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The document discusses the relationship between human desires, divine grace, and the cosmic force that governs the universe, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and harmony with nature. It encourages readers to pursue their aspirations while recognizing and overcoming mental obstacles, ultimately seeking wisdom and enlightenment. The author, Mahavishnu, aims to correlate spiritual teachings with modern life, guiding individuals toward a deeper understanding of their purpose and the nature of existence.

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KAM Book - English

The document discusses the relationship between human desires, divine grace, and the cosmic force that governs the universe, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and harmony with nature. It encourages readers to pursue their aspirations while recognizing and overcoming mental obstacles, ultimately seeking wisdom and enlightenment. The author, Mahavishnu, aims to correlate spiritual teachings with modern life, guiding individuals toward a deeper understanding of their purpose and the nature of existence.

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TIGHT, HUG & KISS

“Tight the GREED, Hug the DIVINE, Kiss the LIBERATION”


by

Mahavishnu
Foreword
The immense cosmic force is indeed God… Time… Everything…
That force cannot be created by man… nor can it be destroyed…
It can only be transformed into different forms… transferred into another state…
This is the truth that science tells us…
But the absolute wisdom realized this long ago… and made us realize it too…

If you live in harmony with nature, you will be protected…


If you go against it, you will be destroyed by nature…
Nature itself is another name for supreme power…

The ‘I’ is nothing but the excessive intelligence of man…


Only when you realize that there is no such thing as ‘I’
Do you truly connect yourself with supreme power…
Hold on tightly, and you will live… If not…?

The entire universe functions through the male-female principles - Shiva and Shakti…
There are many talented individuals…
But why do only a few succeed?
Because success comes only when divine grace aligns with intelligence…

Another name for divine grace is luck… Time…


And another name for that is the immense cosmic force…

Accept everything in your mind immediately… It won’t hurt…


Stay conscious and aware…
The same problem will not return…

This truth can be spoken endlessly…


But no matter how much is said, everything is contained in the very first line…
The immense cosmic force… The divine father and mother…

Until we understood this truth, we wandered aimlessly…


We suffered endlessly…

But now, the words of my dear brother Mahavishnu make this even clearer…
Live on, dear brother… Live on…
I keep reading this over and over… and find joy in it…

Build your desires, embrace the divine, and kiss liberation…


May this immense cosmic force bless all our people…
May we all transcend ‘I’ and become ‘We’…

With immense love,

P. Samuthirakani
Director, Actor, Social Thinker
Prologue
The intent of this book is neither religious nor aimed at guiding you toward the life of a saint. Rather,
it seeks to correlate the timeless treasures of wisdom left by great souls, siddhas, and sages with modern
science. It offers insights into how to fulfill our desires and achieve divinity in the modern world by
understanding the fundamental rules and secret truths of the universe.
You may wonder how this is possible.
For Instance, If I were to roll a ball towards you. Would it reach you faster if the path were clear, or
if it were littered with obstacles?
Most definitely, it would reach you faster if there aren’t any obstacles.
Similarly, you may have countless possessions you long for and dreams you yearn to fulfil. However,
the constant chatter of your mind creates obstacles, slowing the journey of your desires toward
realization. To overcome this, you must either train your mind to focus fully on your aspirations or
surrender everything to the universe. Both paths require a deep understanding of the very foundation
of spirituality.
You don’t need to forcefully eliminate the obstacles; instead, simply recognize them for what they are.
Once acknowledged, the obstacles will disappear on their own. This is a profound truth.
This book delves into these very questions: 'How should one navigate life from birth to death?', 'How
can one fulfil their deepest desires more quickly?', and, most importantly, 'How can one live with
absolute peace and happiness?
Like the beacon of a lighthouse guiding a lost traveller to safety amidst a vast ocean, this book aims
to illuminate the path with the light of knowledge. For those lost and overwhelmed, struggling with
suicidal thoughts or feelings of vengeance, it seeks to uncover and eliminate the roots of such
destructive emotions. It inspires confidence, instils courage, and helps you find a deeper sense of
purpose and meaning in life.
The author of this book, Mahavishnu, has provided numerous spiritual teachings both online and in
person, transforming the very foundation of millions of lives! He has established a voluntary
organization in India and continues his philanthropic activities across more than seven countries,
including Malaysia, Singapore, Australia, Dubai, Mauritius, and Sri Lanka.
By purchasing this book, you have helped feed three hungry lives. Let this act of kindness be the first
step on your journey of virtue.
Chapter 01
Work in silence, and let the luxury car you dream of roar its engine someday!
I arrived in this town with nothing but a torn pair of underwear, and today I own properties worth
several crores
Rise above those who mocked you by earning lots of money and prove them wrong with your
accomplishments
Keep pursuing your dreams relentlessly until you achieve them. Once you do, the world will stand up
and take notice
It takes immense effort and determination to build a life with a healthy bank balance, a loving and
beautiful life partner, a cherished grandchild to dote on in your later years, a serene farmhouse, and a
picturesque environment to enjoy.
Once you achieve fame, everything you desire will follow. So, focus on working hard to achieve it.
Sentences like these, crafted to inspire goosebumps and stir a euphoric yearning for such experiences
in one’s own life, are plentiful. Yet, in their attempt to take these philosophies at face value and apply
them in the pursuit of success, many overlook the truth behind them, only to reach the end of their
lives without ever truly grasping their essence.
But is it wrong to have desires? If everything is within a person’s reach, can’t I fulfil my
dreams? Does this mean I don’t need to take action? And if I remain idle, will others truly
respect me?
It’s only natural for these questions to arise in your mind! You might even feel angry with me, ready
to give me an earful. But if I hold back from sharing the truth, who else will help you see through the
illusions and drama surrounding you? Throughout history, countless sages, siddhas, great souls, and
enlightened beings have connected themselves to the infinite power of the universe, gathered
profound wisdom, and documented it to guide humanity toward the ultimate truth.
But alas, this wisdom has yet to reach countless individuals who have walked this earth. For a
significant part of my life, I was no different from you - reading such words, feeling a surge of
goosebumps, and chasing after desires. I was deeply materialistic, consumed by the pursuit
of worldly possessions and fleeting ambitions. I have no qualms in admitting that to you. I couldn’t
help but follow that path because the people who spoke those words were wealthy, popular, and highly
accomplished individuals, admired and revered by millions. So, I felt compelled to believe everything
they said. In this, I am no exception.
Blinded by worldly desires, hunger, poverty, and jealousy, an individual remains unable to view the
world through the lens of enlightenment that lies deep within. But there's nothing wrong with that -
every journey needs a beginning. Let this be the start of your path toward betterment. It is my duty
and responsibility to pass on the wisdom I received from my gurus. I begin by humbly prostrating at
their sacred feet and expressing my gratitude for the priceless knowledge they have passed onto me.
May the gurus bestow their blessings upon you as well, guiding you on your journey toward
enlightenment. I begin by seeking the Guru’s blessings and offering my salutations.
Observe a man's life from birth to death. Yes, you heard me right - observe before taking any action.
The truth will only unfold and enlighten you when you truly take the time to observe.
People will urge you to take immediate action, telling you that time is running out. They will push you,
scold you, and even prevent you from tapping into the most resourceful sense of all - your sixth sense.
They make you believe that the world is on the brink of collapse, that every second counts. If you
trust everything they say and lose control of yourself, you’ll be cast out of the heaven of observation
and thrust into the frantic, hellish world of chaos.

You would be left to face everything alone, with no one to help, even though you have a loving family
and caring friends by your side.

A question might arise in your mind when I say this. You might believe that your friends and family
are genuinely helping you, and that you are fortunate and blessed to have them. Let’s imagine you
were born with a silver spoon, surrounded by all the luxuries, with everyone always available to support
you. You are truly healthy and wealthy - then what could possibly be the problem?

For instance, let’s say you place 10 crore rupees in front of a donkey. The donkey would happily
devour it within hours, and the very next day, it would return, asking for another 10 crore rupees to
eat. If you give it again, it will consume it all, and the cycle will repeat endlessly.

The situation is similar when it comes to the help offered by family and friends. You can benefit from
their support as much as you want, but for how long? When one person keeps giving endlessly, how
will the other ever gain clarity or learn to stand on their own?
The situation is similar with the help offered by family and friends. You can benefit from their support
as much as you want, but for how long? When one person keeps giving endlessly, how will the other
ever gain clarity or learn to stand on their own? Problems will inevitably arise throughout an
individual's life. So, would it be wise to run away from these problems, ask others for help, or try to
resolve them with the wealth you've accumulated over the years?
The answer is none of the above. Then what’s the wise way?
Walk up to the same donkey and say, “Hey Donkey! Instead of depending on others and devouring
several crores of rupees every day, why not take that money and pay a paper vendor? He’ll give you
enough paper to feed you for the rest of your life.” Offering this kind of wisdom would be the wisest
thing to do. Similarly, staying with someone only at the beginning, teaching them the basics, and setting
the foundation for an independent life is the wisest thing you can offer. This is the greatest wealth of
all - the wisdom of wealth.
This is what the great poet Thiruvalluvar expresses in one of his verses.
“Selvathul Selvam Sevichelvam Achchelvam
Selvathul Ellam Thalai”
Which translates to “The wealth of hearing is the greatest wealth among them all”
We have nothing new to write. Everything that needs to be said has already been written long ago.
What we write today is merely a reflection of what has been imparted to us.
If this is the reality for the affluent, imagine the plight of the poor. When their day-to-day life is already
a constant struggle, how can they even begin to focus on looking inwards - a concept that feels miles
away from their grasp? As a result, they are more susceptible to endless desires, longings, and unmet
needs.
As the saying goes, “There is no space for holy verses in an empty stomach.", which is very true. When
you’re blinded by hunger and basic needs.
"When Sunday dawns, one needs food to satiate hunger and not wisdom"
When I say wisdom, don’t think of it as something vast, distant, or difficult to attain. The very God
who created us has gifted it to us at birth. It already exists within us. Yet, instead of seeking it from
within, we observe the actions and habits of those around us, blindly assuming that is the way to live
- without ever pausing for self-introspection. This is how we lose our ability to think independently
and, in turn, the most powerful and precious treasure - wisdom. Self-introspection holds the key to
everything we seek, yet we spend years searching for solutions outside ourselves, never realizing that
the answers have always been within.
Imagine standing before a banyan tree that has stood tall for several hundred years. What do you see?
Its sprawling branches, magnificent aerial roots, and countless seeds. A variety of birds nesting within
its embrace, people who have sought its shade over generations, the rich history it carries, and the
pride of having withstood the test of time, the businesses that thrive around it The list goes on and
on.
But what is the very foundation of this great tree? Its roots, isn’t it? If the roots weaken, the entire tree
will wither away. Similarly, for a person to attain true enlightenment, they must stop fixating on
external factors and allowing fear to take hold. Instead, they should seek the very foundation of things
to find true answers. This principle applies to most aspects of life.
If you attain this level of maturity in all aspects of life, you will gain a clear understanding that no
situation can shake. You will develop the character and strength to handle anything that comes your
way. Even if lightning strikes, you will remain calm. You will exude confidence and courage, knowing
with certainty that you have the blessings of God. You will stay composed no matter what you lose,
turning the tables on adversity itself. This is true wisdom.
Let me give you a concise answer to the question: "What is wisdom?"
True wisdom is realizing that, by God's design, everything is in perfect order. There is nothing we
need to force or manipulate; instead, we must simply walk the path he has laid for us, living with
integrity and moral clarity and he will take care of the rest.
The nature of a man is to sit on a high horse, thinking that he knows everything with the small mind
of his. He questions God and the universe, blasphemes that God knows nothing, all while being
incapable of even foreseeing the next moment of his life. He would panic for something as trivial as
losing his house keys and search for them frantically, unsure of what to do next. True wisdom begins
when you realize that man knows nothing and that he’s an idiot.
True wisdom is to surrender yourself before God after realizing the karmic law - that you are reaping
what you have sown. Your suffering in the present is a direct consequence of your past actions and
mistakes.
Realizing that we use our bodies to carry out all the tasks in our daily lives, but the blueprint for this
body was not created by us, but by a superior force that we call 'God'. This is wisdom.
The same society that reveres and respects us while we walk this earth, soon after our demise,
considers us impure and proceeds to either burn or bury our bodies. So, the most important reason
for the respect and admiration we receive is not our bodies, but our souls. Realizing that our bodies
are nothing but cadavers once separated from the soul, and recognizing that these very souls are a
manifestation of God, is true wisdom.
And this is exactly what is said in the Vedas - Rig, Yajur, Sama, and Atharvana - as well as in the religious
texts of prophets and the teachings of sages and great souls. Though expressed in different ways, the
core messages are the same, there’s nothing new apart from this.
Once a person attains wisdom, they attract everything else. And this is the absolute truth. How, you
may ask? How can a person gather immense wealth by attaining wisdom? How can they acquire
everything they desire to own? This might seem like a farce to you. Please pay attention, and I will
explain the biggest truth behind this.
Now, observe my explanation as deeply as the roots of the banyan tree from my previous analogy,
and you'll understand the truth. You should view your life through this very lens for the rest of your
existence. Only then will you be relieved from the pain and agony you face in your day-to-day life,
gaining clarity and peace. You will breathe the air of freedom. But I would be lying if I said that one
would not face trials or tribulations once they attain wisdom.
Even a saint encounters situations that might worry him. However, by deeply analysing each situation
and approaching it with profound wisdom, he alleviates mental agony and attains freedom. So, what
should you deduce from this? You must approach every situation with a deep understanding of
wisdom; only then can you lead a peaceful life. Otherwise, you will be mired in pain and suffering. Be
aware.
Thinking deeply and patiently is different from overthinking and feeling overwhelmed, anxious or
depressed. Do not confuse the two. But not to worry,
You will naturally develop this maturity as you grow inward.
As Buddha and Bhagwan Osho say, Do not follow any thoughts that arise in your mind; do not
create, respond to, or react to them. Do not try to implement those thoughts in your life as they
are. Instead, distance yourself from them and observe them like a bystander. Let the thoughts pass
through you completely.
What would happen if you followed this? All these days, you have lived with the notion that you and
your thoughts are one. But the realization that you are separate from your thoughts will only arise after
deep observation. Once you grasp this truth, the divinity within you will be set free, creating wonders
beyond your imagination. You will be astonished to witness this unfold. One must cultivate the ability
to observe keenly. This is the very foundation!
Now, how would you attain everything once you attain wisdom? Firstly, let me begin explaining this
with the most familiar needs of all – Financial needs.
What is the most necessary thing to earn money by honest means? You need a profession, a job, or
situations that motivate you, right? Now, let's say you get the opportunity, but you don't have the
necessary qualifications or skills - would you be able to sustain it?
The answer is no, isn't it? So what do you need to understand from this? For a living, you could even
take up a labour job, lifting gunny bags, but you'd need to be physically strong. However, the income
from such work might be minimal. So, what do you do to earn more money?
For instance, let's say you have a profession. You must have clear experience in it, an awareness of the
right and wrong people in the business, and the wisdom to avoid repeating past mistakes. You should
know the A to Z of your profession and master the nuances needed to compete with others in the
same field. Right?
The same applies to other aspects of life as well. But what is the most important thing you need to
pay attention to?
Knowledge is undoubtedly the key. That's why they say, 'Knowledge is wealth.' But what's the greatest
wealth of them all? If you're under the illusion that you know everything - that is limited thinking.
Operating with such petty thoughts will only lead you to cut corners, get into trouble, and lose your
peace.
Hence, the greatest wisdom of all is realizing that anything can happen at any time and that learning
never stops until the very end. Clarity of thought is the greatest wealth of all - always bear this in mind.
Engage in practices that lead to this clarity more often because only then will you begin to understand
the universe itself. This is why it is paramount that you attain this clarity.
What does it mean to understand oneself? To understand oneself is to realize that the body,
belongings, and even the soul do not exist as separate entities. The only true existence is the Supreme
Power - the singular force that permeates the universe. This force is known by many names for the
sake of understanding : Existence, The Universe, The Almighty, or God.
So what does 'I' truly mean? You might be perplexed if I say it represents arrogance and egotism, so
let me simplify it for you.
The mind, which has emerged from the soul - an extension of divine existence - has observed the
external world through the sensory organs: eyes, ears, nose, tongue, and skin. It has absorbed
everything it has sensed, felt, and heard from the outside world categorised as 'good' and 'bad.' Over
time, this accumulation has taken the form of an egotistical identity - 'Me' or 'I' - which continues to
deceive you.
But here’s the truth: It is an illusion. It does not exist. It is a lie.
If you manage to make your mind realize that the mind itself is a grand illusion, then with proper
guidance, it will shed its ego and recognize its own falsehood - like a mirage in the desert - before
returning to its source.
Once you grasp this truth, your mind will merge back with the soul, and worldly desires will fade away.
But remember, it is impossible to control the mind without realisation. Realisation is the key to the
mind’s liberation.
Our soul will then merge with the Almighty. This state is what they call Mukti, also known as Spiritual
Freedom, Moksha, and Nirvana. It is the ultimate liberation - freedom from illusions, desires, and the
cycle of existence.
This is why Bhagwan Shri Ramana Maharishi, whenever his disciples or followers asked him questions,
would simply urge them to turn inward - asking the questions to themselves and engaging in deep self-
introspection. He emphasized that by continuously asking the question, "Who am I?" one would soon
realize that there is no such thing as 'I' or 'Me.' Instead, they would come to understand that what truly
exists is the soul in the vast expanse of the universe. This is why they say:
The supreme power that exists in the universe resides within your body in the form of life
If the answer to the question 'Who am I?' is so simple, why don't the gurus teach this explicitly?
There's no wrong intent behind this. If they were to state it explicitly, it would become a definitive
answer, leaving you with no reason to seek further or look deep within to realize the truth. Moreover,
unlocking the full potential of your soul and witnessing its most magnificent form – God, requires
more than just asking the question, "Who am I?" You must realize it and experience it firsthand. This
is why it is not stated explicitly.
When the question "Who am I?" keeps running through your mind and turns into an obsession, you
will eventually realize that there is no such thing as "I" or "me." In that very moment, you will see that
the universe and yourself are not separate entities but one. When you reach a state of absolute stillness,
free from all thoughts, you and the universe will merge into oneness. In that union, you will experience
pure euphoria - an indescribable bliss. You will be left speechless, overwhelmed by the realization of
God’s magnificent and beautiful design.
You would further realize that your mind was the primary obstacle, constantly playing deceptive games
that prevented you from recognizing this ultimate truth. If you let your mind take over again, you'd
find yourself trapped once more in the endless loop of worldly desires and materialism. The illusion
of "I" would return, pulling you back into a cycle of attachment, suffering, and longing. You’d long
to feel the euphoria you once experienced after realization.
But do not fret. Once you realize and experience this even once in your life, you will understand that
it is the absolute truth, and your very foundation of existence will change forever.
You will begin to respect and cherish every life on this planet as if it were your own. This realization
will guide you to live each day with purpose, filled with love, as a humble servant of God. You will
naturally develop the ability to forgive and forget those who insult or hurt you, understanding that
they act out of ignorance, just as you once did. When you operate out of compassion, you attract more
and more of God's blessings. This is why the most compassionate saint, Vallalar, proclaimed: Favor
& Compassion for all life and all souls is the highest virtue of them all and the true path to
divinity.
Oh mountain, trapped in the grip of love!
Oh king, who enters the abode of love!
Oh Almighty, bound in love’s sweet web!
Oh nectar held in the hands of love!
Oh ocean vast, within love's fold
Oh radiant wisdom that shines as love!
Oh light that shines in love's pure glow,
Oh Almighty, who takes the very form of love itself!

- Thiru. Arutpa

I've explicitly stated what the gurus and great sages have refrained from doing. I hope you now
understand the answer to the question, 'Who am I?' Now, you might wonder if this is right, as I'm
potentially taking away the opportunity from people to realize this on their own. Your confusion is
justifiable.
The Kaliyuga we live in is unlike any time before. People today lack both the time and patience. Even
if this secret were stated explicitly, they wouldn't pay heed. Given the state of things, there's no point
in beating around the bush, as it would only lead to more confusion. Moreover, these simple truths
are being commercialized. Following the guidance and orders of the great sage and my guru, Shri Shri
Shri Kanchi Vishwanatha Swami - who attained Jeeva Samadhi 47 years ago at the Puttur Kailasa Konai
River - and my divine mother, Sivathoothi Nithya, I have stated the truth plainly and directly.
Now that we know the answer to the question 'Who am I?' is that there is no such thing as 'I' or 'Me,'
you might wonder how people can delve deeper and realize this truth. Not to worry - what needs to
be done is to acknowledge that, even though you know 'I' or 'Me' doesn't exist, you should observe
the various situations where 'I' or 'Me' surfaces in your day-to-day life. By doing this, your ego will
subside, your spiritual power will gradually increase, and soon, you’ll unlock the vision to your soul.
For instance...

- “I” am earning.
- This happened because of “me”.
- "I” did this.
- "I” am the sole reason for this to happen.
- This is “my” thought.
- That is “my” creation.
- They insulted “me”.
- This was a humiliation for “me”.
Observe instances like these in your day-to-day life. Every single deed is operating under the egotistic
entity of "I/Me." If you gain the clarity and maturity to shed this nature, you would align with the
Divine. Your tasks and jobs will continue, but you won’t be doing them. The Almighty will guide you,
and through divine intervention, they will be done.
Now, ask yourself: Would it be more perfect if the Almighty himself does it, or if you do it?
This is maturity. This is wisdom.
Ask yourself, what is the need for pronouns like "Me," "Myself," and "Mine" when everything around
you is the Almighty? Realising, that there’s no such thing as “I” or “Me” - it’s all a lie, a deceptive
game of the mind, this would be the most important realization of all. Once you attain this maturity,
everything that you’d like to see and own would find its way to you. Realize that this is the very
foundation of the law of the Universe.
“Attached to nothing, connected to everything!
Needing nothing, attracts everything!”
Make sure to remember these lines: From now on, no matter what happens in your life, believe that
everything is going perfectly according to the plans laid by God, and we simply do not have the
maturity to fully realize that.
The only way to see or feel God is by shedding your ego and surrendering yourself completely. Realize
that there is no other path to achieve this. The only way to attain divinity is to prostrate yourself at the
Almighty’s holy feet. This is precisely what Swami Sri Ramanagiri, a devoted disciple of Ramana
Maharishi, a staunch devotee of Lord Muruga, and the Prince of Sweden who attained Jeeva Samadhi
at the foothills of Kuttalambadi, Madurai, has stated in his lines
When "I" exists, God fades away; when "I" cease to exist, God takes over.
He has explained the egoistic nature of man and its impact in the simplest and most effective way
possible. Realizing that there is no such thing as "I" is the indestructible, indisputable, and greatest
wisdom of all.
But how can He be everything? Why do I keep referring to God as "Him"? Why can't God be a "She"?
You may wonder. Your question is valid. Let me explain.
In the explanation of atoms, the feminine aspect is associated with light, representing Ichcha Shakthi
(willpower), Kriya Shakthi (action), and Gnana Shakthi (knowledge).
So, what then is the masculine aspect? It is the essence of Shiva or Brahman - the formless absolute.
The masculine energy is linked to darkness or sound, known as Nada.
This state can also be described as the attribute of nothingness – Shunya, or the ever-expanding, all-
pervading masculine energy that has neither beginning nor end.
For light, which represents the feminine energy, to be seen, it requires the presence of darkness as its
counterpart.
The light can shine only in darkness, isn’t it?
Do you now understand that it is this eternal, formless darkness or sound that created illumination?
Yes, light - the feminine energy - emerges from darkness. Let me explain it to you in a simple way,
and you'll grasp it easily.

While it is true that a woman carries the foetus in her womb and gives birth, the seed - the sperm -
comes from the man, doesn't it?

To grasp the explanation of the absolute truth, there is no need to travel to another world. All that is
required is to observe God's creation and the lives around us with complete calm and awareness. In
doing so, you will come to understand everything. That is wisdom.

This is why I refer to God as "he/him," and she understands this truth as well. She would
wholeheartedly agree with it. You may wonder, how so? The best examples of this can be found in
the wives of the past. Despite possessing greater maturity and talent, they would humbly listen to their
husbands, follow their words, act in their best interests with unwavering patience, and dedicate their
lives to the well-being of the family, displaying constant loyalty to their husbands. But why did they
remain under the guidance of their husbands, even when they possessed greater talents than
them?
It's because they knew very well that as a woman, they are the very essence of the masculine energy.
Moreover, in this world, to attain the recognition of being a wife, to bear children, to lead a family, to
gather wealth, and to protect the family, all of these are rooted in the masculine energy. They had the
realization that it is the masculine essence that is the source of all things. Therefore, they did not
simply follow their husbands blindly but instead, they acted in a way that understood their husbands,
guiding their actions accordingly.

To understand this, consider Hanuman, who was in a state of divine energy far purer than even Lord
Rama. Despite his immense power, he carried no arrogance or ego. Instead, he remained in a state of
surrender, constantly chanting "Sri Rama Jayam", and remained humble at all times. This is the nature
of the relationship between a man and a woman - when in a state of complete devotion and surrender,
there is no sense of superiority or inferiority. In such a state, there is no ego. If it does exist, then the
relationship is not complete.

Do you know what fundamental element the entire universe (millions of billions of planets, stars,
living beings, galaxies, and numerous universes) is based on?

Only light and sound!

Nothing else exists beyond this - this is the absolute truth! How is that? People say that God is present
in both a pillar and a blade of grass, right? You must clearly understand how that is possible.
Otherwise, it will lead to a lot of confusion. If you don't know this fundamental truth, everything else
is meaningless. Alright, let me explain the essence of God’s creation scientifically - pay close attention!

Unless you understand this truth, you will not comprehend what illusion (Maya) truly is! For example,
imagine there is a wooden table in front of you. On the outside, it may appear to you as a wooden
table. But if you look deeper, what is inside? Isn't it just a collection of billions of wood fibres that
have joined together? So, in that case, the wooden table is an illusion, and the truth is that it is only a
perceived form! Alright, let’s go even deeper. What is there? Isn't it just a combination of billions of
dust particles and micro-fibers? So now, doesn’t it mean that wood fibres are also an illusion? Fine...
let's go even deeper! What remains? A collection of billions of protons, electrons, and neutrons, which
are invisible to the naked eye, is what makes up those dust particles and micro-fibers, correct? So,
ultimately, dust particles and micro-fibers are also illusions, right? Now, do you understand that atoms
are the fundamental basis of everything? Don't conclude just yet! Shall we go even deeper?

For any object to move, it requires an energy source (fuel/source power). This is a well-known
scientific truth. If that is the case, what exists inside every atom? What provides the energy for the
atom to function?

That itself is light – light or photons or God's particle or pineal gland!

Now think carefully! If atoms themselves are invisible to the eye, how is it possible to see this
extremely, extremely, extremely, extremely subtle light? But this is the truth! This is the primordial
energy! This is power! Without this energy, there are no atoms! Without this light, atoms do not
function! It is this light that provides energy to atoms! Without atoms, no object exists in this world,
on other planets, or even in the entire universe - do you understand? This is not a fictional story!
Science has also proven and demonstrated this! How?
The first law of thermodynamics, also known as the Law of Conservation of Energy, states that

"The energy can neither be created nor destroyed; energy can only be transferred or changed from
one form to another!"

For example, turning on a light would seem to produce energy; however, it is electrical energy that is
converted. A way of expressing the first law of thermodynamics is that any change in the internal
energy (ΔE) of a system is given by the sum of the heat (q) that flows across its boundaries and the
work (w) done on the system by the surroundings:

ΔE = q + w.

What does this mean? You cannot create a new form of energy/power, nor can you destroy that great
cosmic force that has existed since time immemorial. However, according to modern science, you can
only use that energy to create different types of objects or transfer that energy from one object to
another or into a different form!

But our ancient wisdom had already spoken about this cosmic principle thousands of years ago! What
did it say?

It said that this entire universe functions on the concept of male and female energy, called Shiva and
Shakti! When you hear this, you may think it is a Hindu religious term. But that is not the truth.
Furthermore, when you hear the name Shiva, do not get lost in religious sects and lose the
ability to perceive the truth! When you reach a certain level of understanding, you will realize the
Advaita principle which states that Shiva, Vishnu, Christ, Allah, Muruga, and Ambaal are not different
but one!

If you think deeply, the truth will be clear! Our ancestors, siddhas, rishis, sages, saints and great men
realized that if they did not reveal the truths they perceived through their subtle (unseen and
indescribable) wisdom, humans would suffer greatly. Therefore, out of great compassion, they decided
to pass this wisdom on to future generations, guiding them to escape the cycle of birth and attain a
higher state. To help humanity understand, they symbolized it in the form of the male-female principle
as Shiva and Shakti, simplifying the complex truth. This is the absolute truth!

Immediately, you may wonder - then did Shiva and Parashakti never exist as real beings? That too is
the truth! How?

For example, you must have heard of Agathiyar! But the unknown truth is within his name! Agathiyar
was not just one person! More than 35 Agathiyars have lived!

How is that possible? Did one person live in many places using supernatural powers? Did he appear
in multiple places? No! Agathiyar mastered all eight great siddhis - Anima, Mahima, Garima,
Laghima, Prapti, Prakamya, Ishitva, Vashitva - as well as Karma Siddhi, Yoga Siddhi, Gnana
Siddhi, and Sarva Siddhi. There is no doubt about that. Siddhi means attaining perfection or achieving
supreme knowledge or enlightenment beyond any doubt. So how were there more than 35 Agathiyars?
I will explain in detail - listen carefully.
For various reasons and for the welfare of the world, Agathiyar takes birth as a human according to
divine command. As he grows, he establishes a connection with the cosmos and learns many great
secrets of the universe under divine guidance. He remains steadfast in this knowledge and lives as an
extraordinary example for others. Eventually, he attains a divine state revered by people. Once his
mission is complete, he must merge back into the original source from where he came.

Therefore, before merging with the primordial source, he records everything he learned, realized, and
all the valuable knowledge he possessed in the form of teachings, codes, and hymns. To prevent people
from misusing this knowledge to harm others, he encodes it in secret terms (mystical words that
ordinary people cannot easily understand) and leaves it behind to guide humanity towards liberation
and enlightenment.

Later, the principles and disciplines that Agathiyar lived by became known as "Agathiyam." It can
also be referred to as Agathiya Margam (the path of Agathiyar). Similarly, many divine messengers
took human birth, and the principles and disciplines they followed became their respective paths!
What path? The path to merging with the divine! This is how the Bhagavad Gita, the Quran, the Bible,
the Thirukkural, Thiruvarutpa, Thirumandiram, and many others came into existence!

Later, these paths transformed into religions. Even now, I say there is nothing wrong with religions,
and they are not false creations. However, over time, without understanding the true purpose of
religions and their profound teachings, misguided individuals with limited knowledge and selfish
motives have created a deep hatred for religions! Those with immature minds argue that their religion
is superior to others. But those who have attained wisdom respect all religions! However, they move
past misguided religious preachers without unnecessary criticism.

If you want to understand this more easily, think of famous actors like MGR, Sivaji Ganesan, NTR,
Rajini, Vijay, Ajith, Vijay Sethupathi, Vadivelu, Salman Khan, Shah Rukh Khan, Arnold
Schwarzenegger, Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, and Jet Li. What is their goal? To entertain people, make
them forget their worries, and bring happiness! Right? Still, not everyone in the world likes the same
actor. Each person prefers a different actor. Each actor has a unique style. Every person admires a
different actor, right? But remember - fights are not between actors but between fans! The same
applies here!

There are many divine messengers. Their common goal is to awaken people, help them escape this
illusory world, make them realize the truth, and unite them with the divine. Though they expressed it
differently in their styles, their message is one. They had no disputes among themselves. If there
were disputes, they would not be divine messengers! So, it is not that we lack divine messengers;
rather, we lack the maturity to understand their teachings. Instead, we waste our time and energy in
meaningless arguments! Now, let us return to the story of Agathiyar.

Anyone who follows the "Agathiyam" path precisely and lives by his words eventually transforms
into an Agathiyar. This is the absolute truth! How?

If I explain it with the Tamil film "Magamuni," directed by Santhakumar and starring Arya, you will
understand it easily. In the movie, Arya plays two roles. One Arya follows the yogic path under the
guidance of Siddhars; his name is "Muni." The other Arya is involved in criminal activities and lives
as a murderer; his name is "Maha." Due to certain circumstances, the yogic Arya dies, and the criminal
Arya is imprisoned. At one point, Maha realizes his grave mistakes and decides to correct himself by
following Muni's yogic path. While in prison, he practices yoga and meditation.

As his practice deepens, Maha transcends worldly illusions, gains enlightenment, and begins to teach
fellow prisoners, who then start reforming. As Maha reaches the peak of wisdom, he writes an
unprecedented commentary on Thirukkural, leaving prison authorities and psychologists
astonished.

By the end, Maha's mannerisms, dress, and behaviuor have completely transformed into that of the
peaceful Muni. His evil traits are gone, and divine qualities have taken over! The government,
recognizing his transformation, grants him freedom. In the climax, when asked who he is, he replies,
"Magamuni!" This means that anyone who follows dharma and the divine path will eventually attain
a state revered by the world. Now, how can you say that Muni has died? Only the body has perished!
But when Maha, who followed Muni's guidance to attain spiritual wisdom, transformed into Muni
himself, at that moment, Muni's life gained meaning, becoming an immortal historical treasure, and
his way of life continues to create many Munis! Do you understand now?

Understand how the mind works, and you will gain more clarity! The mind knows only one thing -
COPY & PASTE! What does that mean? Everything it experiences through the five senses -
seeing, hearing, tasting, feeling, and smelling - it copies and stores. That is what it identifies
as 'I'! It puts on a false mask! It knows nothing else! It has no distinct character or mind of its own.
It is all copied!

In this situation, if you train your mind to copy good things, it will move toward goodness. If it copies
bad things and you ignore them, it will act as it pleases and eventually lead you to destruction!
Remember this! We can copy anything and transform into anything we desire. But we must decide
what we want to become, using our sixth sense, and take the necessary training.

Do you understand now? When you clearly follow the path of "Agathiyam," it is not just 35
Agathiyars, but even if 3.5 million Agathiyars are created, there is nothing surprising in it, right? In the
same way, Sivan represents the divine state or the eternal nature of Brahman, the ultimate engineering
mind of all creations in the universe.

Following this nature or path of Sivan and merging with him, the ancient primordial yogi who took
human birth like us is Sivan. Now, if anyone follows this Sivan path and lives accordingly, they too
will become Sivan - this is the truth, this is reality.

This is exactly what Adi Shankara said in his Nirvana Ashtakam:

Mano Buddhyahankara Chittani Naham,

Na Cha Shrotra Gihve, Na Cha Ghraana Netre,

Na Cha Vyoma Bhumir, Na Tejo Na Vayu,

Chidananda Rupam; Shivoham! Shivoham!


Meaning: The mind, intellect, ego, and consciousness do not exist; I have no eyes; I have no ears,
tongue, or nose; I have no sky or earth; I have no light or air; the only reality that exists is that blissful
form of Shiva. Everything else visible is an illusion.

A king punishes immediately, but why does God delay punishment? Shouldn't he punish immediately?

The state of absolute emptiness can be called darkness. From that darkness emerged sound, vibration,
and resonance. Every moment, this vibration expands across billions of light-years, spreading
infinitely. It has no beginning and no end. That is why God is called the one without beginning and
without end.

Only when you function in this mental state can you develop the maturity and strength to handle
external circumstances. This is the state of wisdom.

Now tell me, what is needed to earn money? Intelligence or haste? Definitely patience and calmness
are required. First, you must gain a lot of experience in a specific field. Then, you must face many
failures and humiliations in that field. Yes, you must confront them without shame or hesitation. Only
then will you understand the deeper intricacies of it. Without deep-level techniques and experience,
you cannot achieve permanent success.

Why? Because in your field, there are many highly intelligent people who have been active for many
years. To win, you need unique strategies and an unshakable mindset, which will take time. Everything
depends on your level of understanding and maturity.

Yes, all business and economic secrets lie in observation and understanding. But here, many people
have only a desire for money - they lack patience, maturity, perseverance, and divine grace. That is
why so few people succeed.

I am not telling you not to desire wealth; I am telling you not to be greedy. I am not telling
you to sit idle; I am telling you not to run mindlessly.

If wealth, possessions, and success are to last in this world, you must realize that divine grace is
crucial.

How can I believe in that?, you may ask

There are 1,000 talented people on the streets. But still, why doesn’t everyone succeed? Why don’t
many people get good opportunities? And why do some people, even after getting good opportunities,
fail to hold onto them? Do you understand the reason now? To showcase your talent, you need the
right circumstances. To create those circumstances, you need wisdom. To make those circumstances
work in your favour, divine grace is essential.

Yes, now is the time to understand the divine energy that operates this universe. What is divine
energy? It is the cosmic force, nature, or the uncreated, indestructible God, existence.

This entire universe is continuously moving through outer space from its position toward some
direction! For it to move like that, what is needed? Isn’t it kinetic energy? That source power, which
is the indestructible state of energy, is divine energy. That very energy operates throughout the cosmos.
It exists within our body as life and drives us as divine power. You may ask, “Why is it driving me?”
But the answer is: it is not driving us; if we look deeply, it is driving itself! Why is it driving itself?

To ask this, who are we? I ask!

When the creator and the created are all one and the same, who is it that is asking these questions in
between? It is none other than the ego, which is impermanent and bound to perish. It is the mind
that desires to experience, not the soul. The mind’s desires are what cause it to take new births. Thus,
by submitting to the desires of the mind, the soul, life after life, continues to experience these fleeting
pleasures. In doing so, the soul channels its energy, taking different bodies across various evolutionary
stages - such as birds, animals, and many other forms.

When the mind remains unrefined, it continues to commit various karmic actions, and due to the
imprints of past lives, it takes new births again and again. These karmic records can be classified as:

• Sanchita Karma (Overall Karmic Baggage)


• Prarabdha Karma (Present Life's Allocated Baggage)
• Agami Karma (Newly Accumulating Baggage)
• Kamya Karma (Doing Dharma with the Expectation of Benefits)
• Nishkamya Karma (Doing Dharma without Any Expectations)

Alright then - does earning money and accumulating wealth become a sin? Absolutely not! But if
wealth is accumulated without awareness, you will get trapped! How you may ask. Accumulating
excessively becomes selfishness. When your focus is entirely on money and material possessions, it
increases both diseases and sins. Then, how can one accumulate wealth without sin?

If the fundamental way of accumulating wealth does not harm other living beings and is done
wholeheartedly with a sense of giving, it does not create much karma! Moreover, when you are not in
a receiving mindset and instead share love, knowledge, money, materials, thoughts, dharma, and
charity - even with someone completely unknown - it completely erases karma! Yes,

"As one walks the path of dharma, the pain of karma gradually fades away!"

- Agathiyar

"Giving and living harmoniously - that alone is the true duty for all living beings!"

- Thiruvalluvar

Both Thiruvalluvar and Agathiyar openly revealed the secret: By giving, karma is destroyed, the soul
gains spiritual merit, and the doors to liberation open!

Therefore, accumulating wealth, earning money, traveling, or enjoying your favourite food is never a
sin! But the real question is - while experiencing all these pleasures, do you also let completely unrelated
living beings experience joy and happiness because of you? That is the great test of life given by the
divine!

If you stay steadfast in dharma without faltering, after many trials, you will shine as divine light -
radiant like the Lord Himself! You will gain immense courage, fear will disappear, and you will dare
to face anything. Even the fear of death will gradually fade away. Do you know why? Because the
divine energy of selfless service will naturally manifest in your body as you continue to perform
dharma!

When this happens, not only for you but also for those who think of you, those who utter your name,
those who approach you, and those who are connected to you, many benefits will occur. You will be
amazed to witness this! You will not have done anything, yet all goodness and miracles will happen
just by invoking your name! What is the reason? It is because the divine energy (cosmic energy) within
you keeps increasing, and you are gradually attaining divinity! How does this happen?

For those who live a dharmic life, those who engage in charity and giving, those who chant mantras,
those who practice meditation or penance, those who serve others, those who are immersed in intense,
unshakable devotion, and those who seek divine teachings - divine energy naturally increases in their
bodies! They can feel it themselves.

Whether you visit a Jeeva Samadhi, a temple, a sacred site, or an energy-rich location, your body will
experience goosebumps. You will also go through indescribable physical and mental experiences,
divine realizations, and spiritual phenomena (supernatural).

The reason is that now your body operates with a higher magnetic force due to divine energy. At this
stage, you become a walking CPS (Cosmic Power Station). You can experience this energy yourself,
stabilize your focus, and even transmit it to others! How to do all of this will naturally become clear
to you.

To put it simply, your job is not to chase after goals! That is foolishness. Instead, you should attract
what you desire towards you - using your own magnetic force! Gradually, knowledge, the mind, and
maturity will develop through experiences, and inner peace will take root within you. Once peace is
established, patience will follow.

When you stabilize yourself in that energy state, you may still appear in human form, but you are no
longer just a human! Do you know why? Because you will think beyond the human condition, act
beyond human limitations, and accomplish extraordinary feats that an average person cannot! This is
why, after attaining various cosmic powers, Vallalar said:

"I have been raised to a state that cannot be surpassed. Do you know why? Compassion!"

The meaning is simple - when you live for the well-being of other beings, when you perform more
dharma, and when you walk the path of righteousness, you attain divine consciousness while remaining
in human form! This is not a myth! I have experienced this personally, made many others experience
it, realized it, and understood its truth!
Society may say a thousand things, but that is due to their ignorance and inability. If you make even a
small effort, you will realize that nothing I have said is false - it is the ultimate truth! So, the primary
duty and the very first task you must understand is this: You must increase divine energy in your body
and elevate yourself to divine consciousness. However, you must not develop the ego of thinking, "I
have become divine." That is the only caution! Divinity never declares itself as divine. Instead, it
constantly strives to awaken the divine consciousness in others, without considering itself!

Do you know the reason? For a soul that has fully realized itself as divine, there is no greater duty,
responsibility, or purpose in this world other than making others realize their own divinity - this is the
ultimate truth. Therefore, one who has realized the self will always be focused on the well-being of
others! Yes, when this public welfare is achieved, all prosperity, comforts, clarity, and the realization
of ultimate truth will naturally arise and shine on their own! The power of selfless service will reveal
everything from within.

Now, do you understand? A wise person will not run behind wealth and accumulate good and bad
karmas. Instead, he will truly seek the well-being of others and become God's beloved child. How
does that happen?

The entire nature exists not in a state of taking, but in a state of giving. If we simply copy that same
principle, we do not need to do anything else - life will automatically be filled with divine energy. No
matter how much we give, it will never decrease! Instead, grace will return manifold! How do we
believe this?, you may ask.

"The wise who eat after feeding others are freed from all sins; but the impious who
cook for themselves eat sin."

(Bhagavad Gita 3:13)

"Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together,
and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be
measured to you."

(Bible, Luke 6:38)

"The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is like a seed [of grain] that
grows seven ears; in every ear are a hundred grains. Allah multiplies [reward] for whom He
wills."

(Quran 2:261)

"If beings knew, as I know, the result of giving and sharing, they would not eat without having
given..."

(Dhammapada 224)
Enough of accumulating wealth in ignorance all these days. From now on, you must develop a heart
that serves others with great awareness, making others happy so that you, too, can experience joy and
begin to live a human life that transcends karmic consequences!

To put it clearly, everything taken from this earth belongs to this earth; it is not ours. One must realize
this, keep only what is necessary, and share the excess with others. For those who live this way, the
five elements, divine energies, gurus, celestial beings, gods, nature, and the universe will stand by them
as support and strength, leading them to an unshakable state in both the material and spiritual worlds.
Peace and bliss will gradually settle into their lives.

Alright, in that case, how should I live my life? Can I get married? Can I have children? Can I earn a
lot of money? Can I accumulate wealth? Can I travel to my favourite places? Can I live happily without
harming others? If I live like this, won't karma affect me?

You can do everything, but you must keep your word and act as you speak. Do you know why? Why
should I keep the promise I made to myself? If I say something secretly, who else will know? If I do
not fulfil it, how will it affect me? You might think this is superstition. But in this, you must be very
careful and act with awareness. Otherwise, you will surely get entangled in karmic records. If you are
just a little careful in this aspect, you can stop accumulating new karmic actions and attain the divine
state in this very birth. How is that possible?

For that, first, you must fully understand what karma is.

Karma is not merely an action; it is the intention behind the action that defines it. This very intention
becomes karma and determines its consequences. How does this work?

For example, let’s say both a soldier and a terrorist fire a gun. Their actions are identical, yet the soldier
is praised and honoured, whereas the terrorist is condemned, disgraced, and even loses his life. Society
despises him. Why?

The soldier’s intention was to protect people, whereas the terrorist’s intention was to harm them.
Even though both performed the same action - shooting a gun - their intentions were different, leading
to completely different results and consequences in society.

That’s all there is to it. If you understand this deeply, navigating life becomes much easier.

Now, do you know why it is important to keep your word? How does breaking a promise create
karma?

Let’s take an example: Suppose you want to start a business but lack sufficient funds. To secure
money, you use persuasive and enticing words to convince someone you know to lend you financial
support. That person, trusting your words and expecting a return, gives you the money. Now, the
words you spoke have taken root in their mind, forming a visual reality, an expectation - a mental
castle of hope. If you fail to fulfil the promise you made, that unfulfilled truth becomes recorded in
the universe.
Every time the person who lent you money recalls your words and feels pain or disappointment,
especially in a situation tied to fairness and righteousness, all of those emotions accumulate as karma.
Because you did not uphold your word, you will experience the consequences of that karma.
Moreover, the next time you desire something and seek help, the universal forces or divine energy,
will not align to fulfil your request.

As an act of atonement, when you realize your past mistakes and sincerely attempt to correct them by
walking the path of dharma, the universal forces will create miracles in your life, and your life will
transform in ways that align with your desires!

This is why many people fail to progress in life when they fail to uphold their words. First, you should
not say you can do something and then later find yourself financially or personally suffering because
of it. You must think deeply before giving your word. If, after making a promise, you later realize it
was a mistake, you should openly and respectfully admit that you cannot fulfil it and sincerely ask for
forgiveness. There is nothing wrong with that! However, repeatedly saying, “I will do it” and then
later saying, “I cannot,” is considered a sinful act! This applies to love, family, business, education, and
even physical relationships (desire). For the sake of temporary pleasure, you should never lose your
dignity and self-respect. That is why you must be extremely careful with the words you speak before
you let them out!

At this point, you may think, "But in society, some powerful and influential people never keep their
promises, yet they keep growing and succeeding!" Do not be deceived! Understand that there is never
a flaw in the laws and forces of the universe. The universe will always do its work!

People who do not keep their promises and walk the path of adharma (unrighteousness) may appear
to be living well, but they suffer from hidden mental, physical pain, stress, and internal struggles that
others cannot see. They will face many consequences, but these may not be visible to the outside
world. A mind that is not free will always be in suffering - this is something you must deeply realize!
In this world, the true winners are those who attain "mental liberation and spiritual
liberation" - no one else. Understand this deeply!

Furthermore, even those who live unrighteously may sometimes engage in acts of charity and virtue
for the sake of status and ego. Their grandparents, parents, or other loved ones may have prayed for
them. Prayer is extremely powerful! Never take it lightly.

Therefore, until the results of the aforementioned actions are fully realized, such individuals may even
be adorned with a crown. However, time and karma will undoubtedly return the consequences
manifold - there is no doubt about it!

Do not fear that karma will come for every action you take. Instead, boldly engage in righteous
(dharma-based) actions and start living this life. There is no need to be afraid of the results. Do you
know why? If your thoughts and intentions are pure, without selfish desires, and you act solely for the
well-being of others, even if your actions create consequences, they will not harm you. Instead, they
will be the circumstances that God has ordained for that soul. Once you develop this level of maturity
and understanding, you will continue to stand firm on the path of dharma with confidence. You will
also receive the divine blessings of the Almighty!
First, you must thoroughly understand what dharma truly means. Dharma does not simply mean
giving wealth or money.

Dharma means leading your life by example!

If you give something with an expectation, it becomes charity not dharma! If you live in a way that
selflessly uplifts others, that is dharma!

Lord Krishna, despite possessing the full power of divinity, was born in a prison like an ordinary
human to reveal the truth to the world. He faced deception, conspiracies, and countless hardships.
Yet, with intelligence, clarity, and strategic diplomacy, he lived among people as one of them, treated
his enemies as friends when necessary, and used the right tactics to ultimately establish dharma’s
victory. That is leading by example! That is dharma!

How does one lead by example? As your wisdom deepens, your way of life itself will become a
syllabus. Then, through your way of living, thousands of people will follow the path of dharma, reach
a divine state, and achieve success.

No university needs to grant you a degree declaring you a realized master! In fact, even the most
renowned universities in the world do not fully possess this transcendental wisdom.

Because a true enlightened being (gnani) never desires titles or recognition. However, in certain
instances, some enlightened beings may reveal themselves to the world - because it may be the
necessity of the times or the will of the divine itself.

Those who exist in that state do not care even slightly about the criticisms of ordinary people.
However, if they recognize a mistake within themselves through criticism, they will correct it and
move forward. The foundation of all yogis is dharma alone! Those who truly understand this do not
criticize others! This itself is maturity.

Yes, many people in this world live a dharmic life in this way. However, there is no necessity for all of
them to have walked the same path. Since the journey involves different paths, understandings, and
experiences, there are countless ways to reach that unshakable truth or God. There will also be
variations in the actions and approaches of those who preach or bestow grace. A guru or guide stands
many miles ahead of us on this path; therefore, instead of analysing them, one must fully accept and
understand that it is essential to spend more time enhancing one’s spiritual growth.

If your subconscious mind contains only dharmic thoughts and a dharmic purpose, then that alone is
sufficient - you do not need to worry about the consequences!

Even if your actions are misunderstood or cause unintended discomfort to others, in God's law and
divine kingdom, you will receive no punishments - this is the truth!

To help you accept this understanding more deeply, let me give you another example - listen carefully,
and then you will have no doubts about this divine principle!

"Not even a single atom moves without His permission!"


"Everything is God’s doing!"

"Truth alone exists, everything is that!"

"God exists in all forms!"

Since all of the above are inescapable truths, everything in this world happens only with His
permission! Even the evils that occur in this world are subject to His consent. Immediately, you might
ask - does that mean God is evil? At a surface level, it may seem that way. But the truth is that God is
infinitely compassionate! How?, you may ask.

Among all living beings, the only one to whom God has given the full potential to become divine is
the human! Yes, only those who take human birth can fully realize God! The reason for this is the
direct gift of an upright spinal cord.

Therefore, whether you engage in dharma or adharma, God remains a "witness" and simply facilitates
its fulfilment - He does not perform the action Himself. At that moment, the way you think and act
using your intelligence determines your future and even your next birth!

The truth is that your future is shaped according to your thoughts and actions! If you use your given
intelligence to think wisely, make decisions, and approach every situation correctly, even a mistaken
future can be corrected!

After a certain period, we naturally develop the maturity to realize that all the hardships we endured
happened only for our own good! To put it simply, at the peak of ultimate maturity, we will come to
understand that, in God's kingdom, there are neither mistakes nor evils! Only when this realization
fully dawns will the mind attain complete peace! The one who sows must inevitably reap!

"Good and evil do not come from others"

- Kaniyan Pungundranar

"Even those who have received gratitude will have salvation,

But those who have destroyed gratitude have no salvation"

- Thiruvalluvar

"If one does evil to others in the morning,

That same evil will return to them in the evening!"

- Thiruvalluvar
"For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction!"

- Isaac Newton

To sum it up, your thoughts alone shape your life - either into chaos or prosperity!

Now, let us look at marriage, children, and future planning. These are considered the "greatest duties"
of every individual by society.

There is nothing wrong with getting married; it is not a spiritual offense. However, if one enters
marriage without understanding what marriage truly is, then it becomes a mistake - and you will get
caught in many problems!

Some may say, "You will understand everything as time passes, just get married!"

This is an utterly absurd and incorrect notion! Because, after marriage, only a handful of people face
life’s lessons with courage, analyse their experiences, and learn. The majority, however, get trapped in
suffering and cannot escape. The truth is, there are no proper people to explain what marriage truly
is!

For someone living life without awareness, the idea that "everything will be understood with time" is
a lie! If we continue to believe this, we will only realize "we will die soon" - not gain wisdom, because
ignorance will still dominate, leaving no room for true knowledge!

For example, suppose you are about to buy a piece of land. If this land is being acquired through your
hard-earned money, would you carefully investigate everything about it, understand the pros and cons,
ensure its safety, and then buy it - or would you buy it without any clarity or analysis? And if you do
buy it blindly, does that mean it will last for generations?

If you put so much thought and research into a piece of coloured paper made from wood pulp called
money, then imagine this - You are about to entrust nearly 70 years of your life to another person!
Take the time to reflect on its significance!

This is not about simply inquiring about the groom or bride, their family background, wealth, or social
status! If you first try to externally analyse what marriage is, you will not learn anything.

To understand the truth, you must turn inward in silence and seek within yourself! Now tell me - Is
marriage a simple thing? Is it something that can be taken lightly? Definitely not! Pre-marriage
counselling alone will not give you true marital wisdom! One must first understand oneself!

Yes! But how does self-awareness bring clarity about marriage? In reality, self-awareness not only
helps one understand marriage but also unlocks all the secrets of life itself! By deeply analysing oneself,
increasing wisdom, and experiencing intuitive realization instead of just bodily experiences, you will
begin to guide others through your thoughts and insightful questions - illuminating their lives as a true
teacher! You will effortlessly handle marital life and find success in it! Now, let’s talk about the real
issues in marriage. Do you know the primary reason most marriages fail and why family conflicts arise
worldwide after marriage? There is one fundamental cause behind all these problems. No matter
how much you try to fix other things, if this root cause is not addressed, failure is inevitable! Without
understanding this core issue, no matter how much one tries to manage or compromise, conflicts will
keep repeating - peace and happiness will never be achieved!

So, what is this deep-rooted fundamental cause?

A human being can have only two types of problems:

1. Physical problems

2. Mental problems

Take a moment to reflect. Aside from these, is there any other type of problem? Once you have truly
thought about this, proceed to read the next line.

Okay, now, the reason for three-quarters of the problems in marriage is the mind alone! The questions
that arise in the mind, the thoughts that keep running, the unresolved doubts - all of these are only
related to the mind! Physical problems can be resolved with medicine, treatments, and by the
grace of God. But with what medicine will you cure mental problems? With what mantra will
you fix them?

If one does not even know what the mind is, how can they intelligently approach and resolve problems
related to the mind? Now tell me - aren’t mental issues the root cause of family problems?

A family consists of husband, wife, and children - isn't that the truth? What is common among all of
them? Body, mind, soul, or life? Isn't that right?

Alright. Now, why do family problems arise?

For example, suppose your husband is too focused on his work and is unable to give much attention
to you and the children. If this continues, frustration, anger, and resentment will inevitably arise. Do
you know why?

1. Expectations!

2. The sense of ownership - "This is mine!"

3. The arrogance of "I know everything!"

These three are the root causes for all family problems.

You might ask, "How can one live a family life without expectations? How can I not have a
sense of ownership over my husband or wife? Why shouldn't I express my knowledge?"
The answer is - just because you exchange a sacred thread or a ring or get married through some other
method, does that mean that person is truly yours? Different countries have different legal systems!
Are the people there not attaining liberation? This is the fundamental understanding! But what is
being taught here? "He is yours, she is yours, your family, your home, your children" - household life
is falsely taught as being rooted in selfishness.

So, how should one think? How should one approach family life?

Our family is important, but just as important is the happiness of other families!

Just as my children should be happy, so should everyone's children!

Just as I earn well and live without financial worries, everyone should be able to achieve their
rightful desires quickly!

The earnings of my husband or wife should not be just for our family alone - a portion must
certainly be spent on charity and good deeds!

Only if we wish for others to be well will we and our family be well too!

Only broad-minded, selfless thoughts that expand one's heart with divine energy should be deeply
ingrained as the foundation of life! Do you know why?

The tendency to be accommodating will increase. You will not make a big deal out of small issues,
you will not unnecessarily hurt others, you will not be suspicious, you will understand that others also
experience pain and hardships, that making mistakes is natural, and that they can be corrected
gradually. We, too, must admit our mistakes. Life is full of tests; they will continue until the body
departs. Everyone here is constantly learning something - there are no beings who know everything.
This realization will come gradually through experience!

When this understanding takes deep root within you, acceptance will increase, and you will shine as a
wise household leader! The word "wise person" (gnani) is not so complex. If you stop trying to control
the restless mind, stop fighting with it, and simply stand as a witness observing it, then without a doubt
- you are already wise! The ability to remain aware of all three times - past, present, and future - will
naturally arise when you live in this state. As acceptance grows, peace will settle in the mind. As the
mind empties more and more often, the answers to years-old questions and the secrets of the universe
will reveal themselves naturally!

True sages, even though they know many secrets, will portray themselves as fools and speak only
when necessary. In other situations, they will observe everything as a common person (witnessing &
observing). In this state, their body remains in solitude because they clearly understand that the
pleasure gained from taking action is fleeting, whereas the bliss of inaction is eternal - this is the divine
state; this is supreme bliss! Yes, such a person is truly wise!

Alright, how does one navigate marriage with this wisdom? The word "navigate" itself is incorrect.
"Understand" is the more accurate word. Because married life is not something that is completed in
a single day - it is like a screenplay written for many years. So first, one must deeply understand that
many more scenes are yet to unfold in this movie called life.

Only with maturity will one understand how to approach it. Life cannot be peaceful or joyful without
knowing what it fundamentally operates on.

Understand that “The film of my life contains many scenes where circumstances can be difficult,
simple, cruel, detestable, thought-provoking, and even celebratory and I must understand that they
can take countless other forms as well!”

Only with this understanding can one avoid getting emotionally overwhelmed by events and entangled
in problems. Instead, by maintaining composure, answers will emerge from within you without your
own realization! Yes, if the mind is made peaceful, answers to everything will naturally become
clear - this is the secret of wisdom!

So, if one approaches situations with maturity and courage, it is enough. The universe itself will guide
you, allowing you to navigate through them and gain profound experiences! Those who meditate or
practice penance will effortlessly comprehend the language of this universe.

Yes, when one stops being emotionally reactive, the divine within will begin to speak in
feelings! Gradually, the words of the divine will start to make sense!

This is what they call Transcendental Voice - ‘Turiya Vakku’. It means the voice of the divine. As
understanding deepens through meditation and penance, the ‘needle-point opening’ at the crown
opens, allowing the cosmic energy to penetrate within and pour wisdom!

The body, mind, and soul will be filled with divine grace, and you will move through life as an
embodiment of that power!

Now, tell me - does it make sense that the difficulties in marriage arise due to a lack of understanding?

True strength and power do not lie in action but in observing and absorbing! That is the greatest
truth!

“A naturally superb person will turn supernatural when he/she realizes the power of witnessing and
observing everything rather than reacting.”

I am not asking you to become a saint; instead, I am asking you to research the very essence
of divinity within yourself!

I am not asking you to wear saffron robes; rather, I am encouraging you to unlock the tenth
door of enlightenment!

I am not asking you to smear sacred ash; instead, I am urging you to discover the path from
which divine grace flows! That is all!
Thus, every event in this world provides a unique experience. These experiences are essential for
human life, as they alone reveal the impermanence of all things and point to the eternal truth!

I went to God asking for a boon.

I asked, “What would it be like to be born into this world?” He said, “Be born and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to gain knowledge?” He said, “Learn and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to work?” He said, “Work and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to get married?” He said, “Marry and see.”

I asked, “What would pleasure feel like?” He said, “Experience and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to have children?” He said, “Have them and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to fly in the sky?” He said, “Fly and see.”

I asked, “What would it be like to die?” He said, “Die and see.”

I then asked, “God, if I have to do everything myself, what is your role?” God, with a smile,
replied, “I am the joy and sorrow that arise from those experiences!”

Now, tell me - every single day, life creates various situations, gives us the energy to face them, and
through the joys and sorrows we encounter, provides answers to the fundamental questions: What is
life?, Why were we born?, Why do we live?, Why do we die? Will you celebrate the divine that remains
ever-present in your life, guiding you through experiences? Or will you reject certain experiences, insist
on only the ones you desire, and suffer in distress and pain?

What does a wise person do? He lives his family life, yet without getting excessively attached to joys
or sorrows. He remains a witness, as poet Kannadasan beautifully said. Without being enchanted by
gains or disturbed by losses, he stands in equilibrium, unravelling life’s mysteries. Even if answers are
not immediately found, he realizes that when he is truly ready, they will reveal themselves on their
own. Without blaming anyone, he works on elevating his own worth, embracing the next experience
life offers with an open heart. Such a person truly wise – a gnani.

Now, tell me - am I trying to turn you into a saint? Or am I helping you realize divinity within, channel
that energy through dharma, work hard, and manifest all that you seek through the Law of Attraction?

I have travelled far, met many people, and heard numerous teachings. From my own experience, I can
say that ancient scriptures and moral texts cannot be applied to modern life as they are.

Time, era, and circumstances change. Though the core truths remain unaltered, practical adjustments
are necessary.
This book aims to create awareness for those struggling in life, failing to understand the laws of the
universe, and suffering in mental distress, pain, and financial difficulties. It provides a simple yet
profound pathway to wisdom, free from religious, sectarian, and caste-based limitations. Like a
lightning bolt or nectar, it grants direct enlightenment in the easiest way possible!

I said this at the beginning, and I say it again:

The entire secret of this book is summarized in the following truths. Never forget them!

• Life is an illusion; do not fear it. First, observe everything, then absorb only what is necessary!
• Do not rush to speak; often, dive into silence.
• If what you receive is grace, then what you do not receive is greater grace - understand this!
• While accumulating wealth, ensure you live a righteous life and share divine blessings.
• Accept everything with an open heart; it will not hurt. Remain alert, and the same problems
will not repeat.
• Just as you experience this world, allow those around you to experience life too.
• Just as you desire respect and freedom, grant the same to others.
• Realize that all beings - humans and animals alike - are divine.
• The consequences of thought and action will return manifold!
• Understand that you do not truly exist as a separate entity!
• Never forget that finite knowledge cannot grasp infinite wisdom!
• Remember - there is no path other than surrendering to the Supreme Power!

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