CHAPTER 12 HELPING
CHAPTER 12 HELPING
I. WHY DO WE HELP?
1. Altruism
• Definition: A motive to increase another’s welfare without conscious regard for one’s
self-interest.
• Example: Jane Haining stayed with Jewish children during WWII, knowing she might be
arrested—which she was—and later died in Auschwitz.
• Definition: The theory that human interactions aim to maximize rewards and minimize
costs.
• Example: Donating blood may feel good (reward), even if it's uncomfortable (cost).
3. Internal Rewards
4. Reciprocity Norm
• Definition: An expectation that people will help those who have helped them.
• Example: You’re more likely to help a classmate who once helped you with your
homework.
5. Social-Responsibility Norm
• Definition: An expectation that people will help those who need help, especially if they
are dependent.
• Example: Helping an elderly stranger cross the street.
6. Kin Selection
• Definition: The idea that we are more likely to help relatives to promote survival of
shared genes.
• Example: Risking injury to save a sibling in a fire.
7. Empathy
8. Empathy-Altruism Hypothesis
2. Diffusion of Responsibility
3. Noticing
4. Interpreting
6. Time Pressure
7. Similarity
2. Gender
• Definition: Men help more in dangerous situations; women help more in nurturing roles.
• Example: 91% of Carnegie hero medalists are men, while women lead in long-term care
and donations.
3. Religious Faith
4. Social Class
2. Personalized Appeal
• Definition: Making a direct, personal request is more effective than a general one.
• Example: Blood donors respond more to invitations from friends than posters.
3. Moral Inclusion
4. Modeling Altruism
5. Learning by Doing
6. Teaching Altruism
• Definition: Prosocial TV and role models can teach kids to be more helpful.
• Example: Children who watched prosocial shows were more likely to help peers.
V. SUMMARY TABLE
Term Definition Real-Life Example
Social Exchange Weighing costs and rewards Donating blood for free food & social
Theory before helping approval