Dating as a Teen in Today’s Society

Section 1: True or False (10 questions)

1. A boy must always be the one to start a conversation
with a girl. (T/F)
2. A girl should only date a boy who is rich and good-
looking. (T/F)
3. A good relationship is based on respect, trust, and
communication. (T/F)
4. If a boyfriend tells his girlfriend not to talk to other
boys, it means he really loves her. (T/F)
5. It is normal for a partner to get jealous sometimes,
but too much jealousy can be a warning sign. (T/F)
6. A girl should stay in a relationship even if she is
unhappy, because breaking up will bring shame to
her family. (T/F)
7. Boys in Vietnam are expected to be strong and not
show emotions. (T/F)
8. Some men believe that women should do all the
housework, even if both partners have jobs. (T/F)
9. Drinking alcohol can sometimes lead to problems in a
relationship if it causes someone to lose control. (T/F)
10. If a boy is handsome, it means he will be a good
boyfriend. (T/F)
Section 2: Multiple Choice (20 questions)
11. If a boy wants to approach a girl, what is the
best way?
a) Show off his money and car
b) Be respectful and start a friendly conversation
c) Ignore her and wait for her to talk to him
d) Tease her so she notices him

12. What should a girl do if she feels uncomfortable

with how a boy treats her?
a) Keep quiet and hope he changes
b) Tell him how she feels and set boundaries
c) Accept it because men are naturally controlling
d) Change herself to please him

13. Which of these is a red flag in a relationship?

a) He checks her phone without permission
b) He respects her opinions and personal space
c) He encourages her to follow her dreams
d) He treats her with kindness and patience

14. What is the best way to handle a possessive

partner?
a) Avoid arguing and do whatever they say
b) Be honest about your feelings and set limits
 c) Cut off all male/female friends to keep them happy
d) Accept their jealousy as a sign of love

15. Why do some men expect their wives to cook

and clean for them?
a) They believe it’s a woman’s duty
b) They love their partner deeply
c) They want to build a happy and equal marriage
d) They enjoy sharing housework

16. If a girl feels unsafe or unhappy in a relationship,

what should she do?
a) Talk to a trusted friend or family member
b) Ignore it and wait for things to get better
c) Apologize for making him angry
d) Stay quiet because relationships require sacrifice

17. If a couple argues, what is the healthiest way to

solve the problem?
a) One person should always give in to avoid fighting
b) Both people should talk openly and listen to each
other
c) It’s okay for one partner to shout to prove their
point
d) Problems should never be discussed, just forgotten
18. What does a good boyfriend do in a relationship?
a) Controls what his girlfriend wears and who she
talks to
b) Listens to her opinions and supports her goals
c) Gets jealous easily and checks her messages
d) Expects her to do all the housework

19. What is the most important quality in a partner?

a) Good looks
b) Wealth
c) Kindness and respect
d) Popularity

20. What should a girl do if her partner pressures

her into something she doesn’t want to do?
a) Say no firmly and walk away
b) Give in because she doesn’t want to lose him
c) Stay quiet and hope he stops
d) Do it to prove her love

21. If a boy likes a girl, how should he show his

interest?
a) By constantly messaging and calling her, even if
she doesn’t reply
b) By being respectful and giving her space if she’s
 not interested
c) By telling her what to do so she knows he cares
d) By making her jealous with other girls

22. What should a girl do if a boy refuses to respect

her boundaries?
a) Stay quiet because he will change with time
b) Accept it because he is just being protective
c) Clearly tell him what she is comfortable with and
walk away if he doesn’t listen
d) Try harder to make him happy

23. If a boy frequently gets angry and blames his

girlfriend for small things, what does this mean?
a) He is just passionate and emotional
b) He deeply loves her and is afraid of losing her
c) He may have trouble managing his emotions, and
this could become a serious problem
d) It is normal in relationships

24. Why do some boys get jealous when their

girlfriend talks to other boys?
a) They don’t trust their girlfriend
b) They feel insecure about themselves
c) They think controlling her will make her love them
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d) All of the above
25. What is a healthy way to express love in a
relationship?
a) Supporting your partner’s dreams and goals
b) Controlling your partner’s social life to keep them
safe
c) Making all the decisions for your partner
d) Expecting your partner to change for you

26. If a girl is in a relationship with someone who

constantly criticizes her, what should she do?
a) Try to change herself to meet his expectations
b) Tell him how she feels and see if he will change
c) Accept the criticism because all relationships have
problems
d) Stay in the relationship no matter what

27. What should a couple do if they have different

opinions about something important?
a) One person should always give in to avoid fighting
b) Both should listen to each other and try to find a
compromise
c) They should stop talking about it and avoid
arguments
d) Whoever is stronger should make the final
decision
 28. What does a boy gain from being respectful and
supportive in a relationship?
a) A strong, trusting relationship with his partner
b) A girlfriend who will always do what he says
c) The ability to make all the decisions
d) More control over his partner’s actions

29. How can you tell if a person is pretending to be

nice in a relationship?
a) They say sweet things but don’t respect your
opinions
b) They only treat you well in public but act
differently in private
c) They get angry when things don’t go their way
d) All of the above

30. If a friend is in a toxic relationship, how can you

help?
a) Give them space and let them figure it out alone
b) Encourage them to talk about their feelings and
support their decisions
c) Tell them they are being stupid for staying
d) Avoid the topic because relationships are private

Section 3: Short Answer (20 questions)

31. How do you think boys should talk to girls in a
respectful way?

32. What are some common mistakes boys make

when approaching a girl?
33. If you were a girl, how would you know if a boy is
serious about you or just using you?

34. How can girls spot a "fake" guy who pretends to

be nice but is actually a bad partner?

35. Have you ever seen a relationship where one

person controlled the other? What happened?

36. Why do you think some boys feel the need to

control their girlfriends?

37. How would you help a friend who is in an

unhealthy relationship?

38. What are the qualities of a healthy relationship?

39. If a boy gets angry when his girlfriend talks to
other boys, is this normal? Why or why not?
40. Should girls be allowed to express their opinions
in a relationship? Why or why not?

41. How can a boy show love and respect to his

girlfriend without being controlling?

42. What advice would you give a girl who is dating

a jealous boyfriend?

43. What advice would you give a boy who wants to

be a good boyfriend?

44. Do you think modern dating culture is fair to

both men and women? Why or why not?

45. If a couple has problems, what is the best way to

solve them?
46. What should a girl do if her boyfriend is making
her unhappy?
47. If a person drinks too much and it affects their
relationship, what should their partner do?

48. How do you think the younger generation can

change unhealthy relationship patterns?

49. If you were in a bad relationship, what steps

would you take to get out of it?

50. Don’t get married.