THE BIBLE OF

SEDUCTIO
ALL THE SECRETS TO SEDUCE, CONNECT
AND IN LOVE PROGSAMANNO
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 Introduction

“What is the purpose of a seduction manual?” you may be wondering.

“Shouldn’t seduction be a natural gift?” You’re probably wondering this too,
and you’re right.
The game of seduction has to be played with nature and spontaneity.
Nobody likes artificial things, especially when it comes to interpersonal
relationships. So why read a manual? The answer is simple.
Having a good foundation and advice is necessary to develop your own
seductive abilities.
Even though you are one of the “lucky” men with natural charisma, you must
not lack basic knowledge of seduction.
For many years, techniques and theories have been developed, and human
behavior and reactions have been studied. Why give up having a more solid
wisdom?
This manual (yes, that very thing you have in your hands!) has the power to
awaken the seducer within you! Each piece of advice will be useful and
necessary and, I swear, it will give you a little more awareness in all aspects
of the game of seduction.
You will correct your flaws, you will have the answers to your doubts
about women, that is: it will be your point of reference on any occasion.
You will be able to learn to act on self-confidence, it will give you a not
indifferent mental preparation and will guide you on your journey among
seduction techniques! In these pages you will find all the help you need and
much more!!!
Remember: in life nothing can be left to chance! It is important to learn not to
ignore any of the aspects of seduction: you will soon succeed in
understanding whether a woman is interested in you and your words,
whether she likes your presence just by the tone of your voice!
You don't have to be super rich or Brad Pitt's twin to have more success with
women!
Thanks to this book, you will have the spirit of a seducer and you will know
all the modalities of interaction necessary to make your life (sexual,
sentimental, etc.) more satisfactory!

The inner game: the basis of success.

As you already know, the basis for success with women and, in general, in
life, is the inner game. Exact. It is the key to success in all your interactions.

Why is the inside game so important?

What happens if we don't have a good inside game as a foundation? Example:
A beautiful woman has just passed by and you are dying to get close to her.
When you finally decide to approach her, you start to tremble like a leaf
moved by the wind and you end up standing in front of the object of your
desire, perhaps uttering words.
Or, worse, you don't even get up from your chair and don't even try to talk to
the object of your desire because you think you're not up to the task.
This is all wrong: you can know all the seduction tactics in the world but if
you don't have the key (the inner game), your behavior and your success will
be affected.
Having a good foundation in your game will benefit your image, your
conventions, your values and will affect your mental preparation. Without a
good foundation, no seduction technique, however great, can work!
The crux of the matter is this: you cannot change the course of events, but you
can change the meaning you give them. In fact, it is possible to change your
interpretation of life.

And this is what will make your success on the visa: the foundation of your
convictions.

Do you want an example? Have you ever noticed that men who believe they
do not deserve to date more beautiful women, end up not doing it, while there
are mediocre men (both in character and physically) who are married to
beautiful women who are very much in love?
This is not because the men in question are luckier or anything else. It's
because they are convinced that they can be successful with women despite
their character or their physical appearance, and that's why it's going to
happen. It is his convictions that have allowed him to be successful.
Then, of course, experimentation and success have strengthened their
convictions: thanks to the study of seduction techniques and their positive
convictions they have managed to reap the results of their method which in
turn has further strengthened their self-esteem.
It's just like that: the more you believe in your abilities, the more successful
you will be.
The more successful you will be, the more you will believe in your abilities.

Read this anecdote and reflect on it:

Two children play on the beach, on the seashore. Suddenly, a huge wave
crashes over them and destroys the castles they had built. The first child, sad
and upset, begins to cry and runs to his mother. The second one, excited by
the sensation of the wave, laughs and, excited, stays on the seashore to wait
for another wave to live the experience again. The moral of the story? In a
certain situation, people's reaction varies according to their convictions and
the interpretation they give to events.
A person who has a strong inner game and self-confidence stays strong
despite the context and situation. Regardless of events, whether positive or
negative, people with strong self-esteem always have their emotions and
actions under control.
People who have a solid foundation are also successful with women, in life
and at work. How to achieve this result? Simply combining method and
experience.
With the right attitude and a lot of experience, every habit can be changed
and, even more importantly, one's own attitude towards life can be changed.
Creating a good mood is a slow and gradual process: you need to become
aware of your own identity.
To become a master in the game of seduction, then, it is necessary to have
confidence in yourself, and thus you will automatically achieve, naturally,
that characteristic that women look for in a man: courage.
This is a cyclical process: by increasing your value, results and self-
confidence, you will evolve your identity.

Being authentic: how to do it?

What does it mean to be authentic? It means to have courage. Be unique.
Original and aware that we have value because there is nothing like it in the
world.
It is just like that: each of us has a unique way of seeing life, hearing,
touching, enjoying, loving and thinking. Each of us has our own
characteristics and potential, our own capabilities and limits.
Being authentic means being able to choose to have your own thoughts, your
own consciousness and personal creativity, that is, your own identity.
But how do others, from the outside, perceive our identity? It is directly tied
to our behavior and our actions. This is what people see and perceive when
they go out with her. Whether you are dominant (i.e. you are the one who
drags others along), or vice versa, dependent (i.e. you are one of those who is
dragged along by others), your identity is determined by your behavior in
relation to interpersonal relationships.
It is useless to specify that women find a strong and unique identity attractive,
rather than a less dominant one. A man who decides for himself, who knows
where he is going and who doesn't let himself be dragged along by the herd.
Women naturally find these characteristics interesting because a
personality of this shape inspires signals of confidence, control, and
ultimately, courage.
But what does this image of identity depend on? Of your social position? No.
Social position is only a consequence. This form of identity is only the
expression of the image you have of yourself, of your personal identity
and of your convictions.
We all have a set of potential and capabilities within us and we must bring
them out, enhance them and use them in the best way to succeed in life.
So stop for a moment and ask yourself these questions:
What kind of person are you really?
What are the mannerisms and characteristics that you show to others?
What are the important aspects in your life?
The answers to these questions can give you the confidence to act correctly in
society, and therefore, to learn to seduce by enhancing yourself by becoming
aware of your abilities and your uniqueness.
These answers will help your mind progress towards a positive identity and
strengthen your self-esteem by making you search within yourself.

Remember: the image you have of yourself can be changed. It's all
autosuggestion.

Identity: how to strengthen it?

How to strengthen your own identity? Well, first of all, there are two steps to
take: the first is to ask the right questions and the second is to discover the
answers.
But what are the questions you need to ask yourself to strengthen your self-
esteem? Here they are: how do others perceive your wishes? What kind of
woman are you looking for? What is your social environment? Only by
understanding the situation and focusing on what you want will you be able to
effectively achieve it.
The second step is to find the correct answers: learn to respond with self-
suggestive phrases. How do you create self-suggestive phrases? Here are
some examples: “every day of my life I go towards the goal I set for myself”
or also “I acted each time giving the best of myself.” Learn to repeat them as
often as you can during the day, especially during quiet moments.
These are all points that differentiate people who have a strong identity from
those who do not have one and only live following others. Having a strong
identity means having a goal in life and your own principles.
What does this have to do with seduction? Simple: as I have already said, a
woman will not be attracted only by how you act, or only by the pleasure you
give her but also by your authenticity.
An authentic person can reveal the uniqueness of his or her personality
while also recognizing the uniqueness of others.

Beliefs: How do they affect the way we act

towards others?

Our behavior is affected by our beliefs. But where do all these convictions
come from? How can they affect our personality and our life in general?
To know the answer to this question, we need to first know how our mind
works. She, in fact, constantly stores information, including the least
important ones for her.
us.
When ideas are repeated often enough and with coherence and force, they
become convictions. These ideas affect the way we perceive reality and how
we act.
But where do these ideas come from? The basis of these ideas is formed by
experiences. For example, if when you were little your parents treated you in
a way that made you feel inferior, you have grown up with this conviction,
that is, of being inferior.
During our childhood, our brain is influenced by our experiences, by family
and social beliefs and by commonplaces accepted as real by the community.
Once we have a certainty, our brain disapproves and ignores everything
that expresses a contrary idea: that is, you are convinced inside your mind
that you are inferior, anything that shows the opposite, your brain will tend to
ignore it.

How to change your own beliefs

The only way to change our convictions and as a result our attitude is to
repeat in our minds strong enough ideas, to eliminate the previous ones.
Perhaps we do not know how to enjoy our natural qualities of seduction only
because we have been distracted from what is really important: for years we
have been so focused on the so-called “truths” derived from our beliefs
that we have “forgotten” to fully enjoy and appreciate our qualities.
For example, many men think that to be successful with women you need to
compliment them, impress them, or be a good guy. These prejudices arise
simply from our life logic and our beliefs, while the truth is that attraction is
caused by the emotions we provoke and not by logic.
If attraction were a purely logical reaction, every woman would be attracted
to every handsome, rich, available, and kind man she meets on the street.
But that is not the case. To successfully seduce a woman, a man must be
able to activate the emotional levers. Furthermore, our brain is motivated
by the search for experiences that produce pleasure and tries to avoid
those that produce pain.
Have you ever wondered why it is so hard to finish a diet when you go on
one? Because if a goal causes long-term pleasure and short-term pain and
fatigue, our little brain tends to sabotage the plan.
But if you want to change your negative beliefs into positive ones and thus be
successful with women, you will have to “divert” this process and start
working on building your new identity: create your positive affirmations.
How to create them? •
First of all, you should formulate a few sentences in which you will not use
negations (avoid starting a sentence with “I am not”). Then remember to
always formulate them in the first person and in the present tense.
Once you have formulated these phrases, repeat them 3 or 4 times each
day.
Remember that autosuggestion, even if the technique may seem trivial,
always gives good results. This is one of the most natural ways to penetrate
our minds and change our unconscious beliefs.
Self-confidence: how to build it
As we well know, self-confidence is tied to our convictions. We all have
self-confidence in some areas of our lives and not in others.
This being a manual for seduction, we will be talking about the sphere of
confidence in the field of seduction, that is, with women, but this exercise to
increase self-confidence will also help you in other areas of your life!
Here then, is a simple exercise to learn how to be more self-confident!
Women will know the difference!
In the previous paragraph, we talked about how our convictions come from
past experiences, which affect us in life. It is clear, then, that being self-
confident is necessary to achieve success in the field of seduction and in the
personal and professional fields.
Contrary to what you think (affected by past experiences and then by your
convictions) YOU HAVE ALL THE NECESSARY CHARACTERISTICS
to achieve your goals, but those voices echo in your head sabotaging you.
If in the previous paragraph we talked about how to self-suggest in a positive
way and the power of positive affirmations, now I am going to reveal to you
another little trick to increase your self-esteem and thus, also your success
with women.
As we saw a few pages ago (regarding the anecdote of the children on the
beach) your vision of the world and of yourself depends on your perception
of situations. So, your emotional reaction to certain situations is up to you.
IT'S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
The first step to changing your life and becoming a good seducer is
awareness: awareness of the fact that the key to seducing, to being successful
and changing and improving your life is none other than yourself.
It has nothing to do with luck, money, opportunities, nothing to do with it,
except your way of thinking and your reaction, which depends on
experiences.
This applies to all aspects of life: from seduction, to work and your social life.
So what can you do to increase your self-confidence in a practical
and effective
way?
Okay, now you are reading this e-book and this will certainly be a good first
step to improve your sex and love life. But reading this book will not be
enough: the only way to make the advice in this book really effective is to
start taking action.
So, here's the first action you can take to increase your self-confidence: every
day, make a mental list of the things you would do if you had no limits
(confidence limits, if you will), choose the one that seems most actionable
and do it.
For example, would you like to ask for the number of the girl who works at
the bar, the one you talk to every morning, but you've never had the
confidence to do so?
Well, this is the time.
Would you like to dress in a certain way, but you feel too thin/fat/tall/short to
do so and you would feel ashamed to wear that particular item of clothing?
Put it on.
Your confidence will increase little by little and your improvement will occur
gradually, effectively and over a longer period of time.

Build your value in three easy steps!

1. Have you ever thought that your social circle is of fundamental importance
in your love life?
Woman is a social animal. For this reason, she is attracted to those she
considers to be of equal or higher social value than her own. What better
way to demonstrate your worth than to be accepted by a group of
people? Group recognition is very important to be successful in the world of
seduction: so, how can you create your value through your social network?
It's very simple. For example, at a party, try to talk to everyone, discuss with
each group of people: you will attract attention and create your social
value. You're more likely to seduce your target while socializing with
everyone and not just staying in a corner, right? What are the characteristics
necessary to become a social animal? There are few, but they are essential:
being positive, knowing how to be fun and exciting, and learning to be
empathetic. Learn to be the one who gives value to people and you will
receive value in return.

2. Your attitude tells your worth!

Our attitude speaks about us: every action projects our self-esteem. As? With
body language! Do your gestures reveal shame, fear or say that you feel
perfectly comfortable in your body?

3. The care we take of our bodies defines the idea we have of

ourselves.
Our value can be revealed by the way we take care of our appearance… Have
you ever thought about it? How you dress communicates your identity.
Women pay attention to how you dress. Always: They really like to look at
the details before choosing. Remember: you don't need to become a fashion
expert or spend all your money at the Gucci store to take care of your
appearance. It is not necessary: what you will have to do is try to create a
style that sets you apart from the rest. The goal is not to follow any fashion
but to be as presentable and attractive as possible! For this reason, it will be
enough if someone, for example a friend, advises you to update your
wardrobe a little, maybe change your haircut, and that's it! But don't forget
that your appearance will reveal a little of your identity, so personalize it. The
basic rules are more or less as follows:

• Avoid combining colors that are too similar: for example, white and
cream white.
• Don't wear more than three colors at a time.
• Wear some accessories (a necklace, a ring, or something else), but I
strongly recommend that you don't go overboard with them.
• Remember not to overdo it with the perfume: no one wants to drown
 in it.
• Apart from clothing, remember that your personal hygiene is also
very important:
• Remove excess hair from your face (for example, if it is so long that
it sticks out of your nose or ears).
• Trim hair, eyebrows and beard.
Pay close attention to your teeth.
Schedule your day so that you can practice a sport for at least three
hours each week.

How to overcome the obstacle of shyness!?

“I am not successful with women because I am shy…” There you have it with
this excuse!
Each of us has our own form of shyness that often comes from thoughts like:
"I'm not brave/beautiful/capable enough to do this…. ".
But do not forget that this is your conviction and, as we have said before, a
thought can be changed.
To get the right answers you have to ask the right questions!
Here are some examples that will help you overcome shyness:
• What is interesting about me?
• What are my qualities?
• What results have made me most proud?
• What do I have that is good and interesting to share with my
partner?
• Are there things about myself that I can improve?
• What aspects of my approach have been good?
• If it were her, what should she expect from me?
 How to change your beliefs again
Remember that we are always affected by our strategies and by the models
that are inside our minds.
What can we do to end this way of thinking and, therefore, the behavior that
comes from it?
The answer is simple: doing exactly the opposite. The secret is to do
something that completely challenges your habits.
For example, every time you see a beautiful woman, do you stay stuck looking
at her from afar because of your shyness?
Well, twist your habits: face the woman you like without hesitation, walk
straight towards her. Now, you will be forced to do or say something. And
finally, you will face your fear.

Remember the power of autosuggestion!

Do you remember what we were talking about a few paragraphs ago about
autosuggestion?
The trick is to learn to examine your thoughts when you feel overcome by
shyness and when you feel that you lack the confidence to take a certain
action.
You'll probably find yourself thinking things like, “I'm not made to be with
someone…”, “I'm sure I'll end up failing…” and so on.
To fight shyness, the first step is to examine your beliefs and fight them
with a few positive affirmations that, if repeated consistently, will be
enough to remove the “bad” thoughts and shyness, and will give you new
light.

Your thoughts affect your attitude!

Everyone knows that one's mood affects the body. An example?
Have you ever noticed that when you feel depressed, your back tends to bend
forward, your head turns down and your gaze also turns downward?
What you may not know is that just as mood affects the body, the opposite
is also possible, that is, the body and attitude affect mood.
What does it mean?
It means that if you make an effort to smile, if you keep your back erect and
open, you will soon feel more available and hopeful.

And how much do words say about our mood and our self-esteem?
Words are very powerful: every sentence we say unconsciously affects our
self-esteem and our brain.
So, it's time to convert your vocabulary! Each type of word constitutes a
different reaction depending on the person.
If we always use words that reinforce our negative beliefs, we will always
tend to be accompanied by negative thoughts.
So, the time has come to turn these words into words that help us think
positively.
An example? The excuse phrase “I’m shy” can become “I’m an introvert.”
This way, your brain will try to see your “shyness” not as a defect, but as a
characteristic.
 How to have a winning attitude in 7 steps!
Here are my personal tips to help you get out of your grey zone and into a
successful mindset... These small steps will change your life! Try it and
see ;)

1. socialize with everyone and open yourself to the possibility of

meeting and having new experiences.

What is the purpose of socializing? Learn to overcome your shyness and

become friendly and approachable. To meet many new people. To become
more self-confident. You start smiling at the people you meet, and not just
the women. You will become more open to the world! Once you have become
accustomed to this sociable and open attitude, try greeting people you would
never have greeted before. Get used to interacting with strangers, even if
it's just a small conversation in the elevator with the neighbor you don't really
know. You will realize that meeting new people is not so difficult and that
you are perfectly capable of fighting your shyness. Plus you'll meet a ton of
new people.

2. Act as if what you want is already yours!

When you see a pretty girl, you don't dare approach her because you tell
yourself that she could never be yours, because such a pretty girl would never
be with a guy like you? But think about it for a moment: if you knew that the
same beautiful girl, despite your disbelief, was in love with you, would your
attitude change? The answer is yes, because this same girl, who in another
situation you would have thought unattainable, is yours. You are always the
same person, she is always the same girl, but the awareness of your chances
of success changes your whole situation. You feel relaxed because you
already know that you will be successful with her and you are not afraid to
show yourself. Counterattack your shyness and low self-esteem and every
time you are presented with a situation in which your low self-esteem wins,
and not only in the field of seduction but in all areas of life, imagine that the
target is already yours and, suddenly, your successful mental attitude will
make it so that you can become that way.

3. Don't put anyone on a pedestal!

When a person has low self-esteem, the most common mistake they make is
putting people on a pedestal. I'm not just talking about women, but about
people in general. Giving someone too much importance is
counterproductive: learn not to give too much value to the women you talk
to. Remember: If you act like the person in front of you is too much for you,
they will end up thinking that too! Think of the person in question as a human
being, with all the defects and qualities that a normal person has. No one is
too much or too little for you.

4. Don't focus too much on the goal or you'll miss the journey: enjoy
it!

It often happens with insecure people that they focus too much on their goals,
ending up becoming rigid, obsessed and moving even further away from
them. In the field of seduction, it can happen that if your goal while talking to
a woman is to get her number, you become so obsessed with this that you end
up ruining everything with your rigidity. Every route, every path to a goal,
every interaction in every way, has to be natural and fun. Your goal will
certainly be much easier to achieve if you avoid putting yourself under
pressure. If you act in a relaxed and harmonious manner, it will be much
easier for you to get what you want. Remember that life is a game!

5. Don't take things personally.

If you want to be successful and win at the game of seduction, don't take
everything personally. Don't take every situation, every joke or every "no"
from a woman as a personal insult or criticism. Sometimes people say things
without thinking and without having a negative intention. Sometimes people
reflect on their mood and attitudes, and perhaps a rudeness towards you is not
motivated by you but simply by something that has gone wrong in the life of
the person who does it. Think about this.

6. Learn to listen.

Here we go with the monologues! Leave room for others to voice their
opinions and, more importantly, leave room for yourself to learn from the
experiences of others. Ask, answer, wait and learn to talk and listen. Your
social life will be much better.
7. Don't be afraid to lose!

In all sports there is the possibility of losing. One wrong move, one wrong
shot, one wrong timing, you never know when failure can strike. Likewise,
you can't expect to seduce every woman you meet. So kill your shyness,
accept that you can lose and your life will change, because you will finally
live with less apprehension.

SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

Introduction
Are you ready to discover the greatest secrets of seduction?

After working on your attitude and your inner game you are ready. Are you
ready to learn how to seduce a woman?
Now your first goal will be to build a relationship with a woman.
Now it's time to explain the 5 phases of seduction. Although this statement
may seem strange to you, contrary to what many think, the seduction process
is a linear path. Obviously, when an obstacle arises, you will have to go back
to the previous step and learn it better.
Although it may seem strange to you that some men are equipped with this
power to seduce women, they too, even if they don't know it, follow these
techniques.
The order of course changes depending on the circumstances. There will be
situations in which it will not be necessary to complete all the phases, and
situations in which you will have to focus your attention on one phase rather
than another.
 What's the point of knowing seduction techniques if you're
paralyzed
by the fear of being rejected?
Before talking about seduction techniques, it is necessary to clarify one thing:
You have to learn to overcome the fear of being rejected.
Fear is one of the biggest obstacles, both in life and in the world of seduction.
But what are we talking about? Fear of what?
The fear of the first approach. The fear of being rejected.
Do you ever get that tight feeling in your stomach, feel your palms sweat, get
short of breath, and start thinking of 100 reasons why she might not want to
talk to you?
Well, my friend, this is called fear. Fear of not being liked for who you are.
Afraid of being yourself in front of her.
Many people are literally paralyzed by the mere thought of approaching a
stranger, especially if the person in question is a pretty girl. If this is your
case, remember that IT'S ALL JUST IN YOUR MIND.
What are your fears? "I'm afraid of being ridiculous", "I'm afraid of not being
liked and therefore being rejected"... Analyze them!
The first reaction of human beings to fear is usually to give up. The
abandonment of every attempt to get closer.

But the time has come to change your mindset and face
your fears!

Fun: that's the key word!

Your true philosophy of life must be this, and not only regarding seduction
but always in any field.
This has to be your attitude. With women and with yourself
Seduction (and life) has to be a pleasure.
Pressure and rigidity have never helped anyone. When you approach a
woman, ask yourself, "What new things am I going to learn?"
The key to a good approach is not to be afraid of making mistakes. With
body language you will be able to know if the girl is interested in you and
therefore you will be sure.
Don't worry too much about whether or not you'll be able to create a
relationship with her or get her into bed.
If you let go of your anxieties, you will see that the whole seduction process
will be more natural!
 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

Flirting school: techniques to capture her attention

and attract her to you naturally!
How are you doing with flirting? This technique can still be learned. The key,
as always, is to act naturally and get rid of your fears!
Flirting is the first step towards!
Why is flirting so important?
Because, first of all, you prepare the woman for a conversation, by flirting
you show your interest and, in some way, you establish a fun and intriguing
atmosphere... And this is already very important!
Then it's up to you to break the ice and establish a first non-verbal contact
with her, and above all to find out if your interest is reciprocated!
This is because nothing like body language can tell you if she is ready to be
approached AND IF THE QUESTION INTERESTS HER!
Therefore, learning to flirt is essential both to relieve your anxiety about
approaching and to avoid rejection! Forewarned is forearmed!
Here are the reasons why flirting is an essential step in getting closer: your
way of flirting will determine the outcome of your first contact with your
potential partner!
Flirting is the most exciting phase of the relationship that is about to begin:
The game of glances, the ambiguities and the signs of interest make
everything so much intriguing and fun and it is fundamental in the game of
seduction!
For this reason, it is necessary that you leave clumsiness, shyness and rigidity
at home and keep in mind my precious advice:

Play with your interest: let him see that you like him but without
exaggerating!
Remember: it's clear that showing interest is good, but you have to
learn not to overdo it. Balance is needed. Nobody wants what is too
easy to get!

The doubt: ingredient x in the magic potion of seduction!

The secret is to always leave her with the doubt that she can't win
you over. Between one sign of interest and another, it is essential to
learn to send him some cues: try to play a little with words. You must
get her to understand, with some casual and sporadic signals, that she
may not be the woman you want. IT MUST BE CONFUSED. This
way, just when he thinks you're his, he'll lose his confidence and start
wanting you! Guaranteed!

Make her laugh!

It may seem obvious to you, but it is true, “make her laugh.” It is not
just a way of saying things but a style of seduction. Make jokes, tease
her and add a little bit of mischief and you're good to go! Leave your
shame at home and start getting to know your prey. Women want a
man they can have fun with and talk to! Use a mix of sweetness,
alternated with a bit of mischief, be protective and then tease her
sweetly as if she were your little sister and then switch back to
mischief: you will build a strong complicity!

Avoid looking desperate!

You can do and say whatever you want but if you give a woman the
impression that you are desperate and that you would do anything to
get away with a woman, you will receive nothing but rejection and a
laugh in the face. You don't want this to happen, do you? To make
flirting successful, the important thing is not to appear desperate,
just looking for a woman no matter what the cost.

Make yourself look confident!

Every small gesture, look or word should inspire confidence: no
closed or arched backs, no words spoken in a low voice (except if the
situation requires it), no insecurities. You have to show that you are a
man confident in his charm and his value. Remember the whole
first part about the inner game, at the beginning of the manual?

Nature above all!

A fundamental tip is to live your flirtation in nature. Avoid ruining all

your work with common phrases or artificial speeches. Flirting has to
be experienced naturally. Always try to be informal and try to build
rapport with the person in front of you!

Positivity is the most powerful technique!

The first thing an attractive person does, before confidence, before

their seduction techniques, before their appearance, is the positive
energy they emanate. Remember, not only in the field of seduction,
but in all fields of life, people are attracted to those who smile, who
are sunny, who are happy, open and who love life. Who would date a
person who is angry, pitiful and always unhappy? The secret to
learning how to seduce a woman is to be genuine, sunny, intense,
life-loving and passionate!

Don't just focus on the person you're interested in - interact with

everyone!

This is a very common mistake: when you are with someone or see
someone you like, you end up focusing all your attention on them.
This is a serious problem! What makes a person attractive? As we
have already said, it is positive energy! Interact with everyone
around you and you will not attract the person you are interested
in just by how you act with them but by how they see you act with
others and by your attitude towards the world! Remember this
phrase well:
YOU WILL ATTRACT THE PERSON YOU WANT WITHOUT
FOCUSING ONLY ON THEM AND ONLY AT THE MOMENT IN
WHICH YOU WILL MAKE YOURSELF ATTRACTIVE IN
GENERAL
 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

How to develop a seductive personality

Seduction is a fine game that has to be done with nature. As we mentioned in
the previous paragraph, a happy, sunny and hopeful person surely has all
the cards in order to seduce a woman.
Now you might be wondering, “Is this all it is, is it enough to be a positive
person to attract someone?”
The answer is no. But this doesn't mean that to seduce a woman you need to
look like Brad Pitt or Jonny Depp. Nor does he look like George Clooney. It
doesn't mean you have to buy a Ferrari to attract a woman. And neither do
you become a millionaire. And then?
Does it help to attract women with nature?
The secret is to have a strong, powerful personality, a seductive personality.
This will make it so that you will naturally attract all the women you want
and also those you don't want.

The secret of “presence”

Women, by their instinct, are biologically attracted to men with a strong
personality. Why in all Disney movies, women are saved by a prince?
Because for women, attraction is this: a man who knows how to protect
them, “save them” and take care of them.
And it may seem strange to you, but money has nothing to do with this. It is
the personality of a man who knows what he wants from life and is ready
to do everything to get it that drives women crazy.
It is this way of being a Man with a capital U, a man at ease with himself and
with others that is extremely attractive to the female universe.
Here are my tips for building an attractive personality.

· Self-confidence: the main ingredient of any relationship...

 If you don't have confidence and you don't like who you are, how
can you demand that others do the same? The reason why I have
repeated the issue of self-confidence so many times in this book is that
it is essential to building any relationship in life, whether romantic,
professional, friendly or family. If you don't love yourself you can
never be successful.

· Be proud of your ambitions!

Again, money has nothing to do with it. Being ambitious and having a
plan for your future has nothing to do with wealth or the work you do.
The bottom line is that you have to be the kind of person who aims
high. A person who trusts in the future, is passionate, has aspirations
that are not far-fetched, and in relation to what you do and who you
are, a person who knows how to plan their own future is a very
fascinating person.

Be confident in your sexual character!

Who wouldn't like to be chosen among many? Make her understand,

and act as if you could have all the women in the place, but for some
reason, you have chosen to be with her. Women like to be seduced
by a man who is so self-confident that he could seduce all women.
A man who feels comfortable with any girl, who is sure that he can
have any girl.

Mystery will be your ace up your sleeve!

Knowing how to always maintain a bit of mystery is a trait that

women instinctively value. If you become an open book, it is natural
that the woman will lose all interest or attraction for you. What
pleasure would there be in reading an entire book to the last page if you
already know the ending? Mystery stimulates a woman's curiosity and
this is a good way to keep her interested in you. The mystery of your
 past, the mystery of what you do when you are not with her or what
you are when you are out with your friends, this is a natural
aphrodisiac. You will stimulate their curiosity. But the mystery can
be maintained even if you talk about the two of you: for example, if she
asks you what you're going to do together this weekend, tell her it's a
surprise. If he asks you something about your past, answer that you will
tell him more when you get to know each other a little better. Learn to
be evasive and unpredictable. He tries to be different from all the
other men she normally meets. You will surprise her in a positive way.
Try to be original in everything you do, try to continually renew
yourself. Learn to be unique. Use the swing technique: play with her
emotions, give her pleasure, then immediately withdraw. Think about
soap operas. Why do they attract so many viewers' attention? Simple:
because they keep you on your toes!

Don't live for the approval of others or of yourself!

This is a serious mistake that many people make: seeking confirmation

of their own worth from others. Your worth has to be determined by
YOU, not by others. This is the only way to be able to demand respect
and to be valued by those around you. How to demonstrate your own
worth? Not showing her or anyone else that you need her approval
is a sign of weakness. Remember: every woman wants to be with
someone who has more power than her and therefore does not need her
approval, otherwise, she has to be the one who needs yours. Never try
to impress a woman because doing so will show that you are not sure
of yourself.

Learn to show yourself emotionally detached.

Nobody likes whiny children. Being emotionally detached from external

events is a powerful adjunctive value when talking about seduction. A real
man shows his feelings from time to time, making these moments of openness
truly special.
 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

How to cast a spell with the art of conversation.

I know that this question probably bothers you every time you have to go out
with a woman:
What are we going to talk about?
What am I going to tell him?
What if I'm wrong about the argument of the conversation?
What if we are going to be in one of those endless embarrassing moments?

To answer all these questions I have decided to include a list of the most
suitable conversational arguments for a date... have a good read!

1. Tell him about your travels!

What better way to get to know people than to tell them all about your
adventures and anecdotes? Try talking about the differences in
cultures, customs and countries you have visited! You will fascinate
her with your cosmopolitan character!

2. What are your cultural interests? •

Do you like cinema, music, dance, reading or painting? Good! It's a

good conversation starter! Ask him what he likes, discuss it and
express your ideas! A man who has opinions is indeed a fascinating
man! You don't like anything cultural? Well now you have a reason to
start reading that book you've left on the shelf for years gathering
dust!!!

3. Hobbies and interests: what are yours? And yours?

 Ask him what his hobbies are and tell him something about yours.
Talk about your hobbies and the things you are passionate about. And
if you're lucky enough to have one in common with her, the game is
played! You have the secret to the perfect conversation in your hands!

4. Talk about your future!

The future is an ace up the sleeve. This is the key to a conversation

that works. People think a lot about their future. Ask him what he
plans to do after finishing his studies, or what he would like to do
in the future, perhaps a trip, or maybe what he would like to do in
his life... and then by the way, tell him about yourself!
 SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

Physical contact and verbal language as a lethal weapon

to attract her to you!
Physical contact is the key to attraction: learn to practice this technique with
ease and she will be yours!
Do you want an example? During the date, try to touch her arm "just by
chance" or put your hand above her shoulder.
Contact should be casual, natural and last a few seconds.
Learn to control your body language: Learn to use non-verbal language to
show your self-confidence and to seduce!
This technique, called the Kino technique, can be used on any occasion and
not only with women: you can also decide to use it in interactions with other
men to show that you feel comfortable with it and that you consider them
friends.
Remember well: body language is a reflection of your mood and your
thoughts. Poor self-confidence, anxiety or a feeling of restraint can simply be
betrayed if you are not in control of your body language.
On the contrary, a strong identity and positive beliefs will allow you to have
good body language.
Remember that body language is another essential component of seduction: it
is the best way to seduce a woman and attract her to you, and it can also be a
good way to reject her and make her run away screaming.
This is why it is essential that you have self-control!

So what is the body language that is suitable for seduction?

What are the characteristics of a seducer's body language?
1. Don't be rigid, don't arch or close your back and keep your body
erect...
 You must have the appearance of a self-confident man and even your
body language must express confidence and sexual charge. Breathe
calmly and slow down your movements (without exaggerating, you
should express confidence and calm, not mental retardation!).

2. Learn to smile!

He who smiles is the owner of the world! By the way, this doesn't
mean you should smile like a fool all the time. But smile, smile
naturally!

3. Keep eye contact!

Remember that there are differences between looking and fixing. Try
not to lower your gaze, otherwise, keep it until she decides to lower it.
This is a symbol of dominance! You will drive her crazy and show
her that you are confident.

4. Do not immediately invade their space!

At least at first, try not to get too close to her and stay at least 50 cm
from her body, otherwise you will scare her and force her to feel
uncomfortable and defensive! Don't neglect this part! Remember
that a woman may mistake excessive and early proximity for an
aggressive gesture!

5. Be careful to calibrate the tone of your voice well!

The tone of voice is very important in interpersonal relationships:

depending on the circumstances, the person you are speaking to and
the type of relationship between you, you have to be able to calibrate
the tone of your voice to achieve your goals. The tone of your voice
reflects your energy, your strength, your commitment and your
 sensuality. So how do you get a tone of voice that is suitable for
seducing a woman? The secret is to speak using abdominal
breathing: the tone will be warmer, calmer and less hoarse. But be
careful: it's only a short step to go from a warm, sensual tone of voice
to a manic tone of voice!

Physical contact: the first ally of seduction

How to touch a woman?

How to engage her during a conversation? •
How to excite her and create attraction?

The answers to these questions can be found in the lines that follow... Keep
your ears open!
Achieving physical attraction during or after a conversation is a fundamental
step on the way to winning someone over.
You're getting to know each other and you feel comfortable talking about
yourselves and your interests, and everything seems to be going great... But
what's the next step? What's going to happen next?
Physical contact is the next stage. The step towards achieving your goal,
whatever it may be.
Keep this in mind: women are very sensitive creatures and they love to be
touched.
But timing is everything: as we said before, if your gesture is perceived as
brazen or aggressive, you will end up ruining everything and will get a
guaranteed rejection. You don't have to do it too early, but you don't have
to wait too long either: you have to find the right moment.
So when is the right time? How can it be understood?
The right moment is when she will let you know that she feels comfortable
with you: the way she moves (if it is rigid or less), if she smiles at you, if she
talks to you or looks at you.
But how to play it?
Remember, the touch has to be determined but delicate, EVERYTHING HAS
TO DEVELOP NATURALLY: first, caress the hand and arm. During the
conversation, try stroking her hand starting from the wrist and ending with the
tips of her fingers. She will feel comfortable, and at the same time you will
make the moment exciting.
Once the game heats up, using your hand, move your finger up gently
touching his arm and reaching his shoulder: you will stimulate many
erotically sensitive points thanks to this massage, thus giving him a thrill of
pleasure. And if she doesn't show any sign of discomfort, then it's done!
What is the next step?
Your neck: it is an area full of nerve endings and, therefore, very sensitive. If
you want to dare to get to the first kiss, then the next point to stimulate: the
hair!
Does she let you massage her hair? Kiss her!

SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES

The art of the perfect compliment!

Aside from body language, there is another way to increase sexual tension
between you and the woman you desire: the art of flattery.
Compliments are capable of seducing, exciting and creating intimacy. But,
like everything else, they must be used well: the art of flattery involves
choosing the right words, the right moment and the right tone of voice to
pronounce the chosen words... It is hard work that, if done well, can yield
very good results!
Women are crazy about compliments!
What does it take to express praise for it to be appreciated? The phrase you
say must express admiration for a characteristic of the person receiving it,
with the desire to gratify the other person. This is obvious.
But there is also another type of flattery: they are called indirect flattery.
What does it mean?
What is indirect compliments?
These are the things that a person does “for themselves” in order to have been
so clever or intelligent in having sought out the person in question.
This way you will surely conquer her!
Complimenting in the right way is an art that can be learned: well-known
phrases are forbidden, a little imagination is enough. Thanks to your creativity
you can make him lose his mind.
If fantasy is not your strong point, then focus on a “You are beautiful”, said in
a low voice, whispered in her ear, in a romantic moment. I'm sure it will be
successful.

Here are the characteristics for a perfect compliment:

· Sincerity!

Women have a special nose for this: if you say you like something
that you don't really like, they'll notice and you won't make a good
impression!

Take it by surprise!
Hit her with a compliment while you're making love or while you're
at a party and she's not expecting it! He will fall in love with you!

Don't be stingy!

Exaggerate: not in quality but in quantity! Even though she may

not be the most beautiful woman in the world, make her feel like she is
and say so. Even though she knows very well that it is not true, she will
appreciate it anyway.
 What are the compliments to avoid?

Here we are: read the following lines very carefully because, perhaps how
many times, even if unintentionally, you have hurt the sensitivity of the
woman you like, by saying one of the following forbidden phrases!

· Compliment followed by “although….”

How to ruin a good compliment in the worst way imaginable? Saying

“even though...”! This is a very common mistake: how many times
have you started off well by saying “I like your body...” and ended with
an offensive and embarrassing “Even if you have a few extra pounds, I
like you like that”, thinking you were saying something nice while in
reality, in her mind, she was hitting you with an oak branch? You
might ask yourself: Why, what have I said that is bad? I just said that I
like it the way it is! Good. In reality, her mind is not focused on “I like
you the way you are...” but on “I think you are a little fat!” Saying
this, the poor girl, having just returned home, would have gone to the
scales and started planning her diet, swearing that there was nothing
more she could do with you. Learn to weigh your words: sometimes
one less sentence is better than a mistake like this!

“You are pretty…”

You should never tell a woman she is pretty, even if she knows she is
beautiful and people tell her that at least 80 times a day. It's better to
say nothing than to give a bad compliment, believe me.

Don't forget to compliment him!

Don't overdo it with compliments, but don't forget to do them!

What if he had spent the whole afternoon getting ready to meet you?
Wouldn't it be nice to reward her a little? Think about it.

It's always the same story!

 Almost worse than a compliment not given is a compliment repeated!
Use a little imagination, don't always repeat the same things, you
will tire him out.

The time has come: how to evaluate whether your techniques

have had their effect?
As we have said before, body language expresses our thoughts and feelings.
So what is the best way to understand what she is thinking? If she is
romantically interested in you, if not, would you read what her body is telling
you?
Remember: all reactions, looks and involuntary movements are signals that
will answer your questions.

Depending on the case, they may confirm your words, clarify or contradict
what you say.
To help you decipher their non-verbal signals, here is a list of different
actions that can express interest to you:
• He whispers in your ear.
• He gently touches his earlobe.
• She laughs at all your jokes.
• He strokes his arm: he wants a hug.
• Throw your shoulders up as if it were cold: hug her!
• He often touches his neck, chest or hair.
• When you look at her or say "I'm leaving," she blushes.
• She leans her head almost resting on his shoulder.
• While listening to you, his lips are slightly closed.
• She plays with her hands.
• Their movements are synchronized with yours.
• Look at his pupils: if they expand in moments of desire.
• He licks his lips, or bites them.
• Smile!
 And now you're ready for the kiss!

Now that you have learned to read her body language, it will be easy for you
to understand if she is ready to kiss you.
There are some signs for this, apart from those we have already seen in the
previous chapters!
For example: Does he let you touch his neck, or the hollow of his back?
Look at your lips?
Does it moisten your lips slightly?
Then she can't wait to be kissed!

How to introduce the moment of the kiss?

The best way to get to the moment you are waiting for is to wait for the right
moment... but if this moment does not come, what should you do?
You have to learn to create the occasion!
· Try creating the right situation with a little physical contact!

Try tickling or caressing her, and when you see that you have reached
the emotional peak, hug her... This way you will have created the right
opportunity for a kiss!

· Are you in a place with music?

Ask her to dance. Dance together, body to body, and when you see
that the sexual tension has come out, attack her!

To the restaurant?

Try pretending to wipe a drop of coffee from her lips... Do it gently

 and then get closer...

· The eyebrow excuse!

Try to remove an eyebrow from her cheeks and try to gently move the
tip of your finger towards the corner of her lips, change the tone of
your voice making it more relaxed and warm and your eyes expressive
and present. This is your chance!

Please note: the first kiss has to be soft and delicate, no tongue and try not to
eat her face like you were an octopus!

Be a Man: You have to be the one to take the initiative

By the way, you are the one who has to take the first step.

But what if the crucial moment catches you with the fear of failure?
E se la paura del rifiuto ti porta essere paralizzato?

Remember: a woman, rather than making the first move, might leave
you there paralyzed for a few hours, and she would certainly be
disappointed because you have not found the courage to take the
initiative.

Why would you disappoint him?

Do you remember what we were talking about a few chapters ago, that
women look for a strong man, who is not afraid and who does not seek the
approval of others? Well, if you know how to take the initiative, then you will
make it clear to her that you are not the type of man she is looking for!

Nature is the key!

Kissing and then having sex with a woman has to be a natural path. It seems
like an obvious thing but many men completely forget this part, focusing
on their target from the first conversation, and losing all the magic of flirting,
attraction and the intriguing sequence that leads from acquaintance to sex.
 Basic guide to sex.

All the phrases you must not forget to make

your first time unforgettable!
You probably won't have much success if, after kissing her, you pull down
your panties and start smelling it on her face.

Sex, like everything, needs its preliminary stages!

Here is a final descriptive outline with phrases about sex!

· Touch his hands!

This is a very intimate and sensual gesture but at the same time it will
get her comfortable without “deflowering” any intimate part of her
body.

How do you get from kissing to sex? It's good to start cautiously!

The important thing is to raise the excitement to the right point! Start
with “simple” things, don’t forget that she could give you a piece right
where the sun doesn’t shine and thus send all your plans into failure in
10 seconds. So open your ears wide: while you kiss her, start putting
your hand on her arm and then move up to her shoulder. You can try
touching his back or wrist, and nothing else.

From the back to the arms and legs…

Put your hand on his back (not too low!), pet him, and then try to
innocently touch his leg! Remember, I said innocently!

The face, neck and hair: the trinomial of sensuality!

 Many men make the mistake of touching these areas too early. Don't
rush: these are very intimate and delicate areas! Try touching her face
lovingly, and watch her reaction: if you see that she is upset, walk
away, while if she is not, continue!

Kisses… from the lips to the neck!

What you have to do is simple: Is the situation heating up? Have you
managed to touch her in all the areas mentioned above and she doesn't
seem bothered, on the contrary, she seems to like it? Okay, start going
down, kissing her on the face and neck.

Get off your butt! And then it snakes into the shirt!

While you are kissing your conquest, make sure that your hands
move gently on the back and stay in the hollows: caress this area for a
little while and if everything goes well, continue going down. Now it's
time to explore what she has under her shirt: gently put your hands
under her shirt, caress her bra! Then, likewise, start touching the
inside of the leg...

Conclusions

Now you are ready. It's yours!

You have managed to win him over, flirting, talking, reading and using
body language and you have won him over with your kisses that give him
goosebumps.
CONGRATULATIONS.
Now, we have reached the end of this manual.
Did you like it?
Has it helped you?
I hope so. And I hope that I have shed some light on the path of seduction and
have given you useful and valuable advice or at least ideas that you can use
when they are of use to you.
By the way, it is almost impossible to summarize seduction in a book, it is a
very long argument.
THE FIRST AND TRUE CHARACTERISTIC OF A SEDUCER IS TO
COMMUNICATE WELL-BEING TO THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM!
Remember the advice I've given you in this manual, especially this last one,
and you'll see, you'll go far!
I guarantee it!
Now that you know what you have to do and how you have to act, you are the
only one left: you alone have the power to turn your life into a life of great
success with women and in general!
Luck!