Handout Sleep
Handout Sleep
Hormones require time to balance out overnight during sleep. People are more likely to be tired,
irritable, anxious and depressed if they do not get enough sleep. Your brain needs sleep to wire (and
rewire) connections between nerve cells. This makes it so you can store new memories and learn.
Good sleep is also linked to better concentration. In addition, people who do not sleep well are more
likely to have pain, get sick easily, and have a hard time managing other diseases.1 People with
insomnia are much more likely to be involved in car accidents and perform poorly in athletic
competitions.6, 7
No matter what time a person plans to go to bed, the brain releases more melatonin, which makes
you sleepy, when it gets dark outside.1,2 This helps most people sleep at night and stay awake during
the day. If a person is around bright lights at night, the brain will not release very much melatonin.
Bright light sources include indoor lights, as well as screens from a TV, computer, tablet, or phone.
Cortisol, a key stress hormone, goes down overnight, and then spikes in the morning to help get
your mind and body going for the day. It can also spike during the day if needed, or as a response to
stress. If you are stressed or unable to calm down in the evening, your cortisol level may stay high
and keep melatonin from being released in the brain. This is one reason why it is important to find
good ways to relax and manage stress during the day, so your daytime worries don’t keep you from
sleeping overnight.1,9
When we get older sleep is not as deep and it is common to wake up more often during the night.10
This is partly because our bodies make less melatonin and growth hormone, but also because of an
increased need to urinate at night. When we age, our brain makes less antidiuretic hormone, a
hormone that controls how much water is in our urine, especially at night. We produce more urine, so
we have to get up once or twice. If the signal comes more than once or twice, it is likely that we really
do NOT have to urinate, and can just try to go back to sleep.
Older age makes sleep apnea (stopping breathing in your sleep for short amounts of time) more
common. More than 2/3 of us have it.11 Treatment may consist of sleeping on your side, CPAP (air is
pushed into the nose by a machine to keep airflow going), or weight loss. Decreasing apnea can
improve memory, mood, and other areas of health.12 Restless legs are also common as we age.
Exercise during the day and pedaling a cycle before going to bed help. Another non-medical
treatment is a vibrating pad that slows and stops automatically when we are asleep. Talk with your
health care provider if you think you have apnea or restless legs.
Take steps to allow your own hormones to come into balance. Listed below are some of the most
effective changes you can make that will help you sleep both longer and better. Create a plan for
yourself. Change the habits that you can, one at a time. Do not try to do too many new things at
once!1,2, 4-5 What you do related to where and how you sleep is called your “sleep hygiene.”
Daytime
Recognize that you may not be able to do this alone. Research tells us that one of the most
helpful ways to fight insomnia (and restore a healthy sleep pattern) is to get insomnia-focused
counseling. This is called cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I. There is more
information about this below.
Regularly spend time outdoors or in bright light.
Exercise daily. There is good evidence that regular exercise improves restful sleep, and it
helps people feel more awake during the day.
Get up from bed at the same time each day, no matter what.
Keep a sleep diary. The National Sleep Foundation has an example of a good one on their
website: https://sleepfoundation.org/sleep-diary/SleepDiaryv6.pdf. Track your sleep, then talk
about this information with your health care team.
Eat fresh foods that are healthy for you.
Reduce stress. Find ways to regularly relax.
Nighttime
Cut out bright lights an hour before bed. Dim inside lights, turn off the TV, or wear sunglasses
inside if others object to the low lighting.
Develop a relaxing pre-bedtime routine, just before going to sleep. (Some ideas: listen to a
recording of guided imagery, practice a muscle relaxation exercise, massage tense muscles,
take a warm bath, etc.).
As the temperature drops at night, our brain gets the signal that it is time to go to sleep. Turn
down the thermostat at night to lower the temperature. If drinking something hot, or taking a
hot bath or shower at night, do so at least an hour before bed to allow for a drop in body
temperature.
Go to bed at the same time each day, no matter what.
Keep the bedroom quiet when sleeping, or use a source of “white noise” (e.g., a fan, white
noise recordings).
Keep the bedroom dark to facilitate sleep. (This increases production of melatonin, the sleep
hormone).
Use your bed only for sleep and sex.
Remove electrical devices from around your head when you sleep (e.g., radios, cell phones,
outlet connectors). Easy access to your phone or tablet may cause you to use it more in bed.
This can lower melatonin levels, both from the light of the screen, and any stress that may be
related to your interactions.
What doesn’t work for my mind and body? (Remove barriers that may be
preventing a good night’s sleep) 1-5
• Try not to engage in stimulating activity just before bed, such as playing a competitive game,
watching something exciting on television, or having an important discussion with a loved one.
• Do not have caffeine in the evening (coffee, many teas, chocolate, soda, etc.).
• Avoid watching television, or using your phone/tablet in bed, and reading material that excites you
or wakes you up.
• Do not use alcohol to help you sleep. Alcohol disrupts your sleep cycle and suppresses REM
sleep, which can contribute to depression.
• Do not go to bed too hungry or too full.
• Stay away from daytime naps. If napping, subtract that time from night time sleep total.
• Do not try to command yourself to go to sleep or worry about not sleeping. This only makes your
mind and body more alert (and often upset). Research shows us that worrying about not sleeping
actually makes it harder to sleep! Remember that there are several safe remedies and
approaches to help you sleep.
• Try to steer clear of medicines, supplements, and substances that can make it difficult to get good
sleep.
2. Melatonin supplements. A melatonin supplement helps boost the levels of the rest-related
hormone made in the brain. People generally do well starting at 1 mg each night. Many people do
better on smaller, rather than larger, doses. For this reason, it may help to try 1/2 mg or 1/4 mg at
night if the full 1 mg dose does not help at first. It is safe to increase the dose up to 10 mg if
needed. Try the same dose every night for 1-2 weeks, and see how it works. It is important to
take melatonin at least 60-90 minutes before going to bed, and 7-8 hours before you plan to wake
up.1-3,5, 15
• Biofeedback: The idea behind biofeedback is to become more aware of heart rate, breathing
patterns, and other body functions that you might not always be noticing. As you become more
aware, you learn to have more control over these functions. Biofeedback devices can help you
move your body from a “fight or flight” state to a place of more relaxation. Biofeedback is also
used for several other purposes, including better mood, focus, blood flow, and overall well-being.
Many biofeedback devices can be purchased online, including the Stress Eraser, HeartMath, and
many others.1,2,4-6
• Healing Touch and other self-care biofield approaches: These can easily and safely be done
before bed or on an as-needed basis to help manage stress and support your body’s own ability
to rest and heal itself.3,5 One example, called the “Self Chakra Connection,” is included here:
https://www.healingtouchprogram.com/content_assets/docs/current/Self-CC-handout1.pdf
• Progressive muscle relaxation (PMR): This is a technique that involves tensing specific muscle
groups and then relaxing them to create awareness of tension and relaxation. It is called
“progressive” because it proceeds through all major muscle groups, relaxing them one at a time. It
eventually leads to relaxation of all your muscles. You Must Relax is a helpful book by the
developer of this technique, Edmund Jacobson.1,2,4-6
Step 1. Find a comfortable position. You may lie down. Loosen any tight clothing. Close your eyes
and be quiet.
Step 2. Assume a passive, accepting attitude. Focus on yourself and on getting full relaxation in
specific body muscles. Tune out all other thoughts.
Step 4. Focus on any muscles that may still be tense. If any muscle remains tense, tighten and
relax that specific muscle three or four more times.
Step 5. Fix the feeling of relaxation in your mind. Make a decision to repeat the process again.
Remember, people respond differently to various activities. Some feel pleasant or refreshed, and
others feel calm and relaxed after an activity like this one. Some people benefit from hearing the
prompts in their own voice. Make a recording of these instructions if this is true for you. Some
people notice very little change the first time, but with practice, their control increases—as well as
the benefits. If you practice this activity, your relaxation should increase. Note: If you have
movement limitations, you can change this over to Progressive Relaxation (PR). With PR, you
follow the same pattern with focusing on different body parts, but you do not contract and relax
muscle groups.
• Mindfulness: This is a whole class of techniques to help you become more aware of the constant
activity in the mind and body.1,2,3-6 Following is an example of a mindfulness technique to help you
sleep:
o Place one hand on your chest and the other on your abdomen. When you take a deep breath,
the hand on the abdomen should rise higher than the one on the chest. This ensures that the
diaphragm is expanding, pulling air into the bases of the lungs. (The diaphragm is the muscle
separating your chest cavity from your belly.) Once you have this mastered, you do not have
to use your hands.
o Take a slow deep breath in through your nose for a count of 3-4 and exhale slowly through
your mouth for a count of 6-7. (Exhale twice as long as you inhale).
o This breathing using your diaphragm, stimulates the vagus nerve, which increases the
“relaxation response” (opposite of the “fight or flight” response).
• Movement/Exercise: Regular exercise is one of the key ingredients in maintaining good sleep
and overall health. Try to get 40-60 minutes of aerobic and muscle toning exercise most days of
the week. This will lower the cortisol (stress hormone) in the body, which naturally helps raise
your own melatonin levels.1-6
• Acupuncture and traditional Chinese medicine (TCM): Acupuncture and TCM can help treat
many conditions, including sleep troubles. Acupuncture uses very small needles to channel
different energies in the body and speed healing. It has been around for over 5,000 years and has
very few side effects for most people. Acupuncture may not be the best choice if you are taking
medicine to thin your blood.1,2,4-6,12
• Supplements and prescription medicines: Supplements are pills, oils, herbs, or other
substances that have an effect like medicine. Generally, supplements are not regulated by the
U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA), so there can be differences in quality. While they often
are thought to be more natural than medicines, it is good to be cautious with supplements. Many
brands are not tested in labs and may not contain the ingredients that are reported on the bottle.
That said, there are many supplements that have been found to be helpful for sleep.
Whether you take medicines or supplements, the goal is to use fewer of them over time. While
helpful for a time, or on an as-needed basis, the brain and body can become dependent on them.
Ideally, you want to help your body find what it needs to sleep well, but you do not want to
develop a tolerance to products that can cause side effects when higher doses are needed. The
products listed in the next two tables are to help jumpstart a better sleep/wake cycle. The goal is
to use these for support, but to use them in the short term while you are working with the other
tools and approaches described above to make lasting changes.1,2,4-6, 14