Authors Testimonials
BASED ON THE ORIGINAL WORK OF
Being in Betrayal & Beyond was a
godsend. I liked how, at the beginning
of the material, it’s validating and
focused on self-care while I was
experiencing such betrayal, anger,
trauma, and sadness. Knowing you
DIANE ROBERTS
are with other women who have been
through what you have been through
NEW AND UPDATED VERSION BY is an amazing journey, and so full of
encouragement and life. We need to do
these things in community. A PARTNER-SENSITIVE
APPROACH TO HEALING FROM
BETRAYAL TRAUMA
I came into this group broken and
wanting to find healing from the pain of
HEATHER KOLB ASHLEY JAMESON my current and previous marriage. I had
tried on my own and wasn’t getting any
better. I joined the Betrayal & Beyond
group not knowing what to expect.
This group has helped me progress
WHY YOU NEED THE my healing from betrayal and I have
GROUP EXPERIENCE: found a deeper relationship with God
and a new perspective of myself. Pure
The pain and trauma created through Desire has been a blessing to me, my
sexual betrayal is devastating; but
marriage, and my family.”
healing is possible! Being able
to process your experiences
in a safe, grace-f illed The Betrayal & Beyond workbook and
place—and working at a journal is so helpful. I have been praying
pace that encourages for God to heal my broken heart after
self-discovery—will an affair. He is answering my prayers
empower you to make through my group and the homework.
strides in your healing I finally understand what my husband
and equip you to make was dealing with and that it had
informed decisions for absolutely nothing to do with me. I am
your future. For more information about
enough in every way.
Betrayal & Beyond
Group Options
INSIDE
H OW B E T R AYA L &
B E T R AYA L & B EYO N D
B EYO N D H E L P S:
Chapter One: What Just Happened to Me?
Lesson 1: Why Do I Feel So Alone?
Through a weekly group experience with other LOCAL GROUPS
Lesson 2: Why It’s Not My Fault
women on this healing journey, Betrayal &
Lesson 3: What Do I Do Now? • Volunteer leader
Beyond will guide you in making sense of your Chapter Two: Why Do I Feel and Behave the Way I Do?
story, identifying the symptoms of trauma, Lesson 1: What is Trauma? • Free attendance
establishing safety, f inding your voice, and so Lesson 2: Trauma’s Influence in My Healing Journey
Lesson 3: God’s Grace Trumps Trauma ONLINE GROUPS
much more. Lesson 4: Loosening Trauma’s Hold
Chapter Three: What Does My Healing Journey • Certif ied leader
Look Like?
GROUP DETAILS Lesson 1: The Stages of Healing • Fee-based attendance
Lesson 2: Lifting the Mask to Heal the Wounds
• Weekly 2-hour meetings with a Lesson 3: Living Beyond Betrayal
conf idential group over 8-10 months Chapter Four: How Do I keep Myself Safe and Sane
While He Works His Recovery?
FIND A BETRAYAL &
• Daily work in the Betrayal & Beyond Lesson 1: Establishing Safety
Lesson 2: Establishing Healthy Boundaries BEYOND GROUP
Workbook and Journal
Lesson 3: My Safety Action Plan
• Group size of 4-7 women Lesson 4: Prioritizing Health and Wholeness
Chapter Five: Why Does He Do This?
Understanding the Nature of Compulsive Sexual
Betrayal &
GROUP OUTCOMES:
Behaviors
Lesson 1: Understanding Addiction and Recovery
Beyond Kit $69
• Gain a greater understanding of how Lesson 2: How Sexual Addiction Affects the Brain
betrayal trauma is impacting your mind, Lesson 3: How a Sex Addict’s Brain is Hijacked
Lesson 4: How Did He Get This Way? 99
body, and soul.
Chapter Six: What is the Role of Full Disclosure,
• Apply strategies to keep you safe and Intensives, and Counseling?
Lesson 1: Understanding Disclosure
WORKBOOK
emotionally healthy. Lesson 2: I Need Help Now Lessons include stories,
• Meditate on God’s Word, allowing Him to Lesson 3: How Will Working On My Own Healing
Scripture, assessments,
Help Me in the Long Run?
speak truth into your situation. Chapter Seven: What if He Doesn’t Choose and reflection questions.
Recovery or if I Can’t Move Forward?
• Share your story in a safe, grace-f illed
Lesson 1: Healing in Motion
space. Lesson 2: The Stages of Grief
JOURNAL
Lesson My Emotional Health and Healing
• Create a plan for your future that is Chapter Eight: What is Forgiveness and Includes proactive tools
informed, intentional, and healthy. Reconciliation? When Will I Be Able to Trust
and strategies aligned
Again?
Lesson 1: What is Forgiveness? with the Workbook
Lesson 2: Is Reconciliation Even Possible After lessons.
Betrayal?
Lesson 3: Rebuilding Trust
COMPANION VIDEO
Chapter Nine: God’s Promise of Redemption is
for Me, Even if I Can’t See it Now. A Vision for the Weekly videos to support and
WATCH BETRAYAL & Future.
BEYOND PROMO VIDEO encourage you throughout
Lesson 1: A Plan for My Future
Lesson 2: Moving Forward in Health your healing journey.
Lesson 3: Seeing God’s Redemption Through the Pain
