empty when there is nothing to show for it in God’s Kingdom. You will be held
accountable for the talents that God has entrusted you with. To whom much
is given, much is required!
B. Accountability
The life of biblical discipleship is based on mutual accountability built
upon trust, openness and encouragement in the Holy Spirit.
A. Biblical Precedent
Matthew 6:1-18 lists some of the “means” of spiritual life present in
first century Israel. Jesus never did away with these “means” but did
critique their use. All the means of grace must be used with the right
motives and attitudes.
Matthew 4:23 and Matthew 4:1-11 point to other means of grace that
Jesus used.
B. Historical Precedent
The Influence of Wesley
John Wesley was very aware of the Biblical evidence of idolatry and
religious hypocrisy because he had lived there himself. He realized
that the “means of grace” are only “means,” not “ends in themselves.”
In a transcript from one of the earliest Methodist conferences, he laid
out some very helpful guidelines. Wesley said the “means of grace”
were:
One form of Methodist “conferencing” was like the Band of Disciples Jesus
had around Him. Each society of Methodists had various forms of meeting in
small groups, or “conferencing.” So important was this means that the entire
work of early Methodism was built around it.
Principles of Entertainment
By Nathan E. Brown
Colossians 3:2 – Set your mind on the things above, not on the
things that are on earth.
I John 2:15-16 – Do not love the world, nor the things in the
world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in
him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust
of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father,
but is from the world.
2. Are you spending time in prayer each day in your personal and private
devotions?
3. Are your words throughout the day thoughtful, kind and gracious?
5. Are you keeping your thoughts pure? Are you abstaining from literature,
pictures, talk, or music that is lewd or suggestive?
6. Are you seeking to obey Psalms 34:1? “I will bless the LORD at all times:
His praise shall continually be in my mouth.”
7. Are you being kind to all your fellow students? Are you treating them, and
talking about them just as you, in a reverse role, would wish them to treat and
talk about you? Remember, what you sow, you will reap.
9. Are you a trustworthy model for others to imitate? Is your walk with God
causing you to develop sensitivity as to I Corinthians 1:9: “God is faithful, by
whom ye were called unto the fellowship of His Son Jesus Christ our Lord.”
I John 1:3-4: “That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye
also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father,
and with His Son Jesus Christ. And these things write we unto you, that your
joy may be full.”
Acts 1:8: “But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon
you; and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea, and
in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth.” Christ to others and
share the victory He has given me.
Acts 1:8: “But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon
you; and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea, and
in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth.” I will pray for those
Jesus has placed in my life, that they will strengthen in the most holy
faith and mature in Christlikeness in every area of their life.
Hebrews 10:24-25: “And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and
to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the
manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see
the day approaching.”
James 5:16: “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another,
that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man
availeth much.”
NIV Hebrews 13:17: “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They
keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their
work will be a joy, not a burden for that would be of no advantage to you.”
Bible Memorization
Psalm 119 says that memorizing will increase your effectiveness in dealing
with temptation. Bible memory will empower your public ministry of
preaching, teaching, or sharing your faith. It will enrich your ability to
provide godly counsel. And it will elevate your understanding of God’s will in
personal decisions.
You might think of it as though you were building a bank account from which
the Spirit of God can draw in any time of need. Nothing is impossible for
God. His Spirit can impress things on our hearts and minds that we have not
learned anywhere before. But His normal method of action is to quicken
that which we have already learned at some point. When we commit to
memory the truths of Scripture, we are building a valuable resource which
can be quickly tapped as needed.
Prayer
Scripture memory should begin with prayer. Begin by asking God to quicken
your mind to memorize the verse. Then pray for the discipline to review
the verse daily until it is well engraved in your memory. Pray for added
insight into the meaning and possible uses of the verse. Finally, ask God for
opportunities to use the verse in ministry or personal life.
Review
The Navigators have a saying, “Learn it well; repeat it often.” This simple
phrase is the key to effective Scripture memory. You begin by learning the
verse well – exactly in the version you have chosen.
Then, repeat it often. A verse that is learned well initially will be quickly
forgotten unless it is regularly reviewed for a period of time.
Educators tell us that it take 21 days of daily repetition to learn a new habit.
Thus, a good pattern is to review a verse daily for 21 days before moving
it to a weekly or monthly review group.
The weekly review is a maintenance category for those verses which have
already been a part of your daily review process (the 21-day pattern). This
group should go 3 to 4 weeks before rotating the earliest verses to a
monthly review group.
Selection
Scripture memory has greater meaning when the verses we select to
memorize are related to some purpose in our daily living. For example, it
is helpful to know that the verses we memorize will help us in sharing our
faith, improving our relationship with our children or spouse, motivate us in
our giving, or help us develop godly character.
As you select verses to memorize, you might place them in categories which
reflect their purpose or function. Sample categories might include
“witness,” “salvation,” “family,” “discipleship,” “faith,” and so forth. You can
create the categories most helpful for you.
As you faithfully read and study the Bible, you will regularly find verses that
get your attention as possible memory verses. If you are already
memorizing a set of verses you can create a FM (Future Memory) list to help
you remember the verse reference and, perhaps, a key thought that stood
out to you. You might keep such a list on a paper attached to the back flap
of your Bible. Then when it is time to add new verses to your current group
of memory verses, turn to your FM list to make your selections.
Context
An important part of Scripture memory is to understand the memory verse
in its context. Always read the verses surrounding your memory verse to
gain a sense of the context in which the verse is used. This not only aides
you in a proper interpretation of the verse, but it may also add
understanding which will help you in the actual memorizing process.
- Always repeat the reference before and after saying the verse
Loving God
The Primary Principle of the Christian Life
What is being a Christian all about? If we boil it all down, what is the one main
thing that is at the heart of it all?
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But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put the Sadducees to silence,
they were gathered together. 35Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him
a question, tempting him, and saying, 36Master, which is the great commandment in
the law? 37Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy
heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38This is the first and great
commandment. 39And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as
thyself. 40On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
Jesus quotes Deuteronomy 6:5 and says that it is the most important
commandment God has given us. He commands us to love Him with our total
inner being (heart), with our total person (soul), to the utmost extent of our
capacity (might).
Note: Jesus use of ‘heart, soul, and mind’ in Matthew 22, or ‘heart, soul,
mind, and strength’ in Luke 10:27 are interpretive quotes of Deuteronomy
6:5 indicating that every part of one’s being must be committed to loving
God.
All the law and the prophets ‘hang’ on these two commandments in the sense
that all the law is an outworking of these two commands. As a door hangs on its
hinges, so the whole OT hangs on these tow commands. In other words, keeping
these two commands will result in keeping all of God’s other commands.
Suggested Definition
To love God is to self-sacrificially commit oneself to delight in Him, to rejoice
in serving Him, to desire continually to please Him, to seek our happiness in
Him, and to thirst day and night for a fuller enjoyment of Him and Him alone.
In Deut. 13:1-4, God tells Israel He may test their love by allowing a false
prophet to prophesy accurately some sign or wonder and then entice them to
serve another God. This enticement tests their love because it tests their
commitment to God.
Proverbs 3:12 compares Lord’s delight in His people to a father’s love for his
son. This verse implies what we already know from experience—love involves
delighting in the loved one.
What does Deuteronomy 28:47-48 imply about the relationship of love and
service? ___________________________________________________
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How could you put this aspect of loving God into practice?
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We know from human relationships that when you love someone, you enjoy doing
things that please them, that make them happy. The same is true in our
relationship with God.
How does Jesus say the world will know that he loves God?
Does obedience = love? _____ What is the relationship between love and
obedience? Consider I John 2:5 and 4:12.
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For other passages that relate to pleasing God, see Ephesians 5:8-10 and
Colossians 1:9-10.
How do the following passages reflect the Psalmist’s finding his happiness in God?
What are some of the things that unsaved people seek their happiness in?
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To love God is to thirst day and night for a fuller enjoyment of Him
Love doesn’t just find happiness in the loved one. Love wants to enjoy them
more. It continually seeks for ways to increase its joy in the beloved.
How do the following verses express this thirst for a fuller enjoyment of God?
What practical steps could a person take to develop a thirst to enjoy God more
fully? ______________________________________________________
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Love also sacrifices itself for the loved one. Jesus modeled this in His love for
us and calls us to the same sacrifice in our love for Him (Matthew 10:37; Luke
14:26; cf. Philippians 3:8-10)