in hindu scriptures if wife is always angry with husband which god should the
husband pray and what effective remedy does he need to follow
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In Hindu scriptures, if a wife is often angry with her husband, it is believed that
the husband can seek blessings from certain deities to restore peace and harmony in
the relationship. Here are some traditional gods and remedies commonly recommended
in such situations:
1. Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati
Why: Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati represent the ideal couple in Hindu mythology.
They are often worshipped for marital harmony and resolving conflicts between
husband and wife.
Remedy:
The husband can perform regular prayers to Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati together,
reciting the Shiva-Parvati Stotram or Parvati Mangala Stotram.
Visit a Shiva temple and offer milk or water on the Shiva Lingam, asking for
marital peace.
Chant the Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra or Om Namah Shivaya daily.
On Mondays (a day dedicated to Lord Shiva), he can fast or offer special prayers.
2. Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi
Why: Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi are worshipped for prosperity, peace, and
harmony in household life. They are symbols of an ideal and balanced relationship.
Remedy:
The husband should worship Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi together, reciting the
Lakshmi Narayana Stotram.
Performing a simple puja every Friday for Goddess Lakshmi and Saturday for Lord
Vishnu is believed to be helpful.
Keeping a Tulsi (holy basil) plant in the house and offering prayers to it daily is
another remedy as it is associated with Lord Vishnu.
3. Lord Hanuman
Why: Lord Hanuman is known for his devotion, strength, and the ability to remove
negative energies. If the anger and discord are due to external influences or
misunderstandings, worshipping Hanuman is believed to help clear obstacles.
Remedy:
Chanting the Hanuman Chalisa daily or reciting the Sundarkand from the Ramayana is
considered effective in resolving family issues.
Offer sindoor (vermilion) to Lord Hanuman on Tuesdays and Saturdays.
Fasting on Tuesdays in Lord Hanuman's name can bring peace in difficult times.
Additional Remedies:
Strengthening Communication: Scriptures also emphasize the importance of respectful
communication. The husband should practice patience, empathy, and understanding
while addressing the wife’s concerns.
Wearing Gemstones: Astrologically, wearing certain gemstones such as Gauri Shankar
Rudraksha or gemstones related to Venus (Shukra) can promote harmony in marital
relationships. Consulting an astrologer for specific guidance based on the
husband's birth chart can be beneficial.
Chanting Mantras:
Reciting the Katyayani Mantra is believed to help remove discord and promote
marital harmony. The mantra is dedicated to Goddess Durga in her Katyayani form:
“Om Katyayanyai Vidmahe
Kanyakumari Dhimahi
Tanno Durgi Prachodayat”
Offering Cow and Tulsi Worship: As cows and the Tulsi plant are considered very
auspicious in Hindu tradition, offering prayers and care to them brings positivity
to the household.
By sincerely performing these prayers and remedies, it's believed that harmony and
peace can return to marital relationships, along with mutual understanding and
love.