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Marzia Hassan (LLB, MSW, RSW), who began her career as a corporate
lawyer, started work as a social worker and relationship consultant
with individuals, couples and families after a decade of self-driven
learning and professional study. She runs Family Connections
International, a psychotherapy practice based in Toronto; facilitates
parenting, self-development and spiritual learning groups; and, in
recent years, has conducted online parenting workshops. As a
relationship expert, Marzia has featured on television, across South
Asian magazines, and has been honoured by the Canadian House of
Commons. Marzia, a mother of three, lives in Toronto.
PARENTING
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Raising the Net Generation
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Contents
Epilogue 162
References 165
Part 1
FACING REALITY
Chapter 1
You watched TV and then you went on with your real life. You
went on the computer to check email, do your homework, play
a game or two, and then you went about the rest of your day.
The lines of when ‘computer time’ for any member of the
family began and ended were clear.
The children were curious and wanted to play on this new
machine—exciting new software and games enticed both them
and me. Even then, I was adamant that computer time, like TV
time, was strictly rationed so that the children could engage in a
broad range of activities which fed their mind, body and soul.
Instinctively, we knew not to leave children unsupervised on
the computer, just as we would not leave them unsupervised in
a public playground. In the early days of the Internet and
technology, it did not appear as a threat to family life or to the
children’s well-being. Although it was attractive and the children
begged to be allowed to use it more and more, we could control
its use and impact by controlling their access to it.
Sharing the computer as a family taught us many lessons in
sharing, rationing, being considerate and, at some level, knowing
that it was a precious resource to be used mindfully—that if
anyone overstepped its use, there would be consequences, both
in terms of total time allotted and the impact on relationships in
the family.
Even so, there were signs to show that parents needed to
acquire a different kind of vigilance in this virtual playground.
Alia, a parent in one of my early parenting groups, recalls how
she became aware of the dangers in a rather dramatic fashion.
She said, ‘One day, I was using the drop-down menu in the
browsing history to find a site I had visited the previous day
and, to my horror, I found a couple of adult pornography sites
in the browsing history. My heart sank. The only other person
at that time using the family computer was my pre-adolescent
Exploring the Digital Landscape 5
and make sure that parents were around when children were
online. This advice was relatively easy for parents to digest as
they had grown up in an age where media had been a shared
family activity. Even for affluent families, it was common to
have one television set which was in the ‘TV lounge’, around
which the family gathered each night. Despite occasional protests
that no one was talking to each other, the family members were
all in the same room and focused on the same programme,
which meant they had a shared experience they could talk about
or discuss later.
The situation has significantly changed since the mobile age.
Now there is no clear line between online time and offline time
as our devices are always with us and we switch or toggle
between real life and virtual life, being physically present for
those in the room while emotionally and mentally connecting
to others who are in virtual space.
What has stood out for me while talking to parents over the
years is how many otherwise conscious parents, who take the
responsibility of parenting very seriously and who are in charge
of their families, feel ill-equipped to deal with the issues of
technology and its appropriate use in the home. Highly educated,
professional and competent parents report that their children
are so far ahead of them in accessing and using technology that
they are unsure of what to do. These parents are not to blame.
Every community has certain norms that it expects its members
to follow. People are expected to behave in certain ways in
public spaces. How are we to react, then, when all social norms
and etiquette are currently in flux? Whether one is standing in
line at a supermarket, in a doctor’s office, at a religious sermon
or a funeral, there are people speaking on cell phones, texting,
checking emails and sending messages. How do we decide what
is acceptable behaviour and what is not, especially when most
Exploring the Digital Landscape 7
people around us seem to see nothing wrong with it? How are
we to train our children in pro-social behaviour when the
boundaries of what constitutes it are no longer agreed on?
So many parents I spoke to threw up their hands in despair,
either because they were unaware of the pitfalls of letting their
children roam freely on the worldwide web or because they
were not active users of digital technology and, therefore, felt
ill-equipped to handle it. At other times, parents thought they
had educated themselves and installed what they felt were safety
features and yet, they were caught unawares because something
new had come up. It is clear that changes are occurring very fast.
The Internet age is still in its infancy. Many parents find it
greatly challenging to stay on top of technology and feel
overwhelmed at how it appears to have taken hold of their
families, eating into family time and relationships and changing
the way that families communicate.
And yet, there are some experts who believe that nothing has
really changed.1 They claim that children are who they have
always been, curious, wanting to connect with their peers,
resisting parental authority, discovering their identity and being
creative. It is only the platform on which they engage that is
different. And parents have always been suspicious of children,
so that’s not new.
The assertion that nothing much has changed goes against
what parents experience every day as they compare their own
childhood to the world inhabited by their children. So let us
look at how the parenting and family landscape has irrevocably
and completely changed. Not all the changes are bad. Many
families find that technology is bringing them closer to loved
ones who live far away. Others remark that it has made life
easier in many ways, especially for access to information. Most
parents concur, however, that despite its good effects, technology
8 Parenting in the Age of Facebook
Translation.
Translation.
ARTICLE I.
There shall be a firm, inviolable, and universal peace, and a true and
sincere friendship, between his Majesty, the King of Denmark and
Norway, his heirs and successors, on the one part, and the United
States of America on the other, and between the citizens and
subjects of the said powers, and likewise between the countries,
islands, cities, and places situated within their respective
jurisdictions, and the people and inhabitants thereof, of whatever
rank or condition they may be, without exception of persons or
places.
ARTICLE II.
The subjects of his Majesty, the King of Denmark and Norway, may
frequent the countries and latitudes of the United States, reside and
traffic there in all kinds of merchandise and effects, the importation
or exportation whereof is not, or shall not be prohibited, and in all
places where the navigation or commerce are not, or shall not be
reserved solely for the citizens and inhabitants of the United States;
and they shall not pay in the ports, harbors, roads, countries,
islands, cities, and places of the United States, other or greater
duties or imposts of any kind or denomination whatever, than such
as the most favored nations pay, or shall pay. They shall, moreover,
enjoy all the rights, liberties, privileges, and exemptions, with
respect to trade, navigation, and commerce, which the most favored
nations do or shall enjoy, and they shall also conform to the laws
and ordinances, which the said nations are, or shall be bound to
observe, whether in passing from one port to another of the
dominions of the said States, or in returning from any part, or to any
part of the world whatever.
ARTICLE III.
ARTICLE IV.
His Majesty, the King of Denmark and Norway, shall use every
means in his power to protect and defend all the vessels and effects
belonging to the citizens or inhabitants of the said United States of
America, as shall be in his ports, harbors, or roads, or in the vicinity
of his territories, countries, islands, cities, and places, as far as his
jurisdiction extends, as to the sea, and shall use his efforts to
recover and cause to be restored to the lawful proprietors, the
vessels and effects which shall be taken from them within the extent
of his said jurisdiction, and his ships of war, or any other convoys
whatever, sailing under his authority, shall, on all occasions where
there may be a common enemy, take under their protection all the
vessels belonging to the citizens or inhabitants of the United States,
or any of them which may be holding the same course, or going the
same route, and they shall defend the said ships as long as they
shall hold the same course, or follow the same route, against every
attack, force, or violence of the common enemy, in the same manner
as they are bound to defend and protect the vessels belonging to his
said Majesty's subjects.
ARTICLE V.
In like manner, the said United States and their ships of war, sailing
under their authority, shall protect and defend, in conformity with
the preceding article, all the vessels and effects belonging to the
subjects of his Danish Majesty, and shall use all their efforts to
recover and cause to be restored the said vessels and effects, which
shall have been taken within the extent of the jurisdiction of the said
States, and each of them.
ARTICLE VI.
ARTICLE VII.
ARTICLE VIII.
ARTICLE IX.
ARTICLE X.
ARTICLE XI.
ARTICLE XII.
ARTICLE XIII.
The ships of war belonging to the two parties, as also those of their
subjects which are armed, shall conduct at full liberty wheresoever
they please, the prizes they shall have made from their enemies,
without being obliged to pay any other duties than such as the most
favored nations; the said vessels or the said prizes, on entering into
the ports of his Danish Majesty, or of the said United States, shall
not be subject to be stopped or seized, nor shall the officers of the
places have any power to take cognizance of the validity of the said
prizes, which shall go out, and be freely conducted in full liberty, to
the places mentioned in the commissions, which the captains of the
said vessels shall be obliged to produce.
ARTICLE XIV.
ARTICLE XV.
In case the vessels of the subjects and inhabitants of one of the two
contracting parties should approach the coasts of the other, without
however designing to enter into the port, or to discharge the cargo,
or to break bulk after having entered, they shall be at liberty to
depart, or to pursue their voyage without molestation, in the same
manner as is practiced by the vessels belonging to the most favored
nations.
ARTICLE XVII.
The passports or sea letters, which shall prove the property of the
neutral vessels, according to the tenor of the 8th Article of the
present treaty, shall be prepared and distributed according to the
model which shall be agreed on. Every time that the vessel shall
have returned to its own country, it shall be furnished with new
passports of the like kind; at least, these passports must not be of
an older date than two years after the time the vessel has returned
last to its own country. Moreover, the vessels being loaded, must be
provided with such certificates, or manifests, or other public
documents, as are commonly given to vessels which depart from the
ports from whence they have last sailed, containing a specification of
the cargo, of the place from whence the vessel has departed, and
that of her destination, in order that it may be known whether there
are any contraband effects on board of the vessels, and whether
they are destined to carry them to an enemy's country, or not. If the
names of the persons to whom the effects on board belong, are not
expressed in the said documents, this omission shall not, however,
give cause for confiscation, as the freedom of the vessel secures the
freedom of the effects.
ARTICLE XIX.
ARTICLE XX.
If the subjects or inhabitants of one of the two parties, compelled by
storm, or by the pursuit of pirates, or of the enemy, or by any other
accident, find themselves constrained to take refuge with their ships
in the rivers, bays, ports, and roads belonging to the other, they
shall be received and treated with every humanity and kindness, and
they shall be permitted likewise to refresh and to furnish themselves
at a just price with every kind of provisions, and everything
necessary for the maintenance and support of their persons, and for
the reparation of their ships, provided they carry on no commerce
contrary to the laws and ordinances of the place or port into which
they have entered.
ARTICLE XXI.
ARTICLE XXII.
The subjects of his Majesty, the King of Denmark and Norway, may
in the country of the United States of America dispose of their
effects by testament, donation, or otherwise; and their heirs,
subjects of his said Majesty, shall succeed them, without any
impediment in all their effects, moveable and immoveable, either by
testament or ab intestat; so that they may take possession of the
inheritance, either by themselves, or by attorney, and dispose of it
as they please, after having discharged the different duties
established by the laws of the State where the said succession shall
have been left; and in case that the heirs of the said dead subjects
should be absent or minors, and that the deceased shall not have
appointed guardians or executors, the property left shall then be
inventoried by the Notary Public, or by the magistrate of the place,
and disposed of in such manner that they may be kept and
preserved for the legal proprietors; and, supposing that there should
arise a dispute about such inheritance among several pretenders,
then the Judges of the places where the effects of the deceased
shall be found, shall decide the process by a definitive sentence
agreeably to the laws of the country. The contents of the present
article shall be reciprocally observed, with respect to the subjects of
the United States of America, in the States of his Danish Majesty.
ARTICLE XXIV.
ARTICLE XXV.
His Majesty, the King of Denmark and Norway, and the United States
of North America, have agreed, that the present treaty shall be in
full effect during the space of fifteen successive years, reckoning
from the day of its ratification; and the two contracting parties
reserve to themselves the power of renewing it at the expiration of
that time.
ARTICLE XXVI.
Translation.
TO ROBERT R. LIVINGSTON.
Passy, July 22d, 1783.
Sir,
You have complained, sometimes with reason, of not hearing from
your Foreign Ministers; we have had cause to make the same
complaint, six full months having intervened between the latest date
of your preceding letters and the receipt of those by Captain Barney.
During all this time we were ignorant of the reception of the
Provisional Treaty, and the sentiments of Congress upon it, which, if
we had received sooner, might have forwarded the proceedings on
the Definitive Treaty, and, perhaps, brought them to a conclusion, at
a time more favorable than the present. But these occasional
interruptions of correspondence are the inevitable consequences of a
state of war, and of such remote situations. Barney had a short
passage, and arrived some days before Colonel Ogden, who also
brought despatches from you, all of which are come safe to hand.
We, the Commissioners, have in our joint capacity written a letter to
you, which you will receive with this.
I shall now answer yours of March the 26th, May the 9th, and May
the 31st.
It gave me great pleasure to learn by the first, that the news of
peace diffused general satisfaction. I will not now take it upon me to
justify the apparent reserve, respecting this Court, at the signature,
which you disapprove. We have touched upon it in our general letter.
I do not see, however, that they have much reason to complain of
that transaction. Nothing was stipulated to their prejudice, and none
of the stipulations were to have force, but by a subsequent act of
their own. I suppose, indeed, that they have not complained of it, or
you would have sent us a copy of the complaint, that we might have
answered it. I long since satisfied Count de Vergennes about it here.
We did what appeared to all of us best at the time, and if we have
done wrong, the Congress will do right, after hearing us, to censure
us. Their nomination of five persons to the service seems to mark,
that they had some dependence on our joint judgment, since one
alone could have made a treaty by direction of the French Ministry
as well as twenty.
I will only add, that with respect to myself, neither the letter from M.
Marbois, handed us through the British negotiators, (a suspicious
channel) nor the conversations respecting the fishery, the
boundaries, the royalists, &c. recommending moderation in our
demands, are of weight sufficient in my mind to fix an opinion, that
this Court wished to restrain us, in obtaining any degree of
advantage we could prevail on our enemies to accord, since those
discourses are fairly resolvable, by supposing a very natural
apprehension, that we, relying too much on the ability of France to
continue the war in our favor, and supply us constantly with money,
might insist on more advantages than the English would be willing to
grant, and thereby lose the opportunity of making peace, so
necessary to all our friends.
I ought not, however, to conceal from you, that one of my
colleagues is of a very different opinion from me in these matters.
He thinks the French Minister one of the greatest enemies of our
country, that he would have straitened our boundaries, to prevent
the growth of our people; contracted our fishery, to obstruct the
increase of our seamen; and retained the royalists among us, to
keep us divided; that he privately opposes all our negotiations with
foreign Courts, and afforded us, during the war, the assistance we
received only to keep it alive, that we might be so much the more
weakened by it; that to think of gratitude to France is the greatest of
follies, and that to be influenced by it would ruin us. He makes no
secret of his having these opinions, expresses them publicly,
sometimes in presence of the English Ministers, and speaks of
hundreds of instances which he could produce in proof of them.
None, however, have yet appeared to me, unless the conversations
and letter abovementioned are reckoned such.
If I were not convinced of the real inability of this Court to furnish
the further supplies we asked, I should suspect these discourses of a
person in his station might have influenced the refusal, but I think
they have gone no further than to occasion a suspicion, that we
have a considerable party of antigallicans in America, who are not
tories, and consequently, to produce some doubts of the
continuance of our friendship. As such doubts may hereafter have a
bad effect, I think we cannot take too much care to remove them;
and it is, therefore, I write this to put you on your guard, (believing
it my duty, though I know that I hazard by it a mortal enmity) and to
caution you respecting the insinuations of this gentleman against
this Court, and the instances he supposes of their ill will to us, which
I take to be as imaginary as I know his fancies to be, that Count de
Vergennes and myself are continually plotting against him, and
employing the newswriters of Europe to depreciate his character, &c.
But as Shakspeare says, "Trifles light as air," &c. I am persuaded,
however, that he means well for his country, is always an honest
man, often a wise one, but sometimes, and in some things,
absolutely out of his senses.
When the commercial article, mentioned in yours of the 26th, was
struck out of our proposed preliminaries by the British Ministry, the
reason given was, that sundry acts of Parliament still in force were
against it, and must be first repealed, which I believe was really
their intention, and sundry bills were accordingly brought in for that
purpose; but new Ministers with different principles succeeding, a
commercial proclamation totally different from those bills has lately
appeared. I send enclosed a copy of it. We shall try what can be
done in the Definitive Treaty towards setting aside that proclamation,
but if it should be persisted in, it will then be a matter worthy the
attentive discussion of Congress, whether it will be most prudent to
retort with a similar regulation in order to force its repeal, (which
may possibly tend to bring on another quarrel) or to let it pass
without notice, and leave it to its own inconvenience, or rather
impracticability in the execution, and to the complaints of the West
India planters, who must all pay much dearer for our produce under
those restrictions.
I am not enough master of the course of our commerce to give an
opinion on this particular question, and it does not behove me to do
it; yet I have seen so much embarrassment and so little advantage
in all the restraining and compulsive systems, that I feel myself
strongly inclined to believe, that a State, which leaves all her ports
open to all the world upon equal terms, will, by that means, have
foreign commodities cheaper, sell its own productions dearer, and be
on the whole the most prosperous. I have heard some merchants
say, that there is ten per cent difference between Will you buy? and
Will you sell? When foreigners bring us their goods, they want to
part with them speedily, that they may purchase their cargoes and
despatch their ships, which are at constant charges in our ports; we
have then the advantage of their Will you buy? And when they
demand our produce, we have the advantage of their Will you sell?
And the concurring demands of a number also contribute to raise
our prices. Thus both those questions are in our favor at home,
against us abroad.
The employing, however, of our own ships and raising a breed of
seamen among us, though it should not be a matter of so much
private profit as some imagine, is nevertheless of political
importance, and must have weight in considering this subject.
The judgment you make of the conduct of France in the peace, and
the greater glory acquired by her moderation than even by her arms,
appears to me perfectly just. The character of this Court and nation
seems, of late years, to be considerably changed. The ideas of
aggrandisement by conquest are out of fashion, and those of
commerce are more enlightened and more generous than
heretofore. We shall soon, I believe, feel something of this in our
being admitted to a greater freedom of trade with their Islands. The
wise here think France great enough; and its ambition at present
seems to be only that of justice and magnanimity towards other
nations, fidelity and utility to its allies.
The Ambassador of Portugal was much pleased with the proceedings
relating to their vessel, which you sent me, and assures me they will
have a good effect at his Court. He appears extremely desirous of a
treaty with our States; I have accordingly proposed to him the plan
of one (nearly the same with that sent me for Sweden) and after my
agreeing to some alterations, he has sent it to his Court for
approbation. He told me at Versailles, last Tuesday, that he expected
its return to him on Saturday next, and anxiously desired that I
would not despatch our packet without it, that Congress might
consider it, and, if approved, send a commission to me or some
other Minister to sign it.
I venture to go thus far in treating, on the authority only of a kind of
general power, given formerly by a resolution of Congress to Messrs
Franklin, Deane, and Lee; but a special commission seems more
proper to complete a treaty, and more agreeable to the usual forms
of such business.
I am in just the same situation with Denmark; that Court by its
Minister here has desired a treaty with us. I have proposed a plan
formed on that sent me for Sweden; it has been under consideration
some time at Copenhagen, and is expected here this week, so that I
may possibly send that also by this conveyance. You will have seen
by my letter to the Danish Prime Minister, that I did not forget the
affair of the prizes. What I then wrote, produced a verbal offer made
me here, of £10,000 sterling, proposed to be given by his Majesty to
the captors, if I would accept it as a full discharge of our demand. I
could not do this, I said, because it was not more than a fifth part of
the estimated value. In answer, I was told that the estimation was
probably extravagant, that it would be difficult to come at the
knowledge of their true value, and that whatever they might be
worth in themselves, they should not be estimated as of such value
to us when at Bergen, since the English probably watched them, and
might have retaken them in their way to America; at least, they were
at the common risk of the seas and enemies, and the insurance was
a considerable drawback; that this sum might be considered as so
much saved for us by the King's interference; for that if the English
claimants had been suffered to carry the cause into the common
courts, they must have recovered the prizes by the laws of
Denmark; it was added, that the King's honor was concerned, that
he sincerely desired our friendship, but he would avoid, by giving
this sum in the form of a present to the captors, the appearance of
its being exacted from him as the reparation of an injury, when it
was really intended rather as a proof of his strong disposition to
cultivate a good understanding with us.
I replied, that the value might possibly be exaggerated; but that we
did not desire more than should be found just on inquiry, and that it
was not difficult to learn from London what sums were insured upon
the ships and cargoes, which would be some guide; and that a
reasonable abatement might be made for the risk; but that the
Congress could not, in justice to their mariners, deprive them of any
part that was truly due to those brave men, whatever abatement
they might think fit to make (as a mark of their regard for the King's
friendship) of the part belonging to the public; that I had, however,
no instructions or authority to make any abatement of any kind, and
could, therefore, only acquaint Congress with the offer, and the
reasons that accompanied it, which I promised to state fully and
candidly (as I have now done) and attend their orders, desiring only
that it might be observed, we had presented our complaint with
decency, that we had charged no fault on the Danish government,
but what might arise from inattention or precipitancy, and that we
had intimated no resentment, but had waited with patience and
respect the King's determination, confiding, that he would follow the
equitable disposition of his own breast, by doing us justice as soon
as he could do it with conveniency; that the best and wisest Princes
sometimes erred, that it belonged to the condition of man, and was,
therefore, inevitable, and that the true honor in such cases consisted
not in disowning or hiding the error, but in making ample reparation;
that, though I could not accept what was offered on the terms
proposed, our treaty might go on, and its articles be prepared and
considered, and, in the mean time, I hoped his Danish Majesty
would reconsider the offer, and make it more adequate to the loss
we had sustained. Thus that matter rests; but I hourly expect to
hear further, and perhaps may have more to say on it before the
ship's departure.
I shall be glad to have the proceedings you mention respecting the
brig Providentia. I hope the equity and justice of our Admiralty
Courts, respecting the property of strangers, will always maintain
their reputation, and I wish particularly to cultivate the disposition of
friendship towards us, apparent in the late proceedings of Denmark,
as the Danish Islands may be of use to our West India commerce,
while the English impolitic restraints continue.
The Elector of Saxony, as I understand from his Minister here, has
thoughts of sending one to Congress, and proposing a treaty of
commerce and amity with us. Prussia has likewise an inclination to
share in a trade with America, and the Minister of that Court, though
he has not directly proposed a treaty, has given me a packet of lists
of the several sorts of merchandise they can furnish us with, which
he requests me to send to America for the information of our
merchants.
I have received no answer yet from Congress to my request of being
dismissed from their service. They should, methinks, reflect, that if
they continue me here, the faults I may henceforth commit, through
the infirmities of age, will be rather theirs than mine. I am glad my
journal afforded you any pleasure. I will, as you desire, endeavor to
continue it. I thank you for the pamphlet; it contains a great deal of
information respecting our finances. We shall, as you advise, avoid
publishing it. But I see they are publishing it in the English papers. I
was glad I had a copy authenticated by the signature of Secretary
Thompson, by which I could assure Count de Vergennes, that the
money contract I had made with him was ratified by Congress, he
having just before expressed some uneasiness to me at its being so
long neglected. I find it was ratified soon after it was received, but
the ratification, except in that pamphlet, has not yet come to hand. I
have done my best to procure the further loan directed by the
resolution of Congress. It was not possible. I have written on that
matter to Mr Morris. I wish the rest of the estimates of losses and
mischiefs were come to hand; they would still be of use.
Mr Barclay has in his hands the affair of the Alliance and Bon
Homme Richard. I will afford him all the assistance in my power, but
it is a very perplexed business. That expedition, though for particular
reasons under American commissions and colors, was carried on at
the King's expense, and under his orders. M. de Chaumont was the
agent appointed by the Minister of Marine to make the outfit. He
was also chosen by all the captains of the squadron, as appears by
an instrument under their hands, to be their agent, receive, sell, and
divide prizes, &c. The Crown bought two of them at public sale, and
the money I understand is lodged in the hands of a responsible
person at L'Orient. M. de Chaumont says he has given in his
accounts to the Marine, and that he has no more to do with the
affair, except to receive a balance due to him. That account,
however, is I believe unsettled, and the absence of some of the
captains is said to make another difficulty, which retards the
completion of the business. I never paid or received anything
relating to that expedition, nor had any other concern in it, than
barely ordering the Alliance to join the squadron at M. de Sartine's
request. I know not whether the other captains will not claim a
share in what we may obtain from Denmark, though the prizes were
made by the Alliance, when separate from the squadron. If so, that
is another difficulty in the way of making abatement in our demand,
without their consent.
I am sorry to find, that you have thoughts of quitting the service. I
do not think your place can be easily well supplied. You mention,
that an entire new arrangement, with respect to foreign affairs, is
under consideration. I wish to know whether any notice is likely to
be taken in it of my grandson. He has now gone through an
apprenticeship of near seven years in the Ministerial business, and is
very capable of serving the States in that line, as possessing all the
requisites of knowledge, zeal, activity, language, and address. He is
well liked here, and Count de Vergennes has expressed to me in
warm terms his very good opinion of him. The late Swedish
Ambassador, Count de Creutz, who has gone home to be Prime
Minister, desired I would endeavor to procure his being sent to
Sweden, with a public character, assuring me, that he should be glad
to receive him there as our Minister, and that he knew it would be
pleasing to the King.[18] The present Swedish Ambassador has also
proposed the same thing to me, as you will see by a letter of his,
which I enclose.[19] One of the Danish Ministers, M. Walterstorff,
who will probably be sent in a public character to Congress, has also
expressed his wish, that my grandson may be sent to Denmark. But
it is not my custom to solicit employments for myself, or any of my
family, and I shall not do it in this case. I only hope, that if he is not
to be employed in your new arrangement, I may be informed of it as
soon as possible, that while I have strength left for it, I may
accompany him in a tour to Italy, returning through Germany, which
I think he may make to more advantage with me than alone, and
which I have long promised to afford him, as a reward for his faithful
service, and his tender filial attachment to me.
July 25th. While I was writing the above M. Walterstorff came in,
and delivered me a packet from M. Rosencrone, the Danish Prime
Minister, containing the project of the treaty with some proposed
alterations, and a paper of reasons in support of them.[20] Fearing
that we should not have time to copy them, I send herewith the
originals, relying on his promise to furnish me with copies in a few
days. He seemed to think, that the interest of the merchants is
concerned in the immediate conclusion of the treaty, that they may
form their plans of commerce, and wished to know whether I did not
think my general power, above mentioned, sufficient for that
purpose. I told him I thought a particular commission more
agreeable to the forms, but if his Danish Majesty would be content
for the present with the general authority, formerly given to me, I
believed I might venture to act upon it, reserving by a separate
article to Congress the power of shortening the term in case any
part of the treaty should not be to their mind, unless the alteration
of such part should hereafter be agreed on.
The Prince de Deuxponts was lately at Paris, and applied to me for
information, respecting a commerce which is desired between the
Electorate of Bavaria and America. I have it also from a good hand
at the Court of Vienna, that the Emperor is desirous of establishing a
commerce with us from Trieste, as well as Flanders, and would make
a treaty with us if proposed to him. Since our trade is laid open, and
no longer a monopoly to England, all Europe seems desirous of
sharing in it, and for that purpose to cultivate our friendship. That it
may be better known everywhere, what sort of people, and what
kind of government they will have to treat with, I prevailed with our
friend, the Duc de la Rochefoucault, to translate our book of
Constitutions into French, and I presented copies to all the Foreign
Ministers. I send you one herewith. They are much admired by the
politicians here, and it is thought will induce considerable
emigrations of substantial people from different parts of Europe to
America. It is particularly a matter of wonder, that in the midst of a
cruel war, raging in the bowels of our country, our sages should have
the firmness of mind to sit down calmly and form such complete
plans of government. They add considerably to the reputation of the
United States.
I have mentioned above the port of Trieste, with which we may
possibly have a commerce, and I am told that many useful
productions and manufactures of Hungary may be had extremely
cheap there. But it becomes necessary first to consider how our
Mediterranean trade is to be protected from the corsairs of Barbary.
You will see by the enclosed copy of a letter[21] I received from
Algiers, the danger two of our ships escaped last winter. I think it
not improbable, that those rovers may be privately encouraged by
the English to fall upon us, and to prevent our interference in the
carrying trade; for I have in London heard it is a maxim among the
merchants, that if there were no Algiers, it would be worth England's
while to build one. I wonder, however, that the rest of Europe do not
combine to destroy those nests, and secure commerce from their
future piracies.
I made the Grand Master of Malta a present of one of our medals in
silver, writing to him a letter, of which I enclose a copy;[22] and I
believe our people will be kindly received in his ports; but that is not
sufficient; and perhaps now we have peace, it will be proper to send
Ministers, with suitable presents, to establish a friendship with the
Emperor of Morocco, and the other Barbary States, if possible. Mr
Jay will inform you of some steps, that have been taken by a person
at Alicant, without authority, towards a treaty with that Emperor. I
send you herewith a few more of the abovementioned medals,
which have given great satisfaction to this Court and nation. I should
be glad to know how they are liked with you.
Our people, who were prisoners in England, are now all discharged.
During the whole war, those who were in Forton prison, near
Portsmouth, were much befriended by the constant charitable care
of Mr Wren, a Presbyterian minister there, who spared no pains to
assist them in their sickness and distress, by procuring and
distributing among them the contributions of good Christians, and
prudently dispensing the allowance I made them, which gave him a
great deal of trouble, but he went through it cheerfully. I think some
public notice should be taken of this good man. I wish the Congress
would enable me to make him a present, and that some of our
universities would confer upon him the degree of Doctor.
The Duke of Manchester, who has always been our friend in the
House of Lords, is now here as Ambassador from England. I dine
with him today, 26th, and if anything of importance occurs, I will add
it in a postscript. Be pleased to present my dutiful respects to the
Congress, assure them of my most faithful services, and believe me
to be, with great and sincere esteem, Sir, &c.
B. FRANKLIN.
ARTICLE I.
ARTICLE II.
The subjects of Her Most Faithful Majesty may freely frequent and
reside in the United States, and traffic in all kinds of effects and
merchandises, whose importation or exportation is not or shall not
be prohibited, and they shall not pay in the ports, harbors, roads,
countries, islands, cities, and places within the United States, other
or greater duties or imposts of any kind whatever, than such as the
most favored nations are, or shall be, obliged to pay. And they shall
enjoy all the rights, liberties, privileges, immunities, and exemptions
with respect to trade, navigation, and commerce, whether in going
from one port of the said States to another, or in going there, or
returning from any part or to any part of the world whatever, which
the said nations do or shall enjoy.
ARTICLE III.
In the like manner the citizens and inhabitants of the United States
of North America shall freely frequent and reside in the States of Her
Most Faithful Majesty in Europe; also in Madeira and the Azores, and
trade there in all kinds of effects and merchandises, the importation
and exportation of which is not, or shall not be prohibited, and they
shall not pay in the ports, harbors, roads, countries, islands, cities,
and places of the Queen of Portugal, other or greater duties of any
kind whatsoever than such as the most favored nations are, or shall
be, bound to pay; and they shall enjoy all the rights, liberties,
privileges, immunities, and exemptions as to trade, navigation, and
commerce, whether in going from one port of Her Most Faithful
Majesty's States to another, or in going there, or returning from any
part of the world whatever, which the said nations do or shall enjoy.
ARTICLE IV.
Her Most Faithful Majesty shall use every means in her power to
protect and defend all the vessels and property belonging to the
subjects, people, and inhabitants of the said United States, which
shall be in her ports, harbors, or roads, against any violence
whatever that may be committed by the subjects of her said
Majesty, by punishing such as shall violate these principles.
ARTICLE V.
ARTICLE VI.
ARTICLE VII.
ARTICLE VIII.
ARTICLE IX.
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