INTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTION
By introducing people at a gathering who don’t know each other, everyone will generally feel more
at ease in the social situation and people will be able to converse more comfortably. Phrased
another way, the purpose of introducing people is to give them an opportunity to get to know each
other. Here’s an added benefit, by performing a proper introduction, the introduced parties will
reflect on you positively and see you as a socially adept individual. Never a bad thing!
Pre-Intro Considerations
Firstly, it’s important to find a proper opening and to get your timing right; after all, you don’t want
to embarrass yourself by accidentally introducing the wrong people to each other or by
interrupting a flowing or serious conversation with an introduction. For example, if your boss is in
the middle of a business discussion at an event, butting in to introduce them to a friend will seem
out of place and improper.
The basic protocol of formal introductions calls for introducing a less ranking person to a higher
ranking person. These rankings are generally determined by things like age, job title, or how long
you’ve personally known one of the individuals in question. The higher ranking individual’s name
should always come first in an introduction.
Steps To A Formal Introduction
1. State the name of the person being introduced to. In other words, state the name of the
higher ranking individual.
2. Say something like “I would like to introduce” or “Please meet” or a similar phrase.
3. State the name of the person being introduced. In other words, this is the name of the
lower ranking individual.
4. Mention one or two small details to get the conversation between the two individuals
started. Don’t give away too much so that they don’t have anything to talk about but just
get a detail out there so things can get flowing.
Casual Introductions
If you’re in a more casual situation, a full formal introduction isn’t always necessary or even
practical. Still, you should generally try to follow the overall guidelines of introducing the higher
ranking person to the lower ranking person. Let’s say, for example, that you’re a few rows apart in
the stands at a basketball game, obviously, it’s not going to be practical to do a handshake or
really have a conversation at that point in time but a smile, a friendly wave, and just exchanging
names should be enough. Then, if you find yourselves in a situation where you can have a more
full conversation later, take the opportunity to do so.
Body Language & Social Cues
Look at the person you’re speaking to first then turn to the other person as you complete the
introduction. You should make an effort to make eye contact with both individuals that are part of
the introduction. Speak clearly, of course, and don’t mumble. Mumbling is just going to reflect
poorly on you as the person conducting the introduction. As we’ve already mentioned, use
courteous language. May I introduce or “I’d like you to meet” are good examples of a lead-in for
an introduction. “May I present” is going to be your most formal option.
In more formal situations or when there’s an obvious age difference between parties, using
courtesy titles and last names is going to be more polite than just using first names. After all, once
they get talking, the people you are introducing
can make the decision to use first names
themselves and even when you are using
first names, try to include last names as well.
Not only is it more polite but it also aids in
memory retention for those people being
introduced.
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Finally here, let’s cover what to do if you find yourself having forgotten someone’s name in the
middle of an introduction; after all, it does happen. The best course of action is simply to politely
excuse yourself and say “I’m sorry, would you please remind me of your name?” and if you find
yourself repeatedly blanking on someone’s name, be a little bit sneaky. Take the two people and
simply say, “Have the two of you met?” then you can sort of prompt the two people to say their
names for one another. This is a little bit risky, however, and it won’t always work so it’s a tactic
that’s best avoided. In general, honesty is the best policy.
If You Are The One Being Introduced
First, stand and face the person in question. This makes it easier to maintain eye contact and
shake hands and presents you as equals in the introduction. If a person is unable to stand, of
course, just politely lean to their level. Don’t forget to smile, give a firm but not crushing
handshake, and let go promptly. There are a few things more awkward than somebody who
hangs on too long after a handshake and finally, after the introduction has been completed, give a
pleasant greeting to the person to whom you’ve been introduced, “I’m very pleased to meet you”
is an easy choice.
If you know the person’s name and title, it’s best to use it. Something like “Mr. Jones, my name is
Michael Wilson. It’s a pleasure to meet you” and if you’d like to introduce yourself but you don’t
know the person’s name, you can just lead with yours. Something like “Hi, I’m Preston Schlueter. I
thought I’d like to get to know you”. As with before, don’t forget the smile, eye contact, and firm
handshake.
CONCLUSION
Knowing all of these rules, all types of introductions should be a breeze for you. You’ll look good
to the people whom you’re introducing and they should hopefully be able to start up a
conversation with little to no effort.
As you progress in your career, you will meet many people who can help you grow professionally.
Having a professional introduction ready when you meet someone such as an interviewer,
supervisor, mentor or new connection can help you establish a positive reputation with them. In
this article, we outline why professional introductions are important and give instructions and
examples for introducing yourself.
Interview introduction example: “My name is Tara, I moved to New York City because
advertising is my passion and this is the place to find an inspirational, innovative ad community. I
have a rich background analyzing audiences for messaging optimization and would love to tell
you about the strengths I can bring to this role.”
When you introduce yourself to someone, you can demonstrate confidence by speaking in a clear
and audible voice. During your conversation, maintain natural body language with relaxed
shoulders and open arms by your side. If you are seated, stand to greet someone who walks in
the room, such as during an interview.
Example: “My name is Ebony, and I have 10 years of experience working in public relations. I
have worked with more than 20 destination marketing organizations to increase tourism at their
destinations, resulting in 40% more business at certain locations.”
Example: “Hi, my name’s Yuri, and I’m looking forward to working with you on the construction of
the new building.”
Example: “My name is Priya, and I enjoy promoting small companies to help them increase their
profits. I’m excited for the opportunity to be part of a team that increases awareness of the
businesses in Richmond. I have a strong background in public relations and would love to tell you
about the strengths I could bring to this position.”
Example: “My name is Jin, and I am reaching out from Bags Unlimited to inform you of the
services we provide. Our company sends out automatic shipments of a variety of takeout bags to
restaurants each month so you will always have enough for your customers. We offer different
packages based on your needs, so I would love to set up a time to speak with you and give you
more information.”
Example: “My name is Aliyah, and I work in the marketing department as the social media
manager. Our teams hold weekly meetings, and I look forward to working together in the future.
Please let me know if I can help with anything as you orient yourself with the office.”
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