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to rather be a salesman or an auctioneer? Would you rather passively attract potential partners
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I can assure you something. If you build a good product you will have a lot of bidders. Having a lot of bidders
means you will sell for a high price.
Similarly, Having choice in partners, means you will have very High standards now. You also respect your seed
so you won't stick it everywhere. You will choose very wisely and look right through the "representatives"
buyers send to woo you.
When you have very low supply of women, you will be more inclined to overlook RED Flags, blinded by your
lust.
Ever read long term retainers Post here saying: Do not pursue retention solely for attracting mates?
Because what you seek in a relationship, you actually find during long SR runs without anyone else. ALL
WITHIN YOU. That 24/7 bliss is too euphoric.
That Euphoria cannot be compared with anything else in the world. Its like being a child all over again. Even
more energy than a child. Have you ever noticed children who are not sexually developed are not depressed.
Its only AFTER the sexual development takes place do teenager start suffering through mental issues,
confidence issues etc. Fear of the world starts developing with sexual energy. Fear of rejection, Fear of not
being enough, fear of not being accepted. I am not saying sexual energy is corrupt. I am saying Lack of
Retention is Corrupt. It is a double edged sword. Release it and fall into despair with ever increasing hunger to
release more. Retain it and curb the lust, give rise to unparalleled insight.
A poster here said it the best: Never Fed Ever Satisfied, Ever Fed Never Satisfied.
When a woman does not want to be with you, you KNOW its her loss, not yours because your default single
mode is an immensely enjoyable state. You don't fear being alone, You embrace it. You don't yearn for more.
You are emotionally self sufficient. You start working on yourself even more. When you look at yourself in the
mirror with every grasp of that iron bar you fall in love with you. She sees that look in your eye through the
mirror she starts falling for you too. The version of you that is moving mountains one rock at a time.
You actually become and feel like the main character of a movie. You feel the plot armor. The favor of the
universe shifting towards you. When you feel it shifting, you look at the sky and thank them. They look back
and THANK YOU FOR YOUR PERSERVERANCE through coincidences and signs.
Being virtuous is value in itself. Sexual Transmutation furthers virtue. Transmutation is as important as
Retention itself. You cannot sit idle with balls full.
TL;DR: Do not look for relationship, look for competency and self reflection. Competency is Masculinity. Men
chase women, Women chase Value.
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Double-Call9398 • 3d ago •
beautifully written brother, such an empowering post.
thank you
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BringNewRevolution • 3d ago •
I've never done SR for female attraction though I will say that I've not been innocent of thinking about it
either. I think SR is a tool that helps you face your own shadow. Your deep traumas, anxiety, and
everything that keeps you in a negative state while appearing fine. Masturbation just removes your
attention from the real problem that the mind is aimless restless and without any direction. SR stops that
and urges you to do something about it.
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AubamaWho_1990 • 3d ago •
Great post bro, great way to start the new year reading this. Thank you for this it reminded me why I am
doing SR. Wishing you a happy and prosperous new year brother!
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BobcatAccomplished26 • 3d ago •
Wow. Feels like God brought me to this message right when i needed it. Been really in my feels about this
one woman I'm in love with. Prayed to God to not let this one break my heart cuz i honestly don't know iI
would be able to recover. I realized now I was putting all my happiness and self worth in her and putting
being in a relationship on a pedestal. I'm making a promise to focus on myself and my relationship with
God this year and whatever he wants to do with me and her its up to Him and trust that I have to be ok
and be able to get through whatever the outcome is.
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Michael_Uchiha6 • 6h ago •
God's will be done. Stay blessed my friend.
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Dziksoon • 3d ago •
This is a very good read, thank you
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Playful-Sample89 • 2d ago •
Bro on SR I make the funniest jokes, I feel giddy, excited and calm. Luck follows me, women follow me,
everything responds to my desire like I am a child being taken care of.
This post is beautiful. Let's retain this year guys
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hsinoMed OP • 2d ago •
I have on occasion said the most hilarious stuff to people. I was so amused by it that I kept a journal
of all my replies which I thought was witty. So I could read it later with objectivity and see if it is
placebo that makes me think the jokes are funny or they are actually funny. Turns out most are
amusingly funny and I have a hard time believing that I said it. I might post the list of replies here too.
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Right-Tumbleweed-491 • 3d ago •
Neo: What are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets?
Morpheus: No Neo. I’m trying to tell you that when you’re ready, you won’t have to.
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Suitable-Designer-54 • 3d ago •
You nailed it,very insightful post.Stay on the path kings 👑 .
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coldestwinterr3 • 3d ago •
Very well put! Thanks for the affirmation brother. Gonna start my new year right with a 24 hour fast.
Peace and blessings to you all.
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AliyaSpahic • 2d ago •
Be standalone happy & positive. You lose her, you lose everything. Put yourself first & protect your heart.
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main you give in to a pleasure impulse and make it a physical reality: You become depressed,
lustful, thirsty and depleted. The Pleasure is momentary but the pain persists almostCreateeternally.
Yeah, this has been very new to me lately. I feel like pleasure is not as attractive to me any more.
Sometimes I experience it, but I have developed a sense of something much greater than pleasure. And
yeah, highs from pleasure pretty much always lead to some form of lows or anger outbursts when the
pendulum swings back the other way. Having witnessed that enough times in myself, I don't really get
absorbed in pleasure the same way.
You need to work hard, send out a lot of applications. Go door to door and be a salesman. Tell people the
good qualities while hiding the vices of the product. If you don't put yourself out there actively you will
NOT get any sales. But you are desperate for sales. That loneliness perpetuates more lust. That lust
perpetuates more loneliness. It becomes an unending cycle.
That's what's unappealing to me about dating too. A lot of times dating advice will have us act like
someone we are not to present a certain image which we are told is "attractive". Whereas on SR and in
recovery in general, my goal is to come to know and begin to act as my True Self. So I don't want to lose
my authenticity to gain someone else's attraction or attention.
Similarly, Having choice in partners, means you will have very High standards now. You also respect your
seed so you won't stick it everywhere. You will choose very wisely and look right through the
"representatives" buyers send to woo you.
This is so true. Respecting my seed has really been a core thing in my recovery from sex addiction. I see
guys struggle with PM addiction relapses and I think it's because they are not in touch with valuing their
own seed. Whereas for me, valuing my own seed and finding satisfaction in SR really helps me put PM
addiction in the past and move forward.
When you have very low supply of women, you will be more inclined to overlook RED Flags, blinded by
your lust.
Loneliness and emotional needs can also lead to overlooking red flags and these are additional areas we
can address while doing SR and focusing on ourselves. I know for me in my current relationship I
overlooked red flags due to a combination of lust, loneliness and emotional needs as well as how good
the attention and validation felt. But I guess I look at it as living and learning. Mistakes can be seen as
opportunities to learn and grow.
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lleoleon • 2d ago •
This is the first post that I read in 2025 and its absolutely amazing! I really needed it.
I recently lost my 3 months streak to a one night stand and the thing that sucks the most was that I knew
we didn't have a future together. Just a hot woman that I couldn't resist. This year I ask god for more
power and strength so I can resist these superficial desires.
And the thing that you said about lust begets more lust is so true because the next day after my one
night stand, I texted an ex who is very toxic but again I missed the sex. Thank god she didn't wanna hook
up and I am not calling her again.
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LeadingViolinist3810 • 3d ago •
Beautiful post
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Sure-Prune6245 • 2d ago •
Retention is about mastery over oneself, not complete isolation from meaningful connections. You
correctly point out that many seek relationships to fill a void, which is why retention is such a
transformative path, it forces you to confront and conquer that emptiness. But it is also important to
recognize that the energy you cultivate on this journey is meant to be shared, whether with a partner, a
community, or in service to a higher purpose. Retention is not the rejection of relationships but the
redefinition of their purpose. It is about bringing your best self into any connection, not out of neediness
but out of abundance. Your 'plot armor' analogy is brilliant, embrace that energy not just for solitude but
for forging bonds that align with your growth and values. True masculinity is not just about attracting
value, it is about creating and sharing it.
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growordecay1 • 2d ago •
Good post. That being said I don't mind people doing this journey in part to attract their perfect partner.
But yeah, once you get there it won't solely make you happy.
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BrainPlasticity • 2d ago •
At what point in SR journey does that “Euphoria” get unlocked? All I feel even after 90 days of SR is the
feeling of constant sexual frustration, of course there are benefits but I’m still waiting for Euphoria or
Enlightenment.
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I think meditation is a must for everyone.
for me it took around 4 months of dopamine fast + SR. The more cheap dopamine I induced the more
time it took.
I had done a lot of damage to my brain.
I think exercising helped out a lot too.
I would exercise for 3-4 hours a day and 1.5 hours of stairmaster just to transmute everything
because I had unrelenting energy by the end of 4 months.
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QuantumGainz • 3d ago •
Facts
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Even-Cycle-611 • 3d ago •
Saving this post
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black_person_6t9 • 3d ago •
This was a nice and valuable read.
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Sweaty_Pangolin_5358 • 3d ago •
Bars!! Needed to hear this 🔥
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IllusionsOfExistence • 3d ago •
Well said my man, well said.
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Savings_Singer_8316 • 2d ago •
Beautiful post. Thank you!
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Thanks bro
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RWHousing • 2d ago •
Wonderfully written thank you
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bondmsuei • 2d ago •
Great post brother! I’m experimenting with SR the last few months and also tested the waters with a new
Relationship. She was wife material and wanted kids(which I want too) but also had red flags and I could
feel lust and pleasure responses override the red flags.
I do notice a profound shift when I do SR and just focus on myself. This was the post I needed to see to
start 2025 with focus on SR, myself, goals, meditations, fitness and my own journey.
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Puzzled-Box-2397 • 2d ago •
Great post
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Real_Thinkers • 2d ago •
Well said my brother ✊🏾
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rtstoic • 2d ago •
I feel the energy from this post. It's very inspiring, empowering, and liberating. Thank you brother 🙏
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Remote_War_313 • 1d ago •
Hey OP, really appreciate the read/reminder
droppin' nothing but facts ✊
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trust me bro finding a girl to touch my peepee is the true meaning of life and only true fulfillment
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BluTao16 • 3d ago •
Note .. God doesn't exist, never did and there is no proof that it can possibly exist..
So what does it mean when you claim ' god wants you to win, god is waiting for you'?..
I mean i am ready to learn and improve myself but when you put so much emphasis on sky daddy that is
man made fairy tales, then I question the validity of all what you wrote..
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Cute-Tailor-3135 • 3d ago •
and where is the proof that the gods dont exist?
spirituality has its own great benefits, do what suits you
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BluTao16 • 2d ago •
Do i need to prove there is no creature living on a planet millions of years away from us that looks
like us anatomically but has 10 legs, 20 noses?
How can anyone demand proof for something that never existed, never proven whatsoever,
clearly a man made fairy tale nonsense that abuses humanity via the religion cult?
If your spirituality consists of that same god, then i see it wrong cause spiritually is beyond these
religions, has not much to do with it
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hsinoMed OP • 3d ago •
If you are genuinely questioning the validity of my claims here, all the more reason to try it.
Pray or meditate for 30 days before bed. Commit to absolutely zero sins. the 7 deadly sins. No social
media, weed etc. Eat clean, vegan, one meal a day, exercise, cold shower. Hard mode SR with mental
celibacy. No edging.
Prove me wrong. Its hard to do. Road to Heaven feels like hell. Road to hell feels like heaven.
I will believe you if you come after 30 days of earnest effort and tell me God doesn't exist.
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Skip to main all good but this has nothing to do with god, there is no hell and heaven. Your wrong
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perception, as usual with most believers, is that being good, doing good is the property of religion
or god..
Take your cold shower, meditate, strive to become better, no weed, no edging , exercise...cant
you do any one of these without delusionally believing that there is a sky daddy living up there
who will ship you to hell if you do bad? But yeah he created you and he loves you! The stupidity of
the concept is unbearable...why i cant take someone seriously when he speaks god in his
reasoning.
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hsinoMed OP • 2d ago •
thats how it all started for me. I did all of it without any belief in God or a creator existing. I
was an atheist before Feb 2024.
It doesn't hurt to try. What do you have to lose?
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BluTao16 • 2d ago •
You were never an atheist! Lol..bro you were not. You just had doubts and took an easy
way out..that is to defy logic and believe that so you avoid punishment at death.' What you
have to lose ' is the indication..
Guess what? What do you have to lose if you refuse to believe the god? I am pretty sure
you would be terrified of the brainwashed consequences ( what if there is a god, so let me
guarantee a safe afterlife..lol) ..
Each passing year, the concept of a creator grew to be more delusional in me , and i
questioned a lot as a kid growing up..
I am at a point, 'what do you have to lose if you refuse to be brainwashed by this nonsense
' has more logical and meaning.
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hsinoMed OP • 2d ago •
Hey, its all good man. We don't have to agree.
don't believe in God only because of fear of judgement or hell. Yes I can agree with
that.
I was an atheist. Yes. People change brother.
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How to learn and start doing sexual transmutation for beginners?
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I was an addict and an alcoholic before I went there.
It changed me. I didn't have a job, no purpose, no friends, introvert, riddled
with bad habits, chronic releaser.
After 10 days, I had a complete personality change. My habits changed. People
from back then don't recognize me. Complete Overhaul. They have semen
retention as one of the 5 precepts to be followed.
Andrew Huberman and western neuroscientists are just rediscovering the link
between meditation and neurology right now.
The East Indians have had it nailed down for millenias. They don't have labels
and names for the parts of the brain but for the most part they know what
works. Meditation does.
The best way i can explain it is:
If someone shot you with an arrow. Most people will not remove the arrow until
they find out who shot it, why they shot it, did it have poison, what part of the
arrow is in my body. While it is still inside your body.
In reality, Anything other than removing that arrow is a distraction. Meditation
is removal of that arrow.
How neuroscientists put it: Meditation increases the volume of 'Anterior
MidCingulate Cortex' which is the seat of will power in the brain. The physical
center of the brain.
AmCC helps in battling cognitive decline due to aging.
it helps with overcoming resistance to do something. (Definition of Masculinity)
It makes effort feel good.
It is dubbed as the tenacious brain.
You can search more about AmCC and how it affects an individual.
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