Comm Skills Notes
Comm Skills Notes
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Notes/Handbook
1 – HANDBOOK/NOTES COMPILED BY M B M
Contents
1 INTRODUCTION TO COMMUNICATION
In this section, we shall examine the field of communication to serve as a foundation to what follows in the
course. Principally, we shall define communication; outline its elements, principles, and its importance in
academic and life in general. We shall also briefly examine the various types of communication.
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Therefore, there are various reasons why studying communication is important:
a) Studying communication helps in understanding and insight of oneself and others.
Self-awareness is the way we see ourselves. Most of our self-knowledge comes from
communication with ourselves (intrapersonal communication) and communication with
other people (interpersonal communication). The message and feedback we receive from
others helps improve our self-concept.
b) Studying communication and using it effectively can lead to more positive feelings of ourselves.
Effective communication can improve our self-worth by enabling us to positively project ourselves in
what is called image management.
c) Studying communication can increase our knowledge about human relationships because studying
communication includes learning about how people relate with one another and about what
communication is appropriate for a given situation.
d) Studying communication can teach us important life skills. For instance, it can help us acquire
problem solving skills. Studying communication is also instrumental in helping us acquire important
life skills such as decision-making skills, public speaking etc. All these skills are important in academic
and career development.
e) Studying communication can help us succeed professionally. Employers regard highly written, oral,
and other communication competencies. The ability to listen and analyze messages is usually
considered an essential professional skill. Entrepreneurs too regard communication skills as top
priority skills for success.
f) Poor communication may lead to misunderstanding, frustration, being ignored by others,
unsuccessful careers, among many other negative consequences.
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g) Noise
Noise is any interference in encoding or decoding process that reduces the clarity of a message.
Noise can be in the form of:
i) Physical noise, which can be in form of distracting sounds or sights. Such noise is usually easier
to prevent in a speaking or listening situation. For example, closing doors to a noisy room,
wearing ear plugs etc.
ii) Psychological/noise, mental and emotional interferences that distract communication, such as
daydreaming, pain, hunger and the like.
iii) Semantic noise, which is the use of expressions that are unknown to the receiver or are too
complex in grammatical structure. They include language differences, inattention and
misunderstanding caused by different interpretations of a word or an expression. Cultural
diversity can also lead to semantic noise.
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make choices of channel, and all these aspects must be combined strategically to pass across a
unified message.
ii) Communication is also complicated because of our differing perception of the same object that
we may wish to communicate about.
i) Verbal communication: this type of communication relies on the oral-auditory signal for
communication.
ii) Graphic communication: this communication is also known as visual communication. It involves
visual representation of ideas facts and objects other than written communication e.g., cartoons,
graphs, charts, models, objects etc.
iii) Written communication: this is the use of visual symbols, representing language, on a surface
which is read by receivers.
iv) Non-verbal communication: this is the use of visual or oral auditory signals that do not primarily
rely on language or verbalized message for communication to take place.
The term verbal communication is often used broadly to capture all spoken and written forms of
communication, and used in opposition to non-verbal
Non-verbal communication may sometimes contradict and override verbal messages.
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Non-verbal communication can be used effectively to reinforce one’s verbal message, to express
emotions and attitudes, and to express one’s personality
Haptics
Kinesics
Olfactics
Chronemics
Proxemics
i) Upward communication
This is communicating with people who rank above you, such as your boss or instructor.
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NOTE: The direction your communication flows at any given time will influence how you communicate –
the words you use and the method you choose.
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1.6.3 7 Cs’ of Communication
Effective communication must apply the following 7 essentials, whether you are speaking or writing. Using
these 7Cs will ensure that your communication is coherent and easy to follow.
1. Clarity
You must communicate so clearly that you cannot be misunderstood, i.e. it is not enough to communicate
so you can be understood.
Ask the following key questions to test how clear your communication is:
2. Completeness
Complete communication includes enough details so that the recipient will not need to ask for more
information. For example – if you receive a message from your lecturer asking you to pick your graded
papers on Wednesday, how do you know which Wednesday it should be?
To be complete, a communication should answer the following questions: Who? What? Where? When?
Why? How? or How much?
Ask the following key questions to test how complete your communication is:
1.6.2.1 Concise communication avoids unnecessary words that could hamper the same communication.
Such extra words may clutter the message and distort it all together. Conciseness makes the
message more understandable and comprehensible.
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For conciseness:
WORDY CONCISE
Due to the fact that Because
In due course Soon
At this time Now
Few in number Few
On a weekly basis Weekly
In spite of the fact that Although
Until such time as Until
Meet together Meet
In-class exercise:
Revise the following statement, which is too wordy and eliminate seven unnecessary words (‘fillers’).
“I am writing this letter to inform you that your airline tickets will be mailed ten days before your scheduled
departure”.
4. Consistency
Consistency in fact refers to agreement with a source document or an established fact. For example, an
exam scheduled for 31st April should be questioned since April has only 30 days.
Consistency in treatment means treating similar items the same way. For example using the courtesy title
(Mr., Mrs., Miss., or Ms.) with names of all recipients of a letter or indenting all paragraphs in a report.
5. Correctness
This refers to all the information in the message being accurate – the content, the spelling, the
capitalization and the punctuation. The following guidelines can ensure your communication achieves
correctness:
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Maintain acceptable writing mechanics
6. Consideration
This refers to the use of the ‘You-attitude’ instead of the ‘I’ or ‘We-attitude’. Consideration applies
sympathy, the human touch and understanding of human nature. It means the message is sent with the
receiver in mind. You should try to visualize your readers; their desires, problems, emotions, circumstances
and possible reaction to your communication.
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7. Courtesy
NOTE: Concreteness: (sometimes used in the place of consistency – either one of them is ok.)
This refers to when communication is specific definite unambiguous and vivid rather than vague and
general. The following guidelines lead to concreteness.
3. When to quit.
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1.7 The objectives of communication
Whether we are speaking, writing, persuading, informing, entertaining, explaining, convincing, educating or
any other objective behind the communication, we always have four general objectives:
1. Differences in opinion
Our worldviews are largely determined by our past experiences. As vast as these experiences are, so are
the perceptions and interpretations of the world that people have. Age, nationality, culture, education,
occupation, sex, status, personality etc, all bring to bear the difference in perception.
2. Jumping to conclusions
We often see what we expect to see, thus hear what we expect to hear, rather than what is intended. This
may lead us to unnecessary conclusions.
3. Stereotyping
Our experiences could run us the risk of treating different people as if they were the same.
4. Lack of knowledge
Communication is adversely affected if it is exchanged between persons whose knowledge of the subject is
varied or whose backgrounds regarding the subject are too different.
It requires skill on the part of the communicator to be aware of the discrepancy between the levels of
knowledge, thus communicate accordingly.
5. Lack of interest
This is lacking alertness to the message being sent. As an effective communicator, you should avoid
assuming that your interest in the specific subject is everyone’s interest, thus angle your message to appeal
to the interests and needs of the receiver.
This refers to difficulty expressing or conveying your message as clearly as possible. It includes lack of
vocabulary as well as lack of confidence, both of which can be overcome by improving your vocabulary and
preparing carefully respectively.
7. Emotions
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Both the receiver and communicator could harbor strongly felt emotions that could prevent almost
anything from being communicated. Such emotions could entirely distort the communication and should
be avoided.
However, any audience knows that a speaker without emotion and enthusiasm is likely to be a dull speaker.
Emotion just needs a clear balance.
8. Personality
Our personality traits/behaviors can affect the behavior of others in a communication situation. We may
not be able to change the personalities of others, but at least we should be prepared to consider our own
personality to see if change in behavior may result in more satisfactory relationships, thus better
communication.
2.1 Introduction
In this section, we are interested in discussing listening as an invaluable skill in the communication process.
We shall also endeavor to show how listening is connected to critical thinking.
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2.5 The Listening Process
The listening process involves receiving oral stimuli (music, words or sounds) in the ear ( Hearing). The ear
translates the vibration from oral stimuli into sensation that is registered by the brain (Listening). The brain,
using attention and working memory, interprets the sensation and gives it meaning ( Interpretation). The
interpreted message is then stored in short term memory for immediate use ( Retaining) or long term
memory for future recall (Recalling).
This refers to attentively listening to the speaker’s actual words, as well as tone of voice, and observing
the body language and emotions displayed. Reflective listening is particularly an important tool in one-
on-one situations. It is not practical in a speaker-audience situation.
f) Passive listening
This means concentrating at a low level and absorbing just enough of the speaker’s words to stay involved
in a conversation or speech. Such listening is characterized by:
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2.8 Improving Listening skills
Listening behavior also varies from culture to culture. For instance, African listeners may look away from
you instead of maintaining eye contact, while Japanese listeners often close their eyes when they are
concentrating.
However, even such cultural orientations are not an excuse to effective listening.
You can us these five strategies to enhance, reinforce and develop your listening skills:
Listening barriers are any distractions that interfere with listening, for example:
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2. Evaluate your skills: everyone has listening weakness; you must therefore identify your weaknesses.
3. Prepare yourself physically and mentally: listening is a combination of physical and mental activities.
4. Set listening priorities: because you are bombarded with several messages at once, decide which ones
deserve your focus.
5. Make efficient use of available time: do not rush through your conversation as you may lack full
understanding of the message.
6. Listen attentively: be attentive and show interest in the speaker’s message.
7. Listen for ideas and feelings: look out for information as well as the speaker’s tone of voice.
8. Establish eye contact: do not stare at the speaker, instead, glance away periodically to reflect on the
topic.
9. Use body language to show you are listening: body language can convey you level of interest. Employ
appropriate non-verbal cues.
10. Overlook personal characteristics of the speaker: do not prejudge a speaker based on distracting
personal characteristics such as mannerisms, voice, speech patterns or appearance.
11. Choose strategic seating: posture can affect listening; therefore choose a physical location that is
conducive, comfortable and practical.
12. Ask questions if permitted: this helps clarify the speaker’s information.
13. Take notes: jot down key ideas or concepts for further referencing.
One method to help you retain the content of a speaker’s message is to think of the strategies represented
by the letters in the sentence “IS A FACT”:
Identify – identify the speaker’s ideas and connections among the ideas
Summarize – summarize the main points of the message
Assess – assess the correctness or validity of the message
Formulate – formulate appropriate questions
Associate – associate the speaker’s ideas with other known concepts
Consider – consider specific ways the information might be used
Take notes – take notes to assist in better recall (to bring to mind)
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3 READING SKILLS
3.1 Introduction
In this section, we shall examine reading as an important communication skill that you as a university
student will be constantly engaged in as you research, conduct routine study as well as during revision for
examinations. We shall therefore be concerned with how you can develop effective reading skills that you
can use in your university studies and life after college.
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3.5 Types of Reading
Types of reading refer to styles we may adopt in our reading as determined by the purpose for which we
are reading. Types of reading include:
a) Scanning – This style or technique is used when you are looking for a name, definition or any other
specific piece of information in a text like a house in classified ads, addresses or phone in a
directory, an important concept, information for a research essay in a library catalogue, table of
content, index page etc. In using the technique you move your eye quickly over the page to find
particular words or phrases that are relevant to specific information you are looking for.
Ensure that the text he/she is scanning is the correct text and that he/she knows precisely what he
is looking for.
Try to determine the text structure or its style of arrangement, i.e. clues or signals which can assist
in understanding the text pattern.
Scan with speed without reading extraneous or irrelevant material.
b) Skimming – In this technique you read quickly through a text to get a grip of the main ideas or
general information about the text. In using this technique you intend to get a general grasp of
ideas presented by the author. This technique is useful when:
i) Trying to decide if a book in library is useful or right for your studies.
ii) Previewing books or texts before detailed reading.
iii) Refreshing your understanding of a text after you have read it in detail.
As an efficient reading strategy, skimming is a very useful skill both for recreational and study reading. In
study reading, it is useful for the following reasons:
It can be used at the preliminary stages of selecting texts for research or selecting reserved and
supplementary literature. It helps determine which texts merit more careful and thorough reading
and which specific parts of those texts are worth spending time on.
It can be used as an exercise for improving speed and therefore performance and for coping with
high quantity work. It can enable a reader cover a lot of material in a short time, therefore saving
time.
It is one of those skills used in the reading for the main idea only when the supporting details or
other extraneous materials are not important.
c) Active/detailed reading – This technique is used in serious study. It calls for an active involvement
in the reading process. In this type of reading you need to interrogate or think over what you read
so as to both evaluate what you have read and facilitate recall of read material. This is the kind of
reading that is most extensively used at university during study. As you use this type of reading the
following tips are important.
i) Always make notes
ii) Pick out what you think are the important points of what you are reading by highlighting these
points.
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iii) Record main headings as you read, this helps you to see the flow of your reading and notes.
iv) As you prepare for active reading note down questions you want the material to answer.
v) After you have read a section of text and have made a summary of what you have read in your
notes, skim through the text and check how accurate your summary is. As you do this, fill in
gaps that you may notice in your notes.
d) Extensive reading is purposeful, organized, wide reading of long texts such as journals, novels,
magazines, periodicals etc, especially those that relate to one’s area of study, to enrich one’s
vocabulary, which is basic to all good reading.
e) Intensive reading is a concentrated, thorough, and comprehensive reading style. It is applied when
one wants to understand the contents of the reading deeply. It is an intellectually involving affair
that the reader will be trying to evaluate how the ideas involved could be applied or adapted to
different situations. It is also analytical, critical and interpretive. It could involve a paragraph, a
whole passage or even a whole book, like in the case of a literature book.
f) Light reading – this is the type of reading that we apply when reading papers and novels for leisure.
This does not involve any critical assessment or appraisal of the material one is reading. It is fast
and superficial.
g) Word by word reading – this is the style used by beginners when they are reading for the first time
and to understand each word or phrase at a time. It is also applicable when one is reading scientific
or mathematics process or formula.
This is reading aloud (the tendency to register the sound of the words as you read), which wastes time and
creates a sub-process as follows:
According to Pearson (1981), the reading process involves a) visual perception, b) response to visual stimuli,
c) transmission to brain, d) decoding (giving meaning), e) vocalizing, f) response to mental stimuli
(understanding or not). As a result, vocalization slows down this reading process. Henry Pearson (1981)
observed that reading aloud takes at least twice as long as reading silently and yet it is not any more
effective.
b) Sub-vocalization
This is where the reader makes a conscious effort not to move his/her lips when reading but his/her
internal speech organs, larynx or vocal cords are mechanically working. That is, the tendency to internally
acknowledge or pronounce the sound of the words in your head.
These habits not only affect the rate of reading but also affect the comprehension, since they prevent the
reader from grasping full phrases and clauses, therefore hindering him/her from understanding the ideas
expressed fully.
Fixations are the stops a reader takes to take in a word or phrase and then move on to the next.
A narrow recognition span wastes time and energy and therefore affects one’s rate and comprehension.
Efficient readers take in several words per fixation, which should be at least a phrase. Thus, rhythmically,
eyes should move systematically from the middle of one phrase to another.
This is glancing back and re-reading words, phrases and sentences that have already been read. It is a
characteristic of lacking concentration and poor reading. It affects comprehension because it interrupts the
reading process (though process). An efficient reader should always move forward.
NB: Regression is different from review, which is done after, for clarification.
a) Survey – stands for a rapid preview of material to get an overview a topic, chapter, or book. The idea
here is to look for main points of the text, its content and approach. In doing this:
i) Read the title to help give you an idea of the subject.
ii) Read the introduction or summary to see what the author thinks are the key points.
iii) Notice boldface headings to see what the structure of the text is.
iv) Notice any maps, charts or graphs which give a summation of ideas in the text.
v) Notice reading aids and any questions at the end of chapter because they are meant to help you
understand and remember.
b) Question – When reading you should develop a questioning attitude. Questions help your mind to
engage and concentrate. This is because your mind is actively engaged when it is looking for answers
to questions. In using questions as you read, keep in mind the following:
i) Try to turn bold face headings into questions you think the section should answer.
ii) Ask yourself:
What is the main point being made here?
What is author trying to explain here?
Have I understood the argument and conclusion?
c) Read – After formulating questions you can start reading the material carefully in detail. The approach
you take in reading may depend on subject. If the subject is complex your reading may be slower and
if the subject is familiar, you might adopt a faster pace. How you read may also be determined by
your personal approach. As you read:
i) Remember to take notes.
ii) Engage actively with your material.
iii) Look for answers to questions you have set for yourself and make up new questions if
necessary.
d) Recall – After each section, stop and think back to your questions. See if you can answer them from
memory. If not look back at the text. Do this as often as you need to. As you do this you may highlight
important points of your notes.
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e)Review – Once you have finished reading, for instance, a whole chapter or section, go back over all
questions in all headings to see if you can still answer them. If not, look back and refresh your
memory. Do this as an important part of your revision for exams.
2. Taking notes helps you concentrate while you are studying because the note taking process helps
you process and digest the information.
3. Making notes helps you assess information because you are selecting the most important parts of
what you are reading or hearing. Through making notes, you are also spotting the key issues and
ideas of the materials.
4. Note taking also helps you think about the subject. Writing down ideas often produces ideas about
other ideas you already know. This makes you think and connect what you are noting down with
what you already know. This process, therefore, makes remembering of information more likely.
2. Show the difference between main points, supporting points and examples. This can be done by use of
highlighting through the use of colours, underlining, or using various types of font or bolding for the
different aspects of your notes.
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3. Listen, read or watch closely the source of notes while carefully thinking about the subject and decide
which part of source material are most useful, then put them down in your own words as your notes.
4. Brevity is important in taking notes. Use abbreviations wherever possible. You could also achieve
brevity by adopting mathematical or scientific symbols or device your own personal code of symbols
and signs.
5. Use note cards and list each new idea on a new line
6. Use phrases, not complete sentences to save time
7. Use abbreviations when possible
8. Never take verbatim notes, unless you need a direct quote
9. Use pen rather than pencil
10. Use underlining and asterisks to indicate important points
11. Number items, put information in bulleted lists, or use an outline to make it easier to review notes
12. Leave space in the margins for additional notes
13. Write on only one side of the paper or note card
14. Watch for clues: repetition of words or topics, handouts with key phrases or terms
15. Create networks, just in case you miss out important points during a lecture
16. Use a second note page for listing questions and their answers
17. Begin each day’s notes with a heading that includes the name or number of the course,
instructor’s/speaker’s name, date and topic of the day
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