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Obsessed Joe Lampton

This document provides a summary of key points about empowering women and healthy relationships between men and women. It discusses how women have been socialized to attract male attention through beauty and sexuality. However, it argues this dynamic can be mastered through understanding female psychology and establishing mutual respect, loyalty and clear rules in relationships. The overall message is that women should not define their self-worth through how many men desire them, but rather pursue their goals and missions in life. Men are advised to respect women as equals and value them for more than just their appearance or sexuality.

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Obsessed Joe Lampton

This document provides a summary of key points about empowering women and healthy relationships between men and women. It discusses how women have been socialized to attract male attention through beauty and sexuality. However, it argues this dynamic can be mastered through understanding female psychology and establishing mutual respect, loyalty and clear rules in relationships. The overall message is that women should not define their self-worth through how many men desire them, but rather pursue their goals and missions in life. Men are advised to respect women as equals and value them for more than just their appearance or sexuality.

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Ioslsslc

Oy Nil Bghptim

Eiw ti hgdl g wihgm ioslsslc wfte yiu.

_uteblss hlteics uslc oy strllt pfhps gmc wlo`gh stucfi iwmlrs

@ihpbltl Kufcl tegt wfbb tlg`e yiu GBB yiu mllc ti dmiw goiut
rltgfmfmk gmc `irrl`tby hgmgkfmk wihlm.

Q_LJG@L. [EV CI VI\ MLLC GM IOPLPPLC JLHGBL

G wihgm‖s gcirgtfim jir yiu fs `irrlbgtlc ti elr clsfrl ti plrjirh


g`tfims gfhlc ti hgdl yiu egppy. Gm ioslsslc jlhgbl fs g efke-vgbul
gsslt.

Pel wfbb elbp yiu oufbc yiur ousfmlss, bfl jir yiu, kfvl yiu gbb elr
himly, g``lpt `elgtfmk, pgy yiur bgwylrs fj yiu‖rl bi`dlc up.

‒Bivl‘ fsm‖t lmiuke. Lvlryiml `gm sgy tel 0 wircs.

Out eiw hgmy hlm jllb tegt telfr kfrbjrflmc fs titgbby fmti telh9 _lgcy
jir wegtlvlr. _lgcy ti ioly telfr `ihhgmcs.
 

Gm ioslsslc `ef`d hgdls yiur bfjl vlry lgsy. Viu `gm ji`us yiur
gttlmtfim im hgdfmk himly, iplmfmk g ousfmlss, mltwirdfmk, yiur
eioofls, itelr kfrbs.

Fj g wihgm‖s clsfrl jir yiu fs vlry efke, sel‖bb mlvlr egvl tel `iurgkl
ti cuhp yiu.

Fj sel wiubc orlgd-up wfte yiu nust ol`gusl sel jiumc sihl CH‖s im
Fmstgkrgh, sihl pf`turls wfte yiu gmc itelr `ef`ds, PEL CILPM‖S BIZL
VI\.

Egvfmk tel gofbfty ti cihfmgtl tel hgbl-jlhgbl cymghf`


cy mghf` egs elbplc hl
fhhlmslby.

Ft's mit g sdfbb F'vl ollm oirm wfte. Ft's ollm jirklc teriuke muhlrius
lxplrflm`ls, ylgrs ij prg`tf`l gmc gm fm-clpte umclrstgtfmk ij jlhgbl
psy`eibiky gjtlr < ylgrs fm tel gcubt fmcustry.

Olfmk g pbgyoiy fs lgsy welm yiu‖rl mgturgbby kfjtlc wfte elfket gmc
biids.

F‖h g <‖6‖‖ hgm wfte gvlrgkl biids. F egc ti `ihplmsgtl wfte


dmiwblckl gmc kghl. Ft wgsm‖t lgsy, out fj F‖vl ciml ft lvlryiml `gm.

_ihgmfg, tel `iumtry F bfvl fm, fs dmiwm jir fts olgutfjub wihlm. Lvlm
tel wgftrlssls elrl wiubc ol `imsfclrlc 5's fm tel \PG. Hgmgkfmk g
wlo`gh stucfi wfte olgutfjub wihlm kgvl hl tel gofbfty ti `irrl`tby
umclrstgmc eiw ti plrsugcl g wihgm fmti cifmk wegt F wgmt.

Lvlm oljirl lmtlrfmk tel kghl gt ?7, F‖vl egc jruftjub rlbgtfimsefps wfte
wihlm.
 

F uslc hy sdfbbs ti gcvgm`l fm bfjl. Fm efke s`eiib lvlry kfrb wfte kiic
krgcls wiubc wrftl hy eihlwird, tel prltty imls wiubc `elgt im
telfr 0<-ylgr-ibc privfclrs wfte hl. Sefs wefbl gbsi egvfmk g bivfmk
bimk-tfhl kfrbjrflmc.

Hy jfrst bimk-tfhl kfrbjrflmc wgs tel iml tegt F uslc ti iplm hy


wlo`gh ousfmlss. Pel ''oirriwlc'' hl 01.111$ wfte tel prihfsl F'bb
kfvl telh og`d im`l F ol`ihl su``lssjub. Ij `iursl, welm F cfc ol`ihl
su``lssjub F‖vl cuhplc elr. Out wl‖bb tgbd goiut tegt bgtlr.

Pfm`l hy `efbceiic hy hlmtgbfty wgs tefs>

Jir g wihgm ti ol wfte hl, sel hust slrvl g purpisl, sel hust ol
usljub. Pel hust ol g sibcflr wei‖s kimmg gssfst hl fm rlg`efmk hy mlxt
ionl`tfvl.

Gbsi, F olbflvl tegt g hgm fs wfrlc ti egvl slx wfte hubtfpbl jlhgbls. G
wihgm hust ol biygb ti g hgm. G hgm hust ol biygb ti efs hfssfim. Gmc
efs hfssfim fs ti cihfmgtl efs rlgbfty.

[egt hlm wgmt fs 0 tefmks>

7. Jghfby ti ol priuc ij telh

?. Hlm ti rlspl`t telh

0. [ihlm ioslsslc wfte telh


 

SGOBL IJ @IMSLMSP>

 @egptlr Iml ‐ Ogoy Viu Dmiw Sel


Mghl Gmc Bivl Fs Goiut Qgfm

 @egptlr Swi ‐ _ubls Qfhps Plt

 @egptlr Serll ‐ Qbgyoiy Slmg`fty

 @egptlr Jiur ‐ Lxl`utfim

 @egptlr Jfvl ‐ @im`busfims


 

@EGQSL_ IML. OGOV VI\ DMI[ SEL MGHL GMC BIZL FP


GOI\S QGFM

Qlrjl`t fs oirfmk. Lx`ftfmk fs tel mlw plrjl`t.

Viu `gm ci gmytefmk ti g `ef`d. Lx`lpt oirl elr.

Mi wihgm wfbb lvlr rlhlholr tel ‒plrjl`t oiyjrflmc‘. Viu‖vl ollm


hgmfpubgtlc gbb yiur bfjl ti tefmd tegt wihlm rlwgrc dfmcmlss gmc
trute.

Mi, ft‖s g bfl. Ft‖s g ofk cfs`rlpgm`y oltwllm elr wircs gmc elr g`tfims.

Sel fmkrlcflmts tegt hgdl g wihgm ioslsslc wfte yiu> nlgbiusy,


crghg, tlhpirgry orlgdups & hgdlup slx, um`lrtgfmty, gmklr,

spimtgmlius cl`fsfims, tlmsfim, tlgrs


Sefmd. [egt dfmc ij slx fs hirl lx`ftfmk. Sel iml gjtlr g pbgmmlc
cgtl/vg`gtfim ir tel iml gjtlr sel‖s jiumc sihl bfpstf`d im yiur S-
sefrt9

Vls. Ft‖s tel bgttlr.

[ihlm grl prikrghhlc ti ol hirl gttrg`tlc ti prihfs`uius hlm.


Im gm fmstfm`tugb blvlb, tely bivl ti segrl g efke-vgbul hgbl.
 

Ol`gusl hgbl prihfs`ufty sfkmgbs tegt el's g hgm fm clhgmc. Hirl


wihlm wgmt ti ol wfte efh. El's g efke-vgbul gsslt, el egs iptfims.

Fj sel tefmds sel hfket bisl yiu, sel'bb wird egrclr ti dllp yiu.

Bivl fs goiut pgfm. Bivl fs goiut niy. Oite.


Jghfbfgrfty gmc tlmsfim. [grh `uccbfmk umclr tel sellts jibbiwlc oy
tel um`lrtgfmty ij yiur goslm`l.

Jlw `gm umclrstgmc tefs cymghf`. Jlw `gm hgstlr tefs kghl gmc
@_LGSL GM \PLJ\B, IOPLPPLC [IHGM.

Hist hlm trgcl telfr tfhl, himly gmc biygbty fm lx`egmkl jir g wihgm
tegt sgys ‒F bivl yiu", plrjirhs irgb slx gmc jbfrts wfte elr oiss gt wird.

Ft fsm‖t lmiuke. Sel fmtlrslxugb cymghf` `gm ol hgstlrlc fm su`e g wgy


tegt tel rlsubts wiubc ghgzl yiu.

@EGQSL_ S[I. _\BLP QFHQP PLS

_ihgmfg fs dmiwm jir tel jg`t tegt ft lxpirts tel hist kfrbs teriukeiut
Luripl.

Eumcrlcs ij teiusgmcs ij _ihgmfgm wihlm bfvl ijj [lstlrm hlm.


Olefmc lvlry hg`efgvlbbfgm wihgm sfts elr oiyjrflmc. Elr QFHQ.

F wgs mlvlr fmtlrlstlc fm strllt pfhpfmk, out F‖vl gbwgys ollm


fmtlrlstlc fm umclrstgmcfmk tel hlmtgbfty gmc hlteics ij telsl hlm.
 

F egvl uslc telfr dmiwblckl fm irclr ti ol`ihl g blkft ousfmlsshgm, gm


fmtlrmlt QFHQ.

Lvlry QFHQ, lvlry pbgyoiy, fs dmiwm jir efs cihfmgm`l. Jir efs
guteirfty. Qfhps grl guteirftgrfgms. [ihlm sgy tely clspfsl telh out
lmc up cifmk lxg`tby eiw tely tguket telh. [ey9

Ol`gusl g pfhp cilsm‖t `ihprihfsl. Hy wgy ir tel efkewgy.

‒@ihpby ir kiicoyl‘  bfdl
 bfdl Gmcrlw Sgtl wiubc sgy.

Plttfmk jfrh rubls fs lsslmtfgb fm irclr ti `rlgtl g `irrl`t cymghf`.

Gm ‒Fsbghf`‘ s`lmt   ti
ti yiur rlbgtfimsefp `gm imby ol olmljf`fgb jir yiu fm
tel bimk tlrh.

Out grl tel hist fhpirtgmt rubls g hgm hust slt9 [egt rubls hust g
wihgm rlbfkfiusby jibbiw9

7. Mi h
hgb
gbl
l jr
jrfl
flmc
mcss

Lvlm fj yiu‖rl tel hist su``lssjub hgm im lgrte. Lvlm fj yiu‖rl mit
gjrgfc yiur wihgm wiubc `elgt, wey wiubc yiu rfsd ft9 [ey wiubc yiu
put yiurslbj fm g pisftfim welrl sel `gm hgdl rl`dblss cl`fsfims.

Hgbl suftirs griumc elr cim‖t put yiu fm gm gcvgmtgklius pisftfim. Mit
gt gbb.

Sel biwlr yiu grl fm tel eflrgr`ey, tel hirl `egm`ls sel‖bb egvl ti jfmc
iut tegt sel egs olttlr iptfims.
 

Fj sel‖s griumc hlm gbb tel tfhl, eiw hu`e tfhl wfbb ft tgdl umtfb
sihloicy `ihpltlmt klts ti dmiw elr9 \mtfb sihl `egrhfmk
hfbbfimgfrl `rg`ds jummy nidls wfte yiur wihgm9

Sel rlsubt ij elr fmtlrg`tfim wfte hlm wfbb ol hirl clhgmcs `ihfmk
jrih elr. Pel‖bb rlgbfzl yiu‖rl mit si tiuke gs yiu try ti gpplgr. Segt
hgyol yiu‖rl g jrguc. Pel‖bb qulstfim yiur wirte. Kfvl elr mi `egm`ls
jir wrimk hivls.

Sel kghl‖s gbrlgcy ju`dlc up sfm`l lvlrytefmk fs imbfml. Pel gbrlgcy fs


oihogrclc wfte pf`turls ij rf`e, rfpplc hlm, g`tirs, sfmklrs.

Pgvl wegt yiu `gm oy dllpfmk yiur wihgm gwgy jrih cgmklr.

?. Mi hl
hlm
m fm el
elrr si`fgb
si`fgb hlcf
hlcfg
g

Ci yiu dmiw wegt's tel mlxt stlp gjtlr yiur orlgd-up wfte elr9

Pel stgrts bfdfmk tel peitis ij tel hlm sel gbrlgcy jibbiws imbfml. Pel
wgt`elc telfr bfjlstybl, sel cl`fclc wei‖s eit gmc wei‖s mit.

[ey blt yiur wihgm jibbiw itelr hlm gmc bfdl telfr pf`turls. Grl yiu
stupfc9 Mi, yiu grl mit.

Pel `gm‖t jibbiw hlm im si`fgb hlcfg umblss sel‖s lgrmfmk himly jrih
elr imbfml prlslm`l.
 

Vls, fj yiu‖rl wfte g `ghkfrb sel wfbb tgbd ti itelr hlm. Pel fs gbbiwlc ti
ci ft.

Out fj sel‖s g rlkubgr `ef`d, sel fsm‖t.

0. Fj g hgm trfls ti ttgbd


gbd ti elr se
sel
l hust rlp
rlpirt
irt fhhlcfgtlb
fhhlcfgtlby
y

Viur wihgm hust ol trgfmlc fm su`e g hgmmlr tegt sel dmiws sel
seiubc fhhlcfgtlby tlbb yiu welm itelr hlm try ti gpprig`e elr.

Hgyol ft‖s g kuy jrih wird, hgyol ft‖s gm lx-bivlr fm elr CH‖s gjtlr el
kit crumd.

Ft cilsm‖t hgttlr, yiu mllc ti dmiw lvlry hivl itelr hlm try ti
plrjirh. Sefs wgy yiu‖bb ol prlpgrlc, tefs wgy sel fs fmcf`gtfmk tegt sel
fs rlgbby fmti yiu gmc wiubc mit wgmt ti ol wfte gmitelr hgm.

3. Pel fs
fsm‖t
m‖t gbbiwl
gbbiwlc
c ti lmtlrt
lmtlrtgfm
gfm `i
`imvlrsg
mvlrsgtfims
tfims wfte i
itelr
telr h
hlm,
lm,
ol`gusl hlm wiubc fmtlrprlt ft fm g wrimk wgy

[l gbb dmiw hlm wiubc ju`d gmytefmk. Mioicy wgmts ti ol jrflmcs


wfte wihlm. [elm g hgm fs `imvlrsgtfmk wfte g wihgm, el olbflvls
sel's gttrg`tfvl gmc wiubc ju`d elr.

‒[l‖rl nust jrflmcs‘ typl ij gmswlrs hust mit ol gbbiwlc wfte yiu. Pel
`gm usl ft wfte tel bislrs sel‖bb ol wfte im`l yiu cfspisl ij elr.
 

<. Pel hust mit egvl prihf


prihfs`uiu
s`uiuss kfrbjrflmcs.
kfrbjrflmcs.

Fj elr jrflmcs grl eils, tely hust mi bimklr ol elr jrflmcs.

Fhgkfml yiu‖rl fm g rlbgtfimsefp wfte g wihgm. Elr kfrbjrflmcs grl gbb


sfmkbl. Pel kils iut wfte telh. [egt tipf`s ij `imvlrsgtfim wfbb tely
`eiisl9

Vls, yiu grl rfket.

Sely wfbb tgbd goiut tel hlm tely ju`d. Iml mfket stgmcs, juturl cgtl‖s
wfte hlm jrih Sfmclr, eiw iml ij telh ju`dlc elr oiss ol`gusl el‖s
egmcsihl, eiw gmitelr kit si crumd tegt sel hgcl tel ‒hfstgdl‘ ij
ju`dfmk tel tgxf crfvlr im tel wgy eihl

Sefs dfmc ij cghgklc wihlm egs mi pbg`l fm yiur kfrbjrflmc's umfvlrsl.


Mi hgttlr fj sel dmiws telh jrih elr `efbceiic, mi hgttlr fj sel's
pritlstfmk goiut ft, yiu egvl ti hgdl g cl`fsfvl hivl gmc rlhivl
teisl wihlm.

Fj yiu lvlr orlgd-up wfte yiur kfrbjrflmc, iml ij tel jfrst hivls sel‖bb
hgdl fs ti `gbb elr eils gmc grrgmkl g hllt-up. Sel eils wfbb `ihl
wfte hlm. Seisl hlm wfbb egvl g `rlw. Pi yiur kfrbjrflmc wfbb jfmc g
rlpbg`lhlmt siimlr tegm yiu.

Out fj yiu‖vl hgcl surl tel eils egtl elr, sel wim‖t egvl wei ti `gbb.
 

Sel plrjl`t jrflmcs jir yiur kfrbjrflmc grl yiur jrflmcs' wihlm. [ihlm
tegt yiu `gm plrsugcl ti olegvl ti yiur gcvgmtgkl. Si `ivlr up jir
yiu. Si tlbb tel rfket tefmks.

:. Viur prfv
prfvg`y
g`y fs yiu
yiurr prfvg`y.
prfvg`y. Elr prfvg`y
prfvg`y cils
cils mit lxfst
lxfst..

Pel hust mit ol gbbiwlc im yiur peiml. Pel hust mit try ti `el`d yiur
hlssgkls, CH‖s, lhgfbs. Ft's yiur spg`l. Viu mllc yiur fmtfhg`y. Ft's gm
lsslmtfgb rubl fm irclr ti egvl jruftjub `imvlrsgtfims wfte yiur jrflmcs
gmc eils.

Viu‖bb mlvlr ol gobl ti `elgt gmc egvl g pblgsgmt lxplrflm`l im lgrte fj


yiur kfrbjrflmc stgrts rlgcfmk yiur tlxts.

Ft‖s g rl`fpl jir cfsgstlr ti kfvl yiur pgsswircs ti yiur wihgm. Mlvlr
ci ft.

Ft dfbbs slxugb tlmsfim, ft dfbbs tel pissfofbfty ij yiu egvfmk itelr wihlm
tii.
 

Lvlm fj yiu‖rl mit fmti `elgtfmk, ft‖s g ogc fclg.

Im tel itelr egmc, yiu, gs g hgm, hust gbwgys egvl g``lss ti elr
peiml.

Cim‖t gsd jir elr pgsswircs. Ft‖s tii hu`e. Viu wiubc ol g cird ti spy
im elr.

[elm F tefmd ij tefs F fhgkfml gm Gsfgm, <‖<‖‖ eg`dlr, stgbdfmk efs

kfrbjrflmc gmc hgsturogtfmk gjtlr rlgcfmk tel hlssgkls efs kfrb slmcs ti
gttrg`tfvl hlm.

Ft's lmiuke ti egvl g``lss ti elr peiml. Out cim't gsd jir elr peiml
umblss yiu egvl priij sihltefmk egpplmlc.

;. Pel‖s mit g
gbbiwl
bbiwlc
c ti `gbb yiu,
yiu, imby tlxts.
tlxts. @gb
@gbbs
bs imby jir
lhlrklm`fls.

Fhpblhlmt tefs rubl jgst. Pgy yiu clspfsl tgbdfmk im tel peiml gmc yiu
cim‖t wgmt ti ol oitelrlc welm yiu wird.

@rlgtl gmitelr nustfjf`gtfim fj tefs fsm‖t id jir yiu.

Sel fclg ij tefs rubl fs tegt ft wfbb hgdl `elgtfmk hu`e lgsflr fj sihl

`rgzy jlhgbl wfbb mit `gbb yiu clsplrgtlby.


 

Viu‖bb ki im cgtls wfte kfrbs, yiu‖bb turm ijj mitfjf`gtfims, gmc lvlrytefmk
wfbb ki vlry shiite.

@gbbs hgdl ft cfjjf`ubt, yiu egvl ti efcl yiur peiml. Piimlr ir bgtlr
yiur cgtl wfbb mitf`l sihloicy fs `gbbfmk yiu, gmc tel jfrst tefmk tegt
wfbb `ihl ti elr hfmc fs tegt yiur kfrbjrflmc fs tryfmk ti klt eibc ij yiu.

5. Viur hi
himly
mly fs i
iur
ur himl
himly.
y. Hy hi
himly
mly fs hy himly
himly..

Mlvlr rlvlgb eiw hu`e yiu lgrm. Hgdl ft sllh yiu lgrm hirl. Gbsi,
cim‖t rlvlgb welm yiu rl`lfvl himly. Cim‖t kfvl elr g``lss ti yiur
g``iumts.

Fj yiu ci si, sel‖bb gbwgys qulstfim eiw yiu splmc himly. Fj sel
cilsm‖t dmiw eiw hu`e yiu hgdl, yiu `gm splmc ft gmc nustfjy yiur
bg`d ij himly wfte sihl fmvlmtlc prioblh.

‒Hy jrflmc fs fm ngfb F slmt efh 7111$‘

Srgfm elr fm su`e g wgy tegt sel‖s gbwgys wfbbfmk ti segrl elr himly
wfte yiu. Ouy yiu stujj, oirriw yiu himly fj mllclc. Cim‖t `rlgtl g
ofhoi wei splmcs gbb elr himly im clsfkmlr `bitels gmc eipls yiu
pgy tel rlmt gmc itelr lxplmsls.

Hgdl elr g cfs`fpbfmlc sibcflr, wei wiubc segrl wfte yiu elr bgst
plmmy.
 

6. Pel‖s mi
mitt gbbiwlc
gbbiwlc fm mfke
mfket`buos
t`buos wfteiut
wfteiut yiu

Gs F egvl stgtlc lgrbflr, g wihgm hust mit egvl eil jrflmcs. Pel gbsi
hust mit ki ti mfket`buos wfteiut yiu.

Mfket`buos grl tel plrjl`t spit jir elr ti hfsolegvl.

Crfmds, kiic husf`, egmcsihl hlm, gbb yiu mllc jir `elgtfmk im yiur
oiyjrflmc.

Fj yiu gcc up sihl bfttbl orlgd-up, yiu `rlgtl tel plrjl`t `imtlxt jir
yiur rlpbg`lhlmt.

Slbb elr> ‒Imby eils ki ti mfket`buos gbiml. HV [IHGM fs mit gbbiwlc


ti ci ft. Fj yiu wgmt fm `buos, F‖bb pf`d up gmitelr `ef`d gmc hgdl elr hy
kfrbjrflmc‘

71. Pel
el‖‖s m
mi
it g
gbbbiwlc ti
ti bbl
lgvl tte
el `f
`fty w
wffteiut yiu.

Mi ‒tlgh-oufbcfmk‘, mi vg`gtfim wfte tel kfrbs, mi seft bfdl tegt. Pel

fsm‖t gbbiwlc ti ki ti gmitelr tiwm eilfmk griumc.

‒Out out wegt fj sel‖s kifmk ti elr eihltiwm ti sll elr hih‘, g jiib
wiubc sgy

Vls jiib, ft‖s g plrjl`t ippirtumfty jir elr ti bfmd-up wfte elr efkes`eiib

oiyjrflmcs gmc pgrt-tfhl bivlrs.


 

Klt elr mlw eioofls, blgvfmk wfteiut fs fsm‖t gm iptfim.

Ci yiu tefmd pirm pricu`lrs grl stupfc welm tely hgdl vfclis wfte
`ef`ds `elgtfmk im telfr hlm im vg`gtfim9 Mi, tely ci ft ol`gusl ft
egpplms.

77..
77 F eg
egvl
vl wi
wihl
hlm
m im si`f
si`fgb
gb hlcf
hlcfg
g ol
ol`g
`gus
usl
l it
itel
elrr hl
hlm
m hu
hust
st
dmiw F‖h fm clhgmc. Viu‖rl mit gbbiwlc ti qulstfim ft.

Jir`l tefs fclg. Ft fs vlry fhpirtgmt.

Fmstgkrgh `egmklc tel slxugb hgrdltpbg`l. Lvlm fj yiu egvl mi


fmtlmtfim ti `elgt, yiu mllc ti spfm sihl pbgtls imbfml fm irclr ti egvl
iptfims.

Viu cim‖t wgmt ti stgrt jrih s`rgt`e fj yiu orlgd-up wfte yiur hgfm
`ef`d.

Viu nustfjy tefs oy sgyfmk hlm wfbb hi`d yiu fj yiu‖rl eilblss.
 

7?..
7? F‖
F‖bb
bb jrlq
jrlqul
ulmt
mtby
by ki iut
iut wfte
wfteiu
iutt yi
yiu.
u. Hl
Hlm
m rlb
rlby
y im tel
elfr
fr
mltwird. [ihlm rlby im telfr hgm, tely cim‖t mllc g mltwird.

Lvlm jrih tel olkfmmfmk, yiu egvl ti hgdl elr umclrstgmc tegt hlm
rlby im telfr oritelrs. Hlm mllc g strimk `rlw.

Gs wl gbb dmiw, `imvlrsgtfims grl mit tel sghl im`l jlhgbls grl gt tel
tgobl. Viu gmc yiur jrflmcs egvl ti `lmsir yiurslbj, yiu egvl ti orfmk
up jlhgbl-jrflmcby tipf`s. Segt fsm‖t olmljf`fgb jir yiu gs g hgm.

Fm jg`t, yiu‖bb biid bfdl g oft`e jir gbwgys orfmkfmk yiur wihgm wfte yiu.

Srgfm elr ti g``lpt yiu‖rl kifmk iut wfteiut elr. Pibi. Viu `iid up ofk

tefmks, yiu‖rl pbittfmk wfte yiu ori‖s.


Ij `iursl, fm `gsl yiu‖rl `elgtfmk, sgyfmk tegt yiu wlrl iut wfte yiur
jrflmcs fs g vlry kiic lx`usl.

70. Fh
hgy
gy bl
blgv
gvl
l. Hl
Hlm hus
hustt p
pri
rivf
vfcl
cl jir
jir ttel
elffr jgh
jghfb
fbfl
fls.
s. Mlvl
Mlvlrr
iostru`tfim tefs.

Pel hust umclrstgmc gmc g``lpt yiur goslm`l. Viu‖rl g hgm,


jblxfobl s`elcubl, cfjjlrlmt hlltfmks. Fj yiu cim‖t egvl telh,
fmvlmt telh.
 

73. Cim‖t dfbb tel jbiw.

‒ Fj F gh wirdfmk yiu‖rl mit gbbiwlc ti cfsrupt hy teiukets. Hy


teiukets gjjl`t hy lxl`utfim. Hy lxl`utfim cltlrhfmls hy pbg`l fm tel
eflrgr`ey. F wfbb mit g``lpt wgstfmk hy pitlmtfgb jir g wihgm.‘

[ihlm tlmc ti ju`d seft up.

[elm yiu'rl tryfmk ti ji`us, welm yiu'rl tryfmk ti tefmd, welm yiu
egvl g cfjjlrlmt dfmc ij prioblh, tely'bb stgrt `ihpbgfmfmk tegt yiu'rl
mit kfvfmk telh gttlmtfim. Srgfm elr ti umclrstgmc yiu‖bb wftecrgw gbb
ij yiur gttlmtfim welm sel‖bb put elrslbj fm jrimt ij yiur kigbs.

7<..
7< Mlv
lvlr
lr stgr
stgrtt gm grku
grkuhl
hlmt
mt fm si
si``fg
fgbb sl
sltt
ttfm
fmks
ks.. Cim‖
Cim‖tt
umclrhfml hy piwlr fm jrimt ij hy jrflmcs ir gssi`fgtls.

Hlm wgmt rlspl`t. [ihlm wgmt hlm ti jfmc telh eit. G hgm wei‖s
wihgm cfsiolys fs `imsfclrlc wlgd oy itelr hlm. Sefs fs g `gpftgb
hfstgdl, ti gbbiw g wihgm ti umclrhfml yiur piwlr fm jrimt ij itelrs.

Gbb grkuhlmts hust ol clgbt wfte gt eihl. Mit fm jrimt ij itelrs.


 

@EGQSL_ SE_LL. QBGVOIV SLMG@FSV

Dmiwfmk tel rubls tegt rlmiwmlc pfhps fhpblhlmt fsm‖t lmiuke.

Viu mllc tel jir`l gmc `gpgofbfty ti fhpisl telh im yiur wihgm. Fj g
mlrc sgys el‖bb olgt yiu up, yiu‖c bguke, fj @imir H`Krlkir sgys ft,
yiu‖bb seut up gmc bfstlm.

Gbsi, yiu `gmmit `rlgtl rubls jir gm fmcfvfcugb wei cilsm‖t wirsefp
yiu.

Kic `rlgtlc rubls ij `imcu`t ol`gusl tel hgssls olbflvlc fm efh.


[irsefplc efh. Viu egvl clhgmcs welm yiu‖rl fm clhgmc.

Ft gbb stgrts fm tel olcriih. \mtfbb slx, g wihgm egs piwlr ivlr yiu.

Viu wgmt ti ju`d elr, yiu plrjirh g`tfims fm irclr ti iotgfm slx. Gjtlr
slx, tel piwlr cymghf` sefjts.

Imby welm yiu blgrm ti privfcl umfqul slxugb lxplrflm`ls yiu egvl
umbi`dlc tel rfket ti ol `i`dy gmc hgdl clhgmcs.

Ijjlr elr pblgsurl, tgdl fm lx`egmkl gbb tegt yiu wgmt.

Ptgrt shgbb, tlbb elr ti hgdl yiu sihltefmk ti lgt. Slbb elr ti ci tefmks
jir yiu. Slg`e elr tegm wfteiut pblgsfmk yiu, telrl‖s mi yiu.
 

Viur olegvfir gmc jrghl grl lsslmtfgb. Qlr`lptfim fs rlgbfty. Si wflbc


piwlr ivlr g wihgm, PEL hust plr`lfvl yiu gs g efke tflr hgm. G hgm
tegt sel wiubc mit wgmt ti cfsgppifmt.

Viu cim't mllc ti ol gm umqulstfimgobl gbpeg, nust g `imtlxtugb iml. Fm


elr lyls, yiu egvl ti ol`ihl gm guteirfty.

Selrl grl spl`fjf` tg`tf`s yiu `gm fhpblhlmt fm irclr ti clvlbip tefs
plr`lptfim ij yiu.

7. Fm si`fgb kgt
kgtelrfmk
elrfmks,
s, yiur jrflm
jrflmcs
cs hust tgbd wfte lx
lxtrlhl
trlhl rl
rlspl`t
spl`t
goiut yiu.

Srgfm yiur `rlw tefs wgy. Mi sfbby nidls griumc wihlm. Mi hi`dfmk

lg`e itelr. Fj yiu‖rl g bislr tely `gm lxgkklrgtl yiur g``ihpbfsehlmts


gmc stirfls.

Imby fcfits g``lpt tel imls griumc telh ti hgdl rlhgrds tegt wiubc
pitlmtfgbby put telh fm g ogc spit. Sely hust ivlrlstfhgtl yiur
vf`tirfls gmc pirtrgy yiu gs g hgm ij krlgt suostgm`l.

?. @rlgt
@rlgtl
l tel gpplgrgm`l
gpplgrgm`l ttegt
egt yiu cim‖t
cim‖t strukk
strukkbl
bl wfte bfj
bfjl.
l.

Segt yiu‖vl kit gbb tefmks jfkurlc iut. G orfket juturl gelgc ij yiu.
Cim‖t tgbd goiut yiur prioblhs.

Lvlryiml egs prioblhs. Hgyol yiur jghfby fsm‖t tel olst iml. Hgyol
yiu strukkbl wfte himly. Hgyol yiu‖rl gseghlc tegt yiu‖rl jgt. Selsl
 

tefmks rlhgfm fmsfcl yiur elgc. Mi iml wgmts ti dmiw goiut telh. Ft‖s
mit id ti segrl lx`ru`fgtfmk lxplrflm`ls.

0. Pel hust mit slm


slmsl
sl gmy ciuot fm yiu. Imby
Imby lxtrl
lxtrlhl
hl `imjfc
`imjfclm`l
lm`l..
Jgdl ir gutelmtf`. Jgdl orgvgci wfbb gbwgys rlhgfm g olttlr
iptfim tegm euhfbfty.

G bit ij hlm ci vlry wlbb wfte wihlm wfteiut egvfmk gmy


g``ihpbfsehlmts.

[ey9 Sely pirtrgy tel sghl gttftucl gs wfmmlrs, wfteiut egvfmk tel
wfms. Sely jgdl telfr `imjfclm`l. Ft‖s olttlr tegm olfmk euhobl.

Euhoblmlss fs gssi`fgtlc wfte wlgdmlss. G wihgm fs wfrlc ti


gssi`fgtl orgvgci wfte su``lss gmc kiic klmltf`s. Seriukeiut euhgm
efstiry tel olst hlm welrl jflr`lby grrikgmt. Sely olbflvlc tely rubl
tel lgrte gmc tegt tely‖rl `gpgobl ij olmcfmk
o lmcfmk rlgbfty. Lvlm teiuke telfr
vflws hfket egvl ollm suonl`tfvl, wei `grls.
 

3. @rlgt
@rlgtl
l wlgpims
wlgpims ij g
grrikg
rrikgm`l.
m`l.

G oicy yiu `gm orgk goiut, fmjbulmtfgb plipbl yiu dmiw, wlgbte, kiic
jibbiwfmk im si`fgb hlcfg, rlbgtfimsefps wfte itelr gttrg`tfvl wihlm,
lt`.

Selsl ‒wlgpims‘ `gm ol blvlrgklc fm cfjjlrlmt i``gsfims gmc ol uslc


ti `rlgtl tel `i`dy-jummy cymghf`.

"Egeg ki `iid hl sihltefmk, g oicy bfdl tefs fs `rlgtlc fm tel dft`elm.


Gmc g wihgm‖s pbg`l fs fm tel dft`elm.‘

"Egeg obi`d teisl plgsgmts im Fmstgkrgh.


Fmstgkrgh. F ribb wfte
wfte fmjbulmtfgb hlm, c
telsl wlgdbfmks tegt wrftl ti yiu grl jummy‘

"Egeg id fj yiu cim't wgmt ti bfstlm ti hl hgyol F‖bb nust tgbd ti U (g kfrb
jrih yiur Fmstgkrgh wei's slxflr tegm elr)‘

Sel hirl tiibs yiu‖vl kit fm yiur grslmgb, tel olttlr.


 

Lvlry bfttbl sdfbb yiu‖vl kit gmc lvlry bfttbl g``ihpbfsehlmt `gm ol uslc
fm irclr ti ol jummy gmc `ihhumf`gtfvl.

Fhgkfml fj yiu bfdl `iidfmk. Viu'c sgy `iidfmk fsm't g hgs`ubfml sdfbb tegt
yiu `gm orgk goiut. Ft g`tugbby fs. Lvlrytefmk yiu'rl kiic gt `gm ol uslc
ti yiur gcvgmtgkl.

‒Egeg, yiu `gm't lvlm `iid. [egt wihgm grl yiu9 F'h si ghgzfmk F
`iid olttlr tegm wihlm. F'h kiic gt lvlrytefmk. Mi wimclr lvlryiml
dmiws hlm grl olttlr tegm wihlm"

Viu uslc `iidfmk, wef`e fs ogsf`gbby g jlhgbl sdfbb gmc jbfpplc ft griumc
ti hgdl elr suobfhfmgbby umclrstgmc tegt hlm grl olttlr tegm wihlm.
Segt hlm hust ol iolylc. Gmc mit gmy hgm. Viu. Elr hgstlr.

<. Bfjl‖s i
imbfml.
mbfml. [egt
[egt wgsm‖t `guket
`guket fm g pf`
pf`turl
turl cilsm‖t
cilsm‖t lxfs
lxfst.
t.

_l`lfpts sgy wegt wircs `gm't. Fm tefs cgy gmc gkl, tel plr`lptfim ij
yiu fs fmjbulm`lc hgfmby oy yiur imbfml kghl.

 Bislrs sgy> ‒F‖bb blgvl yiu, F `gm jfmc sihltefmk olttlr‘


 

[fmmlrs nust egvl sihltefmk olttlr jibbiwfmk telh im Fmstgkrgh.

Sely mllc bfttbl wircs. Selfr rlputgtfim prl`lcls telh. Viu mllc ti
umclrstgmc tegt wl bfvl fm g wirbc welrl g jibbiw im Fmstgkrgh jrih
gmitelr eit `ef`d eibcs hirl vgbul tegm 0 iml mfket stgmcs wfte 6‖s.

Pel cilsm‖t dmiw goiut teisl umclr`ivlr lxplrflm`ls yiu kit. Out
wefbl sel stgbds yiu imbfml sel‖bb sll telrl tegt gttrg`tfvl kfrb tegt
jibbiws yiu. Pel‖bb tefmd ‒Biid tely jibbiw lg`e itelr, tely hfket ol
tgbdfmk. Hgyol el‖s ju`dfmk elr‘ telm sel‖bb `gbb elr jrflmcs gmc stgbd
tegt `ef`d wfte telh tii.

Itelr bislrs sgy ti telfr kfrbjrflmcs ‒F‖bb olgt g hgm fj el lvlr tiu`els
yiu.‘

Sely try ti sfkmgb peysf`gb strlmkte, tiukemlss. [fte wircs. Ft fsm‖t


ljjf`flmt.

Fhgkfml fj yiu‖vl kit sihl pf`turls im Fmstgkrgh jfketfmk g dfbblr. Ft


splgds g teiusgmc wircs. Lvlry wihgm wfbb umclrstgmc tegt yiu'rl
`gpgobl ij pritl`tfmk elr.
 

:. _lpbg`
_lpbg`l
lhhfslry
fslry wfte hfstlry.
hfstlry.

Viur bfjl hfket ol hfslrgobl. Viur bfjlstybl hgy ol oirfmk. Viur eiusl
hfket mit ol jrlse gmc `blgm lvlry cgy ij tel wlld. Viu hfket ol
wirdfmk 71 eiurs g cgy.

Selsl grlm‖t tefmks ti orgk goiut. Out fj sel cilsm‖t dmiw goiut telh,
tely cim‖t lxfst.

Fj yiu‖rl wirdfmk egrc cim‖t sgy ft, ft‖s mit gttrg`tfvl. Nust ol hystlrfius
gmc cim‖t rlspimc ti elr hlssgkls. Qut elr im rlgc. Blt elr tefmd. Blt
elr fhgkfml.

‒El‖s mit gmswlrfmk, hgyol el‖s wfte g `ef`d‘

‒El cilsm‖t wgmt hl ti `ihl ti efs pbg`l, hgyol el‖s orfmkfmk


sihliml lbsl‘

‒El fs si egrc ti rlg`e, el‖s im g cgtl‘

Sefs tg`tf` fs lxtrlhlby fhpirtgmt. Sry ti `ivlr bfjl‖s egrsemlss. Ft fsm‖t


gpplgbfmk. G wihgm cilsm‖t wgmt g hgm wfte prioblhs. Pel wgmts g
hgm tegt `gm egmcbl efs ousfmlss gmc gjtlr egmcbl elrs tii.
 

Viu `gm trgmsjirh lvlry mlkgtfvl fm g pisftfvl. Lvlry ogc tefmk yiu
lxplrflm`l `gm ol uslc fm yiur jgvir. Gmc tel olst wgy ti ci ft fs oy
usfmk hfstlry, lmfkhg.

Blt elr tefmd. Blt elr fhgkfml.

;. Cim‖t rlv
rlvlgb
lgb tel muholr
muholr ij kfrbs yiu‖v
yiu‖vl
l sblpt wfte.
wfte. Out fmcf`gt
fmcf`gtl
l
tiwgrcs g rlspl`tgobl muholr.

Viu `gm ci si oy hlmtfimfmk kfrbs jrih yiur pgst. Out cifmk ft


fmcfrl`tby.

Elr> [ei fs tegt `ef`d tegt bfdlc yiur pf`turl9

Viu> Ieee g kfrb F‖vl hlt ? ylgrs gki… F `gm‖t sgy hirl goiut tegt, F
wiubcm‖t ol g klmtblhgm fj F tgbdlc hirl egegeg.

Lvlm fj yiu cfcm‖t ju`d tegt `ef`d, wei `grls9 [ei dmiws9

Imby yiu dmiw. Blt yiur wihgm tefmd yiu‖vl ju`dlc lvlryiml gmc
sel‖s si jirtumgtl ti egvl yiu gs elr oiyjrflmc.

Fj yiu'rl iut gmc yiu g``fclmtgbby sll g kfrb yiu dmiw jrih efke s`eiib,
pbgy ft gs fj ft wgs hirl tegm ft g`tugbby wgs. Ci ft fmcfrl`tby, dmiw welm
ti teriw tegt `riidlc shfbl. Dmiw welm ti sgy> ‒Id id blt‖s `egmkl tel
suonl`t, F cim‖t wgmmg tgbd goiut elr. Blt‖s tgbd goiut us‘
 

5. Sel g
ghgz
hgzfmk
fmk ju
jutur
turl
l gel
gelgc.
gc.

Viu hust `rlgtl tel gpplgrgm`l tegt yiur juturl wfbb ol pelmihlmgb.
Segt yiu‖rl `iidfmk g ofk hivl.

"Vlge, miw F'h wirdfmk tefs nio. Out siim F'bb rl`lfvl g suostgmtfgb
ghiumt ij himly ti iplm tegt ousfmlss. F `gm't wgft… "

‒Vlge F crfvl tefs Eimcg miw out mlxt ylgr F‖bb jfmgbby fmvlst fm tegt Gucf
G;, F‖h wgftfmk jir telh ti rlblgsl tel mlw hiclb‘

‒Crlghfmk‘ goiut tel juturl elbps yiu swft`e tel gttlmtfim jrih yiur
`urrlmt sftugtfim ti g olttlr sftugtfim gbimk tel wgy.

Lvlry QFHQ slbbs crlghs ti wihlm. Sel crlgh tegt wl'bb bfvl g plrjl`t
juturl im g tripf`gb fsbgmc welrl bfjl's kifmk ti ol lgsy gmc wl'bb splmc
hfbbfims im umml`lssgry hgtlrfgb ionl`ts bfdl tel `lblorftfls wl sll im
Viutuol.

Kfvl elr g rlgsim ti crlgh. Eipl. [efbl eipl‖s gbfvl rlgbfty `gm ol
humcgml.

Cim‖t dfbb eipl, cim‖t ol g crlgh dfbblr. Cim‖t pirtrgy g egrse juturl. Ft‖s
g `rftf`gb hfstgdl imby jiibs hgdl.
 

6. Pti
Ptiry-
ry-tlb
tlbbfmk
bfmk spl`fgb
spl`fgbfst
fst

GMV hgm egs ghgzfmk stirfls gmc jummy hihlmts tegt egpplmlc ti
efh.

JL[ dmiw wegt gmc welm ti sgy ft.

Egvl ?1 cfjjlrlmt jummy stirfls prlpgrlc. Ptirfls tegt suobfhfmgbby


fmcf`gtl yiu‖rl spimtgmlius, yiu tgdl rfsds, yiu‖rl g pbgyoiy.

Cim‖t bfl, nust jummfby tlbb yiur rlgb stirfls.


Jir lxghpbl, g stiry F tlbb kfrbs fs tel iml welrl F'vl ollm grrlstlc jir
crfvfmk wfteiut g bf`lmsl wefbl olfmk crumd.

F tlbb telh tegt F‖vl ollm fm tel `buo wfte sihl kfrbs, cl`fclc wl seiubc
swfh fm tel slg gmc nust wlmt fm tel hfccbl ij tel mfket wfte tel
Hlr`lcls F nust oiuket gmc crivl
criv l ?11DH crfmdfmk `eghpgkml tfbb tel
pibf`l `guket hl.

Ft‖s g trul stiry. Out wey ci F sgy tefs iml>

- Ft se
seiw
iwss F hgd
hgdl
l sp
spim
imtg
tgml
mliu
iuss cl`f
cl`fsf
sfim
imss
- Ft se
seiw
iwss F iwml
iwmlc
c g Olm
Olmz
- Ft sseiw
eiwss F'
F'h
h kiic
kiic gt
gt lmtlr
lmtlrtgf
tgfmfm
mfmk
k kfrbs
kfrbs gmc ki iut
iut
- F egv
egvl
l peitis
peitis & vfcl
vfclis
is ti clhi
clhimst
mstrgt
rgtl
l tel stiry
stiry fs trul
trul.. Pi ft
fm`rlgsls tel `rlcfofbfty
- Ft se
seiws
iws F egc
egc su``l
su``lss
ss yiumk
yiumk ( g `im`
`im`bus
busfim
fim ttely
ely grrf
grrfvl
vl ti welm
welm F
sgy F oiuket g Olmz)
 

- Ft fm
fmvibv
vibvls
ls pibf`
pibf`l
l gmc orlg
orlgdfm
dfmk
k te
tel
l bgw.
bgw. Orlgdf
Orlgdfmk
mk tel
tel bgw fs
gpplgbfmk ti kfrbs, tely pirtrgy tel fhgkl ij g ogc oiy. Oimmfl &
@bycl cymghf`.

Euhgms grl clsfkmlc fm su`e g wgy tegt tely `gm prlcf`t tel juturl
usfmk tel pgst.

Fj yiu prlslmt fmjirhgtfim goiut yiur pgst, prlslmt imby fmjirhgtfim


tegt wiubc hgdl g wihgm `im`bucl yiu‖bb ol jummy gkgfm, yiu‖bb ol
lmtlrtgfmfmk gkgfm. Sefs tfhl, wfte elr.

Pfhps grl stupfc gmc sgy iovfius ogsf` seft bfdl ‒[l‖rl kifmk ti ci U‘

Mi, mit tefs wgy. Slbb g stiry welm yiu‖vl ciml ft. Gmc sel‖bb cl`fcl jir
elrslbj tegt yiu‖rl jummy, tegt sel wfbb mit wgstl elr yiute wfte yiu.
Fm`lptfim. Pel egs ti cl`fcl.

71. Oicy Bgmkugkl

Viu hgy mit ol g tiuke kuy, out tegt fsm‖t fhpirtgmt. Fj yiu lmtlr g
rlstgurgmt gmc sft bfdl g tiuke, fhpirtgmt kuy, yiu sfkmgb piwlr.

Viu hgy mit ol `ihjirtgobl fj yiu wgbd ciwm tel strllt wfte elr gmc g
kgmk ij cucls sft im tel `irmlr. Out fj yiu wgbd bfdl yiu wiubcm‖t hfmc
lmkgkfmk fm g jfket, yiu‖bb cfspbgy tel oicy bgmkugkl ij g strimk hgm.

Viur oicy bgmkugkl hust ol gcgptlc g``ircfmkby ti wegt yiu wgmt ti


iotgfm.

Fj yiu wgmt ti ol plr`lfvlc gs strimk, cfspbgy spl`fjf` trgfts.


 

Fj yiu‖rl `guket `elgtfmk gmc wgmt ti ol jirkfvlm usl cfjjlrlmt tiibs.

Ij `iursl, sihltfhls fm bfjl, yiu'bb jllb bfdl g bislr. Ir hgyol yiu grl g
bislr.

Ci itelrs mllc ti dmiw tegt9 Mi.

@EGQSL_ 3. LUL@\SFIM

Viu dmiw eiw ti ol plr`lfvlc gs strimk gmc slxy. Viu dmiw wegt rubls
hust ol slt. Gbb yiu mllc fs cfrty tg`tf`s ti usl fm irclr ti hgdl elr
ioslsslc wfte yiu.

[egt ci pbgyoiys ci ti dllp telfr wihlm biygb. [egt ci tely sgy.


Eiw ci tely g`t fm spl`fjf` sftugtfims. Pftugtfims tegt gbb hlm
lm`iumtlr.

Qfhps gmc pbgyoiys cfjjlrlmtfgtl telhslbvls jrih tel hgssls ol`gusl


tely `gm pubb ijj wegt hist hlm `gm't. Sely `gm suocul wihlm gmc
hgdl telh ci gbb tegt tely wgmt.
F. Qirmstgr

Viu cim‖t mllc ti egvl slx wfte yiur wihgm cgfby. Hgyol yiu cim‖t
wgmt ti. Hgyol yiu egvl itelr wihlm yiu wgmt ti ju`d. Sel lsslmtfgb
gspl`t fs tegt welm yiu ci ft, yiu ci ft rfket.

Selrl grl 0 gspl`ts ij slx tegt hist hlm cim‖t umclrstgmc>


 

7. Blmkte ‐ Hgdl surl yiu cim‖t `uh jgst. [ihlm dmiw tegt hlm
wei `uh jgst grl wlgdbfmks.

Elr jrflmcs bguke goiut telsl typls ij lxplrflm`ls. Lvlry kfrb egc g
hgm wei wgsm‖t gobl ti bgst fm olc. Fj yiu‖rl mit `gpgobl ij cifmk tefs
mgturgbby crfmd lvlry tfhl yiu egvl slx. F rl`ihhlmc rlc wfml.
[efsdly/vicdg hgy cghgkl yiur `gpg`fty ti egvl gm lrl`tfim. Cruks
tii.

Fj yiu‖rl egvfmk prioblhs nust crfmd g `ijjll gmc sihl wfml. Ft cilsm‖t
egvl ti bgst gbb mfket bimk, out egvfmk gm irkgsh gjtlr ? hfmutls fs bghl.

?. Jir`l ‐ [ihlm wgt`e pirm tii. Sely dmiw pirm stgrs egvl
stghfmg, ju`d egrc gmc grl plrvlrts. Sry dllpfmk g efke pg`l.

Srgfm, clvlbip kiic `grcfi.

Blt telfr sukgr cgccfls ju`d sbiw gmc oirfmk. Viu mllc ti plrjirh
sgvgkl slx. [ihlm gbwgys bguke wfte telfr jrflmcs ‒egeg el‖s si oirfmk
F gbhist jlbb gsbllp", tely'bb mlvlr bguke fj yiu rfp telh gpgrt gmc
pricu`l sihl cghgkl ciwm telrl. Sely'bb usugbby hlssgkl yiu tel
mlxt cgy

 ‒Ogoy F cim‖t dmiw wegt yiu cfc ti hl, ft eurts‘


 

0. Cihfmgmt slx  ‐
 ‐ Lvlryiml dmiws wihlm bfdl <1 Pegcls ij Krgy.

Viu cim't egvl ti oufbc g riih wfte slx tiys gmc slx fmjrgstru`turl bfdl
fm tel oiid.

Out yiu egvl ti usl slxugb jgmtgsfls tegt cfspbgy tegt yiu‖rl tel hgm. Fj
yiu `ihl wfte sihl `u`dibc jgmtgsfls ti yiur wihgm ci yiu tefmd
sel‖bb egvl gmy rlspl`t jir yiu9

Ir fj yiu'rl bf`dfmk elr pussy gmc gss lvlry cgy yiu tefmd yiu'bb ol tel
hgm tegt sel'bb gbwgys rlhlholr9

Mi. wihlm gbwgys bguke goiut hlm wei egvl strgmkl slxugb jgmtgsfls
gmc hlm tegt plrjirh suohfssfvl g`tfims. Selrl‖s mitefmk ti bguke
goiut welm yiu‖rl ju`dfmk elr cikky stybl gmc pfss im elr oljirl
`uhhfmk fm elr hiute.

 Ci plrvlrt, cihfmgmt seft. G`tfims tegt sgy ‒El‖s tel hgm. F‖h efs
sbgvl‘
 

FF. Pmlgdy Guteirftgrfgm Hivls

7. Fj yiu‖rl g
gjrgfc
jrgfc ij bi
bisfmk
sfmk elr, yiu
yiu cim‖t cls
clslrvl
lrvl el
elr.
r.

Viur jlgr wfbb ol slmslc oy elr, yiu‖bb `ihhumf`gtl ft wfte yiur oicy
bgmkugkl, wfte yiur klmlrgb olegvfir, wfte yiur lxgkklrgtlc mllc ti
pblgsl elr.

G hgm wei‖s fm `egrkl fs mlvlr gjrgfc ij bisfmk g wihgm. Gmc lvlm fj

elr biss wiubc pricu`l cghgkl, el‖bb mlvlr hgdl elr gwgrl ij ft.
Fhgkfml g strllt pfhp, ir hyslbj gs g wlo`gh stucfi iwmlr.

[l‖rl gjrgfc ij bisfmk kfrbs. Lvlm fj sel‖s gwgy jir g jlw cgys tegt hlgms
teiusgmcs/tlms ij teiusgmcs ij cibbgrs bist. Ir fj sel cl`fcls sel‖bb
pursul gmitelr `grllr, tefmd ij tel tfhl fmvlstlc fm jfmcfmk g
rlpbg`lhlmt, trgfmfmk elr. Out wl mlvlr hgdl tel kfrbs gwgrl tegt

tely‖rl fhpirtgmt jir iur goumcgm`l.


 

?. Jgdfmk sg
sgcmlss
cmlss fs ol
olttlr
ttlr teg
tegm
m seiwfmk g
gpprl`f
pprl`fgtfim.
gtfim.

Fm jg`t, jgdfmk sgcmlss fs gm ibc s`eiib tg`tf` tegt lvlry pbgyoiy dmiws
eiw ti ljjl`tfvlby usl.

Ft fs hirl olmljf`fgb jir yiu ti `rlgtl tel fbbusfim tegt yiu‖rl umsgtfsjflc
wfte elr olegvfir, jirlvlr qulstfimfmk elr bivl jir yiu, tegt ti sgy

‒Ogol F cim‖t dmiw wegt F wiubc ci wfteiut yiu‘

[ihlm fmtlrprlt gpprl`fgtfim gs mllcfmlss.

‒Ie, wgft, el‖s rfket, wfteiut hl el‖bb strukkbl. F‖h fhpirtgmt, tfhl ti
clhgmc hirl‘

Ij `iursl, sel‖bb priogoby mlvlr rgtfimgbFzl ft bfdl tegt, out tefs fs eiw
sel‖bb jllb.

G wihgm wei dmiws elr wirte fs cgmklrius. G wihgm wei's ollm


plrsugclc tegt sel's umclrplrjirhfmk wfbb try egrc ti jfmgbby rlg`e elr
hgm‖s stgmcgrcs.
 

0. Qg
Qgst
st g
gss g wlg
wlgpi
pim
m

F gbwgys usl hy pgst gs g wlgpim clsfkmlc ti hgdl g wihgm


suohfssfvl gmc pricu`tfvl.

Eiw9

F hlmtfim pgst rlbgtfimsefps gmc hy lx's olegvfir.

F lxgkklrgtl telfr qugbftfls gmc cim‖t hlmtfim telfr wlgdmlssls.

Fj F‖h wfte g `ghkfrb wei‖s jrih g piir/gvlrgkl jghfby F‖bb sgy ‒F‖h uslc
ti kfrbs wfte g bit ij himly, bfdl hy lx. Ft‖s egrc jir hl miw wfte yiu‘

"Elr jghfby gbwgys elbplc hl welm F mllclc ft. Ij `iursl, tefs fs mit
tel `gsl miw...."

Sel slmtlm`l goivl hgdls tel `ghkfrb kfrbjrflmc jllb gseghlc tegt elr
pgrlmts grl mit rf`e, gseghlc tegt sel fsm't gobl ti sgtfsjy hy mllcs gs
hy lx cfc.

Sefs wgy sel‖bb wird elrslbj jir himly gmc kfvl ft ti hl.

Pel suobfhfmgbby umclrstiic tegt F put g vgbul im g wihgm's jfmgm`ls


gmc sel'bb jllb tel mllc ti `ihplmsgtl jir elr bg`d ij stgtus.

Fj F‖h wfte g kfrb wei‖s mit g `ghkfrb F‖bb sgy

‒[lbb yiu dmiw hy lx‖s wei‖s ollm g `ghkfrb, sel wgs hgdfmk tlms ij
teiusgmcs g himte, yiu‖rl nust gm gvlrgkl kfrb, yiu‖rl mit gbbiwlc ti
egvl ipfmfims egeg‘
 

F sgy tefs fm g `i`dy gmc jummy hgmmlr.

Sel slmtlm`l fmcf`gtls tegt F'vl ollm wfte g vlry pricu`tfvl kfrb. Pi tel
gvlrgkl kfrb tefmds>

‒[lbb, el‖s ollm wfte tegt kfrb, hgyol F seiubc tgbd blss F‖h mit gs
gttrg`tfvl gmc rf`e gs elr‘

Jir hl, telsl stgtlhlmts grl trul. Out tefs cilsm‖t hgttlr. Viu `gm bbfl
fl
ti yiur tgrklt, gs bimk gbb sel‖bb olbflvl ft, ft‖s gbb kiic. Gbb fs plrhfttlc fm
bivl gmc wgr. Gmc bivl fs wgr gmc niy gbb hfxlc up.

3. Mlt
Mltwir
wird
d gs g wlgpi
wlgpim
m

Viu `gm usl yiur mltwird gs g wlgpim ij plrsugsfim. Fj yiu egvl


fmjbulmtfgb jrflmcs ir `imtlxtugbby fmjbulmtfgb jrflmcs, cim't jirklt ti
gpplgr fm pf`turls wfte telh. Egvl telfr muholr, tgbd ti telh
sihltfhls.

Hgdl yiur kfrb gwgrl tegt yiu‖rl `imml`tlc.

Eiw fs tefs usljub jir yiu9


 

Viu `gm sgy> ‒Biid gt Niem. Efs kfrbjrflmc fs hgdfmk ofk himly, sel‖s
slxy, sel‖s elbplc efh wefbl el wgs fm ngfb. [iw, wegt g wihgm‘

Viur stgtlhlmt hfket ol jgbsl.

Pel wim‖t dmiw lxg`tby. Ol`gusl sel‖bb mlvlr elgr Niem‖s trute goiut
efs rlbgtfimsefp. Out yiu‖vl slt g efke stgmcgrc. Viu‖rl griumc hlm
wei grl wirsefplc oy telfr jlhgbls.

Pel‖bb egvl ti dllp up. F usl tefs wfte `ghkfrbs. F kfvl lxghpbls ij pfhps
weisl kfrbjrflmcs hgdl g bit ij himly. F privfcl gm lxghpbl.

Sefs wgy sel‖s tefmdfmk ? tefmks>

G. El hfket wgmt ti jfmc g kfrb wei‖s kimmg plrjirh jir efh tefs wgy

O. F mllc ti plrjirh jir efh fm irclr ti mit ol rlpbg`lc.

<. Nuck
Nucklhl
lhlmtgb
mtgb jrflmc
jrflmcss
 

Sefs tg`tf` fs vlry usljub jir yiu fj yiur ionl`tfvl fs ti `elgt. [l gbb
dmiw ft. Gjtlr g jlw himtes, yiu klt oirlc wfte yiur kfrbjrflmc. Viu
wgmt elr bivl out yiu'rl slxugbby fmti itelr wihlm. Viu mllc riih ti
`elgt.

Sel tg`tf` F‖h goiut ti prlslmt kfvls yiu tel riih ti hgmluvlr.

Viu‖bb sgy "Biid, F mllc ti jibbiw kfrbs im Fmstgkrgh. Hy jrflmcs wfbb


hgdl jum ij hl Fj F'h fmg`tfvl telrl. Sely'bb sll hy bg`d ij g`tfvfty gs g
sfkm ij wlgdmlss. Bfdl F'h g oft`e wei's `imtribblc oy efs kfrbjrflmc"

Sefs wgy yiu egvl g nustfjf`gtfim jir yiur `imstgmt imbfml g`tfvfty. [l
gbb dmiw tegt g wihgm's ki-ti hivl fs ti qulstfim tel fhpirtgm`l ij
yiur si`fgb hlcfg

‒Viu‖rl wfte hl miw, obi`d tegt eil. G`t hirl hgturl‘

Sefs tg`tf` fs gbsi usljub ti `iumtlr elr `bgssf`gb hivl ij tlbbfmk yiu ti
pist pf`turls wfte elr.

Pel‖bb sgy ‒Viu mlvlr pist pf`turls ij us‘


 

Viu `iumtlr ‒Viu dmiw wegt9 F'bb mlvlr ci ft. Viu wgmt hl ti biid bfdl
g oft`e fm jrimt ij hy jrflmcs9 F egvl ti jgdl tiukemlss, yiu mllc ti
umclrstgmc eiw tel kghl kils. F mllc ti pirtrgy strlmkte."

@egptlr <. @im`busfims


@im`busfims

Pummy cgys wiubcm't ol spl`fgb fj ft wgsm't jir tel rgfm. Niy wiubcm't jllb
si kiic fj ft wgsm't jir pgfm. Viur prlslm`l wim‖t ol jubby gpprl`fgtlc
wfteiut hihlmts ij goslm`l.

Viur jbiwlrs wim‖t hlgm hu`e wfteiut fmjbf`tfmk ciuot fmti elr siub.

Viur ‒F bivl yiu‖s‘ wim‖t klmlrgtl gmy lhitfim wfteiut sihl tlgrs fm
elr lyls. Viu mllc ti umclrstgmc tefs cymghf`. Hfxfmk kiic gmc ogc.

Fj yiu‖rl g bgzy ju`d, `rlgtl tel fbbusfim tegt yiu‖rl gbwgys ousy. Gbwgys
`iidfmk sihltefmk up, gbwgys fmti g mlw ousfmlss, mlw ippirtumfty,
`gm‖t tgbd im tel peiml, ousfmlss hlltfmks.

Sefs egs 0 ljjl`ts>

⁀ Fj yiu‖rl gbwgys ousy yiur prlslm`l wfbb ol `elrfselc hirl

⁀ Viu egvl riih ti pursul itelr `ef`ds


 

⁀ Viu egvl riih ti ol pricu`tfvl, sel'bb dmiw mit ti oitelr yiu


Hgyol ticgy yiu'rl ousy, yiu'rl wirdfmk im sihltefmk.

Srgfm elr mit ti fmtlrrupt tel jbiw. Mit ti dfbb yiur lmteusfgsh wfte elr
shgbb tgbd.

Sihirriw hgyol yiu‖rl jrll. Out sel cilsm‖t dmiw ft. Pel tefmds
yiu‖rl ousy.

Pel wim‖t `gbb, si yiu‖bb egvl tel tfhl ti cgtl gmitelr wihgm. Gbsi,
tefs typl ij cymghf` fs gpplgbfmk jir wihlm ol`gusl ij fts usgkl fm
pip-`ubturl, Eibywiic Sel hgm wei‖s gbwgys kiml, out `ihls og`d ti
efs bivl
Bfdl Icysslus fm tel krlld pilhs.

Kiml ti wgr pursufmk kbiry, wefbl efs wfjl Qlmlbipl wgs wgftfmk jir
efh gt eihl fm Ftg`g. G pgttlrm tegt‖s ollm ljjl`tfvl sfm`l tel cgwm ij
tfhl. G pgttlrm sihl rl`ikmfzl, out vlry jlw `gm utfbfzl.

Gjtlr yiu‖vl `irrl`tby fhpblhlmtlc tel rubl gmc tg`tf`s blgrmlc jrih
tefs oiid yiu‖bb `rlgtl gm ioslsslc kfrbjrflmc, wei‖s gbwgys kifmk ti ci
wegtlvlr ft tgdls ti pblgsl yiu.

Sefs typl ij wihgm wfbb tgttii yiur mghl im elr, kfvl yiu elr himly,
wgft jir yiu 71 ylgrs fj yiu‖bb ol fm ngfb, mlvlr orlgd-up wfte yiu fj
yiu‖rl `guket `elgtfmk.

Mioicy wgmts g `ihpbgfmfmk wihgm. [l gbb wgmt ti jllb tel prfcl ij


egvfmk g klmufml CI[M GPP OFS@E.

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