Body Language Questionnaire
Body Language Questionnaire
4. Rank order from most influential to least the following forms of nonverbal
communications as the best indications of what a person may actually be
communicating to you:
_______ Body posturing
_______ Position of arms and hands
_______ Eye contact
5. How much of the meaning of a spoken statement comes from the actual words
spoken? (check one)
a) 75%
b) 7%
c) 20%
6. If someone speaks in a monotone, what does this mean and what influence does
this have on his or her communications?
8. During a meeting between you and a co-worker, he or she moves a chair from
behind the desk and asks you to sit down to discuss something. You could interpret
this nonverbal communication to mean: (check one)
a) He or she is trying to conclude this meeting quickly.
b) He or she is distracted.
c) He or she is ready to listen to you attentively.
Following is a list of ten bad habits of listening. Check those listening bad habits
that you are sometimes guilty of committing when communicating with others. Be
honest with yourself!
I interrupt often or try to finish the other person’s sentences.
I jump to conclusions.
I am often overly parental and answer with advice, even when not requested.
I make up my mind before I have all the information.
I am a compulsive note taker.
I don’t give any response afterward, even if I say I will.
I am impatient.
I lose my temper when hearing things I don’t agree with.
I try to change the subject to something that relates to my own experiences.
I think more about my reply while the other person is speaking than what he or
she is saying.
Listening Questionnaire
Listening Questionnaire
When listening to another
person, I…
Always
(1 pt.)
Usually
(2 pts.)
Often
(3 pts.)
Rarely
(4 pts.)
Never
(5 pts.)
Get distracted
Listen only to facts
Interrupt
Assume the other person
already knows
Prejudge
Tune out
Ignore nonverbal clues
Total + + + + +