from milk and honey

by rupi kaur

you tell me
i am not like most girls
and learn to kiss me with your eyes closed
something about the phrase–something about
how i have to be unlike the women
i call sisters in order to be wanted
makes me want to spit your tongue out
like i am supposed to be proud you picked me
as if i should be relieved you think
i am better than them

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It was long ago
By Eleanor Farjeon

I’ll tell you, shall I, something I remember? She seemed the oldest thing I can remember.
Something that still means a great deal to me. But then perhaps I was not more than three.
It was long ago. It was long ago.

I dragged on the dusty road, and I remember

A dusty road in summer I remember,
How the old woman looked over the fence at me
A mountain, and an old house, and a tree And seemed to know
That stood, you know,
How it felt to be three, and called out, I remember
Behind the house.An old woman I remember “Do you like bilberries and cream for tea?”
In a red shawl with a grey cat on her knee I went under the tree.
Humming under a tree.

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And while she hummed, and the cat purred, I remember
And the taste of the berries, the feel of the sun I remem
How she filled a saucer with berries and cream for me And the smell of everything that used to be
So long ago. So long ago,

Such berries and such cream as I remember Till the heat on the road outside again I remember
I never had seen before, and never see And how the long dusty road seemed to have for me
Today, you know. No end, you know.

And that is almost all I can remember, That is the farthest thing I can remember.
It won’t mean much to you. It does to me.
The house, the mountain, the gray cat on her knee,
Then I grew up, you see.
Her red shawl, and the tree,

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from Jane Eyre (ch 23, in A Little Aloud with Love)
By Charlotte Bronte

‘Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think
wrong! - I have as much soul as you - and full as much heart! And if God had gifted me with some
beauty and much wealth, I should have made it as hard for you to leave me, as it is now for me to
leave you. I am not talking to you now through the medium of custom, conventionalities, nor even
of mortal flesh: it is my spirit that addresses your spirit; just as if both had passed through the grave,
and we stood at God's feet, equal - as we are!'
'As we are!' repeated Mr Rochester - 'so,' he added, enclosing me in his arms, gathering me to his
breast, pressing his lips on my lips: 'so, Jane!'
'Yes, so, sir,' I rejoined: 'and yet not so; for you are a married man - or as good as a married man,
and wed to one inferior to you - to one with whom you have no sympathy - whom I do not believe
you truly love; for I have seen and heard you sneer at her. I would scorn such a union: therefore I
am better than you - let me go!'

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from Maya Angelou

I am grateful to be a woman. I must have done something great in another life.

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from Emma Watson
at a press conference, July 2011

I think women are scared of feeling powerful and strong and brave sometimes.There’s
nothing wrong with being afraid. It’s not the absence of fear, it’s overcoming it and
sometimes you just have to blast through and have faith.

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Green, Green is My Sister’s House (from A Thousand Mornings)
by Mary Oliver

Don’t you dare climb that tree

or even try, they said, or you will be I try to be good but sometimes
sent away to the hospital of the a person just has to break out and
very foolish, if not the other one. act like the wild and springy thing
And I suppose, considering my age, one used to be. It’s impossible not
it was fair advice. to remember wild and not want to go back. So

But the tree is a sister to me, she if someday you can’t find me you might
lives alone in a green cottage look into that tree or – of course
high in the air and I know what it’s possible – under it.
would happen, she’d clap her green hands,
she’d shake her green hair, she’d
welcome me.Truly.

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from Women, Race and Class,
a study of the women’s liberation movement in the US
By Angela Davis

"Expediency governed the slaveholders’ posture toward female slaves: when it was profitable to exploit them as
if they were men, they were regarded, in effect, as genderless, but when they could be exploited, punished and
repressed in ways suited only for women, they were locked into their exclusively female roles.
[...] During the decades preceding the Civil War, Black women came to be increasingly appraised for their
fertility (or for the lack of it): she who was potentially the mother of ten, twelve, fourteen or more became a
coveted treasure indeed.This did not mean, however, that as mothers, Black women enjoyed a more respected
status than they enjoyed as workers. Ideological exaltation of motherhood - as popular as it was during the
nineteenth century - did not extend to slaves. In fact, in the eyes of the slaveholders, slave women were not
mothers at all; they were simply instruments guaranteeing the growth of the slave labor force.They were
"breeders" - animals, whose monetary value could be precisely calculated in terms of their ability to multiply
their numbers.

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from milk and honey
by rupi kaur

the name kaur and the universe

makes me a free woman it humbles me
it removes the shackles that calls out and says i have a
try to bind me universal duty to share with
uplifts me humanity to nurture
to remind me i am equal to and serve the sisterhood
any man even though the state to raise those that need raising
of this world screams to me i am not the name kaur runs in my blood
that i am my own woman and it was in me before the word itself existed
i belong wholly to myself it is my identity and my liberation
-kaur
a woman of sikhi

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Atlas (from Safe as Houses)
By U. A. Fanthorpe

There is a kind of love called maintenance The permanently rickety elaborate

Which stores the WD40 and knows when to use it; Structures of living, which is Atlas.
Which checks the insurance, and doesn’t forget And maintenance is the sensible side of love,
The milkman; which remembers to plant bulbs; Which knows what time and weather are doing
To my brickwork; insulates my faulty wiring;
Which answers letters; which knows the way Laughs at my dryrotten jokes; remembers
The money goes; which deals with dentists My need for gloss and grouting; which keeps
My suspect edifice upright in air,
And Road Fund Tax and meeting trains, As Atlas did the sky.
And postcards to the lonely; which upholds

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from Ruth Bader Ginsburg
in a speech given at Stanford University

In every good marriage, it helps sometimes to be a little deaf. I have followed that advice
[given by her mother-in-law on her wedding day] assiduously, and not only at home
through 56 years of a marital relationship nonpareil. I have employed it as well in every
workplace, including the Supreme Court.When a thoughtless or unkind word is spoken,
best tune out. Reacting in anger or annoyance will not advance one's ability to persuade.

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from Far From the Madding Crowd (ch 4, in A Little Aloud with Love)
By Thomas Hardy

He went forward and stretched out his arm again. Bathsheba had overtaken him at a point beside
which stood a low stunted holly bush, now laden with red berries. Seeing his advance take the form
of an attitude threatening a possible enclosure, if not compression, of her person, she edged off
round the bus.
'Why, Farmer Oak,' she said over the top, looking at him with rounded eyes, 'I never said I was
going to marry you.'
'Well - that is a tale!' said Oak, with dismay.' To run after anybody like this, and then say you don't
want him!'

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from Far From the Madding Crowd (ch 4, in A Little Aloud with Love)
By Thomas Hardy

'What I meant to tell you was only this,' she said eagerly, and yet half conscious of the absurdity of
the position she had made for herself - 'that nobody has got me yet as a sweetheart, instead of my
having a dozen, as my aunt said; I hate to be thought men's property in that way, though possibly I
shall be had some day.Why, if I'd wanted you I shouldn't have run after you like this; 'twould have
been the forwardest thing! But there was no harm in hurrying to correct a piece of false news that
had been told you.'
'Oh, no - no harm at all.' But there is such a thing as being too generous in expressing a judgement
impulsively, and Oak added with a more appreciative sense of all the circumstances - 'Well, I am not
quite certain it was no harm.'

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

My grandmas are officially old now

94 and 86
They tell me war was not romantic, not a bit,
don’t believe the posters of the handsome soldiers
kissing loved who waited for them to come back
Most endings were not like that
Most loved ones died or loves burnt out
My grandmas go to more funerals than parties now It hurts
Neither of them like this
And they sit
Observing everything

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

Their Christmas’s as kids had sock stockings and a single bouncy ball and now I watch them
watching as great grandchildren open hoards of presents throwing half onto the floor
Sometimes we disagree with what’s right and wrong for us to do
My pregnancy without a wedding ring was something that we struggled through
Talked it through and agreed to disagree
And though I felt a little shamed
When she offered me her ring to wear I knew she was just protecting me
From how people would’ve been to her if she had done the same
The other took me to the side and held my waist tight like a glove
“Loads of my generation got knocked up too” she whispered
“They just kept it covered up And married bloody quickly”

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

I love it when she winks at me

Telling secrets
Drinking tea
I ask about their history
They know a lot of things my grans
They sit and watch it all
Articulate, intelligent
Kind and bossy,
Sly sometimes
As clocks tick time with icing topped
And I watch as people stop to ask them if they want another cup of tea

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

“Ten thousand and eighty three I’ve had” she jokes to me

They all taste just the bloody same
She says “I’m bored of my friends dying”
And people are so patronizing
Bending over, talking shyly,
Slowly and politely like my grandmas are both kids
Telling me to “leave nan” she’s just nattering for the sake of it
Call their conversations gossip
Like older people are all the same
And ignore everything they thought before their brown hairs turned to silver grey
“If you ever call it lilac I will slap your little face” she says

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

She says
She wishes she could dance again
But I see her dancing all the time
And I love the fact me and my mum’s mum tell dirty jokes my mum won’t like
We watch reruns of CSI
The oldest says she’s ready to die
Her younger siblings are all gone now
Funerals a daily song, now
The tea is sipped
My daughter loves the way they live
Bungalows and secret tins of biscuits
She nicks while my grandma sleeps

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Bungalows and Biscuit Tins
by Hollie McNish

My youngest grandma does ‘chairobics’ for the over eighties twice a week
And lives a larger life than most people my age that I meet
I see life-lines run through both their faces,
Both of them my saving graces,
I think our country’s strongly ageist
I wish more grandmas filled the pages of our youth-obsessing TV screens
You teach me what real wisdom means
And though there’s things we argue on
And your mindsets can be militant
And you always say I swear too much
I think you’re fucking brilliant.

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My Mother Goes to Vote
By Judith Harris

We walked five blocks My mother stepped alone

to the elementary school, into the booth, pulling the curtain behind her.
my mother’s high heels I could see only the backs of her
crunching through playground gravel. calves in crinkled nylons.
We entered through a side door.
A partial vanishing, then reappearing
Down the long corridor, pocketbook crooked on her elbow,
decorated with Halloween masks, our mayor’s button pinned to her lapel.
health department safety posters— Even then I could see—to choose
we followed the arrows is to follow what has already
to the third grade classroom. been decided.

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My Mother Goes to Vote
By Judith Harris

We marched back out

finding a new way back down streets
named for flowers there were two mothers, conversing,
and accomplished men. squeezed into the children’s desk chairs.
I said their names out loud, as we found

our way home, to the cramped house,

the devoted porch light left on,
the customary meatloaf.
I remember, in the classroom converted
into a voting place—

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from Simone de Beauvoir

To be free is not to have the power to do anything you like; it is to be able

to surpass the given toward an open future.

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Height
by Ann Morrow Lindberg

When I was young I felt so small And fixing on a star I grew,

And frightened, for the world was tall. I pushed my head against the blue!
And even grasses seemed to me Still, like a singing lark, I find
A forest of immensity, Rapture to leave the grass behind.
Until I learned that I could grow And sometimes standing in a crowd
A glance would leave them far below. My lips are cool against a cloud.
Spanning a tree's height with my eye,
Suddenly I soared as high;

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My Winged Soul
by Emily Pfeiffer

My soul is like some cage-born bird, that hath

A restless prescience—howsoever won— Sad soul! If ever thy desire be bent
Of a broad pathway leading to the sun, Or broken to thy doom, and made to share
With promptings of an oft reprovèd faith The ruminant’s beatitude,—content,—
In sun-ward yearnings. Stricken through her breast, Chewing the cud of knowledge, with no care
And faint her wing with beating at the bars For germs of life within; then will I say,
Of sense, she looks beyond outlying stars, Thou art not caged, but fitly stalled in clay!
And only in the Infinite sees rest.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat

And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?

So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

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from How To Be a Woman
By Caitlin Moran

Any action a woman engages in from a spirit of joy, and within a similarly safe and
joyous environment, falls within the city-walls of feminism.A girl has a right to
dance how she wants, when her favourite record comes on.

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from Three Dreams in a Desert (Dreams, 1890)
By Olive Schreiner

I saw a desert and I saw a woman coming out of it. And she came to the bank of a dark river; and the bank
was steep and high.And on it an old man met her, who had a long white beard; and a stick that curled was
in his hand, and on it was written Reason. And he asked her what it was she wanted; and she said, “I am
woman; and I am seeking for the land of Freedom.”
And he said, “It is before you.”
And she said, “I see nothing before me but a dark flowing river, and a bank steep and high, and cuttings here
and there with heavy sand in them.”
And he said, “And beyond that?”
She said, “I see nothing, but sometimes, when I shade my eyes with my hand, I think I see on the further
bank trees and hills, and the sun shining on them!”

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from Three Dreams in a Desert (Dreams, 1890)
By Olive Schreiner

He said, “That is the Land of Freedom.”

She said, “How am I to get there?”
He said, “There is one way, and one only. Down the banks of Labor, through the water of Suffering.There is
no other.”
She said “Is there no bridge?”
He answered,“None.”
She said, “Is the water deep?”
He said, “Deep.”
She said, “Is the floor worn?”
He said, “It is.Your foot may slip at any time, and you may be lost.”
She said, “Have any crossed already?”
He said, “Some have tried!”

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from Three Dreams in a Desert (Dreams, 1890)
By Olive Schreiner

She said, “Is there a track to show where the best fording is?”
He said, “It has to be made.”
She shaded her eyes with her hand; and she said, “I will go.”
[…]

[The woman has been carrying a tiny child at her breast, and is instructed by the old man to put him down so that
he can grow and find the Land of Freedom for himself.The child bites her when she tries to release him, and as the
woman puts him down on the ground she suddenly changes from youth to age.]

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from Three Dreams in a Desert (Dreams, 1890)
By Olive Schreiner

And she stood far off on the bank of the river. And she said, “For what do I go to this far land which no one
has ever reached? Oh, I am alone! I am utterly alone!”
And Reason, that old man, said to her, “Silence! what do you hear?”
And she listened intently, and she said, “I hear the sound of feet, a thousand times ten thousand and
thousands of thousands, and they beat this way!”
He said, “They are the feet of those that shall follow you. Lead on!”

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from Coretta Scott King (wife of Martin Luther King)

Struggle is a never ending process. Freedom is never really won, you earn it
and win it in every generation.

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The Book of Ruth and Naomi (from A Little Aloud with Love)
by Marge Piercy

When you pick up the Tanakh and read brought even the baby she made
the Book of Ruth, it is a shock with Boaz home as a gift.
how little it resembles memory.
It's concerned with inheritance, Where you go, I will go too,
lands, men's names, how women your people shall be my people,
must wiggle and wobble to live. I will be a Jew for you,
for what is yours I will love
Yet women have kept it dear as I love you, oh Naomi
for the beloved elder who my mother, my sister, my heart.
cherished Ruth, more friend than
daughter. Daughters leave. Ruth

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The Book of Ruth and Naomi (from A Little Aloud with Love)
by Marge Piercy

Show me a woman who does not dream

a double, heart's twin, a sister At the season of first fruits, we recall
of the mind in whose ear she can whisper, two travellers, co-conspirators, scavengers
whose hair she can braid as her life making do with leftovers and mill ends,
twists its pleasure and pain and shame. whose friendship was stronger than fear,
Show me a woman who does not hide stronger than hunger, who walked together,
in the locket of bone that deep the road of shards, hands joined.
eye beam of fiercely gentle love
she had once from mother, daughter,
sister; once like a warm moon
that radiance aligned the tides
of her blood into potent order.

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We Talked as Girls Do
by Emily Dickinson

We talked as Girls do – But fondest, dwelt upon Ourself

Fond, and late – As we eventual – be –
We speculated fair, on every subject, but the Grave – When Girls to Women, softly raised
Of ours, none affair – We – occupy – Degree –

We handled Destinies, as cool – We parted with a contract

As we – Disposers – be – To cherish, and to write
And God, a Quiet Party But Heaven made both, impossible
To our Authority – Before another night.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

I
Mother says there are locked rooms inside all women,
kitchen of lust, bedroom of grief, bathroom of apathy.
Sometimes the men they come with keys,
and sometimes the men they come with hammers.

II
Nin soo joog laga waayo, soo jiifso aa laga helaa,
I said Stop, I said No and he did not listen.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

III
Perhaps Rihanna has a plan, perhaps she takes Chris back to hers
only for him to wake up hours later in a bathtub full of ice,
with a dry mouth, looking down at his new, neat procedure.

IV
I point to my body and say Oh this old thing? No, I just slipped it on.

V
Are you going to eat that? I say to my mother, pointing to my father who is lying on the
dining room table, his mouth stuffed with a red apple.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

VI
The bigger my body is, the more locked rooms there are, the more men come with keys.
Anwar didn’t push it all the way in, I still think about what he could have opened up inside
of me. Basil came and hesitated at the door for three years. Johnny with the blue eyes came
with a bag of tools he had used on other women: one hairpin, a bottle of bleach, a
switchblade and a jar of Vaseline.Yusuf called out God’s name through the keyhole and no
one answered. Some begged, some climbed the side of my body looking for a window, some
said they were on their way and did not come.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

VII
Show us on the doll where you were touched, they said.
I said I don’t look like a doll, I look like a house.
They said Show us on the house.

Like this: two fingers in the jam jar

Like this: an elbow in the bathwater
Like this: a hand in the drawer.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

VIII
I should tell you about my first love who found a trapdoor under my left breast nine years
ago, fell in and hasn’t been seen since. Every now and then I feel something crawling up my
thigh. He should make himself known, I’d probably let him out. I hope he hasn’t bumped in
to the others, the missing boys from small towns, with pleasant mothers, who did bad
things and got lost in the maze of my hair. I treat them well enough, a slice of bread, if
they’re lucky a piece of fruit. Except for Johnny with the blue eyes, who picked my locks and
crawled in. Silly boy, chained to the basement of my fears, I play music to drown him out.

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The House
by Warsan Shire

IX
Knock knock.
Who’s there?
No one.

X
At parties I point to my body and say This is where love comes to die.Welcome, come in,
make yourself at home. Everyone laughs, they think I’m joking.

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from The Princess Saves Herself in This One
by Amanda Lovelace

it is strange
how
sisters
can
be
saviors
or
strangers
&
sometimes
a bit of both.

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from Homestead (chapter 12, in A Little Aloud with Love)
By Rosina Lippi

Laura held out her hands to show her daughter the tadpole: a gift, a vision. Annile wanted to drink from her
cupped palms.
'No, he'll jump out,' Laura said, but she tilted her hands toward the small red mouth.The tadpole leapt frantically,
striking the startled child in the cheek, and fell back into the spring.
The water rippled and danced; Laura saw her reflection shift. She looked into the water and watched it draw the
picture of a younger woman, a woman in a dark green dress edged with white lace at the throat, her hair long
and glossy and well kept, her hands smooth and white, her nails clean and even.
'Who's that?' her daughter asked, following her mother's gaze, wanting to play this old game, to hear her
mother's dreams.
'Why, that's a young woman I know,' Laura answered. 'A teacher.'
'Tell me about her, Mama.'

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from Homestead (chapter 12, in A Little Aloud with Love)
By Rosini Lippi

She pulled the child up closer to her on the log, cast an eye at the baby digging in the mud. 'Well, let's see. She's
just started teaching. She found a little apartment all to herself with a view of the Three Sisters, way off.
Sometimes she just reads away the evenings in a big comfortable chair. She likes to sew, she sewed a dress to
wear to a dance. Her beau comes on Friday nights in a dark gray suit and sometimes they go out to eat. Once
in a while she takes a trip. Greece, to swim in the sea.'
Annile thought for a good time.
'Have you ever been there?'
'No, I haven't. Bought a book about Greece, though. I gave it to your great-great-aunt Johanna when I was a girl.'
'Is the teacher lady you?'
Laura stroked the child's hair away from her face and looked back into the depths of the spring.
'No, that was never me. But maybe it'll be you, sometime. Maybe you can take up where your great-aunt Martha
left off. She was a fine teacher.'

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A Birthday (taken from A Little Aloud with Love)
by Christina Rossetti

My heart is like a singing bird

Whose nest is in a watered shoot; Raise me a dais of silk and down;
My heart is like an apple-tree Hang it with vair and purple dyes;
Whose boughs are bent with thick-set fruit; Carve it in doves and pomegranates,
My heart is like a rainbow shell And peacocks with a hundred eyes;
That paddles in a halcyon sea; Work it in gold and silver grapes,
My heart is gladder than all these, In leaves and silver fleurs-de-lys;
Because my love is come to me. Because the birthday of my life
Is come, my love is come to me.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat

And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

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Warning
by Jenny Joseph

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?

So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

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from Where Are Those Songs?
by Micere Githae Mugo
Sing daughter sing
This I remember: around you are
Mother always said uncountable tunes sing
sing child sing some sung simple songs
make a song others unsung for the people
and sing sing them for all to hear
beat out your own rhythms to your rhythms and learn
the rhythms of your life observe and sing
but make the song soulful listen with you
and make life absorb
sing soak yourself
bathe
in the stream of life
and then sing
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The Crazy Woman
by Gwendolyn Brooks

I shall not sing a May song.

A May song should be gay.
I'll wait until November And all the little people
And sing a song of gray. Will stare at me and say,
"That is the Crazy Woman
I'll wait until November Who would not sing in May.”
That is the time for me.
I'll go out in the frosty dark
And sing most terribly.

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from Amal Clooney
in a speech given at the Texas Conference for Women

The worst thing that we can do as women is not stand up for each other, and this is
something we can practice every day, no matter where we are and what we do –
women sticking up for other women, choosing to protect and celebrate each other
instead of competing or criticizing one another.

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from Adrienne Rich

When a woman tells the truth she is creating the possibility for more truth around her.

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from Second Words: Selected Critical Prose
By Margaret Atwood

A voice is a human gift; it should be cherished and used, to utter fully human speech as
possible. Powerlessness and silence go together.

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For a Five Year Old
by Fleur Adcock

A snail is climbing up the window-sill

Into your room, after a night of rain. I see, then, that a kind of faith prevails:
You call me in to see, and I explain Your gentleness is moulded still by words
That it would be unkind to leave it there: From me, who have trapped mice and shot wild birds,
It might crawl to the floor; we must take care From me, who drowned your kittens, who betrayed
That no one squashes it.You understand, Your closest relatives, who purveyed
And carry it outside, with a careful hand, The harshest kind of truth to many another.
To eat a daffodil. But that is how things are: I am your mother,
And we are kind to snails.

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Overblown Roses
by Mimi Khalvati

She held one up, twirling it in her hand

as if to show me how the world began ‘Overblown roses’, the words swam in my head,
and ended in perfection. I was stunned. making sense as I suddenly saw afresh
How could she make a rose so woebegone, the rose now, the rose ahead: where a petal
couldn’t silk stand stiff? And how could a child, clings to a last breath; where my mother’s flesh
otherwise convinced of her mother’s taste, and mine, going the same way, may still
know what to think? It’s overblown, she smiled, be seen as beautiful, if these words are said.
I love roses when they’re past their best.

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from When I Hit You
By Meena Kandasamy

I am the woman who is willing to display her scars and put them within exhibition
frames. I am the madwoman of moon days. I am the breast-beating woman who howls. I
am the woman who wills the skies to weep in my place.

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from The Summer Before the Dark
By Doris Lessing

“I’m not going to be like my mother. You’re maniacs. You’re mad.”

“Yes,” said Kate. “I know it. And so you won’t be. The best of luck to you. And what
are you going to be instead?”

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from The Golden Notebook
By Doris Lessing

Ideally, what should be said to every child, repeatedly, throughout his or her school life is
something like this: 'You are in the process of being indoctrinated. We have not yet evolved a
system of education that is not a system of indoctrination. We are sorry, but it is the best we
can do. What you are being taught here is an amalgam of current prejudice and the choices
of this particular culture. The slightest look at history will show how impermanent these
must be. You are being taught by people who have been able to accommodate themselves to
a regime of thought laid down by their predecessors. It is a self-perpetuating system. Those
of you who are more robust and individual than others will be encouraged to leave and find
ways of educating yourself — educating your own judgements. Those that stay must
remember, always, and all the time, that they are being moulded and patterned to fit into the
narrow and particular needs of this particular society.

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from the essay We Should All Be Feminists
By Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than
recognizing how we are. Imagine how much happier we would be, how much freer to
be our true individual selves, if we didn’t have the weight of gender expectations.

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from The Well of Loneliness, chapter 27
By Radclyffe Hall

Puddle put an arm around Stephen's bowed shoulders, and she said: "You've got work to do
- come and do it! Why, just because you are what you are, you may actually find that you've
got an advantage.You may write with a curious double insight - write both men and women
from a personal knowledge. Nothing's completely misplaced or wasted, I'm sure of that - and
we're all part of nature. Some day the world will recognize this, but meanwhile there's plenty
of work that's waiting. For the sake of all the others who are like you, but less strong and
less gifted perhaps, many of them, it's up to you to have the courage to make good, and I'm
here to help you do it, Stephen."

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from Madeleine Albright
(the first woman to have become the US Secretary of State)

It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going
to be silent.

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from Persuasion, chapter 8
By Jane Austen

The Admiral […] now came up to Captain Wentworth, and without any observation of what he might be
interrupting, thinking only of his own thoughts, began with - "If you had been a week later at Lisbon, last
spring, Frederick, you would have been asked to give a passage to Lady Mary Grierson and her daughters."
"Should I? I am glad I was not a week later then."
The admiral abused him for his want of gallantry. He defended himself: though professing that he would never
willingly admit any ladies on board a ship of his, excepting for a ball, or a visit, which a few hours might
comprehend.
"But, if I know myself," said he, "this is from no want of gallantry towards them. It is rather from feeling how
impossible it is, with all one's efforts, and all one's sacrifices, to make the accommodations on board such as
women ought to have.There can be no want of gallantry,Admiral, in rating the claims of women to every
personal comfort high, and this is what I do. I hate to hear of women on board, or to see them on board; and
no ship, under my command, shall ever convey a family of ladies any where, if I can help it.""

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from Persuasion, chapter 8
By Jane Austen

This brought his sister upon him.

"Oh! Frederick! But I cannot believe it of you. - All idle refinement! - Women may be as comfortable on board, as
in the best house in England. I believe I have lived as much on board as most women, and I know nothing superior
to the accommodations of a man-of-war. I declare I have not a comfort or an indulgence about me, even at
Kellynch Hall," (with a kind bow to Anne) "beyond what I always had in most of the ships I have lived in; and they
have been five altogether."
"Nothing to the purpose," replied her brother. "You were living with your husband, and were the only woman on
board."
"But you, yourself, brought Mrs. Harville, her sister, her cousin, and the three children, round from Portsmouth to
Plymouth.Where was this superfine, extraordinary sort of gallantry of yours then?"
"All merged in my friendship, Sophia. I would assist any brother-officer's wife that I could, and I would bring any
thing of Harville's from the world's end, if he wanted it. But do not imagine that I did not feel it an evil in itself."

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from Persuasion, chapter 8
By Jane Austen

"Depend upon it, they were all perfectly comfortable."

"I might not like them the better for that, perhaps. Such a number of women and children have no right to be
comfortable on board."
"My dear Frederick, you are talking quite idly. Pray, what would become of us poor sailors' wives, who often want
to be conveyed to one port or another, after our husbands, if every body had your feelings?"
"My feelings, you see, did not prevent my taking Mrs. Harville and all her family to Plymouth."
"But I hate to hear you talking so like a fine gentleman, and as if women were all fine ladies, instead of rational
creatures.We none of us expect to be in smooth water all our days."

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from The Bell Jar
By Sylvia Plath

That’s one of the reasons I never wanted to get married. The last thing I wanted was
infinite security and to be the place an arrow shoots off from. I wanted change and
excitement and to shoot off in all directions myself, like the colored arrows from a
Fourth of July rocket.

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Ursula K. Le Guin:
a letter sent in response to a publisher's request in 1971

Dear Mr Radziewicz, I can imagine myself blurbing a book in which Brian Aldiss,
predictably, sneers at my work, because then I could preen myself on magnanimity.
But I cannot imagine myself blurbing a book, the first of a new series and hence
presumably exemplary of the series, which not only contains no writing by women,
but the tone of which is so self-contentedly, exclusively male, like a club, or a locker
room.That would not be magnanimity, but foolishness. Gentlemen, I just don't belong
here.

Yours truly, Ursula K. Le Guin

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from My Own Story
By Emmeline Pankhurst

Men make the moral code and they expect women to accept it. They have decided
that it is entirely right and proper for men to fight for their liberties and their rights,
but that it is not right and proper for women to fight for theirs.

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from Astrid Lindgren
in a speech made in 1958

A child alone with her book creates, somewhere in the secret room of her soul, her own
pictures that surpass everything else. Human beings must have these pictures. The day
when children's imaginations can no longer make them will be a day when all of humanity
is impoverished. All of the great things that have happened in the world happened first in
someone's imagination, and the shape of tomorrow depends largely upon the power of
the imagination in those who are just now learning to read. This is why children must
have books.

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New Season
by Wendy Cope

No coats today. Buds bulge on chestnut trees,

And on the doorstep of a big, old house And suddenly this paving-stone
A young man stands and plays his flute. Midway between my front door and the bus stop
Is a starting point.
I watch the silver notes fly up
And circle in the blue sky above the traffic, From here I can go anywhere I choose.
Travelling where they will.

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from Maria Mitchell
in a speech she presented as president of the Association for
the Advancement of Women

In my younger days, when I was pained by half-educated, loose, and inaccurate ways which
we all had, I used to say, 'How much women need exact science.' But since I have known
some workers in science who were not always true to the teaching of nature, who have
loved Self more than science, I have said, 'How much science needs women!’

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from Mykel Sisk (NexGeneGirls intern)

The most important thing I learned is that a scientist can look just like me.

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from Malala Yousafzai
in a speech she made to the UN

Dear brothers and sisters, do remember one thing: Malala Day is not my day.Today is the day of
every woman, every boy and every girl who have raised their voice for their rights.
There are hundreds of human rights activists and social workers who are not only speaking for
their rights, but who are struggling to achieve their goal of peace, education and equality.Thousands
of people have been killed by the terrorists and millions have been injured. I am just one of them.
So here I stand. So here I stand, one girl, among many. I speak not for myself, but so those without a
voice can be heard.
[…]
There was a time when women activists asked men to stand up for their rights. But this time we
will do it by ourselves. I am not telling men to step away from speaking for women’s rights, but I am
focusing on women to be independent and fight for themselves. So dear sisters and brothers, now
it’s time to speak up.

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from The Diary of a Young Girl
By Anne Frank

Women should be respected as well! Generally speaking, men are held in great
esteem in all parts of the world, so why shouldn’t women have their share? Soldiers
and war heroes are honored and commemorated, explorers are granted immortal
fame, martyrs are revered, but how many people look upon women too as soldiers?
… Women, who struggle and suffer pain to ensure the continuation of the human
race, make much tougher and more courageous soldiers than all those big-mouthed
freedom-fighting heroes put together!

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from Serena Williams
in an open letter ‘to all incredible women who strive for excellence’

But as we know, too often women are not supported enough or are discouraged from choosing
their path. I hope together we can change that. For me, it was a question of resilience.What others
marked as flaws or disadvantages about myself – my race, my gender – I embraced as fuel for my
success. I never let anything or anyone define me or my potential. I controlled my future.
[…]
As we know, women have to break down many barriers on the road to success. One of those
barriers is the way we are constantly reminded we are not men, as if it is a flaw. People call me one
of the “world’s greatest female athletes”. Do they say LeBron is one of the world’s best male
athletes? Is Tiger? Federer? Why not? They are certainly not female. We should never let this go
unchallenged. We should always be judged by our achievements, not by our gender.

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from Hilary Clinton
in her 2016 concession speech

To all the little girls who are watching, never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and
deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world to pursue and achieve your own
dreams.

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Phenomenal Woman
by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I walk into a room

I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size Just as cool as you please,
But when I start to tell them, And to a man,
They think I'm telling lies. The fellows stand or
I say, Fall down on their knees.
It's in the reach of my arms Then they swarm around me,
The span of my hips, A hive of honey bees.
The stride of my step, I say,
The curl of my lips. It's the fire in my eyes,
I'm a woman And the flash of my teeth,
Phenomenally. The swing in my waist,
Phenomenal woman, And the joy in my feet.
That's me. I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
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Phenomenal Woman
by Maya Angelou
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
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from the novel Swing Time
By Zadie Smith

‘for any daughter of hers was to do more than just survive – as my mother had –
she was to thrive, learning many unnecessary skills, like tap dancing.’

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from A Room of One’s Own
By Virginia Woolf

Yet genius of a sort must have existed among women as it must have existed among
the working classes. Now and again an Emily Brontë or a Robert Burns blazes out
and proves its presence. But certainly it never got itself on to paper.When, however,
one reads of a woman possessed by devils, of a wise woman selling herbs, or even of
a very remarkable man who had a mother, then I think we are on the track of a lost
novelist, a suppressed poet, of some mute and inglorious Jane Austen, some Emily
Brontë who dashed her brains out on the moor or mopped and mowed about the
highways crazed with the torture that her gift had put her to. Indeed, I would
venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was
often a woman. It was a woman Edward Fitzgerald, I think, suggested who made the
ballads and the folk songs, crooning them to her children, beguiling her spinning with
them, or the length of the winter’s night.

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Resumé
by Emmeline Pankhurst

Razors pain you;

Rivers are damp;
Acids stain you;
And drugs cause cramp.
Guns aren't lawful;
Nooses give;
Gas smells awful;
You might as well live.

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from The Cushion in the Road (2013)
By Alice Walker

Poetry is the lifeblood of rebellion, revolution and the raising of consciousness.

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Still I Rise
by Maya Angelou Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
You may write me down in history Just like hopes springing high,
With your bitter, twisted lies, Still I'll rise.
You may tread me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise. Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Does my sassiness upset you? Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Why are you beset with gloom? Weakened by my soulful cries.
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room. Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own back yard.

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Still I Rise
by Maya Angelou
Out of the huts of history's shame
You may shoot me with your words, I rise
You may cut me with your eyes, Up from a past that's rooted in pain
You may kill me with your hatefulness, I rise
But still, like air, I'll rise. I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Does my sexiness upset you? Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
Does it come as a surprise I rise
That I dance like I've got diamonds Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
At the meeting of my thighs? I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
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I rise
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Now
by Audre Lorde

Woman power
is
Black power
is
Human power
is
always feeling
my heart beats
as my eyes open
as my hands move
as my mouth speaks

I am
are you
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from Jeanette Winterson
in an interview given in 1994

Art can make a difference, because it pulls people up short. It says, don’t accept things for
their face value; you don’t have to go along with any of this; you can think for yourself. It
gives you a kind of self-reliance.We all feel powerless and we can’t really manage to do
anything because there’s just so much. I want to try and cut through those feelings of
apathy and powerlessness and be a kind of rallying point, offer a rallying cry, to people
who would otherwise feel dispossessed.

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from In Search of Our Mother’s Gardens
By Alice Walker

No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow
and be perceived as fully blossomed as you were intended. Or who belittles in any
fashion the gifts you labor so to bring into the world. That is why historians are
generally enemies of women, certainly of blacks, and so are, all too often, the very
people we must sit under in order to learn.

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from Marie Curie
in a letter to her brother, written in 1894

We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves.We must believe that
we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.

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from I Love Dick
By Chris Kraus

I’m moved in writing to be irrepressible […] I think the sheer fact of women talking,
being paradoxical, inexplicable, flip, self-destructive but above all else public is the
most revolutionary thing in the world.

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from Beloved
By Toni Morrison

“She is a friend of my mind. She gather me, man.The pieces I am, she gather them
and give them back to me in all the right order.”

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from Enheduanna (the world’s earliest known poet)

"Funeral offerings were brought, as if I had never lived there.

I approached the light, but the light scorched me
I approached the shade, but I was covered with a storm.
My honeyed mouth became scummed.Tell An about Lugal-Ane and my fate!
May An undo it for me! As soon as you tell An about it, An will release me."

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from Anaïs Nin

Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become a
woman was painful. I wept because I was no longer a child with a child’s
blind faith. I wept because my eyes were opened to reality … I wept
because I could not believe anymore and I love to believe. I can still love
passionately without believing.That means I love humanly. I wept because
from now on I will weep less. I wept because I have lost my pain and I am
not yet accustomed to its absence.

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from the novel Kitchen
By Banana Yoshimoto

As I grow older, much older, I will experience many things, and I will hit rock bottom.
Again and again I will suffer; again and again I will get back on my feet. I will not be
defeated. I won't let my spirit be destroyed.

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from Moominsummer Madness
By Tove Jansson

There’s no need to imagine that you’re a wondrous beauty, because that’s what you
are.

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from Men Explain Things to Me
By Rebecca Solnit

Some women get erased a little at a time, some all at once. Some reappear. Every
woman who appears wrestles with the forces that would have her disappear. She
struggles with the forces that would tell her story for her, or write her out of the
story, the genealogy, the rights of man, the rule of law. The ability to tell your own
story, in words or images, is already a victory, already a revolt.

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from Ruth Gordon

Courage is like a muscle; it is strengthened by use.

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from Alice Walker

The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they
don't have any.

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from Rosa Parks

I have learned over the years that when one's mind is made up, this
diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.

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from Songs Out of Sorrow, part 2, ‘Mastery’
by Sara Teasdale

I would not have a god come in

To shield me suddenly from sin,
And set my house of life to rights;
Nor angels with bright burning wings
Ordering my earthly thoughts and things;
Rather my own frail guttering lights
Wind blown and nearly beaten out;
Rather the terror of the nights
And long, sick groping after doubt;
Rather be lost than let my soul
Slip vaguely from my own control --
Of my own spirit let me be
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from Little Women, chapter 44
By Louisa May Alcott

[on being recently married to Laurie]

Amy - "I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship."
[…]
"What are you going to do with yourselves after you get settled?" asked Jo, buttoning
Amy's cloak as she used to button her pinafores.
"We have our plans.We don't mean to say much about them yet, because we are
such very new brooms, but we don't intend to be idle. I'm going into business with a
devotion that shall delight Grandfather, and prove to him that I'm not spoiled. I need
something of the sort to keep me steady. I'm tired of dawdling, and mean to work
like a man."
"And Amy, what is she going to do?" asked Mrs March, well pleased at Laurie's
decision and the energy with which he spoke.

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from Little Women, chapter 44
By Louisa May Alcott

"After doing the civil all round, and airing our best bonnet, we shall astonish you by
the elegant hospitalities of our mansion, the brilliant society we shall draw about us,
and the beneficial influence we shall exert over the world at large.That's about it,
isn't it, Madame Recamier?" asked Laurie with a quizzical look at Amy.
"Time will show. Come away, Impertinence, and don't shock my family by calling me
names before their faces," answered Amy, resolving that there should be a home
with a good wife in it before she set up a salon as a queen of society.

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from Alison Bechdel (cartoonist)
in an interview with Jan Sorensen in 2013

[on publishing her comic strip without her mother’s approval]

It certainly was an important moment for me, that realization that I was not going to
get what I wanted. It was very freeing. I keep using that word "freeing" or
"liberating." I feel like Houdini sometimes, like I'm just getting out of one set of
shackles after another, hanging upside down inside a burlap bag with handcuffs on.
Hopefully one day, I'm going to get out of this tank of water.

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My Mother’s Kitchen
by Choman Hardi

I will inherit my mother’s kitchen,

her glasses, some tall and lean others short and fat
her plates, an ugly collection from various sets,
cups bought in a rush on different occasions
rusty pots she doesn’t throw away.
“Don’t buy anything just yet”, she says,
“soon all of this will be yours”.

My mother is planning another escape

for the first time home is her destination,
the rebuilt house which she will furnish.
At 69 she is excited about starting from a scratch.
It is her ninth time.
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My Mother’s Kitchen
by Choman Hardi

She never talks about her lost furniture

when she kept leaving her homes behind.
She never feels regret for things
only her vine in the front garden
which spread over the trellis on the porch.
She used to sing for the grapes to ripen,
sew cotton bags to protect them from the bees.
I will never inherit my mother’s trees.

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from Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race
by Reni Eddo Lodge

Feminism is not about equality, and certainly not about silently slipping into a world of
work created by and for men. Feminism, at its best, is a movement that works to liberate
all people who have been economically, socially and culturally marginalized by an
ideological system that has been designed for them to fail.

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from Wars I Have Seen (1945)
by Gertrude Stein

It is funny that men who are supposed to be scientific cannot get themselves to realise
the basic principle of physics, that action and reaction are equal and opposite, that when
you persecute people you always rouse them to be strong and stronger.

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from Middlemarch
by George Eliot

But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the
growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are
not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who
lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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from the novel Girl Meets Boy
by Ali Smith

She had the swagger of a girl. She blushed like a boy. She had a girl’s toughness. She has a
boy’s gentleness. She was as meaty as a girl. She was as graceful as a boy. She was as
brave and handsome and rough as a girl. She was as pretty and delicate and dainty as a
boy. She turned boys' heads like a girl. She turned girls' heads like a boy. She made love
like a boy. She made love like a girl. She was so boyish it was girlish, so girlish it was
boyish, she made me want to rove the world writing our names on every tree. I had
simply never found someone so right. Sometimes this shocked me so much that I was
unable to speak.

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Her
by Jackie Kay

I had been told about her.

How she would always, always. We two listened to the wind.
How she would never, never. We two galloped a pace.
I’d watched and listened We two, up and away, away, away.
but I still fell for her, And now she’s gone,
how she always, always. like she said she would go.
How she never, never. But then I had been told about her –
how she would always, always.
In the small brave night,
her lips, butterfly moments.
I tried to catch her and she laughed
a loud laugh that cracked me in two,
but then I had been told about her,
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from Are Women Human? Astute and Witty Essays on the Role
of Women in Society
by Dorothy L. Sayers

A man once asked me ... how I managed in my books to write such natural conversation
between men when they were by themselves.Was I, by any chance, a member of a large,
mixed family with a lot of male friends? I replied that, on the contrary, I was an only child
and had practically never seen or spoken to any men of my own age till I was about
twenty-five. "Well," said the man, "I shouldn't have expected a woman (meaning me) to
have been able to make it so convincing." I replied that I had coped with this difficult
problem by making my men talk, as far as possible, like ordinary human beings.This
aspect of the matter seemed to surprise the other speaker; he said no more, but took it
away to chew it over. One of these days it may quite likely occur to him that women, as
well as men, when left to themselves, talk very much like human beings also.

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from bell hooks
When anyone thinks a woman who serves “gives ‘cause that’s what mothers or real
women do,” they deny her full humanity and thus fail to see the generosity inherent in
her acts.

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from Arundhati Roy
in a lecture given in acceptance of the Sydney Peace Prize

I must accept [the Sydney Peace Prize] as a literary prize that honours a writer for her writing,
because contrary to the many virtues that are falsely attributed to me, I’m not an activist, nor the
leader of any mass movement, and I’m certainly not the ‘voice of the voiceless’. (We know of
course there's really no such thing as the 'voiceless'. There are only the deliberately silenced, or
the preferably unheard.) I am a writer who cannot claim to represent anybody but herself.
[…]
On Peace:
The real tragedy is that most people in the world are trapped between the horror of a putative
peace and the terror of war. Those are the two sheer cliffs we’re hemmed in by.The question is:
How do we climb out of this crevasse? For those who are materially well-off, but morally
uncomfortable, the first question you must ask yourself is do you really want to climb out of it?
How far are you prepared to go? Has the crevasse become too comfortable?

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from Arundhati Roy
in a lecture given in acceptance of the Sydney Peace Prize

If you really want to climb out, there’s good news and bad news.The good news is that the
advance party began the climb some time ago.They’re already half way up.Thousands of activists
across the world have been hard at work preparing footholds and securing the ropes to make it
easier for the rest of us. There isn’t only one path up.There are hundreds of ways of doing it.
There are hundreds of battles being fought around the world that need your skills, your minds,
your resources. No battle is irrelevant. No victory is too small.
The bad news is that colourful demonstrations, weekend marches and annual trips to the World
Social Forum are not enough.There have to be targeted acts of real civil disobedience with real
consequences.

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from To My Trans Sisters: an anthology of letters written by
trans women
by Laverne Cox

We are not what other people say we are.We are who we know ourselves to be, and
we are what we love.That's okay.

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from Audrey Hepburn

As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself,
the other for helping others.

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from Eleanor Roosevelt

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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from Simone de Beauvoir

The Point is not for women simply to take power out of men’s hands, since that
wouldn’t change anything about the world. It’s a question precisely of destroying that
notion of power.

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from Erin McKean (lexicographer)

You don't have to be pretty.You don't owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your
boyfriend/spouse/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the
street.You don't owe it to your mother, you don't owe it to your children, you don't
owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space
marked 'female’.

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from Anthony and Cleopatra
(Act II, Scene ii)
by William Shakespeare

Enobarbus describes Queen Cleopatra:

The barge she sat in, like a burnish'd throne, It beggar'd all description: she did lie
Burned on the water: the poop was beaten gold; In her pavilion, cloth-of-gold of tissue,
Purple the sails, and so perfumed that O'erpicturing that Venus where we see
The winds were lovesick with them; the oars were silver, The fancy outwork nature: on each side her
Which to the tune of flutes kept stroke, and made Stood pretty dimpled boys, like smiling Cupids,
The water which they beat to follow faster, With divers-colour'd fans, whose wind did seem
As amorous of their strokes. For her own person, To glow the delicate cheeks which they did cool,
And what they undid did.

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from Wide Sargasso Sea
by Jean Rhys

I took the red dress down and put it against myself. 'Does it make me to look
intemperate and unchaste?' I said.That man told me so. He had found out that Sandi had
been to the house and that I went to see him. I never knew who told. 'Infamous
daughter of an infamous mother' he said to me.
'Oh put it away,' Grace Poole said, 'come and eat your food. Here's your grey wrapper.
Why they can't give you anything better is more than I can understand.They're rich
enough.’…But I looked at the dress on the floor and it was as if the fire had spread
across the room. It was beautiful and it reminded me of something I must do. I will
remember I thought. I will remember quite soon now.

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from Yoko Ono

I think that all women are witches, in the sense that a witch is a magical being.And a
wizard, which is a male version of a witch, is kind of revered, and people respect wizards.
But a witch, my god, we have to burn them. It’s the male chauvinistic society that we’re
living in for the longest time, 3,000 years or whatever.And so I just wanted to point out
the fact that men and women are magical beings.We are very blessed that way, so I’m
just bringing that out. Don’t be scared of witches, because we are good witches, and you
should appreciate our magical power.

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from the novel The Bricks that Built the Houses
by Kate Tempest

“She flicks her words like lit matches.They drop delicately, burning.”

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from Anna Quindlen, writer of Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake

After all those years as a woman hearing ‘not thin enough, not pretty enough, not this
enough, not that enough,’ almost overnight I woke up one morning and thought, I AM
ENOUGH.

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from The Princess Diarist
by Carrie Fisher

Do not let what you think they think of you make you stop and question everything you
are.

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from Women and Economics (1898)
by Charlotte Perkins Gilman

Quote 1: In our steady insistence on proclaiming sex-distinction we have grown to

consider most human attributes as masculine attributes, for the simple reason that they
were allowed for men and forbidden to women.

Quote 2: What we do modifies us more than what is done to us.

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from The Sisters
by Judith Wright

In the vine-shadows on the veranda;

under the yellow leaves, in the cooling sun,
sit two sisters. Their slow voices run
like little winter creeks, dwindled by frost and wind,
and the square of sunlight moves on the veranda.

They remember the gay young men on their tall horses

who came courting; the dancing and the smells of leather
and wine, the girls whispering by the fire together;
even their dolls and ponies, all they have left behind
moves in the yellow shadows on the veranda.

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from The Sisters
by Judith Wright

Thinking of their lives apart and the men they married

thinking of the marriage-bed and the birth of their first child,
they look down smiling.“My life was wide and wild,
and who can know my heart? There in that golden jungle
I walk alone,” say the old sisters on the veranda.

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from This Bridge Called My Back, Fourth Edition: Writings by
Radical Women of Colour
by Cherrie Moraga

Our strategy is how we cope—how we measure and weigh what is to be said and when,
what is to be done and how, and to whom, daily deciding/risking who it is we can call an
ally, call a friend (whatever that person's skin, sex, or sexuality). We are women without
a line. We are women who contradict each other.

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from Won’t You Celebrate With Me
by Lucille Clifton

won’t you celebrate with me

what i have shaped into
a kind of life? i had no model.
born in babylon
both nonwhite and woman
what did i see to be except myself?
i made it up
here on this bridge between
starshine and clay,
my one hand holding tight
my one hand; come celebrate
with me that everyday
something has tried to kill me
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