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Welcome to your first module of the subject “Oral Communications in Context.” This module will
cover the importance, definition of communication, its principles and characteristics. At the end
of this module you are expected:
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Why Communication is important
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Look at the illustration above. Why do you think this happened to their
project? In your opinion, how could they have avoided this error?
Mark Twain sums up communication nicely, “The difference between a
good word and the right word is the same as the difference between a
lightning bug and lightning.” (Dean Brenner, Marni Lane). Learning how to
be a good communicator opens a lot of opportunity for us in relationships,
career, and in fulfilling our goals and dreams.
Defining Communication
Communication started years ago with some of our ancestors surviving
through drawings, sounds, and gestures. Along with the evolution of
civilizations various mediums of communication also emerged.
Through time, technology became integrated in our language processes
and description.
Communication is defined in several ways but the fundamental or basic
aspects embodies the following definition:
Communication, originating from the Latin word communicare – meaning to
share, unite or join, can be defined as the process by which people share
ideas or thoughts which can be understood by another through a chosen
medium. These said medium can either be verbal or non-verbal channels.
In a nutshell, it is to send and receive messages using a channel.
Principles of Communication
Before we delve in to oral communication, let us first go through the
principles of communication. Knowing these would make it easier for us to
understand how to properly and adequately communicate with others.
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1. Schemata- driven
The process of communication makes you either the sender or receiver. By
taking one of the roles above, you will activate your schemata, background,
or experiences.
Schemata or schemas provide a basis on how we relate to ideas, concepts,
and events based on past experiences. Prior experiences give meaning to
conveyed messages. Having no previous experience nor idea will only resort
pronouncing or sounding the words. No experience of any communicative
act will trigger views, feelings, or ideas.
2. Interpretative act
Communication is an interpretative act. The exact meaning of the
message being transmitted is known only by the sender or speaker. The
sender has the absolute idea of what the meaning of the message is. The
receiver can only interpret, guess or infer based on how it appeals to
his/her sense of hearing.
3. Communication is active, forceful or powerful
In a communicative act, there will always be different effects to the
participants. Any message conveyed may have various interpretations
because of cultural, ideological, and environmental factors. What is rude in
one culture can be perceived as something acceptable in another. For
example, in western countries, calling an adult not related to you by their
first name is acceptable; yet, in the Philippines, this is rude. You need to use
their titles or (i.e. Attorney, Miss, Mrs., teacher, etc.) general terms showing
respect (i.e. auntie, kuya, tito, etc.) when you call refer to them or call them by
their name.
4. Communication is Symbolic
Signs, symbols, letters, graphs, pictures, etc. are concrete objects that stands
for or represents an idea. Non-verbal communication, on the other hand,
expresses ideas through gestures, voice pitch, posture, facial expression,
time, and space.
5. Communication always result in something
Two or more persons usually participate in any communicative act. One
sends the message while another reacts to the message. As a transactional
process, communication creates an effect on the involved parties. It will
elicit either a verbal or non-verbal response.
6. Communication is irreversible
The adage “Think before you click” suggests that you go over any message or
idea before posting it on your social networks or messages. The same
concept should also be applied to the other forms of communication. With
oral communications, the moment you utter the words to convey your
message already creates an impact to listeners. Attempts to reverse, restore,
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or recreate the original mood or setting before these words were spoken
would be irrevocable. The discipline of mulling over your thoughts before
translating them into words can help avoid any instances which may
cause problems directly or indirectly.
7. Communication is contextual
Idea exchanges between the sender and the receiver involves
communication setting like time, occasion, purpose or manner of
communication. Consider cultural differences when communicating to avoid
any negative impact due to the effects of the factors above.
8. Communication is Progressive
Communication is a process you learn from birth and continues to evolve as
time passes by. Communicative competence is not learned in one sitting. You
go through different levels as you strive to improve your abilities to interact
with other people.
9. Communication is a process
Several stages of communication take place when people convey and
exchange ideas with one another. Each stage differs from the other.
Elements or components work in a coordinated manner the complete the
process.
10. Communication is ethical
A communicative event is expected to follow rules, values, and beliefs
agreed upon by members of society. These standards determine which
cultural group you belong to. Going against these conventions make the
interaction with others wrong or unethical.
Examples can be read here: Don’t give a thumbs-up sign in Russia and
other hand gesture facts (Schwertly, 2014).
11. Communication is Influenced by technology and media
Communication in the current age of technology is characterized by
the instant, real-time exchange of knowledge, messages, and services.
The rapid speed of communication influences how people construct
their messages and what platform the use to send their messages.
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Kinds of Communication
Communication
Non-Verbal Verbal
Audio Visual
Written Oral
Signals Signals
Non-Verbal Communication
Non-verbal communication transmits messages without relying on
language or speech. It uses audio signals or visual signals to communicate a
message.
1. Kinesics
Kinesics is the language of the body. Notice how our body movements and
facial expressions add visuals. You may know a friend or an acquaintance
who is entertaining to watch when telling a story because of the gestures
or
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facial twitches. This friend is practicing this form of non-verbal
communication.
To illustrate how body language and facial expressions affect how we
communicate, click on this link to watch the video FBI Agent Explains How
to Spot Liars from KOCO 5 News’ Youtube channel.
2. Proxemics
Proxemics is the language of space. Distance and space are devices that
can also be used to convey meaning. The relationship of people can be
determined by observing the distance they maintain from each other.
The illustration below, from the website bodylanguageproject.com, gives
a general description of space people take-up depending on their
relationship with others.
However, one must also consider other factors when deciphering the
relationship between people from other cultures. For example, Americans
are naturally more aggressive in nature when it comes to positioning
themselves when talking to others, on the contrary, an English person will
maintain a relatively farther distance as compared to the American.
3. Haptics
Haptics is the language of touch. This nonverbal communication reveals
feelings and culture. If you have ever heard of the saying mother’s touch, it
illustrates how someone can feel loved just through touching. Another
example is when friends bump fists to show that they acknowledge another
person’s idea or they absolutely agree on something. At work, it’s also
important to remember that there are rules to follow when communicating
with your superiors or colleagues. There is such thing as Professional-
functional touch, which is used to communicate emotions of managers to
their team members. (2014, Haptics accessed on slideshare.net)
4. Chronemics
Chronemics is the language of time. This shows the interrelatedness of time
and communication. A way in which one perceives and values time,
structures time, and reacts to time frames communication. Across cultures,
time perception plays a large role in the nonverbal communication process
(Chronoemics. basicknowledge101.com).
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An example can be what they call Filipino time. During events, Filipinos
allegedly come at least an hour or two late, thus, foreigners usually
complain about the practice of Filipino time since foreigners, especially
Americans, usually arrive on time. This goes to show that Filipinos and
foreigners may have a different understanding of what “on time” really
means.
5. Appearance
The language of looks-appearance. The way a person looks reflects on
his/her status or position, mood, culture, taste, and grooming. As with
working, certain companies require a specific look amongst their
employees, say a brand ambassador for a make-up brand versus a brand
ambassador for a laundry soap. Basically, how you look reflects not only to
you as a person but also to an institution or your social group.
Buzzfeed did a social experiment called Does It Pay To Be Attractive? This is
a good example of how people react to how someone looks. To learn more
about this social experiment follow this link.
6. Artifacts
Artifactual communication is the language of objects. “Artifactual
communication is the aesthetic coding and decoding of symbols or
representations. The coding and decoding is subjectively interpreted with
culture in mind in order to establish cautious generalizations) about the
individual who adorns themselves with an artifact” (2002. Artifactual
Communication: A Modern Approach to Understanding Communication
through Nonverbal Artifacts, Rudrow, K.). Artifacts and the interpretation
of what they mean are never absolute representation, merely
approximations. Objects, colors, body modifications, and environments
make up criteria that may constitute artifacts. (2002. Rudrow,K.)
7. Paralanguage
Paralanguage refers to various nonverbal cues we can hear in our voice.
These elements are the following:
- Vocal Quality - refers to the how pleasant or unpleasant a
person’s voice sounds. Voice quality is usually referred to as the
timbre or tone color. As with communicating, emotions play a
role (2008. Flores, C. and Lopez, B, Effective Speech
Communication 5th Edition)
- Pitch - lowness or highness of tone. People vary in the pitch of
their voice although it can be observed that nervousness, fright, and
sometimes excitement may raise the pitch of the voice, on the other hand,
sadness or disappointment makes the pitch lower (2008, Flores and
Lopez).
c. Tempo - how fast or slow someone speaks
d. Volume - describes the force of the voice or how loud or soft it goes
e. Junctures - breaks or pauses applied at the end of utterances or
between thoughts
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Verbal Communication
Verbal communication uses written or spoken language to transmit
information or messages. It involves sound production; utterance of words
phrases and sentences through speech. There are five basic features of
human language:
1. Phonology
Phonology studies the system of sound in language including how sound is
organized and structured to convey meaning. Follow this link for a
simplified explanation of this topic.
2. Semantics
Semantics deal with meaning of words, phrases, and sentences in a
language. Semantics “explains different connotations (associated meaning)
and denotations (dictionary meaning of words)”. For a more interesting
take, head on to this link to watch “Introduction to Semantics” by Ashton
English.
3. Morphology
Morphology studies the formation of words. Words can be divided into two
categories: content words and function words. To know more follow this
link to watch The Linguistic Channel’s video “An Introduction to
Morphology”.
4. Syntax
Syntax is when one studies how words are put together to
form grammatically correct sentences in language.
5. Pragmatics
Pragmatics touches on how language is used. It is how words can be
interpreted in various scenarios.
Process of Communication
Forms of Communication
1. Intrapersonal Communication
Source Receiver
2. Dyadic Communication
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Small group communication happens when more than three people are
involved. This is simply an enlarged group which usually happens to solve
problems. Examples of this are conferences, business meetings, symposiums,
and team meetings inside the classroom.
4. Public Communication
Public communication happens between one and several other people. This
large group type of communication usually happens in public speaking. In
public speaking, the speaker addresses the audience to persuade, inform,
entertain, or do all of three. Just like the other forms, this kind of
communication requires knowledge and good communication skills from the
speaker.
5. Mass Communication
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Media and technology are used to reach a large audience in a variety of ways today. Examples of
mass communication media are television, radio, newspapers, recordings, movies, magazines,
comics, billboards, computers, and the internet. As seen in the image above, the newscaster is
communicating to his audience via the radio, television, and Youtube.
Communication Models
After learning about the different elements that support the process of
communication, we will now move on to the different models of
communication to further understand how communication happens. At the
end of this module you are expected:
10. To be able to identify the three standard communication models;
11. To be able to differentiate the various models of communication; and
12. To be able to distinguish the unique feature(s) of one
communication process from the other.
The process of communication can be studied through the communication
models. These communication models are conceptual models. Conceptual
models aid in simplifying the explanation of how something works.
As mentioned in the previous module, communication is a process and to be
able to understand how the process works, we will utilize the
communication models below.
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- Persuasion not Mutual understanding - This model promotes one-way
direction of communication which promotes advice and influence rather
than understanding from both receiver and sender. Again, the emphasis is on
the lack of feedback.
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4) Values psychological over social effects:
This model focuses more on the psychological effects (such as
understanding the messages) rather than the social effects (like building the
relationship amongst the communicators). There is no assurance that the
message was effective because the receiver is only concerned with the
delivery of the message and will now know the effect on the receiver/s
because of the lack of feedback.
MESSAGE
SENDER
RECIEVER
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a) Information source / Sender: The Sender / Information Source
chooses the message/s to be communicated to the receiver and
the channel to use and sends the message.
b) Transmitter/ Encoder: This changes the message into a signal
then sends it over the communication channel
c) Channel – This is the medium the sender uses to transmit
the message/s
d) Receptor/Decoder – This does the opposite of the Encoder. It
decodes the message sent over the channel.
e) Receiver / Destination – The receiver is the person or group of
people who must get the message. The receiver can then provide a
feedback which will then reverse their roles.
f) Noise - Noise is a kind of disturbance coming from people, the
environment, internal knowledge, beliefs, etc. which hinders the
receiver from getting and understanding the message.
An example how this model explains this process: The sender can be you and
the receiver can be your friend. The channel you will use is your mobile
network. The encoder is your mobile network company and decoder is the
receiver’s smartphone. When you try to send an SMS message to your friend
and your friend receives only parts of the message due to disruption of
mobile signal, that is the noise.
B. Berlo’s SMCR model
David Berlo conceptualized the Sender-Message-Channel – Receiver (SMCR)
model during the sixties. He postulated this model from the Shannon-
Weaver Information Theory model and emphasized on the encoding and
decoding parts of the process.
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a person’s understanding of a message or thought is influenced by external
and internal factors that are learned through out life.
To better illustrate how this works, refer to the illustration and example
below.
As babies, the only way we can communicate was through crying. Babies cry
when they are hungry, scared, uncomfortable or startled. When babies cry,
their parents will give them what they want – milk, a change of diapers, or be
rocked to sleep. As they grow up they continue to use crying as a language in
their toddler years but they also learn how to speak during these years. So
aside from crying to get what they want, they also communicate using the
vocabulary they learn. As they grow older, their vocabulary increases and
they learn to utilize not only words but non-verbal cues to communicate
what they want or need to others. This build-up of experiences to send and
receive messages can be explained by the helical model of communication.
Interactive Communication Model
Interactive communication model, also known as convergence model,
emphasizes the coding and decoding components of the process. It also focuses
on the cycle of message exchanges between the sender and receiver.
The source of the message will need to encode the message while the receiver
will need to decode the message. These messages will always be affected by the
“field of experience” – these are communication patterns rising from factors
such as psychological, social, cultural, societal or situational experiences or
gained knowledge. This model also takes into consideration noise as a form of
barrier in communication. Schramm’s communication model is an example of an
Interactive communication model.
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Schramm’s Communication Model
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Schramm’s communication model states the communication is a never-
ending process. This model emphasizes the encoding and decoding parts of
the process. It suggests that the role of the receiver and sender will
eventually switch with each other as they continue the exchange of
messages. Feedback is seen as an important part of this model to ensure that
communication takes place. The field of experience affects the
messages being exchanged. It means that the background of the persons
involved in the communication process plays a role in how they interpret
the messages received or how they encode the messages they will be
sending.
This model can be used in Interpersonal and Intrapersonal communication.
A simple example of how this happens in real life: You are the sender and
your friend is the receiver. The communication is initiated by the sender.
The message is first processed in the sender’s brain then sent to the mouth to
be transmitted. The message is then delivered to your friend through
language, your voice, symbols, and non-verbal cues. While sharing the
message you may encounter disruptions or noise. Your friend will in turn try
to understand the message and will react or give feedback accordingly. This
process repeats until one of them ends the process.
Intercultural Communication
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Culture is the accumulated learned behavior of a group of people. It is the way
of life of people that they accept without thinking and it is passed along from
one generation to another through imitation and communication.
Culture doesn’t have to be from another country, it can also be observed
from people living in the same country but from different regions or states
or even groups of people coming from different schools, religion or even
family.
Intercultural communication involves communicating with another
person or group of people coming from a background or community who
does not share your beliefs, tradition, symbolism, or values. This kind of
communication should be done in a mindful way to be able to engage each
other properly and effectively.
versus urban areas. We can even observe different culture from another
family who lives next door to us.
An example of cultural difference: Chinese families teach children early on
the value of handling money well as they want their children to focus
more on business, maths, and sciences. Also, it is part of their culture to be
transparent when it comes to money matters. (Lee-Chua, 2012) (Li,
2008). On the other hand, Filipinos shy away from talking about money
with their family as it is taboo. Money is often a topic avoided as it brings
misunderstanding. (Rapisura, 2016).
2) Gender role
Gender is a social construct and is not synonymous to sex, which refers to
the anatomical differences between male and female. Gender roles are
learned and taught by culture. A culture’s language reflects the social roles of
men and women.
An example can be calling an assertive girl “bossy” and calling an assertive
boy “a leader”. Immediately you can observe the negative connotation of the
term “bossy” – that is usually used to describe women in a patriarchal
society. Male language is often direct, commanding, and assertive while
female language should be polite, collaborative and nurturing.
3) Age Identity
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This refers not only to their biological age but it is also about how they
think and feel about themselves as they age. Age identity influences one’s
self-image, language use, personality, attitude and communication with
others. We consider that some children can be mature and not all adults are
responsible and matured.
We may have dealt with cases wherein old people usually generalize
that teenagers as brash and impulsive even if this is not true. Moreover,
older people specially those have reached their 50s to be fragile and
slow.
In other instances, advertisements use life-span-related role identities can
be used to trigger affect to a certain period. An example can be the infamous
McDonald’s commercial aptly titled, “Lolo” (Notz, 2002). This commercial
showed the relationship of “Karen” the granddaughter and her grandfather
who were eating at McDonald’s. This commercial became popular as it
showcases the relationship of the brand with the relationship of the two
characters.
4) Social Status
Social Status is determined and assigned according to income, titles
possessions, etc. Social classes in other cultures also differ from one another.
Generally speaking, the lower classes usually work blue collar jobs while the
upper middle and elite or upper class hold white collar jobs or manage their
own businesses.
Perception of a person’s status affects how the people around her
communicate. In the Philippines, the use of the English language, with the
slight twang, projects an elite social status. As Tolentino (2011) stated in an
interview with The Guidon, a student publication, English proficiency of
Ateneans is “… a marker of a kind of elitism in the country”. Showing this
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another person from another country, religion, social status, and gender
means to be able to have a smooth and harmonious relationship.
2. Stereotyping
Stereotyping is the generalization “made about a group of people
underestimating their culture” (Baraceros and Lintao). Stereotyping
assumes members of a group of people share the same characteristics.
When one stereotypes, you judge how a person behaves or looks
based on what you believe about the group where they belong.
One of the usual stereotyping we hear are about women. Women are
still being boxed by society when it comes to rearing children. It is
expected that women should have children in a certain age range while
men are given the chance to do whatever they want until whatever
age. That women must always prioritize building a family rather than
building their own career. This stereotype is still rampant until now
even if a lot of groups around the world have strived for equality in
gender roles.
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Another kind of stereotype can be seen in local television series.
Usually women protagonists have long straight hair while antagonist
women have short or curly/wavy hair. Another thing to observe is
how rich families are usually seen in formal clothes even if they’re
inside their house and will not be attending any formal event. These
stereotypes are very far from real rich families who dress simply
when going out or even dress in plain house clothes when they are
inside their house.
3. Prejudice
Prejudice is when one has a negative preconceived notion, feeling, or
attitude against a cultural group. These assumptions are often made
even if there is little or no interaction with this said group at all.
An example can be the prejudice towards Muslims. In Manila, it can be
observed that Catholics are usually wary of Muslims. The author has
observed how their neighbors are always hesitant or reserved when
interacting with their Muslim neighbor. Rarely did anyone talk to their
Muslim neighbors during events or gatherings. This prejudice usually
comes from how Muslims are portrayed by media thus when one
encounters a Muslim in society, their prejudice for this certain group
kicks in.
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Be mindful of how you use your face, gestures, body language,
and voice when communicating. Understanding how certain
cultures react to certain body language can smoothen and make
the experience with other cultures pleasurable.
Be aware of your voice, of your fidgeting or even the space you
allot when communicating with people from other cultures. A
thumbs up sign in Filipino means you “approve” or you’re okay
or you agree. While in other countries such as Middle East the
thumbs up sign is almost equivalent to giving someone the
middle finger.
e) Check whether non-verbal messages correspond to
verbal messages.
It is given that you will not be able to understand the language of
another group or culture immediately so you have to be very
observant and persistent in listening when you communicate
with them. Sometimes misinterpretation can happen when the
verbal and non-verbal messages come in conflict with each other.
Paying attention and being very mindful of how a person speaks
or reacts can give you clues if you really are communicating with
each other.
Listening
This module will be focused on how listening often plays a big role in the
process of communication. Developing good listening habits aid in the
efficiency and effectivity of sending and receiving messages. It also aids in
comprehending the meaning being conveyed and even help in managing
relationships with other people. At the end of this module, you should be
able to:
16. State the importance of listening;
17. Discuss the models of listening;
18. Apply good listening habits in your life; and
19. Identify and overcome challenges to listening
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need website to get a free assessment in interpersonal skills. This is a good
springboard so you can check how well you listen. This assessment is not
graded but is a good start for this module so that you personally can see
the importance of listening.
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Listening is a skill usually taken for granted especially since we normally
consider ourselves to be good listeners already. Just like eloquence,
listening is important achieving effective communication. Thus, it is crucial
to develop this skill.
Listening helps us stay focused on the message being sent, aids in
comprehension, and may improve or at the least maintain our
relationships with other people.
Listening is the most basic kind of communicating activity that we do daily.
Ang (2009), a researcher, said that we spend 45% of our time listening and
that 90% of the information we gather are retained and received through
our eyes and ears. It was stated in studies that “the level of our listening
effectiveness is only about 50%” which means that we do not receive and
understand the entirety of the message.
“But” you may argue, “I heard what my teacher said”. There is a difference
between listening and hearing. Hearing is when we refer to the plain act of
receiving sounds. While listening is a process where we use our sensory
experiences or our background knowledge to recognize, interpret spoken
or verbal language to satisfy a need. So, when you say that you “heard” your
teacher it means you just received the sound of her voice but if you really
understood and put meaning to the content of the sound she made, that
is when you can say you “listened” to your teacher.
The very main goal of listening is get what the speaker has to say about a
subject; however, listening should not just be focused on the content.
Listening must also be about structure, or organization of the topic
(Galero-Tejero).
To guide us in understanding the difference between hearing and listening,
the table below can quickly categorize the difference the two (Ang).
HEARING LISTENING
Hearing is the passive phase of speech Listening is the active phase of speech
reception. reception.
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We are equipped with the sense of hearing; however, even if we are
exposed to the same sounds, we attach different meanings to them. This is
because we are individually different from each other. Each one of us is
different in terms of character traits, gender, cultural knowledge, age,
physical make up, and so on.
These differences are the reasons why various meaning can be assigned to
a sound. To be able to be a good communicator, you must also be aware of
these different reasons why a sound can have different meanings to
different people. Understanding much about listening can often help in
building social relationships, determine traits of people, perform
professional duties, and many more.
Models of Listening
- Active Listening requires effort and concentration on the listener’s part.
Listening to lectures, discussions, or conferences. This action demands
your full attention and concentration so you can understand the message.
O In critical or persuasive listening, it is important to
understand the message based on evidence or proof
presented by the speaker/sender to prove their point. With
this kind of listening, it is important to determine the
differences of ideas, to look in to the condition or state of
the object of the talk and other aspects in order to get more
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O Emphatic or therapeutic listening: This kind of listening is
something that you do to relieve yourself from anxiety and
tension. You listen as an output of pent-up emotions. This kind
of listening does not necessarily have to be something you do
to analyze, appreciate or judge.
O In appreciative listening or emotional, we “listen for
pleasure, entertainment or enjoyment.” The moment you find
happiness and enjoyment in listening to a particular sound
that you do it over and over again repeatedly in an engaged
manner, that is already appreciative listening.
Barriers to Listening
In a perfect world, we would all be great listeners thus understanding
every message being sent to us. However, the reality is we deal with certain
situations or preconceived notions which acts as barriers in listening.
C. Noise – this is any kind of sensory stimuli that affects the
transmission of messages. It can dampen or boost your speaking
engagements depending on how you deal with them or utilize them.
O External – these are the kinds of noise that come from physical
objects such as the radio, roosters outside your house,
temperature of the room, uncomfortable chair, taste of food,
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Here are more examples of internal and external noise:
Listening Well
Listening is a fundamental component in communication. Practicing habits
in improving your listening skills not only make you a more competent
member of the workforce or school, it enhances your relationships with
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yourself and with other people. Business magazines such as Forbes and
Success magazine still discuss the importance of practicing good listening
habits to improve or maintain relationships at work and in business.
Here’s a guide you can utilize to improve your listening skills.
1. Stop Talking
“If we were supposed to talk more than we listen, we would have two
tongues and one ear.” Mark Twain.
When somebody is talking, stop talking, do not interrupt and let them finish
what they are saying. It is rude to talk while somebody else is speaking. Let the
other person finish first then you can provide your feedback. If it’s not your
turn to speak, respect the speaker and respect your role as the listener.
2. Concentrate on your task: Listening
Refrain from thinking about anything else other than what the speaker is
talking about. Relax and take in what is being said. Do not think about your
existing problems, pending tasks or favorite television series. Discipline your
mind in focusing only on one task at a time. “The mind is easily distracted by
other thoughts” so start practicing good habits in listening.
5) Don’t criticize the speaker
There may be times where your dislike how your speaker looks, dress or
sound, but you have to remember that the message she will be sharing or
giving is more important. Help make the speaker feel at ease by nodding or
using gestures to encourage them. Also, maintain eye contact – this shows
that you are attentively listening and that you understand what is being
communicated.
4. Remove Distractions: Focus on what is being said
Avoid shuffling papers, tapping your finger or pen on the table or
fidgeting too much. These actions not only distract you from listening but
it also distracts the speaker and might communicate that you are bored or
feeling hostile against him or her.
5. Avoid emotional reactions: Empathize
Be courteous and respect the speaker by thinking not about yourself but
putting yourself in their shoes. See the topic from their perspective and
disregard what you know, how you feel or what you’ve heard about the
topic while listening. If you disagree on some point, let the speaker finish
first before you voice your opinion or feedback about the message. Keep an
open mind.
6. Be Patient
If the speaker pauses, don’t interrupt. Put yourself in their shoes, sometimes
it takes a bit of time to construct your thoughts and verbalize them so let
them finish what they are saying.
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7. Guard against prejudice
Try to avoid focusing on annoying mannerisms or how they look like. Be
impartial and disregard any distractions coming from their appearance or
sound. Focus on the message not how they delivered the message to you. If
the speaker comes from a different background, let go of your preconceived
idea about their culture and pay extra attention only to what they are
saying. Make sure to take note of non-verbal cues.
8. Focus on main points
This may take some time to practice: sort through how they verbalized the
message and focus on the main point of their message. There is no need to
remember everything word for word. Just focus on the ideas that you pick
up from them.
9. Take down notes
Develop your own system of note taking to make it second nature as you
listen. Taking down notes is very different from taking dictation. Dictation
entails word for word transcription while taking down notes may be more
on using your own words as to how you understood topic. Practice on
getting the main idea of the message.
10. Watch for verbal and non-verbal communication
Listening does not only make use of sense of hearing, it actually utilizes all of
our senses. Look out for non-verbal cues such as gestures, facial expressions,
and eye movements. These non-verbal cues either add value or contradict
what the speaker is saying verbally. Non-verbal communication also signals
how confident or nervous the speaker is, which may affect how you perceive
the message.
Always remember that in order for the communication process to happen,
we should be mindful of our roles, both as speaker and receiver. In order to
be effective in any competency we should build up our skills in listening as
it is the foundation of other competencies.
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Berlo’s SMCR model identifies several key factors that influence communication effectiveness: sender’s communication skills, attitudes, knowledge, social system, culture, message content, elements, treatment, structure, code, channel senses, and the corresponding factors in the receiver. These factors interrelate by mutually affecting each stage of the communication process; for instance, a sender's communication skills and cultural background directly impact message encoding, which may be influenced by cultural codes and structure .
Feedback in Schramm’s model is crucial as it transforms communication into a dynamic and interactive process, allowing adjustments and clarifications by providing reactions to the message received. It enhances communication by confirming message reception and understanding, thus achieving a complete exchange and preventing potential miscommunications .
In Schramm's model, 'field of experience' refers to the sum of one's cultural background, experiences, and societal context, affecting how messages are encoded and decoded. This concept implies that differences in field of experience between communicators can lead to misunderstandings, highlighting the importance of shared experiences or background in ensuring accurate message interpretation in interpersonal communication .
External noises, such as environmental sounds, and internal noises, such as emotional distractions, can disrupt focus and comprehension during communication. To mitigate these barriers, communicators can minimize environmental distractions, improve concentration by practicing mindfulness, and develop personal awareness to overcome biases and anticipated judgments about the speaker or topic .
The transactional communication model differs from linear models by emphasizing the simultaneous and continuous exchange of messages where roles of sender and receiver interchange, termed as 'communicators'. This role reversal is significant because it reflects the dynamic nature of communication, facilitating more interactive and responsive exchanges compared to the one-way directionality of linear models .
In Berlo's SMCR model, social systems—which include beliefs, values, and cultural frameworks—and knowledge—comprising familiarity with the subject matter—intersect by shaping both the encoding and decoding processes. Communicators' social contexts inform the interpretive lenses through which they perceive messages, while their knowledge determines the accuracy and relevance of message content and understanding .
The Shannon-Weaver model, also known as the Information Theory model, conceptualizes the process of message transmission as a linear sequence of steps involving a sender, encoder, channel, decoder, and receiver, with noise potentially disrupting the signal at any point. Feedback plays a minimal role within the basic model as it primarily focuses on one-way transmission of information from the sender to the receiver without the necessary inclusion of feedback mechanisms .
Active listening is essential for maintaining professional and personal relationships because it enhances understanding, reduces misinterpretations, and builds trust. Its components include full attention to the speaker, understanding both verbal and non-verbal cues, and engaging in reflective thinking to evaluate and respond to the message thoughtfully .
Cultural differences can significantly impact communication by altering the interpretation of gestures, symbols, and even verbal messages. For instance, a thumbs up can signify approval in Filipino culture but might be offensive in the Middle East. Misinterpretations arise when communicators fail to recognize or account for such differences, underscoring the need for cultural sensitivity in global interactions .
Hearing is the passive physiological process of perceiving sound, whereas listening involves actively interpreting and understanding spoken messages, utilizing sensory data and background knowledge. Listening is crucial for effective communication because it requires attention, comprehension, and the ability to attach meaning to the messages, as opposed to mere auditory reception, which might miss nuanced information necessary for meaningful exchanges .