March 14, 2018 File Number: 2018-0590

Kevin Guey-Paisley
4708 55 Ave
Grimshaw AB T0H 1W0

Via email: [email protected]

Kevin Guey-Paisley:

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FORMAL COMPLAINT – PLAINTE OFFICIELLE

NAME / NOM : Kevin Guey-Paisley

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CRCC FILE NO. / N DE DOSSIER DE LA CCETP : 2018-0590

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CRCC CROSS REF NO. / N DE RENVOI DE LA CCETP :

COMPLAINT DATE / DATE DE LA PLAINTE : COMPLAINT BY/ PLAINTE DÉPOSÉE PAR : ATTACHMENTS ARE IDENTIFIED AS FOLLOWS / LES
PIÈCES JOINTES SONT IDENTIFIÉES COMME SUIT :
March 9, 2018 ONLINE-EN LIGNE
TAKEN BY / REÇUE PAR : 11 pages
CRCC-CCETP

DATE COMPLAINT FORWARDED TO RCMP / DATE D’ACHEMINEMENT DE LA PLAINTE À LA GRC : DIVISION : K

MONTH / MOIS DAY / JOUR YEAR / ANNÉE
DETACHMENT / DÉTACHEMENT :
03 14 2014
Peace River
THE SPECIFIC ALLEGATIONS OF MISCONDUCT ARE AS FOLLOWS / LES ALLÉGATIONS D’INCONDUITE SONT LES SUIVANTES :

Please see box 14 (“details of complaint” section) / voir l’encadré 14 ( section intitulée « détails de la plainte » )

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION / RENSEIGNEMENTS SUPPLÉMENTAIRES :

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COMPLAINT FORM - FORMULAIRE DE PLAINTE

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File No: / N de dossier : 2018-0590
COMPLAINANT INFORMATION / RENSEIGNEMENTS AU SUJET DU PLAIGNANT
1. FAMILY NAME / NOM DE FAMILLE : 2. DATE OF BIRTH / DATE DE NAISSANCE :

Guey-Paisley January 22, 1984

GIVEN NAME AND INITIAL / PRÉNOM ET INITIALES :
Kevin
3. MAILING ADDRESS / ADRESSE POSTALE : 4. PRIMARY TEL. / TÉL. PRINCIPAL : 587-332-3715
SECONDARY TEL. / TÉL. SECONDAIRE : 587-405-6648
4708 55 Ave
Grimshaw AB OTHER / AUTRE : 780-219-8007
T0H 1W0 FAX / TÉLÉCOPIEUR :

E-MAIL / COURRIEL : [email protected]

PHYSICAL ADDRESS IF DIFFERENT FROM MAILING ADDRESS /
ADRESSE MUNICIPALE SI ELLE DIFFÈRE DE L’ADRESSE POSTALE :

5. PREFERRED LANGUAGE OF CORRESPONDENCE / LANGUE DE CORRESPONDANCE PRÉFÉRÉE ENGLISH-ANGLAIS

6. PREFERRED METHOD OF CORRESPONDENCE / MODE DE CORRESPONDANCE PRÉFÉRÉE EMAIL-COURRIEL
7. WERE YOU THE PERSON INVOLVED IN THE INCIDENT BEING COMPLAINED OF? / YES-OUI
L’INCIDENT FAISANT L’OBJET DE LA PLAINTE VOUS CONCERNE-T-IL DIRECTEMENT?
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8. IF YOU WERE GIVEN A FILE NUMBER BY THE RCMP WITH RESPECT TO THE INCIDENT BEING RCMP FILE NO. / N DE DOSSIER DE LA GRC :
COMPLAINED OF, PLEASE PROVIDE IT / SI LA GRC VOUS A DONNÉ UN NUMÉRO DE DOSSIER
CONCERNANT L’INCIDENT, VEUILLEZ LE FOURNIR

9. DID YOU SIGN A COMPLAINT WITH THE RCMP ABOUT THE CONDUCT OF THE RCMP MEMBERS
INVOLVED IN THIS INCIDENT? / AVEZ-VOUS SIGNÉ UNE PLAINTE À LA GRC AU SUJET DE LA NO-NON
CONDUITE DES MEMBRES DE LA GRC CONCERNÉS?
DID YOU SIGN AN AGREEMENT WITH THE RCMP TO RESOLVE THE COMPLAINT INFORMALLY? /
AVEZ- VOUS CONCLU UNE ENTENTE AVEC LA GRC POUR RÉGLER LA PLAINTE À L’AMIABLE? NO-NON
10. DO YOU WISH THE COMMISSION AND THE RCMP TO COMMUNICATE DIRECTLY WITH A LEGAL REPRESENTATIVE OR AN ADVOCATE INSTEAD OF
YOURSELF? IF SO, PLEASE PROVIDE THE FULL NAME, ADDRESS AND TELEPHONE NUMBER OF YOUR LEGAL REPRESENTATIVE OR ADVOCATE.
VOULEZ-VOUS QUE LA COMMISSION ET LA GRC COMMUNIQUENT DIRECTEMENT AVEC UN REPRÉSENTANT LÉGAL OU UN PORTE-PAROLE PLUTÔT
QU’AVEC VOUS? SI OUI, VEUILLEZ FOURNIR LE NOM AU COMPLET, L’ADRESSE ET LE NUMÉRO DE TÉLÉPHONE DE VOTRE REPRÉSENTANT LÉGAL OU
DE VOTRE PORTE-PAROLE.
MAILING ADDRESS / ADRESSE POSTALE :

PRIMARY TEL. / TÉL. PRINCIPAL :

FAX / TÉLÉCOPIEUR :
EMAIL / COURRIEL :

PLEASE NOTIFY THE COMMISSION IF ANY OF YOUR CONTACT INFORMATION CHANGES PRIOR TO THE DISPOSITION OF YOUR COMPLAINT / PRIÈRE D’AVISER LA
COMMISSION DE TOUT CHANGEMENT DE COORDONNÉES AVANT QUE VOTRE PLAINTE NE SOIT RÉGLÉE
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CIRCUMSTANCES OF COMPLAINT / CIRCONSTANCES DE LA PLAINTE

(COMPLETE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE / FOURNIR AUTANT DE RENSEIGNEMENTS QUE POSSIBLE)
11. DATE OF INCIDENT / DATE DE L’INCIDENT : 12. TIME OF INCIDENT / 13. CITY AND PROVINCE/TERRITORY OF INCIDENT /
HEURE DE L’INCIDENT : LIEU DE L’INCIDENT (PROVINCE/TERRITOIRE, VILLE) :
February 16, 2018 04:45 Grimshaw, AB

DETAILS OF COMPLAINT / DÉTAILS DE LA PLAINTE

14. PLEASE DESCRIBE THE INCIDENT AS COMPLETELY AS POSSIBLE / DÉCRIVEZ L’INCIDENT DE FAÇON DÉTAILLÉE

THE FOLLOWING WAS RECEIVED BY THE COMMISSION VIA ONLINE COMPLAINT FORM:

1 very biased conjunction between complaint, (911 ems dispatcher) accused (me)very calm and impartial and one
female rcmp member cst.meacherne. and rcmp member cst..steven freamo

i am aware that ems and rcmp are alot alike kinda like farternity wat ever but there must be a line drawn where working
together is common to be all the same page with no favortism an abuse privlidege turns to a power turns to a abusive
super conspired

from a promise to appear turned in to a lodge into cells which they destroyed draw strings would not charge her with
any thing i explained she her temper throwing hair dryer breaking my tv gave her apparent knowledge of my cpic and
proos also wat time i was released or to be released telling me her kids were not there after i told them they are up
stairs except doreyn was in peace river

i made metioin of the ppl and drugs i do not want around my things her kids and more importantly how they seem to
draw in more bad things

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On February 19, 2018, the Commission received the above online complaint from Kevin GUEY-PAISLEY wanting to
lodge a complaint against Constables McEachern, Freamo, MacLeod and Moss of the Peace River Detachment.

The Commission communicated with the complainant via telephone and e-mail (refer to email exchanges attached
hereto) seeking further information and clarification into what had happened on February 16, 2018 and to better
determine the allegations made against the RCMP.

To summarize the incident, Constables McEachern and Freamo attended the shared home of the complainant (4803
55th Ave, Grimshaw) after receiving a call from the complainant's common-law partner of 6 years, 'Heather'. Heather
wanted K. GUEY-PAISLEY out of the home after they had argued about household issues (a written statement of the
couple's interaction was provided by the complainant in his email of March 2) . Once police arrived on the premises, the
complainant was escorted to the detachment and charged for breaching a condition to maintain peace and for mischief,
being held accountable for damages to the bedroom door. K. GUEY-PAISLEY explained that he was incarcerated
overnight and released the following day with a condition not to contact 'Heather' and not to attend the conjugal home.
He was strictly authorized by Constable MacLeod to go to the house to retrieve his belongings conditional to having a
3rd party present. While the complainant sought RCMP assistance for this specific matter, he was told to identify his
rd
own 3 party since the issue was viewed as a civil matter. As a result, K. GUEY-PAISLEY returned to the home on the
Sunday with his friend Shelley Giesbrecht. The complainant noted that he retrieved only part of his belongings and had
left his tools in his truck which was not mobile at the time since plans were underway to have it towed to his temporary
place of residence in Peace River. According to the complainant, the truck (registered to S Giesbrecht) was towed to
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the owner's property a week or two ago. Upon having possession of the vehicle, he became aware that Heather had
removed the contents of his truck. He also became aware that some of his belongings had been left at the dumpster
and partially destroyed.

K. GUEY-PAISLEY complains:
1) the RCMP failed to seek charges against his ex common-law partner for mischief and theft after he reported she had
destroyed some items (i.e.T.V.) and kept his tools and contents of the truck; the complainant indicated that the RCMP
members have told him the matter was a matrimonial dispute and deemed the matter to be a civil issue;
2) the RCMP failed to provide him access to counsel upon request; he indicated telephone access was granted several
hours later;
3) the RCMP failed to give him the opportunity to log off from his account (laptop) when he was removed from the
home, disregarding his privacy concerns;
4) the RCMP communicated his whereabouts to his ex common-law partner in that he was now residing at his friend's
home in Peace River.

The complainant noted that while he made the RCMP aware of the existence of drugs in the house, he is unaware if
investigative work was conducted by the authorities. As a result, the Commission will not be accepting a complaint
relating to this specific issue. The complainant noted that Heather has contacted him via Facebook, e-mails and text
messages and that he has communicated her attempts to reach him to the RCMP whom he believes has addressed the
issue with the ex-common law partner, noting the RCMP obtained an official statement from him.
15. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO ACHIEVE THROUGH THIS COMPLAINT PROCESS? / QUELS OBJECTIFS SOUHAITEZ-VOUS ATTEINDRE EN DÉPOSANT
CETTE PLAINTE?

To be determined by the investigator. / A être déterminé par l’enquêteur.

16. THE COMPLAINT IS ABOUT THE CONDUCT OF THE FOLLOWING RCMP MEMBER(S) / LA PLAINTE VISE LE(S) MEMBRE(S) DE LA GRC SUIVANT(S)
NAME AND RANK / NOM ET GRADE -- DETACHMENT / DÉTACHEMENT :

Unknown McEachern / Constable

-- Peace River / K

Unknown Freamo / Constable

-- Peace River / K

Unknown MacLeod / Constable

-- Peace River / K

Unknown Moss / Constable

-- Peace River / K

17. WITNESS(ES) (MAY INCLUDE RCMP MEMBERS YOU ARE NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT) / TÉMOIN(S) (IL PEUT S’AGIR DE MEMBRES DE LA GRC DONT
LA CONDUITE NE FAIT PAS L’OBJET DE LA PLAINTE)
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Note: By submitting the Complaint Form, you are authorizing the Civilian Review and Complaints Commission for t the RCMP to collect your personal
information. This information is being collected solely for purposes related to Part VII of the RCMP Act. The Complaint Form along with all other relevant
documentation may be forwarded to the RCMP for investigation pursuant to subsection 45.35(3) of the RCMP Act. Accordingly, an RCMP complaint
investigator may contact you to provide a statement.
The information is held in Personal Information Bank CRCC PPU 005 and you have a right to access this information in accordance with the Privacy Act.
Nota : En soumettant le Formulaire de plainte, vous autorisez la Commission civile d’examen et de traitement des plaintes relatives à la GRC à recueillir vos
renseignements personnels. Ces renseignements seront recueillis seulement à des fins reliées au processus prévu à la partie VII de la Loi sur la GRC. Le
Formulaire de plainte ainsi que tous les documents pertinents peuvent être acheminés à la GRC pour une enquête en vertu du paragraphe 45.35(3) de la Loi
sur la GRC. Par conséquent, un enquêteur de la GRC pourrait vous demander de donner une déclaration.
Les renseignements sont conservés dans le fichier de renseignements personnels CCETP PPU 005 et vous pouvez y accéder conformément à la Loi sur la
protection des renseignements personnels.

CONTACT INFORMATION / INFORMATIONS DE CONTACT :

1-800-665-6878
P.O. Box 1722, Station B Ottawa, ON K1P 0B3
1-866-432-5837 TTY (ATS)
C.P. 1722, succ. B, Ottawa ON K1P 0B3
613-960-6147 FAX (TÉLÉC.)
www.crcc-ccetp.gc.ca
From: MR. paisley
To: Complaints
Subject: Re: CRCC File Reference #R2018-000700 - GUEY-PAISLEY, K
Date: 2 mars 2018 12:56:38
Attachments: for k.rtf
four k-k ok.rtf

-THE RCMP CHARGED ME FOR ACCIDENTALLY BREAKING DOOR FRAME WHEN IT WAS
COMPLAINTS FAULT AS MUCH AS MINE

-RCMP WOULD NOT CHARGE HER FOR BREAKING MY TV OR WHEN I SHOWED UP FOR A BAG
OF CLOTHES AND RECIEVED DAMAGED PROPERTY THEY WOULD NOT LAY CHARGES AGAINST
HER

-ID LIKE TO ADDRESSE THE FACT THAT RCMP DID NOT ALLOW ME CONTACT WITH A LAWYER
UNTIL 4 HRS AFTER BEING HELD IN CELLS AND THEN WAITNG ANOTHER 4 HOURS UNTIL I WAS
PROCESSED AND RELEASED ON PROMISE TO APPEAR...

HOW RCMP INFORMED HER OF MY WHERE ABOUTS AND HOW SHE HAS ACCESS TO MY CPIC
AND PROS.

WHY IM DENIED ACCESS TO PREMISE AND WITH THAT ALL MY PROPERTY WITHIN MY
RESIDENCE AND SHE HAS FULL ENJOYMENT OF MY THINGS

WHEN I DID GET MY TRUCK TOWED FROM THE HOUSE TO PEACE RIVER ALL MY TOOLS WERE
NOT IN THE TRUCK. ALONG WITH MESSAGES TO ME ABOUT HOW ALREADY DEALT WITH MY
PROPERTY AND ONLY THING LEFT IS MY TRUCK.

From: Complaints <[email protected]>

Sent: February 26, 2018 10:01 AM
To: '[email protected]'
Subject: CRCC File Reference #R2018-000700 - GUEY-PAISLEY, K

Good morning Kevin Guey-Paisley:

The Civilian Review and Complaints Commission for the RCMP (the Commission)
acknowledges your online complaint submission of February 19, 2018 as well as your call of
today.
On February 21, 2018, an intake officer attempted to reach you via telephone but was
unsuccessful in reaching you. The purpose of our call was to obtain further details regarding
your complaint against the RCMP in order to accept and process your public complaint.

Since you currently do not have easy phone access and prefer e-mail communication, can you
answer the following questions:

What happened for you to have a face-to-face with the RCMP , specifically what situation
prompted their intervention?
What is the misconduct of each of the officers outlined in the complaint form, namely
Constables ‘Mchearn’, ‘Freamo’, ‘MacLeod’ and Corporal ‘Potts’. In your submission, you
make reference to ‘favortism’, ‘abuse’ (possibly of power). Can you explain what you feel was
the misconduct; in other words, what did the RCMP do or failed to do that you feel was
inappropriate.
You have identified Constable MacLeod as a witness as well as a member against who a
complaint is made. Is that your intention?

Please feel free to provide any information you deem relevant to the public complaint against
the officers.

Regards,

Intake Office, Operations

Civilian Review and Complaints Commission for the RCMP / Government of Canada
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kevin, So I see this is how you are going to be. If you haven't been kicked from your little infiltration
session you will be able to see this. I love you and I am sorry for what happened and I will spare you
my thoughts. But please stop what you are doing. I don't deserve any smear campaign you and her are
designing or me. I have already seen what is going on with your little comments to the police about
how I keep trying to contact you trying to make me into the bad guy and you the defeated. It is
working against you and the more it continues the worse it will look for you. They are aware of a lot of
things, some from past files when I had to call them about you which is why I did it, I am not a stupid
woman. They are aware of how the two of you behave when together, the drug use, the mischief, the
stealing as told by your cpics and pros but are also aware of the crazy shit shelley has pulled because of
maturity level of a 14 yr old. The false accusations of me wrecking her van, the false accusation of me
stealing her tent and are now aware of your ploy to get it back for her. shows the manipulation you
think you can achieve. They are aware you stopped by last night trying to be incognito to pick up your
money and look for the shit you left behind in the garage. They are also aware of you flattening my
jeep tires, how you would spy on me or have others report to you, how you are trackng me and looking
through all my personal stuff connected to my phone because you logged your icloud into it. Stealing
it will definitely make it easier for you for a wee bit more till I have changed all my passwords and ended
all sessions connected to my apps. I do know that willnot stop you but have all my accounts verified
threw 3-4 sources some through work that you will likely never get into, regardless it is all tracked and
documented. All these things you have done on your own that will work against you if you continue with
this shit. I have no doubt in my mind you are pissed right off and it is directed at me although in reality
you are still if not even more pissed at yourself. I am used to it

I am done with your phones now, you can have it. nice try wanting to take it with you so I have no
phone at all to use, can't call the police if I have no phone is what I figured, also makes me think you will
be showing up again in the near future to take more shit you need to go get into trouble including your
truck. I am watching for it, no worries. I likely wouldn't call police but will be covering my ass and/or
protecting myself. btw the retard you sold to last night wasn't very creful, dropped a bag of his shit on
the ground near main street . it was found, I have already heard about it The police know you were
fucked up and high yesterday asked me what it would be. lucky for you I don't know what you were on
yesterday. I assume crack but not entirely sure, have never seen how you act using it but what I do
know for sure is \I have never ever seen you act like you were. I hope you got the result you actually
wanted. I would have never asked you to leave or called them but it was at the point I couldn't handle
you on my own and was scaring the boys as they have never seen you like that either. they seen the
shittiest fight we ever had and weren't as concerned as they were last night. I had no choice, you went
at me relentlessly for over 6 hours with your actions and insults getting increasingly aggressive every
hour. There was no way I could have stopped you. I was honestly concerned as to where it would
finally end up at, figured violence either to wards me, my property or yourself so I called. I didn't know
they would go as far as they did but they told me more then once based on your behaviour to control
me and condemn me as witnessed first hand by them when they were trying to speak to me on the
phone and seeing how erratic and chaotic your thougts were they thought they had no choice. they
have called me 3 times since yur release last night just to be sure I am safe. you really left an impression.
I think them taking you and it taking as long as it did to process you was the best thing. it saved you
from yourself for awhile.

despise your hurtful and mean attempt to discredit me last night thank you for the nice things you did
say to me, thank you for saying I love you to me and meaning it. here is some of the answers ihave for
your question last nght. Priority #1 yesterday when I woke up was to patch things up with you #2 was
to fuck and cuddle you while you slept #3 was to help you fnish tire and organize an get stuff sold.
#4 was to finish getting house cleaned so we could just relax and have some light hearted relaxing time
together however thet would have looked................that's all I had though. You were doing awesome
and I know how hard you were trying when you tried, I admit I was confused with where I stood with
you. How you think of me and act towards me are polar opposites when you are sober and when you
are not. is likely why you felt your trying didn't get noticed as I was being conservative on my end.
telling me what you did about shelley made me see why you treated me the way yu did and didn't
always realize it, the habit and need to be that way with shelley and explain everything to her like yu
would a child is more or less what you were doing to me except it frustrated the shit out of me and
made me feel like you thought I was a retard because I am well aware I am not and as aware that you
also know I am not. admit it I challenge you and you need to up your game many times figuratively to
stay on top of it all. you get as frustrated with it beause you end up disappointed with yourself when
you know you could be doing it better. I dot know if you see it or not ut when you are with me you are
motivated and rational and want better then you have for yourself, that is why we are soul mates to
begin with even if as a couple we couldn't make it. I wish you could see yourself like I see you, it would
help yu see your worth, see the qualities you have that make you shine and accept them as positives but
also help you be good with yur negatives because I accept you as you are even with the things I hate
that come with you. me hating something about you is my issue nit yours \I know that which is why I
accept them. I was trying I really was though. did you mnotice the trust level with you come up, that
\I didn't poke into your business or go through your things. was it obvious that I was working really
hard on my temper that I often walked away when tension was high to be able to process my thoughts
and cool down instead of making a bunch of accusations based on assumptions. That I listened to your
advice and contemplated it even when I didn't take it instead of taking everything as a personal attack.
That I let you do things your way even when I tought it was wrong and still worked as a team doing it
that way. When I did disagree I didn't push it until we fought over it but tried to show you both points
of view rationally and didn't throw the results in your face when things failed even under extreme
pressure like when we were stuck but rather did as much as I could to help the situation. I admit to
acting cooler around yu after the first fight we had when you told me you used me last time and pointed
out that I wasn't yur girlfriend that you didn't want one but I still made myself take the time to let
waters calm when before I would have lost my shit when I kicked you out and was an evil bitch to you
calling you down as much as I could only to regret it who knows maybe I was giving myself more credit
then I had earned because I was proud of myself for doing it. I know what I want theresults of
everything up until now to be I wish I knew what you wanted? sigh what can be done now if you
choose to see or speak to me, unless is obvious was fir ill purposws I would never report it in is just
fyi but what I would tell you if you did contact me is that I love you and hope only the best for you, could
never abandon someone I love so if you need help or need an ear I will always be here for you.
ps kevin I miss your sexiness, thinking of all our time together only made me wet for you, I miss all of
you

12:47PM

DO NOT HAVE THAT SOW CALL HERE AGAIN. YOU WANT HER SO BAD KEEP HER IN YOUR LIFE NOT
MINE!!! TELL HER TO GROW A BACKBONE UNLESS SHE IS HAPPY WITH THE ARRANGEMENT OF
COMING SECOND TO ME ALL OF THE TIME. THE ONLY REASON YOU ARE THERE IS YOUR SHITTY SELF
ESTEEM MADE YOU THINK YOU WERENT GOOD ENOUGH TO BE HERE, BEING WITH HER BOOSTS IT
BECAUSE YOU THINK SHE IS BENEATH YOU. WELL IF BROKE AND LIVING IN HER KIDS ATTIC MAKES YOU
FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE IT ALL THEN I AM HAPPY FOR YOU. IS ALL I EVER WANTED FOR YOU, TO BE HAPPY.
IS PROBABLY THE BEST PLACE FOR YOU KNOWING YOU DONT HAVE IT IN YOU TO BE ANY DIFFERENT
THEN YOU ARE. 30 MORE YEARS OF STRESSING OUT OVER STUPID SHIT TO CONTINUE HAVING
NOTHING WOULD HAVE MADE ME INSANE. GOOD ON HER FOR BEING SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR LIFE STYLE
IS NICE TO HAVE SUPPORT IN YOUR LIFE. KEEPIONG YOU RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE RIGHT
NOWWASN'T THE TYPE OF SUPPORT I COULD HAVE GIVEN YOU AND BEEN SATISFIED WITH IT.
DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS I THINK IS WHAT THEY SAY. TAKE CARE.

DONT WORRY ABOUT OUR STUFF, BEING YOUR "COMMON LAW" AND ALL I WILL TAKE CARE OF IT AND
MAKE SURE WHAT YOU END UP WITH IS YOUR "HALF"

2:52PM

tell me how to fix my email so it forwards correctly please. I will not be fucking with your stuff that is
your childish game and i am not interested in it at all. I have never intentionally destroyed or altered
any of your things even after all the shit you pull not about to start. it may besomething the two of
you do or accuse people of but is not what i do. i have always been up front with you even when i told
you i was getting rid of your car. multiple and i mean mutiple opportunities were presented to you to
have it dealt with a different way, was your choice to ignore them. i don't like being fucked with i have
no issues with doing what needs to be done with it. technically you coud have 5 more breaches today
alone, dont push me. if you cant show any respect dont contact me. once again you created all of this
yourself with absolutely zero of it being my fault regardless of what you think. all you had to do was give
me time to cool down like i asked you to over and over again. bullying me and emotionally abusing me
for hours and then breaking in my bedroom door were the decisions you made that lead to this. it was
actually you that said if i wanted you to leave i should phone the police because that will be the only
way, took that at face value. once again your sense of entitlement and shitty pride underestimated
me. yup i love ou but will never ever put up with that type of shit from anyone, i am worth way more
then that. you are the one on the losing end again. i learned that the day your brought that psycho
cunt into my world because i can guarantee i did not invite myself into hers. you couldn't be without
me hence dragging me into your drama a thon with her. you should have just been a man paid your
debt to me and left me the fuck alone when i told you to. your choice to maintain the connection
should have just paid me back 3 -4 yrs ago but of course then you couldn't string me along and use me
to abuse your new losers. you showed me full on the type of person you are and how weak your
character is on friday, judging by the storm in you i know you know this already or you would let
sleeping dogs lie. you will not be getting the reaction out of me you are hoping for. there is not a
single reason in this world anyone should have to be subjected to what you did, still trying to justify it to
not have to take any ownership for your actions suggests you need help, and i am not speaking about
addictions i am referring to mental illness.

this is great therapy for me to write to you even if i cant send them directly to you
 Statement

I arrived in her dad's truck around lunch time. A gentleman in a white pick up asked if I had
seen his stolen tools or had any information about them. I said no, but I would give him a call if I
did. He left and I entered the house. Heather was standing at the window. I then expressed my
dismay at her friends and their living in the garage. She agreed that it is not good having them
in the garage but she refuses to let me kick them out. We went to the bedroom and shut the
door behind us. She was texting people and asking me where I was. I told her where I went,
Peace River then recyclers and then back here. She made mention of the money that wasn't in
her account to her youngest son and I laid down and closed my eyes. She then asked " and then
where did you go?" Her eldest son asked if she could drive him to Peace River, she agreed and I
got up to go to the washroom. She then went to the spare room. Her tone became aggressive
and there wasn't much context to what she started to escalate but I was going to mention to
call Brad at child services because she neglected to call him for the past few days. She was
already angry so I was asking her "yes" or "no" questions every time she tried to give a
nonsense answer I would rephrase it to a yes or no question. Then she refused to answer any
questions so I asked her to list 10 things she would like to accomplish today. She said finish
washing behind the stove. I asked her if that was the most important thing that had to be done
today. She thought about it and said no. I said in order list the 10 most important tasks, and
that escalated to the point to of her not answering any of my questions. I was hoping that
scheduling her interview with child services was going to be a high priority on her list. I left the
bathroom to lay down and take a nap. She asked me how much money I had and how much gas
was in the truck. I said the fuel light is on and I have $40. I pulled the money out of my pocket
and put it on the bed. Her tone changed as she asked where I got $40? Which made me open
my eyes instead of taking the bait I laid my head back down and closed my eyes. I changed the
subject. She sat on the bed asking me questions in an unbearable tone. I answered with "I don't
know" and I got up and left the room. I asked if she wanted some orange juice and she snapped
back "NO!" I saw Dorian sitting on the couch with his coat on and backpack as I headed
downstairs. I told her the truck keys were on the island. I went downstairs to the basement to
look at my tire. I heard her slamming cupboards and complaining louder and louder. She then
told Dorian "let's go" and yelled down the stairs to me "where is that money, I need to put gas
in the truck again". I told her it was in our room on the bed. As I headed up the stairs, Dorian
timidly admitted to his mom that her mom and dad were on their way to pick him up. He
apologized and Heather was still going to go, she acted frustrated as if it were Dorian's fault or
mine. She stated she was going for a drive and I asked if I could come. She snapped "no",
bolting to the truck. I ran out to the passenger side and knocked on the window. She started
the truck and slammed it into reverse. I started to say no no as i ran around the back of the
truck she st9ormed out of the truck with keys stomping off to the house, yelling obscenities and
slammed the door. I shouted "relax! I'm just grabbing my stuff from the truck before you
leave." I got my coat, gloves and e-juice, went to the door to enter the house, it was locked. I
knocked on the door and rang the door bell, and then knocked again. I proceeded to put on my
coat and gloves and decided to start a fire in the wood stove in the garage, so I started kicking
around the snow for fire wood and didn't find much. I was interrupted by her parents honking
the car horn. I went up to the door, knocking and yelled to Dorian that his ride was here. I
stepped to the side and glanced back for a glimpse of precious firewood until I heard the door
open. I told Dorian to have fun, as he left, I went in. I came in the house knowing the other two
kids were upstairs within earshot. I announced from the kitchen that I hope the bedroom door
is not locked! There was no response as I got to the door. Leading with my shoulder into the
door, I reached down to open it and the knob did not turn, I heard cracking wood as it was too
late to stop my momentum and I shouted "why is the door locked?" She was surprised and was
scrambling to cover up what she had on the bed. Looking down, I saw her coloring book,
markers, a lighter and she yelled " can't I just have 5 minutes to cool down?" I took a deep
breath, smiled and said "you betcha". I quietly closed the door then reached back in to unlock
it, and then closed it again. I said as I walked to the kitchen at high volume " you gotta stop
locking these doors behind you... whadda you think, I'm made out of door jams?" I went down
to the basement. 5-10 minutes later I heard Heather's heavy footsteps and mumbling and
grumbling, cupboards slamming. As it got closer there was more swearing and bitching about
the door. I stated that she wasn't taking off with my coat and the rest of my things in the truck
and I was angry about being locked out of the house and that she the opportunity to stop me at
the bedroom door but chose to listen and wait for my explosive entrance. She was already
talking over me, not making any sense whatsoever. My coat is out of the truck, now you can go
for a drive. She snapped and I said go back to the room then. She told me maybe I should leave,
I said no, I'm tired and I'm not here to argue. She then grabbed the phone from the kitchen and
I asked her what was wrong, I can't think you have a problem other than Dorian was sick of
waiting and called your parents or the fact that you're broke and waiting for whatever payment
to come through your bank at midnight. I have $40 on the bed, I think that should get us
through till whatever you're waiting for. As she held her phone in her hand she said no, I want
you to go now. I told her I was done playing her game of packing all my shit up and out the door
for her amusement just to have her beg me to come back. She said I don't care, if you don't
leave I will have you taken out. I said go ahead, call the police then. She said fine and started
dialing the phone. She walked off toward the kitchen as she quietly talked to whoever she had
called and in disbelief I asked her what was the problem. She put her hand up to my face so I
sat and listened to her talk on the phone. After she had given all her information I stood at the
kitchen sink and when there was a break in the conversation I asked her what I did wrong and
why she was calling the cops. She started to go on about how no one should be treated this
badly so I looked around, and shook my head. I could hear the kids moving around upstairs but
they heard the whole thing. Heather sat in the livingroom on the couch texting on her phone
with one hand and held the cordless phone to her ear with the other hand. I politely gestured
to get her attention and whispered Hey, mind if I make a quick phone call? Her eyes slowly
looked up at me and she almost cracked a smile. She walked off room to room making sure I
was not to hear her conversation. knowing I was being thrown under the bus, I walked to the
kitchen sink and said hey there's Chris, glad to see he's doing alright. Heather then scurried to
the door and put on her shoes. I told her I was kidding, he's not out there. She still went out the
door so I went out the door and she went to the entrance of the garage and stuck her head in. I
told her that I said I was kidding and she stormed off back into the house. I stuck my head in the
garage door but when I heard her open the door to the house I realized I better get back before
she locked me out again. Back in the house, it looks like she was on hold and I shook my head
and said you really must want him to stay. I turned my back to her, still not knowing if she was
really on the phone with the police or not. I opened the front door sliding window and went out
to the garage carefully listening to hear if she was going to lock me out again. I stepped into the
garage making sure nothing was stored there without my knowledge. I noticed on the bed
there was Heather's make up pouch and half a dozen bright yellow little square plastic baggies.
I flipped the yellow ones over and they had white substance in them and I bet my first born that
it was a controlled one. I exited out of the garage and shut the door behind me. I saw that the
window was still open on the front door, went to open the door and as if I were to lean my
shoulder into the door and open it, the knob turned freely and my shoulder opened the door. I
stated now that's how it should go. I shut the door behind me, closed the window, entered the
kitchen, looked at the couch and Heather was sitting down, Brady was sitting on her lap and
Tyler was standing beside her braced on her shoulder. I had to look down towards the
bathroom hallway because I thought there might be a walmart family photographer telling
them to bunch in a little more. I grabbed my laptop, which is my only form of communication
and I set it on the stove and turned it on to boot up. So then I walked back to the window and
glanced back at them and said why the long faces? And then I said what was that noise? Brady
and Tyler stepped away from her, she sat up and looked out the front window and then looked
at me and I said with a straight concerned face that Chris is here in the back for reals this time.
She herded her boys upstairs and told them "quickly". I looked around for the noise, Heather
was opening the front door and I saw Constable Freamo stepping up the steps and Heather let
him in with Const. McEachern behind. Freamo looked at me and walked towards me and said
"so what's going on here?" I won't lie, I choked on my own words and didn't know what to say. I
fumbled with my words out telling him that Heather called, I looked over at Heather and she
was hunched over like she needed instant consoling. Her and McEachern when down the
hallway toward the bedroom and Freamo started on me, "what's going on here?" I told him I'm
just waiting for my laptop to boot up so I can have a line of communication because she called
you guys from the land line and had her other phone on her and I have nothing except the
laptop. He asked me if there were any kids here. Instantly Heather and Const. McEachern
popped out of the hallway saying no, there were no kids here. I shook my head, I looked at
Freamo and he looked at McEachern, she gave him some kind of hand signal and he said "what
happened over here?" I said "not much". He said "It doesn't look like nothing" . He asked me to
grab a coat and come out side where he got me in the back of police car. told me im going to
the station and being charged with mischief and two counts of failing to abide by condition. i
told him that the kids are home that she lied and that i seen narcotics on the bed with her and
narcotics in the garage he did not seem like he cared. he said they are dealing with me right
now. he asked if i need anything else i told him my court papers we i was taken to peace river
tdetachment and i asked if they were opposing my release they gave no answer and lodge me
into cells i awoke 4-5 hours later asked guard if i missed supper so she got me some food and i
asked for an officer so i can call a lawyer. freamo showed back up i asked again how long till bail
hearing and if they were opposed my release he gave me some bullshit about the rules have
changed and there not going to be a bail hearing and left it at that i made it a point to ask him
when i was arrested when i was lodged into cells and the current time in which i was allowed to
speak to counsel i called legal aid line and was lodged back into cells 3- 4 hours later he came
and got me to do fingerprints and write a promise to appear so i was released with condition of
not to return to my residence and not to contact complaintant. i arranged a ride to get some
clothes etc. based on cst macleods advice of using a mutual friend instead of member
attending. upon reciving my property damaged and confrontation where she came out of
house to engage me in conversation i bailed on the grounds to keep no contact with
comlaintant

recieved several messages from her since one detailing that she would be throwing ll my things
in a dumpster behind canadian tire upon checking canadian tire dumpster i did find allot of my
property in the dumpster and destroyed ie 50" lg tv 10'000lbs winch various tools and
appliances parts of my truck. rcmp refuse to charge her with anything telling me it is all civil
matter.