Seduction and Advanced Sexual Techniques Notes
I. Mistakes Most Guys Make
a. Not escalating properly
b. Uncomfortable talking about sex
c. Not making her comfortable during sex
d. Awkward after sex
e. Waiting 3-5 dates to have sex
II. Escalating
a. Logistically (moving venues)
- Have a reason to go to your house/bedroom
b. Physically (touching and kissing)
c. Verbally (talking about sex)
III. Setting the Mood
a. Appeal to Her Senses
- Sight (lighting)
- Sound (music)
- Taste (wine, mixed drinks)
- Smell (incense)
- Touch (massage)
b. Pimp out your place
- Make sure it’s clean
- No clutter
- Modern is sexy
- Sexual props (books, wedge)
IV. How to Begin?
a. Don’t ask!
b. Start kissing Her
c. Questions Game
d. Board Games
e. Have her spend the night and change into your boxers
V. Last Minute Resistance
a. If you escalated properly you will get very little resistance
b. Don’t make it a big deal
c. Don’t mistake “NO” and “STOP” with “we shouldn’t be doing this”
d. Agree, Stop, Talk, Try Again
VI. Become Good at Sex
a. Practice
- Ugly girls?
b. Research (educate yourself)
- Internet
- Videos (White Tiger Tantra)
c. Ask women what they like
V. Techniques
a. Being Dominant
- Mover her around
- Tell her what to do/tell her what you like
b. The Claw
- Make her squirt!
c. Fake Orgasms!?
d. Things that can help
- Foods (oysters, blueberries)
- Herbal Supplements
- Female friendly condoms
VI. After Sex
a. Let her sleep over
b. Don’t fall asleep right away (pillow talk)
c. Hang out in the morning (time constraint)
d. Set up plans to hang out again
VII. Infield Assignments
a. Research: Spend at least 3 hours researching sexual techniques and ways
to give women pleasure in bed.
b. 10 approaches and interactions. 3 of which must has some sort of sexual
context or sexual frame. Talk about sex or say something sexual (but
don’t go too sexual too quickly) and see how she responds.