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Coping mechanisms are the strategies people

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manage painful or difficult emotions. Coping
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Significant life events, whether positive or

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negative, can cause psychological stress. Difficult events, such as divorce, miscarriage, the death
of a loved one, or the loss of a job, can cause most people to feel grief or distress. But even events
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that are considered positive by many—getting married, having a child, and buying a home—can
lead to a significant amounts of stress. To adjust to this stress, people may utilize some
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combination of behavior, thought, and emotion, depending on the situation.

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anxiety, or depression.
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HOW ARE COPING MECHANISMS AND DEFENSE MECHANISMS DIFFERENT?
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may confuse defense mechanisms with coping mechanisms. Although these two concepts
share some similarities, they are, in fact, different.

Defense mechanisms mostly occur at an unconscious level, and people are generally
unaware they are using them. One’s use of coping mechanisms, on the other hand, is
typically conscious and purposeful.
Coping mechanisms are used to manage an external situation that is creating problems for
an individual. Defense mechanisms can change a person’s internal psychological state.

COPING STYLES AND MECHANISMS

Coping styles can be problem-focused—also called instrumental—or emotion-focused. Problem-
focused coping strategies are typically associated with methods of dealing with the problem in
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Further, coping mechanisms can be broadly categorized as active or avoidant. Active coping
mechanisms usually involve an awareness of the stressor and conscious attempts to reduce
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negative consequences, are known as “maladaptive coping.” Adaptive coping mechanisms are
those generally considered to be healthy and effective ways of managing stressful situations.
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TYPES OF COPING MECHANISMS
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Support: Talking about a stressful event with a supportive person can be an effective way to
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manage stress. Seeking external support instead of self-isolating and internalizing the
effects of stress can greatly reduce the negative effects of a difficult situation.
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Relaxation: Any number of relaxing activities can help people cope with stress. Relaxing
activities may include practicing meditation, progressive muscle relaxation or other calming
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techniques, sitting in nature, or listening to soft music.
Problem-solving: This coping mechanism involves identifying a problem that is causing
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stress and then developing and putting into action some potential solutions for effectively
managing it.
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Humor: Making light of a stressful situation may help people maintain perspective and
prevent the situation from becoming overwhelming.
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Physical activity: Exercise can serve as a natural and healthy form of stress relief. Running,
yoga, swimming, walking, dance, team sports, and many other types of physical activity can
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help people cope with stress and the aftereffects of traumatic events.

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short list of common maladaptive coping mechanisms includes:

Escape: To cope with anxiety or stress, some people may withdraw from friends and
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become socially isolated. They may absorb themselves in a solitary activity such as
watching television, reading, or spending time online.
Unhealthy self-soothing: Some self-soothing behaviors are healthy in moderation but may
turn into an unhealthy addiction if it becomes a habit to use them to self-soothe. Some
examples of unhealthy self-soothing could include overeating, binge drinking, or excessive
use of internet or video games.
Numbing: Some self-soothing behaviors may become numbing behaviors. When a person
engages in numbing behavior, they are often aware of what they are doing and may seek
out an activity that will help them drown out or override their distress. People may seek to
numb their stress by eating junk food, excessive alcohol use, or using drugs.
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Compulsions and risk-taking: Stress can cause some people to seek an adrenaline rush
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Self-harm: People may engage in self-harming behaviors to cope with extreme stress or
trauma.
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COPING MECHANISMS AND MENTAL HEALTH
The use of effective coping skills can often help improve mental and emotional well-being. People
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who are able to adjust to stressful or traumatic situations (and the lasting impact these incidents
may
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depression, and other mental health concerns as a result of painful or challenging events.
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People who find themselves defaulting to maladaptive coping mechanisms and/or experience
difficulty utilizing effective coping strategies may eventually see a negative impact on mental and
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emotional well-being. Those who have a difficult time knowing how to cope with anxiety, stress,
or anger may fall into the habit of relying on a maladaptive coping mechanism. Consuming
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alcohol can often help people feel less stressed in the immediate moment, for example, but if a
person comes to rely on alcohol, or any other substance, in the face of challenging situations, they
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may eventually become dependent on the substance over time.

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you experience stress and don’t know how to cope, a therapist or other mental health
professional can often help you develop and improve your coping skills. Therapists can provide
support
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environment for people to explore the coping methods they rely on and determine how they help
or hinder
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References:
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