To Believes Allah: Every Young Woman Who in
To Believes Allah: Every Young Woman Who in
By |B#3
S*S Imam .Muhammad Sa'id Ramadan al-Buti
ais
B#S |e#3
w Translated by
Mahdi Lock
W
|:&£*
|B*3
B#a
8SB
»» ffl
s&d
NAWABOOKS
iS®5s
Pinnacle Papers
volume 4
4^3^= J's
To Every Young Woman
Who Believes in Allah
Translated by
Mahdi Lock
WKVJK BOOKS
We at Nawabooks would like to express our appreciation to everybody who contributed in
making this book a reality. Especially Ustadh Mahdi Lock, Brother I lazem, Brother Iskandar,
Brother Taufik, Sister Nur Aisyah Arshad and Ustazah Siti Syariati. We pray that Allah &
bestow His blessings upon it by guiding readers of this book closer towards Allah & and His
/ <4
To Every Young Woman Who Believes In Allah
© Nawabooks, 2022
All rights reserved. Aside from fair use, meaning a few pages or less for non-profit educational
purposes, review, or scholarly citation, no part of this publication may be reproduced, stored
in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical,
photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior permission of the copyright owner.
ISBN: 978-981-18-4907-7
Cover by: Muhammadan Press
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Worthless Remarks
65
Final Word
77
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
i
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
II
TRANSLATORS INTRODUCTION &
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Ill
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
after, amin! Ustadh Jalaluddeen has also read over the text and made
crucial recommendations, but I must stress, however, that any errors or
shortcomings that still remain are solely my responsibility. We praise
Allah the Exalted for any benefit that comes out of this work. Only the
mistakes are mine.
Why does this book stand apart? The Imam does a remarkable job
of discussing this topic with not only the seriousness that it deserves
but also the requisite compassion and empathy. In the Anglosphere
and other parts of Dar al-Kufr, it is often the case that when men
speak on these issues, there is harshness and a distinct lack of empathy,
especially when considering that many Muslim men, in many or even
most circumstances, do not wear anything that would distinguish them
as Muslims. That does not mean the immense benefit of this book is
limited to those regions of the world; the benefit is there to be had from
those in the East as well as in the West.
The benefit is indeed immense because the Imam, may Allah have
mercy on him, takes the discussion much deeper: one’s personal rela
tionship with Allah. This is the core. Outward appearance and conduct
IV
TRANSISTOR'S INTRODUCTION A ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
can only reflect what is on the inside. A heart that is well-nurtured and
remote from corruption, a heart that is attached to Allah, will shine
through the willing obedience of the limbs.
V
ABOUT THE TRANSLATOR
VI
FOREWORD - ARABIC
« fc fc
<JjJ-*v4 l^>-yJ L£i <>- JJ 4 ^41mA (* Lb 0 j I
- . ^ fr
g? g-L j-^j c <^kL~ 0®y***^ ^Lm
vn
TO EVER'i YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
•a?~l ajJ LJ> Ijryljj cLuaIj \yi <_jSJI la& (Jb a>j •••IaSIajL aiL-j
c <■
jl j>-jlj C<mO^>1>-Ij jc
^7*- J ^Xa Sba-S/I (J-l
Jc
Jc ^jJI
U.J' ^1
£-^l Jj Jcj cNAWA BOOKS jb Jo ^Li)l JI
VII!
FOREWORD - ENGLISH
To proceed:
The woman has always been and continues to be the man’s part
ner in building life: she is his wife, mother, daughter, sister, and aunt.
She is the one who has a delicate nature, who is gentle in her physical
and psychical constitution. At the same time, there are demons among
mankind who have used her as a means of seduction and corruption,
even though she is the softest in nature, the most affectionate, and the
friendliest. The West has regarded her as a means of achieving its de
sires uncontrollably, using her for seduction and corruption, and she
has become the victim first and the means of seduction second.
!X
I O EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN Al LUI
pacts the upbringing of the next generation, they targeted her in order
to divert her from her sacred mission, and to entice her in ail kinds
of ways towards deviation, and the deviation of the society as a result.
This is why my father, may Allah have mercy on him, directed this
book, which is small in its size but great in its subject and purpose, to
the young woman who believes in Allah, to save her from these ma
licious snares, and to save society by saving her. This book has been
widely accepted, and has had a positive effect, may Allah be praised.
X
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE ALL-MERCIFUL,
THE MOST MERCIFUL
A 11 praise is due to Allah, praise that complies with His blessings and
XjLcompensates His abundance. Glory be to You, O Allah, I cannot
sufficiently enumerate praises upon You; You are as You have praised
Yourself. O Allah, shower your greatest blessings upon the seal of Your
Prophets and Messengers, our Master Muhammad, and upon all his
family and Companions.
1
2
INTRODUCTION TO THE SECOND EDITION
What happened was something that this writer never expected, nor
the magazine that published it and circulated it.
3
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
The truth might come as a heavy load that is hard for the soul to
bear, but, as compensation, it bears the stamp of being above any hid
den objective or concealed need. As for falsehood, it might be light on
the soul, but in return, it is engrossed in a hidden objective that it seeks
by way of deceit and deception.
4
INTRODUCTION TO THE SECOND EDITION
said: '...such stories, by their nature, are difficult for those who grew
up amongst thick veils, and for those who believe in the precedence
of the veil.’
The man said this as if he did not know the opposite as well, which
is that stories that tell of the legitimacy of the veil are difficult for those
who grew up in an atmosphere of shameless free-mixing, and believed
in its preference and precedence!
The man did not forget to support this defence of his with an art
ist’s brush, who helped him illustrate the most prominent ideas in his
articles. He thus extracted from his imagination the image of a young
woman who was wearing the most repugnant forms of covering and
protection, such that one’s soul recoils from it and it is offensive to
normal taste. He knows, just as every intelligent person knows, that the
artist who did this could have just as easily pulled an image from his
imagination that showed a young woman in the most beautiful forms
of covering, that which is pleasant to one’s natural disposition and
agrees with normal taste.
Dear reader, the one who has such an eloquent tongue that he can
make you think that honey (which is the sweetest and most beneficial
of gustatory delights that we know of) is something repugnant, dis
gusting, and loathsome is definitely a master of eloquence and rhetoric,
but there is no doubt that he is turning you away from the truth and
towards the opposite.
The one who is sincere towards you and can alert you to the fact
that the wonderful cup containing a pure, sweet drink is actually a
stagnant poison that will kill you is, without doubt, denying you some
immediate gratification, but, without doubt, he is a sincere friend who
deserves absolute love and appreciation.
5
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
6
To Every Young Woman Who Believes In Allah
nd I only mean the young woman who believes in Allah, the young
woman who is firmly convinced of His existence and that He is
one god, with no partners, in His Essence and Attributes. She is certain
that it is He who confers benefit and no one else, and that it is He who
causes harm and no one else. Unto Him all of mankind shall return,
on an immense day in which there is no doubt. The veil will be lifted
from everything unseen and concealed and from every hidden truth. It
is a day of grief and regret for the one who was dazzled by his worldly
life felt short regarding Allah, while it is a day of rapture and delight
for the one who truly understood this worldly life, and used it to attain
Allah’s pleasure.
I certainly do not mean the young woman who has heard about
Allah but understands nothing about Him, or has inherited the word
Iman2 as a slogan and but is not convinced of its contents as a creed that
she bears in her soul. The name ‘Allah’ might be repeated on her tongue
twenty times a day, but she never becomes aware of its profound power
and authority, not even once a month or once a year.
7
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BElIEVES IN ALLAH
If her faith in ether had some sway over her conduct and lifestyle,
her faith in Allah would have a similar sway over her.
This type of faith does not produce any fearful awe in the heart,
nor does it lead a person in any specific direction or rectify any aspect
of one’s life or conduct.
I direct it towards every young woman who has this faith in Allah
in the depths of her heart, and I say to her:
Therefore, do not let any of its temptations prevent you from con
ceiving of its outcome. Do not let the great number of things that are
8
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BEl IEVES IN ALLAH
attached to this world make you forget the lowliness of it all. Do not
forget that in this world, mankind is being tested and is then going
back to Allah - regardless of whether they know it or are ignorant of
it - and maybe this test will be long and maybe it will be short. Never
theless, it is nothing more than a test.
In addition to traversing this test just as the man does, the woman
is considered one of the most important components of that same test!
This is because passions and desires, however they may vary, are
where people slip while doing this test that Allah has laid out in this
world. The woman - as Allah has confirmed and it is in His unequivo
cal exposition - is the first of these passions and desires.
^^5)
r = _-
9
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Out of all the passions and temptations that Allah has placed as an
adornment and test for people, He put women first. If she did not take
precedence over the rest in gravity and importance, He would not have
mentioned her before all the rest.
The secret behind this is that all the sins that Allah the Exalted
has declared unlawful for His slaves, man has no natural inclination
towards them. Oppression, in all its varying types, is unlawful, and man
is assisted in avoiding it by the fact that his natural disposition recoils
from it. Drinking wine is unlawful, and it’s being unlawful is facilitated
by the fact that man’s natural, original disposition has an aversion to
it. The same goes for stealing, cheating, backbiting, slandering, and
all other unlawful matters. All of them are inconsistent with a sound
natural disposition. No one inclines towards any of them unless he has
been tested with an anomaly or deviation in his nature and disposition,
because of something that happened to him at some point in his life.
Out of all these sins, there is only one exception, and it is the sexual
impulse that is found in both the man and the woman. This impulse,
even though it pushes people towards something unlawful - it is one
of the worst sins in the Revealed Law if it is not controlled by specific
boundaries and limits - it is considered one of the most important
necessities and requirements of man’s nature. There is no way for any
human - as long as he is sound and bearing no abnormality - to detach
himself from it or rise above it.
By way of this comparison, you3 are able to grasp that sexual de
sire is a human’s gravest religious test in this life. Just as man’s natural
disposition helps him obey Allah’s ruling regarding all other acts of
3 (tn): When using the second person, the author is addressing the young woman who
believes in Allah.
10
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Maybe you will ask: Why is not the man likewise considered
the gravest component of the woman’s worldly test; they both have
sexual desire and therefore the man and woman should share the
burden equally?
4 Agreed upon.
11
1'0 EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Now that we have finished clarifying that fact, you must know that
this temptation that the man is tested with - whether it is more difficult
or easier lor him - goes back to you.
If she wants, the woman can, by her very nature, make herself a
destnictive trial for the man, a trial from which he will find almost no
way to save himself. At the same time, by her very nature, she is also
able to help him attain safety and salvation.
How many nations have had power and influence over all other
nations, and then their influence diminished and their power collapsed
while licentiousness and moral degeneration were pervasive among
them? The underlying factor was nothing other than the woman. The
stories of how the Roman Empire, the Sassanian Empire, and Indian
civilisation were all eradicated are there for everyone to see.
Therefore, the most important Islamic duty that Allah has charged
the woman with is to sheathe the sword of her temptation in the pres
ence of men as much as she is able to, so that they are not overtaken
by this trial and test.
Consensus has been made that the woman does not maintain
Allah the Exalted’s pleasure by way of any righteous action the way
that she maintains it by striving to help the man be morally upright
and to control his lustful inclinations, and she does nothing that brings
about Allah’s anger more than striving towards stimulating man’s lust
ful inclinations and driving him away from the means of uprightness
and moral virtue.
Women are only the majority of the people of the Fire - as we have
been informed by the Prophet in the authentic hadith - because
of a collection of factors, the most important of which is that they do
not have taqwa of Allah in this grave task that Allah the Exalted has
entrusted them with.
12
1
If the Islamic world had not fallen into the darkness of being re
moved from Islam and its rule, not a single science or knowledge would
have come out of Europe and it would not have been able to seize the
opportunity and benefit from it.
I do not think you need to see evidence for the veracity of this
fact. The whisperings of western leaders and thinkers regarding this
can be heard everywhere. Indeed, and fortunately, they have turned
into loud screams that can be heard by anyone with the slightest bit of
education in this age.
13
,O EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Here are some excerpts from the book Whither Islam?, which is
co-authored by a group of orientalists from various backgrounds and
edited, with an introduction and notes, by the English orientalist HAR
Gibb, who was an advisor to the British Foreign Office.
Following that, he says: ‘It is not so much that any new factual ele
ment has been introduced, as that by laying new stress on some points
and thrusting others into a less prominent position the whole balance
of doctrine and ethical teaching is shifting, and shifting in a direction
which brings it nearer to the modem western ethic, represented also in
the current ethical teaching of the Christian church.’6
After that, Gibb confirms that the education and cultural activity
via modem schools and the press had made its mark on the Muslims -
without their being aware of it - such that they were very much secular
in their general outlook. He then follows that by saying: ‘This, and this
almost exclusively, is at the heart of all effective westernisation in the
Islamic world.'7
14
1
So what was the first weapon that the westerners used to frag
ment Islamic civilization and shift its morals away from Islam?
The most effective weapon that the west unsheathed to achieve this
was the element of the woman.
They knew what we know today, which is that sophisms can only
do to Muslims’ minds a tenth of what sexual arousal can do to their
souls. If there was inevitably a sophism that they were presenting, it
was unavoidable that they would use the woman to place lustful entice
ments all around it.
15
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
no other. It is the woman and every way that she can be exploited for
the sake of temptation, enticement, and seduction while being removed
from taking care of her family and the next generation.
Nevertheless, 1 shall give you this quote from the well-known mis
sionary and orientalist Henry Jessup:
He says: ‘The Beirut School for Girls was as the apple of my eye.
I felt that the future of Syria depended on the education of its
girls and women. Our school had started, but it had no build
ing and already had to turn away applicants for want of room.’11
I do not think any sane person is able to imagine that girls’ schools
were the apple of Jessup’s eyes because he was so keen to protect the
interests of Islamic and Arab countries, or because he was so concerned
about them and sincerely wanted what was best for them!
They were the apple of his eye because he understood the extent
to which the woman could have an effect on rectifying or corrupt
ing the upcoming generation. It was therefore necessary to rely on
girls’ schools and use them to control their education and guide their
conduct.
1 1 (tn): Fifty-Three Years in Syria (London and New York, Fleming U. Revell Company,
1910), 1:280. The author also refers to the book at-Tabshlr wa al-’Isti'nuir by Mustafa al-
Khalidi and 'Umar Farukh.
16
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
However, how did the leaders of the ideological attack, adopt the
element of the woman as a means to achieve the goal that they were,
and still are, aiming for?
Thus, since Islam had decreed that the woman be protected and
covered and that she not display any of her charms to foreign men,
these people worked to remove her as far as possible from the fetters
of protection and covering, and pushed her as far as possible towards
exposing her various charms wherever she may be, markets, gatherings,
etc. To achieve this, they sought the assistance of every hypocrite12 who
had a silver tongue, and was prepared to change Allah’s Speech and His
ruling in exchange for a tiny portion of this world.
Since Islam had decreed that the Muslim woman not adorn herself
the way women were known to adorn themselves in the Age of Ig
norance, and that she remain in her home and exert the utmost effort
towards producing a righteous family and raising good children, these
people worked to promote the idea that a woman is not able to remain
in her home, and that she should bear the various tasks and burdens
of life, so that she would not be able to look after her home or raise
her children.
To achieve this, they focussed on the weakest point that the Mus
lims suffer from and their gravest knot. They started promoting the
idea that the secret behind the Muslims’ backwardness - and this is
what most concerned them - was their incapacity to manufacture.
Manufacturing cannot take off unless it has the greatest numbers of
workers, and that can only happen if women are part of the workforce.
They started repeating and reiterating to the Muslims that the West had
12 Ar. tnunafiq.
17
1'0 EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
only surpassed them for one reason, which is this secret. They were
utilising all of their human capacity while the Muslims were neglecting
half of theirs!
This stratagem, which, today, has become old and exposed, was
applied to a large group of young Muslims and their leaders, such that
they started thinking that the secret behind the Muslims’ backwardness
was hidden behind this hijab that the woman hangs down over her face,
or flows over her charms. Therefore, the only thing lying between us
and catching up with modern civilization and being equal to the peo
ples of the advancing world all around us is to make sure that there are
just as many women working as there are men working.
After that, the discussion about Islam s rulings regarding the wom
an’s dress, her working, and her learning started stirring up disapproval
and distrust. Indeed, it became an evidence for these people that Islam
was holding its people back instead of pushing them towards upward
development and progress.
18
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
wrath and His painful punishment is not prevented in any way from
interpreting the texts of the Revealed Law and playing around with its
words and their referents.
When we have finished with that, we will look at the various prob
lems and obstacles that have been created and placed in the way of
implementing this serious divine ruling.
19
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
We ask Allah to protect us from the evils of our own souls, to give
us the success to use our intellects, to keep us away from all the pitfalls
of the shayat in, and to judge between us and our people with truth.. He
is the Best of Judges.’4
13 Ar. ijtihcld.
14 (tn): See Surat al-’A’raf 7:89.
20
This is Islam’s Ruling
I seek refuge in Allah that I should deceive people with that which
cannot possibly deceive Allah, and thus embellish a position that my
soul inclines towards and present it as being of the Religion when my
Lord is, in fact, not pleased with it!
The writer who believes in Allah and the Last Day is not safe from
bearing the sins of the other people and their consequences. Fie is not
safe from leading people away from the teachings of the divine truth,
such that when the people have gathered on the Day in which there
21
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
is no doubt and those that were misguided realise the enormity of the
deception that took them away from the truth, they will turn to their
Lord and blame their leaders:
“And they will say, ‘Our Lord, we obeyed our leaders and
our great men and they misguided us from the Way. Our
Lord, give them double the punishment and curse them
many times over.” [al-Ahzab 33:67-68]
The rulings of Islam are only taken from the texts of Allah the
Exalted’s Book, an authentic hadith from the Sunnah of His Messen
ger Muhammad a valid analogy (t/iyas sahlli) based on the two
aforementioned, or a consensus that has been made by the imams and
scholars of the Muslims.
22
1
We know intuitively that only the Prophets and Messengers are in
fallible and protected against slips and sins. As for the rest of humanity,
all of them refute and are refuted, and Allah’s resolution truly applies
to them: j All of the Children of Adam commit sins. J
Therefore, the only way to know Allah the Exalted’s rulings re
garding the woman is to look at what has been decided in Allah the
Exalted’s Book and in the Sunnah of Allah’s Messenger When we
have found this decision and we can see that it is supported by the
understanding of the scholars who act according to the Book and the
contradicted what the general evidences necessitated. For example, the Messenger of Allah
said to Abu Burdah when he wanted to sacrifice a young she-goat ('anaq): |It is sufficient for
you but it is not sufficient for anyone after you < Likewise, he married one of his Companions
to a young woman with what he had memorised of the Quran, i.e. the dowry did not consist
of any material wealth. Another example is that he considered the testimony of Khuzaymah to
be equivalent to the testimony of two witnesses. Furthermore, he wiped over his 'amamah
in wudu’. General rulings are not built on these examples, because they were brought about by
exceptional and exclusive causes. Thus, they remain confined to the scope of the circumstances
in which they occurred. It is not permissible to derive general legislation that goes beyond
the nature of those circumstances. One of the most prominent characteristics of waqdT al-
ahwdl is that they contradict the generality of an overall ruling (fiufeni kuUi) in which there
is no doubt, because of an exceptional reason, and if you were to look for it, you would find
it. (Refer to al-Ahkdin by al-Atnidi: 2/70, al-Muwdfaqdt by ash-Shatibi: 3/260, and al-Mustaffd
by al-Ghazali: 2/68).
23
I'D EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Sunnah, that is indeed the divine ruling; falsehood cannot reach it from
before it or behind it.17 It is not affected - whether it be abrogation,
modification, or qualification - by our finding individual people who
contradict it, from whatever generation they may be.
When Islam had come, and its rulings were being revealed one
after another, Allah the Exalted said the following regarding the woman
and her clothes:
% 5^45 5^ 5*
44- 3^ s 5^4?J 5^
17 See Surat Fu$$ilat 41:42.
24
THIS IS [SIAM'S RULING
5W 3^j 3^
3$*^ 3r^“' 3$^“1 3^SM J 3f3^ 3^'
JI ya jA-C- Ca JI
25
TO E\ ERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
sjLsii 4 ^3)
1 J*'
“Remain in your houses and do not display your beauty
as it was previously displayed in the Time of Ignorance.
Establish the prayer, pay the zakat, and obey Allah and
His Messenger. Allah desires to remove all impurity from
you, People of the House, and to purify you completely.”
[al-Ahzab 33:33]
The nature of these teachings, as you can see, is general and applies
to all Muslim women. They do not contain that would suggest that
they are exclusive to the Prophet’s wives. Rather, they are exclusively
addressed as a way of honouring them, as well as to urge them to be the
first women to submit to these commands and teachings.
26
I llis IS ISLAM S RULING
You will notice how the Divine Elucidation has placed this ruling
within a clear framework of seriousness and concern. It enumerated
the categories of relatives and other people whom are excepted from
the generality of this ruling, one by one, in detail, and went no further,
even though the overall style of the Qur’an is to rely on summation
when elucidating most of the rulings of the Revealed Law and to leave
the details to be elucidated by the Purified Sunnah.
This is why all the imams of the Muslims - not a single one of
them has deviated - have made a consensus that everything other than
the woman’s face and hands falls under the category of what must be
covered. Therefore, the apparent20 that the woman finds difficulty in
covering is not normally more than the face and the hands - however
much we might want leniency - and they are not to be adorned in any
way. Allah has commanded that everything other than this apparent is
covered - such as the neck, upper part of the chest, hair, and so forth -
and the text is decisive and unequivocal.
27
IV) EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
of limbs and what might become apparent along with them, such as
a ring, for example. Thus, the face and the hands fall under the gen
erality of what is unlawful to uncover. Thus, it is not permissible for
the woman to uncover even her face and hands in front of men who
arc outside of the excepted categories of male relatives and those who
bear the same ruling.21
21 See: Tafsir al-Baydilwi when he explains Allah's words < U [an-Nur 24:3 1 ] as well
as al-Mughni
i by Ibn Qudamah (7/23) and Mughni al-Muhtfij bi Sharh Minhdj at-Tahbm (3/1 28).
22I (tn): i.e. the effective cause, or ratio.
23 (tn): i.e. the more deserving analogy.
24 (tn): i.e. the person in a state of Ihram in order to perform the Hajj or ‘Umrah.
25 (tn): i.e. a cover that only leaves the eyes exposed.
26 (tn): i.e. memecylon tinctorium, a Yemeni plant used for dye.
28
THIS IS ISLAM'S RULING
They say that if were not for the fact that her face is (awrah
and it is not permissible for a foreign man to look at it, the
Messenger of Allah would not have done that to al-Fadl.
As for the woman in question, her excuse for uncovering it
was that she was in ihram in order to perform the Hajj.
29
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
30
Illis IS ISLAM'S RULING
And if the faces of the Prophet’s wives are 'awrah for for
eign men - and they are their mothers, as you know - then
the faces of all other women being 'awrah as well is even
more so the case.
Were it not, therefore, for the fact that the hijab includes the
face, there would have been no reason for this woman to cover
her face in public. If she had done so for other than a religious
reason, the Jews would not have been encouraged to infuriate
her religious sentiment.
31
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALIAH
If one of these conditions is not met, she must cover her face. In
the first case, it is to ward off temptation, and in the second, it is so that
she is not the cause of such reprehensible actions. In order not to be
the cause of such reprehensible actions, she can a) prevent iniquitous
men from looking at her, b) not leave her house and be in the presence
of such people, or c) cover her face from them, which is the easiest
means of the three.
Therefore, all the authentic hadiths that have been quoted that
are evidence for covering the face, and which the first group uses to
support their argument, are understood by the second group to be
circumstances in which temptation was feared, or are understood to be
out of a desire for caution and carefulness.33
32
THIS IS ISLAM’S RULING
The preferred position is that most of the women among the Com
panions and the Followers were those who were motivated by caution
in Allah's religion and carefulness to cover their faces.
Where consensus has been made and the outcome of the differ
ence of opinion:
2. It is also not permissible for her to show her face and her
hands if she knows that she is in the presence of people who
will look at her in an unlawful way, in a way that Allah has
prohibited, by constantly stealing glances at her, and the only
way she can stop this reprehensible action is by covering her
face. It is based on this situation that we understand what
al-Khatib ash-Shirblni quoted from Imam al-Haramayn in
that the Muslims have agreed that women are not allowed
to go outside with their faces uncovered?4
33
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
It is upon these three points that all imams and fuqaha' agree.
34
THIS IS ISLAM’S RULING
If this has been made clear to you, you should know that the sources
of the Islamic Revealed Law do not determine any specific type or sort
of clothing that the woman is obligated to wear. Rather, what is sought
is that the garment be long and loose-fitting over her body, not expos
ing any of her charms or outlining any parts of her body. The optimal
length for a garment is that it reaches the ankles, and it is disliked for
it to be higher than that, even if her feet are covered with thick socks.
As for the woman engaging in work, i.e. seeking provision for her
self or her family, or devoting herself to one of the beneficial sciences
- studying and learning it Islam has nothing other than the general
ruling that applies equally to both the woman and the man.
35
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Thus, the job, however noble it may be, becomes ignoble if it ne
cessitates that the woman depart from the authority of her veiling, and
that she adorn herself in front of foreign men. Indeed, it is unlawful for
both the man and the woman, for the woman falls into sin by beauti
fying herself in front of the man, while he falls into sin by mixing with
her, gazing at her, and allowing himself to be tempted by her.
So, which of the two should be sought, the man or the woman?
36
THIS IS ISLAM’S RULING
This is because if the situation were reversed and the woman was
made to chase after a husband, she would lose her most special, innate
qualities, which are connected to sex.
Allah the Exalted has established her psychical and physical con
stitution in such a way that it makes her pleasurable to man than the
man is pleasurable to her. Indeed, He put her happiness in her feeling
this, and that the man is driven to submit to this advantage that she has.
This is why it is normal for expressions of love and tender affection, in
general, to come from the man’s side, and the response from the wom
an’s side is to be coquettish in a way that does not dissuade, and to be
excited but not excessively or in way that peters out.
This is one thing. Another thing is that the rules and regulations
of the aforementioned system lose their authority, or indeed their ex
istence, when the man finds that it is the woman who is chasing after
him and offering herself to him here and there. What, then, is going
to necessitate that he adhere to the conditions and restrictions of the
Revealed Law that we have mentioned when she is offering him and
asking him?
It is very easy to know the answer, when you know how many
times the woman falls for men who only play with her, until she stum
bles upon the husband who is the true husband!”
37
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
The consequence is that men look and find that opportunities for
easy gratification are available to them in abundance, because women
are looking for husbands for themselves in that society.
The situation pleases them, and thus they become more disinter
ested and indifferent towards marriage, so that the women have to look
for them and chase after them.
The family has disintegrated and its pillars have collapsed due to
a number of factors, but no one doubts that this factor alone is the
gravest one. The woman over there has lost her happiness, because she
has lost her most beautiful and valuable dream, which is to be part of a
calm, blissful marriage. This is for a number of reasons, and there is no
doubt that this reason is at the forefront.
38
mis IS ISLAMS RULING
woman takes her dowry in full from the husband as an outright gift,42
as Allah has commanded.43 It is not for the husband to impose upon her
any sort of cooperation or partnership therein, let alone make her - in
some way - pay the dowry to him.
If both the woman and the man know that the latter is the one
answerable for the expenditures of the marriage, i.e. the dowry and
financial support, the woman has no means with which to make the
proposal, because her proposal would thus mean that she is declaring
her need of the husband as well as his dowry. This is the opposite of
the balance of exchanging services and the law of supply and demand.
And this is how striving financially to establish the pillar of marriage is
confined to the man, and at that point, it is easy to make him adhere to
the aforementioned rules and regulations of the Revealed Law.
39
TO FA FRY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN AI.1AH
greedy for better offers. The competition increases to the same extent
from the other side, since the way to win a husband is abundant wealth
and the best offer. Then, after that, there arc other bad consequences.45
The answer is that the greatest guarantee that these matters will
stay on the straight path is for the woman not to enter the field of work
for the sake of provision unless she is in dire financial straits.
40
THIS IS ISLAM'S RUI INC.
who have a very superficial view of things quickly see that there is no
solution to this other than to make the woman the man’s partner in
covering expenses just as she has become his partner in earning!
The first is that the woman loses her ability to veil herself from
men in the way that Allah the Exalted has commanded, and indecent
mingling occurs between her and them.
41
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
42
Fabricated Scientific Sophisms
As for the one who is on the edge of hypocrisy in his faith in Allah,
or in seeking to know His ruling, or in striving to attain His pleasure,
he is able to cram into every line that we have written some sophism
or ambiguity. He is able to stir up from the depths of Allah’s Book and
scattered parts of the Sunnah that could be used to support the oppo
site of what we have said, even though he knows within himself that
he is lying.
The craft of interpreting speech and playing with words is not dif
ficult. The Children of Israel mastered it before in order to attain small
worldly possessions. Many lawyers today are masters of it so that they
can acquire more of those same worldly possessions. Likewise, many
of those who treat the Revealed Law and its knowledge as a trade are
masters of this craft, so that they can use it to appeal to their superiors,
who look after them and promote them to fleeting, earthly positions.
43
1*0 FA TRI YOUNG WOMAN WHO BEI IFA'ES IN ALLAH
‘For that reason, you will not find any misguided cult, nor
anyone from among those who differ over rulings, who is inca
pable of supporting his position by using the surface meanings
of evidences, and we have looked at some examples. Indeed,
we have witnessed and we have seen among the iniquitous
those who support their iniquities with evidences that they
attribute to the infallible Revealed Law. Look at the issue of
being treated by a wine merchant46 in Durrat al-Ghawwds by
al-Hariri and the like. Indeed, one of the Christians used the
Qur’an to support the veracity of their current beliefs. Then he
let his imagination go further and used it to support the idea
that they are like the Muslims in tawhid. May Allah the Exalted
be greatly exalted above what they say.
46 The gist of this issue is that Hamid ibn ‘Abbas (the wazir of al-Muqtadir al-'Abbasi) asked
‘Ali ibn ‘Isa in the cabinet about being treated by medicine from a wine merchant, which he
had become attached to. [‘All ibn ‘Isa] turned away from him, so he asked the Judge of Judges
(Qddi al-Qudat), Abu ‘Amr, and he said: 'Allah the Exalted has said:
-lie. Uj j “Whatever the Messenger gives you, you should
accept, and whatever he forbids you, you should forgo." [al-Hashr 59:7] The Prophet
said: (Regarding the crafts, seek help from their people.] Al-’A‘sha was the most well-known
for this craft in al-Jdhiliyyah and he said:
One cup you drank out of pleasure
Another, you treated yourselffrom it. by it
Then Abu Nawwas, in Islam, quoted him and said:
Desist from blaming me; blaming is just temptation
And treat me with that which was the malady
Hamid’s face revealed the answer, and he turned to ‘All ibn ‘Isa saying: ‘Would it harm you to
answer just as the Judge of Judges answered, and he presented an ayah and a hadith?!’ There is
no doubt that this is vile impudence on the part of the Judge of Judges. It is like the impudence
that is normally seen from those who are iniquitous and reckless.
44
IABKIC.AH I) S< II N | IMG SOPHISMS
The meaning of what we are saying, however, is not that the one
seeking to know the truth is lost between the deception of swindlers
and the sincere advice of honest scholars, for the one who is sincere
in seeking the truth does not fail to find evidences for the truth in the
unequivocal, plain passages.48 If these passages escape him, he will not
fail to find them in what the pious predecessors of previous generations
have agreed upon. If he does not know anything of what the predeces
sors did, he does not fail to find its evidences in the uprightness of the
scholar who gives fatwa, conducts himself properly with people, and
stands firm when faced with the pitfalls of temptations and desires.
If the realities of his Islam lack that which will give him insight
into any of this, the tribulation will be from his own soul before it is
from the schemes of swindlers and the plots of those who lead people
astray. This is because the Muslim is not a true Muslim until he has
acquired a certain amount of insight into his religion such that it can
point out to him - even if from afar - the signposts of the truth and
warn him - even if only in general - against the chasms of misguidance.
He is legally responsible for acquiring this amount of Islamic insight,
if it is true that he wants Islam for himself and thereby to submit to
Allah's ruling.
45
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLMI
I do not reckon that there is any subject matter that the misguid
ers throw all their weight behind, seeking to confuse the truth with
falsehood and make it impossible to see the divine ruling therein, that
is graver and more important than the subject matter of the woman. I
have not seen any journal or newspaper that has nothing to do with
Islam - neither from near nor afar - except that it clothes itself in the
trappings of religion and assumes the position of religious guidance
when anyone approaches it with some sophism that is connected to
the woman, which they gleaned from some history book or concocted
from some of the sources of legislation. This then enables them to pub
lish it in the name of the Religion and its guidance on the front pages,
until someone comes along and points out to them that it is a contrived
sophism or deliberate lie. Then they quickly remove those religious
trappings, kick over the minbar*9 of religious guidance, and forget their
phoney veneration of the Messenger if they were attributing errors to
him. They become deaf and blind to the remembrance of the truth after
they had used it for a scheme of naked falsehood.50
49 (tn): i.c. the raised platform (pulpit) from where an imam preaches.
50 Al-Arabt magazine, as far as we know, has received dozens of research papers and treatises,
both short and long, all of which comment on the article by Shaykh Ahmad IJasan al-Baquri
that gave people the impression, in that magazine, that it was permissible for men to mingle
with women the way they do in our society today. Their wording was objective, polite, and
removed from personal attacks. However, the editor-in-chief of this magazine refused to see
the value of honourable words and free thought; he covered his ears and shut his eyes from all
of that. He did this so that the deception that al-Baquri had presented to people would not be
exposed, after which the clear truth would be manifest!
(What the editor-in-chief of this magazine was unaware of was that people are of two types:
46
FABRICATED SCIEN IIFIC SOPHISMS
the man who sinks in his lusts and libertinism, and therefore was never waiting for al-Baquri’s
fatwa or for al-'Arabi to publish it, and the man who has submitted himself to Allah and is
keen - as much as he is able - to follow the path that leads to his Lord’s pleasure, and thus he
would never turn to al-'Arabi or aLBaquri in order to take a ruling from them.)
The editor-in-chief welcomed the logic of affectation and released it amongst thousands of
people. He was not happy with the voice of truth and exerted himself in order to throttle it and
banish it, but affectation does not last that long and the truth cannot be throttled.
Hundreds of people in every Muslim country welcomed this affectation by slapping it down
and unveiling it, using the logic of trustworthiness and logic, such that it was fully exposed and
then it died. Then they gathered upon the truth and it was exalted, manifested, and augmented,
such that it returned stronger and clearer than before in people’s souls and minds.
The loss is only the loss of the one who has grey hairs behind his ears reminding him of death.
By the Lord who intricately monitors his every breath, the vain talk of this world, however,
can barely make him aware of anything!
47
ro EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RE! IEVI-S IN ALLAH
This hadith - for the purpose of our discussion - does not ev
idence more than one thing, which is that Allah’s Messenger had
Wishah accompany him to the Persian man’s house. Similarly, there
are many other hadiths that show the Companions accompanying their
wives to the masjids. Likewise, there are still other hadiths that show
many Companions visiting the Mothers of the Believers in general and
‘A’ishah •,£, in particular, in order to narrate hadith, take fatawa, or ask
about some of the Prophet’s states. So, what contradiction do you
see between this meaning, regarding which there is no ambiguity or dis
pute, and the divine ruling that decrees that the woman cover from men
and the command for the men that when they come to ask the Mothers
of the Believers something that they ask them from behind a screen?
He also was not content with that when Jabir invited him - and
hunger was swallowing up his bowels and those of his Companions
when they were digging the trench - to eat a small she-goat that would
not fill a large bowl for dipping bread in. He was not satisfied until he
had gathered all his Companions in front of him and gave them pre
cedence over himself. He broke up the meat in front of them with his
own hands, and took his place in order to serve them, standing behind
48
FABRICATED SCIFN IIFIC SOPHISMS
the pot of food. He was not content to eat until he was sure that they
had had enough, even though he had a stone tied to his stomach due
to hunger.
As for the hadith’s indicating that ‘A’ishah went with the Mes
senger of Allah and she had adorned herself and she sat in front of
the Persian man with her face uncovered, and the families mixed the
way they do today in Islamic families over which Allah’s religion has no
authority, this is something that the hadith does not indicate in any way
whatsoever. Understanding the hadith in this way is akin to believing
that the east comes out of the west!
y "They
should only display their adornments to their hus
bands, or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers.”
[an-Nur 24:3 1 ]
What further explains and clarifies how she went is the aforemen
tioned hadith related by Muslim and others, i.e. it is on the authority
of Anas ibn Malik that Umm Sulaym made some liais (a type of sweet)
and sent it to the Messenger of Allah on the occasion of his mar
riage to Zaynab bint Jahsh; the Messenger of Allah thus invited his
49
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Companions and they sat eating and talking. The Messenger of Allah
was sitting while his wife kept her face turned towards the wall until
they had left.
Al-Bukhari has related from Sahl, who said, ‘When Abu Usayd
as-Sa'idl got married,51 he invited the Prophet 5g} and his
Companions. No one made food for them or offered it to them
apart from Umm Usayd. She moistened some dates in a stone
vessel overnight. When the Prophet had finished from the
food, she pounded some more until it was tender, took it to
him and presented it to him.’
51 [Ibn Hajar] says in al-Fath: 'The word is 'arrasa [i e. he got married] with a shaddah on
the rd'. Al-Jawhari disputed this and said: ‘It is 'a’rasa [i c. he arranged a wedding feast]. Do
not say 'arrasa.
50
FABRICATED SCIEN IIFIC SOPHISMS
You know that what is reprehensible in the matter is not the wom
an’s offering a cup of coffee to guests. Rather, what is reprehensible is
her doing so while being adorned and uncovered. The issue is not what
people are familiar with nowadays regarding offering a cup of coffee.
Rather, the entire issue is her offering the cup of coffee while having an
attractive appearance.
/Ml the jurists and scholars of the Muslims know that there is noth
ing wrong with a woman’s offering food or drink to guests if she is
covered in the proper Islamic way, whose bounds we have explained,
and her husband or other male relative is present.
This is how it was with the wife of Umm Usayd at his wedding
party. In his commentary on this hadlth, Ibn Hajar says: ‘It is obvious
that in this situation, no temptation was feared and the obligatory cov
ering was being observed.’52
It was not often the case when the Messenger of Allah attended
a gathering that the bride would honour the coming of Allah’s Messen
ger and thus take it upon herself to accommodate Allah’s Messenger
and be hospitable towards him. And there is nothing in this to
dishonour her just as there is nothing in this that would attach any
blemish to him
51
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLMI
The real dishonour is in the one who clings to this hadith and finds
that she uncovered her face and body in front of men and that she was
beautified. This is something that cannot be found, and there is no
evidence for it in the hadith.
‘The bride did it herself. She offered the drink to the Messenger of
Allah Therefore, the woman is allowed to display her beauty and
charms in front of men.?! How is this different from someone who says:
‘Allah has legislated trade with money and striving in the earth for the
sake of provision. Therefore, it is permissible to engage in usury, fraud,
and to deceive and swindle!’?
How can someone know Islam and then not know that it gathered
for humanity every benefit when it legislated the way to attain it, un
polluted by any evil blemish, free from the motives of corruption, and
preserved by the warnings against deviation?
Does the one bearing this sophism want the All-Wise Lawgiver
& to make the woman some dirty thing that does not go in the street,
53 (tn): The Hanafis allow women to be judges in civil disputes. See Mawsii'ah al-Fiqh
al-lskmii wa al-Qadaya al-Mudsirah by Imam Wahbah az-Zuhayli (Damascus; Dar al-Fikr,
1433/2012). 6:650.
52
FABRICAI ED SCIENTIFIC SOPHISMS
does not solve problems, and does not cooperate with the man in any
thing? Is this all he understands from 5*^ V5 J “...and not
display their adornments...” [an-Nur 24:31]
53
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Among the women they have mentioned are ‘A’ishah bint Talhah,
who never covered her face in front of anyone; as-Sayyidah Sukaynah
bint al-Husayn, who had her own gathering and literary conference in
which elite men of letters and poets would meet; Hind bint Nu'man
ibn Bashir, who would be prominent on many occasions in front of
men with her face uncovered; as-Sayyidah the wife of 'Abdul Malik
ibn Marwan, the Commander of the Believers; as-Sayyidah Kharqa’
al-'Amiriyyah and her daughter Fatimah, who had their own well-at
tended gathering during the Hajj season, and Dhu ar-Rummah fell in
love with her and composed some of his best poetry about her; and
Walladah, the beloved of Ibn Zaydun, who would attend her famous
literary gathering!
54
I ABRK Al I I) S( UN I II IC S( H’lHSMS
Yes, Wishah bint Talhah refused to cover her face, and her husband,
Mus'ab ibn Zubayr, would reproach her for this from time to time. In
Mus'ab’s disapproval of her, we have evidence for the truth of what we
are saying, and it is far stronger than the evidence derived from her
conduct for the falsehood that they are promoting.
55
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
The result of all of this is that evidence in the Revealed Law can
only be an ayah from Allah’s Book, a hadith from the Messenger of
Allah a consensus from Ahl al-Halli wa al-'Aqd54 among the Muslims,
or an analogy based on an established ruling from the three aforemen
tioned evidences. It is these evidences that hold sway over people’s
conduct and their affairs. It is not people’s conduct that holds
sway over these evidences, by way of abrogation, modification, or
interpretation.
These words are clear and understood and are only concealed from
someone who has an agenda, a bias, or some desire, and thus he ignores
that which is self-evident so that he can pursue that which he desires
and seeks.
54 (tn): lit. ‘the people who loosen and bind’, and it refers to the most authoritative scholars
of the Ummah.
55 Ar. ijtihdd.
56 (tn): i.e. jurisprudential.
57 Ar. tatabaddalu al-ahkdm bi tabaddul al-azmdn.
56
FABRICA*! (I) SC1ENIIFIC SOPHISMS
consistent with the nature of that life, in harmony with the require
ments of that stage of civilisation. There was no reason for the woman
to leave her house other than in rare situations in which there was
some necessity.
The truth is that neither the usiili maxim that they use as an
argument have any connection or relation to the topic at hand, nor
does the alleged industrial development necessitate everything that
they are claiming.
Words like these are said regarding a nation whose abundant and
flourishing factories are complaining about a lack of working hands to
run them, or a nation where you search and fail to find a single youth
57
TO EV FRY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
These people think that the woman in Europe and America only
partakes in work alongside the man so that the two of them can co
operate in keeping up with the machines, which never stop. It is thus
agreeable to them - based on this fantasy - to merely simulate in a way
that reflects the egos’ desires and man’s sexual inclinations, instead of
truly ridding themselves of the backwardness and incapacity that they
are suffering from. Thus, they continue moving towards industrial or
civilizational advancement along this single, lustful path, and it is as if
by doing so they have unlocked all the gates to the world!
58
IARRICAI f I) SCIEN I II IC SOPHISMS
of going out and working in any job, factory, restaurant or hotel! Like
wise, the husband sees no need to support his wife financially, as it is
within her capacity to go out and make money from wherever.
59
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN Al LAM
If these are the real motives, why should we imitate its advocates?
And it is not just this. We are actually holding our heads up high,
imagining that by imitating them in this matter, we have become like
them in every progress that they make and in every achievement that
they attain.
These are the sophisms that those who are fed up with the wom
an’s covering and veiling cling to, and I do not think there is anything
more than that. If I knew there were more, I would look for it and then
present it so that it can be examined and evaluated.
60
FABRICAI El) S( ll-N I II K SOPHISMS
I have seen that all of these sophisms are nothing but fabricated
barriers to create distance between the unequivocal Islamic ruling and
clarity. Even those who promote these sophisms and use them as ar
guments know this, but they watch their tongues and make sure that
they do not utter a word that would reveal that they know this. They
are thus like a group that are very similar to them and whom Allah
described by saying: f Ulb ^>4—“...and they
repudiated them wrongly and haughtily, in spite of their own
certainty about them.” [an-Naml 27:14 j
And if we were to agree with these people who drone these soph
isms of theirs in every field and battleground, and we assumed that
they were sound arguments - which they are not, and they know they
are not - that would do nothing to support the dreadful and corrupted
situation that a large number of Muslim women, young and old, have
been carried away by.
61
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
Is it not the strangest thing that we find that a group of our writers
- and they call themselves Muslims, - as well as many magazines - and
they are branded with the stamp of ta wind and Iman -; have made cau
tion in Allahs religion and sincere concern for Allah’s legislating to be
a problem and a major affliction? They have thus unleashed their pens
and to solve this matter they sometimes resort to tempting and alluring
pictures and at other times to derisive pictures. They also use various
psychical suggestions and treatments. They do all of this because there
is a group of young Muslim women - and they are nevertheless the
minority - who are motivated by prudence in Allah’s religion and ad
hering to Allah’s legislation and thus they let their garments hang down
62
FABRICATED SCIFN I IFIC SOPHISMS
over their faces or over the other parts of the body. They do this with
out any of their service to the community interceding any of them. In
other words, despite her covering, she serves her community and takes
care of her nation, and she engages in the correct fields of educational
and social endeavour, which the other women do not do. Then these
writers, or these magazines, do not notice, on the contrary, any prob
lem or mistake that needs to be dealt with or evaluated regarding the
appearance and conduct of this majority of women, both young and old,
who have fallen captive to modern fashion houses that strive to control
what the woman wears in Europe and America in general, and in the
Islamic cast in particular!
63
TO E\ FRY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
64
Worthless Remarks
1" f owe ver these baseless sophisms may be, the enemies of this Re-
1 JLligion have other arguments and remarks that they hope will
support their falsehood. They are, however, worthless and meaningless
remarks that cannot be accepted by anyone who is of sound intellect.
They fall under what logicians call sophistry, i.e. it looks like an argu
ment but there is nothing there. They are remarks that are used more
to subdue the ego than to convince the intellect.
How many young believing women go astray, away from the good
sense of the intellect, because of these polished, deceptive remarks, and
how many have realised that they are deceptive prattle but it was too
late, because they have gone too far and they have no strength to come
back, or they have indeed fallen into bottomless pits that they cannot
get out of!
They tell you that the young womans chastity is concealed within
her essence. It is not a cover that is put over her and hangs down over
65
TO EVI RY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BEl IEVES IN ALLAH
I say to you that this is tme. It is not for a garment to weave lost
chastity for its wearer, or to create uprightness that is not there. It is
often the case that a whore uses a veil to cover her whoredom. Who,
however, has claimed that Allah only legislated that the woman cover
her body in order to create purity within herself or chastity in her
character? Who has claimed that Allah has only legislated covering so
that it can be a declaration that every woman who does not adhere to
it is a whore who has sunk into a valley of sin and seduction with men?
It is the trial of men, in that their eyes fall upon the temptations
and charms of women, that is the problem that the community needs
to solve, and Allah's legislation can take care of it in the best way.
The trial of men, if this divine solution does not stand in its way,
will undoubtedly bring evil to women as well, and at that point the
beautified woman will not benefit from being upright in her conduct
or chaste within herself. This is because the blaze of this aroused and
66
WORTH 1 ESS REMARKS
excited trial in men’s souls may very well overcome every uprightness
or chastity with which the woman restrains herself if she displays her
means of arousal and temptation in front of them.
They tell you that if mixing between men and women becomes
common, the characters of both will be refined, and as a result, there
will be innocent “friendships” between them that will not lead to sex
or deviate into sin! On the other hand, if barriers of veiling are placed
between them, sexual inclinations between them will become inflamed
and each will be tempted by the other! That will lead to sexual inhibi
tion and bad character!
I say to you that it is true that temptation can lose some of its
influence after lengthy exposure and after it has become widespread. It
is indeed possible for this influence to wane, over time, on those who
have immersed themselves in it and reaped its fruits, after which they
no longer pay any attention to it. It is self-evident that it is not because
they have risen above temptation. Rather, it is because they have be
come fed up with it, and because they get enough of it every day.
We all know that the one who passes by sexual imagery over there
does not look at it or pay attention to it. Maybe after an hour or so you
will find him somewhere else engaging in some sexual act. His disin
terest in, and insensitivity to, temptation is only the result of pleasure
becoming widespread and cheap. It is not the result of some specific or
new understanding that he might have gained insight into.
67
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BEI IF.VES IN ALLAH
The one who imagines that this lack of interest in sex is not due
to it being widespread and readily available is like someone who imag
ines that a hungry person can be made to do without food by merely
spreading out tasty plates of food everywhere he looks.
68
WORTHLESS REMARKS
They tell you that the woman’s covering is a hindrance that pre
vents her from joining the man in his intellectual, cultural, and social
progress. The first step towards any intellectual or social activity is for
the young woman to uncover her face and smash the barriers and pre
conceptions between her and the man. Likewise, the first way to put an
end to her various intellectual and social faculties and abilities is for her
to imprison herself in the cage of this covering, and to place a barrier,
which she calls veiling and covering, between herself and the man!
69
i o EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
Islam and adhere to Allah’s ruling, and they are quicker to advance
in their knowledge, educational, social and intellectual activity than
their "liberated” colleagues are.
Anyone who is familiar with history knows that our Islamic history
is full of Muslim women who combined between Islam in terms of
etiquette, modesty, and veiling on the one hand, and knowledge, educa
tion, and an intellectual life on the other. This started in the age ol the
Companions and has continued to this day that we live in.
70
WORTHLESS REMARKS
They tell you that the young woman who keeps herself away from
people behind a cover is denying her youth, or indeed her life, the
happiness of marriage. The young man will only devote himself to the
young woman who pleases him, and that part about her that pleases
him - before anything else - is her beauty and the outward aspects of
her personality that are connected to it. How can he be sure about her
in that regard if it is not facilitated for him to see her and to get to
know a bit about her nature and character? How can that be facilitated
for him when she refuses to do anything but keep herself away from
him behind the wall of a burqa and a hijab?
I say to you that this is a baseless deceit that reveals the oppo
site of the truth and reality! It is a deceit formulated by peddlers of
falsehood who claim knowledge, and it tricks young women and their
mothers into ignorance and deception!
If you reflected on the reality that we live in, you would see that the
rate of men who approach conservative families and young women for
marriage is about twice the rate of those who approach “liberated” fam
ilies who follow this deceptive prescription, which has deluded them.
Indeed, marriage in general is more common among conservative, re
ligious families than it is among other families, at a rate that is more
than double. The details of this are known by anyone who refers to the
detailed statistics on the matter.
71
ro EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
1 shall elucidate for you the near and far causes of this reality, so
that you become more certain of the Creators wisdom ig£, and that
humanity will not find their benefit properly guarded and protected in
other than implementing Allah’s legislation.
The young men in our community fall into one of two categories:
The young man in this category will inevitably get married in his
twenties, the only exception being those who have exceptional, particu
lar circumstances. A young man like this views marriage the same way
a fasting person views his iftar, he gathers for it all of his worldly hopes
and makes it the pillar of all his happiness!
The young man in this category looks for the young woman of his
dreams, but within the scope of veiling and protection that he believes
in and grew up with. This means that if circumstances were to take
him out of this scope in certain instances for reasons which a young
man might be tested, he would not be content with a young woman
to become the mother of his children unless he saw that she had a re
ligious nature and that covering was something manifest and genuine
in her life.
72
WORl IILESS Rl-MARKS
The second category is the young man who has extricated himself
from the authority of the Religion and its rulings. He enjoys himself in
whatever way, whenever it is feasible for him to do so, and he does not
care whether it is lawful or unlawful!
The young man in this category, if he does marry, will delay mar
riage until he is halfway through middle age or near the end of it. You
will not find a single one of them marrying before the age of thirty-five!
That is, unless he has some rare, exceptional circumstances.
A young man like this thinks about marriage the same way a tourist
thinks about returning home after a nice holiday and the enjoyment
has drained all of his energy and vigour, such that he feels bored and
strained, so he goes home seeking rest and relaxation! This man has
enjoyed all kinds of pleasure and it was all profit and no loss. What he
wants from a wife now is for her to help him and give him the rest and
relaxation that he seeks, and not so much the enjoyment, pleasure and
happiness that a husband and wife share in a marriage.
There is a difference between the man and the woman in how they
compete for their pleasures, something that is rarely realised by people,
and the woman is always the loser! Whenever the woman frees herself
73
IO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
from the shackles of the Religion and etiquettes, she does not reach the
peak of her happiness unless it is in a home in which she becomes a
happy mother.
The man, whatever his situation may be, seeks his pleasures and
delights without bearing any loss, responsibility, or trouble. Nothing
will wean him off that other than a religion that controls his heart. In
the absence of religion, the man and the woman meet on a playing field
in which the woman is always defeated!
The result of all of the above is a tangible and witnessed reality that
man only needs to contemplate and be aware of to see, which is that
the marriage rate of young religious people is more than twice that of
those who are "free and liberated”. Furthermore, religious people only
get married to righteous families, and they only cling to the beauty that
is adorned by good character, covering, and religion. As a result, spin
sterhood only spreads - in general - among families that have chosen
to turn away from the path of the Religion, its ruling, and its nurturing.
Now that all of this has been made clear to you, it is time to get up
and respond to your Sublime Lord’s ruling, and to become reconciled
with Allah after being in a state of forgetfulness and estrangement
from Him. Take His straight path as your path to Him, and His love as
an intercessor before Him.
74
WOK I III .ESS REM/XRKS
Rise above striving to please them and realising their wishes, for
indeed rising to Allah’s pleasure will make you happier and safer.
I, on the other hand, shall remind you of the clear, divine ruling
that I have faithfully transmitted to you, and of the established hadith
of Allah’s Messenger when he said:
You will also find those who will remind you of the beauty of this
worldly life and the temptations to quench one’s thirst for its pleasures
and delights. I, however, remind you of the gravity of its outcome and
the massive consequences that await you. 1 remind you of the Day of
Judgement, even though you believe in its existence. I remind you of
the day in which Allah the Exalted’s words will speak the truth while
He is addressing a large segment of mankind:
60 Related by Muslim and Imam Ahmad.
75
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO RELIEVES IN ALLAH
-.n > L
<3^ J ojyf-
Finally, let me remind you that all of these swindlers are only look
ing out for themselves when they claim to be advising you. They are
only seeking to meet the needs of their desires.
76
A Final Word
A /Ty final word must be for those women whose hearts are certain
IV 1of the truth that I have clarified, although one of them might feel
that there is some remoteness between the reality that she lives in and
the truth that she believes in, so she regretfully falls back on the reality
that she lives in, and apologises to Allah or to people because she is
unable to make this huge leap.
77
TO EVERY YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLMI
you towards. All that is required of you - after you have become aware
of the truth and believed in it - is to start climbing its steps, not to
make one giant leap to the top!
78
A FINAL WORD
who legislated this truth and commanded to it will never grip you with
His power and authority. Or, it is as if the Hereafter and what it con
tains are not worth a person's giving up any of his hopes and desires.
Allah the Exalted described this punishment and its causes when
He said:
1
5^3 ^5})
015 '>5
79
I O EVERA YOUNG WOMAN WHO BELIEVES IN ALLAH
One of the requisites of this faith is that you listen very carefully
to what has been discussed in this treatise and think about it seriously.
This is so that when you have become convinced that 1 have not
deceived you with false statements, and that I have only presented
to you the pure truth in which Allah’s ruling is embodied, you
must embark upon implementing this ruling by going through its
gradual steps.
If you find that the grips and passions of this worldly life and the
customs of your friends and relatives are holding you back and pre
venting you from standing up for Allah’s command, there should be
nothing less than sorrow pouring out of your heart as a result. That
agony will take you to Allah the Exalted’s door and the steps of His
mercy, so that you can show Him your weakness and supplicate fer
vently to Him about your suffering so that He grants you strength and
success, and that He gives you the support to liberate yourself from the
sway of your soul, and the sway of traditions and customs, and from
the sway of relatives and friends.
If your faith does not encourage you to do this or that, and your
heart is not moved by any feeling or concern for everything that I have
told you, then be in doubt about your faith in Allah the Exalted’s exis
tence, and know that if you continue you like this, you will arrive at a
dreadful end from which there is no escape!
You should know that the intoxication of this worldly life, however
delightful it may be; you can be shaken out of it at any moment, and
that moment - by Allah - is near.
80
A FINAL WORD
And you should know that its taste, however pleasant it may be,
is a lump that will end up in your throat, and that - by Allah - is
coming your way.
Then, know that if any young man is tempted because of you today,
or his mind is preoccupied because of that temptation, - and you were
able to protect him from that - you will receive an exemplary punish
ment from Allah the Sublime tomorrow.
81