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To the memory of my mother, Yusra M-tini, wbo was au active, independent, and
capable Muslim woman
AZIZAH AL-HIBRI
Department of Philosophy, Campus Box 1073, Washington University, St. Louis, MO 63130, U.S.A.
To write about ‘Women and Islam’ is to write about a host of issues only one of which is ‘the
Status of Women in Islam’. For Islam and Women have shared an enduring though often
turbulent relationship throughout the patriarchal upheavals of the past 1400 years in the
Arab World. To comprehend this relationship fully, we must comprehend first the
socio-political conditions affecting women in the Arab peninsula before the rise of Islam, and
the subsequent impact of Islam upon the lives of these women, as well as upon society as a
whole. We also need to comprehend the dynamics of rising Patriarchy in the Arab World
during the era of Jahiliyyah, and the ensuing power struggles among various patriarchal
factions. These struggles raged for many centuries destroying most notably the original
Khil&fah (Caliphate) system, the Umayyad State and the Abbaside State. It finally brought
about the decline of Arab civilization, paving the way for Western colonization.
Some argue that Islam is essentially a variation of patriarchal ideology. Others argue that
Islam is above any wordly ideology, including Patriarchy; for, as the word of God, it
transcends all ideology. Among these, we can distinguish two groups: those who believe that
Islam as it is today is fair and just to women, and those who believe that Islam as zyxwvutsrqponmlkjihgfed
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today is utterly patriarchal, but that true Islam is not. This latter group upholds the position
that Islam is not only different from Patriarchy, but that through an historical process of co-
optation, Patriarchy was able to devour Islam and quickly make it its own after the death of
Prophet Muhammad.’ I should like to lend some credence to this last view regardless of
whether one believes that Islam transcends all ideology. I shall not attempt to provide in this
article a detailed and profound study of the relation of Women to Islam, or of Patriarchy to
Islam, simply because such a study requires nothing less than rewriting Arab history from a
feminist perspective. However, I do intend to provide some preliminary data to that end. It is
best to approach this rich and complicated topic by focusing first on the relation between
Islam and Patriarchy.
i Many, though not all, traditionalist Muslims uphold the view that Islamic tradition as it stands is just and fair to
women. See, for example, The Islamic View of Women and the Family by Muhammad Abdul-Rauf, published by
Speller, New York (1977). For the view that Islam as it is practised is patriarchal, see As-Su@rwul Hijab by Naxirah
Rein Ed-Din of which a section is included in this collection.
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3 On this, and subsequent historical discussion, I have relied mainly on the unabridged version of Turikh ek’drab,
Vol. I by P. Hitti, translated by E. Jiji and edited by J. Jabbour, published by Dar el-Kash.sh%f, Beirut, Lebanon
(1949).
3 Mahmastii also suggests this possibility on pp. 47, 64.
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Among the famous women warriors were Naseebah al-Maziniah and Azdah Bint el-
Harith Bint Kanadah who fought with the prophet at the dawn of Islam, and Hind Bint
Rabi’ah who fought against him. Among the famous women poets are al-Khansa’, and Um-
Jandab. But the most famous business woman was Khadijah Bint Khuwailed, who gave the
prophet his first job, sending him to trade in Damascus when he was only twelve. (She later
proposed to him in marriage and he accepted.) And finally, among the wise women we know
of Suhur Bint Lukman and Jum’a Bint Habis al-Ayadi.4 Taken out of context, these facts
could lead to the erroneous conclusion that women were possessed of their rights in pre-
Islamic Jahiliyyah. So let me now provide additional information to complete this picture.
The northern Arabs of Jahiliyyah practised femal infanticide. It was prompted by one of
two reasons: poverty or fear of shame (Mahmasani; pp. 54-56). In the first case, some Arabs
like Sa’sa’a Bin Najiah and Zeid Ibn Amrou Bin Nufayl, used to offer to buy these female
infants from their fathers to save their lives. Sometimes, male infants were eliminated for this
reason also, although only after there were no daughters left.
In the second case, Arabs feared the raids of other Arab tribes during which their own
daughters may be captured. Upon capture, these women were treated as slaves, their prior
marriages became void, and the victors had sexual relations with them until they were freed
by their own tribe.
Three tribes famous for killing their daughters for fear of shame are : Tam-&~,Rabi’ah and
Kindah. The story goes (Mahmasani; pp. 54-56) that the daughter of Qais Bin ‘Assem, a
leader of the tribe of Tamim, was captured by the soldiers of Nu’man Bin al-Munther. Later,
when she had the opportunity to choose between her husband and captor, she chose the
latter, even though the choice meant the renunciation of her rank in her tribe and the
acceptance of slavery. Her father was so scandalized by her choice that he killed every female
infant born to him after that incident. A similar incident is said to have occurred in the tribe of
RabI’ah, leading to a similar response.
But these incidents of female infanticide were becoming less frequent by the dawn of Islam.
By then, supposedly, one out of eleven engagedin that practice. Again, one must not hasten to
see the decline of Patriarchy in this fact. On the contrary, by that time many Arab men had
discovered that selling their daughters for a large dowry was much more profitable than
burying them in the ground (Mahmasani; pp. 54-56). This in itself reveals a heightened sense
of economic pragmatism that was absent among the tribes in earlier times. It can be regarded
as one indicator of the socio-economic transformation that was sweeping the peninsula just
prior to Islam. Another indicator, is that by the time of the Umayyad Caliphate, only a few
decades after the death of the prophet, the economy had replaced barter with money
(Mahmasgni; p. 83). The shift from a use-value economy to an exchange-value economy was
complete.
Another fact about Jahiliyyah was that the man could marry up to 100 women. His wives
would become part of the inheritance upon his death.’ His son would then have the choice of
marrying them (except his mother), incarcerating them until they give up any property they
4 The subsequent discussion of famous women was enlightened by the work of Widad Sakak-ti a Syrian woman
who wrote Insdfel-Mar’&, Thabat Press, Damascus, Syria (1950) and by A’Alcim el-Nisa’ by Omar Rida Kah. haleh,
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RisUah Institute, Beirut, Lebanon (1977). Sakak-BG’swork is especiallvinterestina becauseit is written from a critical
point of view, c&ing fir the ret& of Arab women to the o&in~~active andindependent way of life.
5 This and subsequent facts came mainly from al-Afaghti, Said, Al-Islam wal Mar’ah, part I, Ch. 2, pp. 21-29.
Tarakki Press, Damascus, Syria. (1945).
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may have in exchange for freedom, or marrying them off to another male and pocketing the
dowry. (In the Arab peninsula the dowry was paid by the man to the family of his wife. The
price was often a number of camels or horses.)
Women were not allowed to inherit. They accumulated their scanty property from trading
such items as chickens, milk and eggs. Still, that scanty property was subject to the husband’s
control.
Finally, as Arab men discovered the value of live daughters, some of them forced them into
prostitution.
The totality of data so far is not only interesting, but also disconcerting. Relatively
independent women seem to have been living side by side with hopelessly enslaved ones.
What are we to make out of this evidence?
If we are willing to accept the reasonable assumption that the evidence presented earlier
indicates traces of a defunct matriarchal culture, then the history of the Arab peninsula could
be viewed as one of a dynamic struggle between the forces of Matriarchy and Patriarchy
extending over a period of hundreds of years. By the late Jahiliyyah, while Patriarchy was
supreme, it had still not wiped out some pockets of ‘matriarchal’ resistance and some ancient
practices. But that seemed to be only a matter of time. How did women lose their status in the
peninsula? Or how did Patriarchy take over?
One common answer to this question is the following6 : the life of the bedouin in the desert
was a rough one, surrounded with dangers and hardships. Women weakened by childbearing
and rearing could not fight. But since fighting was the most important task of the individual
in that society, it followed that women were held in lower esteem. This gave rise to Patriarchy.
Yet we have reason to believe that Matriarchy did exist in the ancient past. Given this
argument, Matriarchy could have existed only if the desert was milder, women stronger or
values different. Since we have no evidence for the first two possibilities, the third becomes
most likely. But to claim that values changed is not to explain the rise of Matriarchy. It is only
to describe one of its stages.
Perhaps a clue could be found by examining the surrounding cultures, many of which were
agricultural and originally worshipped female gods. These cultures were tied to the Arabs of
the desert by trading routes. As time passed several things happened: the surrounding
cultures became increasingly patriarchal under Byzantine and Persian influence. Also the
trading routes transmitted these changes to the Arabs of the desert whose rough style of life
was well suited for this change. At the same time, I propose, these same trading routes were
importing into the desert some rudimentary technology, especially the war related kind like
arrows and swords.
There is some evidence to indicate that Arab men adopted these tools and developed them
while limiting the women’s access to them. So that while women were busy weaving, herding
and rearing, men were developing and expanding the material basis for their later take-over
through the technologies of war and trade.’
6 Such an argument was implied by Mahmastii, p. 46. I have heard many present day Arabs articulate it.
’ For more on the role of technology in the rise of Patriarchy, and on the origins of both, see my ‘Capitalism is an
Advanced Stage of Patriarchy; But Socialism is Not Feminism’, in Women and Revolution, Lydia Sargent, ed., South
End Press, Boston (1981).
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Note here that something similar to what is going on today in Third World countries may
have gone on then. Patriarchal societies in possession of technological know-how may have
preferred to pass this knowledge to and trade with the Arab males of the northern part of the
peninsula, as opposed to the females. If this observation is correct then the founding of a
patriarchal base in the north of the Arab peninsula would have been extremely facilitated.
I began suspecting the role of technology in establishing Patriarchy in that region while I
was reading passages about the feats of Arab women warriors. First of all, they did not lack
courage or strength. The following story about Khawlah Bint al-Azwar al-Kindiyyah is
especially enlightening (Kah. haleh, 1977; Vol. 1, pp. 374-380). It is said that during a battle
against the Byzantines the leader of the Arabs, Khaled Ibn al-Walid, saw a tall imposing
knight draped in black fighting with unprecedented courage. The knight penetrated the lines
of the Byzantines with sword in hand. The rest of the Arab soldiers followed him thinking he
was their leader Khaled. After the battle was over, Khaled approached the knight asking him
to identify himself. After much reluctance the knight said ‘I am Khawlah al-Kindiyyah, sister
of Dirar Ibn al-Azwar, descendants of Arab kings. I only avoided you out of modesty for I am
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fight’ [emphasis added].
The story exhibits the fine calibre of Arab women warriors when given the opportunity. It
also indicates that other Arab women came with Khawlah for the fight. In fact, many of the
stories about Arab women repeatedly express their dissatisfaction in being excluded from
war, and emphasize the fact that they materialized at the battle field given the slightest excuse.
And why not, if a lost battle meant their enslavement?
But the most striking fact about Arab Women warriors, is that they tended, with high
regularity, to attack several enemies all at once with the posts of their tents. For example,
Asma’ Bint Yazid al-Ansariah killed nine Byzantine soldiers with the post of her tent, and
Urn Hakim Bint Harith al-Makhzoumieh killed seven. Even Khawlah Bint al-Azwar
resorted to the post of a tent (Kah . haleh, 1977; Vol. 1, pp. 68,281,380). The circumstances of
this incident are again enlightening.
In the battle of Sabhura, near Damascus, Khawlah was finally captured. She found herself
in captivity with other Arab women, so she stood among them and asked, ‘Do you accept the
Byzantines as your masters, are you willing for your children to be the slaves of the
Byzantines? Where is your famed courage and skill which has become the talk of the Arab
tribes as well as the cities? [emphasis added]. She was answered by Afra’ Bint Ghifar al-
Humayriah ‘You have said the truth . . . We are as courageous and as skilled as you des-
cribed. But in such cases a sword is quite useful, and we were taken by surprise, like sheep,
unarmed.’ Khawlah answered ‘Take the posts and stakes of your tents and fight with them.
Perhaps God will help us win and save us from shame among the Arabs.’ So each woman
took one post, they formed a circle clinging closely to each other. They fought and won their
freedom (Kahehaleh, 1977; Vol. 1, pp. 379-380).
Thus fighting with the post of a tent seems to indicate the lack of arms; and Arab women
often fought with tent posts. The men fought with swords. This in turn indicates some sort of
a power monopoly that was soon to have its impact on the whole Arab tribal life style.
Nevertheless, rarely in the annals of ancient Arab history have I seen stories attributing
physical or mental inferiority to women. In that I am in partial agreement with Fatima
Memissi who argues, in Bey ond the Veil, that the whole Islamic (and I add, Jahiliyyah)
system was ‘based on the assumption that the woman is a powerful and dangerous being’
which must be contained (Mernissi, 1975; p. xvi).
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In light of these facts the claim that the Arab woman lost her earlier status because of her
physical (or mental) inferiority seems unsubstantiated and false. It goes against the grain of
Arab culture and history.
The major feature of the new patriarchal order was the development of a new tribal power
structure totally based on patrilineage.
Within the family unit, the father became the uncontested and absolute ruler. The wives
and daughters were referred to interchangeably as slaves. (This fact makes the choice of the
daughter of Qais Ibn ‘Assem to remain with her captor seem less drastic.) He could sell his
wives or children, kill them or incarcerate them. He could expel a son out of his house,
exposing him to certain death without the protection of his tribe.
The tribe as a whole was itself defined on the basis of patrilineage. All paternal uncles and
their descendants belonged to the same tribe whose head was the absolute ruler. In case of
war, tribes sought help from their paternal relatives. Only on rare occasions did they turn to
the maternal ones for help. For, in cases of exogamous marriages, that usually meant
appealing to a ‘foreign tribe’ for help.
Since the tribe was the highest political, economic, military and legal authority, without
which the individual had no significance whatsoever, it followed that the ‘paternal bond
became the supreme bond in the society of Jahiliyyah permeating all its facets, and founding
all power within it. It became the core and essence of that patriarchal system.
Male Muslim writers have seized every opportunity to remind Arab women of the various
ways in which Islam, from its very inception, sought to defend the rights of women and
improve their stature. Some of Islam’s contributions in this matter are:8
(1) Islam prohibited males from expelling menstruating women from their homes, and
from refusing to eat from the same pot with them.
(2) Islam limited the period of time a man can deny his wife sexual relations with him to
four months. Men used to leave their wives for years without divorcing them. Under
the new law they became automatically divorced after the four month period passed.
(3) Islam prohibited women from the practice of mourning their husbands for one full
year. During that year women wore their worst clothing, avoided perfumes and, on
the whole, made their lives miserable.
(4) Islam limited the number of wives.
(5) Islam gave both women and children a set share in the inheritance.
(6) Islam prohibited the practice of inheriting women along with property, and of
incarcerating such women in exchange for their property.
(7) Islam prohibited sons from marrying their fathers’ wives after their death, or of
marrying two sisters at once.
(8) Islam prohibited forcing women to engage in prostitution.
(9) Islam made female infanticide a crime against God,
(10) Islam prohibited Muslim men from taking Muslim women prisoners of war.
(11) Islam made killing women a crime equal to that of killing men.
(12) Islam made education and learning equally the duty of both male and female.
s This list came mainly from Kah haleh’s AI-Mar’& Vol. VI, pp. 7-8. Ridah Institute, Beirut, Lebanon (1978).
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(13) Islam declared null and void any marriage to which the woman did not consent.
(14) Islam made the dowry the property of the woman, not of her father or later her
husband.
So many other changes were also introduced that Omar Ibn al-Khattab is known to have
said, ‘By God, we did not use to pay attention to women in Jahiliyyah until God said about
them in the Qur’an what is said, and gave them their share in matters’ (Al-Afaghani, 1945;
p. 24).
The Prophet himself made several interesting statements concerning women. For example,
he explained to men the importance of foreplay in lovemaking, saying ‘Don’t fall upon your
wife like an animal does. Send a messenger between you first.’ His listeners asked ‘What
messengers? He answered ‘Kisses and words’ (Al-Ghazali, Vol. 2, p. 46).’
The Prophet also designated his wife, ‘Aisha, a religious authority when he said ‘Take half
of your religion from this ruddy-complexioned woman’ (Sakakini, 1950; 128). After his death
she continued to be regarded as the leading religious authority, and thus played a major role
in subsequent developments in Islam.
Among the other sayings of the Prophet (Al-Afaghani, 1945):
‘He who honors women is honorable, he who insults them is lowly and mean’ (p. 55).
‘Treat your children equally. However, were I to favor some of them over others, I would
favor the females’ (p. 58).
‘He who has a female infant and he does not bury her alive, does not insult her, and does
not prefer his sons over her, will be ushered by God into paradise’ (p. 59).
On his deathbed, the Prophet uttered among his last words
‘I urge you to treat women kindly. They are a trust in your hands. Fear God in His trust’
(Ibn Yazid, Vol. 1, p. 594).”
All these are well known facts to any good Muslim. However the major contribution of
Islam towards the ultimate defeat of Patriarchy does not lie in any such list of reforms.
Rather, it lies in the fact that Islam replaced the ‘paternal bond’ of Jahiliyyah totally by the
religious bond within which everyone-male or female, black or white, young or old, rich or
poor-is equal.
By doing that Islam struck at the heart of the patriarchal system. Tribal allegiances were
weakened, with brother fighting brother for the faith. New allegiances appeared based on
moral and religious principles instead of patrilineage.
At the same time the prophet stressed the ‘womb’s bond’ and made it a duty upon the
Muslim to honor it. When once asked whom should a son honor and befriend most, the
Prophet answered ‘Your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father’ (Al-
Afaghani; p. 54).
The problem with the propagation of Islam in such a hostile milieu is that it could not have
survived without an infinite amount of flexibility and adaptability. Thus the prophet had to
resort to a variety of compromises and tactics to achieve his end.
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9 Al-Ghtili, Abu Htiid, recent edition, 1958. Ihyu’ Uliim ed-Din, Vol. II, p. 46, Halabi Press, Cairo, Egypt. This
is a classical Islamic work. It remains to this very day a basic source of information and knowledge.
lo Ibn Yazid, Muhammad (also known as Ibn MEjah), recent edition, 1953. Sunan, Vol. I, p. 594, Halabi Press,
Cairo, Egypt. This is also another classical Islamic work.
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A devout Muslim might find such claim repugnant, since the truths of God as stated in the
Qur’an are eternal and unchanging.
However, I would ask this Muslim to reflect upon the concepts of ‘al-Nasekh wal
Manstikh’ according to which certain parts of the Qur’an were superceded by later ones. The
justification for these changes was that the latter injunctions were not suitable for the people
at the earlier time. Even the Qur’an clearly states: ‘It is part of the Mercy of God that thou
dost deal gently with them. Wert thou severe or harsh hearted, they would have broken away
from about thee’ (Qur’dn, III, verse 159).
As Islam consolidated its forces and the society underwent some transitions, it became
possible to introduce the later and overriding injunctions. After the death of the Prophet, the
‘Ulama’ (religious authorities) continued modifying injunctions in accordance with well
established criteria. This is what gives Islam its flexibility and adaptability to social and
historical change. Thus the prophet, while finely attuned to his milieu, sought to change it
subtly and diligently. For example, while acknowledging the Arab’s concern with
patrilineage, he made marriage and divorce extremely easy for both male and female (see
subsequent discussion of this issue).
He also made adultery almost impossible to prove. l1 Four witnesses must see the male
organ inside the female’s vagina! Or else the guilty party confesses without coercion, mental
stress, or being under the influence of alcohol. If either the witness or the confessing party
withdraw their statements, even at the last minute, the charges are dropped.
If a witness accuses someone of adultery falsely, the witness gets eighty lashes. The married
adulterer gets one hundred lashes, the single, fifty. This rule applies equally to males and
females.
Some claim that the punishment for adultery is stoning to death. This was an old tribal
habit not mentioned in the Qur’an, but only in the hadith. The Qur’&n clearly specified one
hundred lashes for the married adulterer and half of that for the single.”
Another contribution of Islam is that it preserved the Jahiliyyah’s view of the female as a
capable and active being. Thus, although some women resisted Islam, the majority joined its
ranks questioning the Prophet, arguing with him and making demands upon him. On such
occasions, they either sent him a representative or a delegation.
Women also participated in Bai’a (the process of confirming a new leader). This meant that
as a group (no longer divided by ‘paternal bonds’) they were now part and parcel of the
political process.
With ‘Aisha providing a strong leadership after the death of the Prophet, the image of the
active, independent and capable woman became the image of the Arab woman during that
era.
I do not intend to claim that Prophet Muhammad’s record was that of a feminist
revolutionary. But he certainly made one brave and successful attempt, at the time, to
undercut Patriarchy and to regain for women some of their lost rights.
In exchange for these regained rights, the Prophet worked out a compromise with the
powerful patriarchal forces. They were promised paradise for living in accordance with
Islam’s teachings.
But the tribal ‘paternal bond’ was too strong to be severed readily and irrevocably. The
patriarchal mentality was equally tenacious. So, after the death of the prophet, many Arabs
attempted to return to the old ways. They were called ‘al-Murtaddeen’. Muslim military
power was immediately used to quash this trend, and the matter was considered closed.
Almost simultaneously, the patriarchal takeover of Islam commenced from inside its male
ranks. Since women were still at the early stages of building their power base, they were
ultimately unable to stop this turn of the tide. And the whole process of co-optation unfolded
in broad daylight.
In one case, the new Khalifah (Caliphate) Omar Ibn el-Khattab spoke at a Friday prayer
gathering, not long after the death of the Prophet, suggesting that dowries be reduced to a
symbolic sum. An old woman rose from the back of the mosque and objected, ‘You shall not
take away from us what God has given us.’ She then recited the passage in the Qur’Sin which
gives the woman the right to set her own dowry and keep it as her personal property (a source
of economic independence for women). The KhalIfah immediately retreated saying, ‘A
woman is right, and Omar is wrong’ (Sakakini, 1950; pp. 129-130).i3
But as later attempts intensified, women lost their personal rights. They were also barred
from being judges; and till this very day, in some Arab countries women may not engage in
business or travel without their husband’s written approval. Women were shrouded in black
from head to toe and segregated from men. Their voices were not to be heard, so at weddings
they developed the characteristic shreik achieved either by placing a knuckle in their mouths
or vibrating their tongues-all this in order to express joy in a land where their voices may
not be heard. And this was done in the name of Islam!
Interestingly enough, despite all its oppressiveness Islamic Patriarchy continued to view
women as capable as well as dangerous beings. Its policies, (such as those of veiling and
segregating women) were aimed at containing and restraining female power not at denying it.
With the rise of Western ideology, Arab Patriarchy became infected with the view of
women as inferior being. This new view combined with the older policies became extremely
oppressive. I4 It prompted many women to return to the patriarchal Islamic movement,
which though oppressive, seemed much less humiliating insofar as it regarded them as
capable equal beings and treated them accordingly.
However, their return was not totally uncritical. Strengthened by the international
feminist movement, and made more valuable by the attendant possibilities for propaganda,
Arab women are now being actively wooed by both the Left and the Right; though, neither
Left nor Right are willing to pay a high price for the women’s support. Yet, women have used
their minimal bargaining powers with some success. Within the Islamic groups, this often
meant an insistence on the return to the early Islam of Prophet Muhammad.
In the next section, I shall discuss three major problems facing Muslim women, and
explicate the role of Patriarchy in creating them. I shall also indicate how these serious
problems disappear when we adhere to the clear text of the Qur’an instead of its confounding
patriarchal interpretations.
THREE PROBLEMS
I shall not waste the time of the reader by attacking the most obvious misconceptions
about Islam. The more serious problems do not include, for example, the veil. Much has been
lJ It must be pointed out here that the Khalifah’s argument for his proposal was that women were not for sale in
Islam.
I4 For more on this see my ‘The Status of Women Among the Lebanese and Palestinian Left in Lebanon’,
forthcoming; also ‘Capitalism is an Advanced Stage of Patriarchy.’
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written in Arabic on that topic attempting to show the non-Muslim origins of that custom.
The more serious problems, I believe, concern the following areas:
1. Polygamy
2. Divorce
3. Supremacy of men over women
4. Bearing Witness
5. Inheritance
Of these, I propose to tackle the first three for reasons of space, although I must confess that
I am still working on the issue of bearing witness where the testimony of two females is
deemed equivalent to that of a single male (but for more on that see Zein Ed-Din).
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Poly gamy
According to Muslim tradition, a man may marry up to four wives at any given time. The
woman does not seem to have a similar privilege. This has caused much misery for women so
let us examine this problem.
First of all, we cannot conclude from the mere fact that the Prophet was polygamous in his
later life that Muslim men may also be polygamous. This is because it is stated quite clearly in
the Qur’an that neither the prophet nor his wives are like other men and women (xxxiii,
verses 32,50). For example, while the Prophet encouraged widows and divorcees to remarry,
his own wives were not to be remarried after his death. They were considered the ‘mothers of
all believers’, and no believer may marry his mother. However, it must be stated here that as
the Prophet grew older he gave his wives the choice to leave and marry another male more
fulfilling perhaps of husbandly duties (Al-Afaghani, 1945; p. 79). All but one wife refused to
leave him.
Second, the passage in the Qur’an which has been used to justify polygamy is the following:
‘
. . . Marry women of your choice, two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not deal
justly (with them), then only one . . .’ (IV, verse 3).
Of course, many men married all four wives decreeing that they are dealing justly with them.
However, as usual, these males preferred to leave unnoticed another relevant passage in the
same sura (chapter). It says:
‘Ye are never able to be fair and just among women, even if you tried hard . . .’ (IV, verse
129).
The implication of the combined passages is now clear:
(a) If you can be just and fair among women, then you can marry up to four wives.
(b) If you cannot be just and fair among women, then you may marry only one.
(c) You cannot be just and fair among women.
(b) and (c) are of the logical form:
If p then q
and p
Other Muslim thinkers claimed that the words ‘justly’ and ‘just’ occurring in the two
Qur’anic passages quoted above have two different meanings! (Mahmas&ni, 1965; p. 470).”
So, they cannot be combined to draw an inference. However, there is no good evidence that
there is an equivocation on the meaning of ‘just’ in these passages. The burden of the proof
remains on their shoulders, and so far we (women) are not convinced. It seems rather evident
that the whole issue of polygamy is the result of patriarchal attempts to distort the Qur’an in
the male’s favour.
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Divorce
Divorce is a momentous act in Islam. But according to tradition, the male can divorce the
female at will, while the female has no power to divorce her husband regardless of how
miserable she is.
In Islam, the marriage contract is exactly that-a contract made between people. Either
side can include in it any conditions desired. One such condition can be that if the groom
marries another woman later, the bride will be automatically divorced; or that the woman
has the right to divorce her husband at will; or that the husband will be automatically
divorced if he does some act specified in the contract-for example, drink alcohol or come
home late.
Indeed such conditions have been placed in contracts until this day. Many women insist on
having their right to divorce and say so in the contract. I heard of one women who specified
that her marriage will dissolve the minute her husband disobeys her. The husband was so
terrified of the possibility that he served his wife’s every whim.
Of course, such modified contracts were mostly requested by upper class women with
bargaining power. As the economic picture changes in the Arab World, more women will
have real alternatives to marriage, and this form of modified contract will become the rule
rather than the exception (this has already taken place in Tunisia.) Thus again the oppressive
form of the marriage contract we find now in the Arab World was standardized and
propagated by Patriarchy to serve its interests.
Let me first show that (i) the interpretation is unwarranted. To start with, nowhere in the
passage is there a reference to the male’s physical or intellectual superiority. Secondly, since
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some of the men more than
some of the women, and in what the men spend of their money, then clearly men as a class are
not ‘qawwamiin’ over women as a class.
The conditions of being ‘qawwamtin’ as specified in the passage are two: (1) that the man
be someone whom God gave more in the matter at hand than the woman, and (2) that he be
her provider. If either condition fails, then the man is not ‘qawwam’ over that woman. If
both obtain, then all that entitles him to is caring for her and providing her with moral
guidance. For, only under extreme conditions (for example, insanity) does the Muslim
woman lose her right to self-determination, including entering any kind of business contract
without permission from her husband. Yet men have used this passage to exercise absolute
authority over women. They also used it to argue for the male’s divinely ordained and
inherent superiority. It is worth noting that the passage does not even assert that some men
are inherently superior to some women. It only states that in certain matters some man may
have more than some woman.
For example, in making a business decision, a wife may find that her knowledge of the
market place is inferior to that of many others (she has not been sufficiently involved). If her
husband has superior knowledge to hers (in this area), then (and only then) can he be
‘qawwam’ over her in this matter, i.e. guiding her and protecting her interests with full
knowledge that the final decision is hers alone. (Note that according to this interpretation no
one has the right to counsel a self-supporting woman.) Since Islam emphasizes democracy
and enjoins Muslims to consult each other in making decisions, this resolution falls totally
within the spirit of Islam.
I shall now show that (ii), the traditional interpretation, is inconsistent with other Islamic
teachings. Elsewhere in the Qur’an we have the following passage:
‘The believers, men and women, are “awliya’,” one of another’ (IX, verse 71).
“Awily a”’ means ‘protectors’, ‘in charge’, ‘guides’. It is quite similar to ‘qawwamtin’. How
could women be “Awliya”’ of men if men are superior to women in both physical and
intellectual strength? How could women be in charge of men who have absolute authority
over their lives? The last passage clearly places male and female on equal footing. The
traditional interpretation raises the man above the woman.
I close this part of the discussion with two quotes and a comment. The first quote is the
Prophet’s :
‘All people are equal, as equal as the teeth of a comb. There is no claim of merit of an Arab
over a non-Arab, or of a white over a black person or of a male over a female. Only God-
fearing people merit a preference with God’ [emphasis added] (Abdul-Rauf, 1977; p. 21).
The second quote belongs to Nazirah Zein Ed-Din, that Arab feminist who lived in the early
1900’s (see her article in this issue):
‘What is this unjust law (of veiling) which is permeated with the spirit of tyranny and
oppression? It is in violation of the book of God and his Prophet, may God bless his soul.
This law is the law of the victor, the man who subdued the woman with physical force. Man
tampered with God’s book to make this law. He prided himself on his tyranny and
oppression, even as those hurt him, too. He made the law independently, not permitting
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Here is the comment: Other problems may be less readily accessible to the kind of
solutions suggested above. In those cases it pays to keep in mind that the ‘Ulama’ have
accepted several fundamental criteria for changing laws. Most important, I believe, among
those is the one which states that: ‘It cannot be denied that laws change as times and places
change’ (Mahmasani, 1965; p. 478). It was applied repeatedly in the past, and should be put
again to good use.
CONCLUSION
I have attempted to dispel major misconceptions about Women and Islam by providing
some historical facts as well as religious arguments. It would have been easier to dismiss the
whole question on the basis that religion is a patriarchal tool. However, this is (a) giving too
much to Patriarchy, (b) ignoring the sentiments of feminist Muslim women who find the
problems raised above very real, and (c) ignoring the task of a woman to correctly
understand her own herstory after it has been presented to her from the perspective of the
Western colonizer. It is also my duty to bring my indigenous perspective on these issues to my
readers, since their access to the original sources is highly limited.
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