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 WHY SOCIAL CIRCLE?
Because women desire men whom other women
desire and other men admire.

Feminine energy is attracted to Masculine energy.

And nothing oozes more masculine energy than a

man who already has multiple women around him
chasing his attention and men who respect his
opinions and look up to him for advice and fun.

Simply put, pussy and power attract more pussy.

But on a deeper level, social circles are a lifestyle

thing. The power of introductions are very strong
due to the Halo effect, and in-group bias.

It's about Leverage. You leverage your access to

social resources and women to develop deeper
relationships with men and women.
1 | The Social Pyramid

WINNERS

VALUE
PROVIDERS

LEECHERS

LOSERS
 2 | THE MINDSET: I AM AN
EXTROVERT
Look, everybody is a natural introvert. Nobody came out
of the womb ready to socialize and talk to people. As
humans, we like to have alone time for ourselves.

But that doesn't mean you make it your identity.

You have to consciously and deliberately put yourself in

situations where you talk to people. You have to change
your self-image from "I am an introvert" to "I AM AN
EXTROVERT WHO LOVES TALKING TO PEOPLE"

Most guys aren't able to ever become successful at

social circle game because they never change their self-
identity. They find solace in the fact that they can
always pussy out by saying "But I am an introvert this is
not me"

FUCK THAT.
 From today, the world is your playground. You are a
social animal.

Join a gym. Ask people if they are done using the

equipment. Ask people if they can spot you. Baby Steps.
CONSISTENCY.

The more women you have as friends, the more women

you actually fuck. This is because women desire men
whom other women desire. And although your female
friends might not necessarily desire you, the
preselection and social proof that they give off is
massive.

"Wow, he has so many girls around him. He must be really

popular and I can feel safe around him, knowing he's not a
creep."

Every girl you interact with, you either make her your
wing girl or partner
IMAGINE IF I TOLD YOU RIGHT NOW THAT NO MATTER
WHAT you do, you cannot get her number or fuck her.

You won't give a fuck in your interactions, right?

You will be totally free-flowing and not chase

validation, because you know that you're not allowed
to do anything.

And always ask yourself:

HOW CAN I OFFER THIS PERSON VALUE RIGHT NOW?

That is the mindset I want you to come from.

Always LEAD WITH VALUE.

Now read "Introvert to Extrovert in 6 Steps" before

moving forward.
3 | The Friend to Homies
Formula

Frequency- The mere exposure effect

(discussed later)

Duration- time spent together is value raised.

Aim for quality over quantity though.

Intensity- affinity, commonalities, shared

experience. strong emotions increase
intensity. Charismatic Questions will help
with this. Shared worldview + mindsets.

Proximity- the same area or how close you

are to each other. Offline > Online.
 4 | Cold Approach + Social
Circle

It's never cold approach vs social circle. Rather, it's

about using both in different situations and
combining their power to maximize your results
with women and the overall quality of your life.

Cold Approach will always be a valuable life skill

when you go to a new place where you don't know
anybody and using it, you can decide which girls you
want to sleep with that night and which ones you
want to keep in your social circle and make them
your wing girls.

The details of wing girls and social circle events are

given later in this guide. Most "naturals" are just
great at social level building and life setup. You will
be able to execute that better than them.
 5 | Taking vs Giving vs Being
(VALUE)
Taking value is the lowest form. Avoid.

Giving value is the medium form. An important step.

Dan Bilzerian IS VALUE. He doesn't have to do

anything.

Context > Content.

That is because he has status and everything that

the average male wants.

Being Fucking cool vs being Fucking needy. Choose.

Keep giving value for at least 6 months before

asking for any major reciprocation. And do it with
multiple people. Plant seeds. think long term.
6 | Readymade Cold Reads to spark
interest

“I feel like you’re not from this area”

“you’re the troublemaker/good girl in this group,

aren't you”

“you have this save the world vibe about you.”

- You seem like a coconut girl

- Let me guess, McDonald's? (lmao)

- Let me guess, Tennessee?

- "You seem like the kind of girl who can be a total

party animal, but you have these moments where
you say fuck you to the world and you just want to
be left alone"
7 | The Social Invite Sequences

You need to understand that timing is very

important with invitations.

You have to bring them into a high-temperature

buying state.

Simply put, you must qualify her before you

throw in the invitation.

Ex- "Are you even old enough to drink?" (teasing)

Her- Yes blah blah

You- "What's your favorite drink?"

Her- Vodka Redbull

 You: Wait, are you doing this on purpose?

Her:...

You: That's my favorite drink. Are you trying to pick

me up? (flipping it on her)

"There's this bar that crafts the best vodka Redbull

you will ever have (lmao obviously not, but she won't
care)

Her: Where is it??

It's ______. You know what, we're going there. You

haven't experienced vodka Redbull till you try that.
But only 1, don't try to take advantage of me" (you're
making her feel safe and casual since it's only 1 drink)

Always ask her favorite drink, convey it yours too and

blame her for trying to pick you up, and only then
throw in the invite to this bar that serves the best
____(insert drink)
8 | Have different stories
prepared
Disclosure is Disarming.

To quickly build rapport and establish

commonalities, you need to have pre-determined
rapport stories.

Create 2 Rapport Stories for each (hype it up,

details can be exaggerated)

Tragic Incident-

High-Status Portraying-

Deep Connection building-

"I almost died" story-

Drug Infused Story (for the party guys girls)-

 9 | BUT I AM NEW TO THE CITY!

Conduct a social audit (refer to audit guide)

Find out what you love doing and find similar people.

Meetups.com, Facebook groups, Reddit, Instagram

DMs, Yoga Classes, Dance Classes, Boxing, Gym, MMA,
connecting with cafe staff, Cold approach, Club
game-the list is ENDLESS.

There have never been more ways to meet people

than today.

But how do you do it effectively and not come off as a

creep?

Follow the "4 Step Best friend formula below"

10 | The 4 Step Best Friend
Formula

Open

Qualifying
Questions
Build
Commonalities
Plan Future
Events
 1- The different Types of
Social Openers
Compliment Opener-
"Hey, I like your dressing sense. I'm ___, and you are?"

"Hey, I love the color of your eyes. Is that natural, or are

you wearing lenses?"

Utility Opener-
"Hey, I wanted a female opinion on something. Would
you date a guy even if she was still friends with his ex?"

Opinion Opener-
"Hey, I know this is totally random, but do you prefer
your vodka shots or vodka RedBull? (then tease her for
being lightweight no matter what she says)

Question/Cold Read Opener-

"You seem like the kind of girl I would've bullied in

middle school"
 2- Qualifying Questions

"Have you been to"

"What are your thoughts on"
A or B?

3- Build Commonalities
To build connections, you need to realize that
most friendships are built on commonalities.
You are close friends with the guy who
supports the same sports team as you do.

You are close friends with the guy who agrees

with your views on life and women, not with a
simp (I hope)
 3- Build Commonalities
The important point to realize is that these
commonalities can be very superficial:

Example:

same city/country (when in a different

city/country),
same university,
even the same " I'm a dog person"

It doesn't matter. Always be driving through for

these organically while building rapport at the same
time.

Start small on these commonalities and then dig

deeper to build rapport.

This works because people want to feel understood

and related to people. Tap on that need.
 4- Plan Future Events
Also called Future Projection, what you do here is
that you plan fun together in the near future.

This is genius because you also appear to have spent

more time together than you actually have. Once you
connect hard on one commonality, tell them how
"We're doing this thing together this weekend/ next
week."

You now also have a reason to take their contact

details. Often guys will just ask for the number
without any purpose- it appears "leechy". This
prevents that and also gives you both something to
be excited about.

The more specific the date, time, and location, the

deeper the connection with be.

Remember, you're looking to build real, genuine

connections.
11 | The PWQTCF Formula to Eliminate
Flaking (Men & Women)

Plant: Talk about this cool event coming up

on your calendar.

Wait: Don't invite her yet. Build anticipation

and safety (girls, high-status venue) and
then change the topic.

Qualify: "Are you a spontaneous and open-

minded girl, who is into * cool event type* If
she says no, tease her for being the mom of
the group.

If she says yes-

 Tell: Now you tell her about the event,
The PWQTCF Formula to Eliminate

and say "you're coming with us"

nonchalantly. High-Status people never
"ask", they simply state.
Flaking (Men & Women)

Condition: One final hoop for her to

jump and make her qualify herself =
worth of event increases in her mind.
"New people have to bring (a bottle of
wine, their best personality, something
challenging)

Follow Up: Show up on her radar via

memes, your own posts, and in-person
catching up (any of these, 1 is fine)

Key phrase: "Bring your friends" = She feels

safer with her friends there + social group
expands. win-win.
12 | The Social Triad

You

Friend Friend
A B
Make that connection
between them = more
goodwill
13 | The Hack to Increasing Social
Energy when going out.

Firstly, this is not medical advice. Check with your

doctor before taking these.

Second, you won't need to take these every time.

But whenever you want to go the whole night
partying or you want that extra boost to remove all
limits, you can try these:

- Alpha GHC: 350-700mg before going out

- Inositol (2gms)
- Ashwagandha
- Frozen Grapes
- Coffee Shot
- If you want to stay up for 24 hours, try Modafinil
(don't mix it with other drugs.)
14 | Use the "Mere Exposure
Effect" to your advantage
The more people saw the person, the more
positive meanings they associated with it.

Show up on people's radar constantly.

Ideally, once intentionally and multiple times

unintentionally / week

Intentionally- sending them messages, memes,

cool videos

Unintentionally- Posting stories of you doing cool

shit, living life, and hanging out with different
friend circles.

They will reach out and definitely be more

interested to be a part of your awesome life.
 15 | Your Most powerful weapon

When you move to a new city, you need to realize that

your most powerful weapon and the best bet will be
gaming the staff.

Always tip heavy.

When you move to a new city, explore the local bars,

pubs, restaurants alone. Right after you order, tip then
and there and small talk with them about the location,
kind of people coming here, and jokingly tell him to not
mess up when you bring a girl the next time.

You might not realize it, but the staff and workers in
the location give you massive authority and social
proof.

Imagine walking into a coffeehouse and they have you

regular already prepared and waiting for you.
 Do the same with bouncers and gatekeepers in clubs
and other locations.

The key here is to tip them when you're leaving,

instead of when you arrive.

Why? Because 99% of people tip them before in an

effort to get entry sooner. It seems extremely fake and
destroys any chance of real rapport or relationship
building.

Instead, tip when you leave and do some chit-chat, ask

exchange names and compliment them for doing such
a great job and thank them. This will make them
remember you and after a couple of nights of this, you
will never have to wait in line again. Imagine how wet
the girls in line will be when they see you do this.

Remember, always do the opposite of what most

people do in life.
In fact, midway when you leave the club/bar/venue
to get a pack of cigarettes or red bull, bring another
one for the bouncer, and talk to him for 5-10
minutes.

Do this a couple of times and they will love you

forever.

They will greet you, let you cut in lines, and

introduce you to other high-value people you know,
simply because you treated them like a human and
as a friend.

It's also great for the soul, and in my experiences,

every bouncer and gatekeeper I've interacted with
turned out to be pretty chill and friendly.

They're just there to earn a living, and they

desperately seek connection too.
16 | How would you behave if you had 100
women begging to fuck you?
Always. choose. Abundance.

Why is it that the men who get laid the most appear to
need it the least?

Because they genuinely could not care less about

sleeping with women.

They're not attached to the outcome because they know

that no matter what happens that evening, they have
multiple women begging for their attention.

The hack is, you can get the same results without
initially having 100 women begging to fuck you.

Simply adopt that mindset, and your actions, body

language, and tonality will automatically project that on
the people you interact with.
17 | Using Instagram the correct way:

1- Turn off all notifications. Have control over the

dopamine. Don't become its bitch.

2- Stop checking "Instagram stories" You should not

be concerned with what anybody else is doing
unless you are in touch with them and want to use it
to spark conversations.

3- Upload photos that show you living your best

lifestyle. Don't post photos for your own enjoyment.
Social media is like your social resume.

Girls whom you meet and interact with in real life

will check your social media to assure that you
aren't a creep or antisocial loser.
 You must have at least 3 photos with women in
them, preferably leaning into you, with you in the
middle.

If you are at parties, film it and put it on your

Instagram stories & post it. Women will be drawn
into your lifestyle, they will want to be a part of the
fun. This will feel "fake" at first but you have to play
this game. It will help you in the long run.

Understand that for most women Instagram is

more real than real life itself.

Instagram helps you to broadcast your amazing

high-status life to an infinite number of people.

Shamelessly copy what the other high-status guys

in your environment are doing- the kind of
captions, the locations they go to, the kind of
pictures and stories they post, etc.
If you want to find out about these guys and girls,
search for posts by location.

Simply put a famous club or bar and you will find all
the posts that have tagged them. You will also find
hot girls whom you can choose to connect with.

Value Trade
when you have a resource that you can give to
somebody who needs it, in exchange for a
resource you need.

Start thinking of everything as a resource- money,

girls, skills, connections, locations you live in, etc.
Can you connect them to somebody they should
meet?

Do you have access to a good location to allow

photographers to shoot models? What can they
give to you in return?
 Weekly High Status Events:

Key technique. It's a group date/ event where you

bring your whole social circle to.

It can be brunch, a themed house party, weekly

drinks, etc. These are high ROI Activities were
done properly. There will be some new girls every
week (brought by your wing girl and other guys)
and they will chase you because you have high
status in your social; you are the connector.

Pro Tip- always bring women with you wherever

you go. These could be your friends, it doesn't
matter, because the goal is to give yourself
massive preselection through them, which will
make you the center of attraction and you won't
even have to game the other girls as hard.
18 | Always play the long game
Don't fuck people over for a quick buck. Similarly,
don't manipulate (negatively) women for a quick
fuck. It comes back eventually. Be unapologetic
in your beliefs and actually connect with people
whom you find interesting and of value to you.

As @Naval says, the secret to winning is to play

long-term games with long-term people.

Build real bonds with men with women. Keep

doing favors for them whenever you can and build
up the social capital. Do cool shit together and
enjoy life.

Don't do the stupid PUA stuff of forcing the sex

on her and faking shit. Hookups are fine but
maintain your class. Worst case, you can hook up
and then friend zone and make her your wing girl.
She will also give you massive preselection.
 19 | Club Game Summarized

Befriend the staff, but don't use them to game women.

You need to enter the circles from the top. Always
identify the key people in the environment- the high-
status guys, promoters, and leaders of social circles.

Women are the currency inside clubs. If you can get

these promoters and other high-status guys access to
women (your friends or game women for them) then
they will forever be your friend.

Get them laid before you do. Don't go to their table and
start gaming the girls for yourself or you will make a
sure enemy. Instead, make the other person look good
and tell preselection stories about how "all the girls get
attached to him, you probably can't handle him"

Remember, your goal is to build a status advantage and

real connection that lasts outside the club as well.
20| Model the correct Personalities

You can learn so much about the social game

from the correct movie characters.

Think about Hank Moody from "Californication"

& the whole "Entourage" crew. (The two shows
every man should watch) Swingers (1996) is
good too.

One of my personal favorites is Ari Gold. His

DGAF personality is something we all can learn
tons from.

You can also connect with people over these

shows. 90% of badass men have seen these
two shows in their teens/the 20s so there is a
lot to reminisce over.
21 | How do I want to leave this
group feeling?

This is a key mindset.

You need to think & ask yourself:

the guy that can grant you the access: what

does he want?

What does he need?

What is the smallest footprint possible?

How do I give value and keep building the

social deposit account?
22 | How to become Unrejectable

What happens in normal interactions?

The girl has all the power because it's only her in
your purview. She knows that her actions will
determine whether she "allows" you to fuck her,
or if she "rejects you"

But if you're in a social circle and invite 5-6 girls,

then you are literally the prize. All girls will
compete over you.

The actions of one girl will not impact you in any

way. It's totally irrelevant for you.

1-to-1 dates ( = weakness)

vs.
1-to-many dates (= strength)
The more girls there are, the less of an impact the
behavior of any single girl can have
on you.

For example, on a normal date, the girl knows that

whatever she decides to do is going
to determine how the rest of your night goes.

If she decides to sleep with you, she's "made your

night" (according to socially
conditioned thinking).

If she decides to leave, she's "rejected" you.

But if you're out with five or six different girls or
more, then what any one girl does or
does not do is completely irrelevant to you.

Congrats, you are now un-rejectable.

23 | The Donald Trump Trick

Donald Trump plants a seed inside the other person's

brain.

When he first meets somebody, and he knows that they

did a good job, he greets them and says something like

"and by the way, you did a great job on that article. I really
enjoyed it".

In fact, he knows that the best time to point this out

would be in public.

In interviews when he is asked about a person who

wrote good things about him, he said

"oh yes, and by the way, she did a fantastic job on that
article. Very thorough and well detailed."
 Imagine if that happened to you.

You would obviously keep writing positive things

about Donald Trump and do favors for him.

What the person rationalizes is that-

I write good things about trump = I feel more

validated and appreciated.

and thus this cycle gets repeated.

Such is the power of selective praises.

This is how he has managed to have a huge loyal

following of people who still love him and are
literally willing to go to jail for him.
24 | The WIIFM Radio
always tune in to people's WIIFM- "What's in it for
me?" Radio.

Understand that people help each other (happily,

that is) only when there is something in it for them.

Attention is the most valuable currency there is.

the more attention you can capture, the more

value you will have.

Always begin your sentences with the purpose of

what you are about to say, and WHY the other
person should spend their valuable time listening to
you.

"I'm going to share a story, and Here's why I want

you to listen carefully to it..."
25 | Give Praise followed by Mild
Criticism
Everyone loves to be praised and appreciated. Hell, they
do a much better job when praised than if not.

However, this certain element of "complacency" kicks

into people when they are overly praised.

The Solution?

praise people, because well, it makes them feel good

and associate you with good emotions, BUT ALSO add in
an extra statement that mildly criticizes the person.

This also won't be enough to build resentment, but in

fact, it with motivate the other person to work harder
for your full approval.

"You look great tonight. Your dress is incredible. The

shoes, however, it almost feels like they're wearing you"
26 | Third Person Framing and Priming
always prime people when you first meet them.

For example, this is 1st person framing- "You're really

social and outgoing. I mean many people are shy and
introverted but you're the kinda guy that loves meeting
people"

Here's what 3rd person framing would be like-

" I HEARD from this guy/girl ( preferably his/her friend or

someone he/she admires) that you're a great speaker and
the kinda person who really knows how to get the
audience going and setting the stage for me.

Extremely Powerful to prime people to do good for you.

You prime them to do exactly what you want them to do

while making them happy to do it because they have to
live up to that reputation.
27 | Create a Competition Dynamic

Once you get her number using the other guides in this
course, text all the girls saying you and your buddies are
going out.

It could be a club, bar, house party, whatever. Keep it

socially acceptable since these are the girls you haven't
made a huge connection with.

Don't send the same text to all the girls. Customize each
text by referring
to a private joke or moment between you and the
individual girl, or tease her.
This will greatly improve your response rate.

ALWAYS, ALWAYS ADD- "Bring your friends!"

The exclamation is to convey a joyful state, not

excitement. Be nonchalant about it.
 This way, you are going to be the common link
between the guys and girls, and have the social
power in this dynamic.

WOMEN COMPETE FOR THE SOCIAL CONNECTOR.

You are the only person everybody knows. Hence,

everybody is going to flock to you to avoid
awkwardness and have fun.

So what you'll find is that as everyone gets to know

each other… as people's boundaries and inhibitions
are loosened by having a few drinks… the girls are
going to start competing for you

Choose and game the hottest girl.

When they meet a guy well connected, they
instantly get attracted to him because they
know that

sleeping with him = getting access to his

social resources and climbing up the social
ladder

HENCE, girls will naturally begin to compete

with the other girls there for your attention.

They will lean in, pull you to the bar, bring you
drinks, and often blatantly put her hand on
your dick because she's already warmed up
and ready to get fucked by you- the social
GOD.
28 | Shift the Spotlight & Always be
having Fun
In many ways, the currency of the social scene is
FUN.

Most people are bored of their life. They want a

fucking escape.

Fun is extremely infectious and is an easy way to

building rapport with anybody.

Most people also want to be seen and heard. You

give them the chance by "cueing" in for them by
talking about a topic they're great at, "so yeah, max
is great at it, can you tell us about it max?"

You can be crazy, weird, and dangerous…but if you

are the most fun option she’s going to have, she will
do anything for you.
 29 | FINAL EXERCISE
Now that you know ALL the Social Hacks required
to Master the social scene, I want you to do the
following exercise on a piece of paper.

Close your eyes and think about how your Social

Life will look 90 Days from now.

All the girls, the partying, the high-status male

friends, the experiences you will have, all the girls
you will sleep with. Your house parties, all the
opportunities you will DOMINATE with your friends,
how fulfilling your life will be...

Visualize it in as vivid detail as possible.

And now, write it down on a piece of paper, sign it,

and look at it every fucking day to motivate and
push you.
 EXTRA NOTES:
Always go first and create a culture of introductions,
especially with women. She will feel the need to
reciprocate and will introduce you to girls.

Tip- Add a "Wildcard week" in your social circle where

everybody brings a new person.

Always make women earn their drink.

Important to pick a morning venue where you go

consistently, build rapport with hired guns (staff) and
build social proof there.

get the smaller apartment in the best part of town, not

a great house in the suburbs; this will help with
logistics.

Show them you are good with women, and they will
welcome you everywhere. Women are like currency in
the social scene.
 EXTRA NOTES:
Be generous. Like a King, keep gifting people
favors and creating win-win situations for
everybody.

Reward and praise people when they do something

good, instead of criticizing them when they fuck
up.

Tell the other person how you know how hard it

must have been for them to do what they did.
Congratulate them for every small
accomplishment they do.

Don't be needy and don't act like a fanboy. Say it in

a non-needy detached way and don't seek for a
"thank you" or their validation
 FINAL THOUGHTS
LEAD YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OWN WAY, INCREASING YOUR
VALUE EVERY DAY, NETWORKS, HEALTH, BUSINESS,
DOMINATE EVERYTHING.

Open, small talk, find commonality, leave, then come back

again later (uses mere exposure effect and avoids
appearing needy)

When you come back later, hit hard on commonalities, build

future projection (event) and you're set.

Build rapport, break rapport, qualify, escalate, either

friendzone or close.

This is just the fucking beginning of your journey, and I'm so

excited for you, brother.

If you have issues related to game, dating, relationships,

and life, DM me on Twitter and I'll be glad to help you out.

-MR