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La Revue Baptiste de Théologie
Volume 6, Number 2 Autumn, 1996
ARTICLES
KINGDOM THROUGH COVENANT: THE STRUCTURE AND
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JOHN CHRYSOSTOM’S THEOLOGY OF MARRIAGE
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JOHN CHRYSOSTOM’S THEOLOGY OF
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
Kelvin F, Mutter
Marital relations, family life, and human sexuality, especially the ques-
tion of celibacy, are among the issues frequently addressed in the Christian
literature of the late fourth and early fifth centuries. In the Western Church
the best known of these works is Augustine’s treatise On the Good of
Marriage (401 A.D.). This treatise js a theological response to an ongoing
discussion on marriage which began with Jovinian who asserted that bap-
tism is what really sanctifies. Thus there was no real difference in sanctity
between married and celibate Christians!. While Jovinian’s views on mar-
riage were popular among the people, they were not well received by those
who favoured asceticism. Two of his prominent opponents were Jerome and
Ambrose with the result that he was censured by local synods held at Milan
and Rome. Even Pelagius, in his Letter to the Matron Celantia, seeks to dis-
tance his views of marital continence from the views of Jovinian?.
The writings of the Eastern Church reveal that a similar dialogue took
place there as well, As in the West, the influence of ascetic movements and
the issue of sanctity lay at the heart of much of the discussion. The ascetic
position tended to espouse a form of dualism in which matters of the soul
were elevated and matters of the. body were neglected, and at times deni-
grated. For the ascetics issues of sexuality appear to have posed the greatest
threat to spiritual development. This is the context in which John
Chrysostom penned his writings on marriage and family.
John Chrysostom (4.407) was raised, along with his sister, by his wid-
owed mother. As a young man, he sat under Meletius the Confessor, Bishop
of Antioch, studied theology and became a “reader” in the church. While he
was still living in his mother’s house he became attracted to asceticism and
began to pursue the mortification of the flesh. Later he moved to the moun-
tains to live as a hermit for four years. When his body could no longer
endure the rigours of the ascetic life Chrysostom returned to the city where
he began his ministry. His writings reveal that issues pertaining to marriage,
family and human sexuality were a concern throughout his ministry.
——_——
1 David Hunter, trans. and ed., Marriage in the Early Church (Minneapolis:
Fortress, 1992), 20.
2 Pelagius, Letter to the Matron Celantia in Hunter, trans. and ed., Marriage
in the Early Church, 99.
3 E.g. Gregory of Nyssa, On Virginity; John Chrysostom On Virginity,
Against Remarriage and Letter to a Young Widow.
22Chrysostom’s Antiochene material on this topic (380-397) consists of two
letters to his friend Theodore’, a variety of sermons? and four treatises®. Two
important documents on the subject of celibacy date from the period of
Chrysostom’s episcopate in Constantinople (397-404). These treatises
reflect the concerns of a bishop over the behavior of priests and consecrated
virgins (subintroductae). These pastoral letters, Adversus eos qui apud se
habent virgines subintroductas and Quod regulares feminae viris cohabitare
non debeant,’ insisted that men and women consecrated as virgins (celi-
bates) for ministry should live in segregated housing and not under the same
roof, as had been the habit of some. In addition to these items Catherine
Roth suggests that Homily X from Chrysostom’s sermons on Colossians
(3:18-25) and a series of three sermons on marriage and divorce may also
date from this period’. The material from the third period of Chrysostom’s
ministry, the period of exile (404-407), consists mainly of letters and reveals
aman who enjoyed good, open and warm relationships with women,
4 Ad Theodorum Lapswm in Patrologia Graeca, 47:277-316. English trans-
lation by W. R. W. Stephens, A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene
Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1899), 9:87-116.
5 This sermonic material includes Chrysostom’s Homilies on: Genesis (Homily
XV); Psalm 44 and Psalm 113; Matthew (Homily XVII) (Homily LXI); John
(Homily LX; 1 Corinthians (Homilies XV, XVI; XIX; XXXVII); 2
Corinthians (Homily XI); Ephesians (Homily XX, XX1); Colossians (Homily
XID; 1 Timothy (Homily VII-XV); and Titus (Homily IV).
6 Letter to a Young Widow [trans. W-R.W. Stephens in A Select Library of the
Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons,
1899), 9:119-128]; Against Remarriage, trans. Sally Reiger Shore in John
Chrysostom: On. Virginity, Against Remarriage (New York & Toronto:
Edwin Mellen Press, 1983), 129-145; On Virginity, trans. Sally Reiger Shore
in John Chrysostom: On Virginity, Against Remarriage, p.1-128; Address
On Vainglory and the Right Way for Parents to bring up their children in
William Laistner, Christianity and Pagan Culture in the Late Roman Empire
(Ithaca, New York: Cornell University Press, 1951).
7 English translations of these texts can be found in Elizabeth Clark, Jerome,
Chrysostom, and Friends: Essays and Translations (New York & Toronto:
Edwin Mellen Press, 1979), 158-248.
8 In Catherine P. Roth and David Anderson, trans., St. John Chrysostom: On
Marriage and Family Life (Crestwood, New York: St. Vladimir’s Seminary
Press, 1986) 14.
9 Johannes Quasten (Patrology, UI, 469) notes 236 letters dating from
Chrysostom’s exile. Seventeen of these were written to the deaconess
Olympias. See also Patrologia Graeca, 52:549-623 and 4 letters translated
by Stephens in A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers
9:287-303.
231, SINGLENESS
Chrysostom’s views on the “single life” differ from those of both his cul-
ture and the heretical movements of his day. In response to the heretics who
sought to denigrate marriage and exalt virginity, Chrysostom held that one
must uphold the honor of both states!°. For him the value of the state of vir-
ginity was not based in the fact that it was a renunciation of something that
was “base.” Virginity, rather, was only something of value or honor when it
was understood as the setting aside of one “high calling” in order to pursue
another. Thus, in the writings of John Chrysostom, the single life versus the
married life is not a matter of good versus evil but rather the choice of one
of two honorable states.
The implications of this line of reasoning are profound. First, it is clear
Chrysostom rejected the heretical notion that the ascetic life, and virginity in
particular, was a means for achieving salvation. Instead he held that one who
is physically a virgin and yet consumed by lust and shameful thoughts might
endanger their soul by remaining single!!! Chrysostom also considered that
a lack of self-control among those who profess virginity to be worse than
adultery'?. For this reason he advised those who would profess virginity to
search their hearts and be certain of their decision. In his opinion it was bet-
ter for a person to recognize that they could not control their sexual passions
and seek marriage rather than be driven by desire!?.
If, in Chrysostom’s mind, marriage and singleness were both honorable
states, then one must ask, “How is it that he would advocate virginity as the
better option?” The answer to this question is revealed in his understanding
of the apostle Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 7:25-29 where he writes:
Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of thé Lord:
yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the
Lord to be faithful. I suppose therefore that this is good for the
present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be. Art thou
bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from
a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not
sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless
such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. But this I
say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that
have wives be as though they had none” (KJV).
The two dimensions of this passage which Chrysostom focused on are:
(1) the existential realities of marriage; and, (2) the implications of the
believer's eschatological expectations.
'0 On Virginity VIU-X.
1! On Virginity XXVI, XXXVI, XXXIX and LXXVI.
'2 Against Remarriage 3,
13 On Virginity XIX, XXV.
241. The Existential Realities of Marriage
Chrysostom had a realistic view of marriage. He clearly understood that
marital life was not total bliss. Compared to the painful realities of some
marriages he believed that many Christians would be better off if they
remained single. Thus part of his argument in the treatise On Virginity, as
well as in Against Remarriage, is built upon a discussion of the ‘troubles in
the flesh” which are part of the life of the married.
In On Virginity XXVIII Chrysostom discusses Paul’s command to couples
that they ‘not deprive one another” (1 Cor 7:5). His point is a simple one.
Since marriage is a hedge against licentiousness and harlotry, neither the
man nor the woman are in a position to control their own bodies but must
submit themselves to the other. Indeed, the wife who is continent contrary to
the wish of her husband bears the greater responsibility should he commit
adultery'4, On this point Chrysostom is in agreement with Augustine who
chastised Ecdicia for forcing her husband to make a vow of continence he
could not keep!>.
In addition to the ways in which marital obligations can prevent men and
women from pursuing a more ascetic lifestyle, Chrysostom also notes how
finances!®, jealousy'7, the pain of childbirth'8, and the administration of the
household!®, all contribute to the difficulties of married life. It is for these
reasons he advocates the simplicity of the celibate lifestyle.
When Chrysostom argues against second marriages three matters concern
him greatly. On the one hand he questions the integrity of the beréaved who
seem able to turn their backs upon their previous relationship as if the loss
were nothing”®. He also questions the wisdom of re-entering a state of being
which one knows from experience can be difficult?!. Finally, he expresses a
practical concern over the state of hostility and strife which can develop
because of jealousy between the new wife and the old wife’s children??.
"4 On Virginity XLVIL. See also Homilies On The Epistles of Paul to The
Corinthians: Homily XIX in A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene
Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1914), vol. 12.
'5 See Augustine, Epistle 262 as cited in Elizabeth Clark, “Theory and
Practice in Late Ancient Asceticism”, Journal of Feminist Studies in
Religion, 5 (Fall 1989), 44-46.
'© On Virginity LI, LIU-LV.
7 On Virginity LIL
18 On Virginity LXV.
'9 On Virginity LXVIL
20 On Virginity XXXVIL
2) Against Remarriage.
® On Virginity XXXVI.
25Nevertheless, Chrysostom does allow the remarriage of a widow as a
safeguard to the sin of adultery5.
For Chrysostom chastity was not simply an ascetic practice. Rather, it
formed the basis for a distinctly Christian counter-culture in which celibate
virgins and widows could be liberated from the cares and concerns of this
world. Liberated from the yoke and obligations of marriage the celibate
believer was free to dedicate their energies to the household of faith, the
bride of Christ. In elevating virginity in this way Chrysostom provided a
mechanism whereby both men and women, but especially women, could
step beyond the limiting constraints which their culture placed upon them.
Thus Peter Brown rightly considers Chrysostom’s views on virginity to be a
direct challenge to the morality of the city?#.
2. The Believer’s Eschatological Expectations
Chrysostom did not simply focus on the present but also looked to the
day when God would consummate the Kingdom of Christ. In that kingdom
there would be no need for marriage because the church itself would be wed
to the true bridegroom, Christ5. Just as he believed that Adam and Eve lived
as virgins prior to their fall from grace”6 so he also believed that in the
restoration all those who are Christ’s will live as virgins.
Chrysostom, like many in the early church, appears to have approached
his eschatology proleptically. That is to say, the combination of the passage
of time and the “distresses” of his own day convinced him that the eschato-
logical coming of Christ was imminent. By viewing life in this manner it
was not difficult to conceive that the boundary between the time of expecta-
tion and the time of realization was neither firm nor impermeable. Thus
Chrysostom queries: “What good is marriage for those not likely to gain
from it?"27 He therefore exhorts his people to set aside the cares of this
world and to devote themselves to the concerns of the Bridegroom.
Viewed in this light virginity, or celibacy, was not an act which secured
salvation but rather an act whereby one demonstrated their desire to make
the things of Christ preéminent in their lives. The vow of chastity was to the
order of virgins what the marriage vow was to the married, namely, an act
of binding in which the one making the vow took up a yoke of commitment
toward the other. The difference, however, was that the commitment was
made to Christ. This commitment was made in the belief of the imminent
parousia and the believer’s obligation to be found faithful to his/her Lord.
23 Homilies on Timothy: Homily XV in A Select Library of the Nicene and
Post-Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1914), vol.13.
24 The Body and Society (New York: Columbia University Press, 1988), 306.
25 On Virginity LXXIIL.
26 On Virginity XV.
27 On Virginity LXXIL3.
262. MARRIAGE
The high value which Chrysostom placed on the practice of virginity
should not be perceived as a slight against marriage. As noted above, his
treatise On Virginity is built upon a foundation which seeks to uphold the
value and sanctity of marriage. Even his comments regarding the pitfalls of
marriage reveal he was a pastor who was moved by the circumstances in
which his people had to live. Not only was he aware of the more difficult
aspects of marriage, he sought to apply the teaching of the Scriptures so as
to encourage the development of truly Christian households.
His fundamental beginning point in this regard was that marriage is
good?8, By this he meant that it is a legitimate way of life approved by God.
In taking this view he immediately set himself against the ascetic heresies of
his day which rejected all forms of concupiscence, including legitimate mar-
ital sex?®, This, however, does not mean that Chrysostom had bought into his
culture’s views on sexuality and marriage. The fact that he also believed in
the value of virginity clearly demonstrates that he had not. Even more sig-
nificantly, however, is the function or purpose which he attributes to mar-
riage. Where society declared that marriage was for the begetting and rear-
ing of children Chrysostom declared that it was for the moderation of life?®.
By this he intended that marriage was the context in which a man and a
woman could give expression to their sexual urges without stooping to the
Jewdness and the immorality of the surrounding culture. Because marriage
was to act as a hedge guarding the believer from immorality, those who vio-
lated the boundaries of that hedge injured themselves, their spouse, and
whomever else was involved?!
Chrysostom’s views stand in contrast to other voices his congregation
would have heard. Where these voices advocated public eroticism and
viewed the home merely as a place for breeding children, Chrysostom
declared that with or without children the only legitimate place to practice
one’s sexuality was within marriage. In seeking to remove eroticism from
the marketplace, and by encouraging marriage partners to share their bodies
with each other, Chrysostom upheld the value of marital concupiscence.
Furthermore, by upholding the value of marital concupiscence and decrying
28 On Virginity IX. See also Homilies on Ephesians: Homily 20 in A Select
Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles
Scribrier’s Sons, 1914), vol. 13; Homilies on Colossians: Homily XII in ibid.,
vol.13.
29 Homilies on Timothy: Homily XII.
30 Homilies on Colossians: Homily XII. See also Homilies on the Gospel of
Saint Matthew: Homily XVI in A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-
Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1914), vol.10.
31 Homilies on the Gospel of Saint Matthew. Homily XVII.
27the lasciviousness of his day he established that the sexual act was hon-
ourable within marriage and dishonourable outside of it.
This view becomes clearer when we consider Chrysostom’s views on the
relationship between Adam and Eve. Both in On Virginity and Homily XV on
the book of Genesis Chrysostom stated his belief that the act of concupis-
cence did not occur until after Adam’s fall from grace”, In Chrysostom’s
thinking Adam and Eve’s prelapsarian relationship was not marriage as we
now know it but rather a joining of two lives to do the work of God. Thus,
although Adam and Eve each possessed their sexual characteristics, and the
capacity to engage in sexual activity, they did not exercise that capacity™. It
is only after the Fall, and because of the effect and curse of sin, that the
human condition was been reduced to the level of physical appetites and
pleasures. Marriage as we know it is therefore God’s gift of grace for the
present age.
Once again Chrysostom differs from the heretical notions of his day. The
heretics affirmed that the sexual act itsell was base and sinful. Chrysostom
affirmed that the very act of creation made concupiscence possible. Adam
and Eve’s previously unrealized sexual identity. was a gift from God and
therefore good. Even the belief that concupiscence did not enter human
experience until after the Fall did not in itself make the sexual act sinful.
Instead it recognizes that because of the fall from grace and death entering
the human condition there existed no other means to secure human existence
except by the begetting of children. In this way the latent, and as yet unused,
capacities with which God had endowed Adam and Eve were rendered
essential. Not even the existence of sexual perversions negates the value of
that which is unperverted neither do they disqualify marital concupiscence.
Rather these things demonstrate the extent to which human passions have
been awakened and, at limes, perverted by sin. Perversions, therefore,
expose the wisdom, sanctity and purity of intimate marital relations.
3. FAMILY LIFE
Chrysostom’s views on marriage and family are not confined to discussions
of celibacy, human sexuality, and the relative value of marriage. As a pastor
he was concerned with the quality of relationship which within the home.
1. Husbands and Wives
Chrysostom’s views on family life contain elements which are both hier-
ian. For example, in a sermon on Genesis 2:20-22
archical and egalitai
32 On Genesis: Homily XV.14 in Robert C. Hill, trans., Saint John
Chrysostom, Homilies on Genesis: 1-17 (Washington: Catholic University
of America, 1986).
33 On Genesis: Homily XV.13.
28Chrysostom uses a line of reasoning which appears to place the woman ina
secondary position to that of man. Yet, within this sermon Chrysostom
affirms that although Eve derived her existence from Adam she stood equal
to him, bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh. As his equal she was to be
his helpmate™, Interestingly, the pinnacle of the equality between men and
women is revealed in the need for co-operation and interdependence in the
begetling of children!35
With respect to the roles of men and women and their relations one to
another we find that Chrysostom sometimes appears to intertwine his
Christian views with (traditional clements. For example, when addressing
women concerning their responsibility to their husbands he urges the wife to
be modest, to be circumspect in her behaviour, and to attend to the things of
her own household**, For many twentieth-century readers, the concept of
marital submission is one of the more difficult aspects of Chrysostom’s the-
ology of marriage. His comments on 1 Corinthians [4:34 suggest that he
may have accepted the cultural view that women were intellectually inferi
or to men?7. For this reason he submits the woman to the man and requires
that she be silent in the church. This apparently low opinion is somewhat
moderated, however, by other remarks which not only make older women
the instructors of younger women®S, but also the counselors of their own
husbands*?.
The balanced nature of Chrysostom’s views are evident in his comments
on Ephesians 5:22-33, where it is apparent that he qualifies the injunction to
wives in three significant ways. First, he sets the command in the context of
34 While Chrysostom’s sermons on Genesis tend to suggest that he held to
the view that the male-female hierarchy was in some way implicit in the
method of Eve’s creation, nevertheless his comment on | Timothy 2:14 sug-
gests a view in which Adam and Eve were equals -and not one subordinate
to the other. See Homilies on Timothy: Homily 1X.
35 On Genesis, Homily XV.
36 Homilies on the Gospel of John: Homily LXI.2,3 in A Select Library of the
Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons,
1914), vol.14, See also Homilies on Timothy: Homily VIII, where
Chrysostom calls into question the attitude being conveyed by women who
adorn their bodies with the .finest clothing and hair styles. According to
Chrysostom such immodest behaviour betrays the soul and raises questions
about the woman’s moral and spiritual condition.
37 Homilies On The Epistles of Paul to The Corinthians: Homily XXXVI.
Similar comments are made in Homilies on Timothy: 1 Timothy, Homily IX,
where he speaks of women as being talkative, weak, and fickle.
38 Homilies On Titus: Homily IV in A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-
Nicene Fathers (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1914), vol.13
39 Homilies on the Gospel of John: Homily LX1.2.
29the gospel experience of salvation in which there is no distinction made
between male and female. In this way submission is separated from any
notion that men may be spiritually superior4®. Second, he places his com-
ments within the context of the familial system by connecting a harmonious
husband-wife relationship with children who are well brought up*!. By this
we may understand Chrysostom in at least two ways. It is possible that he
intended to uphold the Graeco-Roman pattern of the paterfamilia. It is also
possible he wished to affirm that when there is a peaceful relationship
between the husband and wife, the children will be better behaved. Given
the manner in which he defines the role of the husband, it is my belief
that Chrysostom’s view was closer to the second position than it was to the
first. 7
A third way in which his instructions to the wife are qualified can be seen
in his instructions to the husband4?. Chrysostom points out that the husband
is not the absolute authority in the house, but rather an underling who is
responsible to one who is greater, namely Christ. For this reason the husband
is told to love his wife sacrificially according to the pattern of Christ’s sac-
tificial love for the Church. This suggests that no sacrifice is too great for
the husband to make for his wife. In this way the wife is not an exalted slave.
Rather she is made a true equal to her husband. Although she has been com-
manded to submit to him, he has also been commanded to look out for her
needs and welfare — even if it costs him his own freedom.
Finally, Chrysostom’s comments marital relations demontrate sensitivity
to the issue of spouse abuse when he writes “What kind of marriage can
there be when the wife is afraid of her husband? What sort of satisfaction
could a husband have, if he lives with his wife as if she were a slave, and not
with a woman by her own free will? Suffer anything for her sake, but never
disgrace her, for Christ never did this with the Church.” Later in the same
sermon he addresses the issue of abuse again when he states: ‘he (i.e. hus-
band) a never exercise his authority by insulting and abusing her (i.e. his
wife).”44
2. Parents and Children
As in the case of marriage, Chrysostom’s views are very balanced.
Parents, and especially the father, were responsible to make sure that their
40 Homilies on Ephesians: Homily XX (on verses 22-24).
41 Ibid.
42 Ibid, (on verses 23-31).
43 Homily 20 on Ephesians 5:22-23 in Roth and Anderson, trans., John
Chrysostom: On Marriage and Family Life, p.47.
44 Thid. p.60.
30children lived a disciplined life*5. Daughters, as well as sons, bear the
scrutiny of Chrysostom’s gaze. Thus we find that parents are enjoined to
take care of the way in which their children develop*®. This discipline, how-
ever, was not to be cold and unmerciful. It was not to be such an imposition
upon the child that they would be frustrated and rebel. Rather it was to be
loving, gentle and encouraging. The parent who failed in this regard only
had themselves to blame if their child became provoked or discouraged*”. In
contrast to the rest of society, the goal of the Christian parent is not the pro-
duction of “good citizens” who will ensure the future of the city. Instead, the
Christian’s loyalties are to another kingdom. For this reason the goal of
Christian parenthood is not simply the raising of healthy well-adjusted chil-
dren but leading them to faith in Jesus Christ*8,
As for the children, they, are called upon to honour their parents‘.
Chrysostom portrays the act of honour as filial obedience coupled with
reverence for one’s parents. He concludes his discussion by saying, “If a
man have not this honour for parents he will never be gentle toward those
unconnected with him.”5° Elsewhere Chrysostom reveals that one way in
which this honour and devotion can be expressed is by caring for the wid-
ows within the family. Thus he admonishes the church, ‘It is not fitting that
believing women should be maintained by unbelievers.”5!
3. Separation, Divorce and Remarriage
Chrysostom allows that separation and divorce were provisions in the old
covenant®2, Nevertheless, following Matthew 5:31-32 he considers these to
be concessions to sin and not acceptable. Indeed the only point on which he
allows for the possibility of divorce is when one party has engaged in adul-
terous activity>3.. For this reason he affirms the instruction of the apostle
45 Chrysostom considered that what was generally true for the whole church
was particularly true for those who weré church leaders (cf. 1 Timothy,
Homily X). Here we find that Chrysostom was concerned that the behaviour
of these children would be a reflection of the leadership qualities of those in
authority, not to mention the source of potential scandal.
46 Regarding daughters, see Homilies on Colossians: Homily X; Homilies on
Timothy: Homily X. Regarding sons, see Homilies on Ephesians: Homily
XXI.
47 Homilies on Ephesians: Homily XXI; Homilies on Colossians: Homily X.
48 Homilies on Ephesians: Homily XXI.
49 Homilies on Ephesians: Homily XXI; Homilies on Colossians: Homily X.
50 Homilies on Ephesians: Homily XXI.
51 Homilies on Timothy: Homilies XIV-XV
52 Homilies on the Gospel of Matthew: Homily XVIL4 and LXII.2.
33 Ibid.
31Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 where Paul states that Christians should not separate
from their spouses. Where there has been a separation, he again agrees with
Paul by instructing them to seek reconciliation™4.
The one exception which he makes to this rule occurs in his instructions
regarding the marriages of Christians with unbelievers. When compared to
the treatment given to other verses, these five verses (1 Cor 7:12-16) and
their meaning for Christians, are given significant attention. This treatment
suggests that this was a malter of concern to his congregation. In this case
Chrysostom upholds the apostolic command as the normative guide and
concedes that, i! the unbelieving spouse seeks the dissolution of the mar-
riage, separation is acceptable*. On the basis of Chrysostom’s writings on
virginity, one might expect that he would discourage the remarriage of
divorced persons as being unwise. In fact, he goes further than that and
builds on his understanding of Matthew 5:31-32. In his view, these second
marriages are nothing less than adulterous unions®,
CONCLUSION
Chrysostom’s theology of marriage and family is demonstrably different
from that of the religious and social milieu in which he and his congregation
lived. At points his comments readily identify the ways in which he dis-
agreed with the heresies and/or practices of his day. A contextual reading of
his writings on this subject reveals an intentional attempt to construct a dis-
tinctly Christian view on these matters.
In summary, there are at least four points at which we can discern his dis-
tinctive “Christian vision.”
1) He defined a distinctly orthodox view of the celibate lifestyle by which
he was able to uphold the value of both celibacy and marriage.
2) He removed concupiscence from the realm of the “base things” and
made it an act of honour within marriage.
3) Chrysostom’s views on both virginity and marriage provided women
with a greater sense of dignity than the culture afforded them. The order of
the consecrated virgin provided these women with freedom from the “pains”
of marriage. While within marriage, the behaviour of the truly Christian hus-
band exalted the wife as an equal and one worthy of the same (or greater)
respect as thal which he himself received.
4) Chrysostom’s views on marriage and family shifted the role of the
family from that of preparing new citizens for the service of the city to the
Christian discipleship of all who are within the household.
Kelvin Mutter teaches part-time at Heritage Baptist College and works as a
Marriage and Family Therapist in Private Practice. He has both an M.T.S.
and an M.Th. in Pastoral Counselling from Wilfrid Laurier University.
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