Loving and Caring Order
Each party is ORDERED to encourage and nurture the relationship between the child and
the other party, taking good faith measures to ensure visitation and refraining from doing
anything to undermine the relationship between the other party and the child. Each party is
ORDERED to do everything within his or her power to create in the child’s mind a loving and
caring feeling towards the other party. IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that each party is
permanently enjoined from speaking badly or in a disparaging fashion about the other party to
anyone in any way in the child’s presence. IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that each party is
permanently enjoined from discussing this case with the child, including but not limited to
interview in chambers, pleadings, discovery, strategy and/or the effect of any action taken by
either party. It is the intention of the Court that this provision be enforceable by contempt of
Court. A party who prevails on a motion to enforce this order shall be entitled to recover all
attorney’s fees and costs.
The Court further notes that each party has been admonished by the Court that their
failure to act in accordance with this specific order of the Court shall be punishable by any and
all remedies available for contempt of Court, including but not limited to, the imposition of a fine
up to Five Hundred Dollars ($500.00) and/or confinement in jail for up to six (6) months for each
violation thereof.
Each party is FURTHER ORDERED AND DECREED to notify the other party
immediately, verbally or in writing, of any and all events pertaining to the child, including but
not limited to:
1. any and all medical, dental, and psychological conditions of the child;
2. the identity, including name, address and telephone number, of any physician,
dentist or psychologist providing treatment to the children;
3. any and all medications, if any, prescribed for the child, including but not limited
to, the time the medication was last given to the child;
4. any matter relating to the child’s educational status, including school activities,
grades, homework, field trips, disciplinary slips, progress notes, teacher
conferences and the like;
5. any matter relating to the extra-curricular activities of the children, including but
not limited to, the times and places of such activities;
6. vacation plans which include the children, including the itinerary and location of
the child and a telephone number where the child may be reached, if the child is
to be absent from the resident of a parent for more than twenty-four consecutive
hours during any period of possession by parent; and
7. any and all other matters which affect or impact on the welfare of the children in
any matter, to include anything that may be as insignificant as a hang nail on the
child.
IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that each party shall refrain from allowing the child to
overhear a parent’s telephone calls with the other parent. Each party is ORDERED to place a
photograph of the other parent in the child’s bedroom at all times.
