Aims of Counselling
Underpinning the diversity of theoretical models and social purposes discussed above
are a variety of ideas about the aims of counselling and therapy. Some of the different
aims that are espoused either explicitly or implicitly by counsellors are listed:
• Insight. The acquisition of an understanding of the origins and development of
emotional difficulties, leading to an increased capacity to take rational control over
feelings and actions (Freud: ‘where id was, shall ego be’).
• Relating with others. Becoming better able to form and maintain meaningful and
satisfying relationships with other people: for example, within the family or workplace.
• Self-awareness. Becoming more aware of thoughts and feelings that had been blocked
off or denied, or developing a more accurate sense of how self is perceived by others.
• Self-acceptance. The development of a positive attitude towards self, marked by an
ability to acknowledge areas of experience that had been the subject of self-criticism and
rejection.
• Self-actualization or individuation. Moving in the direction of fulfilling potential or
achieving an integration of previously conflicting parts of self.
• Enlightenment. Assisting the client to arrive at a higher state of spiritual awakening.
• Problem-solving. Finding a solution to a specific problem that the client had not been
able to resolve alone. Acquiring a general competence in problem-solving.
• Psychological education. Enabling the client to acquire ideas and techniques with which
to understand and control behaviour.
• Acquisition of social skills. Learning and mastering social and interpersonal skills such
as maintenance of eye contact, turn-taking in conversations, assertiveness or anger
control.
Cognitive change. The modification or replacement of irrational beliefs or maladaptive
thought patterns associated with self-destructive behaviour.
• Behaviour change. The modification or replacement of maladaptive or selfdestructive
patterns of behaviour.
• Systemic change. Introducing change into the way in that social systems (e.g. families)
operate.
• Empowerment. Working on skills, awareness and knowledge that will enable the client
to take control of his or her own life.
• Restitution. Helping the client to make amends for previous destructive behaviour.
• Generativity and social action. Inspiring in the person a desire and capacity to care for
others and pass on knowledge (generativity) and to contribute to the collective good
through political engagement and community work.