Emotional Intelligence Book Unit 1
Emotional Intelligence Book Unit 1
Unit - I
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
"What really matters for success, character, happiness, and lifelong achievements is a
definite set of emotional skills —your EQ — not just purely cognitive abilities that are
1.1 INTRODUCTION
intelligence, in simple words, can be described as the ability to understand and manage
emotions effectively. Emotions are vital components of human lives, and regulating them
effectively often seems daunting for most of us. Their effective management is essential for
The field of emotional intelligence encompasses several theories and models that illustrate
interrelated concepts and suggest assessment measures to map further and understand
them. This collection of diverse frameworks, covering a broad array of skills, abilities, and
common theme among these theories/models is that they acknowledge the importance of
it refers to. The definitions for emotional intelligence are as many as the research studies
conducted. They all describe emotional intelligence as people's ability to recognize and
manage emotions.
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Mayer and Salovey (1990) defined emotional intelligence as "the ability to perceive and
express emotion, assimilate emotion in thought, understand and reason with emotion and
regulate emotion in self and others." They noted that emotional intelligence is a sub-field of
social intelligence.
competencies, and skills that influence one's ability to cope with environmental demands
and pressures."
Martinez Pons (1997) suggested that emotional intelligence helps people interact with their
cognitive skills, capabilities, and competencies that influence a person's ability to cope with
Goleman, Boyatzis, and Rhee (2000) described emotional intelligence as "the capacity for
recognizing our feelings and those of others, motivating ourselves and managing emotions
Although various definitions of EI are not precisely similar, their main features are common,
and undoubtedly, one can conclude that they complement each other. According to the
definitions, the primary skills of emotional intelligence are to identify emotions, deploy
Emotional intelligence (EI) can be placed at the intersection of cognition and emotion. It
forms the basis of our capacity for resilience, motivation, empathy, reasoning, stress
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management, communication, and our potential to be aware of our internal and social
worlds.
Emotional Intelligence plays an integral role in forming and developing meaningful human
relationships. Schutte et al. (2001) found that, over a series of studies, there were significant
Emotional intelligence can help pave the way toward a more fulfilling life by providing a
framework through which individuals can apply intelligence to emotional responses and
Emotional intelligence has been proven to play a significant role in academic and
many vocations, can improve inter and intrapersonal relationships, and boost
communication skills.
Emotional intelligence also equips an individual to cope with the stressors of daily life. These
stressors, if not appropriately managed, can lead to chronic stress, anxiety, and depression
and make an individual more vulnerable to several physical and mental health issues.
positive traits conducive to sustaining personal, mental, physical, and occupational health
and success. When fostered, emotional intelligence allows us to live a life that is enriching
and fulfilled.
understand it comprehensively. The most commonly used are the ability, trait, and mixed
models. All the models examine emotional intelligence as a mental ability or a combination
adaptability. These models facilitate proper assessment of a concept that can be used to
Though Salovey and Mayer (1990) were not the first ones to introduce the concept of
emotional intelligence in the realms of academic writings and business settings, their names
are commonly enumerated when it comes to the coining of the term "Emotional
Intelligence" (Mowrer, 1960). Their initial definition stated that "Emotional Intelligence is
the subset of social intelligence that involves the ability to monitor one's and others'
feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them and to use this information to guide
The four-branch model of emotional intelligence by Mayer and Salovey (1997) is a model of
four interrelated abilities that are arranged in a hierarchical manner such that basic, less
complex, are at the bottom and advanced psychologically challenging processes are at the
top.
1. The first branch of the model — ‘Perceiving Emotions' — is "the ability to recognize and
distinguish one's emotions within oneself and others." At this level, individuals can identify
their own emotions and the emotions of others. Perceiving emotions is also through
photographs, artwork, objects, and other forms of media using clues like sound,
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appearance, color, and language. They also can discriminate between authentic and false
2. The second branch in the Mayer & Salovey (1997) model is 'Using Emotions to Facilitate
focus on the relevant information and makes them capable of sound judgment. More
advanced skills give rise to emotions that aid in changing moods, opening diverse
branch has the skill of applying inductive and deductive reasoning by producing emotional
3. The third branch of Mayer and Salovey's (1997) model is 'Understanding Emotions.' It
and meaning of emotions." This branch is based on an individual's ability to label emotions
with appropriate language and differentiate between emotion labels and emotions
themselves. The advanced level is exhibited by giving accurate interpretation and meaning
of the origins of emotions, understanding the blend of emotions, and narrating complex
simultaneous moods and emotions. At a more sophisticated level, a person may recognize
the transition of emotions like "sadness may lead to hopelessness which further may lead to
desolation."
4. The fourth and the highest branch in the hierarchy of abilities is `Managing Emotions.' It is
"the ability to reduce, enhance, modify or prevent an emotional response in oneself and
stimulates intellectual and emotional growth in which a person stays open to agreeable and
disagreeable feelings. At an advanced level, a person can also disengage himself depending
on the demand of a situation. Monitoring emotions concerning one's self and others help
Mixed models of emotional intelligence are those that combine the concept of EI with
mentions that, “There is an old-fashioned word for the body of skills that emotional
Two models are generally considered to fall under the mixed models of emotional
intelligence-
emotional and social competencies, skills and facilitators that determine how well we
understand and express ourselves, understand others and relate with them, and cope with
Bar-On's (2006) ESI model of ET is founded on years of research and comprises five major
factorial components that are further divided into sub-factors comprising key components
1. Intrapersonal scale tells an individual's level of self-awareness and self- expression. The
sub-scales consist of (a) self-regard: which is the capability to perceive, accept and
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understand oneself accurately; (b) emotional self- awareness: which is the ability to be
aware of and understand one's emotions; (c) assertiveness: which is the ability to effectively
and constructively express one's feelings and oneself (Bar—On, 2006). Two moderating
scale (Bar-On, 2006). Independence means self-reliant and free of emotional dependency on
others, and self— actualization means the ability to strive to achieve personal goals and
relationship skills. Key components include (a) empathy: which is the ability to be aware and
understand how others feel and (b) interpersonal relationship: which identifies the ability of
a person to establish mutually satisfying relationships and relations with others. The
connect with one's social group and relate well with others (Bar—On, 2006).
3.Stress management scale gives an account of emotional management and control. The key
components consist of (a) stress tolerance: which is the ability to effectively and
constructively manage emotions, and (b) impulse control: which is described as the ability to
4. Adaptability scale accounts for a person's capability to deal effectively with change. The
subscales include (a) reality testing: which is objectively validating one's feelings and
thinking with external reality; (b) which is the level to which a person adapts and adjusts
one's feelings and thinking to new situations. Moreover, (c) problem-solving is the ability to
5.General mood scale tells a person's level of self or internal motivation. The elements
include (a) optimism: which means to be positive and look at the brighter side of life and (b)
happiness: that gauges the level to which a person feels content with oneself, others, and
Goleman (1998) defined emotional intelligence as "the capacity for recognizing our feelings
and those of others, for motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions well in ourselves
and our relationships" (p. 317). His most contemporary version of the Emotional
Competence Framework includes four major clusters and eighteen competencies (Wolff,
2005).
The four clusters are categorized under two broad domains: Personal competence and
Social Competence.
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Personal Competence includes (1) a Self-awareness cluster which concerns knowing one's
internal states, preferences, resources, and intuition, and (2) a Self-management cluster
which refers to managing one's internal states, impulses, and resources (ECI Technical
Manual, 2005).
which is the ability to recognize one's emotions and the effects they have; (b) accurate
self—assessment, which is the ability to know one's weaknesses and strengths; and (c)
self—confidence which tells a person's capabilities and a sense of self—worth (ECI Technical
Manual, 2005).
2. The self—management cluster comprises six competencies. These are (a) emotional
self—control which is the ability to keep impulses and disruptive emotions under check; (b)
transparency means maintaining the integrity and acting congruently with one's values; (c)
adaptability, which is the ability to deal with change; (d) achievement that tells a person's
strive to prove or achieving a standard of excellence; (e) initiative which is the readiness to
act on new opportunities; and (f) optimism that is pursuing goals with persistence even
when faced with obstacles and setbacks (ECI Technical Manual, 2005).
The social competence clusters include the Social Awareness cluster, which refers to how
people handle relationships and are aware of others' feelings , needs, and concerns, and the
3.The social awareness cluster contains three competencies. These are (a) empathy, which
is sensing others' feelings and perspectives and taking an active interest in their concerns;
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(b) organizational awareness, which is the ability to interpret a group's relationships with
power and flow of emotions; and (c) service orientation which means anticipating,
4.The relationship management cluster comprises six competencies. These are (a)
developing others which are assessing other's abilities and development needs; (b)
inspirational leadership, which is having the ability to inspire other groups and individuals;
(c) change catalyst, which is the ability to manage or initiate change; (d) influence which is
wielding effective tactics for persuasion; (e) conflict management which is the ability to
work through disagreements and negotiate; and (f) teamwork and collaboration which is the
ability to work well with others on common goals and create a sense of teamwork (ECI
The trait model of Emotional Intelligence was described by Petrides and Furnham (2000).
This model describes emotional intelligence as a self- perception of emotional ability and a
located at the lower levels of personality hierarchies" (Petrides, 2001, p.137). It then shows
how these traits influence an individual's state of mind: predicting happiness, life
expectations, and coping with stressful events. The model focuses on the interpersonal life
of individuals and works to construct a mindset that can cope with environmental
challenges.
In most general terms, Emotional Intelligence (EI) may be defined as the overlap between
emotion and intelligence, or in other words, the intelligent use of emotions. It can pave the
path to a fruitful and successful life. There are four building blocks of Emotional Intelligence.
Management.
Self-awareness
In simple terms, self-awareness is the basic understanding of how we feel and why we feel
that way. Increased awareness of our feelings makes it easier for us to manage them and
also dictate how we might respond to other individuals. It is also explained by Goleman
(2000) as the ability, to read and understand one's emotions and recognize their impact on
deeper before trying to know everything else. People who assess themselves honestly are
consensus that individuals conscious of their emotions can better handle their own lives and
also learn to have faith in their gut feelings, which helps them make difficult decisions
(Hinds, 2017).
Self-Management
thoughts, and feelings flexibly to get desired results. Optimal self-management contributes
connectedness to others. One can control impulsive feelings and behaviors, manage
emotions in healthy ways, take the initiative, follow through on commitments, and adapt to
changing circumstances. Emotions are significant indicators of who one is and who others
are, but in the face of stress, it is easy to become overwhelmed and lose control of
ourselves. By developing the ability to manage stress and stay emotionally present, it
becomes easy for individuals to manage their emotions in the face of undesirable
circumstances. One can make decisions that enable one to restrain impulsive thoughts and
actions, regulate emotions in healthy ways, take the initiative, keep up with commitments,
Social Awareness
Social Awareness is the ability to accurately perceive the emotions of others and "read"
situations appropriately. Using one's ability to empathize, individuals can sense what others
are thinking and feeling to consider others' perspectives. Social awareness facilitates
cues indicate how others are feeling, changes in their emotional states, and what truly
matters to them. In essence, one becomes more empathetic arid socially comfortable.
Relationship Management
The ability to take one’s own and other’s emotions, and the context in which they occur, to
manage interactions effectively. The three dimensions, as mentioned above, come together
to form the final one- relationship management. Identifying and understanding what other
people are feeling and experiencing is the first step in working with others and having
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interpersonal relationships. Once emotional awareness is present, one can effectively learn
new social-emotional abilities that will enhance relationships’ efficiency, success and
fulfillment.
SUMMARY
regulate emotional information accurately and effectively, both within oneself and in
others, and to further use this information to guide one’s thinking and actions and to
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