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The document outlines seven common mistakes in relationships that can hinder genuine connections, such as over-texting, buying affection, and seeking external validation. It emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care, setting boundaries, and focusing on meaningful interactions rather than quantity. By eliminating these ineffective behaviors, individuals can foster healthier relationships and enhance their self-worth.

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Howtodropthe 80 Thatdoesntwork

The document outlines seven common mistakes in relationships that can hinder genuine connections, such as over-texting, buying affection, and seeking external validation. It emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care, setting boundaries, and focusing on meaningful interactions rather than quantity. By eliminating these ineffective behaviors, individuals can foster healthier relationships and enhance their self-worth.

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How to Drop the 80% That

Doesn't Work
The other 80% of your actions may be doing more harm than good. These
behaviors drain energy, frustrate you, and turn her off. Cutting them out frees
you from unnecessary stress.

by Jessica OS
Mistake #1: Over-Texting
Quality Over Quantity Be Thoughtful Avoid Exhaustion
Send fewer, but meaningful Instead of generic texts, show Constant texting isn't cute, it's
messages. Avoid constant check- interest in her specific activities. draining for both parties.
ins.
Mistake #2: Buying Affection
Money Can't Buy Love Value Presence Over Presents
Expensive gifts and dinners don't create real connections. They Focus on giving attention, care, and thoughtfulness. These
might even attract the wrong type of person. create genuine appreciation and attraction.
Mistake #3: People-Pleasing
Set Boundaries
1 Speak up when something doesn't sit right.

Voice Opinions
2
Don't always agree; share your thoughts.

Respect Yourself
3
Women respect men who respect themselves.
Mistake #4: Grand Gestures
Avoid Overcompensation
1 Big gestures don't fix underlying issues.

Focus on Foundation
2 Address root causes of lost interest.

Prioritize Consistency
3 Small, regular efforts matter more than one-time shows.
Mistake #5: Being Too
Available

Value Your Time Have Your Own Life


Don't always be the first to text or Focus on personal goals, hobbies,
always free. and friendships.

Create Scarcity
Allow her to miss you occasionally.
Mistake #6: Ignoring Your
Needs
Prioritize Self-Care Seek Balance
Don't sacrifice your well-being for Healthy relationships require
her happiness. equilibrium between both
partners' needs.

Show Self-Value
Taking care of yourself earns her respect and admiration.
Mistake #7: Seeking External Validation
Believe in Your Worth
1
Stop relying on her approval to feel good.

Cultivate Self-Confidence
2
Your value comes from within, not external validation.

Attract Naturally
3
Confidence in your own value draws her to you.
Focus on What Matters
Cutting out these 80% actions frees you to focus on what truly matters. It's
about doing better, not more. Real connection and success come from valuing
yourself and your time.

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