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This article provides a response to a previous article about treating a schizoid client. The response focuses on schizoid defenses of compromise and withdrawal that individuals use to manage relationships and attachments. Various theories on developmental processes and mind structure are discussed. The spectrum of schizoid presentations is examined, from severe withdrawal to seeking some attachment. Therapeutic considerations for responding to schizoid compromise and withdrawal are also explored.

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Engaging With the Schizoid Compromise: A Response to

Erskine’s “Relational Withdrawal, Attunement to Silence:


Psychotherapy of the Schizoid Process”

Ray Little 1
Abstract

This article presents a response to the paper “Relational Withdrawal, Attunement


to Silence: Psychotherapy of the Schizoid Process” by Richard Erskine in which
he described his treatment of a client who made use of schizoid processes and
defenses to manage her experience. The current author responds by focusing on
the self-protective defenses of schizoid compromise and withdrawal that
individuals with a schizoid presentation employ. Their struggle with attachments
is also examined, and various theoretical perspectives on developmental
processes and the structure of the mind are discussed. The spectrum of schizoid
processes is examined from the more extreme introverted schizoid personalities
who exhibit severe withdrawn presentations to those who seek some form of
attachment. The nature of the internal world and the difficulty of managing
relationships is explored. Therapeutic action in response to the schizoid
compromise and withdrawn individual is considered. The article includes a
number of clinical descriptions and concludes by exploring the processes
involved when the therapist themselves occupies a schizoid compromise
position.

Keywords: Schizoid personalities, schizoid dilemma, schizoid compromise,


withdrawal, relationships, transference-countertransference, therapeutic action

Richard Erskine (2020) recently invited me to respond to an article he has written


about his treatment of a schizoid client. We were both on a panel 20 years ago at
a transactional analysis conference in San Francisco, the theme of which was
schizoid processes. The conference papers were published as a theme issue of
the Transactional Analysis Journal (Daellenbach, 2001). It seems timely now to

1Enderby Psychotherapy & Counselling Associates, Edinburgh, Scotland, UK; e-mail:


[email protected]

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revisit some of those ideas, having worked extensively with them in the interim,
and to share some current thoughts about schizoid processes.

In Erskine’s (2020) paper, entitled “Relational Withdrawal, Attunement to


Silence: Psychotherapy of the Schizoid Process,” he presented the case of Violet
and described how that work taught him the significance of relational withdrawal
and the importance of attunement in psychotherapy. Erskine’s article provoked
me to focus particularly on the notions of the schizoid compromise, withdrawal,
and treatment considerations. The schizoid’s behavior is marked by withdrawal
and inability to form close relationships: “There is a consuming need for object
dependence but attachment threatens the schizoid with the loss of self” (Seinfeld,
1991, p. 3). The person protects themself by withdrawing from social contact.

In my article “Schizoid Processes: Working with the Defenses of the Withdrawn


Child Ego State” (Little, 2001), I examined several theoretical descriptions of
schizoid processes. I pointed out how the term schizoid has been used to
describe both a personality structure and psychological processes. Melanie Klein
(1946/1975) employed the term both to refer to a splitting mechanism and to
describe a developmental position. In discussing the splitting of the self, she
highlighted how the other is experienced as a persecutor. Fairbairn (1952)
described three prominent characteristics of schizoid personalities: an attitude of
omnipotence, detachment, and a preoccupation with fantasy and inner reality. He
later described an intrapsychic structure that consisted of the splitting of the ego
and repression as a defense. He pointed out that schizoid personalities may
appear to fulfill a social role with others with what seems to be appropriate
emotion and contact while actually remaining detached.

Before continuing here, I want to let readers know that I, as a White British
male, will be drawing on my clinical experience to highlight some of the theory.
The clients and supervisees’ clients described here are largely White European
and North American. I acknowledge this because we need to ask ourselves
whether the theory is applicable across all races, ethnicities, and cultures given
that there is little research into these aspects of personality disorders. However,
some papers relevant to these issues have been published in the last decade,
including Hossain et al. (2018), McGilloway et al. (2010), and Newhill et al.
(2009).

Developmental Theory

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A variety of theoretical models can be drawn on to elucidate the developmental
history involved in schizoid processes and personalities (Fairbairn, 1952; Guntrip,
1968; Kernberg, 1984; M. Klein, 1946/1975; R. Klein, 1995; McWilliams, 1994).
Some of them refer to schizoid mechanisms, whereas others refer to schizoid
personality disorders. One perspective on understanding the etiology of schizoid
phenomena is to consider how the individual negotiated relationships as an
infant/child and then internalized those experiences. Ego state relational units
(Little, 2006) and object relations (Fairbairn, 1952; Guntrip, 1968) both describe
how relational experiences, and the child’s perception of them, become
organized and internalized as relational schemas (Little, 2013; Žvelc, 2010).

On examining these schemas, we can distinguish between tolerable


experiences that were integrated and intolerable ones that remain unintegrated.
Tolerable nondefensive experiences are an aspect of the integrating Adult ego
state and represent autonomous, here-and-now functioning from an open system
(Little, 2006, 2011) with the capacity for assimilation and accommodation (Piaget,
1952; Žvelc, 2010). Intolerable experiences remain as a dissociated structure
consisting of defensive or maladaptive schemas (Eagle, 2011; Žvelc, 2010). I
describe these schemas as Child-Parent ego state relational units (Little, 2006),
which are located in unconscious, implicit memory. These relational units make
up the internal structure of the schizoid individual. (For a full discussion of the
theory of relational schemas, see Eagle, 2011; Little, 2006, 2011; Piaget, 1952;
Žvelc, 2010).

The basic need for attachment and object relatedness and the desire to
“discover one’s reflection in the look of the other” (Seinfeld, 1991, p. 33) exists in
the schizoid personality, as it does in everyone. It is intrinsic to who we are as a
species. When we think of the adult person who presents with a schizoid
characterological structure, we may wonder what the nature of the person’s early
experiences were, particularly with their primary caregivers, that led them to feel
such hopelessness and fear in relation to being with others. Those early
experiences led them to feel a tension between attaching and not attaching (or
nonattachment). For Ralph Klein (1995), the question revolved around “what kind
of deal does the schizoid negotiate in order to gain the benefits of attachment
while avoiding the anxieties and dangers of nonattachment?” (p. 45).

R. Klein (1995, p. 51) described two positions—nonattachment and


attachment—that the schizoid individual may occupy. The first consists of the
schizoid’s self-sufficiency and self-reliance. The second consists of being close
and involved with another but runs the risk of being let down, rejected, or

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abandoned. As one client said to me, “Relying on people is seen as a bad idea
as they will eventually let you down.”

Guntrip (1968) and R. Klein (1995) agreed on the nature of the schizoid
condition. They disagreed, however, as to the point during development at which
the condition originates. Guntrip, following Fairbairn (1952), suggested that in
response to the traumas of postnatal life, we develop a split structure that he
described as the schizoid position. This refers to the primary structuring of the
personality. If the schizoid position develops to an extreme extent (Gomez, 1997,
p. 66), it may become the schizoid personality. For R. Klein (1995, pp. 40–41),
the condition occurs during the rapprochement phase of development. He stated
that schizoid personalities are aware of the two sides of their dilemma, thus
indicating a certain degree of psychological separateness. They are also aware
of the difference between external reality and their internal world, which, as R.
Klein stated, reflects difficulties emanating from the rapprochement stage (Mahler
et al., 1971/1975). However, my experience is that more severely withdrawn and
introverted schizoid personalities do not seem to experience the two sides of the
dilemma as R. Klein described it. They seem to only occupy the nonattachment
side. It is as though they have relinquished any desire for attachment. In this way,
R. Klein’s notion that the schizoid develops at the rapprochement phase does not
account for my clinical experience of working with schizoid personalities with
whom there seems to be evidence of earlier trauma and relationship failings.

I agree with Kernberg and his colleagues, who suggested that schizoid
personalities, like other personality disorders (Clarkin et al., 2006), rely on more
primitive defense mechanisms (e.g., projective identification), which suggests an
early developmental struggle/failure. In light of this, it may be that R. Klein was
describing more integrated personalities.

Structure of the Mind

Many of my schizoid clients have felt safest when they are at home, with solid
walls around them for protection. As children they would frequently withdraw to
their bedrooms, or somewhere similar, to feel safe, often playing on their own.
For example, Nicola worked as a doctor and was proud of her care for her
patients. This care was something that she did not receive from her parents when
she was a child. Her mother was cruel, violent, and unpredictable. As an adult,
Nicola was phobic about socializing with people. She also located the cruel
object of her childhood in animals and was fearful of them. She hated dogs and
would not go near them, particularly if they were not on a leash. She viewed them
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as unpredictable and vicious. As a result, she would not go into her local park
unless she was accompanied by her husband. Nicola’s withdrawn state of being
in exile was linked to her experience of a cruel and unpredictable mother. My
countertransference picture of Nicola’s childhood was of her in a cot terrified of
the world around her as represented by her mother.

Marye O’Reilly-Knapp (2001), who was also on the 2000 panel in San
Francisco with me and Richard Erskine, described the schizoid individual as an
encapsulated self “hidden from the world and even from himself or herself” (p.
44). She saw the schizoid’s withdrawal as an “autistic encapsulation [that is] the
psyche’s most primitive form of organization and the earliest form of withdrawal”
(p. 46).

If the person’s experience as a child and the idea of closeness to others as an


adult does not involve the internalization of a caring relationship, and instead is
experienced as some kind of “master-slave” relationship ®. Klein, 1995), this
often results in an internalization of a bad object relationship as described by
Fairbairn (1952). He saw the good object internalized as memory, whereas the
bad object relationship is internalized in a much more vital and fundamental
sense than memory alone (as cited in Guntrip, 1968, pp. 21–22). Perhaps what
Fairbairn was referring to was that a good object is experienced as benign,
whereas a bad object is experienced more intensely and as profoundly charged
with affect and frustrated needs.

R. Klein (1995) used the term schizoid from the perspective of Masterson
(1988) to describe a further disorder of the self (in addition to borderline and
narcissistic personality disorders). In taking an object relations view, Klein saw
the schizoid as either in a self-object relational unit as a slave attached to a
master or as a self-in-exile fearful of a sadistic object. This view of the person’s
internal world represents a split structure.

Some schizoid personalities may perceive the master/slave unit as more


acceptable than being in exile and therefore attach to others at a cost to
themselves; other schizoid personalities may prefer withdrawal and fantasies to
that of being closer, which is felt as more threatening. For the withdrawn schizoid,
fantasy serves to maintain some sort of link to the world of relationships when
actual people and reality are intolerable. Fantasy can be fulfilled by novels, films,
pornography, and gaming, all of which can stimulate fantasy relationships
(Manfield, 1992).

As children, such individuals may live, through fantasy, in the world of the
stories they read and may imagine themselves playing a part in the adventures of
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the characters. They come to inhabit their fantasies. This is a more extreme
version of what most children do and serves the function, as previously
mentioned, of maintaining some link to the world of relationships. The fear of
being in exile, with its experience of isolation and nothingness, may be avoided
by maintaining a “tie to the bad object” (Seinfeld, 1993, p. 65). Fairbairn (1952)
described these ties as “the libidinal bonds whereby the patient is attached to
these hitherto indispensable bad objects” (p. 74). Further, Grotstein(1994)
depicted this as “the unwavering loyalty that schizoids maintain towards their
objects” (p. 116). The schizoid personality’s connection to the external world is
usually superficial. They have withdrawn from the outer world and are living in an
internal world of fantasy. However, by maintaining a relationship with the bad
object, schizoid individuals keep in touch with the world, protecting themselves
against a flight from reality and decent into nothingness. Guntrip (1994)
suggested that the individual preserves the ego by “taking refuge in internal bad-
object phantasies of a persecutory or accusatory kind” (p. 164).

Considering all of this, R. Klein’s (1995) description of the withdrawn position as


nonattachment may not be strictly true. Withdrawal from the world of potential
real-life attachments to an internal world may be a retreat to a position where
attachments of a sort are maintained. The internal world of bad object relations
consists of attachments, albeit to a bad object. This internal world is a world of
attachments in a similar way that external relations constitute attachments. To
live in this internal world is to occupy a world of relationships rather than an
objectless/relationshipless world.

I am suggesting that the nonattachment position R. Klein described can also be


seen as consisting of no external relationships but instead a retreat to an internal
phantasy world of attachments that, to some extent, can be controlled.

Case Study: A Beautiful Mind

This process of internal attachments was brought home to me dramatically by the


film A Beautiful Mind (Howard, 2001), in which Russell Crowe plays the part of
Nobel Prize winner and mathematician John Nash. I will use this film and the
biography it is based on to illustrate the schizoid withdrawn state and the internal
world with its relational schemas and its defenses against objectlessness and the
black hole of nothingness.

In the film, Nash initially comes across as withdrawn and obsessed with
patterns and numbers. He is seen as strange by his fellow doctoral students,

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from whom he is socially isolated. They describe him as aloof, without affect,
detached, and isolated. “He’s not one of us,” one of them was reported to have
said (Nasar, 1998, p. 13). In the film, Nash has an exuberant roommate, Charles,
who appears to be everything Nash is not. Charles is heard to suggest that they
get a pizza: “You know, food!” Charles appears outgoing and interested in
alcohol and women. At one point, Charles asks Nash about friends. Nash replies,
“I don’t much like people, and they don’t much like me.” Nash fights with Charles
in his room, pushing a table to and fro, which Charles pushes out of the window.
In another scene, Nash is sitting on the roof of the building chatting to Charles
and shouting at students below. There is a point later in the film when Nash is
helping the military solve a code-breaking problem and catches sight of someone
watching him from the balcony. He calls that person “Big Brother.” The person
later identifies himself as William and behaves with authority, telling Nash he will
arrange for Nash to have top secret clearance to continue the work. Later in the
film, when Nash tells William he needs to resign because his wife is pregnant,
William responds by saying, “I told you attachments are dangerous.”

What eventually becomes apparent is that Charles and William are visual and
auditory hallucinations and part of Nash’s internal world of attachments. Some of
them are punitive and some more amiable. One of the things the film
demonstrates is that Nash’s life appears as an illusion with occasional excursions
into reality. There seems to be a tension for Nash between rational and irrational
thinking. Later in life, he considered that his “dream-like delusional hypotheses”
(Nash, 1994, para. 27) had been irrational. He went on to say that “one aspect of
this is that rationality of thought imposes a limit on a person’s concept of his
relation to the cosmos” (para 29).

Nash, age 31years, having worked for 10 years as a brilliant theoretical


mathematician, is diagnosed as suffering from paranoid schizophrenia after
having a breakdown. Charles turns up again in the film, greeting Nash with a hug.
Charles is accompanied by his niece, who expresses feelings with Nash,
something he does not seem to experience a great deal. She seems to be the
repository of Nash’s unexpressed affect. As Nash later moves into remission, he
realizes that, although he continues to see her over many years, she does not
age. These characters are externalizations of Nash’s internal world, his world of
attachments and containers for his disavowed affect, attachments that, I suggest,
are preferable to the black hole of nothingness. Nash’s internal world is also a
world of patterns and numbers, which is where he seems to feel safe and at
home.

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When Nash was a child, his parents were worried about him. He had a lack of
childish pursuits and friends (Nasar 1998, p. 32). According to his sister, he
wanted to do things his own way. Other children thought him weird and bullied or
just tolerated him (p. 36). It seems that he learned to “armor himself against
rejection by adopting a hard shell of indifference and using his superior
intelligence to strike back” (pp. 37–38). Nash used his superiority,
standoffishness, and occasional cruelty to manage his loneliness, thus
maintaining his self-esteem (p. 38).

Nasar, in her biography of Nash, described some of those schizoid


personalities who are brilliant scientists and thinkers from whom society benefits
but who are strange and solitary, such Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Immanuel
Kant, Ludwig Wittgenstein, and René Descartes. She draws on the writing of
Anthony Storr, a British psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, who wrote that the
schizoid state is characterized by a sense of meaninglessness and futility.
Creative activity is a particularly apt way to express himself … the activity is
solitary … (but) the ability to create and the productions which result from such
ability are generally regarded as possessing value by our society. (Nasar, 1998,
pp. 15–16).

The Schizoid’s Experience

Schizoid personalities function at a borderline level of personality organization


(Kernberg, 1984), a position between neurotic and psychotic. This level of
functioning suggests that they have not managed to individuate and integrate
sufficiently. These individuals often suffer as a result of poor interpersonal ego
boundaries. Kernberg saw the schizoid personality disorder, with other
personality disorders in this category, as having a poorly integrated sense of self
and subsequent confusion about personal identity. These individuals have a
predominance of and reliance on primary defenses (McWilliams, 1994), primitive
object relations (Kernberg, 1984), and early persecutory anxieties associated
with the paranoid-schizoid position (M. Klein, 1946/1975).

On entering therapy, an individual with a schizoid presentation will probably feel


anxious as a result of projecting either a sadistic object or the master-object
representation onto the therapist. Alternatively, through projective identification,
the person may locate the self in the therapist and inhabit the object aspect of the
relational units.

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The various theories just discussed and my description of schizoid processes
and personalities emerge from clinical experience. What is being discussed here
are those individuals who present for therapy with these characteristics and who
are struggling in some way. Usually, they are seeking more contact and
closeness but are fearful at the same time. There are also many people who
could be described as having a schizoid personality who do not experience any
tension and are content with their lives.

I think of the schizoid personality structure as having developed as a defense


and as a means of managing early experiences of trauma or developmental
deficit and rupture. I see their internal world as consisting of a split structure that
has come about as a result of failures in bonding and attachment. The infant
retreats inwardly, maintaining a more superficial relationship with attachment
figures.

Seinfeld (1996, p. 78), citing R. D. Laing, wrote that in human development


there is a polarity between separateness and relatedness, both of which
represent profound human needs. The person with a schizoid personality
experiences this process in a more extreme way. They are usually highly
anxious, with the fear of closeness being experienced as a fear of dependency or
a fear of merging with a subsequent loss of a sense of self. Separation may be
experienced as isolation or being in exile. Both positions are experienced as
frightening. Thus, nowhere feels safe for the schizoid individual. This is in
contrast to the narcissist, who feels safe when merged with an idealized object,
or the borderline, who feels safe when clinging and merging with a rewarding
object.

Withdrawal: Home Base

Everything Starts and Ends at Home

Any description of a schizoid presentation will include the characteristics of


withdrawal, self-sufficiency, detachment, aloofness, and lack of affect.
Withdrawal is often the home position of the schizoid individual. R. Klein (1995)
described this as a nonattachment position and McWilliams (1994, p. 100) as a
primitive defense. It is where schizoid personalities seem to spend most of their
time and also how people often think of them.

Withdrawal into a different state of consciousness is an automatic, self-


protective behavior that can be observed in infants. The same can be seen in

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adults who may retreat from others to their internal world of fantasy. Some
infants’ temperament may lead them be more inclined to withdraw, and there is
some suggestion that they may be particularly sensitive (McWilliams, 1994, p.
100).

For example, I often see a certain man who lives in our locality walking around
the streets. He wears the same clothes most of the year, and his unkempt beard
gives him a medieval appearance. I have never seen him with anyone. We nod at
each other as we pass, occasionally exchanging a polite greeting. I make a point
of saying hello, but nothing more is said. He walks on, not really looking at
people. He buys his lunch at a local shop and then eats it sitting on a park bench.
He does not appear to work. My fantasy is this is the sum of his life, that this is
how he spends his time. I cannot imagine that he has ever had a relationship in
his adult life.

The appearance I am describing might be thought of as a more extreme


withdrawn schizoid presentation. I doubt that he and others like him would seek
out therapy. He may not even be uncomfortable with the way he is. His position
may be a result of how he negotiated early-life experiences and his relationship
with his caretakers (R. Klein, 1995). His is a severe, introverted schizoid
presentation, functioning in isolation, living in the citadel of his mind, perhaps
living in imagination rather than in the external world with its possibility of
relationships. The dread of relationships with the possibility of being smothered,
suffocated, possessed, imprisoned, or absorbed (Guntrip, 1994, p. 166) feels
claustrophobic. This extreme schizoid withdrawal was described by Guntrip
(1968) as follows:

Womb fantasies and/or the passive wish to die represent the extreme
schizoid reaction, the ultimate regression, and it is the more common, mild
characteristics which show the extraordinary prevalence of schizoid, i.e.
detached or withdrawn, states of mind. (p. 58)

In considering these disorders, the description and behavioral elements need to


be combined with a phenomenological and intrapsychic analysis in order to fully
understand and possibly diagnose a schizoid personality disorder.

Returning to Erskine’s (2020) work with Violet, he initially focused on her


withdrawal behavior, commonly exhibited by schizoid personalities. She was, for
him, confusing and, at times, difficult. He described how in his work with her, he
learned about relational withdrawal and the significance of attunement,
particularly to silence, in psychotherapy (p. 14). Violet’s internal world emerged
early in her meetings with Erskine when she described how “her husband
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alternated between ignoring her and controlling her” (p. 15). This also echoed her
relationship with her mother. Her comments about her husband were probably a
transference projection of that internal world as well as the reality of her
experience with her husband. That was a point at which her internal and external
worlds came together. Her experience of her husband became a hook on which
she could hang her projections and probably represented the object from which
Violet withdrew.

In my 2001 article, I wrote about Sebastian, who usually started a session by


saying something placatory that we could talk about but that did not reveal his
vulnerability. Sessions seemed to be isolated experiences for him, without
continuity. He often seemed to have forgotten the previous session, having wiped
it out:

Sebastian often withdraws and seems to be watching me. It is as if he is on


the inside of his head looking out of his eyes watching my every move. He
has described having retreated into a castle, staying in the dungeon where he
feels safe. He leaves a guard on duty. The drawbridge is down but can be
raised at any time. If I see an expression of emotion on his face and respond,
he is moved at having been seen but feels he cannot call out. He feels it
would be dangerous and frightening to do so. Sebastian has retreated from
the world and is detached from interpersonal relations. He has numbed his
emotional responses to people and events. (Little, 2001, p. 35)

More extreme introverted schizoid personalities occupy what R. Klein (1995)


described as “the safe place or haven, the impenetrable fortress, and the point of
no return” (p. 55). The citadel is a womb-like state free from demands or attacks,
with no need to adapt (Little, 2001, p. 38). The person is unlikely to experience
any ambivalence about relationships. On the other hand, those schizoids with
milder characteristics are more likely to want relationships with others. Perhaps
there is a continuum for those with schizoid personality: at one end, more
integrated individuals and, at the other, more severe presentations.

When thinking about schizoid individuals’ ambivalence about attachment—


craving closeness yet fearing engulfment, seeking distance but complaining of
loneliness (McWilliams, 1994, p. 193)—I distinguish between these two aspects
of ambivalence and the kind where withdrawal is more profound and individuals
retreat into fantasy and their internal world. I refer to the latter as an “introverted
regressed schizoid” (Guntrip, 1968, p. 42), someone who does without
relationships.

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Maintaining Withdrawal: Attacks on the Link

Withdrawal is both a behavioral process and a psychological strategy of


retreating into fantasy and imagination and detaching from external reality and
relationships. This entails withdrawing into an internal closed system to escape
the dangers of engaging with the external world. Over time, a schizoid client may
establish a psychological and emotional link with a therapist, one that may be
experienced as a threat or as dangerous. As a result, the person’s internal bad
object relationship may attack the links to the therapist because the clinician
represents a threatening external reality. This defensive process reinforces the
client’s isolation. The closed psychic system, with its bad object, impedes the
relational-seeking aspect of the personality. This is akin to Fairbairn’s notion of
the client remaining loyal to the bad object.

For his part, Bion (1967) described how the psychotic mind attacks the
perceptual apparatus that links it to the object. I have experienced less severe
attacks on the link between myself and a client as part of a schizoid defensive
stance. For example, Justine, on leaving a session, would sometimes say things
to herself such as, “Did you see how he took your money at the end of the
session? He’s so greedy. All he wants is your money. You’re just a cash cow for
him. You shouldn’t trust him.” This was an attack on her emerging link with me.
This demonstrates how the desire to attach and connect may be prevented by
the antirelational unit attacking the link between the client and the therapist as the
needed object/other by devaluing and belittling the therapist. This kind of
postsession attack usually occurred when Justine had shifted in her position,
taken a risk, and revealed more of herself to me. The attack was typical of the
nonattachment, antirelational side of her personality and her attitude of not
relying on others. The internal attacks would often leave her isolated and alone
between sessions. At such times, she had destroyed the cocreated new
relational unit.

After such self-talk, when Justine arrived at her next session, she was often
wary of and less likely to trust me. I watched for this behavior and experienced it
as “one step forward, two steps back.” The antirelational self will attack the
relational-seeking self’s links to its attachment objects/others. These rejecting
behaviors often echo the original caregiver’s response toward the person’s
infantile dependency needs (Seinfeld, 1991, p. 73).

Enforced Withdrawal During Lockdown

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Writing this article in May 2020 during the lockdown resulting from the COVID-19
pandemic highlights and affects my experience and understanding of these
processes. When I venture out to the supermarket, I experience an increase in
anxiety. I walk down the road wary of an unseen threat. Another person becomes
a threatening enemy who may be carrying a deadly disease. Going around the
supermarket picking up groceries I notice how watchful and anxious I am as
other shoppers come close to me. There is an induced paranoia. It is not until I
return home that I begin to relax.

I can imagine that this is not dissimilar to what less anxious schizoid
personalities experience much of the time when they are out among people,
anticipating an attack and withdrawing to protect themselves from danger. For
some, the experience is even more extreme, and it is appropriate to talk of terrors
and horrors and fear of mutilation: a world occupied by monsters. The difference
for me during the pandemic is that my withdrawal is not something I chose but
something that was imposed on me and is not my preference. Yet the danger is
real. Needing to withdraw and isolate from face-to-face contact with clients,
colleagues, and friends when personal contact involves the risk of catching a life-
threatening virus has given me a perverted sort of empathy for the schizoid
personality!

Listening to clients and talking to supervisees these days, I realized that being
in lockdown suits some people more than others, depending on their
characterological structures. Another lockdown experience that spoke to the
defense of withdrawal was something I noticed while working with clients
remotely. Because of the isolation that I experienced, and the lack of contact with
colleagues and friends, I had a growing desire to be friendlier with clients than I
would be normally. I felt the impulse to reveal more personal circumstances and
experiences that had nothing directly to do with the therapy. I would end the
session by saying, “I’ll see you next week,” which is something I would not
ordinarily say. What I understood was that my need for attachment, connection,
and contact was emerging as a desire to self-disclose as a result of my
disconnection from friends and colleagues. It was also triggered by the abrupt
end to the session. The process highlighted for me that, in a nonattached state—
in this case imposed by circumstances—the need to connect was emerging and
fighting to be met. I was thereby running the risk of a boundary crossing (Little,
2020) and a loss of my therapeutic frame.

Countertransference Reactions

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Returning to Erskine (2020), he wondered whether he had been caught in a
countertransference reaction with Violet through the methods he was using to
treat her, which he appropriately discussed in supervision. The supervisor
reiterated what Erskine had already been doing and did not address his lack of
attunement to Violet, including during her long silences. Erskine began
wondering what was missing in the therapeutic relationship (p. 16) and stated
that he “felt inadequate” (p. 17).

One aspect of Erskine’s countertransference was that he wanted something to


happen in the therapy, so he focused on expressive methods, cognitive
understanding, and behavior change. In my own work, sometimes my
countertransference reaction to a schizoid client who has withdrawn has been
that I want to “shake them up” and have them engage more with me. I can find it
difficult to stay involved with someone who lacks affect and is self-sufficient and
self-reliant. As therapists, with such individuals we can often feel useless or
superfluous. Other therapists have described the experience of frustration or
even abandonment in the face of the client’s lack of lively emotional engagement
in the work. On the other hand, I have clients for whom my aliveness can be
threatening as if it were a prelude to danger, a sign that I will become an intrusive
or dangerous other. One of the things that helps me stay engaged in such
situations is understanding the nature of the client’s early trauma.

With my client Sean, I recall wanting to disclose something of my poor,


working-class background, which was very similar to his. I was fond of him and
felt a desire to verbalize my warm feelings. It was difficult to sit with him session
after session with his affectless presentation. At times I had the fantasy that
expressing my feelings with him would somehow bring him alive, breathe life into
his lungs. However, in fact, my presence was threatening to him.

As described earlier, countertransference reactions may include feeling tender


while also struggling with how to connect and form a therapeutic alliance as well
as to understand the client’s inner world without evoking too much anxiety or
becoming too detached. The danger is in treating the client as an object of
interest instead of as someone wrestling with a dilemma with its dual anxieties
and helping them make meaning of their experience.

Schizoid Dilemma

My clinical experience is that those schizoid personalities who present for therapy
often experience a dilemma (Fairbairn, 1952; Guntrip, 1968) with which they are

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struggling. On the one hand, the person wants connection and closeness but
fears feeling unsafe, even entrapped; on the other, they want to withdraw and
retreat into exile to feel safe with the accompanying experience of isolation and
aloneness.

Manfield (1992) movingly described this process as “too distant from people, he
believes he will disintegrate, dissolve into oblivion, vaporize, be lost. [But] … too
close to someone, he is afraid of being co-opted, used, swallowed up, devoured,
totally appropriated” (p. 215).

This process also demonstrates a tension between the needed relationship—


that is, the desire for closeness—and the repeated relationship (Little, 2011) with
its fear of retraumatization. Working as I do in the here and now of the
transference-countertransference relationship entails the therapist being both the
longed for attachment object and the feared object. The more the therapist
represents the longed for other, the more he or she will be feared as the process
begins to trigger memories of early traumatic experience. As the client allows the
need for contact to emerge, they may also experience the fear of
retraumatization and the expectation that the therapist will let them down. Thus,
the therapeutic paradox is that the more the needs emerge, the more the fear of
retraumatization is stirred. In the initial stages of therapy, the client has no idea
that the therapist is going to be any different from those who were previously
retraumatizing for them. This represents a transference expectation.

The therapist’s stance when working with these presentations should include
an understanding of this dilemma and the associated relational impasse (Little,
2011). This understanding may be offered to the client as an interpretation. For
example, the therapist might say, “On the one hand (you have an anxiety about
getting close), and on the other … (you are anxious about being isolated).”

Being close means the schizoid has to face the fact that they cannot control the
other and that being involved in relationships runs the risk of being rejected,
attacked, and/or experiencing pain. Some people prefer isolation rather than
engaging with this process.

For example, as a child, Marcia retreated to her room to avoid the demands of
her parents, whom she described as misattuned and not interested in her, only in
her older sister. As an adult, Marcia preferred being on her own, but her job
required her to do certain things for people. This meant she had to leave the
safety of her womb-like state, which echoed her childhood bedroom. In doing so,
she had to encounter the world that she hated. In her therapy, her infant needs
emerged, and she wanted her therapist to be perfectly attuned to her. She
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unconsciously wanted to incorporate him into her safe, womb-like space and
have him be devoted to her, thus protecting her from disappointment, pain, and
separation.

For the schizoid individual, every place and every experience is fraught with
anxiety, whether that is being with people or being alone. Being self-reliant
avoids the problem of having to rely on or be dependent on another, but it can
leave the individual having to do everything themselves and having no significant
social contact. The dilemma can be described as an experience between an
antirelational self and a relational-seeking self (Little, 2001; Seinfeld, 1991).
Attending to the behavioral manifestations of the dilemma often highlights the
person’s own split internal personality structure, and the manner in which they
experience others represents a transference projection.

Erskine (2020) described Violet as “unconsciously looking for interpersonal


connection and simultaneously fearing any human closeness” (p. 22). The
relational-seeking self desires connection, whereas the antirelational self wants
to prevent that from happening. He described how Violet’s “social self” has
achieved some relational security by accommodating to the requirements of
significant others, whereas her “vital and vulnerable self” remains “protectively
internal” (pp. 18–19). Erskine made a note to himself “to respect her silences, to
support her withdrawal, and to create a safe place for the deeply repressed to
express herself” (p. 20). He wondered if he “thought of Violet’s silence and
withdrawal as her attempt to protect a vital and vulnerable aspect of herself” (p.
20). He understood that her “polite, proper, and superficial presentation as a
social façade had at least two important functions: protection and attachment” (p.
20).

Schizoid Compromise

In common with Erskine, I (Little, 2012) admire the writings of Guntrip and his
descriptions of working with clients who have withdrawn from relationship into a
“schizoid compromise” (Guntrip, 1968, p. 58). That phrase describes what the
client is trying to deal with psychologically, and the compromise indicates how
they are managing the dilemma, that is, finding a middle ground between the two
anxieties.

Erskine (2020) described wondering how he might make sense of his client’s
“superficial stories, the lack of interpersonal contact, and the absence of any
vitality, emotions, or vulnerability” (p. 18). He saw Violet as “someone who

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learned to hide her vitality and vulnerability,” who had “created a social façade
(i.e., a false self) in order to maintain some form of relational attachment” (p. 19).

Previously, I (Little, 2001, p. 39) discussed how retreating from contact leaves
the individual isolated, lonely, and in pain. Some schizoid personalities may
attempt to avoid the pain through “workaholism, intellectualization and other
distancing defences” (Manfield, 1992, p. 205). In some cases, the longing for
contact will reemerge, and the person may want to move toward others; however,
such movement also brings with it the anxiety of being close with its sense of
being entrapped. Guntrip (1968) described this as the “in and out program” (p.
36), an expression of the hunger for and terror of contact and closeness, caught
between the need and fears of close personal connection. They are driven “in” by
their needs and driven “out” by their fears. Some individuals manage this
dilemma by establishing the schizoid “compromise in a half-way house position”
(Guntrip, 1994, p. 166). This is a way of keeping others around but preventing
them from getting too close or becoming endangered by them. This may, for
example, be achieved by maintaining contact at an intellectual level or by being
present physically but absent emotionally. More often than not, relationships are
kept emotionally neutral, an approach that undermines the possibility of forming
friendships and romantic relationships.

In the United Kingdom there is an attitude known as the “stiff upper lip,” a
cultural endorsement of the expression of the compromise that enables people to
stay socially connected while hiding their emotions. Many “polite” behaviors in
certain cultures are also an expression of the same compromise, one that is, in
essence, a defensive position between the two fears of isolation, on the one
hand, and enslavement or merging/fusing, on the other. The question for the
individual is, “How do I keep people around without getting too close or being
alone?” The compromise is a remedy to the oscillation of the in-and-out program,
but the individual does not give themselves to anyone or anything fully.

Therapy of the Compromise: The Therapist’s Stance

The initial therapeutic task with schizoid clients is to create sufficient safety (R.
Klein, 1995; Little, 2001; O’Reilly-Knapp, 2001), including a containing, holding
environment that is both nonwounding and unobtrusive and that creates an
opportunity for the hidden, vulnerable, relational-seeking self to reemerge. The
therapist needs to be curious regarding why the person went into hiding, what
their terror is about, and the nature of the defenses involved. In addition, it is
important to comprehend how attempts at contact by the therapist may be
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experienced by the client as intrusive and frightening. For example, in the work
with Violet described by Erskine (2020), she was afraid to “go internal” in front of
anyone because “what I have inside is private. No one can know it … my quiet
hiding place. It has been my private place, all my life” (p. 21). The therapist needs
to demonstrate an understanding of the schizoid dilemma and compromise and
offer an attuned interpretation. In the inevitable push and pull of therapy, the
therapist should try, as much as possible, not to behave as either a master or a
sadistic object/other. Ware (1983) encouraged us to go slowly: “It must be
remembered that the cure of Schizoids is a slow, painstaking process, taking only
small steps at a time” (p. 15). I believe that we need to wait outside the “cave”
until the person appears or invites us in. What may help them emerge from their
particular cave is maintaining the clinical frame and boundaries, which will enable
them to begin to feel safe from engulfment or intrusion. Going in after them may
repeat the experience of an intrusive caregiver/other.

To establish safety for the client, I occasionally agree to a schedule that begins
with meeting every other week and then, after some time, moving to weekly. In
my consulting room, I have three sofas, and the client can sit wherever they
choose so they can feel safe enough. The therapist needs to attend to variations
in the client’s capacity to be present in whatever way they can manage. When a
client does withdraw after having been more in contact, I wonder what went on
that they became more withdrawn, which is often beneficial to interpret and
discuss with them.

Schizoid clients generally begin treatment feeling anxious. During the therapy,
this anxiety may be further triggered by moves toward the therapist and/or vice
versa. These clients are sensitive to and impacted by changes in the therapist’s
mood, demeanor, and/or behavior. In fact, the client’s withdrawal may well be
triggered by the therapist’s behavior.

For R. Klein (1995, p. 71), therapy is oriented toward reality, which thereby
disrupts transference expectations. In my view, this disruption results from a
cocreated relational experience. Erskine noted that both Guntrip and Winnicott
encouraged a psychotherapy that focuses on the client’s internal processes and
not specifically on cognitive insight or behavioral outcome, “a psychotherapy that
provides a healing relationship to a traumatized and fragmented client (Winnicott,
1965)” (Erskine, 2020, p. 19).

From a relational transactional analysis perspective, therapeutic action needs


to entail working in the here and now of the therapeutic relationship in which the
therapist is experienced as both an old object and a cocreated new object
working directly with both relational units in the transference-countertransference
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relationship. The client’s experience of the transference expectations reinforces
their withdrawal from relationships. This is the nature of unconsciously engaging
in psychological games and enactments.

As the therapist and client begin to develop a therapeutic alliance, the new
cocreated self-other relational unit develops. For the client, this is a new lens
through which to view and experience the world in contrast to their internal
structure, which is projected onto the world of relationships. If the client begins to
feel safe enough in the therapeutic relationship, they are more likely to
experiment with taking risks with the therapist, such as sharing thoughts and
feelings more freely. The nature of the client’s compromise changes through their
experiments.

For example, Lizzie, a woman in her late thirties who has always been
independent and self-assured, came to see me because she felt there was
something vaguely wrong. She did not trust anyone and could not recall ever
doing so. But some things she had read recently led her to wonder if there was
something wrong with that. The only contact she had with people was as the
manager of an education service. From what she said, it seemed she could be
helpful to those for whom she was responsible but without really feeling for them
because she had no real emotional relationships. She found it difficult sitting with
me because the familiar roles of helper and helped had been reversed, and she
was the one requiring help. Her compromise position had always consisted of
being helpful.

Any time I showed more than a bland presentation, Lizzie would complain of
being intruded on. Over many years, in which I felt I had to sit patiently waiting for
her to emerge, she began to tell me her early story of deprivation from an
uncontained and intrusive caregiver. She gradually moved from her isolation,
withdrawal, and a compromise position of being helpful and responsible for
others to one in which I as her therapist became the one person who knew her
story with its accompanying feelings. I felt that we had begun to cocreate a
precious new narrative.

With another client who began expressing more of her feelings, fantasies, and
inner world, it seemed she was experimenting with expressing previously
repressed feelings and in so doing shifting her compromise position. She could
justify her new behavior on the grounds that as a therapist, I was a professional
and therefore different from others. This enabled her to change while remaining
the same, thus maintaining her compromise of not revealing her emotions to the
world. However, we could also see that she was nullifying me to some degree.

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As therapists working with these presentations, we need to be wary of being
excessively devoted to having our clients establish closeness, intimacy, and
attachment to us or others in their lives, as if intimacy is a defining feature of
psychological health and well-being. We might wonder if attachment is being
fetishized, to quote a colleague, while acknowledging that to connect is a human
need.

Dissociation

Dissociation is, in essence, disconnection from unintegrated states. One type of


dissociation is depersonalization (a feeling that one is not in one’s own body and
is disconnected from one’s sense of self), which Guntrip (1968, pp. 41–44) listed
as a characteristic of the schizoid. Being disconnected from aspects of the self is
a major defense of schizoid personalities. Living in their heads, with apparently
little relationship with their emotions, is a common mode of being, as if there is a
cutoff or blockage between their hearts and their heads that prevents any
communication between the two. Dissociation is commonly used to protect the
self from aspects that are felt to endanger existence or that are too painful to
engage with. Dissociation maintains the split internal structure, and the
therapeutic goal in such cases could be described as moving from segregation
and disconnection to association and integration. O’Reilly-Knapp (2001)
highlighted how schizoids use dissociation to “protect the continuity of existence”
(p. 45).

Aloof From the Crowd

Under stress, schizoid personalities may withdraw either temporarily or


permanently from their own affect as well as from external stimulation
(McWilliams, 1994, p. 192). Internal dissociation from affect can manifest
behaviorally as aloofness, with the individual seeming to look down on others.
These individuals appear to hold others in contempt and disdain, on occasions
patronizing them while fearing being patronized. This is an expression of the
internal saboteur (Fairbairn, 1952) who rejects the need of others. They appear
to be proud of being independent and self-reliant (R. Klein, 1995, p. 57).

In such cases, the therapist’s countertransference reactions may include


feelings of inferiority because of having an emotional response to the client. The
tendency of the client to behave in an aloof manner may have its origins in the
relationship with primary caregivers who were overcontrolling or overintrusive
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(McWilliams, 1994, p. 195), although usually the main fear driving their behavior
is of engulfment rather than abandonment.

For example, many years ago I worked with a man who appeared quite aloof
and superior. Initially I thought him quite engaging, but over time I began to feel a
strong desire to attack him and penetrate his defenses, even to subjugate him in
some way. I felt quite aggressive toward him and wanted to show him how he
was making things worse for himself. I arrogantly felt I knew better than he did.
After some time and reflection, I realized that he had disconnected from any
intense feelings. He could talk politely with me about emotions, but he
dissociated from his more intense feelings. In discussion with my supervisor, I
came to see that, through projective identification, I was experiencing the intense
feelings with which he could not allow himself to connect.

Therapist’s Defensive Compromise

Lastly, I want to address a defensive position that therapists themselves may


occupy: a schizoid compromise position, not a countertransference reaction.
Schizoid individuals can be very sensitive to other people and often bury their
aggression. As McWilliams (1994, p. 196) wrote, schizoid personalities are able
to care about others while maintaining a protective stance (as was the case with
Lizzie as described earlier), and some even pursue careers in psychotherapy. In
citing Wheelis, McWilliams described how people with a “core conflict over
closeness and distance” may take up the profession of psychotherapy because it
“offers the opportunity to know others more intimately than anyone else ever will,
while concealing the self” (p. 196).

For instance, therapy sessions are time limited. Therefore, at an emotional


level, the therapist knows that whatever may go on and emerge in the session, it
will end at a given time. Potentially, this time boundary permits the therapist to
hide their own emotional response. In my experience as a supervisor, I have
noticed that some therapists can avoid certain feelings or experiences by not
commenting on them or by behaving in a particular manner that conveys the
message that certain feelings do not have a place in therapy and therefore will
not be addressed. An example would be the therapist who, every time sexual
feelings enter the conversation, changes the subject. We all have our blind spots,
but most of these are never examined. The therapist can “coast in the
countertransference” (Hirsch, 2008) and thereby avoid disrupting the therapy,
which would otherwise involve moving out of the safety zone of the “compromise”
and disrupting the transference-countertransference relationship. It is as if the
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therapist’s “[f]eelings can be identified and utilized interpersonally, although in a
limited and circumscribed fashion” (R. Klein, 1995, p. 56).

Working as a psychotherapist can in itself be a compromise position for some.


During the pandemic, working remotely has suited some therapists and clients.
They feel more at ease. Hirsch (2008), citing Buechler, described how therapists
with schizoid qualities may be inclined toward retreating emotionally, especially
with clients who are also comfortable with emotional distance. The therapy may
then become politely inactive. In my view, therapy should help the client enrich
their lives and not be an alternative for life.

For some therapists, technique is often seen as the main method for facilitating
the client’s integration and growth. Thus, a further compromise for the therapist
can be to use various techniques with the client while remaining affectively
uninvolved. The therapist in a compromise position may not push themselves or
the client beyond “states of comfortable equilibrium to states of disruption and
surprise” (Hirsch, 2008, p. 65).

For some clinicians, the work of therapy provides some affective engagement
in relationship while still maintaining emotional safety. In fact, schizoid
personalities may “gravitate to careers in psychotherapy, where they put their
exquisite sensitivity to use safely in the service of others” (McWilliams, 1994, p.
196).

Having said that, it is important to bear in mind that most therapists have a
course of therapy during their training and will have engaged in reading,
supervision, and self-analysis. As a result, they should have developed a
narrative that explains what happened to them as a child. Managing to reconcile
childhood experience in therapy and understanding the impact the past has on
the present allows the possibility of developing an “earned secure” (Wallin, 2007,
p. 87) attachment style.

If the therapist unconsciously retreats to a defensive withdrawal, or compromise


position, this may be an indicator of them being under more extreme
countertransference stress. Therefore, the concerns already expressed here
regarding the therapist’s compromise are a warning of the risks for the clinician.

Conclusion

It has been interesting to reread the literature from the past 25 years since I first
read and engaged with it and particularly in light of the clinical experience I now
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have. Back 25–30 years ago, I had only limited clinical experience with schizoid
processes. My first encounter with the literature was with Guntrip (1994). As I
reread him today, I continue to review my thinking and understanding and to
examine my therapeutic approach. Guntrip still has a good deal to offer the
practitioner who wishes to understand the inner world schizoid individuals
occupy.

It is easy to overlook schizoid traits in clients, particularly when they are


withdrawn, quiet, or enslaved and thus adapted to the other. They are not
generally as disturbing to the therapist as borderline and narcissistic
characterological presentations.

If I think of schizoid processes in contrast to schizoid personality disorder, I no


longer see the dilemma as belonging only to the latter. In the 20 years since that
conference in San Francisco where Erskine and I presented, I have come to
believe, as some others do (Manfield, 1992, p. 204), that the schizoid
presentation, with its flight from object relations and its subsequent compromise,
is more prevalent and commonplace than we often recognize.

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