Mother-to-Mother Support Groups
Fac i l i tato r ’ s M a n u a l wi t h D i s c u ss i o n G u i d e
Photos: PATH/Evelyn Hockstein
March 2011
This document was produced through support provided by the United States Agency for
International Development, under the terms of Cooperative Agreement No. GPO-A-00-06-
00008-00. The opinions herein are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the
views of the United States Agency for International Development.
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Acknowledgments
This manual was originally prepared by PATH in Kenya with funding support from the
United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) and technical review and oversight from the
Kenya Ministry of Public Health and Sanitation. The Infant & Young Child Nutrition (IYCN)
Project updated this manual to reflect the 2010 World Health Organization (WHO)
Guidelines on HIV and Infant Feeding.
Content for this manual is based on several key mother-to-mother support and infant and
young child feeding publications including:
Training of Trainers for Mother-to-Mother Support Groups (LINKAGES)
Behavior Change Communication for Improved Infant Feeding – Training of Trainers
for Negotiating Sustainable Behavior Change (LINKAGES)
Community-Based Breastfeeding Support: A Training Curriculum (Wellstart
International)
Infant Feeding Counselling: An Integrated Course (WHO/UNICEF)
Preparation of Trainer’s Course: Mother-to-Mother Support Group Methodology,
and Breastfeeding and Complementary Feeding Basics Instructional Planning
Training Package. (CARE/Window of Opportunity Project)
We are grateful to these authors for excellent information and activities. Complete citations
are available in the reference section of this manual.
About PATH
PATH is an international nonprofit organization that creates sustainable, culturally relevant
solutions, enabling communities worldwide to break longstanding cycles of poor health. By
collaborating with diverse public- and private-sector partners, PATH helps provide
appropriate health technologies and vital strategies that change the way people think and act.
PATH’s work improves global health and well-being.
For more information, please visit www.path.org.
About the Infant & Young Child Nutrition Project
The IYCN Project is the United States Agency for International Development’s flagship
project on infant and young child nutrition. Begun in 2006, the five-year project aims to
improve nutrition for mothers, infants, and young children, and prevent the transmission of
HIV to infants and children. IYCN builds on 25 years of the United States Agency for
International Development leadership in maternal, infant, and young child nutrition. Our
focus is on proven interventions that are effective during pregnancy through the first two
years of life.
For more information, please visit www.iycn.org.
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Table of contents
Acknowledgments......................................................................................................................ii
Notes to mother-to-mother support group facilitators ............................................................... 1
Purpose of this discussion guide ............................................................................................ 1
Mother-to-mother support groups overview .......................................................................... 1
Understanding mother-to-mother support groups.................................................................. 2
Support group structure.......................................................................................................... 3
Facilitator responsibilities ..................................................................................................... 5
Facilitation tips....................................................................................................................... 5
Discussion guide ........................................................................................................................ 7
First mother-to-mother support group meeting....................................................................... 8
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding ................................................................................. 11
Starting breastfeeding immediately ...................................................................................... 14
Breastfeeding success ........................................................................................................... 16
Lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) ............................................................................... 19
Expressing breastmilk ........................................................................................................... 21
Mother-to-child transmission of HIV ................................................................................... 26
Infant feeding and HIV ......................................................................................................... 30
Feeding babies at 6 months ................................................................................................... 32
Giving other foods after 6 months ........................................................................................ 34
Feeding your child ................................................................................................................ 37
Eating during pregnancy and breastfeeding .......................................................................... 39
Infant feeding beliefs and myths ........................................................................................... 41
Feeding HIV-exposed children from 6 months .................................................................... 42
Background notes..................................................................................................................... 45
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding ................................................................................ 45
Additional information on benefits of breastfeeding ........................................................... 46
Start breastfeeding immediately after giving birth .............................................................. 46
Positioning and attachment .................................................................................................. 46
Exclusive breastfeeding ....................................................................................................... 48
Lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) .............................................................................. 48
Special situations affecting breastfeeding ............................................................................ 54
Expressing breastmilk .......................................................................................................... 56
Mother-to-child transmission of HIV .................................................................................. 58
Infant feeding and HIV ........................................................................................................ 61
Feeding babies at 6 months .................................................................................................. 62
Complementary feeding ....................................................................................................... 63
Preparing foods safely.......................................................................................................... 64
Helping children to eat ......................................................................................................... 64
Feeding children of HIV-positive mothers from 6 months of age ....................................... 65
Planning and reporting tools .................................................................................................... 68
References ................................................................................................................................ 70
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Notes to mother-to-mother support group facilitators
Purpose of this discussion guide
This guide was developed at the request of mother-to-mother support group facilitators in
Western Kenya. It is meant to provide more detailed background information on possible
support group topics for facilitators to use to prepare for meetings, or to do research if
mothers have questions that facilitators do not know the answers to.
The sample sessions in this guide are not meant to be presented as “health talks” during
support group meetings. Support group meetings are successful when the facilitator raises a
topic and then asks questions to prompt discussion among the members. Using this discussion
guide as the basis for a lecture would discourage group members from expressing their own
ideas and sharing their strategies for implementing optimal infant and young child nutrition
practices. The sample sessions can be read beforehand to help a facilitator feel better
prepared for her support group meeting.
Mother-to-mother support groups overview
Mother-to-mother support groups (MtMSG) are groups of women, of any age, who come
together to learn about and discuss issues of infant and young child nutrition (IYCN). These
women also support each other as they care for children ages 0–5 years. One member of each
group will be trained on IYCN, as well as on basic group facilitation techniques. This person
will be responsible for engaging group members in discussion about IYCN and providing
basic health education in an interactive, participatory manner.
To maximize the effectiveness and sustainability of such groups, mobilization efforts should
focus on identifying and recruiting existing community groups with women members instead
of forming entirely new groups. Groups should be recruited based on their interest in IYCN
and their regular meeting times, as well as their ability to identify one key member who can
undergo training on IYCN.
Possible groups for mobilization include:
Women’s groups
Church groups
Married adolescent groups
Breastfeeding groups
Groups for preventing mother-to-child transmission (PMTCT) of HIV
Groups for people living with HIV/AIDS (PLHA)
By using groups of women who already meet on a regular basis, we can tap into sustainable,
ongoing mechanisms to spread additional information about IYCN. The women get together
for other reasons, but can supplement this work with additional sessions and information on
IYCN.
If forming a completely new group, it’s important that women understand the purpose of
these sessions and feel confident they can manage their own group. MtMSG will not be
financially sustained in any way. It’s a group formed for the purpose of providing support and
sharing information about IYCN.
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Understanding mother-to-mother support groups
Feeling support usually means that we feel as sense of trust, acceptance, self-worth, value,
and respect. When we are supported we can share information better, learn new skills, talk
about our thoughts and feelings, and feel connected to others.
A support group is formed when people come together with a common interest or life
experience. It may be informal or formal, but includes the following:
Safe environment
Sense of respect
Sharing information
Availability of practical help
Sharing responsibility
Acceptance
Learning together and from each other
Emotional connection
A mother-to-mother support group is a meeting where pregnant women and mothers with
young children, as well as other people with similar interests, come together in a safe place to
exchange ideas, share experiences, give and receive information, and at the same time, offer
and receive support in breastfeeding, child rearing, and women’s health. Mother-to-mother
support group activities can take place within an existing women’s support group.
Mother-to-mother support groups have the following characteristics:
Groups have up to 15 participants.
Members decide how often they meet.
Members decide how long their meetings are.
Members support each other through sharing experiences and information.
The group is made up of pregnant and lactating women and other interested people
Facilitation is by a breastfeeding counselor with experience (with a co-facilitator who
has less experience).
The group is open, allowing for new members.
Members decide on the topics to be discussed.
Facilitator responsibilities include:
Identifying future participants.
Choosing the date, time, and meeting place.
Preparing for the topic.
Inviting participants to the meeting.
Choosing the meeting time and place:
Time: It should not interfere with the primary activities of the members (preparation
of meals, washing, market days, chores, work schedules, etc.).
Accessibility: If it is a home, it should not be more than 15–25 minutes walking
distance from the homes of members. If the community is spread out, the health
centre, church, or school could be a good alternative.
Place: The place should be safe so that members can bring their children.
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Preparing for a meeting:
Think of who was invited and prepare a topic that would be of interest to them and
that they are able to discuss.
Prepare questions that will generate a discussion.
Think about questions new mothers usually have about their experiences.
Review the content so you feel prepared to answer questions.
Facilitating the first meeting:
At the beginning of the meeting, the facilitator greets and welcomes everyone.
She explains the objectives of the meeting.
She asks each participant to introduce themselves, tell the others how they feel about
being there, what they expect from the group, and to answer a question as an ice
breaker. For example: Share an experience when you felt truly supported.
After introductions, the participants make agreements about how the group will
function.
Suggested rules (or agreements) for support groups:
Any personal experience or information shared during the groups should not be
discussed outside the group.
Each person has the right to express themselves, give suggestions, and propose
activities or topics.
No one should dominate the conversation.
Each person defines the type of support she needs in the group—for example, advice,
support, information, or just being listened to.
Each person has the right to be listened to and the duty to listen to others.
Support group structure
Support group meetings can focus on one topic or be open. When the support group is open,
the facilitator asks each participant if she would like a turn doing the introduction and may
make a list of people who wish to participate during that meeting. Participants then take turns
discussing topics of personal interest, sharing information, or requesting support from each
other. The participants in the group may decide they wish to have an agreed topic for each
meeting and they decide on the topic. Groups may decide to have a combination with some
meetings open for discussion and some meetings structured, or meetings that have times that
are structured and times that are open. Whatever the decisions, they should be made and
agreed upon by the group as part of the process to set rules for the meeting. For example:
If a group has an open structure, the facilitator may ask for any announcements that
participants have, ask people how they are feeling, and whether they would like to
have a turn to speak.
If the group is more structured, the facilitator may announce the topic, give a brief
introduction, and then ask a question to generate a discussion.
Topics are decided based on the interests of the group members.
Encouraging participation:
Ask other questions to encourage discussion.
When there is a question, the counselor should direct it to the group to see if another
member can answer it.
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Facilitators should talk only when there are questions that the group cannot answer or
to offer an explanation or correct information to clarify some confusion.
The best support group meeting is one when the members have spoken more than the
facilitator.
Support groups for improved infant feeding:
Support groups allow us to reach a larger number of mothers (and interested
community members) in order to offer them information and support.
Information and support are given to help prevent problems and barriers to exclusive
breastfeeding and can lead to the timely introduction of complementary foods.
Sharing experiences helps women to overcome these barriers; a supportive
environment helps mothers to adopt and continue optimal infant feeding practices.
Mother support groups have been shown to be an effective way to improve infant
feeding practices all over the world.
Characteristics of a mother-to-mother support group
1. Provides a safe environment of respect, attention, trust, sincerity, and empathy.
2. Allows women to:
Share breastfeeding information and personal experiences.
Mutually support each other through their own experiences.
Strengthen or modify certain attitudes and practices.
Learn from each other.
3. Allows women to reflect on their experiences, doubts, difficulties, popular beliefs, myths,
information, and adequate breastfeeding practices. In this safe environment the mother
has the knowledge and confidence needed to decide to either strengthen or modify her
breastfeeding practices.
4. Is not a LECTURE or CLASS. All participants play an active role.
5. Focuses on the importance of mother-to-mother communication. In this way all the
women can express their ideas, knowledge, and doubts, share experiences and receive
and give support to the other women who make up the group.
6. Has a seating arrangement that allows all participants to have eye-to-eye contact.
7. Varies in size from 3 to 15 participants.
8. Is facilitated by an experienced breastfeeding mother who listens and guides the
discussion.
9. Is open, allowing the admission of all interested pregnant women, mothers who are
breastfeeding, women with older toddlers, and other interested women.
10. The facilitator and the participants of the mother-to-mother support group decide on the
length of the meeting and the frequency of the meetings (number per month).
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Facilitator responsibilities
1. Greet and welcome all who are attending.
2. Create a comfortable atmosphere in which women feel free to share their experiences.
3. Lead introductions.
4. Explain the objectives of the meeting and give a brief introduction of the topic.
5. Listen actively to the participants and give each one full attention.
6. Maintain eye contact and exhibit other appropriate body language.
7. Ask questions to generate a discussion.
8. Raise other questions to stimulate discussion when necessary.
9. Direct questions to other participants of the group.
10. Limit interruptions and outside distractions.
11. Talk only when there are questions that the group cannot answer; offer explanations
and correct or clarify information.
12. Briefly summarize the theme of the day.
Facilitation tips
Participation and dialogue are essential. When facilitating a workshop, think of it as a
discussion – not a lecture. Be sure to involve participants in the discussion, listen to them
with interest and respect, and ask them questions. Talking about health topics can be
uncomfortable. Try to talk in a way that makes people feel comfortable and encourages them
to ask questions and listen closely. It is important that people feel respected and safe.
The following facilitation tips can help engage participants:
Thank participants when they contribute to the discussion or share their views or
experiences. People need to feel that their comments and questions are valued.
Try to have as many different people participate in the discussion as possible. To
encourage participation, say, “Is there anyone else who has something to share?”
Never call on an individual directly as it can make her uncomfortable.
Listen closely when people are talking. Demonstrating that you are listening can help
participants feel confident and comfortable when speaking in front of the group.
Do not interrupt people when they are speaking. If someone is talking for too long and
you must interrupt them, be sure to apologize.
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Mother-to-mother support group observation checklist
Community: ___________________________ Place: _____________________________
Date: _____________Time: _____________________Theme: ______________________
Group facilitator(s): _________________________________________________________
The facilitator(s) introduce themselves to the group.
The facilitator(s) clearly explain the day’s theme.
The facilitator(s) ask questions that generate participation.
The facilitator(s) motivate the quiet women to participate.
The facilitator(s) apply communication skills.
The facilitator(s) adequately manage content.
The facilitator(s) adequately distribute the tasks between themselves.
Mothers share their own experiences.
The participants sit in a circle.
The facilitator(s) fill out the information sheet on their group.
The facilitator(s) invite women to attend the next mother-to-mother support group (place,
date, and theme).
The facilitator(s) thank the women for participating.
The facilitator(s) ask women to talk to a pregnant woman or breastfeeding mother in their
community before the next meeting, share what they have learned, and report back.
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Discussion guide
Photo: Evelyn Hockstein
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First mother-to-mother support group meeting
Objectives
By the end of this discussion, participants will be able to:
Agree on group norms.
Identify topics for future sessions.
Session guide
1. Greet and welcome all participants. Ask participants to join you and sit in a circle at the
same level. Ask each participant to introduce themselves and talk about what they expect
from the group.
2. Ask: What does the word “support” mean to you?
3. Encourage several participants to respond and then share the following:
Feeling support usually means that we feel a sense of trust, acceptance, self-worth, value,
and respect. When we are supported we can share information better, learn new skills,
talk about our thoughts and feelings, and feel connected to others.
4. Ask a few participants to share an experience when they felt truly supported.
5. Explain that in order for us to support each other, it is important that our group is a safe
place for all members. Ask: How can we make sure that our group functions with safety
and trust for all members? Encourage participants to discuss.
6. Review the following suggestions for group norms or rules for support groups:
Any personal experience or information shared during the groups should not be
discussed outside the group.
Each person has the right to express themselves, give suggestions, and propose
activities or topics.
Each person defines the type of support she needs in the group—for example, advice,
support, information, or just being listened to.
Each person has the right to be listened to and the duty to listen to others.
Ask: Are there any other rules or agreements that should be added?
7. Present the following information:
Support group meetings can focus on one topic or be open. When the support group is
open, I will ask each of you if you wish to participate during that meeting. You will then
take turns discussing topics of personal interest, sharing information, or requesting
support from each other. You all may decide to have an agreed topic for each meeting and
choose the topic. Groups may decide to have a combination, with some meetings open for
discussion and some meetings structured, or meetings that have times that are structured
and times that are open. Whatever the decisions, we can make them as a group as part of
the process to set rules for the meeting.
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8. Share the following information:
At each meeting I will ask for any announcements that you may have, ask how you all
are feeling, and ask whether there is something you would like to discuss.
Then I will announce the topic (we will decide on topics as a group, based on our
interests), give a brief introduction, and then ask a question to generate a discussion
on that topic.
9. Explain that in these meetings we will focus on issues about how best to feed babies and
young children, but we can talk about any health topic you are interested in. How children
are fed is important because:
More than half of all child deaths are associated with children not eating well and
growing properly. When babies and children do not eat well, are sick often, or are not
cared for properly, it can make their bodies weak and unable to fight illness.
If a woman does not eat well during pregnancy, or if her child does not eat well
during the first two years of life, the child’s physical and mental growth and
development may be slowed. This cannot be made up when the child is older—it will
affect the child for the rest of his or her life.
10. Explain that there is a lot of incorrect information about how best to feed babies and
young children and that we will use these meetings to share accurate information and
address challenges to properly feeding our children.
11. Ask participants to stand in the middle of the meeting space. Explain that you will read a
statement; if they agree they should move to the right side (point to this side). If they
disagree they should move to the left side. Encourage everyone to move to a side— if
they do not feel strongly they can go to the side that is closest to how they feel.
Note: This activity is an opportunity for you as the group facilitator to get a better
understanding of participants’ attitudes and beliefs about infant feeding for you to keep in
mind as you facilitate sessions over the next several months. It can also help you to
prioritize which topics to discuss first. If participants have questions about whether or not
something is correct, you can provide them with correct information, but let them know
that these topics will be discussed in detail during future sessions.
12. Read the following statements one at a time. After participants have moved, ask a few
from each side to explain why they are standing on that side.
Breastmilk is best for babies when they are first born, but after 2–3 months, babies
start to become hungry and need to eat other foods.
Cow’s milk is a good substitute for breastmilk when a woman is away from her baby
or does not have enough breastmilk.
Breastfeeding should be discouraged for women who are HIV positive because HIV
can be transmitted through breastmilk.
It is important to give water to young babies, especially when the weather is very hot.
There are many reasons why women are unable to give only breastmilk for the first 6
months—it is very difficult.
It is better to throw away the first milk that comes in since it is watery and does not
help the baby.
Most children born to mothers who are HIV infected will become infected with HIV.
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13. Explain that over the course of our meetings we will talk about common beliefs and
practices related to infant feeding and support each other to feed and care for our children
in the best and safest way possible.
14. Ask: What are some issues around infant feeding and child health that you would like to
discuss during our future meetings? Use the space below to write down the topics that
participants have.
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15. Answer any questions that participants have about mother-to-mother support groups and
remind participants of the next meeting time.
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Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding for the baby.
List the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding for the mother.
List the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding for the family.
List the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding for the community.
Session guide
1. Ask: What does exclusive breastfeeding mean?
2. Explain that exclusive breastfeeding means giving only breastmilk (and no other foods or
liquids—not even water) whenever the baby wants for the first 6 months.
3. Divide participants into three groups and assign one of the following to each group:
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding for the baby
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding for the mother
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding for the family and community
4. After 5 to 10 minutes, ask a representative from each group to share all of the advantages
they discussed. Ask: Were any advantages not mentioned?
5. Review the advantages participants identified and add any of the following that were not
listed:
BENEFITS OF EXCLUSIVE BREASTFEEDING
Baby Mother Family and community
Supplies everything the baby needs to Reduces blood loss Is available 24 hours a
grow well during the first 6 months of life after birth (immediate day
Digests easily and does not cause breastfeeding) Reduces the need to buy
constipation Is always ready at the medicine because the
Protects against diarrhea and right temperature baby is sick less often
pneumonia Saves time and Is always ready at the
Provides antibodies to illnesses money right temperature
Protects against infection, including ear Makes night feedings Delays new pregnancy,
infections easier helping to space and
Delays return of time pregnancies
During illness helps keep baby well-
hydrated fertility Reduces time lost from
Reduces the risk of work to care for a sick
Reduces the risks of allergies baby
breast and ovarian
Increases mental development cancer Children perform better
Promotes proper jaw, teeth, and speech Promotes bonding in school
development More children survive
Suckling at breast is comforting to baby
when fussy, overtired, ill, or hurt
Promotes bonding
Is the baby’s first immunization
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6. Explain that the Government of Kenya is committed to promoting, protecting, and
supporting optimal infant and young child feeding practices, including exclusive
breastfeeding for the first 6 months, because feeding children properly can have important
health, social, and economic benefits. One optimal infant feeding practice that we will
focus on today is exclusive breastfeeding. The Government of Kenya and international
health experts recommend giving babies only breastmilk (and nothing else) from the time
they are born until they are 6 months old. Ask: Why do you think this is recommended?
Encourage participants to discuss and remember the advantages we discussed earlier.
7. Present the following information:
Breastmilk is the perfect food for a baby during the first 6 months. It has everything a
baby needs in the right amounts to grow and develop.
Breastmilk is made to perfectly meet the needs of baby humans, just as cow milk is
made to meet the needs of baby cows and goat milk is made to meet the needs of baby
goats. We never see baby goats drinking cow milk because animal milks are different
for each animal.
Animal milk is different from breastmilk. Animal milk can be too strong for a baby’s
digestive system. Breastmilk is much easier for a baby to digest.
It is dangerous to give animal milks to babies before 6 months of age.
Breastmilk also has certain things that animal milks do not. Breastmilk has fats that
help a baby’s growing brain and eyes. These fats are not in animal milk.
Breastmilk helps protect a baby against many infections (including diarrhea,
respiratory illness, pneumonia, ear infections, meningitis, and urinary tract infections).
Research from all over the world shows that babies who are given only breastmilk for
the first 6 months are much less likely to have diarrhea. Babies who are not
exclusively breastfed have diarrhea more often, partly because other feeds do not have
the protective factors of breastmilk, and partly because these other feeds are often
made with ingredients and utensils that are contaminated with harmful germs.
Babies who take only breastmilk grow better, fall sick less often, and perform better
in school than children who are not exclusively breastfed.
8. Ask: Other than animal milks, are there other foods or liquids that babies are given during
the first 6 months? Participants should mention water, porridge/uji, fruits, and others.
9. Ask: Are these other foods and liquids good for babies before 6 months? Encourage
participants to discuss.
10. Present the following information:
Other foods and liquids can be difficult for a baby to digest. During the first 6 months,
babies’ digestive systems are still developing, so foods that are healthy after 6 months
can be difficult for babies to eat before 6 months. For example, if a baby eats paw
paw (which is a healthy food for babies after 6 months because it has many vitamins
that help protect against illness and help a baby to develop well), the body will not be
ready to use all of the vitamins and instead they will just pass through the baby.
Giving other foods and liquids, even water, can make the baby full and reduce the
amount of breastmilk that a baby takes.
Giving water, other liquids, and foods is dangerous and can cause diarrhea because
the ingredients and utensils can be contaminated with harmful germs.
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For the first 6 months of life, feeding a baby only breastmilk will help a baby to grow
up healthy, strong, and smart.
11. Ask: Do breastfed babies need to drink water? Encourage participants to discuss.
12. Explain that one of the main ingredients in breastmilk is water. There is enough water in
breastmilk to quench the baby’s thirst even when the weather is very hot. This is why
breastfed babies do not need water, juices, or any other liquids during the first 6 months
of life.
13. Ask: If exclusive breastfeeding has so many benefits, why do children in our community
receive other foods and liquids before 6 months of age? What are the risks of giving
children other foods and liquids before 6 months? Encourage participants to discuss.
14. Encourage participants to share their experiences feeding their babies from birth to 6
months of age. Use the following questions to facilitate the discussion:
What are some of the challenges to practicing exclusive breastfeeding?
What are suggestions for overcoming these challenges?
How can we overcome common practices in our community that keep women from
breastfeeding exclusively?
What kind of support do women need to breastfeed exclusively?
15. Answer any questions participants may have.
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Starting breastfeeding immediately
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List the benefits of starting breastfeeding immediately.
Session guide
1. Facilitate a discussion with participants about practices in their communities using the
following questions. Allow several participants to share their thoughts and experiences:
Who is with the woman when she gives birth?
What do family members do to prepare before birth and at the time of the birth?
Who delivers the baby?
What is done with the baby immediately after birth?
Where is the baby placed?
What is given to the baby to eat or drink as soon as it is born? Why?
When does a mother start to breastfeed? Why?
2. Ask: What do the breasts make during the first three days after a woman gives birth?
3. Listen to participants’ responses and explain that during the first three days the breasts
make a yellow, thick liquid that is the first milk. This first milk is called colostrum. Ask:
What is this first milk called in your mother tongue?
4. Ask: Why is it important for the baby to have this first milk?
5. After participants discuss, add:
It helps protect babies against viruses and bacteria. It is like the baby’s first
immunization.
It cleans the baby’s stomach and helps protect the digestive track.
It has all the food and water the baby needs.
Putting the baby in skin-to-skin contact helps regulate the baby’s temperature.
6. Present the following information:
Health workers recommend that women begin to breastfeed within the first 30
minutes of birth.
There are many benefits to mothers and babies if breastfeeding is started very soon
after giving birth.
Early initiation of breastfeeding helps stop bleeding.
The earlier you put the child to the breast, the faster the milk comes. This will help
mothers to make enough breastmilk.
Starting breastfeeding soon after birth helps reduce the risk of newborns dying.
7. Facilitate a discussion about starting to breastfeed immediately, giving colostrum, and
prelacteal feeds using the following questions:
Do women in our community start to breastfeed as soon as recommended? Why or
why not?
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Are babies given other liquids when they are first born, before they start to
breastfeed? What is given?
What was your experience after giving birth? Did you breastfeed immediately? Was
anything given to your baby?
What are your plans for when you next give birth?
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Breastfeeding success
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Describe how the breast makes milk.
Explain proper positioning and attachment.
Session guide
1. Ask: Does the size of a woman’s breast affect how much milk she can make for her baby?
Encourage participants to discuss.
2. Ask: Do you think it is possible for a woman to make enough breastmilk to exclusively
breastfeed a baby for 6 months?
3. Ask: Is it common for women to feel like they are not making enough milk? Encourage
participants to share their experiences and those of their relatives and friends.
4. Share the following information.
Almost all women can make enough milk to feed their baby only breastmilk for 6
months and continue breastfeeding until their baby is 2 years or older.
The size of a woman’s breast does not affect how much milk she can make.
Even women who are sick or thin can make enough milk for their baby.
When a baby suckles at the breast, the tongue and the mouth touch the nipple. The
(nerves in the) nipple sends a message to the mother’s brain that the baby wants milk.
The brain responds and tells the body to make the milk flow for this feed and to make
milk for the next feed. The more the baby suckles, the more milk is produced.
How a mother feels and what she thinks can affect how her milk flows. If a woman is
happy and confident that she can breastfeed, her milk flows well. But if she doubts
whether she can breastfeed, her worries may stop the milk from flowing.
5. Ask: Has anyone ever noticed how your thoughts and feelings affect your milk?
Encourage participants to share their experiences.
6. Ask: What advice would you give to a woman who says that she cannot make enough
milk?
7. Ask: Is the way a mother holds her baby while she is breastfeeding important? Why?
Encourage participants to discuss.
8. Explain that the way a mother holds her baby (positioning) affects the way the baby
attaches to her breast. For proper attachment, a baby should take the nipple deeply with
mouth open wide, and more of the areola should be seen above the baby’s mouth than
below. Ask: Why is it important for the baby to attach onto the breast in a particular way?
9. Explain that bad positioning and attachment in the first couple of months can cause:
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The baby to not get enough milk, which can cause the baby to grow poorly or the
mother’s breasts to become engorged.
The mother to be uncomfortable or in pain.
Breast sores, which are very dangerous for mothers who are HIV positive because it
can increase the risk of transmission.
10. Ask: What are signs that a mother might have trouble with positioning and attachment?
(Possible answers: she is in pain, her child is growing poorly.)
11. Explain that even though most mothers in our community breastfeed, it is common for
women to have difficulties with proper positioning and attachment, which can cause
problems. Explain that it is important for mothers to receive help with positioning and
attachment.
12. Ask for a volunteer to sit in the front with a “baby.” Ask these questions to the
participants and encourage them to provide advice to the “mother.” They can go up and
offer suggestions for how the mother could change her position or move the baby. If it is
necessary to touch the mother or baby, be sure to ask permission first and do so gently :
Where should the baby’s head be?
The baby’s head and body should be in a straight line. A baby cannot suckle or
swallow easily if his head is twisted or bent.
Where should the baby’s stomach be?
The baby’s stomach should be against the mother’s stomach.
Where should the mother’s arms be?
The baby’s whole body should be supported with the mother’s arm along the baby’s
back. This is particularly important for newborns and young babies. For older babies,
support of the upper part of the body is usually enough. A mother needs to be careful
about using the hand of the same arm, which supports her baby's back, to hold his
bottom. Holding his bottom may result in her pulling him too far out to the side, so
that his head is in the crook (bend) of her arm. He then has to bend his head forward
to reach the nipple, which makes it difficult for him to suckle.
13. Review the following information about holding a baby in the right position:
Mother should be sitting (or lying) somewhere comfortable so she is relaxed. If it
helps, she can support a baby on a cushion.
Baby should be facing the breast.
Baby and mother should be stomach to stomach.
Baby’s back and head should be in a straight line.
Mother should bring the baby to the breast, not her breast to the baby.
Mother should support baby’s buttocks with her palm.
Hold the baby at the back of his shoulders—not the back of his head. Be careful not to
push the baby’s head forward.
14. Ask: How do you know that a baby is properly attached to the breast? Present the
following information:
Hold the baby with his nose opposite the nipple, so that he approaches the breast from
underneath the nipple.
Touch the baby’s lips with the nipple, so that he opens his mouth, puts out his tongue,
and reaches up.
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Wait until baby’s mouth is opening wide, before moving the baby to breast. His
mouth needs to be wide open to take a large mouthful of breast.
It is important to use the baby’s reflexes, so that he opens his mouth wide to take the
breast himself. Do not try to force a baby to suckle by pulling his chin down to open
his mouth.
Quickly move the baby to the breast, when he is opening his mouth wide.
Bring the baby to the breast—do not move the breast to the baby.
When bringing the baby to the breast, aim the baby’s lower lip below the nipple, with
his nose opposite the nipple, so that the nipple aims towards the top of the baby’s
mouth, his tongue goes under the areola, and his chin will touch her breast.
Baby’s mouth should be wide open.
Baby should take the areola, not only the nipple, in her/his mouth.
Baby’s lower lip should be curled outward.
Baby will take slow, deep sucks if attachment is correct.
Baby may be heard swallowing.
Baby is calm at the breast.
15. Summarize this session by presenting the following:
It often takes several tries to get a baby well attached.
If you are having problems, try a different position that is more comfortable. There
are many positions that work well for breastfeeding.
In any position, the important thing is for the baby to take enough of the breast into
his mouth so that he can suckle well.
If you continue to have difficulties breastfeeding, go to the health facility for
additional advice and support.
Feeding a baby with a bottle can cause babies to not attach properly. Improper
attachment causes breast problems (sores, cracked nipples, etc.) for the mother. These
breast problems are especially dangerous for women who are HIV infected. Bottles
are also dangerous because they are very difficult to clean properly. If a woman is not
breastfeeding, the child should be fed liquids using a cup (even small babies can be
fed using a cup).
Positioning and attaching the baby correctly at the breast helps prevent breast sores
and reduces the risk of transmitting HIV to the baby.
16. Explain that even though breastfeeding is common in Kenya, we know that almost all
babies take other foods and liquids in addition to breastmilk before 6 months. However, it
is very dangerous for the baby’s health to do this. Babies should not be given any other
foods or liquids before the age of 6 months. Almost every mother can exclusively
breastfeed successfully, which is why proper positioning and attachment are so important.
17. Ask: Has this advice been challenging for anyone to follow? Encourage participants to
share their experiences. After each participant shares her experience, ask if other
participants have had similar problems and how they have addressed them. Ask other
participants to offer advice and examples from their own lives for how to overcome these
challenges.
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Lactational amenorrhea method (LAM)
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List the three criteria for LAM.
Describe the benefits to mothers and children of waiting to become pregnant again.
Session guide
1. Explain that one of the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding is that it can help prevent
pregnancy. Ask: Have you heard that breastfeeding can prevent pregnancy? Do you know
anyone who has experienced this? Allow participants to discuss.
2. Present the following information:
Breastfeeding alone does not prevent pregnancy, but exclusive breastfeeding is one
of three criteria that must be met for preventing pregnancy. The lactational
amenorrhea method (LAM) is a contraceptive method based on natural infertility
resulting from exclusive breastfeeding. To use LAM, a woman must meet three
criteria:
1. The woman’s menstrual periods have not resumed.
2. The baby must be exclusively breastfed on demand, frequently, day and night.
3. The baby must be under 6 months old.
When any one of the three criteria changes another contraceptive method must be
started immediately.
Explain what each of the words mean
o Lactational = exclusive breastfeeding, on demand, day and night.
o Amenorrhea = no menstrual bleeding after 2 months post-partum.
o Method = a modern, temporary (6 months post-partum) contraceptive method.
Exclusive breastfeeding on demand changes a woman’s body by delaying ovulation
and menstruation during the first 6 months after giving birth. Since a woman is not
ovulating she cannot become pregnant. However, after 6 months, the chance of
ovulation increases. Research has shown LAM to be very effective at preventing
pregnancy. For example, if 100 women use LAM during the first 6 months post-
partum, 1 or at most 2 women will become pregnant.
3. Explain that for the health of the mother and the baby it is recommended that mothers
wait two years after giving birth before becoming pregnant again. Ask: Why do you think
this is recommended? Allow participants to discuss.
4. Explain that waiting to become pregnant again has benefits for mothers and for babies.
Present the following information:
Mothers are less likely to die in childbirth.
Mothers are less likely to miscarry
Their newborns are less likely to die, be underweight, or be born early.
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Babies grow up bigger, stronger, and healthier.
Older children are more likely to be healthy and grow well.
5. Answer any questions participants may have.
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Expressing breastmilk
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List the steps of expressing breastmilk by hand.
Demonstrate how to select and prepare a container for expressed breastmilk.
Describe how to store breastmilk.
Note: This session would be good for other family members to attend, particularly if
grandmothers are helping care for babies when mothers are working.
Session guide
1. Ask: What are some of the reasons that women find it difficult to breastfeed exclusively
for 6 months? [Participants should mention being away from their baby, other demands
on their time.]
2. Ask: Do you know women who express their breastmilk? What are some reasons why
women would express their breastmilk? Allow participants to discuss. Participants may
mention the following:
Leave breastmilk for a baby when his mother goes out or goes to work.
Feed a low-birth-weight baby who cannot breastfeed.
Feed a sick baby, who cannot suckle enough.
Keep up the supply of breastmilk when a mother or baby is ill.
Prevent leaking when a mother is away from her baby.
Help a baby to attach to a full breast.
Help with breast health conditions (engorgement).
3. Explain the following:
There are many situations in which expressing breastmilk is useful and important to
help a mother to start or to continue breastfeeding.
All mothers should learn how to express their milk, so that they know how if needed.
Breastmilk can be stored for about eight hours at room temperature (or up to 24 hours
in a refrigerator).
4. Ask: Has anyone ever expressed breastmilk to leave for their baby? Do you know anyone
who has expressed their breastmilk and left it for their baby? Encourage participants to
share their experiences.
5. Explain that a mother’s milk may not flow as well when she expresses as when she
breastfeeds. Ask: What can a mother to do help her milk flow?
6. Wait for a few replies, but participants should mention all of the following. Present them
if they do not.
Be confident that you can do it.
Try to reduce any sources of pain or worry.
Think good thoughts about the baby.
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Sit quietly and privately or with a supportive friend. Some mothers can express
easily in a group of other mothers who are also expressing for their babies.
Hold the baby with skin-to-skin contact if possible. Hold the baby on your lap
while you express. If this is not possible, look at the baby. If this is not possible,
sometimes even looking at a photograph or thinking of the baby helps.
Warm your breasts. For example, apply a warm compress, or warm water, or have
a warm shower. Be sure to test the temperature to avoid burning yourself.
Stimulate the nipples. Gently pull or roll the nipples using your fingers.
Massage or stroke the breasts lightly. Some women find that it helps if they stroke
the breast gently with finger tips or with a comb. Some women find that it helps to
gently roll their closed fist over the breast towards the nipple.
Ask a helper to rub your back.
7. Demonstrate how to rub a mother’s back with a volunteer. As you are demonstrating,
explain the following:
She should sit at the table resting her head on her arms, as relaxed as possible.
The volunteer remains clothed, but explain that with a mother it is important for her
breasts and her back to be naked.
Make sure that the chair is far enough away from the table for her breasts to hang free.
Explain what you will do, and ask her permission to do it.
Rub both sides of her spine with your thumbs, making small circular movements,
from her neck to her shoulder blades (as shown in the picture below).
Ask her how she feels, and if it makes her feel relaxed.
Ask participants to work in pairs and briefly practice the technique of rubbing a
mother’s back.
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Figure 1. Helping mothers relax before expressing breastmilk
From: WHO, UNICEF, UNAIDS. Infant and Young Child Feeding Counselling: An Integrated Course. WHO: Geneva;
2006.
8. Make these points:
Hand expression is the most useful way to express milk. It needs no appliance, so a
woman can do it anywhere, at any time.
Express your own breastmilk. The breasts are easily hurt if another person tries.
It is important to prepare a container for the expressed breastmilk—a cup, glass, jug,
or jar with a wide mouth will work:
o Wash the cup in soap and water.
o Pour boiling water into the cup, and leave it for a few minutes. Boiling water
will kill most of the germs.
o When ready to express milk, pour the water out of the cup.
9. Review the following steps for expressing breastmilk.
Wash your hands thoroughly.
Sit or stand comfortably, and hold the container near your breast.
Put your thumb on your breast ABOVE the nipple and areola, and your first finger on
the breast BELOW the nipple and areola, opposite the thumb. Support the breast with
your other fingers.
Press your thumb and first finger slightly inward towards the chest wall. Avoid
pressing too far or you may block the milk ducts.
Press the breast behind the nipple and areola between your finger and thumb. Press on
the larger ducts beneath the areola. Sometimes in a lactating breast it is possible to
feel the ducts. They are like pods, or peanuts. If you can feel them, press on them.
Press and release, press and release. This should not hurt—if it hurts, the technique is
wrong.
At first no milk may come, but after pressing a few times, milk starts to drip or flow
out. Press the areola in the same way from the SIDES, to make sure that milk is
expressed from all segments of the breast.
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Avoid rubbing or sliding your fingers along the skin. The movement of the fingers
should be more like rolling.
Figure 2. Manual expression
Avoid squeezing the nipple itself.
Pressing or pulling the nipple cannot
express the milk. It is the same as the
baby sucking only the nipple.
Express one breast for at least 3–5
minutes until the flow slows, and
then express the other side; then
repeat both sides. She can use either
hand for either breast and change
when they tire.
Explain that to express breastmilk
adequately takes 20–30 minutes,
especially in the first few days when
only a little milk may be produced. It
is important not to try to express in a
From: Ministry of Health and Social shorter time.
Welfare [Kingdom of Lesotho].
Infant Feeding Counseling Cards.
Maseru; 2008.
10. Ask: How often should a mother express her breastmilk? Encourage participants to
discuss and add the following as needed.
Usually as often as the baby would breastfeed, but it depends on the reason for
expressing the milk.
To establish lactation to feed a low-birth-weight or sick newborn you should start to
express milk on the first day, as soon as possible after delivery. You may only express
a few drops of colostrum at first, but it helps breastmilk production to begin, in the
same way that a baby suckling soon after delivery helps breastmilk production to
begin.
Express as much as you can as often as your baby would breastfeed. This should be at
least every three hours, including during the night. If you express only a few times, or
if there are long intervals between expressions, you may not be able to make enough
milk.
To keep up your milk supply to feed a sick baby, express at least every three hours.
To build up your milk supply, if it seems to be decreasing after a few weeks, express
very often for a few days (every two hours or even every hour), and at least every
three hours during the night.
To leave milk for a baby while you are out at work, express as much as possible
before you go to work, to leave for the baby. It is also very important to express while
at work to help keep up your supply.
To relieve symptoms, such as engorgement, or leaking at work, express only as much
as is necessary.
11. Ask: Why are cups safer and better than bottles for feeding a baby? Allow participants to
discuss and share any of the points below that have not been mentioned.
Cups are easy to clean with soap and water, if boiling is not possible.
Cups are less likely than bottles to be carried around for a long time giving bacteria
time to breed.
Cup-feeding is associated with less risk of diarrhea, ear infections, and tooth decay.
A cup cannot be left beside a baby, for the baby to feed himself. The person who
feeds a baby by cup has to hold the baby and look at him, and give him some of the
contact that the baby needs.
A cup does not interfere with suckling at the breast.
12. Facilitate a discussion with the following questions:
Would expressing breastmilk be a helpful technique for you? Why or why not?
Are there any cultural beliefs that might keep women from expressing their milk?
How can we address these beliefs and practices in our families and community?
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Mother-to-child transmission of HIV
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List how HIV can be transmitted from infected mothers to their children.
Explain that most babies born to HIV-infected mothers will not be infected with HIV.
Explain that there are ways to reduce the risk of mother-to-child transmission.
Describe what they can do in their community to help reduce the risk of mother-to-child
transmission.
Encourage all women to be tested for HIV during pregnancy.
Session guide
1. Ask: When can HIV be transmitted from HIV-infected mothers to their children? Allow
participants to answer. [Participants should mention: during pregnancy, during labour and
delivery, and through breastfeeding.]
2. Ask: Will most children born to mothers who are HIV infected become infected with HIV
themselves? Encourage participants to discuss.
3. Ask 20 participants to stand up in the front of the meeting space. [Note: If there are fewer
than 20 participants, ask 10 to come to the front and raise both hands. The hands can
represent the babies.] Present the following:
Imagine that each person standing up is a baby who was born to an HIV-infected
mother.
How many of these 20 babies do you think will become infected with HIV during
pregnancy, labor, or birth? Encourage several participants to discuss.
After participants discuss, ask five people to raise their hands.
About 5 out of the 20 babies will be infected with HIV during pregnancy, labor, or
birth. These are the numbers based on women who do not go for prevention of
mother-to-child transmission (PMTCT) services during pregnancy. The number of
babies who would be infected is lower if women use PMTCT services.
How many of these 20 babies do you think will become infected with HIV through
breastfeeding? Encourage several participants to discuss.
After participants discuss, ask three other people to raise their hands.
About 3 out of 20 babies would be infected during breastfeeding. A baby’s risk of
HIV infection depends on how he or she is breastfed. When mothers breastfeed AND
give other foods and liquids before 6 months (which is how most children in our
community are fed) it almost doubles the risk of passing HIV to the baby.
In summary, out of 20 babies born to HIV-positive mothers, around 8 would be
infected with HIV, even if their mothers do not use PMTCT services or practice safer
infant feeding.
4. Ask the same 20 participants to stay in front of the room. Present the following:
Now imagine that each person standing up is a baby who was born to an HIV-infected
mother, but this time the mother and baby take antiretrovirals and practice exclusive
breastfeeding.
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How many of these 20 babies do you think will become infected with HIV during
pregnancy, labor, or birth? Encourage several participants to discuss.
After participants discuss, ask two people to raise their hands.
About 2 out of the 20 babies will be infected with HIV during pregnancy, labor, or
birth. The number is lower because these women used PMTCT services.
How many of these 20 babies do you think will become infected with HIV through
breastfeeding? Encourage several participants to discuss.
After participants discuss, ask one other person to raise his/her hand.
About one baby would be infected during breastfeeding if a mother breastfeeds
exclusively for 6 months.
In summary, out of 20 babies born to HIV-positive mothers, around 3 would be
infected with HIV if their mothers use PMTCT services and practice exclusive
breastfeeding. So by taking these preventive actions, mothers can reduce the risk of
transmission to their baby by more than half.
5. Explain that even when women do not use PMTCT services, most children will not
become infected. But because there are ways to reduce the risk of HIV transmission, it is
important for all pregnant women to be tested so that if they are positive, they can learn
how to reduce the risk of HIV transmission to their baby. Women who are negative need
to protect themselves from HIV infection during pregnancy and breastfeeding.
6. Ask: Why do some babies who are born to HIV-infected women become infected with
HIV while others do not? Encourage participants to discuss.
7. After participants discuss, present the following information:
Research has shown that there are many factors that can increase the risk that mothers
will pass HIV to their babies. These factors include:
o Recently infected, or re-infected with HIV while pregnant or breastfeeding.
o Being in labor for a long time.
o The mother is very sick with HIV (the stage of her illness).
o Mother has breast problems while breastfeeding, including cracked nipples,
swollen breasts, or mastitis.
o The baby has oral thrush or sores in his or her mouth.
o The baby breastfeeds and receives other foods or liquids at the same time.
8. Ask: What can be done to help prevent or reduce the risk of an HIV-infected woman
passing HIV to her baby? Encourage participants to discuss. They should mention the
following:
All pregnant women and their partners should go for HIV testing and seek health care
services if they are positive.
Women who are positive should give birth in a health facility.
Women who are positive should attend PMTCT services.
Women who are positive should take antiretroviral drugs (ARVs) during labor and
give ARVs to their baby when it is born.
For most HIV-positive women in the community, exclusive breastfeeding is the best
way to feed their babies for the first 6 months, with continued breastfeeding through
at least 12 months.
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Sleep under an insecticide-treated net during pregnancy. These nets are available for
all pregnant women for free or at a subsidized fee (Kshs. 40) at the antenatal care
(ANC) clinic.
If men are at the meeting, ask: How can men support women who are HIV positive and
pregnant? Allow participants to discuss.
Explain that husbands and partners can help pregnant women stay healthy and reduce the
risk of HIV transmission to the child by:
Going for voluntary counseling and testing (VCT) together.
Making sure the woman goes to the health facility for ANC regularly and receives
early treatment of infections and illness.
Supporting the woman to exclusively breastfeed the baby for 6 months and continue
breastfeeding for at least 12 months to minimize the risks of HIV and other illnesses
and ensure the baby grows well.
Using condoms during sexual intercourse to prevent infection or re-infection.
Making sure the woman delivers in the health facility or with a skilled and trained
attendant.
Encouraging the woman to eat healthy meals and extra food during pregnancy and
breastfeeding.
Encouraging her to sleep under an insecticide-treated mosquito net.
Supporting her to take her ARVs (if recommended by her doctor).
9. Ask: If a pregnant woman is already positive, does she still need to protect herself against
HIV? Allow participants to discuss.
10. Explain that a woman who is infected or re-infected with HIV during pregnancy or
breastfeeding is more likely to pass the virus to her child. Unprotected sexual intercourse
while pregnant or breastfeeding places a woman at risk of HIV infection, and increases
the risk of HIV infection to her child. When someone is newly infected or re-infected
with HIV, the amount of HIV in her blood is very high, increasing the risk of mother-to-
child transmission.
11. Ask: Where can women and their partners access PMTCT services in our community?
Encourage participants to discuss?
12. Ask participants to imagine a woman relative comes to them for advice with the
following problem:
I am a pregnant and I fear that I may be HIV positive. I am afraid to go for antenatal
care because I do not want to be tested for HIV. I think it will be better to try to eat
healthy foods during my pregnancy and get some rest so I can stay healthy. I plan to
deliver my baby at home. I am worried that my husband will throw me and the baby out if
I test positive. I have heard that there are services for HIV-positive pregnant women, but
I am so worried about my husband’s reaction, I do not want to go for ANC.
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Facilitate a discussion with participants using the following questions
What advice would you give to the pregnant woman? [Encourage several
participants to give advice.]
Do you think most pregnant woman will follow the advice?
Is this scenario similar to what happens in our community?
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Infant feeding and HIV
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Explain how to make breastfeeding safer for HIV-positive mothers.
Describe the safest options for HIV-positive mothers to feed their babies.
Describe how to feed an HIV-positive child.
Know where to access PMTCT services in their community.
Session guide
1. Ask: When can HIV be transmitted from HIV-infected mothers to their children? Allow
participants to answer [during pregnancy, during labor and delivery, and through
breastfeeding].
2. Ask: What advice would you give to a pregnant woman about how to feed her baby?
Encourage participants to share their thoughts.
3. Ask: Will most children born to mothers who are HIV infected become infected with HIV
themselves? Allow participants to discuss.
4. Explain that even when women do not use PMTCT services most children will not
become infected. There are ways to reduce the risk of HIV transmission, which is why it
is important for all pregnant women to be tested so they can learn how to reduce the risk
of HIV transmission to their baby. Women who are negative need to protect themselves
from HIV infection during pregnancy and breastfeeding.
5. Share the following information:
For most HIV-positive women in our community, exclusive breastfeeding is the best
way to feed their babies for the first 6 months, with continued breastfeeding through
at least 12 months.
Although giving only formula (and never breastfeeding) can reduce the risk of HIV
transmission, it can double the number of children who become sick and die from
other illnesses. For this reason, exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months, and
continued breastfeeding through at least 12 months, is the safest option for most
women in our community.
We need to support HIV-positive women to exclusively breastfeed and be sure that
people know about the dangers of giving other foods and liquids while breastfeeding
before 6 months. At 6 months, HIV-positive mothers should introduce complementary
foods and continue breastfeeding through 12 months. At 12 months, mothers should
talk with a health worker again about how best to feed their babies and about whether
stopping breastfeeding would be appropriate.
If, despite recommendations to exclusively breastfeed, mothers think that they can
safely feed their children using infant formula and not breastfeeding, they should talk
with a health worker to learn if this would be an appropriate option for them and how
to do this safely.
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6. Ask: Why do you think mixed feeding is so dangerous? Why do you think giving formula
is so dangerous?
7. Explain that now HIV testing is available for 6-week-old children born to HIV-positive
women. Ask: What advice would you give to a woman who has a child who tests positive
for HIV? [The recommendations for children who test HIV-positive is to exclusively
breastfeed, even if they were being fed formula before—this way they can benefit from
all of the protective qualities in breastmilk.]
8. Facilitate a discussion about infant feeding and HIV with the following questions:
What kind of support do HIV-positive women need to exclusively breastfeed for 6
months?
What kind of support do HIV-positive women need to give appropriate other foods
after six months?
What kind of support do HIV-positive women need to continue to breastfeed for at
least 12 months?
What services are available in our community to help women who are HIV positive?
What challenges do HIV-positive women face related to infant feeding?
How can women overcome these challenges?
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Feeding babies at 6 months
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Explain when children should start to eat food in addition to breastmilk.
Describe the importance of feeding children properly at 6 months.
Explain that breastfeeding continues to be important for children until 2 years of age and
beyond.
Session guide
1. Use the following questions to facilitate a discussion with participants about foods and
liquids children eat other than breastmilk:
When do babies begin to eat something else other than breastmilk?
What do babies eat?
How much do babies eat at each meal?
How many times a day do babies eat?
How is the food prepared?
What is done to make sure that the food is clean and safe?
What, if any, utensils do mothers or caregivers use to feed children?
Do children have a separate dish?
Does someone help them to eat? Who?
How do caregivers know if children are hungry? Had enough to eat?
2. Explain that in Kenya, almost one out of every three children under the age of 5 is too
short for their age. When children are short for their age it means that they are
malnourished, which is permanent and affects intelligence. How children are fed from 6–
24 months affects their health, growth, and development.
3. Facilitate a discussion using these additional questions:
What are the signs of a healthy, well-nourished child?
Why are some children short for their age?
Why are some children sick more often than others?
Why do some young children have a blank or listless look?
What happens to children who did not eat properly?
4. Share the following information:
At 6 months, children start to need a variety of other foods in addition to breastmilk;
this is called complementary feeding.
Before 6 months, breastmilk provides everything a baby needs, but at 6 months and as
babies continue to grow they need other foods.
Breastmilk continues to be an important source to help children grow well and protect
them from illnesses until 2 years and beyond.
The foods that are given to children at 6 months are called complementary foods,
because they complement breastmilk—they do not replace breastmilk.
Appropriate complementary feeding helps children to continue to grow and develop
well.
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Appropriate complementary feeding involves continued breastfeeding and giving the
right amount of good quality foods.
Babies 6–12 months old are especially at risk, because they are just learning to eat.
Babies this age must be fed soft foods frequently and patiently. These foods should be
given in addition to breastmilk; they do not replace breastmilk.
When children do not eat well, it affects their health and intelligence.
Weight gain is a sign of good health and nutrition. It is important to continue to take
children to the health facility for regular check-ups and immunizations and to monitor
growth and development.
After 6 months of age, children should receive vitamin A supplements twice a year or
take multiple micronutrients on a daily basis. Talk with a health care provider for the
proper advice.
If a mother is HIV positive, it is important for her to consult a health care provider
when her baby is 12 months old for counseling on infant feeding options, such as
safer breastfeeding or the use of other suitable milks.
Answer any questions participants have.
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Giving other foods after 6 months
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
List good first foods for children.
Divide foods into food groups.
Explain how much children should eat at different ages.
List ways to overcome challenges to appropriate complementary feeding.
Session guide
1. Explain that when we talk about complementary feeding we often talk about giving a
variety of foods. What do we mean by variety?
2. Explain that foods are often categorized in different groups:
Body-building, make children strong
Energy-giving, give children energy
Protecting, prevent and fight illness
3. Ask participants to name examples of common foods that are available in their
communities and to say what group they belong to. Refer to the table below:
Body-building Energy-giving Protecting
Make children strong Give children energy Prevent and fight illness
Beans, dengu, meat, Rice, potatoes, ugali, maize, Fruits and vegetables like
chicken, fish, and egg yolks millet, and matoke leafy greens, carrots,
pumpkin, oranges, mangoes,
and paw paws
4. Explain that when you feed children, try to give food from at least two different food
groups at each meal. Do you think this is possible? What are some possible combinations
based on foods that you normally prepare for your family? What are foods that you have
given to your children? Some foods are better than others, what foods are especially good
for children and why?
5. Facilitate a discussion with the following questions:
How should food be prepared for children? [Mashed, soft, etc.]
Should uji be thin or thick? Why? [It should be thick enough to stay on the spoon.
Otherwise it is too watery and will not give children enough energy and they will
become full with water rather than food.]
6. Explain that as children grow they need to eat more. To be sure they are eating enough,
mothers can breastfeed more often, give more food, feed children more often, and give
foods that have a lot of energy even in small amounts (like fats and oils).
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7. Present the following information about how much food to give at different ages:
6 months
Two to three tablespoons at each meal
Two meals each day
7–8 months
One-half cup at each meal
Three meals each day
9–11 months
Three-fourths of a cup at each meal
Three meals each day
One snack
12–24 months
One cup at each meal
Three meals each day
Two snacks
Explain that the kinds of foods given to babies and children 6–12 and 12–24 months are
similar; they are often just prepared in a different way, and older children eat more food,
more often.
8. Ask: Is this how much you feed your children at these ages?
9. Ask: What are some of the challenges that women and families in our communities face
that prevent them from feeding their 6–24-month-old children appropriately? [Possible
answers: lack accurate information, heavy workloads limit time to help feed children,
perception that there is not enough food.] For each challenge mentioned, ask: How can
we help women to overcome this challenge? Encourage participants to share their
thoughts and experiences.
10. Explain there are many cultural beliefs about what foods can and cannot be given to
babies. Ask: What are some beliefs about feeding children in our community? Are these
correct or are these myths?
11. Ask: How do you know if a child is growing well? Where can you take your child to be
weighed and measured? How often should you take your child to be weighed and
measured? Do most mothers in our community take their children to be weighed and
measured as often as they should?
12. Imagine that a neighbor comes to you with the following situation:
She is a mother with a 9-month-old baby. This is her first child. She has been giving
watery uji in a bottle, she still breastfeeds, and she gives pieces of chapati and sometimes
mashed mangoes. She took her child to be measured and the nurse told her that he was
not growing properly and had not grown since last month. She is very worried and upset.
She does not know what to do.
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Facilitate a discussion using the following questions:
What advice would you give to this mother?
Does anyone have any suggestions for improving this advice?
13. Encourage participants to share their own experiences feeding their children. Ask them to
focus on ways they have overcome challenges or improved their feeding practices.
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Feeding your child
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Describe how to safely store, clean, prepare, and serve food.
List times when mothers/caregivers should wash their hands.
Describe how to encourage young children to eat.
Explain why responsive feeding is important.
Session guide
1. Explain that not only are the types and amounts of foods that we give to our children
important, but how we prepare and feed our children also helps them to grow and develop
well and to be healthy. In this session we will talk about preparing food safely and how
best to feed children.
2. Explain that how we store, clean, prepare, and cook food is also important. Ask: Why is
this important? What are the risks if we do not handle food properly? Encourage
participants to discuss. After participants discuss, explain that more than half of all
illnesses and deaths among young children are caused by germs that get into their mouths
through food or water or dirty hands.
3. Ask: How can we store, clean, prepare, and cook food safely? Encourage participants to
discuss. Correct any incorrect information, and mention the following additional
information as needed:
Cooked food should be eaten without delay or thoroughly reheated.
Store cooked food in a covered container and use it within 1 hour. Always reheat food
well if it has been sitting.
Wash all bowls, cups, and utensils with clean water and soap.
Only use water that is from a safe source or is purified. Water containers need to be
kept covered to keep the water clean.
Raw or leftover food can be dangerous. Raw food should be washed or cooked.
Food, utensils, and food-preparation surfaces should be kept clean. Food should be
stored in covered containers.
Safe disposal of all household rubbish helps prevent illness.
4. Explain that washing our hands with clean, running water and soap is very important.
When are the times that we should wash our hands? Allow participants to discuss and
mention the following as needed: before cooking food, before and after feeding a baby,
after changing nappies or going to the toilet, and after touching animals.
5. Facilitate a discussion by asking the following questions. Encourage participants to share
their own experiences:
Are these behaviors common in our community? Why or why not?
What can we do to ensure that our families practice these behaviors?
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6. Ask participants to imagine a young child eating. What comes to mind? Participants may
mention the following:
When a child is learning to eat, he often eats slowly and is messy. He may be easily
distracted.
He may make a face, spit some food out, and play with the food. This is because the
child is learning to eat.
A child needs to learn how to eat, to try new food tastes and textures.
A child needs to learn to chew, move food around in the mouth and swallow food.
A child needs to learn how to get food effectively into the mouth, how to use a spoon,
and how to drink from a cup.
Explain that it is very important for caregivers to encourage the child to learn to eat the
foods offered.
7. Facilitate a discussion by asking the following questions:
How do you encourage your children to eat?
How do you know your child has eaten enough?
8. Summarize the discussion and share the following information:
Feed infants directly and assist older children when they feed themselves.
Offer favorite foods and encourage children to eat when they lose interest or have
depressed appetites.
If children refuse many foods, experiment with different food combinations, tastes,
textures, and methods for encouragement.
Talk to children during feeding.
Look at children when you are feeding.
Feed slowly and patiently and minimize distractions during meals.
Do not force children to eat.
9. Emphasize these points:
A child needs food, health, and care to grow and develop. Even when food and health
care are limited, good care-giving can help make best use of these limited resources.
Care refers to the behaviors and practices of the caregivers and family that provide the
food, health care, stimulation, and emotional support necessary for the child’s healthy
growth and development.
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Eating during pregnancy and breastfeeding
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Describe how women need to eat at different stages in their life.
List key messages on maternal nutrition.
Session guide
1. Ask participants to name important stages in a woman’s life when she should change how
she eats. [Participants should mention during adolescence, during pregnancy, and during
breastfeeding as times when women need to eat more.]
2. Ask participants to discuss how a woman should eat at each of these points and why. Ask:
What are the consequences of not making these changes?
3. Be sure that participants discuss all of the following information:
At any age women should
Eat more food if underweight to protect health and establish reserves for pregnancy
and lactation.
Eat a variety of foods to get all of the vitamins and nutrients needed.
Eat several fruits and vegetables daily.
Eat animal products as often as possible.
Use iodized salt.
During adolescence and before pregnancy women should
Eat more food for the adolescent “growth spurt” and for energy reserves for
pregnancy and lactation.
Delay the first pregnancy to help ensure full growth and nutrient stores (after age 18).
During pregnancy women should
Eat an extra meal a day for adequate weight gain to support foetal growth and future
lactation.
Take iron/folic acid tablets daily.
During breastfeeding women should
Eat an extra, healthy meal (made of a variety of foods) each day.
Take two high-dose vitamin A capsules (200,000 IU) within 24 hours of each other,
as soon after delivery as possible, but no later than 8 weeks post-partum, to build
stores, improve the vitamin A content of breastmilk, and reduce infant and maternal
morbidity. This helps women to recover from childbirth and prevents illness.
4. Ask: Do women follow the recommendations that we just discussed? Why not?
5. Ask: What are the consequences of women not eating properly, especially during
pregnancy and lactation?
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6. Ask: What advice would you give to women to help them eat properly during pregnancy
and lactation? Encourage participants to share experiences and ask each other questions.
7. Remind participants that even if breastfeeding mothers cannot eat an ideal diet they are
still able to make enough, good quality breastmilk for their baby. The food they eat will
not change the overall quality or quantity of their breastmilk. The amount of breastmilk
they produce is based on how often they breastfeed their baby, not the foods they eat.
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Infant feeding beliefs and myths
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Name three popular beliefs and myths about breastfeeding and explain how they
relate to optimal breastfeeding practices.
Respond to popular beliefs and myths about breastfeeding that participants or
community members acknowledge.
Session guide
1. Brainstorm the breastfeeding beliefs and myths that participants and community members
acknowledge. Divide these beliefs into those that do not affect breastfeeding, those that
are positive, and those that are negative. Discuss beliefs and myths that affect
breastfeeding practices.
2. Ask participants to explain how they would address these topics if a participant wanted to
talk about it in a support group.
3. Ask: Have you ever heard of parents waiting to take their child to a health facility (or
taking children to traditional healers) and the child dying?
4. Explain that it is common for caregivers to wait to take children for care at a facility.
Share the following information:
Young infants can become ill suddenly and may need to be seen and treated urgently
by a health provider.
If a child is not feeding well, has fever or diarrhea, is vomiting, is losing weight or
becoming thin, has difficulty breathing, or has other signs that he or she may not be
well, it is important to have him or her examined at the nearest health centre or
hospital.
It is also important for caregivers to take children for routine immunizations, vitamin
A supplementation twice yearly, and continued growth monitoring until they are 5
years of age.
Women who are HIV positive can take their children for HIV testing at 6 weeks of
age to learn if they are infected with HIV and begin to receive treatment and care.
5. Ask: How can we encourage families to take their children to a health facility for
treatment?
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Feeding HIV-exposed children from 6 months
Objectives
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Explain when children of HIV-positive mothers should begin to eat solid foods.
Give advice to a woman who is HIV positive on how to feed her 6-month-old baby
List special considerations for a baby born to a mother with HIV.
Session guide
1. Ask: What advice would you give to a woman who is HIV positive about how to feed her
baby when the baby is 6 months old? Allow participants to discuss.
2. After participants discuss, present the following:
At 6 months it is important for an HIV-positive mother to introduce complementary
foods and continue breastfeeding to 12 months of age.
A mother should continue breastfeeding after 6 months so that her baby can continue
to get the benefits of breastmilk.
It is especially important for children with mothers who are HIV infected to eat the
right kinds and right amounts of safely prepared foods in addition to breastfeeding.
The information we discussed earlier about complementary feeding in general can be
shared with women who are HIV positive.
3. Ask: At what age can a baby be tested for HIV? [Answer: 6 weeks.]
4. Explain the following:
All babies have antibodies passed on from their mothers as a natural way to protect
babies while they are developing their own immune systems. All babies born to HIV-
infected mothers have HIV antibodies from their mothers, regardless of whether the
babies are HIV infected themselves. Their mothers’ antibodies will stay in their
bodies for 12 to 18 months. HIV antibody tests on babies younger than 18 months will
only show if the mother is infected, and cannot tell the difference between infected
and uninfected children.
There is now a test that can check babies for the virus itself. This test can be used with
babies who are as young as 6 weeks. To test for the virus in children, a small needle
prick is performed on the child’s foot and the blood is dripped onto paper. The blood
dries and the paper is transported in a sealed bag or envelope to a lab where the
specimen is tested for HIV. Babies who test negative should be brought back for
repeat testing at 12 and 18 months.
Testing at 6 weeks is used to help identify children who are HIV positive so they can
start to receive treatment. It should not be used to change infant feeding decisions. For
example, if an HIV-positive woman is exclusively breastfeeding, she should continue
to breastfeed even if the child tests negative. The child’s status does not change what
is safest.
5. Ask: What infant feeding advice would you give to an HIV-positive woman who brought
her baby in for testing at 6 weeks and when the results came learned that her baby is HIV
positive? Encourage participants to discuss.
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6. Explain that the recommendation for children who test HIV positive is to exclusively
breastfeed until the baby is 6 months old, even if they were being fed formula before—
this way the baby can benefit from all of the protective qualities in breastmilk. At 6
months a mother should continue breastfeeding and start to give complementary foods.
Also, if her baby tests negative, a mother who is breastfeeding should continue to
breastfeed.
7. Ask: What can caregivers do to help keep children born to HIV-positive women healthy,
even before learning the child’s status?
8. Present the following information:
Be brought for routine well-baby and immunization visits. Waiting until a child falls
ill can be too late. Children’s immune systems are not as developed as adults’ and
they can get sick quicker.
Receive routine immunizations (including measles and BCG) according to the
recommended schedule.
Bringing children to be weighed each month is important for all babies, but it is
especially important for HIV-exposed children. Many HIV-infected children are
underweight during the course of their illness. Research shows that an HIV-infected
child’s nutritional status is closely related to the child’s survival.
It is important for caregivers to know the signs and symptoms most commonly
associated with HIV infection in children so they can get treatment immediately.
If a child has a fever, diarrhea, ear infections, or is not growing well, it is important
for the caregivers to bring all children (and non-exposed children) to a facility
immediately.
Safe infant feeding in the first 2 years of life or longer is important for child survival
and development.
Giving only breastmilk for the first 6 months—which means giving no other foods or
liquids, not even water—will be the safest choice for most women in our community.
HIV-positive women who choose to breastfeed should be encouraged and supported
to do so exclusively.
It is important for parents and caregivers to understand the risks of giving babies born
to HIV-positive mothers other foods and liquids while breastfeeding during the first 6
months. This is called mixed feeding and can significantly increase the risk of HIV
transmission and the risk of death from diarrhea, pneumonia, and other infections.
It is important for women and caregivers who want to give formula (despite the
recommendation to exclusively breastfeed for 6 months) to talk with a health worker
about whether or not this can be done safely. For most families in our community,
exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months is the safest option.
Babies and children born to mothers with HIV can live healthy lives. It is important
for them to be tested early for HIV (from 6 weeks of age using a special HIV-testing
method, and again at 12 months and 18 months).
Practice good personal and food hygiene to prevent common infections, and
encourage mothers to seek prompt treatment for any infections or other health-related
problems.
There is medicine that can be given to babies and children to help prevent common
illnesses and infections in children who are HIV exposed.
o This medicine is called Cotrimoxazole, Bactrim, Septra, or Septrin.
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o Cotrimoxazole can help prevent the most common cause of death in young
children with HIV—pneumonia—as well as protect against malaria and bacterial
infections.
o Cotrimoxazole is recommended for all HIV-exposed infants from 6 weeks through
at least 1 year of age.
o Cotrimoxazole is given once a day, from 6 weeks of age until the age of 12
months and can be continued for longer periods if recommended by a health
worker.
9. Explain that many HIV-positive women in our community who choose to breastfeed
when their baby is born stop breastfeeding before their child reaches 6 months of age.
Ask: What are the risks of stopping breastfeeding early?
10. After participants discuss, explain that:
When mothers try to stop breastfeeding before 6 months of age they often continue to
breastfeed while they start feeding their babies other food or fluids. This is mixed
feeding, which can cause diarrhea and increase the risk of HIV transmission.
It is very challenging for mothers to be able to provide a safe and nutritious diet
without breastmilk. It is important for mothers to consider the risk of HIV
transmission compared with the many risks of not breastfeeding. Formula-fed infants
have a higher risk of illness and death. Also, studies have shown that stopping
breastfeeding early (at 4 to 6 months) increases the risk of illness and death, does not
improve HIV-free survival, and is challenging for mothers.
Breastmilk saves babies, even when their mothers are HIV positive.
At 12 months, mothers should talk with health care providers again about how best to
feed their babies. If a mother cannot safely provide an adequate diet to replace
breastmilk, she should continue to breastfeed.
When a baby is 12 months old, stopping breastfeeding may become less difficult for
the mother, less likely to cause disapproval or stigma, and less expensive than at an
earlier age.
For some HIV-positive mothers, 12 months is a good time to stop breastfeeding. For
many others, it may be better to continue breastfeeding when starting to give soft
foods.
The right time to stop breastfeeding must always be a mother’s choice and is best
made by talking with a health worker.
11. Explain that babies born to mothers who are HIV infected can live long and healthy lives
if they receive medical care and treatment early. It is important to bring HIV-exposed
children to a health facility often and to find out if a child is HIV infected so that medical
interventions can be taken to help the baby. However, many families wait to seek
treatment until a child becomes very ill, and many do not want to bring their children in
for testing.
12. Ask: What can you do in your community to help children born to mothers who are HIV
positive to stay healthy and receive treatment early? Encourage participants to discuss.
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Background notes
Even though breastfeeding is common in Kenya, we know that almost all babies take other
foods and liquids in addition to breastmilk before 6 months. This means that every day most
babies in Kenya face a risk of illness, malnutrition, and death. Almost every mother can
exclusively breastfeed successfully. Those who might lack the confidence to breastfeed need
the encouragement and practical support of the baby’s father and their family, relatives, and
neighbours, and the wider community. Everyone should have access to information about the
benefits of exclusive breastfeeding. This is why mother-to-mother support groups are so
important.
Advantages of exclusive breastfeeding
The Government of Kenya is committed to promoting, protecting, and supporting optimal
infant and young child feeding practices, because feeding children properly can have
important health, social, and economic benefits.
During the first 6 months, optimal infant and young child feeding practices include:
Starting to breastfeed within the first 30 minutes to 1 hour of birth.
Giving only breastmilk (and no other foods or liquids—not even water) whenever the
baby wants for the first 6 months.
These optimal infant feeding practices are necessary to ensure that babies start to grow and
develop properly. After the first 6 months breastmilk continues to be important for a child’s
growth and development. We will talk more about feeding children after 6 months in future
sessions.
BENEFITS OF EXCLUSIVE BREASTFEEDING
Baby Mother Family and community
Supplies everything the baby needs Reduces blood loss Is available 24 hours a day
to grow well during the first 6 months after birth (immediate Reduces the need to buy
of life breastfeeding) medicine because the
Digests easily and does not cause Is always ready at the baby is sick less often
constipation right temperature Is always ready at the right
Protects against diarrhea and Saves time and money temperature
pneumonia Makes night feedings Delays new pregnancy,
Provides antibodies to illnesses easier helping to space and time
Protects against infection, including Delays return of fertility pregnancies
ear infections Reduces the risk of Reduces time lost from
During illness helps keep baby well- breast and ovarian work to care for a sick
hydrated cancer baby
Reduces the risks of allergies Promotes bonding Children perform better in
school
Increases mental development
More children survive
Promotes proper jaw, teeth, and
speech development
Suckling at breast is comforting to
baby when fussy, overtired, ill, or
hurt
Promotes bonding
Is the baby’s first immunization
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Additional information on benefits of breastfeeding
Breastfeeding reduces blood loss after giving birth
Breastfeeding immediately after giving birth (within the first 30 minutes to 1 hour) will help
the uterus (womb) to contract, which decreases the amount of bleeding. Nipple stimulation
caused by breastfeeding sends a message to the brain to make the uterus contract.
Breastfeeding helps to limit blood loss from the uterus after giving birth.
Breastfeeding delays fertility
Breastfeeding exclusively (day and night) can delay the return of ovulation and menstruation
after giving birth. When a mother starts to give other foods and liquids, she is likely to start to
ovulate and menstruate again. The lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) is a contraceptive
method that takes advantage of the natural infertility that breastfeeding mothers experience.
To use LAM, a woman must meet three criteria:
1. The woman’s menstrual periods have not returned.
2. She must be exclusively breastfeeding, whenever the baby wants, day and night.
3. The baby must be under 6 months old.
When any one of these three criteria changes, another contraceptive method must be started
immediately. For details, refer to the section on LAM a little later in this discussion guide.
Start breastfeeding immediately after giving birth
During the first three days the breasts make a yellow, thick liquid that is the first milk. This
first milk is called colostrum and is very good for babies.
It helps protect babies against viruses and bacteria. It is like the baby’s first
immunization.
It cleans the baby’s stomach and helps protect the digestive track.
It has all the food and water the baby needs.
Putting the baby in skin-to-skin contact helps regulate the baby’s temperature.
The Government of Kenya recommends that women begin to breastfeed within the
first 30 minutes of birth.
There are many benefits to mothers and babies if breastfeeding is started very soon
after giving birth.
Early initiation of breastfeeding helps the mother stop bleeding.
The earlier the child is put to the breast, the faster the milk comes. This will help
mothers to make enough breastmilk.
Starting breastfeeding soon after birth helps reduce the risk of newborns dying.
Positioning and attachment
How to help a mother position her baby:
Ask how breastfeeding is going.
Watch her breastfeed her baby.
Explain what might help, and ask if she would like you to show her.
Make sure that she is comfortable and relaxed.
Sit down yourself in a comfortable, convenient position.
Explain how to hold her baby, and show her if necessary.
The four key points are:
Baby’s head and body in line.
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Baby held close to mother’s body.
Baby’s whole body supported.
Baby approaches breast, nose to nipple.
Show her how to support her breast:
With her fingers against her chest wall below her breast.
With her first finger supporting the breast.
With her thumb above.
Her fingers should not be too near the nipple.
Explain or show her how to help the baby to attach:
Touch her baby’s lips with her nipple.
Wait until her baby’s mouth is opening wide.
Move her baby quickly onto her breast, aiming his lower lip below the nipple.
Notice how she responds and ask her how her baby’s suckling feels.
Look for signs of good attachment. If the attachment is not good, try again.
Let the mother do as much as possible herself. Be careful not to ‘take over’ from her.
Explain what you want her to do. If possible, demonstrate on your own body to show
her how.
Make sure that she understands what you do so that she can do it herself. Your aim is to help
her to position her own baby. It does not help if you can get a baby to suckle, if the mother
cannot.
Figure 3. Proper attachment
From: Ministry of Health and Social Welfare [Kingdom of Lesotho]. Infant Feeding Counseling Cards. Maseru;
2008.
Good attachment helps both mother and baby. Good attachment helps to ensure that the baby
suckles well and helps the mother produce a good supply of breastmilk. Good attachment
helps to prevent sore and cracked nipples. Breastfeeding should not be painful.
There are four signs of good attachment:
Baby’s mouth is wide open.
You can see more of the darker skin (areola) above the baby’s mouth than below.
Baby’s lower lip is turned outward.
Baby’s chin is touching mother’s breast.
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If the baby is well-attached at the breast and getting the milk easily, it is called “effective
suckling.” The signs are:
The baby takes slow deep suckles, sometimes pausing.
You may be able to see or hear the baby swallowing after one or two suckles.
Suckling is comfortable and pain-free for the mother.
The baby finishes the feed, releases the breast, and looks contented and relaxed.
The breast is softer after the feed.
Effective suckling helps mothers to produce milk and satisfy the baby.
Remind mothers that after the baby releases one breast, offer the other breast. This will help
stimulate milk production in both breasts, and also ensure the baby gets the most nutritious
and satisfying milk.
Exclusive breastfeeding
Breastmilk is the perfect food for babies. It has everything that a baby needs to grow
and develop for the first 6 months.
Babies who take only breastmilk grow better, fall sick less often, and perform better
in school than children who are not exclusively breastfed.
For the first 6 months, babies do not need any other foods or liquids, not even animal
milk, water, porridge, or fruits. Breastmilk has enough water so even babies in hot
climates do not need water.
Giving other foods and liquids (including animal milk and water) to babies during the
first 6 months is very dangerous for their health and can make them sick.
Human breastmilk is perfect for human babies, just as cow’s milk is perfect for baby
cows and goat’s milk is perfect for baby goats. We never see baby goats drinking
cow’s milk because animal milks are different for each animal.
Almost all women can make enough milk to feed their baby only breastmilk for 6
months and continue breastfeeding until their baby is 2 years or older.
The size of a woman’s breast does not affect how much milk she can make.
Even women who are sick or thin can make enough milk for their baby.
When a baby suckles at the breast, the tongue and the mouth touch the nipple.
The (nerves in the) nipple sends a message to the mother’s brain that the baby wants
milk.
The brain responds and tells the body to make the milk flow for this feed and to make
milk for the next feed. The more the baby suckles, the more milk is produced.
How a mother feels and what she thinks can affect how her milk flows. If a woman is
happy and confident that she can breastfeed, her milk flows well. But if she doubts
whether she can breastfeed, her worries may stop the milk from flowing.
Lactational amenorrhea method (LAM)
The lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) is a contraceptive method based on natural
infertility that women experience when they practice exclusive breastfeeding.
Lactational = exclusive breastfeeding, on demand, day and night.
Amenorrhea = no menstrual bleeding after 2 months post-partum.
Method = a modern, temporary (6 months post-partum) contraceptive method.
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To use LAM, a woman must meet three criteria:
1. The woman’s menstrual periods have not started again.
Following childbirth, the return of menstrual periods is a sign that a woman is fertile
again. During the first 3 to 6 months after giving birth, a woman who is exclusively
breastfeeding is unlikely to ovulate before her menstrual period resumes. However, once
a woman starts to menstruate, there is a probability that ovulation has resumed. Bleeding
during the first 2 months post-partum is not considered menstrual bleeding. Menstruation
may be considered to have returned when the woman experiences 2 days of consecutive
bleeding or when she thinks her menstrual bleed has returned.
2. The baby is exclusively breastfed frequently day and night.
During the first 6 months the baby only breastfeeds. That means the baby does not receive
any water, other liquids, or foods. Whenever the baby shows signs of wanting to be fed
(by sucking on his hand, by moving or opening his mouth, or by moving his head about),
be it day or night, the mother breastfeeds her baby. This is called breastfeeding “on
demand.” All of a baby’s thirst, hunger, nutritional, and sucking needs are met at the
breast. The baby is nursed frequently for as long as he wants to remain on the breast.
Exclusive breastfeeding means a minimum of eight feeds during a 24-hour period in the
early days and weeks and at least one feeding during the night without any intervals
greater than 4 to 6 hours.
3. The baby is less than 6 months old.
At 6 months of age, the baby needs to begin receiving complementary foods while
continuing to breastfeed. Introduction of water, liquids, and foods can reduce the amount
of sucking at the breast, triggering the hormonal mechanism that causes ovulation and
menses to start again.
Exclusive breastfeeding on demand changes a woman’s body by delaying ovulation and
menstruation during the first 6 months after giving birth. Since a woman is not ovulating she
cannot become pregnant. Exclusive breastfeeding, day and night, causes the first menstrual
period to happen before a woman ovulates (it is a sign that fertility is returning). If a mother
is not exclusively breastfeeding she will ovulate before her first menstrual period. The
absence of menstrual periods and frequent breastfeeding day and night during the first 6
months after giving birth are what make LAM work. When any one of the above three
criteria is no longer met, another family planning method must be introduced for birth
spacing.
Research has shown LAM to be very effective at preventing pregnancy. For example, if 100
women started LAM and used it according to the criteria, 1 or at most 2 women would
become pregnant. LAM is as effective as any other reversible contraceptive method.
Encourage women to talk with a health worker about LAM and whether it is the right
contraceptive choice for them.
Waiting to become pregnant again has benefits for mothers and for babies.
Mothers are less likely to die in childbirth.
Mothers are less likely to miscarry.
Their newborns are less likely to die, be underweight, or be born early.
Babies grow up bigger, stronger, and healthier.
Older children are more likely to be healthy and grow well.
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Checklist for common breastfeeding difficulties: Engorgement
Engorgement
Prevention Correct positioning and latch-on.
Breastfeeding immediately after birth.
Breastfeeding on demand (as often and as long as baby wants) day and
night, a minimum of 8 times per 24 hours.
Symptoms Swelling, tenderness, warmth, redness, throbbing, pain, low-grade fever,
and flattening of the nipple.
Taut skin on breast(s).
Usually begins 3–5 days after birth.
Counseling Apply cold compresses to breasts to reduce swelling; apply warm
compresses to “get milk flowing.”
Breastfeed more frequently or longer.
Improve infant positioning and attachment.
Massage breast(s).
Apply cabbage leaves.
Express some milk.
Apply a warm jar.
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Checklist for common breastfeeding difficulties: Sore or cracked nipples
Sore or cracked nipples
Prevention Correct positioning of baby.
Correct latch-on and suckling.
No use of soap on nipples.
Symptoms Breast or nipple pain.
Cracks in the nipples.
Occasional bleeding.
Reddened nipples.
Counseling Make sure baby latches on to the breast correctly.
Apply drops of breastmilk to nipples and allow to air dry.
Remove the baby from the breast by breaking suction first.
Expose breasts to air and sunlight.
Begin to breastfeed on the side that hurts less.
Do not stop breastfeeding.
Do not use soap or cream on nipples.
Do not wait until the breast is full to breastfeed.
If breast is full, express some milk first.
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Checklist for common breastfeeding difficulties: Insufficient breastmilk
Insufficient breastmilk
Prevention Breastfeed more frequently.
Exclusively breastfeed day and night.
Breastfeed on demand.
Correct positioning of baby.
Breastfeed at least every 3 hours.
Encourage family to support mother by performing household chores.
Avoid bottles and pacifiers.
Symptoms Insufficient weight gain.
Insufficient number of wet diapers (fewer than six a day).
Dissatisfied (frustrated and crying) baby.
Mother “thinking” she does not have enough milk.
Counseling Withdraw any supplement, water, formulas, or tea.
Feed baby on demand, day and night.
Increase frequency of feeds.
Wake the baby up if baby sleeps throughout the night or longer than 3
hours during the day.
Make sure baby latches on to the breast correctly.
Reassure mother that she is able to produce sufficient milk.
Explain growth spurts.
Empty one breast first (baby takes fore and hind milk).
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Checklist for common breastfeeding difficulties: Plugged ducts that can lead to mastitis
Plugged ducts that can lead to mastitis
Prevention Encourage family to support mother by performing household
chores .
Ensure correct attachment.
Breastfeed on demand.
Avoid holding the breast in scissors hold.
Avoid tight brassieres.
Avoid sleeping on stomach (mother).
Use a variety of positions to hold the baby to rotate pressure
points on breasts.
Breast pain.
Symptoms Redness in one area of the breast.
(mastitis)
Swelling.
Warmth to touch.
Hardness with a red streak.
General feeling of malaise.
Fever (at times), flu-like symptoms.
Counseling Apply heat before the start of breastfeeding.
Massage the breasts before breastfeeding.
Increase maternal fluid intake.
Rest (mother).
Breastfeed more frequently.
Seek medical treatment; antibiotics if necessary.
Position baby properly.
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Special situations affecting breastfeeding
When baby is sick
Baby under 6 months: If the baby has diarrhea or fever the mother should breastfeed
exclusively and frequently to avoid dehydration or malnutrition in the baby.
Breastmilk contains water, sugar, and salts in adequate quantities, which will help the
baby recover quickly from diarrhea.
If the baby has severe diarrhea and shows any signs of dehydration, the mother should
continue to breastfeed and provide oral rehydration solution (ORS) either with a
spoon or cup.
Baby older than 6 months: If the baby has diarrhea or fever, the mother should
breastfeed frequently to avoid dehydration or malnutrition. She should also offer the
baby bland food (even if the baby is not hungry).
If the baby has severe diarrhea and shows any signs of dehydration, the mother should
continue to breastfeed and add frequent sips of ORS.
When mother is sick
When the mother is suffering from headaches, backaches, colds, diarrhea, or any other
common illness, she should continue to breastfeed her baby.
The mother needs to rest and drink a large amount of fluids to help her recover.
If the mother does not get better, she should consult a doctor and say that she is
breastfeeding.
Premature baby
Mother needs support for correct latch-on.
Breastfeeding is advantageous for pre-term infants; supportive holds may be required.
Direct breastfeeding may not be possible for several weeks, but a premature baby can
receive expressed breastmilk.
Mother should watch baby’s sleep and wake cycle and feed during quiet-alert states.
Note: Crying is the last sign of hunger. Cues of hunger include rooting, licking
movements, flexing arms, clenching fists, tensing body, and kicking legs.
Malnourished mothers
Malnutrition does not significantly change the composition or amount of milk.
Mothers can produce milk if the baby suckles.
Mother needs to eat extra food for her own health.
In rare, very extreme cases, milk quality may decrease and supply may eventually
decrease and stop.
Twins
The mother can exclusively breastfeed both babies.
The more a baby breastfeeds, the more milk is produced.
Breastfeeding twins does not depend on milk supply but on time and support to the
mother.
Mother who is separated daily from her infant
The mother should express or pump milk and store it for use while separated from the
baby; the baby should be fed this milk at times when he/she would normally feed.
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The mother should frequently feed her baby when she is at home.
A mother who is able to keep her infant with her at the work site should feed her
infant frequently.
Pregnancy
A pregnant mother can continue to breastfeed her baby.
Encourage a pregnant breastfeeding mother to eat more times a day for her own health
and to support both breastfeeding and the new pregnancy.
If baby is under 1 year of age when the mother becomes pregnant, it is important for
the baby to continue breastfeeding to stay healthy and to grow and develop well.
Some babies who are breastfeeding while the mother is pregnant may have more
bowel movements than usual. This does not mean they have diarrhea. This is a normal
reaction of the milk the mother is producing and will last only a few days.
After the new baby is born, it is perfectly safe to breastfeed two babies and will not
harm either baby – there will be enough milk for two
Inverted nipples
If nipples are FLAT she can breastfeed normally.
If mother notices inverted nipples during pregnancy reassure her that the only help
needed is to help baby to attach after delivery – nothing useful before delivery;
nipples often improve at the time of birth.
Test if nipple can be pulled out. If it can, then baby can pull it out too. If it goes in,
still try to attach baby. Leaning over baby can help.
Help baby to attach as early as possible before milk comes in and risk of
engorgement. Suckling immediately after the baby is born can help. Stimulating the
nipple at that time may help it to stand out more.
Express milk until baby able to attach – send to more experienced counselor.
Stress
Breastmilk does not spoil because if a mother feels stress.
She will not make less milk, but milk may not flow well temporarily. If mother
continues to breastfeed, the milk flow will start again.
Keep baby in skin-to-skin contact with mother if possible.
Find reassuring companions to listen, give mother an opportunity to talk, and provide
emotional support practical help.
Try to relax and breastfeed baby
Drink a warm beverage such as tea or warm water, to help relax and assist the let
down reflex.
If necessary, provide temporary artificial feeds by cup.
Cleft lip and/or palette
Babies with clefts have varying degrees of success with breastfeeding. Some babies
with clefts are able to breastfeed successfully.
To breastfeed babies need to make a seal on the breast and keep the breast in the
mouth. Mothers can try to position the breast so the breast fills the space in the lip or
try to close the lip area with her fingers.
A mother may need to express milk after feeding the baby to maintain and increase
her milk supply.
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If a baby is unable to breastfeed mothers can be encouraged and supported to express
and feed her baby by cup.
Expressing breastmilk
There are many reasons why a woman may express breastmilk:
Leave breastmilk for a baby when his mother goes out or goes to work.
Feed a low-birth-weight baby who cannot breastfeed.
Feed a sick baby, who cannot suckle enough.
Keep up the supply of breastmilk when a mother or baby is ill.
Prevent leaking when a mother is away from her baby.
Help a baby to attach to a full breast.
Help with breast health conditions (engorgement).
All mothers should learn how to express their milk, so that they know how if needed.
Breastmilk can be stored for about eight hours at room temperature (or up to 24 hours in a
refrigerator).
Help the mother psychologically:
Build her confidence.
Try to reduce any sources of pain or anxiety.
Help her to have good thoughts and feelings about the baby.
Help the mother practically. Help or advise her to:
Sit quietly and privately or with a supportive friend. Some mothers can express easily
in a group of other mothers who are also expressing for their babies.
Hold her baby with skin-to-skin contact if possible. She can hold her baby on her lap
while she expresses. If this is not possible, she can look at the baby. If this is not
possible, sometimes even looking at a photograph of her baby helps.
Warm her breasts. For example, she can apply a warm compress, or warm water, or
have a warm shower. Warn her that she should test the temperature to avoid burning
herself.
Stimulate her nipples. She can gently pull or roll her nipples with her fingers.
Massage or stroke her breasts lightly. Some women find that it helps if they stroke the
breast gently with finger tips or with a comb. Some women find that it helps to gently
roll their closed fist over the breast towards the nipple.
Ask a helper to rub her back.
How to rub a mother’s back:
She should sit at the table resting her head on her arms, as relaxed as possible.
If you are demonstrating with a volunteer, she remains clothed, but explain that with a
mother it is important for her breasts and her back to be naked.
Make sure that the chair is far enough away from the table for her breasts to hang free.
Explain what you will do, and ask her permission to do it.
Rub both sides of her spine with your thumbs, making small circular movements,
from her neck to her shoulder blades (see Figure 1, earlier in this guide).
How to express breastmilk.
Wash her hands thoroughly.
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Sit or stand comfortably, and hold the container near her breast.
Put her thumb on her breast ABOVE the nipple and areola, and her first finger on the
breast BELOW the nipple and areola, opposite the thumb. She supports the breast
with her other fingers (see Figure 2, earlier in this guide).
Press her thumb and first finger slightly inward toward the chest wall. She should
avoid pressing too far or she may block the milk ducts.
Press her breast behind the nipple and areola between her finger and thumb. She
should press on the larger ducts beneath the areola. Sometimes in a lactating breast it
is possible to feel the ducts. They are like pods, or peanuts. If she can feel them, she
can press on them.
Press and release, press and release. This should not hurt—if it hurts, the technique is
wrong.
At first no milk may come, but after pressing a few times, milk starts to drip out or it
may flow in streams.
Press the areola in the same way from the SIDES, to make sure that milk is expressed
from all segments of the breast.
Avoid rubbing or sliding her fingers along the skin. The movement of the fingers
should be more like rolling.
Avoid squeezing the nipple itself. Pressing or pulling the nipple cannot express the
milk. It is the same as the baby sucking only the nipple.
Express one breast for at least 3–5 minutes until the flow slows, and then express the
other side; then repeat both sides. She can use either hand for either breast, and
change when they tire.
Explain that to express breastmilk adequately takes 20–30 minutes, especially in the
first few days when only a little milk may be produced. It is important not to try to
express in a shorter time.
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How to feed a baby by cup:
Wash your hands.
Hold the baby sitting upright or semi-upright on your lap.
Place the estimated amount of milk for one feed into the cup.
Hold the small cup of milk to the baby’s lips.
Tip the cup so that the milk just reaches the baby’s lips.
The cup rests lightly on the baby’s lower lip, and the edges of the cup touch the outer
part of the baby’s upper lip.
The baby becomes alert, and opens his mouth and eyes.
A low-birth-weight baby starts to take the milk into his mouth with his tongue.
A full term or older baby sucks the milk, spilling some of it.
DO NOT POUR the milk into the baby’s mouth. Just hold the cup to his lips and let
him take it himself.
When the baby has had enough, he closes his mouth and will not take any more. If he
has not taken the calculated amount, he may take more next time, or you may need to
feed him more often.
Measure his intake over 24 hours, not just at each feed.
Mother-to-child transmission of HIV
HIV can be transmitted from mothers to their children during pregnancy, during labour and
delivery, or through breastfeeding.
Pregnancy: Normally, the mother and the fetus (fetus is the medical word for a baby before it
is born) do not share the same blood. The placenta allows food and other helpful substances
to pass from the pregnant woman to the fetus, and blocks most germs and toxins. As long as
the pregnant woman stays healthy, the placenta helps protect the fetus from infection. If the
pregnant woman has other infections or illnesses, if her HIV infection is new, if she has HIV
and is sick, or if she is not eating enough, the placenta may not be able to protect the fetus
from HIV. Infections like malaria and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) may keep the
placenta from working properly, making it easier for HIV to pass to the fetus.
Labor and delivery: Most HIV transmission takes place during labor and delivery, when the
baby can come in contact with maternal blood and fluids. If a woman gives birth in a health
facility, there are actions health workers can take to help reduce the risk of transmission to
the baby.
Breastfeeding: HIV is in breastmilk and can be transmitted to a baby through breastfeeding.
For many HIV-positive women in our community, breastfeeding is the safest option. There
are ways to make breastfeeding safer. During the first 6 months, mothers should give only
breastmilk. The risk of transmission is much higher if babies are breastfed and given other
foods and liquids (even water) at the same time.
Risk of transmission: The most important risk factor for mother-to-child transmission is the
amount of HIV in the mother’s blood. This is called the viral load. The risk of transmission to
the baby is greatest when the viral load is high. Women who have recently been infected with
HIV or have late-stage HIV or AIDS often have high viral loads. ARV treatment can reduce
viral load.
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Some of the risk factors for transmission are the same and some are different during
pregnancy, labor and delivery, and breastfeeding.
Maternal factors that may increase the risk of HIV transmission
Pregnancy Labor and delivery Breastfeeding
High maternal viral load (new High maternal viral load (new High maternal viral load (new
or advanced HIV/AIDS) or advanced HIV/AIDS) or advanced HIV/AIDS)
Viral, bacterial, or parasitic Water break (rupture of Breastfeeding and giving
infection (like malaria) membranes) more than 4 other foods and liquids at the
hours before labor begins same time during the first 6
Sexually transmitted
months
infections (STIs) Invasive delivery procedures
that increase contact with the Breast infections, sores, or
Maternal malnutrition
mother’s blood or body fluids cracked nipples
(like episiotomies)
When baby has mouth sores
First baby in multiple birth or thrush
Bacterial infection of the Maternal malnutrition
membrane (from untreated
STI or other infection)
Risk of transmission in different situations
Imagine 20 babies born to HIV-infected mothers. About 5 out of the 20 babies will be
infected with HIV during pregnancy, labor, or birth. These are the numbers based on women
who do not go for prevention of mother-to-child transmission (PMTCT) services during
pregnancy. The number of babies who would be infected is lower if women use PMTCT
services.
About 3 out of 20 babies would be infected during breastfeeding. A baby’s risk of HIV
infection depends on how he or she is breastfed. When mothers breastfeed and give other
foods and liquids before 6 months (which is how most children in our community are fed) it
almost doubles the risk of passing HIV to the baby.
In summary, out of 20 babies born to HIV-positive mothers, around 8 would be infected with
HIV, even if their mothers do not use PMTCT services or practice safer infant feeding.
Now imagine these same 20 babies are born to HIV-infected mothers, but this time the
mother and baby take antiretrovirals and practice exclusive breastfeeding. About 2 out of the
20 babies will be infected with HIV during pregnancy, labor, or birth. The number is lower
because these women used PMTCT services.
If a mother breastfeeds exclusively for 6 months, about 1 baby would be infected during
breastfeeding.
In summary, out of 20 babies born to HIV-positive mothers, around 3 would be infected with
HIV if their mothers use PMTCT services and practice exclusive breastfeeding. So by taking
these preventive actions, mothers can reduce the risk of transmission to their baby by more
than half.
Even when women do not use PMTCT services, most children will not become infected. But
because there are ways to reduce the risk of HIV transmission, it is important for all pregnant
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women to be tested so that if they are positive, they can learn how to reduce the risk of HIV
transmission to their baby. Women who are negative need to protect themselves from HIV
infection during pregnancy and breastfeeding.
Research has shown that there are many factors that can increase the risk that mothers will
pass HIV to their babies. These factors include:
The mother was recently infected or re-infected with HIV while pregnant or
breastfeeding.
The mother is in labor for a long time.
The mother is very sick with HIV (the stage of her illness).
The mother has breast problems while breastfeeding, including cracked nipples,
swollen breasts, or mastitis.
The baby has oral thrush or sores in his or her mouth.
The baby breastfeeds and also receives other foods or liquids.
To prevent or reduce the risk of an HIV-infected woman passing HIV to her baby:
All pregnant women and their partners should go for HIV testing and seek health care
services if they are positive.
Women who are positive should give birth in a health facility.
Women who are positive should attend PMTCT services.
Women who are positive should take antiretroviral drugs (ARVs) during labour and
give ARVs to their baby when it is born.
For most HIV-positive women in the community, exclusive breastfeeding is the best
way to feed their babies for the first 6 months, with continued breastfeeding through
at least 12 months.
Women should sleep under an insecticide-treated net during pregnancy.
Husbands and partners can help pregnant women stay healthy and reduce the risk of HIV
transmission to the child by:
Going for voluntary counseling and testing (VCT) together.
Making sure the woman goes to the health facility for ANC regularly and receives
early treatment of infections and illness.
Supporting the woman to exclusively breastfeed for 6 months, introduce
complementary foods at 6 months, and continue breastfeeding through at least 12
months.
Using condoms during sexual intercourse to prevent infection or re-infection.
Making sure the woman delivers in the health facility or with a skilled and trained
attendant.
Encouraging the woman to eat healthy meals and extra food during pregnancy and
breastfeeding.
Encouraging her to sleep under an insecticide-treated mosquito net.
Supporting her to take her ARVs (if recommended by her doctor).
A woman who is infected or re-infected with HIV during pregnancy or breastfeeding is more
likely to pass the virus to her child. Unprotected sexual intercourse while pregnant or
breastfeeding places a woman at risk of HIV infection, and increases the risk of HIV
infection to her child. When someone is newly infected or re-infected with HIV, the amount
of HIV in her blood is very high, increasing the risk of mother-to-child transmission.
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Infant feeding and HIV
Mothers who are HIV positive have two recommended options for how to feed their children:
giving only breastmilk or giving only commercial infant formula (called replacement feeding
because it replaces breastmilk) for the first 6 months. The Government of Kenya promotes
exclusively breastfeeding for 6 months with continued breastfeeding through at least 12
months for HIV-positive mothers.
For exclusive breastfeeding, although there is a risk of HIV infection through
breastfeeding, there is new information that shows that exclusive breastfeeding lowers
the risk of HIV transmission by half as compared with mixed feeding (mixed feeding
means breastfeeding and also giving other foods and liquids to an infant younger than
6 months).
For replacement feeding, there is double the chance that a baby will die from other
infections (diarrhea or pneumonia) by 6 months There is no difference in the chance
of HIV infection and death between a child who is exclusively breastfed and a child
who is exclusively replacement-fed.
Because it can be difficult for women to feed their baby replacement foods in a clean
and safe way and never breastfeed, exclusive breastfeeding is often the safest choice
for HIV-positive mothers in our community.
Most babies in our community are breastfed and given other foods and liquids at the same
time before they are 6 months old. This is called mixed feeding and puts babies at a much
higher risk of illness, death, and HIV infection. Mixed feeding – the most common practice –
has the greatest risk of HIV infection and death from other illnesses.
As a mother-to-mother support group facilitator, you can help support women to feed their
babies safely regardless of the option they choose.
For most HIV-positive women in our community, exclusive breastfeeding is the best
way to feed their babies for the first 6 months.
Although giving only formula (and never breastfeeding) can reduce the risk of HIV
transmission, it can double the number of children who become sick and die from
other illnesses. For this reason, exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months is the
safest option for most women in our community.
We need to support HIV-positive women to exclusively breastfeed and be sure that
people know about the dangers of giving other foods and liquids while breastfeeding
before 6 months. At 6 months, HIV-positive mothers should introduce complementary
foods and continue to breastfeed until 12 months. At 12 months, they should talk with
a health worker again about how best to feed their babies and about whether stopping
breastfeeding would be appropriate.
If mothers think that they can safely feed their children using infant formula, they
should talk with a health worker to learn if this would be an appropriate option for
them and how to do this safely.
Figure 4 shows the risks of different feeding options for women who are HIV positive:
Looking at the 20 children fed only breastmilk, 1 will die from diarrhea, pneumonia,
or other infections, and 1 will be infected with HIV.
Looking at the 20 children fed only replacement milk, 4 will die from diarrhea,
pneumonia, or other infections, and none will be infected with HIV.
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Looking at the 20 children fed breastmilk and other foods and liquids, 3 will die from
diarrhea, pneumonia, or other infections, and 3 will be infected with HIV.
Mixed feeding has the greatest risk.
Figure 4. Risk of different feeding methods
Adapted from: Republic of Kenya, Ministry of Health/Division of Nutrition and National AIDS/STI Control
Programme (NASCOP). Infant and Young Child Feeding in the Context of HIV and AIDS: Kenyan National
Counselling Cards. Nairobi; 2008.
Feeding babies at 6 months
One way to tell if a child is healthy is to see if he or she is growing properly (gaining
enough weight).
Before 6 months, breastmilk provides everything a baby needs, but at 6 months, and
as babies continue to grow, they need other foods.
At 6 months children start to need a variety of other foods while continuing to
breastfeed.
Breastmilk continues to help children grow well and protect them from illnesses until
2 years and beyond. Mothers should be supported to breastfeed often even after babies
start to eat other foods.
The foods that are given to children at 6 months are called complementary foods,
because they complement breastmilk—they do not replace breastmilk.
The amount and types of complementary foods that babies and young children eat are
responsible for their health, growth, and development.
Appropriate complementary feeding promotes growth and prevents stunting among
children 6–23 months old. Stunting (when children are short for their age), which
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shows that children are malnourished, is permanent if not corrected by 2 years of age
and affects intelligence.
Rates of malnutrition are usually highest from 6 to 23 months of age, when babies
start to eat foods other than breastmilk. If babies are not fed well during this time it
can have lifelong consequences.
Appropriate complementary feeding involves continued breastfeeding and giving the
appropriate amount of good-quality foods.
Babies 6–12 months old are especially vulnerable, because they are just learning to
eat. Babies this age must be fed on soft foods frequently and patiently. These foods
should be given in addition to breastmilk; they do not replace breastmilk.
Malnutrition affects health, intelligence, productivity, and ultimately a country’s
potential to develop.
Adequate weight gain is a sign of good health and nutrition. It is important to continue
to take children to the health facility for regular check-ups and immunizations and to
monitor growth and development.
After 6 months of age, children should receive vitamin A supplements twice a year.
If a mother is HIV positive, it is important for her to consult a health care provider
when her baby is 12 months old for counseling on infant feeding options, such as
safer breastfeeding or the use of other suitable milks.
Complementary feeding
There are three different food groups. It is important for children to eat a variety of foods
from each of the groups each day.
Body-building Energy-giving Protecting
Make children strong Give children energy Prevent and fight illness
Beans, dengu, meat, Rice, potatoes, ugali, maize, Fruits and vegetables like
chicken, fish, and egg yolks millet, and matoke leafy greens, carrots,
pumpkin, oranges, mangoes,
and paw paws
As children grow they need to eat more. To be sure they are eating enough, mothers can
breastfeed more often, give more food, feed children more often, and give foods that have a
lot of energy even in small amounts (like fats and oils).
Recommended amounts of foods to give at different ages:
6 months 7–8 months 9–11 months 12–24 months
Two to three One-half cup at each Three-fourths of a One cup at each
tablespoons at each meal cup at each meal meal
meal
Three meals each Three meals each Three meals each
Two meals each day day day day
One snack Two snacks
When sharing information with mothers and caregivers it might help to first talk with them
about what they are doing and then help them to decide what they could realistically do to
improve their current practices—for example, give more food, feed more often, give more
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variety, give thicker porridge. Telling mothers to make many changes at once is not likely to
lead to positive changes in behavior.
Preparing foods safely
Store, clean, prepare, and cook food safely:
Cooked food should be eaten without delay or heated again, making it very hot. Do
not give food that has been sitting for more than 1 hour, unless it has been kept very
hot or very cold.
Store cooked food in a covered container and use it within 1 hour. Always reheat food
well after 1 hour.
Wash all bowls, cups, and utensils with clean water and soap. If bowls, cups, or
utensils are used for raw food they must be washed again before using them for
cooked food.
Only use water that is from a safe source or is purified. Water containers need to be
kept covered to keep the water clean.
Raw or leftover food can be dangerous. Raw food should be washed or cooked.
Utensils used to cut or handle raw food should be cleaned before using them to cut or
handle cooked food.
Food, utensils, and food-preparation surfaces should be kept clean. Food should be
stored in covered containers.
Dispose of all household trash in a safe way (by burying or burning trash every day)
to help prevent illness.
Wash hands with clean, running water before cooking food, before and after feeding a
baby, after changing nappies or going to the toilet, and after touching animals.
Helping children to eat
A child needs food, good health, and proper care to grow and develop. Even when food and
health care are limited, good care-giving can help make best use of these limited resources.
Care refers to the behaviors and practices of the caregivers and family that provide the food,
health care, stimulation, and emotional support necessary for the child’s healthy growth and
development.
When a child is learning to eat, he often eats slowly and is messy. He may be easily
distracted.
He may make a face, spit some food out, and play with the food. This is because the
child is learning to eat.
A child needs to learn how to eat, to try new food tastes and textures.
A child needs to learn to chew, move food around in the mouth, and swallow food.
A child needs to learn how to get food effectively into the mouth, how to use a spoon,
and how to drink from a cup.
It is very important for caregivers to encourage the child to learn to eat the foods offered.
Help encourage children to eat by:
Feeding infants directly and assisting older children when they feed themselves.
Offering favorite foods and encouraging children to eat when they lose interest or
have depressed appetites.
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Giving different food combinations, tastes, textures, and methods for encouragement
(especially if children refuse many foods).
Talking to children during feeding.
Looking at children when you are feeding them.
Feeding slowly and patiently and minimizing distractions during meals.
Not forcing children to eat.
Feeding children of HIV-positive mothers from 6 months of age
At 6 months, it is important for an HIV-positive mother to introduce complementary
foods and continue breastfeeding to 12 months of age.
A mother should continue breastfeeding after 6 months so that her baby can continue
to get the benefits of breastmilk.
It is especially important for children with mothers who are HIV infected to eat the
right kinds and right amounts of safely prepared foods in addition to breastfeeding.
Information about complementary feeding in general can be shared with women who
are HIV positive.
Children of HIV-positive women must receive early treatment for illnesses and careful
growth monitoring to make sure they are healthy. Mothers and caregivers can:
Be sure the baby receives ARVs immediately after birth to reduce the risk of HIV
transmission.
Bring the baby for follow-up visits.
Make sure the baby receives all immunizations by the time he or she is 1 year old.
Bring the baby to the health facility if the baby has a fever, diarrhea, chronic cough,
malaria, hookworm, or other infections.
HIV-infected children are at a high risk of getting sick and being underweight. HIV-infected
infants need to eat more even if they do not have any symptoms. It is important that the
following problems receive medical attention:
Not eating enough (poor appetite, eating very little, or only liking certain foods).
Stomach pain.
Feeding difficulties (poor sucking, swallowing, or breathing).
Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea.
Weight loss or failure to gain weight adequately.
All babies have antibodies passed on from their mothers as a natural way to protect babies
while they are developing their own immune systems. All babies born to HIV-infected
mothers have HIV antibodies from their mothers, regardless of whether the babies are HIV
infected themselves. Their mothers’ antibodies will stay in their bodies for 12 to 18 months.
HIV antibody tests on babies younger than 18 months will only show if the mother is
infected, and cannot tell the difference between infected and uninfected children.
There is now a test that can check babies for the virus itself. This test can be used with babies
who are as young as 6 weeks. To test for the virus in children, a small needle prick is
performed on the child’s foot and the blood is dripped onto paper. The blood dries and the
paper is transported in a sealed bag or envelope to a lab where the specimen is tested for HIV.
Babies who test negative should be brought back for repeat testing at 12 and 18 months.
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Testing at 6 weeks is used to help identify children who are HIV positive so they can start to
receive treatment. It should not be used to change infant feeding decisions. For example, if an
HIV-positive woman is exclusively breastfeeding, she should continue to breastfeed even if
the child tests negative. The child’s status does not change what is safest.
The recommendation for children who test HIV positive is to exclusively breastfeed, even if
they were being fed formula before—this way they can benefit from all of the protective
qualities in breastmilk. At 6 months a mother should continue breastfeeding and start to give
complementary foods. Also, if her baby tests negative, a mother who is breastfeeding should
continue to breastfeed.
To help keep children born to HIV-positive women healthy, even before learning the child’s
status, caregivers can ensure that children:
Are brought for routine well-baby and immunization visits. Waiting until a child falls
ill can be too late. Children’s immune systems are not as developed as adults’ and
they can get sick quicker.
Receive routine immunizations (including measles and BCG) according to the
recommended schedule.
Are brought to be weighed each month. This is important for all babies, but it is
especially important for HIV-exposed children. Many HIV-infected children are
underweight during the course of their illness. Research shows that an HIV-infected
child’s nutritional status is closely related to the child’s survival.
It is important for caregivers to know the signs and symptoms most commonly associated
with HIV infection in children so they can get treatment immediately. If a child has a fever,
diarrhea, ear infections, or is not growing well, it is important for the caregivers to bring
HIV-exposed children (and non-exposed children) to a facility immediately.
Safe infant feeding in the first 2 years of life or longer is important for child survival and
development. Giving only breastmilk for the first 6 months—which means giving no other
foods or liquids, not even water—will be the safest choice for most women in our
community. HIV-positive women who choose to breastfeed should be encouraged and
supported to do so exclusively.
It is important for parents and caregivers to understand the risks of giving babies born to
HIV-positive mothers other foods and liquids while breastfeeding during the first 6 months.
This is called mixed feeding and can significantly increase the risk of HIV transmission and
the risk of death from diarrhea, pneumonia, and other infections.
It is important for women and caregivers who want to give formula (despite the
recommendation to exclusively breastfeed for 6 months) to talk with a health worker about
whether or not this can be done safely. For many families in our community, exclusive
breastfeeding for the first 6 months is the safest option.
Babies and children born to mothers with HIV can live healthy lives. It is important for them
to be tested early for HIV (from 6 weeks of age using a special HIV-testing method, and
again at 12 months and 18 months).
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There is medicine that can be given to babies and children to help prevent common illnesses
and infections in children who are HIV exposed:
This medicine is called Cotrimoxazole, Bactrim, Septra, or Septrin.
Cotrimoxazole can help prevent the most common cause of death in young children
with HIV—pneumonia—as well as protect against malaria and bacterial infections.
Cotrimoxazole is recommended for all HIV-exposed infants from 6 weeks through at
least 1 year of age.
Cotrimoxazole is given once a day, from 6 weeks of age until the age of 12 months
and can be continued for longer periods if recommended by a health worker.
Risks for HIV-positive mothers who stop breastfeeding before 6 months:
When mothers try to stop breastfeeding before 6 months of age they often continue to
breastfeed while they start feeding their babies other food or fluids. This is mixed
feeding, which can cause diarrhea and increase the risk of HIV transmission.
It is very challenging for mothers to be able to provide a safe and nutritious diet
without breastmilk. It is important for mothers to consider the risk of HIV
transmission compared with the many risks of not breastfeeding. Formula-fed infants
have a higher risk of illness and death. Also, studies have shown that stopping
breastfeeding early (at 4 to 6 months) increases the risk of illness and death, does not
improve HIV-free survival, and is challenging for mothers.
Breastmilk saves babies, even when their mothers are HIV positive.
At 12 months, mothers should talk with health care providers again about how best to
feed their babies. If a mother cannot safely provide an adequate diet to replace
breastmilk, she should continue to breastfeed.
When a baby is 12 months old, stopping breastfeeding may become less difficult for
the mother, less likely to cause disapproval or stigma, and less expensive than at an
earlier age.
For some HIV-positive mothers, 12 months is a good time to stop breastfeeding. For
many others, it may be better to continue breastfeeding when starting to give soft
foods.
The right time to stop breastfeeding must always be a mother’s choice and is best
made by talking with a health worker.
Babies born to mothers who are HIV infected can live long and healthy lives if they receive
medical care and treatment early. It is important to bring HIV-exposed children to a health
facility often and to find out if a child is HIV infected so that medical interventions can be
taken to help the baby. However, many families wait to seek treatment until a child becomes
very ill, and many do not want to bring their children in for testing.
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Planning and reporting tools
Mother-to-mother support group activity plan
Facilitator’s name:
Nearest health facility: Name of group:
District: Sub-location:
Goal:
Objective:
Activity Dates Resources available Measures of success
Objective:
Activity Dates Resources available Measures of success
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Mother-to-mother support group reporting form
Facilitator’s name:
Nearest health facility: Name of group:
District: Sub-location:
Meeting date Topic Number of participants
Challenges:
Questions:
Successes:
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