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 CONTENT
1. Never Ignore Your Fitness
2. Control Your Attention
3. Put Yourself First
4. Make Your Life About You
5. Embrace Your Strengths
6. No Cheap Dopamine
7. Learn to Communicate
Effectively
8. Don't Run After Success; Become
Its Favorite
9. Embrace the Struggle
10. Value Time
11. It's My Fault
 Chapter 1

RULE #1: NEVER

IGNORE YOUR
FITNESS

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Have you ever tried to study for a big exam
after pulling an all-nighter? Or tried to
perform your best in a sports competition
when you're feeling sluggish and tired? It's
tough, right?

That's because your physical health has a

huge impact on your mental and emotional
well-being.

Think of your body as the foundation of your

success. When you're physically fit, you
have more energy, focus, and resilience to
tackle life's challenges. You're better
equipped to handle stress, overcome
setbacks, and achieve your goals.

It's like building a house.

If the foundation is weak, the whole structure

is unstable. But if the foundation is strong,
the house can withstand storms and stand
tall for years to come.

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When you prioritize your fitness, you're not
just investing in your physical health; you're
investing in your overall success. You'll be
able to:

Focus better: Exercise helps improve

concentration and memory, which is
essential for studying, working, and
learning new skills.
Handle stress more effectively: Physical
activity releases endorphins, which have
mood-boosting effects and can help
you manage stress.
Boost your confidence: When you feel
good physically, you tend to feel good
about yourself overall.

So, how do you build a strong foundation for

success?

Find an activity you enjoy: It could be

anything from dancing to hiking to
playing a team sport. The key is to find
something you like and stick with it.

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 Fuel your body with healthy foods: Eat
plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole
grains. Limit processed foods, sugary
drinks, and unhealthy fats.
Prioritize sleep: Aim for 7-8 hours of
quality sleep each night. Your body
needs time to rest and recharge.

By taking care of your fitness, you're setting

yourself up for success in all areas of your
life.

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 Chapter 2

RULE #2:
CONTROL YOUR
ATTENTION

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In today's world, it's easy to get distracted.
Our phones buzz with notifications, social
media feeds endlessly refresh, and our
minds race with a million thoughts.

But if we want to achieve our goals and live

a fulfilling life, we need to learn to control
our attention.

Think of your attention like a superpower. It's

the ability to focus your mind on what's
important and filter out the noise. When you
can control your attention, you can:

Learn more effectively: Whether you're

studying for an exam, learning a new
skill, or simply trying to understand a
complex topic, focused attention is key.
Work more productively: When you're
able to concentrate on the task at hand,
you can accomplish more in less time
and produce higher-quality work.

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 Make better decisions: By focusing on
the relevant information and filtering out
distractions, you can make more
informed and thoughtful decisions.
Enjoy life more fully: When you're
present in the moment, you can savor
the experiences and appreciate the
beauty around you.

So how do you master this superpower?

Minimize distractions: Turn off

notifications, put your phone away, and
find a quiet space where you can focus.
Practice mindfulness: Pay attention to
your breath, your thoughts, and your
surroundings. This can help you become
more aware of when your mind is
wandering and gently bring it back to
the present moment.
Set clear goals: Knowing what you want
to achieve can help you stay focused
and motivated.
Take breaks: Don't try to force yourself to
focus for hours on end. Take short breaks
to rest and recharge your mind.

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By learning to control your attention, you're
taking charge of your mind and your life.
You're creating the space for focus, clarity,
and deeper engagement with the world
around you.

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 Chapter 3

RULE #3: PUT

YOURSELF
FIRST

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This rule might seem counterintuitive in a
world that often emphasizes selflessness
and putting others first.

But Chetan Bhagat argues that prioritizing

your own well-being is not selfish; it's
essential.

Think about it: if you're constantly exhausted,

stressed, and depleted, how can you
effectively show up for the people in your
life? How can you pursue your dreams and
make a positive impact on the world?

Putting yourself first means:

Taking care of your physical and

mental health: This includes getting
enough sleep, eating nutritious food,
exercising regularly, and managing
stress.
Setting boundaries: Learn to say "no" to
things that drain your energy or don't
align with your values.

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 Pursuing your passions: Make time for
the activities that bring you joy and
fulfillment.
Prioritizing your own needs: Don't be
afraid to ask for help when you need it,
and don't feel guilty about taking time
for yourself.

When you prioritize your own well-being,

you're not only taking care of yourself; you're
also becoming a better version of yourself
for the people around you. You'll have more
energy, compassion, and resilience to give
to others.

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 Chapter 4

RULE #4:
EMBRACE YOUR
STRENGTHS

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We all have unique strengths and talents.
Things we're naturally good at, things that
come easily to us, things that make us feel
energized and alive. This rule encourages
us to identify our strengths and embrace
them.

Think about it:

When you're doing something you're good

at, you feel confident, motivated, and
fulfilled. You're more likely to succeed, and
you're more likely to enjoy the process.

On the other hand, when you're constantly

trying to force yourself to do things you're
not good at, you're likely to feel frustrated,
discouraged, and even resentful.

So, how do you identify your strengths?

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 Pay attention to what you enjoy: What
activities make you feel energized and
engaged? What do you lose track of
time doing?
Ask for feedback: Ask friends, family, and
colleagues what they think you're good
at.
Try new things: Step outside your
comfort zone and explore different
activities. You might discover hidden
talents you never knew you had.

Once you've identified your strengths,

embrace them! Focus on developing them
further, and look for opportunities to use
them in your work and personal life.

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 Chapter 5

RULE #5: NO
CHEAP
DOPAMINE

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In today's world, we're surrounded by things
that give us quick hits of dopamine – that
feel-good chemical in our brains.

Social media likes, online shopping sprees,

sugary treats, and binge-watching TV
shows can all provide instant gratification.

But these "cheap dopamine" hits can be

addictive and ultimately unsatisfying. They
might provide a temporary boost, but they
don't lead to lasting happiness or fulfillment.

This rule encourages us to be mindful of the

things we're consuming and the activities
we're engaging in.

It's about seeking out activities that provide

long-term satisfaction and meaning, rather
than chasing quick fixes.

The satisfaction of completing a

challenging project: This provides a
much deeper and more lasting sense of
accomplishment than mindlessly
scrolling through social media.

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The joy of connecting with loved ones:
Spending quality time with friends and
family nourishes our souls in a way that
no amount of online interaction can
replicate.
The fulfillment of pursuing a passion:
Whether it's playing music, writing,
painting, or volunteering, engaging in
activities that align with our values
brings a sense of purpose and meaning
that cheap dopamine hits can't provide.

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So, how do you avoid the trap of cheap
dopamine?

Be mindful of your habits: Pay attention

to the things that give you quick hits of
dopamine and ask yourself if they're truly
contributing to your well-being.
Set limits on your screen time: Reduce
the amount of time you spend on social
media, watching TV, and playing video
games.
Seek out activities that provide long-
term satisfaction: Engage in hobbies,
pursue your passions, and connect with
loved ones in meaningful ways.
Delay gratification: Practice waiting for
things you want, rather than always
seeking instant gratification.

By avoiding cheap dopamine, you're

creating space for deeper, more meaningful
experiences that will truly enrich your life.

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 Chapter 6

RULE #6: LEARN TO

COMMUNICATE
EFFECTIVELY

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In today's interconnected world,
communication is more important than
ever.

Whether you're interacting with colleagues,

friends, family, or strangers, the ability to
express yourself clearly and understand
others is essential for success and
happiness.

Misunderstandings can lead to conflict

and frustration: When we're not able to
communicate our thoughts and feelings
effectively, it can create tension and
resentment in our relationships.
Clear communication builds trust and
rapport: When we communicate openly
and honestly, it fosters deeper
connections and stronger relationships.
Effective communication is essential for
success in the workplace: Whether
you're giving a presentation, writing an
email, or negotiating a deal, the ability to
communicate clearly and persuasively
can make all the difference.

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So how can you become a more effective
communicator?

Listen actively: Pay attention to what

others are saying, both verbally and
nonverbally. Ask clarifying questions and
show genuine interest in their
perspective.
Speak clearly and concisely: Get to the
point and avoid using jargon or overly
complex language.
Be mindful of your body language: Your
posture, facial expressions, and tone of
voice all contribute to your message.
Practice empathy: Try to understand the
other person's perspective and
emotions, even if you don't agree with
them.
Be assertive: Express your thoughts and
feelings honestly and respectfully,
without being aggressive or passive.

By mastering the art of communication, you

can build stronger relationships, achieve
your goals, and navigate the complexities of
life with greater ease and confidence.

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 Chapter 7

RULE #7: DON'T

RUN AFTER
SUCCESS;
BECOME ITS
FAVORITE.

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In our achievement-oriented society, it's
easy to get caught up in the pursuit of
success.

We chase after promotions, accolades, and

external validation. But what if the key to
success lies not in chasing it, but in
becoming the kind of person it's naturally
attracted to?

This rule encourages us to focus on

developing the qualities that make us
successful, rather than obsessing over the
outcome.

It's about cultivating the skills, habits, and

mindset that attract success like a magnet.

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A skilled musician doesn't chase fame;
they focus on mastering their craft. The
fame and recognition come as a natural
byproduct of their dedication and talent.
A successful entrepreneur doesn't
chase money; they focus on creating
value. The financial rewards follow as a
result of their hard work and innovation.
A happy and fulfilled person doesn't
chase happiness; they cultivate inner
peace and gratitude. Happiness
becomes a natural state of being, rather
than an elusive goal.

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So, how do you become a magnet for
success?

Focus on personal growth: Develop your

skills, expand your knowledge, and
cultivate a growth mindset.
Embrace challenges: Don't shy away
from difficult tasks or setbacks. See them
as opportunities to learn and grow.
Build strong relationships: Connect with
people who inspire and support you.
Contribute to something bigger than
yourself: Find a cause you care about
and make a positive impact on the
world.
Stay true to your values: Don't
compromise your integrity in the pursuit
of success.

By focusing on becoming the best version of

yourself, you'll naturally attract the success
you desire.

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 Chapter 8

RULE #8:
EMBRACE THE
STRUGGLE

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Life is full of challenges. There will be times
when you face setbacks, obstacles, and
moments of doubt. But this rule reminds us
that struggle is not something to be
avoided; it's an essential part of growth and
transformation.

A muscle grows stronger when it's

challenged. If you never lift weights, your
muscles will atrophy. Similarly, if you
never face challenges, your mental and
emotional muscles will weaken.
A diamond is formed under immense
pressure. The intense heat and pressure
transform a lump of coal into a precious
gem. Similarly, the challenges we face in
life can shape us into stronger, more
resilient individuals.
A tree's roots grow deeper during storms.
The wind and rain might shake the tree,
but they also force its roots to dig deeper
into the ground, making it more stable
and secure. Similarly, the challenges we
face can help us develop a stronger
foundation for our lives.

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So, how do you embrace the struggle?

Reframe challenges as opportunities:

See setbacks as chances to learn and
grow.
Develop resilience: Cultivate the ability
to bounce back from adversity.
Don't give up easily: Persevere through
difficult times, knowing that the struggle
will ultimately make you stronger.
Seek support: Don't be afraid to ask for
help when you need it.

By embracing the struggle, you're not just

overcoming challenges; you're transforming
yourself into a more capable and resilient
individual.

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 Chapter 9

RULE #9: VALUE

TIME

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Time is our most valuable asset. It's finite,
irreplaceable, and constantly slipping away.
This rule emphasizes the importance of
valuing time and using it wisely.

Every moment that passes is gone

forever. We can't rewind the clock or get
back lost time.
Time is a gift. We're given a limited
amount of it, and it's up to us to make
the most of it.
How we spend our time defines our lives.
Our choices, our actions, and our
priorities all contribute to the legacy we
leave behind.

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So, how do you value time?

Set clear priorities: Identify what's truly

important to you and focus your time
and energy on those things.
Avoid time-wasting activities: Minimize
distractions, delegate tasks when
possible, and learn to say "no" to things
that don't align with your priorities.
Be present in the moment: Don't dwell
on the past or worry about the future.
Focus on the present moment and savor
the experiences you're having.
Plan your day: Create a schedule that
allows you to allocate your time
effectively.
Take breaks: Don't burn yourself out by
trying to do too much. Schedule regular
breaks to rest and recharge.

By valuing time, you're not just managing

your schedule; you're shaping your life.
You're creating space for the things that
matter most, making memories, and leaving
a positive impact on the world.

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 Connect with others: Build strong
relationships with friends, family, and
your community.
Embrace wabi-sabi: Find beauty in
imperfection and accept the natural flow
of life.
Never stop learning and growing: Keep
your mind active and your spirit curious.
Give back to the world: Find ways to
contribute to something bigger than
yourself.

Remember, your ikigai is unique to you. It's

not about comparing yourself to others or
trying to fit into a mold. It's about
discovering your own path and living a life
that is true to yourself.

So, take a deep breath, embrace the

journey, and let your ikigai guide you to a life
filled with purpose, joy, and fulfillment.

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 Chapter 10

RULE #10: IT'S MY

FAULT

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This rule encourages us to take ownership of
our lives, both the successes and the
failures. It's about recognizing that we have
the power to shape our own destiny, even in
the face of adversity.

It's easy to blame external factors for our

problems. We might blame our parents, our
teachers, our bosses, or even the
government for our misfortunes.

But this victim mentality keeps us stuck in a

cycle of negativity and prevents us from
taking control of our lives.

When we take responsibility for our actions

and our circumstances, we empower
ourselves to make changes and create a
better future. We shift from a mindset of
blame to a mindset of empowerment.

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 If you fail an exam, it's easy to blame the
teacher or the difficulty of the test. But
taking ownership means recognizing
that you could have studied harder,
sought help from a tutor, or managed
your time more effectively.
If you're unhappy in your job, it's easy to
blame your boss or the company
culture. But taking ownership means
exploring your options, developing new
skills, or seeking out new opportunities.
If you're struggling in a relationship, it's
easy to blame your partner for their
shortcomings. But taking ownership
means communicating your needs,
setting boundaries, and working
together to find solutions.

Taking ownership doesn't mean denying the

influence of external factors. It simply
means recognizing that you have the power
to choose how you respond to those factors.

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 Chapter 11

RULE #11: EARN,

SAVE, AND INVEST

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This rule emphasizes the importance of
financial responsibility. It's about building a
secure future for yourself by earning, saving,
and investing wisely.

Earning is like planting the seeds. It's the

foundation of your financial well-being.
Whether you're working a job, running a
business, or freelancing, earning income
is the first step.
Saving is like nurturing the crops. It's
about setting aside a portion of your
income for future needs and goals. This
could include an emergency fund, a
down payment on a house, or retirement
savings.
Investing is like harvesting the fruits of
your labor. It's about putting your money
to work for you, so it can grow and
generate more income over time. This
could include investing in stocks, bonds,
real estate, or other assets.

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Financial responsibility isn't just about
accumulating wealth; it's about creating
security and freedom. It's about having the
resources to pursue your dreams, support
your family, and live a life of purpose and
fulfillment.

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