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TO UNLOCK YOUR HAPPINESS

By Soh Chin Gim (Billy)
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WHAT SUBSCRIBERS ARE

SAYING ABOUT
Excellent eBook! I especially appreciate the chapter “Learn To Say
Goodbye To Your Past”. It’s critical and simple — just one!
It is so fundamentally important to personal happiness to let go those
who have wronged us. Our resentment won’t likely affect them at all.
But we can suffer tremendously for it.
It is the slap that keeps on giving. If we were legitimate, even if only
figuratively, slapped by someone in the past, the anger and knotted up
insides over the grudge we hold will continue to slap us over and over
in the form of twisted insides, ulcers, dark, hateful feelings and the like.
Good stuff!
Keep up the great work!
Sarah

I like all the keys but #14 is serious, the most necessary
relationship you can have is the one with yourself…not to mention
the wisdom you gain by learning from your “mistakes” This is
coming from a once enlightened buddhist. I lost from my path but
am now making conscientious choices to continue my
mission…starting with this eBook.
Joseph
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
To my parents, Soh Yee Kok and Yee Choon Hoy, Thank you for being
with me whenever I needed it, and even when times I thought I didn’t
need it. Thank you for not stopping me from finding my own path even
having doubt and worries for me.
To my wife, Michelle Zheng, Thank you for giving me a chance for
letting me into your life and support through hard time. I love you!!

And most importantly,

YES!! YOU have downloaded 18 Magical Keys To Unlock Happiness!!!

This book will launch you into a life-changing experience, not just a
book. If you read it. I believe your life will never remain the same; I
repeat only if; you take your time to practice what is written.
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapters
Key 1: Take It A Day At A Time
Key 2: Have The Right Perspective
Key 3: Spread Love
Key 4: You Have Not Come This Far To Give Up
Key 5: Nobody Owes You Nothing
Key 6: Learn To Say Goodbye To Your Past
Key 7: Cherish Your Precious Moments
Key 8: Make Your Passion Your Profession
Key 9: Focus On Happy Things
Key 10-18: Magic Key Box
Resources
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INTRODUCTION
Hi, my name is Soh Chin Gim (Billy) and I’m going to share with you
how you can change your thought and give yourself a happier life but
before that let me share you my personal story.

I was born with macroglossia (long/large tongue) which cause me have

speech problems, as many of you already know that you sound very
different from your real voice and the voice inside your head. During
my kindergarten, I had a hard time learning how to pronounce. To
myself, I actually heard what the teacher was trying to make me
pronounce but to her, I always sound wrong. Also, every time I try to
make a conversation with my classmate, they will laugh at me because I
couldn't speak properly. At that point of time, I am only 4 years old and
I do not understand why everybody in class was picking on me.

The worst time of my life will be my first day of my primary school

when the teacher asks us to introduce ourselves, the moment I
mentioned my name in Chinese, everybody laughed at me and you
might wonder what was so funny about my name. My Chinese name if
you pronounce in Han Yu Pin Yin will be “Zheng Jin” but due to unable
to pronounce it and make it sound like “Zheng Jing” which mean decent
but due to that time there a famous song call “Jia Zheng Jing” which
means fake decent and this become my first nickname. I was not only
dealing with my speech problem but also mockery from my peers.
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Due to intimidations, I was unable to handle my problems, I start

hating going to school and I often play truant and skip classes until my
teacher find it strange and called my father. When my father received
the call from my teacher, he got very angry and also during that time he
is working as a chef which means he working in a high-temperature
environment that really made his temper boiled. When he found out I
never went to school.

When I got home that day, my father drag me to the bedroom and start
beating me with a cane and gave me severe punishment to kneel for
few hours, he also made sure that there was no dinner for me. I went to
bed on empty stomach. Also from that day onward, for every little
mistake I made, he would beat me up.

I really hated what my dad did to me and I blamed my teacher for it. I
also stop talking to my father for a very long period of time as he really
built fear into me and every time I saw him I only remember the
beating I get from him. I become more and more rebellious at home
and at school.

Growing up with all the negativity energy make me a self-conscious

person, having fear for new environments, fear of being embarrassed,
fear of being blamed and fear of getting hurt. I start wondering why I
am born into this world to suffer from all this fear, why my father will
cane me like I was not his son, why everybody picked on me. I asked
myself when would I grow up and escape from this living hell.
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Of course, I did not get any answers to my question as I only keep it to

myself but one day I came across this book “How to Live Without Fear
and Worry” by Dhammananda, K.Sri which really started changing my
life. It actually prevented me from committing suicide and also helps
me to calm my mind and believe that every problem has a solution. I
also learn to see from different angle and forgiveness. For instance, I
put myself in my father’s shoe, my father was a very strict, hot-temper
and uneducated person, he did not finish his secondary school and also
he married my mother at a very young age too. As a young parent, he
did not know how to educate his children and the only thing that he
knew was to beat me up and hope I won’t continue my wrong doing.
From there, I started reading a lot of self-improvement books and
realized that my mind is my bigger enemies who created the living hell
that I used to live in.

In the next few chapters, I going to share what I learn to encourage you
and propel into to develop the happy life you have always dreamt of. If
this book gives you inspiration or hope in anywhere, do email me and
share.
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TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME

You may want to ask me; "why do I get so worked up and stressed out
anytime I think about my future because I don't think I have all the
resources, connection or educational qualification to achieve my
dreams but you writing that I can live a happier life".
Let me answer your question.
Firstly, I have equally asked myself that same question before. I have
been there. I grew up having that same fear, my father's harsh
upbringing towards me have at some point felt useless and I almost
attempted suicide. Little did I know that I was being trained to become
a better person. Little did I know better days are coming.
This has spurred me to write because I know that a lot of people out
there are going through very difficult situations and they feel like they
are never going to achieve their dreams. They become limited to the
situations they find themselves and this should not be. They need
someone to tell them and realize they are bigger than their difficult
situations.
Permit me to share you a secret, a productive life is a happier life. If you
should stop worrying about how twenty years will look like and
instead be focused on your twenty-four hours, you will end up living a
happier life. Make very good use of it. You have a choice; you can
absolutely do something about your day. Get rid of that negative
mindset that is trying to drain you and pull you down and begin to
seize the day.
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Decide that no matter what life throws at you, no matter what comes
your way, no matter how bad your situation might look, you will take it
a day at a time to be happy and also have a good attitude.
Soaking your pillows with tears and sitting in your room all day long in
deep thought won't help matters; instead, it will give you health
problems. Why not take on today with a positive outlook?
Focus on having a happier life in spite of your situation.
Let me distract in a positive way,
What are you doing right now?
What is your mood right now?
If you are probably sad, think of all your dreams coming through. I
mean all... Financial, educational, marital, business and so on. Whatever
you desire, see it already happening.
Tell me how do you feel? Great…right? Good.
If you are probably feeling happy today, then don't allow any negativity
around you. Protect your happiness throughout the day.
In no time, when you continue with such mental picture and attitude
every day it becomes a habit and you will become productive, thus you
live a happier life.
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HAVE THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE

I have seen bad days in my life, everyone has but I have trained myself
to always think about the positive sides of every bad event.
I am one person that loves reading a lot. I read motivational books
since I was young. I call this book my energiser. When I say I'm busy
with my energiser, people around me understand. It was my thing to
do; I kept reading more books as I grow. Something bad happened to
me, I misplaced the book that changes my life and felt really depressed.
I tried all my best to retrieve that book but I couldn't. I have a special
bond with that book; I couldn't sleep all through the night. If you have
ever misplaced something very special to you, you would agree with
me about the emotional pains one will go through during that period.
I woke up this next morning and decided that it I will have the right
perceptive towards my loss. I felt that the person who took it must be
probably right reading it and gaining some positive impact. I knew how
those books have helped to shape my life in a great way. So, I had the
right perceptive of my situation.
A few days later, I bumped into a colleague who told me that he met a
lady who was trying to locate a guy that has misplaced his book when I
heard about the lost book. I was curious to know, I met with the lady
who found my book and she said that the book brought joy back to her
life. She returned my book back to me. She further narrated to me her
story and how she almost committed suicide but thankful for the book
after she read it, she felt hope again.
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Having heard that, I was seriously touched and I wept, I didn't know
that my loss book can save a life. I didn't only find my book but I also
saved a soul. I was very delighted.
My dear friend, we need to start having the right perceptive in every
challenge that we find ourselves. It is very easy to feel downcasted,
dejected, rejected and depressed when we face ugly and difficult
situations but one who wants to live and enjoy a happier life must get
up, shake it off and pick yourself up.
You say to yourself, I know I'm having a bad day and nothing seems to
be going right for me, but I won't get myself worked up, I will maintain
the right perceptive because behind the scene, something good is going
happening, things are working together for my favor. I will be happy
and not frustrated.
To live a happier life you need to install new software on your mind.
Format the negative one that is leaving you depressed and download a
fresh one full of positivity and the right perspective.
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SPREAD LOVE

Life is very simple; we get back whatever we put out. If you want love,
give out love. Everybody wants to be loved. We long for a lovely
relationship with whoever we are dealing with. We all need a shoulder
to lean on. When the road gets tough, we fall sick, when we are going
through rough patches we all need that special person who can always
stay with us, hold our hands and assure us that everything will be okay.
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At my formal place of work, there was this lady who snubbed

everybody and acts like the owned the world. She was a very arrogant,
mannerless and very rude. Nobody in the office wants to have anything
to do with her because of her bad attitude. When it comes to her job
she was very productive but her attitude was nothing to write home
about.
I felt that I should give her some piece of advice one day as other
colleagues were bad mouthing her. I called her up for a lunch; she
ignored claiming she was too busy. I didn't give up on her; I wanted to
talk to her about her behaviors. After turning down my request
severally, she finally agreed to have a date with me. After lunch, I
advised her to show people some love and stop her mean attitude
towards people because we all need each other. At the end of our
conversation, this lady gave me the embarrassment of my life. She
insulted my entire generation, she told me to keep my silly advice to
myself. I felt sad after I was insulted but I knew I have done the right
thing by advising her.
A few months later, she disappeared from work. A message was sent to
us our notice that she was in the hospital for an appendix operation.
Nobody in the office cared about her, they didn't visit her. They never
liked her.
I took it upon myself to visit her at the hospital, at that time she has
been operated upon and the appendix was removed. I went to the
groceries store, bought some beverages and milk for her to help her
recover faster. Got her a get well soon flower.
Immediately, she saw me, she wept bitterly. Her fiancé and mom were
sitting next to her, she apologizes for her past deeds and decided to
amend her ways.
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After she fully recovered, she resumed work and totally became a new
person. She has learned her lessons in a hard way. She totally
transformed from the mean, saucy, arrogant and rude lady into a very
sweet lady. Life has obviously taught her some lesson.
If you think that people around you are mean to you, then you also
should check yourself. Sometimes it is the wall that we built around
ourselves that is causing us to be in a trap.
Break those walls, loss those chains that are making you not enjoy a
happier life. Like the saying, Life is very simple, we only make it
complicated.
If you want love, spread love.
Be good towards others,
Show kindness,
Be considerate and compassionate,
Stop hurting people's feelings.
Whatever you give out will definitely come back to you.
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YOU HAVEN’T COME THIS FAR

TO GIVE UP
“I haven't come this far to give up...
I'm scared of no man, I fear nothing.”
Daniel Jacobs
I met an old friend of mine from what back in national service, his
name is Marcus. Marcus had lost everything that he owned. His mother
died of cancer, he lost his job, his fiancé dumped him and friends had
rejected, calling him a failure. Marcus had nobody to call his own. He
was basically existing and not living. He wakes up every day in the
morning praying for the night to come and when night comes he
prayed for the morning. He was very helpless, my friend was hurting.
Nothing seems to be going for him.
Do you know what my friend did? He didn't give up. He went from one
office to another in search of a job. He hopes were raised and dashed
many times but he still didn't give up.
One day, Marcus took interest in improving on his graphics design
skills. He couldn't afford to pay for a formal course in a higher
institution so he approached a mentor. The mentor was his late dad's
friend. His mentor accepted to train Marcus for free. All through the
training period my friend Marcus struggled but he had a happy spirit
always lively. He acted as if he has got no problems in the world. He
had that strong conviction inside him that he would be successful that
gave him a reason to smile again.
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After the training, Marcus started posting his works and contacts on
the internet hoping that he would get clients that needed a graphics
artist. A company needed a graphics artist and Marcus works blew
them away. They called Marcus up and offered him an employment. He
grew to become a regional manager and also trained many junior
workers on the job.
Two years later, Marcus got a new house, new car and also met an
amazing lady who he got married to. Today, Marcus is successful,
blessed with a wonderful wife and amazing children.
When we met, I interviewed him about how he managed to survive all
through his hard time and he replied: "I decided that no matter what
comes my way, I won't give up because I have come too far to give up".
Today, I don't know what you are going through right now. I also don't
have the slightest idea of what might be weighing you down but one
thing is sure, you will definitely get out of it. It's only a matter of time.
Don't give up. If only you can be like my friend Marcus, who despite his
pathetic condition he didn't allow that ruin his happiness and pursuit
of greatness, instead he pushed forward with hope and it paid off
eventually.
You haven't come this far to give up my dear, you are worth more than
you have ever achieved. You deserve better, you have a bright future
ahead of you. Shake off that discouraging attitude of yours; relieve
yourself of that self-pity and worries. You are bigger and better than
the problems you are facing and you will overcome them.
Put on a broad smile today because there's something bigger, greater
beyond your imagination that is right in front of you.
You can't just give up and I trust you won't. Look on a brighter side of
life.
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NOBODY OWES YOU NOTHING

“Nobody owes you nothing,
life is what you make it”
Melissa Moon
"Nobody owes you nothing" Sounds mean but it the basic truth.
The truth they say is bitter. This has been my motivational factor; I
believe that nobody owes me nothing. My tough upbringing made me
very stubborn, the incessant punishments from my dad eventually
made a positive impact in my life.
As a young boy, I hated my life and the punishments I had to go
through every other day. I didn't know that my father's punishment
was propelling me for a greater life and to face reality. I never really
received the love that I yearned for, that made me become very
inspired to get the best out of my life.
As I grew older, I became very dependent on myself. I became very
hardworking and I promised myself a better future.
What's my point? My point is that some of us are very fortunate to get
everything falls into our lap. We get all the love, attention and care
from our loved ones. We are pampered and showered with so much
attention that when we hit the hard phase of life, it becomes very
difficult for us to face reality.
I am a realist; I am not saying that it's a bad thing to come from a loving
and sweet family who shows us so much care, love and attention.
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If you do, that's great. But I also want you to accept reality. I want you
to understand that people will hurt your feelings. Things won't go in
your favor sometimes. So what do you do?
You need to understand that nobody owes you nothing in life. Go out
and make your dream life happen. A happier life doesn't come by
accident. It’s a purposeful act to go out and get the life that you deserve.
Don't be one of those who spends the rest of their lives living in
travesty of regret. They wish that he had taken the right steps at the
right time. They wished that they never depended on anybody who
disappointed them and dashed their hopes.
Yi Feng my friend from China, told me about how he couldn't achieve
his dreams of becoming a programmer in his youth because his rich
uncle never sponsored him to college. He was from a very humble
background. He had so much believed in his rich Uncle until his uncle
disappointed him. Yi Feng was frustrated, he felt his uncle owed him so
much, he became angry and cut off all ties with his uncle. He later
moved to the United States and got the opportunity achieve his dreams.
He went back to China and found out that his uncle was diagnosed with
leukemia, he has spent so much money on medicine, business became
slow and was shut down, and his uncle has gone from grace to grass.
My friend Yi Feng was already successful at that time. He looked back
at what his uncle did to him and how he never helped him achieve his
dreams but my friend has a heart of God. He forgave his uncle, let go of
the past and helped his uncle with some money for treatment.
Yi Feng was not discouraged by the fact his Uncle never sent him to
college to achieve his dreams instead, he saw his predicaments as a
stepping stone. He worked hard and depended on himself until he
achieved his dreams.
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I am very sure that not everyone is from a wealthy family that can get
anything they want at their beck and call but that's not an excuse to
feel sorry for yourself and never achieve your dreams in life.
Nobody owns you nothing. The world is run by those who go out and
get the life they deserve. They are not waiting for the “should be” or
“should have be”. They take their life with action
If anyone is nice to you, your friends, families or acquaintances, be
grateful for it.
To life a happier life you need to understand that everything you get
from people are gifts and should be appreciated but you only owe
yourself all the good things of life.
Go out and make that happen!
Nobody owes you nothing you owe yourself.
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LEARN TO SAY GOODBYE TO

YOUR PAST
“How can I learn to say goodbye
To the only life I ever knew?
Learn to say goodbye to you?
How can I learn to say goodbye?
Tell me how do you expect me to
Say goodbye to you?”
“Learn To Say Goodbye” by Dusty Springfield
‘Cameo’ Album

Just like the popular saying "when the past comes knocking, don't
answer because it has nothing new to say". A lot of people out there are
still slaves to their past. They are still holding on the things they should
have let go. Learn self-acceptance and move forward. You should learn
from the past, never hold on to it.
One of my very good friends Melissa has moved from one relationship
to another, trying to get the perfect guy. She has been hurt several
times in the past leaving her heart broken into a thousand piece.
Melissa finally found a new boyfriend.
Melissa's new boyfriend was jobless, lazy and spends Melissa's money
extravagantly. My friend was already head over heels in love with her
boyfriend so he wouldn't mind what he does. He also has a way of
calming Melissa down whenever he messes up.
Until one day, Melissa returned from work and found out that her
beloved boyfriend has taken a huge amount of loan without her
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consent, she was mad at him but he still cajoled her and that two made
up.
Finally, he left the house one day and never returned. My friend Melissa
discovered that her boyfriend dumped her for a richer lady after
getting into a bad debt. She was emotionally traumatized; she couldn't
believe that could happen to her. She loved her boyfriend and was
already planning their wedding.
Melissa visited me and narrated all that happened to her; unfortunately
she was still in love him. I pacified her, encouraged and gave her books
to read. I told her to move on and forget about her past. Her boyfriend
doesn't deserve her.
Melissa left and I didn't hear from her until after two years. I received a
mail from my friend Melissa. She wrote to thank me for the books and
support I gave to her during her hard times. She realized that she
deserved better, now she is happily married to a great guy and they are
expecting a baby.
I am saying this to you today, say goodbye to that purposeless
relationship and get married. Say goodbye to that boring job and go
after your dream. Say goodbye to your current level and move to the
next level.
Don't get stuck in your past
Look forward and move forward!
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CHERISH YOUR PRECIOUS

MOMENTS
The best moments in life are priceless. How do you feel when you
receive good news? Pleased right?
How do you feel that first time you saw your newly born baby?
Overjoyed right?
How do you feel when you got your medical reports and it says you are
free from any illness you thought you had? Relieved right?
How do you feel when you graduated from college and got your first
dream job? Excited right?
How do you feel when you made your first hit single? Satisfied right?
How did you feel when you walk down the aisle with the man or
woman of your dreams? Delighted right?
I can go on and on writing and remind you of all the happy moments
you have experienced in your life. These special moments are priceless,
cherish them. Don't take them for granted. I will tell you a story about
Mrs. Yang.
Mrs. Yang was married for the past two decades without having a child.
All medical check-up confirmed her fit. She and her husband attempted
severally to have a child, they have been to several hospitals home and
abroad for proper check-up but all their efforts were abortive. She
approached her lovely husband one day and suggested adoption. Her
husband refused but she persisted until he agreed.
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They both left for the orphanage when they got there, Mrs. Yang saw an
adorable baby girl who was only just two months old and she fell in
love with the baby. After all the formalities were done she adopted the
baby
The child brought so much joy into the life of Mrs. Yang. She loved the
little baby and named her Pearl. Pearl was the apple of Mrs. Yang's
eyes. After the second year, Mrs. Yang became pregnant. She gave birth
to a baby boy. Pearl brought so much joy and luck into their live.
We all have a choice, to either mourn over our problems every day,
mope around feel like the world is about to end or we enjoy every
moment and find the good in our problems.
Like many women who are trusting God for the fruit of the womb, Mrs.
Yang could have as well sunk herself in worries and pity but she did the
opposite, she cherished every moment, she gave another child a happy
home and her future. Not long, she had hers too.
The decision is yours, if you want to live a happier life, it's up to you to
find joy and cherish every good moment you experience because it is
priceless.
Cherish your precious moments.
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MAKE YOUR PASSION YOUR

PROFESSION
It is very easy to have dreams, goals and ambition. It is also very easy to
fantasize and imagine yourself living your dream life. We all do that all
the time but the question is how many of us are actually living our
dream life? Look around, not many.
In my study, I have realized that one of the major reasons why people
don't enjoy a happier life is because they don't seem to have anything
going for them. Probably, they are stuck in a job they don't like and
they cannot get out from there.
Imagine a guy whose dream is to become a footballer. He wasn't very
passionate about his dreams and he gave up on that dream. Got himself
a job as a truck driver. When he sits down to relax on a weekend and
watch football, there's this guilt he would feel about not himself. When
the player isn't doing well, he might imagine himself on that field trying
to score the goal.
That's how it feels; don't be among those who gave up on their dreams.
My childhood friend Li Wei had a natural gift for engineering. When we
were young, he would fix all our gaming console. Nobody taught him, it
was a natural gift for him. Anytime my PSP's had fault Li Wei would fix
it in a short time.
I lost contact with my friend. We met at the airport and I was very
pleased to see him. He followed his passion and became an expert in
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information Technology. We exchanged business cards; I was surprised

to hear that he owned his own company and they manufacture gadgets.
I wasn't disappointed, I knew that Li Wei had so much talent from
childhood and he turned his passion into his profession. You also can
do the same. Instead of feeling frustrated about your life and staying in
the job that doesn't give you pleasure; why not follow your dreams?
Turn your passion into your profession.
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FOCUS ON HAPPY THINGS

I will like to do a simple test. Take a paper and list down all event that
comes to your mind for the two picture.

Picture1:
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Picture2:
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I believe you list out unhappy event in the picture1 and happy event in
picture2 like I did it the first time. Actually, the picture should be read
in color, white is happy event and black is unhappy event.
In picture1, you are in a white “happy” environment but you only see
the black “unhappy” and one your mind is set on to the “unhappy” you
can only think and feel unhappy.
Picture2 is the total opposite of picture1, you are focusing on the white
“happy” and your mind will set to make you feel happy even you in an
unhappy environment.
Now I will need you to tear away the unhappy portion and dump it into
the rubbish bin and keep the happy portion into your wallet or purse
and whenever you in are unhappy environment take out this paper and
focus on it and you should be able to feel joy. Let’s call this paper your
happy list. This exercise has a psychological effect which will positively
influence your day.
To live a happier life, we need to be conscious of our environments.
The kind of people we associate with, the ideas we allow into our
subconsciousness has a great role to play in our general outlook on life.
This is a determinant factor of our happiness in life.
Take notes, keep record daily of events, of places, of faces of people
who says nice things to you and are good to you. When you are having
a bad day and you go back to read your happy list, you will have cause
to smile again.
Promise me today my dear friend that you will put this exercise into
practice.
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MAGIC KEY BOX

The following tips will help you grow yourself into understanding that
happiness is a choice and nobody is entitled to your happiness. You will
become happy, fulfilled and successful in all that you do. Happiness is
very paramount in life. If you will ask me, what is life without
happiness? Life is very short. We should cherish every moment and be
happy with our lives.
Key 10:
Stay Happy
Make happiness your lifestyle. Be positive in your outlook of life, the
more you don't get worked up and carry a sad face all around the
happier you shall be. Life can get you down but don't remain there,
bounce back better and stronger. Walk with your head tall and proud.
When you carry a happy attitude around it will stick to your
personality. People will love to associate with you. They will always
want to be. Your life will begin to attract goodness.
Key 11:
Have a forgiving heart.
You may feel justified in holding onto resentments against people that
deeply hurt you. It’s important to realize that holding onto resentment
doesn’t harm the other person, it only creates deeper hurt inside
yourself. Forgiveness helps in healing, but it’s not just about you or just
about the other person. You forgive because eventually you realize it’s
the best response to a situation.
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Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing someone’s behavior or pretending

the situation didn’t happen. Forgiveness is a way to set yourself and the
other person free from holding onto pain and hurt.
Address your inner pain and what triggered the deep hurt you
experience. Did the offense trigger feelings of abandonment, trauma,
or unpleasant memories from the past? Journal your feelings and
discover the deeper hurt that this person triggered.
You can silently forgive someone in your heart without engaging in a
formal conversation. This is especially important when the offending
person is no longer in your life or has passed on.
Forgiveness goes a long way in finding inner peace and a general
happiness in life.
Key 12:
Surround yourself with positive people.
A study on happiness conducted by Dr. Robert Waldinger has
suggested that maintaining good relationships is, at the very least, a
major contributor to a person’s happiness. The study was conducted by
periodically interviewing their participants about their life over the
course of 75 years. It was shown that happiness is rooted to how much
we invest in the people we consider as essential to our being, as well as
those who invest in ourselves.
In hindsight, this gives a deeper meaning to the phrase “no man is an
island”.
Be around positive and happy people that can motivate you, inspire
and encourage you to become a better person.
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Don't stay around negative people, who will try to make you sad and
belittle you, they will mock you and make you feel like a failure.
Key 13:
DONT LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF
If you are looking down on yourself then you are cutting yourself short
and this is never a happy thing. Regardless of whether you haven't
achieved all your dreams doesn't mean that you cannot be happy. As
long as you are working hard, trying to achieve your goals you will
definitely get there
In the meantime, be happy.
Key 14:
Treat yourself very special
If you cannot love yourself, how do you expect people to love you?
Treat yourself as you'd treat your own best friend. You value your
friends and those close to you; well, who is closer to you than you are?
Give yourself the same kind, thoughtful, and respectful treatment that
you give to other people you care about. If you had to hang out with
yourself for a day, what is the most fun/enjoyable/fulfilled/contented
type of person you could be, while still being yourself? What is the best
version of you?
Be responsible for yourself and for boosting your self-esteem. If others
aren't telling you you're great, don't let it get to you. Instead, tell
yourself you're special, wonderful, and worthwhile. When you believe
these things about yourself, others will recognize that glow of self-
confidence and begin confirming your self-affirmations in no time!
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Key 15:
Always have an open mind.
We sometimes argue stuff with other. We are things differently based
on our own perspective. We also understand things based on what we
know, our own experiences or the ones we see from other. Having an
open mind towards issues make life very simple and easy for us.

Key 16:
Guard your thoughts (stop the negative thinking)
Thinking 'the worst', expecting failure and betrayal, seeing downsides
where others don't, even seeing positives as negatives - all convey a
kind of insurance policy. "If I expect the worst, then I won't be
disappointed when it happens."
Another 'advantage' to negative thinking is the 'I told you so'
syndrome. For some, it can feel more important to be proved right in
their negative predictions than to have good things happen (and
therefore be proved 'wrong').
Before I get too positive about negativity, here's a thought: The habit of
thinking negatively doesn't just predict how likely someone is to
become depressed, but also predicts how likely they are to suffer all
kinds of other illnesses later on in life as well. (1) I'm not suggesting
that negative thoughts alone produce illness, but they don't help.
Key 17:
Understand that you are not perfect
"I understand that I'm not perfect. I made mistakes and I had a hand in
everything that's happened to me, good and bad. Stop beating yourself
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up for the things that you did wrong. Your past is a lesson to learn
from, move on. It is never a prison. Whatever mistakes you have made
today, is as a result of the past. Learn from it and move on.
You will never be happy if you are expecting yourself to be perfect.
Nobody is perfect.
Key 18:
Happiness is a choice
You are the only one responsible for happiness. Only you can decide
whether you want to be happy or not. You can decide to read the whole
book on happiness and still never find happiness. You can also decide
to buy yourself exotic cars, live a luxurious lifestyle and deep down you
will still be unhappy. If you think that only a life partner can give you
the happiness that you deserve then, after meeting that partner you
will still be unhappy.
Maybe you think that only traveling the whole world would give you
happiness, after that desire has been met. You might still never find
lasting happiness.
So if we make a decision to live a happy life, no matter what life can
present to us, is more likely we will have a happy life, because this is
what we want and because we don’t want to accept anything else. It is
our choice, we have made a decision and we want to stick to it.
Once we have understood and accepted that happiness comes from
within, it is not impossible to be happy even during the toughest of
times because we already know how we should hold on to those good
times and chase all the bad away.
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With an empowered happiness mindset, we will know how we should

let life to happen and stay open to wallowing in the bliss of happiness
whatever our circumstances might be.

It is never too late to be happy. Be happy in any condition you find

yourself.
Happiness is a conscious effort to do. It is a daily decision to continually
stay in a good mood, surround yourself with positive people and also
carry a positive mentality around.

Here are some powerful quotes on happiness that can change your life.
“ Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Dr. Seuss
“ For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
“ Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.
Abraham Lincoln
“ It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember
sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little
from peace.
Chuck Palahniuk , Diary
“ Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are
in harmony.
Mahatma Gandhi
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“ Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own

actions.
Dalai Lama XIV“

“ Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know.

Ernest Hemingway,
" You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness
consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.
Albert Camus
“ The Paradoxical Commandments
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centred.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down
by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.
People favour underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
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What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.

Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
Kent M. Keith, The Silent Revolution: Dynamic Leadership in the
Student Council
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RESOURCES
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Resources for subconscious mind

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Resources for Relationships

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Resources for Social Influence

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